Fellas, Stop Arguing W/ Women.

[@ndleinahaystack]

I had a woman tell me that she doesn't care about the facts... smh

[@khodges2]

😂😂😂😂😂 she only cares about factual things when it comes to jobs & work.

[@twincitydezray]

that's the first time she probably told the truth

[@shombayburton3859]

A women told me “ All I care about is the facts” smh

[@denisefrazier1574]

FALSE! FALSE! & FALSE!!🤦🏾‍♀️(SMH) IT'S HOW YOU ARGUE WITH A WOMAN AND PERHAPS YOU SHOULD DATE WOMEN THAT ARE ON YOUR LEVEL???? GO DEEP BEFORE YOU LEAP!!! 😆 ALL WOMEN DON'T ARGUE THE SAME. SOUNDS LIKE YOU'RE DATING WHAT YOU LIKE NOT WHAT YOU NEED. 🤦🏾‍♀️(SMH)

[@denisefrazier1574]

THAT WASN'T A WOMEN LOOKS CAN BE DECEIVING! 🤦🏾‍♀️😂 THAT SOUNDS LIKE A LITTLE GIRL LOST AND THEIR AGE DO NOT APPLY.!😜 THESE TYPE OF WOMEN/GIRLS ALLOWS THEIR PAINFUL UPBRINGING TO RULE OVER THEM. NEVER TAKE THEM ON VACATION OR A 3 DAY ROAD TRIP. 😆ONLY DATE THEM IN THEIR ENVIRONMENT AND NEVER EVER INTRODUCED THEM TO YOURS..... GOOD LUCK WITH THAT! 👍🏾😆

[@dripdropsdetroit1465]

I told a girl she wasn't being logical once. She looked at me and said "I hate logic." 🤷🤣

[@TheyCallMe_TC]

😂😂😂😂she wild

[@andreburke6659]

I can appreciate this video because I kept falling into the same trap and ended up looking dumb

[@greezythumb]

Bro, a man can't argue with a woman because they don't deal in logic. They will say the most delusional shit that makes no sense nor are they trying to make sense. They are just trying to win the argument through any means necessary. Glad you see it now.

[@BigGreg]

Controlling is another word they like to use as well

[@brendenmingo6527]

Or narcissist

[@BigGreg]

@@brendenmingo6527 or toxic 😂

[@ejones7589]

Ohhh the projection and gaslighting is strong with a lot of women.

[@twincitydezray]

@@ejones7589 That's all they do

[@denisefrazier1574]

WEEEEL YOU ARE THE COMMON DENOMINATOR!?!?! IF EVERY WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE HAVE SAID YOU'RE POSSESS CONTROLLING & A NARCISSISTIC, PERHAPS YOU ARE???🤷🏾‍♀️ EVERY WOMAN CAN'T BE WRONG ABOUT YOU..... REMEMBER.!?!?.. PEOPLE CAN ONLY GO BY WHAT YOU SHOW THEM. . SOOOO LET PUT IT TO THE TEST!!! 🤔FOR THE NEXT 30 DAYS YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO ASK, SUGGEST OR CRITIQUE THE WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE🙂 NOOOO UNWANTED & UNSOLICITED ADVICE! NO NEGATIVE JUDGMENTS AGAINST HER PLEEEEASE. YOU MUST STAY OPTIMISTIC AND POSITIVE ENERGIES ONLY. A TRUE CONTROL FREAK WOULDN'T LAST 72 HOURS AND A TRUE NARCISSIST WOULDN'T EVEN ATTEMPT IT!!!🤣🤣🤣SOOOO,, GOOD LUCK WITH THAT! 😆👍🏾

[@melvinbritton5822]

That part about having to circle back to the main ORIGINAL point is FAAAAACTS

[@addyvvs2044]

They answer damn near every question with “it depends” and they think words have different definitions “depending” on who’s defining it. Objective truths are always situational to them.

[@JaySpoonn]

Bruh I just had conversation turn argument with my girl because of this exact reason. I was attempting to present my side with statistics and numbers! I even used the analogy that 2+2=4. She was like Oh yOu JuSt GoOglEd that...I tried to show her the facts, and she didn't want to see them. Not having a conversation based on logic just fucks with me..

[@kush7138]

It fucks with me as well. I'm still angry arguing with my mother on a topic and no matter how much logic I've spewed, she still tried to BS. So I've told her that she's right and that I'm not gonna share shit anymore.

[@JaySpoonn]

@@kush7138 Women naturally don't base their arguments in logic. They outright refute logic when presented. I'm gonna try my best to not even argue with them or present logical facts unless they're damn near begging me to. I lose brain cells every time

[@aircraftboy1648]

Don't argue with women they love drama.

[@ralphdrees4413]

“Yes I did just Google that, thank you for noticing. Please follow my leadership in the future before coming to me with your abject willful ignorance.”

[@quentindowney6109]

KZbin rapport talk vs report talk. Women have a lot of fluff in their communication. It’s how their brain is wired. Rapport talk really annoys me too. Just stick to logic goddamn

[@jacsmith9128]

Because most are children in their heads! No lies detected.

[@t.j.8518]

I don’t argue with nobody! There’s legitimately no point to argue with ppl😅

[@Zhembi]

“Mean, rude, good, bad” had me😂😂😂 nail on the head type

[@Hug_Me_02]

I win every argument that I get n2 with any female.............I walk tf away!!!

[@DaDonZanni-pd1tp]

Learned that ignore , block shut them down do not argue back ever

[@Hug_Me_02]

@@DaDonZanni-pd1tp U kno it!!

[@Renshai32]

Women's reality is shaped by their emotions. Which is how unhappy women affect the lives and happiness of other women. It's also how they are so easily manipulated by anyone who speaks to their emotions.

[@Skky_911]

Bro this is beyond accurate. This knowledge is worth more than a degree. Once you truly understand this concept it’s still kind of hard to apply because I always forget.. You can be having a great conversation and all of sudden they go robot on you. It’s like communicating with a brick wall.

[@Savage_Thinker]

Borg

[@jimybrooks9171]

I heard a woman say just because you can prove it doesn’t make it true 🤦‍♂️ 🤦‍♂️ 🤦‍♂️

[@warrengomez67]

She can kick rocks for all I care 😂🤣

[@JustTheColemans]

😂

[@alexcruz7719]

@@JustTheColemansSounds like Trump😂😂😂

[@michaelrich6334]

Especially BLAME They love using that to flip the any of conversation 🎉

[@MrColdwilliam]

Women will make you responsible for her feelings because its the easiest way to control you.

[@JoseRodriguez-en8bo]

This kid has to be a doctor, lawyer, something way up there cause he has such a great vocabulary and if you're still in school, stay there, your going to be someone kiddo

[@kingbucketz182]

What most men don’t realize is that you’re actually having 3 to 5 different arguments in one sitting. What typically happens is she’ll just keep moving the goalposts every time you make a valid point until she catches you on something.

[@skidfle]

Yeah

[@someonenew3547]

You nailed it. I call it the circle argument. If she does something that upset you and you let her know she'll bring up everything under the sun just to avoid accountability

[@skidfle]

@@someonenew3547 we’re just good like that 😁

[@ryhu5642]

Protect this man at all costs 😂

[@ballfondlercum]

@@someonenew3547 UPSET ? You let your woman see you being emotional ? You even admit it to her ? What a pathethic beta male !

[@russhruby1891]

Absolute truth here. Just walk away.

[@darenwilborn8774]

Argued with a zone manager and got me fired cause she didn't see facts and she hyped the WHOLE situation and another manager took it apond himself to fire me cause he was an absolute SIMP!!! smh not one person tried to rationalize...

[@Hybranicah]

As a female, communication with other females is hard and complex; because even if you do see the facts, your friends habits start to rub off on you.

[@keelanbrown7747]

Could absolutely not have been articulated better. The best expression of this topic I have seen to date

[@MrBobDobolina]

Yeah, I've finally started telling them that I don't argue with women and then just walking away. It's amazing how much more peaceful my life is now.

[@asdfdc1946]

u can't say that, because then you're a sexist for not arguing with her because of her gender.

[@neosenkge7589]

I watched the show you did with Oshay, subscribed to your channel immediately. Thank you for your honesty and knowledge. I'm listening and learning whilst unlearning.

[@AX-fx7ng]

Brilliant! Found your vid in Poor Mans podcast - Had to find yours.

[@edwardsherles54]

Bruh, even when they say they thinking..... they're really feeling

[@lollipoplawliet6762]

As a woman, I don’t claim those types of women lol my mother raised me to be logical, and I do my best to be despite being a very emotional person

[@alexmsc5753]

Thank you 🙏 please please spread that energy 😂

[@christopherm3807]

Oh really 🤔? Lol cuz I ALWAYS see some comment like this from a woman in this particular space and it's either oppositional, or the comment is full of obvious fake praise. So you're saying YOU aren't like this at all 🙄🤔? And do you believe the majority of women are this argumentive or not?

[@happentodie8776]

Well you're one of very few lovey ..

[@lollipoplawliet6762]

@@christopherm3807 In the sense where I manipulate the argument so I can be “right”? No I’m not like that at all. I don’t see straight through facts and pull past arguments and mistakes out of my ass so I can ‘win’. I actually particularly HATE fighting. I would rather step back (cause emotions obvi) and then come back to the issue later and solve it or come to a compromise. I also respect the opinions of my partner and other people in general, and I know that just because I disagree with someone about something doesn’t make THEM wrong. If my favorite color is purple and theirs is blue, they aren’t wrong for liking blue. As for if all women are like this? The majority of women I’ve personally met are indeed like this… however, I cannot speak for all women. Many women I’ve met on the internet are not, or at least seem not to be, like that.

[@sigmachadtrillioniare6372]

🤡

[@terencew7716]

FACTS > Feelings

[@tref3516]

Literally what I am going through bro

[@ikem__]

She don't like you or 4 😂

[@armakebeatz3236]

Maaaaan!!! THIS 🥷🏼 SPITTIN!!

[@boondockpaint]

It's amazing how my girlfriend can articulate a work assignment but when it comes to our relationship, it's cursing and yelling

[@ryandeffley7652]

Also social media and TikTok give them short attn spans and emotional A.D.D. where they change hour to hour. It really is crazy how all over the place they are now. 😂 Recently a woman in my life really wanted to see me today. But she also knows that I'm on a job and sleep deprived. So at the start of the day she said "I understand and you should focus on rest." I passed out and 5hrs later I see a few texts "Are you sure you don't want to see me today?" "I'm really excited from how good it is with you." So I respond with "Wow! I just slept 5hrs and don't even feel like it. So as much as I'd love to see you, I'm beyond exhausted!" That lead her trying to start an argument that I'm "uninterested" in her when she started off the day acting understanding and saying to rest. I laughed when I read it and went back to sleep. Will not respond to nonsense.

[@ahmorgan]

This is the same reason why they can't get past something like a man's height or will rationalize dating a jail bird dope fiend. The issue isn't that they do it, the issue is trying to rationalize their behavior through their feelings. Many times if you can get a woman to feel anything she will be interested, the worst thing you can be is boring which is insane to a man. We want a boring woman most of the time

[@dunkvondoom2392]

Every male should've learned this from at least middle school but some of them be like the females

[@PastTime777]

Rich Cooper just said the same thing.

[@calvinhoward2277]

😂 if you tell a woman that you don't like a certain food or a certain subject Karma she always preferred to you as being negative😂

[@kingbugg1149]

Snapped‼️ The accuracy🎯

[@AB-uc2dc]

Feelings over facts.

[@PicklesAndPizza]

I swear to god, I SAY THIS ALL THE TIME!!! Im not getting paid to debate so im good! 😂

[@BiblicalFlatEarth]

Truth. They distract when called out.

[@markusbanks7572]

So very true.. it actually hurts

[@thuglife7869]

“ You’re smart, I appreciate you” 😅

[@gypsyaspen1297]

Now he speaks well but he wasn't completely on point

[@metaLungiez]

@@gypsyaspen1297 What did he say that was inaccurate? He's described every argument I've ever had with women.

[@AmberLawliet71]

Why does this man keep popping up in my algorithm?

[@Boogie7910]

Facts. I still can't stop arguing with my woman though. I can't let her get away with not making sense or saying whatever she wants about me. I will argue with her until she's tired of arguing and then I'll stop till the next arugment lol

[@armakebeatz3236]

Wow! Are we related bc this is the same shit I be sayin! 😂

[@Wholisticandy]

Once they get away with it once they’ll try over and over again lol

[@ATPHardenedGamerOtaku1990]

I used to argue a lot w/my sisters about how women who live in poverty shouldn't have children they can't afford & I took so much heat from it like President Trump but I didn't care.

[@ak-loz]

😂 you right! I am curious to know how to get the point across to them to where they can hear it.

[@JT-cq7zo]

Well there are a few ways you can go about it but it's too much to type in a comment. To sum it all up, the main thing you're going to have to do is to figure out how to get her to look up to you. The women in my life are amazing to have around, bring me food, cooperative etc. because they look up to me and respect me. One other thing to remember as strange as this may sound is to always fight women with your actions, not your words. They will always win the battle with their mouth but believe me your actions can shut them right up

[@jermaineelliott2685]

Women understand consequences, not logic. They understand "I fucked up and now THIS is happening", they dont understand "Hes trying to tell me something".

[@alphie10]

​@@BigdaddyBmore87Im dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@alphie10]

​@@jermaineelliott2685facts.

[@Thievr]

You walk away

[@AGrumpyMonk]

He's being literal about the 2+2 part. Got into a argument with my mother about facts over feelings and she looked me dead in my eyes and said "It doesn't matter, if I feel something is some way you don't have the right or need to try and change my mind. If I feel like 2+2=5 let me believe that. Only I can change my mind." Now I will state this first, I absolutely love my mother and am grateful for all she's done but after that remark I couldn't look at her the same. And no she ain't some hood, ghetto, single mother queen. Educated married to my father for 35+ yrs, was always present in my upbringing never had a nani. I say all this just to point out it's ALL LEVELS of women the delusion doesn't skip over it has to be programmed out early on

[@Alaskanman]

Yes, I learned this in highschool when a female teacher made me and some random boys apologize to a kid who thought we were bullying him. It shocked us since we didn't even know the kid much and I've never talked to him. We explained and the teacher told us, "it doesn't matter, what matters is you all apologize to resolve this" all based on feels. It was insane and didn't make any sense

[@DannyBoyblue12]

Thank you bro

[@kaydeeascends]

Facts, forget them.. enjoy your time with them and get money.. purpose over pleasure..

[@George-pi1kf]

Snapple fact's WOW the truth

[@MarvLite27]

Excellent commentary from this wise young man.

[@emmurierosalie1076]

I have had conversations with men who communicate their logic the very same way; it's not just a woman tactic.

[@zacharysherry2910]

"It doesn't matter how much you evidence you present women with" drives home lol. Like a line backer

[@someonenew3547]

It makes me nuts when women will take a simple polite gesture and turn it into something it's not. Must be something in the female Gene

[@alphie10]

😂😂😂

[@Alaskanman]

It's definitely not worth arguing with women if they don't want to compromise. When I do end up dominating the argument on rare occasions, it sometimes ends up with them crying or they try to make it seem like you went too far. Doesn't feel good, it's lose lose. Don't argue with women who's only looking for drama

[@_fitdoc95_]

They always play the victim.. its pointless for real😂😂

[@ataneli4335]

Anyone show there girlfriend and she get mad and say "HES ALL FKIN SHIT" 😂

[@lootercris3478]

Caught myself having an argument with my girl about arguing😂😂😂 died laughing mid sentence when it finally hit me.😂😂😂

[@denverjohnson5640]

All facts no fiction

[@5t3v3zzzzzz]

Aint none of ya vids missed ...THANK U

[@WesleyNiman]

This is 100% accurate

[@overkill2006]

You can’t make this stuff up.🤷‍♂️💯

[@cubandvenci]

Definitely right

[@ChristopherLeeFragrances]

Stop trying to defeat your woman and listen

[@jorgearellano723]

Defeat? If its a fight it takes 2 to tango, and I'm not going to get punched around because it's my girlfriend/whatever, if she's wrong she's wrong and that's that. Not going to accept defeat because of pussy. Put these bitches in their place.

[@kalikels]

Just got into an argument with my lady 5 minutes ago. I was explaining to her facts, probabilities, and other concrete stuff about our situation but it didn't matter. She heard nothing and only focused on her feelings. Though they are not irrelevant they are misplaced. After about 45 minutes of arguing I just told her I'm done because when I try to speak about my feelings all of a sudden we're going in circles and I'm not hearing what she said because the only thing that matters is what she says. So I'm going to speak very very little, acknowledge her feelings and walk away.

[@armakebeatz3236]

Maaaan videos and comments like this is reassurin as hell! I be thinkin I’m the only one goin thru this bs but clearly it’s a pandemic with women 😐

[@runcamyt]

Every time. My lady instead of saying, "I feel like," she states her opinions as if they're irrefutable facts." 😂😂 So I say ok and follow the actual facts.

[@misterlove216]

You forgot that we get called a .narcissist

[@fireeye33]

not all women, we INTJ goes by logic and facts and detached from feelings

[@cain1830]

This man has just described so many who falls into that category, male and female. Sometimes, people should not say anything because they have so much hate manifested inside of them.

[@Majorhavoktv]

I think of a man and take away all accountability and reason.

[@MrHandyman1973]

My ex-girlfriend used to tell me that arguments were good and healthy for a relationship and then she proceeded to show me a ridiculous meme she found that showed a mathematical percentage about how long couples that argue stay together, compared to couples that don't argue stay together. I told her they are using the word "argue" incorrectly, it's not couples that ( argue ) that stay together, it's couples that have ( open healthy communication ) that stay together and yup you guessed it, we started arguing about it. I knew it was a trap, I should have just let it go. LoL.. 🤦😒😅

[@Kenny-Ross]

FACTS! You nailed it 👍🏼

[@mr.un.pop1]

Facts my brother.

[@blixasice]

My God this is spot on

[@mosesparada3867]

Point blank brilliant!!.. u can't communicate with a angry emotional woman... If u a Man u lose!!.. apply logic not emotion and keep ur composure.. win win

[@mrdirtslife2688]

Brother never try to win a argument against a women. You may have won the battle but you lose the war

[@Applleheead]

Men, if its really true that the women you're meeting are like this you need to broaden your world or your choices. Could be you're attracted to a type.

[@Candi_Clown]

As a women who has a dad who’s about making his opinions/feeling “facts” and a mom (and me) who’s about logic This isn’t entirely true, not all women are like this but I have met women who are.

[@calikeisha365]

And the comment is stated as if logic cannot be flawed or fallacious.

[@SwaggSkillz1992]

*This Brotha Just Spoke Truth!!!* Your Better off staying on your purpose, living your best life, and keeping Father GOD Almighty Close!!! Peace & Light family ☀️💯🕊️ *(Always Protect Your Energy)* 🔋

[@bemj75]

OMG this is so true😂😂😂😂😂😂!

[@omaral-sibai9170]

Dude speaking facts. For the longest time I would wonder why my girl is not comprehending the logic I'm speaking. Many times she made me doubt my own perception of reality. Then I thought about it and came to the conclusion that women exist in their own reality and it really is pointless to argue with them. If you are going to argue do not get to invested into the argument because at the end you will have exhausted so much energy and achieved nothing.

[@calikeisha365]

So what happens when you disagree with a man? Also have you ever hear flawed logic?

[@marcstsurin]

Very articulate brother 👊👊👊

[@sharpfamily4938]

Women will also use guilt and the silent treatment to blackmail you unto submisson when they don't want to be held accountable for something.

[@dunkvondoom2392]

?!, there's no way you should feel blackmailed, if someone is wrong with a attitude that person shouldn't matter to you

[@TheLifeOfKane]

He's low-key actually talking about Marxists 😂😂

[@Kenny-Ross]

He just described a child

[@jayhood7643]

Facts bro

[@humpbackwhale2913]

BRO YOU NEED TO ASK TO GET ON FRESH AND FIT TO EXPOSE THE PSYCHOLOGY OF THESE 304'S

[@wadek798]

Those ate facts 😂

[@sdot2007]

Brah u spittin

[@ejay1726]

I learned that a decade ago. I just walk away.

[@fructosecornsyrup5759]

I'm... pretty _factually_ certain this doesn't happen with all women. The only people this applies to are dysregulated individuals with no handle on their emotions--which, yes, happens to men too, much more than a lot of men would like to admit. It's called getting angry and yelling and punching walls. Dysregulation is the problem. How you address it is the problem. Not gender. If you want to mitigate conflict, approach the issue with calm voices, with "I" statements, avoid blame games, and offer to work with them in a way that will resolve the issue. This will help your partner understand you're not targeting them, that you love them genuinely and wish to work as a team. Also, guys, don't take relationship advice from morons like this. Ask an actual therapist that knows what they're talking about. 🙄 They'll most likely tell you the exact same thing I am.

[@calikeisha365]

It amazes how people have experienced all types of people in their life but now all of sudden if you have a phallus you’re the source of truth, wisdom and logic. Love your post!

[@jermaineelliott2685]

Actually he's correct and science supports this. Gender matters, biology matters, difference in brain structure matters. Women are more inclined to certain behaviors and tendencies because of their biological differences and vice versa. I understand that this may not be flattering, but women are more inclined to process stressful situation, such as arguments, emotionally. Which is why their goal tends to be "win" the argument, whereas men's goal is to reach a solution or a conclusion. Kinda like what we're doing now.

[@chiefbeef3587]

@jermaine you are trying to argue with women...you fell for it...again!

[@uhohhhsteven]

It’s amazing how people still don’t understand when they see a video that goes “Women do this” or “Men do this”, they don’t actually mean all men or all women. If it doesn’t apply to you, congrats! Move the fuck on lol

[@OmniSphinx]

​@jermaineelliott2685 Only guy with a brain. 💯

[@Valentino016]

500k looks so good

[@kenster67100]

Brother speaks facts

[@OdinTheGiant]

Women need to learn how to live in the real world. I told my girl I wanted to watch a show on Netflix and she fell asleep then said I should have not watched it without her..I said it's not my fault you fell asleep. She then proceeded to have a tantrum and I had to sleep upstairs...ive even been in an argument and said hey let's keep the peace im sorry about what I did let's have a good night...she shook my hand gave me a hug then proceeded to dump her feelings on me about the situation that was just resolved..im like we already moved on why are you still trying to argue let's keep the peace..but you don't understand my feelings...im like I can't because they are your feelings...fine idc about your feelings don't tell me about your job your family nothing idc about your feelings if you do t care about mine..like even trying to let her win and apologize isn't good enough she wants me to feel her feelings and I can't but I tell her her feelings are valid but they are YOUR feelings...woman are literally crazy

[@_fitdoc95_]

You just described my girlfriend😂😂 It ain’t easy mahn

[@lexogieoba3335]

Holy fuck my life

[@aguy559]

Option B: Remain single.

[@henrywylie4592]

always on point…

[@liannemarie2504]

I honestly run everything through my husband. I'm like a pitbull; I get angry or emotional and need to be reigned in. My husband is calm, cool, collected and intelligent and will always set me straight and help me see the logic I'm missing

[@gypsyaspen1297]

That's you an individual case. A lot of women have logic and motive and sentiment and men just have delusional ego

[@josephharalson9713]

And that’s how it’s supposed to be prayers to you and yo husband hopefully y’all have a very long and healthy marriage 🙌🏼💯

[@trentcooper2625]

Must be exhausting for him.

[@liannemarie2504]

@@trentcooper2625 apparently not🤷‍♀️. He chooses to spend all of his free time at home and even his family says I'm the only person he's ever really wanted to be around. Everyone has flaws but mine must not be that bad because he's chosen to be with me for 12 years

[@zack1610]

As long as you don’t direct it towards him there’s no issues

[@johnjohnson7006]

🤔 As a older well experienced married blk. male for quite some time now ‼️ I'll have to say he's spot on and to add insult to injury there'd be no way that he's speaking from any book whatsoever due to the fact that I myself being Old enough to be his parent I completely concur !!! 🤔🧐

[@ay_its_ya_boy_uhh]

im 18 and i only had a girlfriend like 1 time in my life and that was when i was a freshman and i was dating a senior girl and idk why but she always wanted to argue she loved me and i loved her but she always wanted to argue and it wasn't going well so i dumped her and it lasted until i was and that relationship lasted until i was a sophomore i dont know if my girlfriend was toxic or if i was but thanks for clearing this stuff up man this kinda makes some sense or at least helps me kinda understand women

[@cduone]

Truth nuggets dropped in this one.