I Had a Baby at 53 | Iris

Kimberly Rubin-Spivack married the love of her life at 48 and then a doctor told her the impossible was possible: she didn't need a surrogate. She tells her story of giving birth at 53 years old and the joys of being an older first time parent.
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I Had a Baby at 53 | Iris

[@amberbrown2296]

I got pregnant naturally at 45. Gave birth at 46. Best of luck to anyone trying!

[@shaimaali7289]

So can i get pregnant with my first baby in the age of 44?

[@PaisleyOnthefarm]

@@shaimaali7289my mom gave birth to my younger brother at 41 and me at 38 and my oldest brother at 37. I believe that you can! My mom was told she could not have kids but she never gave up hope and just kept on trying untel she was blessed with 3 babies in 13 Years! Praying for you❤

[@violetmelon]

As a 36yo virgin who is waiting for marriage and has no future husband in sight, these comments def give hope to me and so many women! The best to all you beautiful ladies praying and hoping for for Mr. Right, a baby, a healing, and/or whatever miracle you need! 🧡

[@heidipetals462]

Make your own miricles

[@emilyarcher6001]

Id say stay proactive. Search and search until you find your soulmate but dont settle for any less. Good luck!

[@lilyjezebel7444]

Wow!!! Ur a fierce resilent spirit, God bless! I waited till marriage but I was 28 when I found my husband. I am now 41 and had a failed IVF cycle. However, I like this idea of going over seas cause it cost me 25k here in NJ, USA. Rip off!! Anyhow, I wish that you meet your life partner. I can relate to your struggle and I can't imagine how your feeling. But God has not forgotten you!!

[@lilyjezebel7444]

Freeze ur eggs. Please 36 is good chance of concieving. I made a mistake to try at 41. The chances go down. At ur age u have 60 to 75% but at 41 my eggs have 20% don't do the same mistake I did. Secure ur eggs and whenever God sends ur husband u have ur eggs that are safe

[@juliamccoey7496]

freeze your eggs!

[@herlifemusings23]

My mom was 44 and my dad 48 when I was born. They are in their 70’s and they still act like their are in their 50’s! Age is just a number.

[@toodleloo2253]

My parents are the SAME!!.. I always have to remind myself that they're actually senior citizens!!- ??... p.s. They've stayed happily married, too, so that's a plus!- :)

[@musicallife3981]

donor eggs?

[@toodleloo2253]

@@musicallife3981 ​ Not for mine, but only early 40s...It's amazing b/c they also ACT so young, going forward. It's been hard to remember that they are not, honestly! :) They almost didn't retire in their 70s, for example, etc.

[@witchofthewildwoods3496]

Age is absolutely just a number. Having a baby in my 40s is what committed me to staying young and healthy!

[@travishoward1083]

@@musicallife3981 hello

[@dayJ-M]

I'm pregnant at 48 (naturally)

[@irene16no23]

Gods blessings to you honey 🙏❤️

[@ashionyeatumah7410]

Congratulations, were you on diet, did you take supplements to boost your body. 40 here and trying.

[@marywalsh2057]

Great joy coming into your life. Congrats

[@dayJ-M]

I lost my baby 😭💔 nine week

[@irene16no23]

@@dayJ-M Awww honey, I'm ssooo sorry for your loss 💔😔🙏😢

[@jessicaeaton3183]

she looks amazing for being 53! I would have guessed mid 30s early 40s

[@mikaylahwoof8988]

I could believe 38 maybe but 53??? Nope haha

[@sebrinaleepayne-biscardi4113]

Early 30's for me.😊

[@annmitchell4663]

Good for her.

[@chisehatori3681]

look at her neck and hands, it's not hard.

[@TheBlacksheep2020]

30's? lol, i am 35 and she looks like my grandma. I would of guessed late 50's or early 60's

[@chocolatebutterfly3]

my dad was 53 too when i was born and he‘s my best friend. age doesn‘t matter, love does.

[@jessday4712]

denise.m my husband’s parents are 64 and 73 (we are in our early 20’s). They are the wisest and greatest blessings to us

[@fernie4287]

If you allow me I'll borrow that quote "age doesn't matter,love does". Thank you. ❤

[@dahabhalmesh9539]

It's normal to men having child until 100 years old..but women it's kind of hard after 50 years old

[@irishcountrygirl78]

@@dahabhalmesh9539 yes the eggs are also 50. Medicine is against it because of the risk of chromosome mutation, but men's sperm are not as good of quality with older men either as they get older the quality of sperm declines and there are risks of miscarriage also.

[@paromita10]

Well said👏🏼” Age doesn’t matter, love does”

[@ariseshine08]

This doctor you met was AMAZING!!! sometimes all that you need is someone BELIEVING IN YOU

[@patricejackson6718]

I would've said the same thing to her if I were the doctor age is nothing but a number and she is CLEARLY healthy

[@softpearls21]

exactly that Doctor was really nice not to say oh you're old and really gave her hope..More Doctors need to be like that and never judge

[@ssempalamadina4381]

Arise Shine so true

[@alebwc1]

We don't have such doctors in Italy unfortunately

[@eneidacanev8135]

YES!

[@2manyscars]

she looks amazing for 53, she looks 30, and her baby is gorgeous 💕

[@LuckyK7777]

Now that many women are in their 30s or old when they start having kids I see that what is probably happening is that pregnancy ages women. Those that make it to their 50s without any children or younger children seem to always look different than other women their age.

[@melglen505]

I was thinking the same. She looks great.

[@christopherhennessey8991]

Yes she does.

[@christopherhennessey8991]

I’m an retired RN..For you ladies in your 30s and 40s looking to conceive, if a doctor tells you to try for a year…find another doctor. If you don’t conceive within 6 months maybe 7-8 months stretching it,get tested for fertility problems.

[@mrslavanderblu]

You see her age in her neck and hands. Makeup hides a lot.

[@MrsBee-uo2lc]

Here i am at the age of 35 thinking its to late for me to get pregnant. Thank you for giving me hope!!! Shes beautiful btw 👍😉

[@user-zm9yc2kb8x]

thats a selfish move to brred at that age..ffs

[@feefee8627]

Don't feel bad I'm 32 and don't have any kids thinking about some around 34 and 37!!!

[@blesseddaily9651]

Its not too late for you, I had my son at 38🙂

[@feefee8627]

@@blesseddaily9651 Congratulations I hoping to have a daughter once I meet the right guy!!!

[@rileyrileyz4114]

My Mom Gave Birth To Me At 37

[@CarolinaCarolBela]

This is beautiful. I'm 41 yrs old and I believe the opportunity of having a child has passed. Watching this made me think it might have not, maybe the possibility is still there. Thank you for sharing.

[@theokayestmomever]

CarolinaCarolBela1 I had my last at 42

[@nesrinisli6921]

it has passed , tbh

[@thekellyvlog.]

My sister-in-law is 54 and her daughter is will be 6 in July and she is actually trying to have another. Dont give up

[@TheStyleedi]

You are still young. My sister had my niece at 42 years old and my cousin had a baby at 47 years of age. Both were conceived naturally. So no, tbh your not to late to have a child ❤️.

[@curiousobserver97]

I got pregnant naturally with having Hashimoto's thyroiditis and PCOS at 40. Had a healthy daughter at 41 y.o.

[@electricsutando4119]

Old parents are awesome! My dad was in his 70s when I was in high school. You get so much wisdom and great life advice from them. Really happy for this woman that she finally made her dream come true

[@littleblessings3796]

I'll be in my 60s when baby girl is in high school

[@leogirl6695]

So awesome!

[@marianecoarroyo]

Thanks so much for your comment!

[@patricejackson6718]

Sooooo true my parents had me late especially my dad but I'm so blessed to have them wouldn't want it any other way 💛💛💛

[@Nancy-hd6go]

Thank you for this comment it gave me hope💗

[@karencline6198]

No IVF ..... first and only kid at 46 and it has been great being an older mom!

[@carolinafine8050]

God bless you. My wife and I are both 40. We have 2, I want more. Always happy to hear stories of people having children later in life

[@preitydaang8238]

my mom is near 60 if i tell her she is getting old..she gets mad at me... so at 48 u r middle aged not old..

[@raynajackson1189]

Amazing. I am still trying at 45.

[@shaimaali7289]

God blessed you, can you give me advice to get pregnant with my first baby. Im 44

[@silvermoon3154]

I'm 51 and almost 32 weeks pregnant with twins (boy/girl). As she said, all you need is a healthy uterus and of course not have any major health issues. I got pregnant on my 2nd try. I'll deliver January 2020 when I'm 52. Good luck to all trying for a miracle. I'm happy to share information with anyone interested. I went abroad to a beautiful country where IVF is affordable as the prices in the US were scary expensive.

[@JoeyFTaylor]

silver moon 😊 CONGRATULATIONS ❣️ That is so wonderful ! Don’t be surprised if I hit you up for some information in the next year. I am 47 and this amazing woman, and people like you have given me hope. I am a mother without a child. God Bless!

[@emilyelizabeth7062]

Congrats! In case you were worried at all, I have parents who had me when they were 50 and it hardly effects me! Good luck!

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

❤❤😍😍i am alone I am single

[@lettya3993]

May I ask what country did you go to. I am interested.

[@elmirasufikhujaeva2542]

Letty A hey right now BCBS insurance covering most of procedures and meds u may have some co pays and some % of coinsurance depends on deductible I am on my treatment schedule for IVF hoping for good .

[@jennmagana]

ummm is it just me or does this woman look like she's in her 30's?

[@svasianfilipiname6603]

She looks 40's to me! I'm 35 and I look younger than that! Of course I have some Asian/Filipina genes too haha so that could be it! But of course not hating just telling the truth!

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

She doesn’t look like she’s in her 30s, but she is very beautiful and her lovely personality - combined with happiness - makes her glow.

[@E.R.Hewitt]

That's what you look like at 50 if you dont have any kids haha

[@musicianwren9248]

Lol funny and quite possibly true.

[@Suttonk2]

Elise Hewitt Exactly what I thought. It’s stressful being a parent.

[@michellesingleton8344]

I had 4 sons last son was born in my 40s.My grandmother had 11 children her last pregnancy my grandma was 54.Everybody body aint the same.Everything aint written in a medical book.If its your time its your time.

[@JM-yf5rt]

Wow, so your Grandma had natural conception at 53/54 year old? That is AWESOME. God is STILL doing great things!

[@michellesingleton8344]

@@JM-yf5rt yes my grandmother had natural childbirth.She is 99 years old now.I have 4 sons my 4th son i was 46 when i had him natural childbirth in healthy.Every woman aint the same.

[@najeembolaji7914]

Absolutely.... All doctors are ignorant, due to they're knowledge it is not enough. Doctors aren't infallible, let stop to read various health books we would embrace sensations.

[@rndmkt]

💖💖💖💖💖

[@bluediamond4895]

Michelle Singleton you give me such beautiful hope. Preach

[@valoxsen6003]

My parents are 67 and 70 respectively and still hiking up mountains all over the world. My grandparents are in their 90s and still mobile, mentally sharp, and independent. You can absolutely still be active and healthy at those ages, and being an older first-time parent doesn't mean your kids will have to take care of you in their 20s. If you make the effort to look after your health, chances are your family will be just like any other, just with longer generations.

[@MsLLorena]

Exactly

[@monniaabdou4761]

She doesnt look 52 at all , god bless her !

[@aesha1878]

Monnia Abdou i would believe it if she was 30!

[@yami7339]

Aesha ! Ikr

[@lazydoggos1023]

Monnia Abdou To me she looks 28!

[@lazydoggos1023]

Red Rose Well you should be proud of them!

[@redrose4467]

thatoneweird furryyouknow! Y i should proud on wrinkles

[@maam2542]

I had my last baby at 47. No IVF, all natural

[@user-cg4fm4tl4j]

Kay really

[@JM-yf5rt]

Praise God! That is awesome!

[@yupyup7571]

What did u do?

[@forerunner7]

WOW!.. That is inspiring!.. So incredible..💖

[@tyrishasmith-grady703]

Blessing

[@StrawberryAppleCream]

Can you imagine growing up to a mother being so deliriously grateful to have you🤗❤

[@bluediamond4895]

StrawberryAppleCream I wish more mothers would be that way

[@szilviaszabo7940]

What a lovely thing to say ❤

[@Eckertainment]

Aaaww... that's so sweet and so true! This little girl will never ever have to question if she was wanted and if she's truly loved. Completely yes!

[@lauryb]

I was thinking exactly the same 😢

[@jacintaluppino9758]

Can only imagine Mum.tease me for having autism

[@kimberlysheffield933]

I’m currently going through ivf. I’m 36 and my husband is 44. This will be our first child for us both. Praying for a healthy pregnancy and birth in 2024!

[@eshraqsalahuddin115]

Hi, best of luck, do you mind sharing how is your IVF journey is going. Like: how many embryos, PGT, transfer etc.

[@kimberlysheffield933]

@@eshraqsalahuddin115 sure this was my first ever ivf cycle. I retereived 13 eggs, was fertilized and mature. 13 made it to day 3, 8 to day 5. I had all 8 tested and only 5 came back normal. 3 boys and 2 girls. I’m set to transfer on April 26th.

[@eshraqsalahuddin115]

Thanks for the detail, if you haven’t done ERA, ALICE and EMA test, Talk to your doctor about it. Also test for blood clots testing, NK cell and ask your doctor if any other test is recommended before you do the first transfer. Best of luck.

[@Lommy9999]

We need to know her skincare regimen please.

[@VioletSky908]

I was just about to say!!! I need to know her secret lol

[@unknownf5376]

Her skin care regimen was not having kids lmfao wait for another 3yrs it will change

[@kittycat8222]

Lol right. She was child free/stress free. But... don't forget to moisturize your neck too ladies. That's where you can see her age. She's radiant tho really.

[@beccaslife4366]

Lommy rodan and Fields

[@gracegrace1036]

Money.. lots of it

[@desicpr00]

I’m praying that the lord blesses her with a very long life so she can see that precious baby grow up. What a gift that baby is.

[@Hyderabadidunyakasafar]

I will love you

[@amybess]

She looks like her mom

[@travishoward1083]

Hello 👋

[@helenmarshall5705]

I had my youngest daughter at age 48 and today I am holding my lovely granddaughter, her daughter! I hope God grants me many more years (I am now seventy) to watch her grow up! I am so glad I had my late baby. People were shocked. One friend didn't believe I was pregnant. I guess she thought I was having some kind of false pregnancy. Doctor's offered tests, but I knew my little one was fine. What a treasure she has been.

[@miss_bhello7925]

Helen Marshall praise the Lord! ❤️

[@Fitlover24]

Wow was it natural pregnancy or ivf? Ur answer wud really help?

[@helenmarshall5705]

@@Fitlover24 It was a natural pregnancy. It would have been a natural birth as my others had been but I was induced for this one and the contractions were crazy hard so I finally opted for an epi.

[@JM-yf5rt]

@@helenmarshall5705 - Wow, God is STILL doing great things! Natural conception. And no c-section. And now you are holding your grandchild. :) God is awesome. Thank you for sharing. Very inspiring.

[@ldsjfaithrideshareandinves6513]

God bless you, Helen.

[@ilonamariehajdu8768]

I went on a similar journey - at 45 underwent IVF and gave birth to our twins at 46. Greatest day of our lives!

[@tiab4697]

blessed with twins! they will always have each other.

[@AnitaD28]

I have a client who had her first child at 51. She did not have IVF. She delivered a perfect baby boy who is now 7 years old but acts like he's 25!!! Lol

[@kkkkk3811]

Anita Luca lol how does he act 25?

[@AnitaD28]

Heyhey hey - it's just a saying that means the child acts much older than they are. 😋

[@jasminevaliente96]

Anita Luca yea my grandma had my uncle at 51 with no IVF lol age was just unprotected thinking she couldnt get pregnant anymore and here comes baby. Hes only 4 years older than me healthy intelligent hard working with kids of his own now

[@eidtolarba6167]

wow great .. Im in 40s and never married and no bf .. Im scared ..

[@senseijen8963]

@@eidtolarba6167 don't be scared... Isn't the woman in this video an inspiration that it doesn't matter what age... Take care of yourself and be happy.

[@phyllisb-chronicles3358]

My dad was 56 and my mother 39 when I was born. He passed when I was 30 and I enjoy every moment I had with him.

[@indiaxlovee]

Sis P Chronicles that’s beautiful ❤️

[@Legal.Knievel]

My mom was 38 and my Dad was 45 when I was born.

[@isabellamorgan7026]

🙂😇Beautiful

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

Can u enjoy with me realky forever am alone ❤😍😍👫💑👪💏😘😘

[@ashaprabhakarwilliams4950]

@ sis P Chronicles now my case is going to be just the same like you're parent... Am 38 and my husband is 55 and I guess I am pregnant not sure as I have taken a test yet since it has just been 30 days.. Waiting to know of my results.

[@aliciai.9150]

I would rather have "old" parents then naive unexperienced ones that's for sure! Love this!💞

[@lvi8957]

✌❤🙏

[@zomgseriosuly]

I know right? She's been waiting for this baby most of her adult life, she's gonna love her with every fibre of her being. Definitely ready to be a mom

[@teresamesa]

@Lauren SilverSpike people die at any age

[@EmpressLilith222]

Alicia I. Ummmmm she’s just as inexperienced as a young mother. She’s a first time mother so she’s just like other younger moms. The only difference is that she’ll be more out of touch with her child since she’s the age of what it’s grandmother should be. Also she may not live to give the support a younger mother would be able to. Her decision was irresponsible

[@luchia446]

Unstoppable Goddess I don’t know about irresponsible but I would want my mom to be around as long as possible.Yes anyone can die anytime but having a child so late in life means there is more of a likelihood they won’t be around to see their grandkids or even see their own child be married.I agree but don’t think she should be shamed for her choice.

[@mlfitness67]

I'm 55 about to have a baby girl. I'm thankful that I'm healthy financially stable and fit

[@Seeker_of_sense]

This is wonderful! My god bless you and your family!

[@jasminek6632]

Smh

[@arbanaismailfroto1738]

Please the name of the doctor & clinic

[@mlfitness67]

@arbanaismailfroto1738 No doctor or clinic, just a surprise 😅

[@froggybug]

I would cry. 😂😂😂 my body hurt so bad at 37 and preggers.

[@syuenartist7704]

You look like you just turned 37.....forget 53.....eat right and on time, exercise, forget about working hard but work smart...and most of all be kind, open minded and forgiving. Never be afraid to fail..and throw away your ego, be contented with the little you have and you should be fine. By the way your angel is super cute...show her all the right love and someday she will return it to you. Congratulations and thank the good lord always and if possible reach out to help others with problems in any way you can.

[@Hellokitty-pb3gb]

47

[@truthseeker6384]

syuen artist You summed it up perfectly!

[@preitypreity7620]

VERY GOOD ENCOURAGEMENT. MAY GOD BLESS YOU TOO

[@briancole1687]

Thank you for this comment.

[@tediehristova299]

Great words of wisdom!

[@Canuckbelgo]

I had my second daughter, perfectly naturally, unexpectedly even....18 years after my first daughter when I was 45 yrs old in 2014. Heck I was even a bit overweight when I conceived but I was in love, relaxed, on holiday with my husband. Our daughter is the BEST thing that has happened to us all. She is now 5 yrs old and she is SO smart, hilarious and soooo healthy too. Being a mom almost a generation after the first time is mind-blowing and MUCH more fun!

[@ashaprabhakarwilliams4950]

God bless you're family

[@elouise5593]

@@izzyn9000 How is that sad? You don't know that woman or her child. You don't know anything about them, yet you judge them.

[@izzyn9000]

@@elouise5593 why tf are you tagging me??? you have the wrong person!!!

[@alyssa_faith]

There’s no way she is 53!! Whaaaat?! She looks, sounds, and acts so young ! What an amazing mother.

[@angelabraun4055]

She had a great doctor to suggest she gets pregnant and doesn’t make her age a factor! And an all natural birth too...you go girl! What a blessing 💜

[@Naijella86]

I'm 31 and you just gave me so much hope. I've never had a proper boyfriend, just dated men who weren't serious. Friends are getting married and pregnant and I get so scared I'll never have this. I hope I don't have to wait until I'm in my 50s but what an inspiration.

[@michellezevenaar]

Naijella 86 I have 2 different friends that in their 30s meet their partners and had a baby within 2 years. It can happen really fast. For one of my friends this was her first real relationship.

[@Naijella86]

Michelle Bennett you're giving me so much hope

[@elizabethtimothy9510]

Naijella 86 it isnever too late but take control of your life now, be proactive in your relationship, don't let men waste your time.

[@Naijella86]

Elizabeth Timothy oh I know, I cut dates loose if I realise it's going nowhere

[@purple00k]

Elizabeth Timothy Yes, indeed. Key statement because this woman let a man waste her time for over a decade 11 years. Pointless!

[@madelineb77]

But it wasn’t “late”. It was all right on time

[@DivaEagle77]

Maddy B amen 🙏🏽

[@Goldan1]

I loved your comment so much I felt inspired to say amen, but then noticed someone else said it but I'll say it anyway. Amen!!🙏

[@camilletaylor8660]

You are a wise lady.

[@whitneychuckluck]

Madeline B true it was nothing is timeless

[@timothstacy2408]

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[@sophiabartley7059]

I'm so happy for you I'm 51 an I recently got married and my husband wants children....I'm still having monthly periods

[@JM-yf5rt]

God is able!!! Please share with us when He blesses you and your hubby with a baby. :) Congratulations! Keep faith.

[@samadams2575]

Have you had any luck?

[@christiedikikhiangte5600]

We are the same condition

[@Nadehj]

Donor egg makes it very possible as well as embryo adoption.

[@christiedikikhiangte5600]

@@ff-ti7nj Thank you 👍

[@ProdavackaDivu]

People “worry” about an older parent dying when their child is under 30 (although looking at this woman she will probably live past 90!), but meanwhile poor kids are getting neglected and abused by 20 yo immature moms😑

[@Србомбоница86]

its not just that,older parents get sicker earlier so you have to take care of them in your 20s,30s

[@anima6035]

Yes to this!!! People just talk so much nonsense! x

[@jasmintorino6129]

There are pros and cons with choosing to have kids later in life..what would it be like for that child growing up with aging parents is something to consider.

[@Србомбоница86]

@@jasmintorino6129 its so difficult ,I lost my mom very early ,my dad is also 72 ,I am scared of losing him too.Children of older parents get so alone, ,it's not fair:(

[@Melian07]

@@Србомбоница86 I can relate as a child of old parents, often worried that they will be sick and die soon, they're both in their 70's.

[@sarahjaynescott545]

Don't waste years and years with a boyfriend ... if he has not proposed within a certain timeframe move on !

[@sagek7949]

Sarah Jayne Scott rightly said. Wish washy boyfriends are not worth the wait. If he doesn’t respect your wishes ( motherhood ) then say goodbye.

[@okidoki878]

Wtf

[@papillonnoir3747]

Preach! They have nothing to loose by wasting your time

[@sarahjaynescott545]

​@@jjm2948 only men who cannot afford a wife and family talk like that

[@mascara1777]

Yes!! Some men think nothing of wasting a decade of your life. I have a girlfriend who had fibroids that were so severe that she had to be hospitalized because they caused her to bleed so heavily they endangered her life. Her obgyn told her if she wanted a baby, she had to decide asap to have one. But her boyfriend at the time would not commit to her. 15 years later, he still never committed and she has no children.

[@thejdexperience7580]

I was 45, almost 46 when I had my twin boys due to IVF. It was the best decision I could have made. Like you, I loved being pregnant. Congratulations on becoming a mom.

[@Nadehj]

The J & D Experience with donor eggs?

[@amybess]

That's when my mom had me and my twin sister. We're 21 now.

[@SanchoGracie]

So awesome. I love reading that there is still hope.

[@heidipetals462]

We live in a modern age and people critizise and discrimination, endless judging , here in, at mature beautiful mothers for giving life . My grandmother had 17 children naturally , had her last one when she was 56 years old and lived in tge snow , she out live all but 2 of them . MY own mother had 9 children all naturally, and had her last one at 48 , and out lived 6 of her 9 children . Stranger to have a brother 47 years older than ones self . Very natural in days gone past to have very old grandparents , grandmother lived to 108 . Not uncomon to have older parents live to 100 and 98 years . This modern time/age calls 60 years & + , now geriatric! its ridiculous just over thee half way mark . And treated the with no respect belittling them . Age is only a number when in good health ! live your life in the way that makes you happy, all children are a blessing . May you all live healthy and happy into a ripe natural old age in good health , take no notice of the opinions , of the spruking nonsence of doomsayers . Blessing for a fantastic life of happiness. With thy gorgeous awesome child . Blessings Cheers

[@thejdexperience7580]

@@Nadehj yes Donor

[@Red_1976]

Go girl! I had my baby at 42, she is my miracle. It’s never too late! Don’t let anyone tell yu otherwise 🙏💓

[@divahc1]

I'll be 60 in April. I've never been able to have children, pretty sure it's too late for me 🙄

[@electroskates2434]

@@divahc1 You could adopt or surrogate.

[@divahc1]

@@electroskates2434 for me, at 60, is definitely too late. Unfortunately, when I was younger, surrogacy laws made it illegal, plus it's super expensive. Adoption, while I'd have had no qualms going that route, also is not the quick and easy solution one might think. Children where I am are not readily available. Single mothers receive govt support so very few relinquish their babies. Plus by the time I discovered I couldn't have children, and the wait time, I would have been too old. If I'd had the funds I'd have tried to adopt overseas. Thanks for the suggestions, but I've considered all my options. There were none other than having my own. And that wasn't to be.

[@divahc1]

I wouldn't be well enough to care for a child now.

[@electroskates2434]

@@divahc1 Oh I'm so sorry 😥

[@tamilynsalameh4314]

I was 47 when I had my last child . Age is in your mind. I was healthy and thought I was in peri menopause 😲but was pregnant. I have 3 boys my oldest is 30 and a 24 year old son a 21 year old daughter and shorty who just turned 12😊you can be a mom whenever god see’s fit! As you can see the age gap in my group. So happy for you and your daughter🤗

[@simsim5919]

Hi did you conceive naturally at 47?

[@becibabe7364]

@@simsim5919 of course she didn’t!!!

[@bobianna5345]

I tap that blessing in the Mighty Name of our Lord Jesus Christ

[@kehbellakeh2378]

@@becibabe7364 why not? It's possible . Women in my family have had children in their 50s. I know plenty of women who had babies in their 40s naturally. IVF isn't cheap by far. Anybody living in the western world like Canada n u.s. are more exposed to a toxic life food, air, water, pharmaceutical drugs, negative thoughts, systemic problems, careers , higher stress levels , media. Naturally it takes its toll. Women in ther 20s are not as fertile as decades ago. Think about it and dodge the westernized way of thinking. In Chinese medicine fertility is said to stop at 49. 14 years more than 35 which the west claims. 35 because of all the crap women girls are exposed to. Whereas people living in even poverty stricken countries or rural communities may have not as much in material luxury or access to medical , education and political power. Yet they do far better being mother's at a later stage of child bearing years. This can be researched btw.

[@brimmysmalls9235]

@@becibabe7364 you sound ignorant and dumb women have been known to conceive naturally in there late 40s were you there how do you know

[@kellyshamrock5011]

I had my 3 sons when I was in my mid 20’s to early 30’s. Fast forward post divorce, I had my daughter at 44 almost 45 with my current husband. I used an ovulation monitor to help us conceive and it worked! She is 7 now. 😊

[@alexcara1]

Congratulation ! Woow

[@SanchoGracie]

Congrats. Thank you for the bit of hope I needed so badly. ♥️

[@rustinstardust2094]

Did you use IVF or anything else?

[@brimmysmalls9235]

@@rustinstardust2094 you clearly see it was natural

[@AC-mp7cx]

this is incredibly rare and risky for women

[@emlovss]

she looks 33 not 53

[@yovizx]

emily more like 43

[@salixuu]

More like 25

[@sabrinalicious1976]

emily plastic surgery😉

[@justfit71]

emily that's not truth . She looks 10 years younger

[@somalianbeauty100]

Yeah thats pushing it.. More like 43.

[@sanpedrana3]

This is so wonderful!!!!! I can't hold back my tears. I just came back to my desk after having a cry in the bathroom because of the feeling of incompetence and disappointment that I have. I just turned 42 and I cannot get pregnant. I am wondering what I have done with my life? I never really plan to have a family when I was younger and I was thinking it might be too late now. I was asking God to uplift me, to give me a sign that all will be alright and to take my fears away. And, I stumbled with this video and I feel like my prayer was answered. I will have faith that I will have the baby I want and the family that I want with the love of my life. Thank you for sharing and for giving hope

[@hajaobedekah3464]

God will answer your prayers. I am pregnant at 45.

[@sanpedrana3]

@@hajaobedekah3464 Congratulations!!!! This is so exciting and so wonderful. Thank you so much for your support. I wish you all the best and so much love for you and your baby. Thank you!!!!

[@KPlyf]

Yoga is ur answer. Look for ramdev patanjali yog guru online.

[@briancole1687]

@Haja, thank you for sharing. Gives our families hope.

[@imatexangirlgoode2587]

@@sanpedrana3 Please don't loose hope at your age it is the perfect time to have a baby. My mom had me at 42 my sister at 48 so please don't loose hope it will happen to you .

[@litebrite138]

I’m pregnant now at 42 (with the help of IUI). I’m excited to welcome my baby girl in June!

[@Neyobe]

How are you now ? ❤

[@JasperLake22]

Congratulations 🎊 ❤

[@JoeyFTaylor]

I am 47 and you just gave me hope. ❤️ Thank you!

[@silvermoon5379]

Hi Jo Foxx! Sorry, I couldn't find your original post, but I remembered your name. In reference to your inquiry about future IVF, no problem. I'll be here with answers to your questions, whenever you're ready. Take care, Sherrie

[@roxanneevans9470]

I had my fourth child at 46.

[@travishoward1083]

Hello 👋

[@Sasha-wd9ho]

Ok, she looks absoulutely AMAZING. NO WAY SHE IS 53!!!

[@VanessaRamirez-kh1tf]

I have a friend who had a beautiful girl at 58 naturally with out any help. It was a blessing for her.

[@nunyah7856]

A rarity

[@marinagarcia4262]

Scary

[@Haddasa]

58?!!! Wow!

[@angelafernandez9927]

But did she still have períod?

[@natashacypin3120]

My grandma had her period till 60s

[@sueengland9106]

I conceived naturally at 45 n have a 4 yr old after 24 yrs w my husband so miracles do happen. And if u can handle the entire thing, so be it....no one should b allowed to judge or intervene in your life and your wishes

[@cathysmith8019]

Congratulations!!!!

[@bibianamatallana4792]

There's hope for me!!! I'm 47, but I waiting in a natural miracle!!

[@anavictoria7688]

Of course you can do it!! 🤗

[@saraskrish1038]

wish you all the best.

[@madelineboser7610]

Wish you luck!

[@gemmamckeown4436]

of course u can some times it just take a many many tries

[@angelafernandez9927]

You will be a mother

[@wyojo6704]

God bless you..I became a mother at 50 💕🙏

[@1Sun111]

naturally?

[@heladds]

Was it ur first child?

[@lisamorman-patterson2773]

What a blessing...Was it naturally?

[@nesrinisli6921]

poor child

[@waregerneinvestiert9474]

💕🕊🧚‍♀️💫💐

[@discobikerAndRosie]

A friend of mine is the youngest of 12 children. Her mother had her at the age of 55, naturally!

[@miss_bhello7925]

Wow! ❤️

[@JM-yf5rt]

LOOK AT GOD!!!!

[@danniifan3115]

Disco Biker Barefoot Acrylics Good on her, that's so cool. 😀

[@bluediamond4895]

Disco Biker Barefoot Acrylics this comment section gives me hope

[@mrinalinirebecca9563]

Miracle !

[@dddg6327]

Beautiful family and Mama looks so young. I’m 43 and did IVF, was told my eggs were no longer good enough and was being encouraged to try another round when it failed. Got pregnant naturally 3 months later and had a beautiful little boy. My heart is full and I’m so happy I didn’t listen to the Drs or anyone. Mature women having babies is not a bad thing, it’s beautiful and people will criticize them but will smile on a man having kids in his 60s. Life is fickle, you don’t know when it’ll end so do you and be optimistic.

[@katesmyth4839]

Yay ! So happy for you.

[@kathlydiaedwards1125]

Indeed

[@JQueen-ul5eh]

A woman having a baby in her 40-50’s actually make better mothers than one in their 20’s. Women in their 40’s-50’s are mentally mature and more stable financially.

[@drgspeakslife]

Yay! So happy for you! What did you do? Praying to be pregnant soon in 2023. I'm 43 and having a hard time ..any tips.. Greatly appreciate ❤❤ thanks so much .

[@ChickOnRadio]

I had my last baby at 44 with no IVF, just natural. I felt very fortunate to have such a perfect and beautiful red-headed boy. I really relate when I see the stories of other mid-life moms. So cool.

[@drgspeakslife]

What did you do? I'm 43 and having a hard time ..any tips.. Greatly appreciate ❤❤ thanks so much

[@catherinelyns]

@@drgspeakslife I did as well in only 2 weeks (naturally at 44). I just gave up thinking it would happen and it did.

[@drgspeakslife]

@catherinelyns Thanks all of you women for your motivation. God is Able for me to conceive naturally in my early 40s. Amen

[@latoshaadams6963]

Congratulations

[@Vivecks1972]

This is inspirational ❤️ I’m 48 years old and planning IVF this month. Hope I’ll get pregnant 😍

[@DavidSmith-fd3hm]

😂 you will

[@siddiquifarhat9994]

InshaAllah

[@blessedandhighlyfavored9921]

You will by the grace if God🙏🏽

[@valm.5243]

You are an inspiration! Never give up. There are so many ways to become a mom at an older age.

[@AyushRaj-uu1dw]

how did it go ?

[@chantelchavez2342]

I’m 48 and I met my husband at 40 and we have been trying for 8 years with one miscarriage and your video really inspired me to pursue egg donation. I am exactly like you. I cry every time I watch this. We are hoping to transfer next month and we are over the moon excited. Thank you for this video. And congraasttts ! She’s beautiful!

[@alfreda2711]

I’m 65 I got pregnant at 40. Best advice I got before trying is I looked up a book on when I was ovulating. Looked like a charm 😊 I too had a miscarriage at first then got pregnant three months later.

[@JamieSmith-lw5ge]

Good luck to you both! May your dreams come true!!

[@malarvilee5072]

Don't worry u will get one soon. God bless u...

[@lola21029]

My grandmother had my mother at 48. No IVF: it was in 1953. The only weird thing is that my aunt is 28 years older than my mother.

[@annes.joseph42]

😁 it's a blessing not a weird thing. May God bless your family.......

[@mabenyapridy7851]

I hold unto this testimony. I will make it in Jesus name. Amen

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Wow, thanks for this as I am 42 and going to be 43 and everyone thinks it is too late for me to be a mom. This gives me lots of hope. Congrats!

[@karikogurung4547]

For me also

[@ibechinyere6692]

I'm 42 going to 43 in Nov. I'm currently pregnant with my 4th child. Don't lose hope

[@tracygreen55]

Hey I'm 42 now and I'm be 43 Nov 2023 .I m praying about a tubual reversal or ivf

[@vijit3277]

Same here

[@livinglavidaloca4597]

Same boat. About to be 41. Feeling alone and hopeless. But this lady gives me hope and joy

[@niyiraluvsmb]

She does NOT look 50!! I thought she was 36& im so glad God blessed her with a baby

[@earthspirit516]

Wow. Amazing ....I gave birth at 46, natural conception..no doctors..

[@Funny_gal1]

This is very comforting to know thanks

[@uncutjems]

Thank you for the inspiration!! I am trying at 44!

[@astridrodriguez3565]

I gave birth at 45, thought I was in my menopause. In my yearly check up found out I was 5.5 month pregnant. In 3.5 month I was having a healthy girl.

[@latoshaadams6963]

Congratulations

[@stasi200]

I will be 45 this year. My husband is a year younger. I have PCOS and possibly endometriosis. My husband was diagnosed with azoospermia. Cannot afford IVF. All I have is prayer. Praying for a miracle.

[@rijaghori791]

I had twins at 52 also

[@peaceandlove544]

Through IVF?

[@rijaghori791]

@@peaceandlove544 no natural

[@cathprudence3829]

@@rijaghori791 did you eat something to be that fertile? Most women are in their menopause by that age. Do you have some tips?

[@laurabaum9572]

Liyani Bernier what is your problem?

[@shinivik]

Liyani Bernier why so much anger?

[@mallorygold8339]

I am 14years old my father and mother are 55 and because of his age he knows so much about the world which a younger parent wouldn't know! So I find it okay that she is in her 50's like my parents.

[@korokforest9395]

I read that as my father is 14 and my mom is 55 lmfao

[@BritStan]

You are 14 with parents in your 50s.... meaning your parents were 41 when you are born. That is VASTLY different than you being a newborn while they are their current age.

[@xocallmekatexo]

*41..?

[@Hugsandkisses99100]

Mallory Gulick my parents were 39 when they had me. Yes, they have more maturity but you have to also he worried about birth defects which become increasingly common as the mother gets older. At 50+ your body begins to go through menopause. Your eggs are no longer as viable and neither is the sperm. People generally aren’t against the idea because it’s “gross,” but because of the dangers older pregnancies present with.

[@BritStan]

I need a new username exactly. And the very fact that our aging process begins to accelerate rapidly once women hit the age 35. I had my first son at age 23 and I just had m my last daughter at 30. The difference in my energy between when when I was in my early 20’s and now In my 30’s is very noticeable- and I am very healthy, athletic and in great shape. It’s just a fact of nature that we have less energy as we age. This woman sounded so delusional when she said that she is “like bejamin button, she just gets younger with time!”

[@RainbowPawPrint]

My parents were both 44 when they had me. Now, they are 72 and I am almost 28.

[@charitytanel8107]

Beautiful & blessed.

[@laurennelson973]

Dragonfly91 I'm twenty years i think my mom was in her forties and my dad when I was born

[@chillycoco]

Dragonfly91 sameeeee

[@nesrinisli6921]

sounds awful, I’m 20 and my grandparents are in their early sixties.

[@nanabusterd]

Nesrin Isli You’re awful.

[@kekef3620]

She's glowing. She was made to be a mom.🙂

[@colleenross8752]

And her daughter is a little angel

[@bellebooth1741]

My mum was 39 and dad was 42 when my twin sister and I were born. I don’t understand how people consider this old, I’m 21 now and I certainly don’t see any signs of them slowing down.

[@toodleloo2253]

Same for my family! :) I think they're BETTER parents for being "Old." :)

[@allwhatilove914]

39 it's not too old. I'm 37 and pregnant of my second. Will be born when I'll be 38. It wasn't planned but who knows I still make a third after that...

[@crazymotherofcats3361]

1:00 I never felt something so much when she said I'd love any baby no matter how it comes to me. As someone who can't physically have a child of her own I completely understand the empty void it puts in your heart

[@jessicaknowles7863]

Such a beautiful story. I am 57, I will continue to dream but for now, I celebrate 🎉 with you. May she grow up to be as beautiful as you are. Fill with faith, hope , joy and happiness. God bless both you , your husband and daughter. We should all live in a mode of expectation.

[@1_step_up]

A good friend of mine tried in her late 30s to have a baby and it never worked out. She quit her stressful job, setup her passion project/company and at 45 she fell pregnant to a healthy baby boy WITHOUT TRYING to get pregnant this time. She is super fit and full of life now at 48, far healthier than many of my friends were in their 30s. And it worked out perfectly for her at a age that "science" says is too old to be a mom.

[@netraofficial369]

You have given me hope and courage..I am 42 single...no hubby...no baby...m dying to have a family

[@subhadravm9973]

I'm 43 and in a very similar position. And, this was a very inspiring video indeed!

[@jimcrone6307]

Age and statistics dont matter. God has the last word on everything.

[@LaggardInLove]

Same situation, 38 and single, no man, no child. Hope for the best! We ladies should get in touch :)

[@sola_a]

ADOPT

[@Thesidsentinel]

The child is not genetically hers so it is no different genetically than bring stepmom to your husband's child

[@lisi1698]

Three years ago my aunt naturally got twins at 50. They were triples at first but one died before birth.

[@KrysOfAllTrades]

I have read that multiples are more common in older mothers. So sorry to hear about the third baby, but how wonderful for your aunt to have twins!

[@nkirukanwachukwu8095]

Wow! Amazing indeed

[@mrinalinirebecca9563]

Wonderful

[@summerlatter4868]

I have an older mum and it’s sometimes embarrassing to tell my friends and others. mum had breast cancer 2 time s not long ago this effected her greatly she has lost a lot of motivation therefore she gets so tired and sleeps often so I usually wake her up of the couch and get her to proper bead. I also make dinner most nights (I love to) but I always come to think she has had my back since the day I was born. It’s time for me to pay it back by helping her with tiring chores and I feel good knowing that I am being a good daughter :) ( I am 14 so don’t come at me and say she shouldn’t make you make dinner, I love to cook and she buys all the food for me to cook with) she always wants to help but I just let her rest after a long day) sorry for the ramble idk what this has to do with the video 😂 thanks for reaching the end

[@summerdawn6777]

Summ- You are a terrific daughter! From a daughter AND a mom!

[@bearball49]

I raised 2 grandkids. The youngest is graduating in a few weeks while I am almost 70. I am more active now than I was in my 40s. It is a state of mind. I would do it over in a heartbeat. Not saying he doesn't have to do his share but the same can happen to young mom's. My sister in law died young of cancer. We can not choose our time but we can choose how we live.

[@politereminder6284]

Sorry about your mom having cancer and feeling weak. The cancer and weakness is not necessarily age related though. I pray that you grow up healthy and strong and happy

[@summerlatter4868]

susanne anique thank you so much this means a lot XX

[@summerlatter4868]

Brenda Ball thanks for the wise, may your sister in law rest in piece 🥰

[@schoggi725]

I had twins at 53. They were my first… and my last!

[@PerfectPicture2012]

I had twins at 37 and some people said that was late. Everyone has the ‘right time’ to enter and to exit according to something bigger and not according to our confused society!

[@PerfectPicture2012]

Lana I We are special, been ‘chosen’ by 2 souls at the same time make us super special! Enjoy a privilege of been a mother!

[@emiliavicquery1342]

Twins at 37 also

[@PerfectPicture2012]

Emilia Vicquery You are lucky and ‘ chosen’ !

[@KwniStewart]

Really? 🤔 It wasn't late at all, how could they tell you that? You were young enough...

[@lottejohnson250]

My mum had me at 37! Might be biased, but I think you get the best kids if you have them at that age ;) (also I'm the oldest of two!)

[@honeybdream]

Looks so young! Wonder what she eats. Lifestyle details please l‼️

[@kurtcummins7218]

Do not drink alcohol , do not smoke and drink water. Eat healthy , be happy, believe in god . Lots of good things. Works for me, then I tell them and I become "goody goody" Well people have a choice. Its just that a lot of people simply do not even try to do all these things. If you have tried all this and it did not work, I have no other answers , I sure do not know everything!!!

[@muahmichelle]

honeybdream ikr😭

[@patriciachang8666]

Genetic + good habits. Eat healthy, exercise, sun block, not too much sun exposure, drink wáter, sleep well, a good hidrant cream, do not smoke, do not drink alcohol, no estress, no sugar. I do everything except do not estress and somethines sleep well and no sugar.

[@jasmine4659]

Don’t have kids lol

[@Adriana-ob8kp]

what does believing in god make you have less wrinkles? lol

[@Aliaahmedd]

She's adorable!!!

[@selammamo4166]

Pineapple Princess God bless you

[@tnoorani1]

We went thru IVF also and let me tell you it was a blessing. I am finally a father at age 45. Your story is inspiring may your baby live a long and healthy life!

[@zawadix9574]

Congratulations 🎉👏 I became a father at 49 2 months ago be blessed

[@tnoorani1]

​@@zawadix9574wow brother congrats!!! May your baby live a long and healthy life.

[@yeyisco]

Thanks for sharing your beautiful story! I'm 41 and was so sad thinking maybe it's too late to have children, now suddenly this video came through! 😀 must be God talking to me 😇😘

[@evelina2363]

Same

[@Gigglingsiren]

I was just saying the same thing

[@eagillum]

Yes. God. Either that or a KZbin algorithm. It's ok to be grateful for AI instead of a psychological projection of your own goodness onto a waaay outdated concept of a deity. Now go in peace and populate the world.

[@aylacristina7295]

My aunt had a baby at 45 without any treatment, everything was totally natural. My cousin now have 5 years old and he is a wonderful boy!

[@Lady_Truth]

Same here! I'm 38 just had a baby 6 months ago and everybody told me it was old to have a baby. I really want to give my daughter a sibling close in age but wasn't sure to try again or not

[@teresalipot7111]

"A complete natural birth" this woman is a warrior!

[@dhaylynnejoy]

wow, congratulations! I'm 43 It's my prayer to be a mom, to have a child...

[@aprilapril2]

dhaylynne chall you need more than prayers.. get to an ivf clinic

[@lah1667]

@Flirty Fran what would you say to a my acquaintance who had her second child, naturally at 49? She'd already had an adult son by then. The conception was unplanned but she kept the baby. That takes courage and love in order to do so. Please don't sit in judgement of others. 43 isn't to old to have a baby if you want one and I know women older than that who have naturally conceived. Some of us don't meet Mr right until later on in life....

[@lah1667]

@Flirty Fran I said that Nicole and Geri's GRANDMOTHERS had their last child at 49 so of course the pregnancies must have been natural- this was way before ivf was developed. Geri did try to conceive with ivf and it failed but she had her second child at 44 naturally, so late childbearing might run in her family. I do care about children and think that 28-35 is probably the best age for women to be having them, not at 49, but I am not going to act as though having them at 20 is ideal either... Why would you think I'm pro-abortion?? Says who?

[@lah1667]

@Flirty Fran you've got it wrong, I'm not pro-abortion, as I've seen ones use it as a form of contraception and have multiple terminations back to back, with different (inappropriate) male partners. I don't agree with that and think being able to conceive at all is a blessing. However, a woman is going to have to raise the child for decades so surely her wants and circumstances are important too? The biggest group of women who are having abortions are in their 40s (in my land) because they think they are 'past it' so stop using contraception-then low and behold, they conceive. I agree more with the ones who keep their babies should they unexpectedly conceive whilst up in years. If you think late motherhood is selfish, that's up to you but a person can change their mind e.g. Not want kids in their 20s and focus on their career.... Have a good career in their 30s but find it doesn't fulfill them.... Feel that they want to pass what they've learnt in life on to the next generation in their early 40s and will regret not having kids if they don't try. True 1) they could have tried earlier and 2) they could adopt, but some women will want a genetic tie to their baby. Also, risks do go up with maternal age but a 39 year old woman has a 0.7% chance of having a baby with Downs so that's a 99.3% chance the baby will be fine... Please don't scaremonger... Risks go up with age but if you can carry your own genetic child to term, the statistical likelihood is that the child will be genetically fine in most cases.

[@mukamigaiko4669]

@@lah1667 Thank you Vernie, that's well put. Thank you for the encouraging of your acquaintance.

[@dayanar23]

This gives me hope. I am 38, almost 39. ❤️

[@musicallife3981]

Same

[@marywalsh2057]

Best of luck

[@marinattysegura5844]

Same here!

[@lah1667]

That's not that old... Have you considered oocyte cryopreservation? 20 eggs will give you a 63% chance of a having one live birth at your age...

[@dayanar23]

@@lah1667 I had no idea about that. Thank you for the suggestion :)

[@Hijabibti925]

My dad was 64 and my mother 42 when they had me! Most pacient parents ever!

[@Србомбоница86]

do you have some health issues

[@Hijabibti925]

@@Србомбоница86 no dear

[@anima6035]

@@Hijabibti925 Interesting because I know a lot of people with younger parents that are super sickly!! My dad was in his 40s (my mum was 30) when I was born and Im strong as an ox! I rarely go to the drs and haven't taken any medication in many many years! Strange huh!! x

[@Hijabibti925]

@@anima6035 wonderful

[@electroskates2434]

@@Hijabibti925 My mum was 41 when I was born and my dad older than yours, I'm 13 and we're all doing well.

[@annmalik4897]

OMG This is sooo amazing, I am 36 single having a series of failed relationship I was just making up my mind that I will never have a baby but you have inspired me so much that I really wanna think positive and keep hoping n praying for the life I always desired thankyou so much

[@Cash4Fruit]

I am 26 and in a relationship with a guy who doesn't want kids or a family, I hope he will come around but I doubt it and will have to break up maybe at 30 (not ready to now). Idk if I will every find a good guy but I'm hopeful.

[@TheEntilza]

Don't wait until you're 40. You may not succeed to have a child later. The reason this story is rare is because a lot of other women fail to get pregnant at a later age.

[@continuousself-improvement1879]

@@Cash4Fruit if you've been with him for over a year and he still had not put a ring on it, he is wasting your time. The longer you drag it on, the more time you will need to get over the break up. Even if you dump him at 30 (no guarantees, bcs he could.ve dumped you before that), you will need time to get over him, date around, find someone who seems like marriage material, etc etc. Before you know it, you're 35 or more.

[@7saany]

Hopefully before having children you consider what it is that drives you to choose men destined to fail at the relationship and how you may play a part in it as well, you wouldn't want to use a child as a means to fulfill a void you cannot achieve from your relationships because you will become an emotional burden to your child.

[@PastorMarionGillies]

Dont you ever say that. Only God decides. Never watch your age. God can do anything. I promise you, he can.

[@xxpositivexxful]

This is such a beautiful story of never giving up. I’m 45 now & wasted so much time in the wrong relationship. Some days can be so hard. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@raynajackson1189]

I am 45 and feel exactly the same way.

[@Kat-id7rz]

Me too

[@Nina-ig2gv]

Don't give up. My colleagues wife fell pregnant with their second child at 45. It wasn't planned. He became a father again at 53. I'm currently 43 and still hoping for a miracle. If you never meet someone, life is too short. Go travelling and explore the world.

[@xxpositivexxful]

@@Nina-ig2gv ❤️

[@ForMySoulSistas]

I like that she owned the fact that she lost her 30s in an off and on 11 year relationship and I'm glad that she had her daughter. She looks so young & inspiring!

[@bluediamond4895]

I get so annoyed when people tell older mothers this; “when the child grows up, won’t you be in your 70s?” These haters need to keep their mouths shut!

[@limejuice7467]

Lol you’re offended by facts. It’s selfish!

[@bluediamond4895]

Lime Juice you’re offended over the facts that it’s not selfish.

[@blessedbeauty5411]

@@ewatokarz577 It's a fact but it's actually none of the naysayers bussiness.

[@limejuice7467]

Blue Diamond what facts? The only fact is that it’s selfish. Everyone who I know who had older parents are resentful. In a few years time, these kids will grow up and be able to tell their story. By then it’ll be too late. Adopt instead

[@bluediamond4895]

Lime Juice but if you don’t believe in it then don’t do it. I don’t think it’s selfish at all because I’ve read in the Bible that God gave old people children, so you have no right to judge. You just don’t the idea of women choosing to have children.

[@amethystflower8799]

My parents had me at 37, then my sister at 41. My father passed away at a normal age and now I am still relatively young without a father and picking up the pieces left of my mother. Even adults wish that they had parents around, not to take care of them as they would a child but to not miss the ones they love. When you lose you parents, its like losing a part of you. When someone lives to a ripe old age but loses their faculties and requires constant care it can be equally as devastating.

[@Sofiaemilyo]

amethyst flower thank you for this my mom had me at 41 and I’m 18 now growing up I would have that talk with friends saying oh how old are your parents , of course there’s we’re barely in early 30s which hurt me a lot but as I grew older I started to realize that what’s meant to be is meant to be meaning my parents are that age when they had me for a reason, because they had there life figured out financially stable and were honestly able to give me everything without any hesitation, I do have older brothers that’s why I was later in there life but thank you for this it’s a piece of my past but I know I’m not alone now ❤️❤️

[@superpowermarketing2932]

Being young doesn.t guarantee you.ll have a long life. My best friend died early and left her 2 sons here. She had them in her early 20s. She died when her kids were young and she was fairly young. You don.t know when someone.s going to die. I just saw that an 18 year old died of a heart attack. Just because parents are young doesn.t guarantee they.re going to live long.

[@sweetpie7919]

@@superpowermarketing2932 That's what I was thinking. People can die in their 20's just as easily as they can live to 100. You just don't know and you can't live your life comparing yourself to charts and graphs of what is normal or average. There is no guarantee.

[@spiderfrommars8701]

Same opinion.

[@satclass9632]

My mom had me at 47 my dad was 61 I am the youngest of 8.. I always felt that death would take them from me but my dad passed when I was 31 and my mom is still with me now that I’m 40.. I’m also expecting my first baby although I was told I had very few possibilities.. and it just happened naturally.. so I guess no one can force life or death only God..

[@lucybishop1694]

I was pregnant at 45 naturally,we tried for a month.. I know statistically it's not expected but I had my son with no problems and I know so many people who've had a baby in their forties naturally

[@stanleyhamilton1259]

i m 52 and my wife is 50..we are still trying to get a baby.u are so lucky happy for u iris.

[@autahassan143]

He is very legit reliable and fast. He helped my sister and my aunt get pregnant.

[@autahassan143]

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[@autahassan143]

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[@autahassan143]

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[@lindalentz5093]

Congratulations ! I had my first three babies in my twenties and thirties, then Twins at 38 and blessed again at 41. They’re all grown now. I still feel blessed every day 💕

[@jeccym8715]

Wooow👏👏👏👏👏❤

[@marywalsh2057]

And blessed you are. Well done.

[@lindseymohlman5922]

Honestly the fact that she had to wait so long to have a baby probably means that child is going to be loved so freaking much! I’m currently going through my first round of IVF, praying that it works, and I can attest that it is very hard. But I know that I am already in love with my future kids 😍🥰

[@yayachipmunk2393]

My mom had me at 38 and my sister at 40. I'm 26 now and I'm starting now to see her getting older, but she's still so active and young in spirit, much more than any of my friend's younger parents! The only worry I have is for her to have enough time and energy for my future children, I know she will be the best grandmother ever!!

[@miss_bhello7925]

This encourages me not to waste my time! (Not like I wanted to waste it in the first place...Lol). I’m 34, unmarried, but have wanted pretty much all my life to become a wife and mother. Just looking for God’s leading in who to marry, etc. But your message just sounded like my possible future kids talking, wanting me around for my grandkids. I already have similar thoughts about my own parents and grandparents who are getting older - I want my kids to be able to know them well. God bless!

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I Love Love .. u u Really I like u Am alone merry me ❤😍👫💑👪💏

[@bellebooth1741]

38 and 40 is still within the normal age range to have a baby.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

This age is best for merry Do you ❤❤😍👫👫 me 🌷🌷

[@GraceTheVA]

My mom had a hard time getting pregnant but she gave birth to me when she was 38. There is a 38 year gap between me and my mom but I am just proud of my parents for wanting to have kids and trying to have babies for a very long time before I was born and I am just so blessed for my parents! 🥺❤️

[@jennyhundle4]

I suffer from “Partial pregnancy”, which means that fetus never develop. I tried fertility medication ….but nothing happened. So I travel to carry on treatment in Mexico , based on tests the only choice was egg donation. It was not easy to take the decision, but today I’m happy because my child is 6 months ….it's a miracle!

[@taginefc3189]

We have to understand how much society gives us rules that may or may not be true.

[@PS-mv5gj]

My mom is 49 & looks mid thirties. People always ask if she’s my sister/cousin/friend.

[@exoticdamage5511]

lol my mom is 33 and I’m 15 lol And she look way more younger than me 😡😂👌

[@barbarabruce7648]

First child at 41 naturally and second at 44 naturally. Mum had me when she was 35 and my dad was 42. Mum recently passed away at 91 and my dad is going strong at 100. Healthy lifestyles contributed I'm sure. Tonnes of fruit and vegetables.

[@Seeker_of_sense]

Good genes as well. And you most likely inherited them and will be around for another 50 years.

[@barbarabruce7648]

@@Seeker_of_sense I hope so.😜🍎

[@elizabethrochellefeeljoy]

With tears in my eyes: thank you so much for posting this video. I'm 35, will be 36 in July and not even close to a family of my own..but this video makes me believe ANYTHING is possible. Again; I thank you

[@snowflower3456]

I'm 39 not even close to be married or pregnant...You are not alone hun💕

[@gagabuah]

Hi Elizabeth would you like to connect ... I would love to be friends . We have a lot in common and I would like us to be supportive of each other . Are you on instagram?

[@gioovannabp]

I’m 21 and my parents are 63. I’m crying so much right now because I wanna enjoy all the time that we have and stuff in life get in the way. One day I wanna have a family made out of love ❤️ like this one

[@andreaphang68]

life is not about a number or age there are so many young mothers who died before their babies even reach the age of one .

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I love kid I like u am single 👪👪❤❤❤❤😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@Србомбоница86]

@@andreaphang68 thats much easier,the worst is when you lose them or they get sick when you are a teen or in your 20s

[@billiehernandez1147]

I have twins at 51 and my baby at 53 same cycle I’m 57 now and loving it single mom now

[@alalharthy8019]

Hi! am also 51 and whant a baby like yuo what should i do ?is ivf taking your own eggs can you explain to me pls

[@bluediamond4895]

Billie Hernandez God is good to you. In this day in age allot of people live up to their 90s. We may live longer in the future.

[@Fitlover24]

Was is natural conception or with ivf or donor eggs, pls ur answer wud really help?

[@patriciav.1891]

Empathyall 24 donor eggs of course. It doesnt matter when you really want to be mother. Im 50 years old and im taking courage to do it as a single mother. I have doubts if i can handle it psysically and economically

[@pibly7784]

Oh wow.

[@staceybrown7328]

This is a beautiful reminder to all the older wanna be parents. Look at this woman’s story and feel positive. Don’t lose hope it can happen 🫶🏻