feeling left behind… an honest conversation about infertility & isolation

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feeling left behind… an honest conversation about infertility & isolation

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adalenne

Күн бұрын

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@jennalynn685 4 ай бұрын

Adalenne, I found your videos about a month ago. Our struggles are not the same, and I cannot imagine the pain you feel. Even so, your words and videos have really meant something to me in my grief of learning how to live on after the man I love passed. I admire your authenticity and bravery in being vulnerable and sharing your faith in your journey. So please know that you have made a positive impact in my life, encouraging me to keep trusting in God, and I’m just a person online: I can only imagine how your family and friends are blessed by you. I will hold you in prayer.

@adalenne 4 ай бұрын

Oh wow - I cannot imagine what you’re going through. But, I am so glad you’ve been uplifted and found some comfort in my videos. That is truly all I could really want out of sharing them. Sending you love. May God give you strength and healing and peace during this time in your life. 🤍 thank you for your kind words and encouragement. It means a lot to me.

@checreates Ай бұрын

Hi Adalenne! I don’t have the heart to watch this video yet as one behind you on the journey, but I just have to say that I *felt* in your last video, your love for God and His for you. It’s so inspiring to meet other faith driven Creatives here. I’m also touched you’re sharing your “fertility warrior” journey as my husband and I call it, as it’s something we’ve just embarked on and are struggling through. I am praying for and cheering you, and all our other fertility warrior sisters, on.

@adalenne Ай бұрын

hi! i completely understand. that is so encouraging to hear. i couldn't be more thankful to connect with other creatives over our mutual faith in Christ. it's so incredible! you guys are not alone on your journey, and if you ever need someone to talk to about it - please feel free to DM me on instagram! praying and cheering for you too, my friend!

@Palak2004-pb4 4 ай бұрын

Hey ! I understand how you feel I'm sending you so much warmth of love and hugs.❤

@oywiththepoodlesalready 3 ай бұрын

Hey! I just stumbled upon your videos recently, and they have been very inspiring. You are so right about the importance of having a group of people you can rely on and live life with, whether that be through church or a support group. I think we are made with the desire to be understood and cared for. The action of leaning on someone, or a group of people, is what helps pull us through. Kind of like the idea of behavioral activation. Glad you are bringing awareness, and I hope the best for you! ❤️

@KyInRealLife 4 ай бұрын

Sending you so much love. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing.

@A.L.I.S.O.N 3 ай бұрын

I can relate to some degree. I wasn't able to carry through & have 5 babies in Heaven. It is rough when other's love's change with kids, the process and progress of stages...it all hits. I wasn't able to do surrogacy more adoption. The first round hits hardest but then in the moment you don't realize that there's another round later when everyone starts having grandkids, etc. The cycle of life cuts both ways sometimes. Sharing these deeper topics are so needed bc people do feel alone which can have darker consequences later. It gives pain a purpose and Him glory. ❤😊

@adalenne 3 ай бұрын

Oh my goodness, you have been through so much. I can’t even imagine. But your strength to share this is admirable. God has been so sweet to bring people into my life that are also currently facing infertility and going through various methods trying to build their families. Community and having other women to relate to is life changing!!! We can’t walk it alone. I am believing in faith that God is going to do miraculous things on behalf of me and all of the women I know walking through something similar. I know he is already using our pain for good. I am sending you love! Thank you for sharing 🤍

@mswright6538 4 ай бұрын

Praying for you sister 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@vlogwithbrownie 4 ай бұрын

Hi Adalenne, you are not alone. Although I am not in the same situation as you, I can understand the feeling of frustration when you see other people having what you want… so badly! Here is my belief: God has instilled within you the desire to have children, and I don’t believe he would have put that in your heart if he didn’t plan on giving that to you. It’s hard to see the positives in times like this, but your relationship with God is growing immensely during this time. Never stop trusting in Him. I will pray for you. EDIT: Also, you are helping me with these videos. Right now, at 20, I see others my age getting married, having jobs and moving out, with lots of friends. I pray for those things all the time. It gets tough when it seems God isn’t listening or answering my prayers… but videos like yours help me see God’s goodness through it all. If it weren’t for these struggles and heartaches, I would not lean on Him. He is using you for so much good.

@Palak2004-pb4 4 ай бұрын

Hey dear I agree that I see so many relatives and friends in their 20s are living with their own condition giving yourself as a first priority and I'm giving me so much energy and depleting my own energy and recently I got a very hard heartbreak but my faith in universe made so strong that knowingly I'm protected by them and now trusting the universe process I start to enjoying my journey .

@adalenne 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this. I believe that too. God is always faithful, and though sometimes that feels unclear in the midst of our struggle - it is ALWAYS so clear on the other side just how present and intentional He was the whole time. Each of us in our own seasons of waiting and longing have an opportunity to lean on Jesus and reflect his goodness to others. Thank you so much for being so encouraging and sharing some of your own journey with me. ❤