How Women select Men (Natural Selection) - Jordan Peterson

[@wisemind6529]

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[@andersongomez636]

You analyze women behavior with the mind of a men in western free country with no war and famines! A large portion of women were force to sex in wars or sell by their familly and didn't produce reproduction differentiel of their genes cause of their choice !!! That's super important to notice 😱 !!!!!

[@roche4647]

@@andersongomez636 Please tell us the number for your "large portion of women were....." comment.

[@andersongomez636]

@@roche4647 my point isn't about numbers 🙄 My point is when you look at human societies before 20th century romantic love and woman choice of partner was not the way a large part of them worked.

[@roche4647]

@@andersongomez636 Thank your for admitting your comment "large portion of women were....." is another asinine exaggeration of the ignorant.

[@andersongomez636]

@@roche4647You talk about numbers but the numbers you mention just don't exist ! Have you watched the video ? How many times did he say :"or someting like that" with no numbers mentioned ! Ignorance is about not questioning and taking information like a robot ! What we know for sure is the fact that all human societies had tons of wars and conquests and women who survived and had viable descendants took the side of the winner not by choice and symmetric form had nothing to do with it. In addition to this since neolithic siblings were used to pick the husband for the teenage girls and again their choice had nothing to do with it. Even today Muslim Jew and Asian and African countries have the tradition of choosing the husband for the girls! This fact must have a long term effect in a way or another . Maybe women are more flexible with the physical choice of their partner compared to men and prefer psychological qualities like confidence, courage and commitment and can eventually fall in love with a men she didn't find attractive at the beginning? On an another side , you can say neolithic is just 20 k years ago and don't outweigh 200k of hunter-gather and women still rate attractiveness with their paleolithic brain? Who knows ?

[@tonidedik]

Legends say he’s still drawing triangles in the air.

[@nofurtherwest3474]

lmao

[@irrittt]

Cool story bro

[@nofurtherwest3474]

Came back to this comment. Made me lol again. thanks

[@g-dawgfanpage7086]

😂😂😂

[@wilfriedvomacka1783]

Illuminati $h1t

[@DrAdnan]

So I need bigger shoulders, more money, and more intelligence.

[@wheremyshekelsat1430]

Seems about right

[@blackbeltfinance4026]

Yes

[@kaisersozze3250]

lol

[@Gokhan1606]

@@LegendaryCS4 Do you know how many times a man hears these unicorn words from society yet they face with the exact opposite in real world. You don't. Why? Because you are probably a woman and you are taught to say like that. Men have to be better part of the humanity because they simply given the role of being it. Man are usually do not look into specific details of a woman, and there is some evolution based explanations to that, (lesser population of male due to fighting and hunting, causes one man to be have to impregnate multiple woman caused male to be less "picky" about the choice of woman) Woman on the other hand, by their nature, desirable by men. And they don't have the responsibility of providing. They are to stay at a safe place to raise kid. And the more general biological role of female is to make sure only the strong and capable men stays with the tribe so the whole society protects its stay. There is no need to hate Jordan Peterson, because he says the same thing, people that are usually hating him just defend their political agenda without thinking rationally and the media is mostly being super aggressive towards him. And when i say this, I'm not even living in NA, i could be considered "leftist" in the country that i am living, and the leftist people of the NA shows same behaviors with the right wing of where I'm living, and right wing of where I'm living is also have the Jihadic opinions. Being rational and thinking without political agenda is important when it comes to subject of genders. It can't be discussed without looking into history of living beings of the earth.

[@andrewsalazar98]

Basically

[@niteshbhatti9626]

If I had Jordan Peterson as my teacher, I'd never miss a class

[@seanvillanueva7583]

We'll get more than an A in class 🤣

[@watcherwlc53]

well but professors in evolutionary psychology have been lecturing on the same material for decades

[@athishnirup1815]

@@watcherwlc53 the way he explains it's just amazing he almost tells us like we can do anything

[@bjolly8924]

No doubt man this guy just lites me up, he gets it!!

[@KD400_]

@@watcherwlc53 it doesn't matter the way he explains it is phenomenal that's a skill in itself many teachers spew out repetitive nonsense and its gets extremely boring I always listen to Jordan because he mainly talks about the same topics like this I've listened to dozens and each time he explains it differently

[@kamalkumar7978]

Note:- 1. A woman feels secured-emotionally and socially with men who are built tall usually. 2. A woman feels secured- financially with men who are either rich or have a stable job. 3. A woman relates emotional and social security with her physical security. 4. When it comes to very good looking man, a woman takes his shyness as cuteness and his non-shyness as strongness. 5. A woman first look for physical security then emotional security and then social security.

[@TonyHernandez-wv5vi]

Jordan Peterson: Eat healthy, be lean and workout, work hard in your career, passion or business and have good social skills. Everyone in the Comments: sO Be GoOd loOkiNg aND bE RIcH.

[@csgo8614]

good looking and tall > being healthy and be lean

[@TonyHernandez-wv5vi]

cs go keep telling yourself that bud

[@dakshshah2972]

Only in a utopian world would someone not prefer Good looks.

[@SuperSetright]

@Schaden Freud ''you can be good looking, rich, and even physically powerful, and still be unattractive.'' Meaa..........nope.

[@babisbabinos8075]

@@SuperSetright Yes, without confidence and if you don't know how to handle weemen.

[@Romaboo680]

Step 1: Be attractive Me: Mission failed. We'll get em next time

[@tomi4717]

i actually laughed at this overused meme

[@XXxeveryonexXX]

Lol I read this out loud in a Russian accent. Omfg bruhh xD

[@Girl-di5dg]

😂😂😂in another life

[@oil1252]

Lmao

[@Dk-ie4te]

That's not true, You just need a good physique, proper fashion sense and great personality and it can be achieved,it's tough but not impossible. Been working on that myself and results are quite promising.

[@pokemonitishere202]

My father always tells me that never dump the one that loves you the most even if you don't love them because in the end you would be more happy with the people who love you the most than the one you love the most.

[@jamesprivet]

Good comment

[@chuckleslastlaugh4759]

I tell my kids the same thing.

[@andrzejsobanski6752]

@harvey sp If you risk much, then you win big, or you lose big. Some people would rather settle for less, especially if they know how low are their chances of winning.

[@nostalji93]

@harvey sp I consider to find someone who loves you passionately a win. A big one.^^

[@fishbuddy547]

You should marry someone you love. Love should be mutual, not one sided.

[@r.t.hannah9575]

Males are rated and chosen based on the degree to which they can positively influence the 'Physical Environment' around them. Indicators of this in the human domain are appearance (health, hygiene, and charisma), physical size (height and strength), and available resources (money and assets). Being able to positively influence their environment means they can acquire food, housing, allies, and create general order and stability. These things grant safety and protection. Probably the most important aspect to achieve this is having resources. This is probably why there are so many stereotypes about women chasing men with money. Women want men who can create a safe environment and bring stability into her life. This is logical. Especially in times of extreme vulnerability like during pregnancy, and when there are young children present. Women are rated and chosen based on the degree to which they can positively 'Influence and Add to the Social Environment.' Indicators of this in the human domain are Appearance (health, hygiene, and fitness) and caregiving (supportive, nurturing, peace-making and friendly). 'Adding to' the social environment is straightforward, able to have children. The burden to bear children has greatly influenced the shape of women's bodies over time and evolution has imbued men with a subconscious sense for what is suitable for childbearing. This is why the stereotypes about men only caring about looks persists. It's partly true. Being able to positively influence the social environment means they are good at managing varied and complex social situations which maximize the safety and reputation of the family and social unit. Men want women who can bear children and who can bring peace into their life. The most effective family units, in general, are those where a division of labor exists between the parents. Each party works to minimize the time the other must spend away from their primary role. If the father has a primary role for providing safety and stability, he must maximize his health markers and earnings potential. If the mother has a primary role of raising children and safeguarding the family's social wellbeing, she must maximize her health markers and home management abilities. Each role is determined by what they initially found attractive about the other. If the roles are reversed, that's okay. You would have a dynamic where the man was attracted to the woman for her ability to provide and the woman was attracted to him for his looks and skills in social navigation. I've personally never seen this. In modern times you usually see a woman working to provide while also being the primary caregiver in the home. Splitting one's energy between roles is probably very hard and probably why the rate of depression in women has been skyrocketing. Women are filling two roles. Humans did not evolve to do this.

[@timoniquec8737]

This is the comment right here. It needs more likes.

[@r.t.hannah9575]

@@timoniquec8737 to be fair, this video is 3 years old and I only just saw it a few days ago haha

[@bobibg4ever]

This could be a nice info guide if humanity was an mmo, like when chosing your class/gender lol ik i sound autistic but the terminology fits

[@r.t.hannah9575]

@@bobibg4ever haha I follow you! I think Jordan Peterson has actually said at one point that for some men, it might be beneficial for them to imagine themselves as game characters with stats that can be levelled up through various activities. These could be intelligence, charisma, social charm, strength, appearance, etc. Last year I needed to revitalize my health and appearance and I used this approach to "level up" my hygiene, clothing, and lose like 20lbs of fat.

[@bobibg4ever]

@@r.t.hannah9575 Awesome, i think to some degree ive looked to myself since i was young to a similar way of having pros and cons or lets say buffs/debuffs just like you said intelligence, charisma, strength and etc. lol. But ill also try to get it in my head like you've done with the level up system! It makes sense to have an effect, also gratz on losing them 10 kilos man

[@rishiraj0610]

According to my own opinion women choose men based on two criteria: 1) with whom she feels secured- emotionally, financially, socially etc. 2) with whom she can have fun in life.

[@rainbow9987]

Yes financially stable , that does not mean rich.

[@hilderenshof2476]

Yep you summed it up. 💯

[@hilderenshof2476]

I am actually going to screen shot this comment, because you seem to know better what I want then I know what I want. This is perfect and now I just need to remember this 😂

[@senatorpoopypants7182]

Those are literally the opposites of each other

[@senatorpoopypants7182]

@@hilderenshof2476 a shot for everytime ya say want

[@myviolinjourney7474]

How to pick up chicks with Jordan B. Peterson 😂😂

[@fabianh3343]

So you're saying women prefer elephant seals over men?

[@Stevethethird677]

@@fabianh3343 Absolutely!

[@ednan9]

Lol- why not, he goes for Pussy too with big words

[@sowhat...]

@@fabianh3343 no he's clearly saying how to catch chickens over women.

[@gezin82]

@@fabianh3343 Like elephant seals women like fat aggressive brutes, they flock to them in harems, the more fat and stinky the more women like them.

[@user-zq3rf7fs5g]

instructions unclear: my crush ignored me after I told her I was a beautiful butterfly

[@Yash-uo4jm]

🤣🤣🤣

[@sethglass8349]

Obviously you lacked symmetry.

[@geraldfrost4710]

She's a kitten. She lost interest because a spot on the wall suddenly became more interesting. While she's communing with the feline mother ship, flutter away and find a lady butterfly and make beautiful maggots together.

[@caralho5237]

@@geraldfrost4710 Beautiful, delightful maggots

[@geraldfrost4710]

@@caralho5237 Sometimes, in re reading my own comments, I can detect an alcohol content. This is one of them.

[@TheMyfanwy100]

I respect a man in the gym, it shows he’s a hard worker, and doesn’t let go of his goals easily, and also shows he doesn’t mind focusing on a particular goal, if it means that much to him.

[@emmanuelsonmabande1005]

This man looks physically stressed out trying to explain women. Awesome!

[@ayandanoxolo]

🤣🤣😭damn

[@shtroizn]

Show me one man who wouldn't be physically and mentally stressed out trying to explain women!

[@emmanuelsonmabande1005]

Udi Assaf :) :) lolzz

[@pujaribhargava7321]

So true

[@shubhamgautam9649]

🤣🤣

[@smoke4131]

The comments are so engaging i didn't pay attention to a single second of the video. Gotta watch it again.

[@yeetwchybaban]

I always do this

[@user-xz4ck8zs2u]

You're not missining anything

[@lisa_9845]

the comments are hilarious

[@renaldsunset]

Same 😂

[@SJ-cl4wq]

We are seriously now in a age where comment sections are becoming gold and posts are becoming not so important.Reason is simple. Author has experience of his own observation. Comment section has experiences of thousands of people.

[@wayneflint8077]

So basically, if your handsome, well built, High IQ and have money you've got it made. We all basically knew that didn't we.

[@Jackgritty28]

The trump card money✔💲

[@Jackgritty28]

@sagar rai Video games are childish✔🌈💲

[@0regret-l2s]

Imagine a world where girls likes you, just for your personality and also loves gaming, just imagine :(

[@0tto9]

That's called Social Psychology.

[@0tto9]

@@Jackgritty28 what are you talking about fool?

[@RedAlert3Uprising]

- So what do you do for a living? - I talk while drawing triangles in the air.

[@sterlthepearl1000]

Selling the dream, not building the dream.

[@libertyloveslife5602]

Thanks man oooh that made me 💩 my pants

[@excellenceinanimation960]

I can’t stop seeing it now lol

[@daKoenig]

I want this job

[@kieranfester3296]

This one deserves more like.

[@juggy_dc]

imagine him as your wing man

[@quantumvideoscz2052]

That would be... unreasonably funny to the extent of it being unbearable to everyone in our vicinity... But funny nonetheless.

[@mashedtomato2079]

@@quantumvideoscz2052 it's like sheldon Cooper from the bbt being your wingman.....

[@rutvin8763]

cringe

[@quantumvideoscz2052]

@@mashedtomato2079 I beg to differ. Jordan Peterson is an expert on human psyche, Sheldon is an expert on physics. One can persuade people, the other is often cosidered repulsive.

[@smith1008]

When he isnt acting all formal amd professor like i bet he would make a dope wingman

[@baptistic]

So to become an attractive female or male: stay healthy and evolve your ability to abstractly represent the physical and social world and act upon it. Fair enough.

[@greenapple306]

I mean all i gotta do is go to the gym, get a nice haircut and dress well.

[@greenapple306]

Daniel Robertson yeah true confidence is crucial

[@animeloverxX93]

So basically, you need to deceive and play pretend just so that someone from the opposite sex even acknowledges you. Great species we are. Meanwhile, I will go back humping body pillows with anime drawings on them.

[@user-zu1ix3yq2w]

Completely ignoring the genetic component, i see.

[@VkRmotorsport]

That only works on teens, when women get 20 or older they completely change their minds and seek for older mens with a good job/income often older than theirs

[@thedon2005]

1) look like a male model 2) be rich 3) profit.

[@boomerangsruckflug8513]

in case you don't want real love... but in case you want to be loved for who you are, you better just delete those videos.

[@CoolsBreeze]

Your equation is too complicated it should only be 1) be rich.

[@MPlain]

if you want a lie of a life ... yes.

[@seanbaker2577]

@Josas _ bingo

[@nick624179]

Just be a man

[@dancronin5691]

The primary objectives vary according to their biological compositions which express differently their selection processes. For males, they need to increase the chances of passing on their genetic material which statistically increases their chances of success when there are multiple viable mating options. Therefore traits are more common and not selectively narrowed. However, females select males based on orientations such as parental investment, kin selection, and resources allocation which are much more sophisticated processes to adapt. The best way to think about it is that females will choose males based on what they can empirically provide, whereas males select females based more on what they can pass down.

[@edamnaf9265]

bullshit. Women base it on money, looks and social standing. hypocrites.

[@luckyduckydaisyflower2344]

I wanted a pretty funny baby so I got with a handsome funny man..hard life for a while but my kid is amazing..I guess I select like a man lol..I knew what I was doing tho. I love my baby and her dad is a great dad. I could never hump soneone I wasn't attracted too..people scare me mating for fun with who ever. Yikes..oh I guess that was femme thought 🤔

[@StarrySkies9888]

If a woman chooses you for money or other superficial things then her love is conditional and she will probably leave if she finds better.

[@justinrogers9010]

Our selection method is to the woman who says yes.

[@ortizj212]

Complexity simplified

[@ignoratiodebibiware4295]

@@ortizj212 thats sad and weak

[@AnuragSingh-hz4pn]

he has cracked the code

[@werbinich7908]

if you are patheicilly desperate yes

[@justinrogers9010]

@Rich Stepanenko Everything's going to be ok. You'll feel better tomorrow.

[@TheDedloc]

ahhh the lengths we men go to, to figure out women lol

[@mirlindbacaj4157]

He's just frustrating himself. Chicks dig muscles and cash flow.

[@bluebeatle3606]

@@mirlindbacaj4157 which are the indications of good health and power, basically what JBP was saying

[@mirlindbacaj4157]

@@bluebeatle3606 It takes him five minutes to say that. I did it in less than ten seconds.

[@RMGWOO]

@@mirlindbacaj4157 No. You did not. You identified a surface layer of what's being discussed. Without depth these things can be and often are misunderstood. There are men who believe that cash and muscles are what attract women, and not what cash and muscles are indicators of. The people who look at as simplistically as yourself are people who do not understand why these things can be true, and certainly don't understand it when they aren't true. This shallow view of things also leads to resentment in rejected men who believe that women are 'only' interested in these materialistic things, and again, not what these things represent to a woman's instincts. For example, a woman can be attracted to a man for his looks and money. But when she finds out he's a conceited meathead who got his money from an inheritance or lottery ticket, she will start to see what she didn't see of him before, that he's a mannequin. He has no true depth of character. He's more vain than a woman, preoccupied with his own appearance. That shows insecurity. The effects of your good looks only continue to work on your woman if you're confident enough in them to not gaze into every mirror or shop window, scanning yourself for imperfections. She likes good looks, but she likes strength more. A pretty man who is stricken with anxiety over his prettiness might as well be a woman. Then what if he lost that money, he wouldn't be able to make it back again because he got it through chance. It's the things therefore that reside in character that women appreciate. The ability to make money is an indicator of intelligence and the ability to keep the family safe and cared for, so that they won't suffer. Looks are great, it means pretty kids and a fun time making those kids, but if his looks give him a weak character, then she won't respect him. A woman can't get aroused for someone she doesn't respect, same as a man can't get aroused for a woman who has the opposite characteristics of what he finds sexually appealing. Again, your simplistic view is worthless. You haven't covered anything succinctly.

[@mirlindbacaj4157]

@@RMGWOO Do you have a female partner?

[@Fjerid]

“Both gender”? Excuse me did he just assume we only have TWO genders??! Oh wait we do.

[@wrestlingplusboxing4770]

Facts 😏

[@sparksfly6149]

Oof

[@CollegeDroputPowerpoints]

Hey bicycles are people too

[@bornamilakovic9372]

Nice one

[@cigankov]

biologically we do

[@KlystiEvangelist]

Women hang out at the finish line and pick the winners 🏆

[@willsal7806]

So you need a psychology professor with a Phd to try and understand women.. Damn.. 😅😅

[@IamRanJos]

Not even God can understand women

[@danielrgoldman341]

@@IamRanJos goddamn, chill man 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@blablabla55555]

You know, for us girls, you guys are a mystery too😁

[@chadwaldron6329]

I could gave told you that? What? You know, that!

[@doom-driveneap4569]

Don’t try and understand women; Women understand women and they hate each other.

[@BaoNguyen-ti5og]

when I have to explain why my crush doesn’t like me back

[@smoke4131]

@Adam Klement but the women is Asian too right ? So it should work

[@GreenDragon1234]

Adam Klement Dick

[@xsamsungg5735]

it's over for ricecels

[@BigbossEssential]

@the spaceman spitting truth

[@sass174]

@@xsamsungg5735 bro stfu with your doomer blackpill bs. Go outside

[@galaxytraveler5779]

im 34 and yet to be 'selected' 😂

[@jackstarling1895]

GalaxyTraveler look up Julien blanc enough said

[@amanofcultur9903]

Don't worry mate

[@dieter2008]

Its over

[@Jesseeps20]

Get a dating app man, it’s definitely not late especially for your generation

[@workingshlub8861]

consider yourself lucky...work on yourself dont worry about woman...dangerous game these days with all this metoo false accusation bullshit.

[@dAvrilthebear]

The best thing about this video is the thumbnail that shows how a woman obviously selects Jordan Peterson. :)

[@benluu8323]

I think to be truly attractive, a man needs to have a sense of purpose in the world. To be kind to others and compassionate. To have a goal in life that contributes to society and to work towards that goal without hesitation. To not place women on a pedestal and to not see them a central purpose to life. As soon as you develop this mindset of not needing a woman, you can be truly happy and pleased with yourself, that you are a man of character, integrity and genuine sense of mission in life. I think this is what makes a man universally attractive.

[@flowerofash4439]

This might also answer the question of why women always want a man that doesn't want her, because those men already have purpose in life beyond that

[@thehuman2861]

I have these traits... And I'm okay to be alone.

[@thehuman2861]

@@flowerofash4439 it's human nature, it's not for just women but for everyone, the ones who don't care for you.. attract you, but this is just the case with the fake ones, the real ones only care about what are you inside... Your heart.

[@leorenthlei3186]

@Aftermath did.. did you actually read only the kindness part and ignore the rest of the message? You should focus on the main point cause it's true. Imagine the passionate people around you who have a strong value and a mission in life, either male or female. They are probably the most attractive people around, I can gurantee.

[@leorenthlei3186]

@Aftermath By no means, not a jerk.. but rather, not being a pushover is what's necessary. I got from your words that you've shown hints of romantic interests in a girl but wanted to know her first as friends, and when you developed romantic feelings and finally confessed, you might've probably been told you're just a friend. Depending on the times you interacted and how close you were with her, I presume it probably hurt a lot. (I could continue and write a whole essay on this but I'll get to the point now) The infatuative experience and drama left you sore and you have trust issues now with women and you feel that showing kindness, in all honesty, will end in your rejection again. Now, honestly, I want you to evaluate on the woman who wanted to remain friends with you. Was it about you or about her that the rejection happened? Was she someone who knew what kind of partner she wants or is she actually avoidant of intimacy when it was gonna end up in an actual relationship, or is she someone who is just really confused and with past issues in general? If you can answer these questions, then I gurantee a lot of things will clear up for you. You won't question your worth because the things people do to us is actually not because of what we are, but because of what they are. Now finally, be kind, not for a girl, but for yourself, for God, for your family and the wonderful things and people in the future 🎉

[@saigashotgun8219]

Long story short: we have to be healthy, rich, handsome and physically strong.

[@user-zu1ix3yq2w]

I don't think handsome conveys height, and i don't think height is really a subcategory of strength. You should add "tall" to your list. Most women are attracted to tall men. The only problem is everyone knows your height is completely out of your control unlike everything else in your list - unfortunately women are really attracted to it. so i don't think it's appropriate to group it under a category.

[@user-zu1ix3yq2w]

You could add other genetic factors like symmetry (except you can make yourself appear more symmetrical) but the majority don't have that problem. What is comparable to height?

[@user-zu1ix3yq2w]

Orthotropics.. yeah, I guess that's a good one. it'd generally be a good idea to breakdown the handsome category. Handsome's quite a broad word. A lot of beauty is affected by your development growing up as a child, knowing what makes someone beautiful is more useful in the hands of parents. Epigenetics isn't well understood.

[@FloweisPowerrr]

I ain't any of this

[@glavlhff5984]

The more shallow the woman or situation the more height has value.

[@MorojCraftPLAYS]

Journalist: Sir, why do you have a harem of elephant seals? Me: So it all started with me cleaning my room.....

[@inkeduchiha851]

I see what you did there!🔥

[@colinogorman8279]

😂

[@jajupa78]

Someone's been paying attention

[@DivingHawker]

It's because of the lobsters!

[@deepalib3096]

So much thought goes into selecting a partner!. .. But sometimes things go wrong, even after carefully selecting a partner...!

[@durgaprasad-bo4zx]

It's all about Power Dominance Status Confident Competitive Physical strength and structure Symmetry Health & Energy Attractive Personality

[@THEINFERNOKID]

Yea, hasn't it always been like that.

[@fynn6282]

I think it's more about what one another makes each other feel like

[@zxvats]

फक 😑😑

[@isaorozco778]

Rosa ... Exactly I’m usually attracted to the smart, (nerdy type)... 😂 I’m quite surprised too how confident these men can be ❤️

[@jokeyboy1450]

Basically a GOD

[@PolakNaZAWSZE95]

Will you marry me? Y€$!!!!!!!

[@aplausos2]

Ha ha lmfao ha ha thanks, you made my day 😁

[@donaldfewell9929]

lol

[@DJ-ij2sy]

No women have 2 or more sugar daddies. A husband would only get in the way.

[@UniDeathRaven]

lmao, so funny how you wrote that

[@joelrojas1236]

LOL....genius

[@solluna1919]

Seems like women are better at choosing who they need. And men, such as myself, are more prone to choose what they want. This is extremely generalized mind you.

[@williammagnusson3412]

There is some very deep truth to that idea i believe, sounds right in my opinion.

[@djayt1215]

How do you know that what you want isn't driven by what you need?

[@ZuberiGaming]

What, no? Most women fall for the adventurous, bad guy alpha male who can't provide for the family and then complaining later how bad men are. They want all the rights on abortion on their side but don't want to take the responsibility alone later when the gigolo leaves for a younger, hotter female so other men have to pay through tax money for child support.

[@solluna1919]

@Matt Edge lol this genius said im being very vague mind you. Life tends to flips back and forth.

[@solluna1919]

@Matt Edge what is written is very clear. Are you thinking clearly?

[@thienhoang1001]

This guy literally said: "to be a useful participant in the process of having children"..... lmaoo

[@shivanshanand8818]

@@living4adrenaline He's talking about the inherent biases any creature upholds. Even if reproduction isn't our primary motive, our mind is hardwired to get attracted to someone who is actually more physically symmetrical and well-built. That was what his point was.

[@living4adrenaline]

@@shivanshanand8818 The trick is to wife someone less attractive than you.

[@shivanshanand8818]

@@living4adrenaline well you can do that and become an outlier, not an issue. No one is taking about what should one do on individual basis. The main point is just to highlight how biases of the majority work on the basis of past research and studies. Obviously, there's no method out their to model an individual's behaviour with pin point precision. All we can talk about is outcomes of studies in an controlled environment.

[@jackmorgan1677]

Peterson is too much focused on the traditional thing of getting married and having children. Many of us do not want that. Too much work, too expensive and sometimes we know of ourselves that we are not suited to that kind of thing. According to Peterson your life is then 'wasted', and you're 'unproductive'. People have to find their own life, and guys like Peterson and his opinions can get stuffed.

[@shivanshanand8818]

@@jackmorgan1677 he never said that it's unhealthy to live a life without marriage and having kids. He always said that if you want to get outstanding outcomes you have to be not agreeable, live a life without family or children. He even said to an female interviewer that good for you if you are doing amazing at the cost of not having a family and stuff. All he ever said was our mind is usually hardwired to live a social life with family and children and sacrificing those will have some emotional ramifications on us . All he ever said was the human race was always conditioned to live in a particular manner. If you want to get out of that construct then good for you, no one's stopping you and no one should and it's not unhealthy either.

[@medsaib9149]

I actually got more infos and points of view from the comments than the actual video..

[@medsaib9149]

@Sam A3 yeah for real

Everything this man is saying in this video is completely wrong. There are rich, healthy, high-class men who have every materialistic possession of their dreams, but, they can't even get a date. I have learned from experience that women don't give a DAMN if the man has model looks and money. I have seen drop-dead-gorgeous model women with men who look like homeless scumbags. The ONLY thing on Earth that women care about is a man that has extremely advanced 'Social Game'. That is the end of it. There is no other answer, at all. STOP listening to naïve people who try to tell you that you need to look a certain way, or have certain looks. There is only ONE answer in the entire Universe: 'Advanced Social Skills'.

[@haydz5]

Ngl me too 🤣 it’s a god damn shit storm though

[@slickdickdaddy]

@ Usually good looking rich people have good social skills you dumb a** I know this for a fact because I am a salesman

@@slickdickdaddy You don't know shit about what you're talking about, because, you don't understand psychology. Just because you are a sales person means absolutely nothing. What matters is what influences the person had as a child, while they were growing up. There are TONS of good-looking successful people who have absolutely no social skills whatsoever.

[@peatear42]

Out of the 1.9 million MEN who watched this; 70% of it are insecure teens, 28% are worried mid 30’s men, and 2% are just here because of the cute woman on the thumbnail.

[@SJ-jq2rt]

Thankyou!!!!

[@n.sadequi4381]

Id say most of the men here are in their 20s. In your 30s it should get easier or not depending on your money

[@nobody-yh2bf]

2%? Guess im special.

[@delq]

Take my like

[@IBlCrI]

no 20 year old here for anything other than the cutie in the thumbnail

[@amandizzle3811]

Men, don't change yourself for a woman. change yourself for you and you'll find them flocking :)

[@khaledalaswad9734]

Well, I worked on myself hard in the past few years! I went to the college again studying mechanical engineering, in addition to English, Arabic and french I learned German fluently but I don't have much money and i'm still single.

[@AntiJihadi]

This is exactly my ex gf told me to get me doing things I didnt wanna do for myself so at the end of it, it was all for her.... Ofcourse we broke off, she is punishing someone else right now probably....hehehhehe.....

[@Kampsy]

Deep Sarkar keep your head up king. You’ll find the right one who will accept you for who you are, and who will stay strong by your side with whatever you decide to do

[@amandizzle3811]

@@khaledalaswad9734 That's badass

[@razer0072073]

Biggest load of bs what a blue pilled comment, you're coping if a guy takes this seriously. Tell us more how you'd date a guy who comes below your shoulders me and you both know and majority of women want a guy thats taller than them not because he has an amazing personality lol

[@nehamotwani6477]

This man never deviates from bringing every part of human life and psyche to an extremely mechanical and rigidly logical generalized explanations.

[@samjam7546]

Generalized explanations of psyche...... AKA psychology....which is the subject of the class he's teaching......

[@nehamotwani6477]

@@samjam7546 explanations presented as facts, using nothing but rigorous reasoning, ignoring completely the diversity and differences of personal, social and contextual factors, is that what psychology is? Psychology is not a science to be pinned down to ultimate conclusions like this. As far as I can understand, Psychology is a dynamic study within a context. I hope you get my point.

[@september23rd923]

@@nehamotwani6477 your point doesn’t make sense

[@ChrisLee-yr7tz]

@@nehamotwani6477 We've been around on the Earth for 300k years being shaped by evolution, both natural and sexual selection and you want him to talk about the complexities of people and modern life over the last hundred odd years?

[@StephXX3]

I wasnt paying attention just reading comments when i hear jordan talking about elephant seals

[@BunpeiMiyabiShirato]

Same he started talking about the seals when I read your comment. Weird

[@amnanowl9423]

Wtf... Same

[@HowieGMusic]

same lmao

[@KSardor1]

This is great and all ... but first you gotta clean your damn room, bucko

[@taehan_]

Hahahah

[@farshimelt]

Don't invite her to your room.

[@kevinwendel3617]

Nope

[@leighwalton8190]

I've always found having a great sense of humour, attentiveness and kindness in a man to be very attractive, regardless of their size. Kindness is severely underrated.

[@paulflaubert7355]

I like kind women with massive mangoes

[@molnarcsaba3537]

Yeah, Yeah kindness,if as a men I am kind for some I look too shallow agreeable.

[@leilameow9582]

If a man is not kind and working on his personality to become a nicer person, I cannot be attracted to him.

[@catherinewilliams9680]

Not me. I'm a grabber, so he's got to have a butt you can bounce a quarter off of, broad well built shoulders and ears that stick out just slightly a la Will Smith.

[@azhuransmx126]

Too much kindness on men is dangerous because it can make a guy look a little week and that is the worse situation for the male gender. Friendzone assured.

[@chrisnewbury3793]

Power in all it's forms. Simple as that.

[@steved9189]

I've never had a problem attracting pretty women. What I've had a problem with is once I have them they want to control. It's a constant challenge. That's when the process really begins. She will test you until the end of time to make sure you're the man you say you are and appear to be. Women are attracted to stability. Her biological make up and psychological state will determine what that in her choices of men. The control is really up to us, some men just can't figure that out. They let their guard down and allow weakness to show. Once she senses weakness it opens her back up to be open to other prospects. Never allow a woman to gain the psychological upper hand on you or you'll be in for nothing but being her puppet. This doesn't mean be an asshole or jerk, this means maintain your composure and self respect. That's where your strength really shines.

[@tonypatricelli8408]

Sounds like bull shit

[@carysharp6026]

True. Thank u

[@steved9189]

@@tonypatricelli8408 you'll figure it out...or you won't.

[@عليقاسممحمدسلمان]

Touche

[@artyomarty391]

its ok to give a woman control but make sure you always have the ultimate control in that you can veto anything at any time if you wanted to Also, one easy way to be in control is to always have her know that you are always capable of leaving if she misbehaves. That is exactly how most women control men: men are scared that she might leave or stop loving him

[@churck2267]

So you're telling me adding some weight to my bench press will not do? :(

[@erikdekker1]

Just train and don't listen to people.

[@sammymacgee]

No, adding weight to your OHP will do.

[@xyx982]

Churck No u need money thats it.

[@FlyiiNG92]

😂 I dunno why I laughed

[@handrozo7158]

Add weight to your wallet brah

[@alextaylor29]

I read a study on this and in order women apparently look for the following, again note the order. 1. Good genes. (Symmetry, handsomeness, etc.) 2. Good producer (Income) 3. Good father 4. Good partner The key to all the above as a man is to maximize expression of all the above to the best of your ability. So for example a super good looking guy who is a millionaire and is great with kids and a great partner is at the highest level of attractiveness to women. The study goes on to say for men we typically just look for youth and beauty in women. Hope this helps.

[@Marko-gn8cg]

Bro i live this life for my self not others i dont give a fuck what woman wants. I Will give her what i want not what she needs. I aint changing myself for anibody. Sry for bad english. But thats my aditude

[@isaorozco778]

“We typically just look for youth and beauty in women” I’m definitely not dating a dumb ass who thinks this way lmao I need a man who likes challenges and can carry an intellectual conversation.. I definitely don’t want a Ken doll 😂

[@kishanchali8752]

There are guys who don't show any of those traits yet get beautiful girls.

[@rainbow9987]

It’s all subjective, at the end averyone finds someone

[@MrPhotonjockey]

Rainbow99 not true. There are people who never find a life partner.

[@AR2011Raptor]

I have seen people who have simpler minds truly find love in each other, and live/raise a beautiful family together. In the drive of intellectual curiosity, we are messing our Psychological structures and it will start to feel that no body deserves you or vise versa and start to live alone. Nothing wrong living alone but having physical intimacy on a non committal basis is still a relationship and that doesn't mean living alone. I understood that being sincere to oneself first is very important, working towards being simpler by appreciating life around us is the starting point.

[@iSuperMC]

I agree about us messing our brains up thinking too much and pondering every single thing trying to improve ourself and searching for something greater. The more realisations you make, the more you realise how pointless everything is and how little you feel in the grand scheme of things

[@deepanjan.sengupta]

But the problem is the people around you don’t see things with that lens of simplicity. The more you try to live and appreciate simplicity the more you will be pushed out of the entire social scene. All my younger years I have lived the life of appreciating this so-called simplicity and not really having put much thought into each and every matter - friendships, relationships, wealth and career, and suddenly realised I have lost out on many counts in this oblivion. So what Jordan Peterson says is definitely very very important and essential to live a life fully.

[@eliftr06]

I couldn't agree more!! You said what I was thinking. Just like we do with almost everything in our lives, we question things too much to the point of developing doubts on the simplest things. I also do that quite a lot of times but I try to raise my awareness about it.

[@Ghostrider-ul7xn]

"I've seen people who have simpler minds truly find love in each other, and live/raise a beautiful family together" Exactly. Its one of the reasons why marriages in developing countries are more successful than developed countries. Studies have also shown that in poorer countries, women value wealth more. The more developed the country, and subsequently the more financially independent women are, the more looks matter. People are more willing to compromise on each gender's flaws in developing countries whereas in developed countries women tend to be way more selective when it comes to looks. I've lived across many countries and I've found it to be true as well.

[@Rumour10]

true, I find women around me worthless and cringe

[@MrExtraFINESSEtrial]

"What we want isn't always what we need." FIND the 1 that appreciate! you in your entirety

[@farshimelt]

First, you have to show your "entirety" and nobody exposes those hidden parts until they are brought out by someone else.

[@boomerangsruckflug8513]

You name it.

[@thecollector5887]

This man is a Master Speaker. He can teach and we can learn a lot from him.

[@georgecostanza9751]

Step 1: Be good looking/rich/intelligent Step 2: Step 1

[@mpleandre]

Step 3: refer to step 1 and 2

[@ardhachandra6795]

@@mpleandre setp 4 : repeat step 1 but harder

[@ian20n]

Hahahah

[@mpleandre]

@@ardhachandra6795 Lol

[@ishechad5960]

🤣😂🤣

[@Jl-pi3wy]

Honest and being faithful more important than anything else

[@dfreiberg]

Should be.. but not in today's world.

[@Tywon]

Thanks! I've learned so much about elephant seals

[@843idfa]

3:05 That’s what I’ve been telling everybody, it’s not fat, it’s power!

[@MagicOfAM]

The worst thing that could happen to you is trying to be somebody else than who you are in order to be accepted by that person or the society itself and feeling just worthless without that acceptance. So here when we start to hide and do more than we are able to just out of the fear of not being accepted.

[@j5ahehim]

I relate too much to that!

[@j5ahehim]

I relate too much to that!

[@panda-crux.165]

Yeah the sad reality of the world.Just show who you are and be a better Person.

[@Somaye40]

Actually, as a woman I think women are looking for someone powerful to support them but at the same time someone who can give them enough love! And I think each woman defines it according to her ideas, her own abilities and experiences. For example, a large gap between intelligence is annoying or an affluent man without showing love is not attractive.

[@thefalloutkid13]

love is real. it’s very rare. but I’ve seen it

[@mrgraves2170]

Instructions unclear: put my date in a triangle choke hold and now she won’t answer my calls

[@TheRealHarsjan]

How to get laid. By Jordan B Peterson.

[@TheRealHarsjan]

@@OlleQuitte LOL

[@themayqueen666]

Well, he had 1 woman in his life and married her. So he isn't the best guy to tell others how to get laid. lel

[@kishananuraag]

@@themayqueen666 so you go ask guys who got more girlfriends? Jordan studied about masculinities and which way they work

[@princessponee7916]

Yet he looks like he never gets laid. The blind leading the blind.

[@seanbaker2577]

@@themayqueen666 nothing wrong with staying with one woman... Hence the reason most old bats end up lonely.

[@ivismartinez2542]

Economic independence ! Have been putting that into consideration in relation to women in rich countries and developing. Thanks Dr. and don’t let the bullies get to you., there’s lots of people behind you.

[@अण्वायुवरीवर्त]

Selection process of men Women : *exists* Men : hey, allow me to introduce myself, I'm a SIMP

[@chrise3801]

And the women damn well know it

[@snehachakrabarti.5092]

Woman won't even take him into notice

[@RedAlert3Uprising]

Average woman: sry i only go for the top 20% chads you 80 % simps good luck

[@mississipi1103]

Me, a woman : hello ! Nice to meet someo- Man : sorry I wasn't talking to you, you aren't enough pretty. Me wants Stacy .

[@tuglife5322]

whats simp?

[@wisemind6529]

Unfortunately, our society goes wrong way. Right now in Texas we have such case: Mom dresses six-year-old son as girl and preparing him for hormonal sterilization starting at age eight. Dad disagrees and may lose his son. Read more in the blog - jordanbpeterson.blogspot.com/2018/11/mom-dresses-six-year-old-son-as-girl.html

[@aceBOOM89]

Famous Show yes society is almost completely backwards at this point. We have lost touch with morals and god and Very soon we will have destroyed ourselves. thank the devil and his “good intentions” as they call it “equality” and political correctness.

[@zekesaldivar5660]

I guess james clark has never been to austin texas lol

[@GrammeStudio]

+Famous Show it's called sexual selection (not natural selection) in which it can be for the purposes of survival but in some cases in conflict to it. consider the long-tail widowbird. long tail is considered a detriment among the bird class. it highlights itself to predators. yet it's favorable to females. it's even more distinctive (natural vs sexual selection) considering aggressiveness in human modern culture is more disadvantageous than advantageous. it breeds disagreeableness among other things which impairs social cohesiveness among the individual and his peers and the advantages it offers are quite limited. yet it's a favorable sexual trait (supposedly) to female in certain context

[@igo0di]

Torture that woman to death

[@wilsonfromcastaway5743]

James Clark Its actually true the Dad stets up a website saying save james and a video was made about it

[@SamuelAlder]

my top 3 tips: have a sense of humour be brave/ courageous/ fight for what you truly believe in, in a peaceful way open your heart to true love. Boom!

[@redhatlt]

Good for finding friends and to get put into a friendzone. He is talking about getting laid basicly,and he is right.0

[@santoshkumar-mz2gj]

Put health and finance at top priority. Once u achieved it then u work for ur passion. That’s it. Now u are a beast.

[@charlesislaw]

Women look for the man that are the most capable for safety and provision... It can be physical, intelligence, Financial, political, social status, etc.

[@farshimelt]

And when they make a mistake, there's Hell to pay.

[@kwkfortythree39]

In their town or community, not in the whole world. That the not natural part of that natural selection of the title

[@kishanchali8752]

Wrong. I've seen plenty of guys who have nothing you mentioned yet have beautiful girlfriends.

[@charlesislaw]

@@kishanchali8752 "One mans trash is another mans treasure"

[@kishanchali8752]

@@charlesislaw Still not true. Some people get married to their first love.

[@thisguy7976]

Came here for the woman in the thumbnail. Left realizing it'll never happen.

[@ls1199]

Her name is Doutzen Kroes

[@beau6113]

hemlata saini you are a good man. Thank you.

[@ls1199]

Beau Bernier woman* but okay

[@lucienstephaneledan4211]

this guuuy !!!

[@idontlikemonkeys]

Life was easier in days of disco

[@GoodBaLIsTicS]

Still think social skills are at the top as far as finding a mate. A lot of my friends are well built, have money, and smart but they don’t know how to sell themselves to people. It’s like having a phenomenal product that no one knows about.

[@beautifulspirit7420]

Agreed, that's why in my own culture having really good social skills and being able to chat to women and make them laugh is considered essential. Looks are of course very important but you can also "laugh a woman into bed" with the right social skills. Its sad when good looking people are boring, but it gives hope to others! Charm is highly rated.

[@ESB6-u3t]

Health, personality, and potential are the three main things for me. They can be ugly as hell but if I feel good around them, they won't die in 5 years, and can make me better as I make them better then I'm all on-board. Height, looks, social standing, etc is whatever. Money is nice but not dying miserable and having a good stable couple for kids is more important! x)

[@ilqar887]

How do you know health?

[@juliorodriguez1634]

Attending a lecture with Dr. JP is like watching him exercise his extroverted thinking capacity while he’s having these abstract conversations with himself that we’re all privileged to listen in on them...

[@judsonklein3931]

I could not agree more. I tune in just to be baffled by the simple things it takes him like 10 minutes to say. Darwin wasn't this loquacious.

[@tmright18]

jezus christ i could listen to this dude all day .

[@ronaldmachado757]

Yes...he is addictive...most young fellers resonate at his frequency

[@myessyallyahamericus8405]

Mendoza was the best wingman I ever had . He was never jealous cause he was a confident man.

[@peterpumpkineater6958]

Now we have Tinder there's only one way women select men..."How tall are you?"

[@ayoubriyahi2770]

Its part of dominance ...

[@justinpurcell3717]

Not true... I'm 5'8 and got tons of matches when I had it, but I'm also ripped andd jacked so that helps.

[@Ekadvance]

@@justinpurcell3717 are you attractive to others?

[@stephenkolostyak4087]

@@justinpurcell3717 ripped and jacked? Oh my. George Takei just called and is asking if your calves are glazed in man sweat.

[@justinpurcell3717]

@Hamza Yousefp I have over a 400 wilks score (THAT IS NATIONAL LEVEL BTW)... 445 squat, 325 bench, and 595 deadlift and i'm sub 12% bf all natty. That picture is from 3 years ago

[@piratet0aster719]

I wish I had telepathic ability. So I've would able to understand more on sub-atomic level on what she needs or try to communicate. But for now only things I learn and know is/ Improvise. Adapt. Overcome

[@drthanosnair3227]

Undisputed 😌

[@danlightened]

Jordan just knows so much about every topic/concept, you can feel his urge to deviate from the current topic talk about the side note like every 10 seconds.

[@johncoll4456]

He seems disturbed to me.

[@DanSmeed]

1. Look like Brad Pitt. 2. Be economically rich. Most men: I'm fucked.

[@sergeyfilat4238]

No, Brad Pitt would fucked, because she divorce him for money

[@DrGru]

@@sergeyfilat4238 and move to the next victim who is more handsome and richer than Brad Pitt...Gold Digger lifestyle

[@johnwhodat8135]

Lol

[@freshprince69]

You forgot intelligence

[@sterlthepearl1000]

Just play the lottery more and maybe one day you might be economically rich. No one wins the lottery who doesn't play.

[@camdentucker2250]

Yep, they text 20 guys at the same time and destroy 19 guys emotional state by ghosting. Great fucking system we got here.

[@prumchhangsreng979]

@M R ?? How does that have anything to do with 20years dating 14years? He simply saying that girl is playing mind game with 19guy and actually only love one guy. I dun agree tho, its vary from person to person. Some men say woman is playing with their heart but they are the one who taking friendly gesture as a sign of romantic interest.

[@Mmmmkaaay]

I've been ghosted PLENTY by men. Make no mistake. It goes both ways.

[@emmakelly49]

Just women, huh?

[@heyhey439]

If being ghosted will destroy their emotional state, they are NOT ready to have a relationship or family. Plus most women do not have 20 men in their dms. You are talking about a small portion of very attractive women and of course she isn't going to pursue 20 men at once or split her time between them. How do you think the system should work, precisely?

[@jeri8853]

No one has mentioned good kisser!!!! At the drive in my future hubby and I kissed through a full two hour movie!!! 50 + years later I can truly say he was a great kisser.... sigh!!! Basically.... if she looks you in the eye and smiles frequently.... you have set a serious spark in her!!

[@paulflaubert7355]

How ironic.... his name is french and he took you to a drive in...could you not conect the dots

[@Allegro_Giusto]

It’s getting the girl in the same car to be able to get a kiss is the issue 😆

[@ryanbasilio9548]

In the end,Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You can't make someone like you,there has to be some mutual attraction/spark between two people.😉🤔

[@Napoleonwilson1973]

Ryan Basilio sadly no there is universal physical beauty, strong bone structure like high cheekbones, good jawline, clear skin and healthy head of hair, and not be too short

[@fidassino4611]

Brfić McBrfy I could meet the Victoria Secret model who would appear very attractive.. but if I had a chat with her and it felt wrong and we didnt have a spark then.. nothin will happen... thatsjust how I see it though

[@dylanm3181]

@@fidassino4611 this is exactly how I view love and relationships. I either click with her or I don't. I can't bring myself to kiss a girl which I don't find to be attractive. The chemistry has to be strong, along with the looks. My girlfriend instead said she chose me based on personality. So it really is different for each individual. You can't throw every man and woman into the same bracket. Love is not a science. It's something you feel inside. But it's true. There will always be those individual that will exploit those feelings for a personal gain. Nothing we can really do about it

[@fidassino4611]

Dylan M I agree

[@siemniak]

@@fidassino4611 yeah right....

[@l-n-s356]

Now a days its all just financially secure. Rest just follows. Most women will go for money but will later complain she's not loved. Being attractive and poor hadn't helped anyone either. As a guy u need to have or be 1. Financially secure/ stable 2. Be fit (being lean and good looking helps) 3. Have Game. Any guy could do it. Its just number 1 takes along time to achieve if your doing it alone and not family rich. All the best boys.

[@Mazeltof90]

There are rumours that mr Peterson can get lost for days in his amazingly large memory palace. Every time he looks up he is about to enter..

[@SuperBenette]

Let me finish that sentence for you- another SPHERE.

[@sterlthepearl1000]

And yet there is always someone else with more knowledge and experience.

[@stephendean2896]

I can't say anyone knows exactly what other side is looking for in a mate I do know this everyone falls in to certain groups. These groups are mainly based upon symmetry as long you truly know yourself thus knowing the group you belonging life then you will do fine If you over value your traits then you will be alone and have a string of always falling relationships This is the bad part of natural selection being so heavily dependent on symmetry if you where to go to groups below your symmetry you will find that most people in those groups would want to mate with you even at a very high cost to them even if it meant losing life long relationships like with parents and friend or To cheat on their mate or even leave compatibility long term mates People confuse mating with the idea that is love when one has nothing to do with the other One last point people who desire control above all other things often drop below their level of symmetry to pick mating partners who they can easily manipulate, then to bend their will to the point they don't exist as an individual any longer

[@schurik5851]

I just hate it how girls think we men have to amuse them , always have to keep up the chat. I was flirting with a girl at work, we was laughing a bit , talking , I just didn’t talked for 2 mins , just didn’t knew what to talk, or something, and the girl says: „cmon say something..“ and I was like.. „Am I your Entertainer?“ Sometimes we Men have to show Women limits again , or reality. It’s not our job to entertain them or being someone’s slave and try to please someone. Remember your Mans Energy : It’s mostly Women which really need us Men , they need somebody to protect them to give them that feel of security and some sort of Energy and so on.. Be yourself, be strong , try to keep your energy which you are wasting with porns and masturbating , do a bit sport, boxing ,fitness or something , read books, try to deal healthy with your fears and feelings. Build up something in your life either if it’s a resilient self confident Character and/or your Boxing/sport skills , or just the way you look at women and the world, and women is what will come automatically.

[@silentnature1079]

A real Woman doesn't need a man . Only problems being in a relationship with a man

[@AndrejKralovicSkipperio]

@@silentnature1079 the most depressed demographic in 15 years will be single mothers after 35 coz they prioritiezed career instead of family

[@originaleggsample]

@@silentnature1079 All woman need men A woman mind basically a male and sexually attracted to male intelligence because it is female.

[@khushbooshaikh613]

@@silentnature1079 sister I have been single for 8 years in order to focus on my careers problem is I love love I feel lonely sometimes horribly lonely......

[@khushbooshaikh613]

@@originaleggsample I as a woman agree that both men need women eachother problem. Arises when man wants to control everything I mean everything from money to sex to children to religion to perception and ALWAYS ALWAYS wants to be treated like a king.....that's when women stand up for them selves

[@toradoon]

When it come other people dr.jordan insight don't apply to them but when is my case dr l.peterson get it right everytime.

[@yahyah1453]

"Handsome, tall, and rich" full package get it now.

[@sterlthepearl1000]

See it as it is, not worse than it is. See it better than it is, make it the way you see it.

[@siddhantagrawal9926]

So basically, what he is trying to say is that he is the most attractive guy.

[@heidihomze8032]

Lol it’s true 😂

[@isaorozco778]

Yes

[@CaptainTrips]

He is!

[@normancook965]

You must show strength and you must show sensitivity - in that order.

[@anderson-gb8rp]

Put "tall and good looking" before all that. Fixed it, you're welcome.

[@ladysmith7747]

I am generally very attracted to a man who is able to express the beauty within him in his creativity (a gracefull dancer, makes beautiful gardens, a skillful and emotional musician, etc). As I watch him express himself through his creativity I am drawn to him.

[@ladysmith7747]

@@singlevideoofafoot5123 OMG! I am swooning already!

[@ladysmith7747]

@@singlevideoofafoot5123 LOL, I prefer dandelion tea. Do you live in the tropics too?

[@ladysmith7747]

@@singlevideoofafoot5123 If it weren`t for the age difference we could be feeding bromeliads worm tea, fermenting cacao and watching sunsets over the gulf of Nicoya, or making rock spirals through succulents spirals and greeting the sunrise with nopalitos con huevos. Why didn`t I meet you sooner?

[@pabrielgomez8563]

A person should be loved just the way they are.

[@shrutikumari5014]

Yeah but that doesn't mean that I would date a guy who takes drugs and alcohol and commits crimes People should be loved the way they are but they should be their version of themselves I can't marry someone who is irresponsible People should be themselves but they also need to take their responsibility in their own way So they should be loved theway they are only when the way they are is good for them as well for me

[@pabrielgomez8563]

@@shrutikumari5014 Ok.

[@ananyasingh5356]

Can someone link the full lecture? This is particularly fascinating

[@marricksinon2057]

Search jordan peterson personality lecture, Theres like 10 videos

[@AT-db9gu]

Na I'll just stick with my right hand

[@sleepygaming1777]

A T I’ll just stick with my left hand

[@G31M1]

I will stick to my harem consisting of my left and right hand. It’s boring only having fun with one and the other one getting all jealous and shit so I always make sure to mix it up a little.

[@silverleaf494]

Its doesn't judge and you can fart in the room without upsetting it

[@acecrocodile7699]

@@silverleaf494 does it mean that the left cheek of your ass gets jealous from the right when you fart from your ass?

[@isaorozco778]

A T .. lmao 😂 I’m sure you’re also sticking to your video games ... no hate here ok is a JOKE.. Gamers 🤙

[@Alekhine-lr9cp]

The only person who could match in speech levels with Dr. Manhattan

[@hivisboys]

Jordan Peterson v RSD Tyler v Dave Ramsey on Joe Rogan

[@silismo]

Lol i get the first two, but why Dave? 😂

[@The4Tifier]

So in short, focus on yourself, become as fit/smart/resourceful/“good” as possible, and the good women will come to you.

[@dg-qn5mi]

Exactly that - women love success above all, because success equates= power+money+status which in turn then subconsciously sends all the correct signals to females

[@dll7658]

Yes.

[@davidgoat6730]

IMO: Women tend to prefer rich men in positions of power with a strong work ethic and integrity and they also prefer men who have good relationship with their mother.

[@megja1812]

Exactly, most women want a deep connection. That’s why they went to work.

[@megja1812]

It’s like women think every guy wants the most beautiful women only, yes many do but some just want connection

[@arunsawdekar820]

I thought women hate Mama's boys

[@boomerangsruckflug8513]

@@megja1812 thanks Megan, one of the only intelligent comments here.

[@dg-qn5mi]

@@megja1812 wrong, it depends where the male lies on the social hierarchy, lower ranking males can't have their pick from the bunch, thus have to find other ways to feel connected as the physical is lacking - so it's a case to case analysis

[@xpicklepie]

@ 4:27 - JP speaks of men selecting each other for dominance hierarchy. I find this to be an underrated & important factor. Even if you're skilled, competent and physically fit, it will be a non-factor if you can't get a group of men to allow you into their 'tribe'. You see a lot of men who 'fit in' but are lacking skills/abilities of outsiders/misfits. (the unskilled brown-nosers who are seen as more valuable than those who're harder-working but not in the 'inner circle'.)

[@mahdyfo]

He has a pwerful imagination and sees something in the air which he struggles to describe what he sees for you.

[@assistantgardner637]

I guess he's a strong absract thinker.

[@BookofJob3XVII]

Human females are attracted to taller, stronger humans. Money matters but not as much as people think.

[@hrxmedia2635]

Exactly

[@Paul-ym9lr]

This is why I’m starting to lift weights. I’m working on my upper body. Losing as much fat as possible. Because females like that. Even tho some claim they don’t (denial) it’s subconscios. It’s innate.

[@renditioners]

Oh god don't even go there, it's wats inside, don't get on that trap fitness is addictive muscles only useful if u are an athlete,

[@Paul-ym9lr]

renditioners I am lol. I’m a track cyclist.

[@juliancordova9662]

@@Paul-ym9lr You should start working on the bank account first.

[@Paul-ym9lr]

Julian Cordova you’re probably right.. considering building muscle is expensive. Additionally that’s another trait women love in men. To provide. And if you have money then you can provide.

[@WiIdbiII]

No they don't. I'm short and fat , but I got all kinds of scams and gags to bang broads. Chick like fat guys.