How to raise successful women | Real Talk With my Mom!

[@parisadian2276]

Immigrant parents have sacrificed A LOT for their children's future and that's why they have such high expectations from their kids. Love your mom she's so sweet

[@MinhTran-ib8zx]

@@user-fj4pd1zx4s that’s not true. Do you realize how hard immigrants have to work to provide their children with better futures? There’s a reason why immigrants are the hardest working in America. They work the hardest jobs and try to give their children the best future they can. There’s a reason many immigrant’s children are very successful, because of the life their parents worked so hard to provide for them. Don’t make that generalization that immigrants don’t work hard, when they are the hardest workers ever.

[@Jyeah89]

yes. so many earn minimum wage, and don't buy nice things for themself. they don't eat out at restaurants, they do not order in, they do not travel, because of the minimum wage. i know so many like this. its a life of discipline, hardwork and saying no to immediate gratification.

[@parisadian2276]

@@user-fj4pd1zx4s Immigration is extremely hard. Learning a new language, moving away from your family, a new culture,...and yet you need to adjust yourself with a new pace in life.Now many move with kids,so have to focus on them rather than working 60 hrs a week.It's really one of those things that only people who went through it can understand.

[@parisadian2276]

@@user-fj4pd1zx4s I complete;y understand your point of view. Part of what you're saying is to take "responsibility"in life. Parents and kids no matter what they're going through. And that's correct.Parents can encourage their kids to become successful like Dr.Rabah or continue to have a minimum wage job for the rest of their lives. It's 100% their call. But immigrant parents do push their kids cause they think it's their "responsibility" they chose to bring their kids into this country :)

[@parisadian2276]

@@user-fj4pd1zx4s And please don't get me wrong. I'm 100% against emotionally blackmailing kids. but it doesn't seem like her mom did that, she was being supportive and encouraging to her kids:)

[@MariA-yr8kd]

As a Mexican immigrant, I completely understand. The standards were sky high and I'm grateful my parents saw the potential in me.

[@starry3991]

I come from an immigrant family as well and I believe that it’s very toxic for parents to say things like bringing a B grade home will not be accepted. Or any result other than an A is looked down upon. Some students struggle with grades despite working really hard and that’s how I was too as a student and the toxic Asian culture affected my mental health as well as my performance at school. There’s nothing wrong aiming for the best and doing your best but mocking a lower letter grade is not okay.

[@sonamm1137]

agree. I think it’s good to have high expectations if your child can handle it. For them to be struggling and depressed that they aren’t doing well is not okay.

[@rehabafridi3975]

She is amazing. What an elegant lady 🥰

[@Fifteenblades]

She truly is! Thank you for the kind words

[@Cpsc111]

Your mom is one classy lady. Thanks to her for sharing her parenting advice

[@Fifteenblades]

She sure is!

[@Dragondazee]

I belong to a conservative Pakistani family. My daughter just turned 6 and I hope n pray I can raise her the way your mama raised you, Dr.Rabah! Thank you so much for this video. Lots of prayers for you and your family ❤️

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you for the comment Wardah! Best wishes to you and your baby girl!

[@Islam-life-h5k]

She has a wonderful worldly life but ends up in haram relationship. So be careful about telling them the boundaries of islam.

[@noconnection5705]

@@Islam-life-h5k how do u know she had a haram relationship? Are u sure that his husband is not Muslim?

[@suzannaalhashlamon3028]

Growing up in Jordan I understand how much your mom fought for you against the conservative community for you to grow up as the successful woman you are, also the amount of trust she gave you!!! But it was all well deserved

[@Fifteenblades]

I cant thank her enough for all she has done for me!

[@gilbertromero928]

Hats off to your mom for setting the standards. The biggest thing that I took from this video is, as parents we have to do better. Better loving our children. More trust. And setting high expectations. Thank you, for the video! I am currently serving on my 17th year in the Army as an Active Duty Soldier and finishing my undergrad in Health and Science. I too, plan on taking the DAT this coming year and proceed to Dental School. Blessings!

[@Fifteenblades]

I agree! Thank you for all your hard work Gilbert. 17 years wow, amazing! Best of luck on your journey into dental school

[@gilbertromero928]

Thank you, Dr. Rabah!

[@Jerkinizdhehabit]

Tell her she did such a great job! She’s naturally charismatic & likable🥺💕 also she reminds me so much of my mom!

[@Fifteenblades]

She got comfortable quick!

[@anj7108]

I got goosebumps when she said “I trust you, don’t disappoint me” lol. Also, she is an amazing woman!❤️

[@seema9213]

MashAllah your mom is so beautiful inside and out! Thank you for taking your short time with her in Boston to share her with us and record this! She is a natural in front of the camera! And you are both inspirations mA! Now I see where Dr. Rabah gets some parts of the personality I see on her instagram from. All the best!

[@DonzellLampkins]

First, we absolutely LOVE your Mom!!!Your mother shared so much wisdom! It’s beautiful to see a mother instill excellence in her daughters at an early age! It makes sense that y’all all are bosses! And I love that she advice love and friendship because that’s the foundation for trust. Your mother is phenomenal. And I’m sure she’s very proud!

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Donzell! I hope I can have the same relationship with my kids one day! Thank you for your continued support of the channel!

[@DonzellLampkins]

@@Fifteenblades you are welcome! I’m so glad to be part of this community! Thank you for devoting time to produce and publish high quality videos, Dr. Rabah! Also, you and Chris will be awesome parents and your kids will have wonderful role models for parents, grandparents, and aunts!

[@Lela_Emily]

I really resonated with this video! I’ve always loved fashion, hair, and makeup and I’m in surgical tech school. I find it exhilarating to be able to do both and I’ve even sometimes worried like “am I worthy of this career in surgery” and I felt like this video just solidified and reminded me that it is not a disadvantage to be and do both lifestyles ❤️

[@Fifteenblades]

So so so glad to hear this Emily! This was the whole reason I started my blog in the first place! Keep being unapologetically YOU!

[@noursaghorchi1179]

I am teary eyed! Thank you for having your beautiful mama share her thoughts and advice! She did an amazing job raising you and your sisters. Love and friendship are truly what make all the difference.

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Nour ❤️

[@toddray275]

How Amazing you can tell she Poured All her Love into them! May they always recognize her devotion and pour their all into the next Generation.

[@alexandriasawin6809]

Your mom is so beautiful, funny, and amazing! Please thank her from us for having the courage to come on here and share with us. I can' t imagine how scary it is to be recorded for the first time speaking a second language. I am currently learning Spanish and I know how difficult it can be! Great video (:

[@Fifteenblades]

She is the best! Thanks so much for watching Alexandria! Learning a second language is never easy, best of luck learning spanish!

[@faiza98.]

You have such an amazing mother, MashaAllah! The world needs more mothers like her. May God bless you and your family

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Faizah! I appreciate you taking the time to watch the video and Im so glad to hear you enjoyed it!

[@stphxnia8070]

Your mom reminds me so much of my grandmother! She always pushes me to do my best and because of that I'm a Biotechnology and Pre-Medical undergraduate senior student, hoping to be accepted into medical school by January 2022. Keep posting videos like this, they serve as inspiration to many! 😍

[@Fifteenblades]

Best of luck on your journey to medical school Stephanie, Im sure your grandmother is proud of all your hard work!

[@sarahmateo8698]

I remember one time talking with my friends about our grades and how our parents reacted. My friends parents took them out for dinner,gave them money and even one of my friends got the new iPhone at that time. My Colombian mom told me good job but you can do better🤣🤣🤣

[@Fifteenblades]

I can definitely relate Sarah!!

[@Jen-lp8vs]

Amazing strong women! Your mom is incredible. She is beautiful on the inside and out. I hope I can raise our son with the wisdom she has with you all. Thank you for sharing her with us. ❤️ from 🇨🇦

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you for the kind comment Jen! Hope to share more in the future

[@mmkhali2]

More videos like this! You’re mom is a gem and you are so blessed to have her! I have two young preschoolers and this definitely gave me some insight moving forward! ❤

[@VyTran-tk8jq]

I really like her parenting's philosophy. Thank you for sharing!

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Vy!

[@TheCaribSpice]

Thank you for sharing. I'm from the Caribbean (born and bred) and migrated to the US. My parents are the same. They expect nothing but the best but they always allowed me to do me and pursue the things I like. I ended up being a chemistry teacher but I also advocate for health and fitness so folks are always questioning how I do both because they seem like a contradiction. My lifestyle never affected my ability to teach well. This video was refreshing.

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you for that insight! Happy that you found what sounds like a great work life balance!

[@fatemehb3166]

Your mom is very sweet , she truly is an elegant lady & considering the fact that her first language is Arabic, she spoke English very well, she is so lovely 😍❤

[@Fifteenblades]

I think she did a great job too! Thank you Fatemeh!

[@sairanztesse]

So nice to see your mom on this platform! She’s so soft-spoken and sweet. 💖

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Saira, hopefully I can share more of her in the future

[@flamingopink9]

God Bless - such a beautiful video with your Mom. I can relate to EVERYTHING and am so grateful for the tough love I got from my parents. Thank you for sharing this. :-)

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you!

[@karinamartinez4852]

You were 16 at Berkeley ! good for you !

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Karina

[@caymusic17]

I have two baby girls, a 1yr old and 3 yr old. I love them dearly! Obviously enough to admit I have so many questions on how to raise girls, how to be a good representation of a woman in front of them. Love this video and your Mom! Thank you!

[@ElonzaFernando]

I made my7 year old girl watch this❤️ your mom is truly inspiring

[@Fifteenblades]

Made me so happy to read this! Thank you Winok for sharing this with your girl, I hope you both enjoyed it. Best wishes to you and your family

[@Cuteseescosmo]

Your mom is lovely ☺️ she definitely got more comfortable as the video went on! I love how she trusted you at 16 and didn’t listen to everyone telling her not to send you. You should do an interview with her in Arabic so she can be more comfortable and nothing is lost in translation!

[@Fifteenblades]

We recorded a video in Arabic and will be releasing it soon!

[@nicainnewyoisey5476]

OmG i was so emotional listening this blogs about you mom.that its so sweet and smart regarding her advices and trust on you guys.

[@fadibenshadi7165]

I liked your mother a lot. She followed with you and your sisters the same raising strategy my mother followed with us ( me and my six brothers and sisters ). And all of us are very successful in life Alhamdo le Allah. Kind regards from Libya Dr. Rola and you have a new Libyan follower.

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you! Welcome to the channel!

[@hilariogarcia6652]

Such a cool Mom - Bless her! ❤️ Definitely would like to see a video on how to balance both dental life and activities

[@Fifteenblades]

Will add it to my to do list! Thank you Hilario!

[@RichAsher]

Beautiful mom and Beautiful daughter ❤ fall in love with ur mom🥰❤

[@RoneikaJennette]

Your mother is absolutely amazing and I really enjoyed watching this video. Very inspirational and motivational

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you so much for the kind words! she is the best!

[@Canned-coffee]

Your mom is so inspirational! I hope I can have the same kind of relationship with my future children 😊💕

[@Fifteenblades]

Thanks for the kind words Claudia! I feel very blessed for my relationship with her!

[@katherineortez]

My heart 🥺❤️😭😭 your mom is the absolute cutesttttt

[@ЕкатеринаСерикова-ф5з]

Well quite interesting way to interact with your own children :-) but I think the most important thing( it is my personal opinion) let your children know that you CAN be imperfect sometimes. But your mom is amazing.

[@thedentaldiaries]

This was so wholesome Mashallah, I couldn’t stop smiling throughout the whole video! 🤩 I relate so much to your upbringing as well (also being an immigrant with sisters only), especially the reaction to good grades 🤣 Inspirational as always 🥰

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you! Great to hear that you enjoyed the video so much < 3

[@ChuckD-lu5mb]

God Bless You Mom 😢 what a wonderful mother. May God give you divine health all the days of your life. Cheers From Sunny 😎 Warm Puerto Rico!

[@evediinebinitte2933]

I am a new immigrant , I am graduate doctor from my home country , preparing for my board exam and starting a family too , both you and your mother are inspiration to me .. please say hi to her from me

[@benjamindimitrov8729]

What a wonderful life story, totally agree with your mom, as an immigrant parent (mom) and from strict background I totally can relate to your story, did same for my 3 boys, B was not an option, made them cry at times but then they thank me saying actually it feels good to have A's, this beautiful woman did such a great job raising her daughters, love from Canada ....Anna used my husbands account : )

[@Fifteenblades]

Hi Anna! Thank you for your kind words, support, and sharing similar stories from your childhood - Best wishes to you and Anna!

[@jessicaserrano154]

Love this!!! Such a beautiful and sweet mother daughter duo

[@bashayeralzahrani8084]

First comment😍 Wish you all the best dr. Rola😍

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Bashayer!

[@cynthiamartinez2328]

Havent had a chance to see it in full but loveeee the topic of balance that you and your mom touched upon. Very important. All the best

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Cynthia! All the best to you as well

[@zk2385]

This reminded me so much of my mama. My parents immigrated from Pakistan to Germany and came from a conservative background. My mother has also raised three beautiful and successful daughters. I am the eldest one and just started my residency in vascular surgery.

[@Fifteenblades]

Zainab, congrats on starting residency. What a major accomplishment!

[@zk2385]

@@Fifteenblades Thank you so much Rola.

[@amandaeh5972]

Thanks for sharing this video, I'm glad KZbin recommended your video today :). I'd love to get your (or comment readers) thoughts on something. While it's brilliant to see how you and your siblings thrive, a lot of children are crippled (metaphorically) by the weight of high expectations of parents, and do not rise to the occasion as you and your siblings did. I am curious as to how you and your siblings navigated your own feelings around the weight of expectations (perhaps fear of consequence, disappointment, etc.), would you be able to share? Sometimes I wonder, is managing these expectations is a lot simpler for children who are intellectually/academically gifted or intrinsically smart; or what qualities from the parent/child dynamic determine actual success (as opposed to developing psychological trauma in the child).

[@tonirose2006]

Recently just discovered your channel, this video was beautiful! Your mom must be so proud of her daughters!!!

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Toni! Glad to hear you enjoyed the video and welcome to the channel!

[@selinaleewright5730]

this was so refreshing to see. Your mom should write a book

[@kitaro-g5u]

You have a great mom indeed.

[@katerinasfairytale5867]

what a beautiful mother. God bless her and you...what beautiful accomplishments for your mother to be proud of!

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you for the kind words Katerinas!

[@producTIMity]

Great job! Inspiring for aspiring mothers.

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Tim!

[@natalienoname5272]

I love your Mom. She is so right about balance in life social and Academic . I’m also from a conservative immigrant family.

[@allisonvanderstoel4954]

What a great conversation! Your mom is a saint! ♥️

[@naaravalles7338]

I loved this so much. This is amazing! Your mom is lovely

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Naara so glad to hear that you enjoyed the video!

[@hannahhj294]

So needed, I was like why am I so different and not messing around like others. Thanks!

[@Fifteenblades]

You are very welcome! glad you enjoyed

[@brittanyjohnson2911]

No, my daughters are perfect in everything. I laughed so hard at that statement. Love your mom!

[@DrSahaanaDentisTa]

Your mother is classy and very well spoke. But am I the only one who felt that this is controlling parenting when she said "nothing less than A+" this is how I was brought up too, and now when I look back I feel its very wrong. tell your kids, "its ok to fail, that's how you learn" not "u should always be the first one". not an hate, its just my point of view

[@Fifteenblades]

hi there! no hate taken! everyones situation is different and my moms methods might not work for everyone

[@didyharuno94]

your mom is amazing that's why u're such an incridible woman ❤❤ much from Algeria

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Hadil, I appreciate your kind words and support!

[@haifaabdulmajid4234]

Mashallah! True words of wisdom ❤️. You resemble ur mom💕

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Haifa!!

[@haifaabdulmajid4234]

Dr. Rola Rabah 😊❤️

[@liat2842]

Moms should raise kids in order to be happy, not successful. Success is a notion that comes later in life, during the first steps happiness and self respect are the most important. Success comes after and is not a high-priority (so as high grades at school). I think that is a better subject/title! Your mom looks adorable!

[@GhadaOthmani]

I have a lot of respect for your mom and for you. I have been raised the way your mom raised you and I am also a doctor now. However I would never do the same for my children. Telling your kid that getting and A is not an option beacause there's A+ is simply wrong, harmful and unhealthy. We love our parents but we have to admit that they are humans ans they make mistakes, one big mistake is judging your own kid by the marks he gets. We are raising humans, not robots. And sucess is not about how prestigious is the position you get to and how much money you make at the end of the month. Success is about what kind of human being you beacome.

[@GolgothanGrace]

very well stated!

[@datable]

If you're dumb just say that

[@AD-yl2yv]

This was SUPER insightful!

[@sweetbunny128]

I really appreciate this! I was always left to study and focus on that but I really wished I learned how to socialize more and take care of my appearance as a young lady

[@Fifteenblades]

Its all about finding a balance! You can do both!

[@akritiacharya4305]

love and regards to your mom!! everything she said makes so much sense.

[@mayaxss]

you and your mum are simply beautiful 😊

[@Fifteenblades]

So sweet of you Maja! Thank you

[@themousehouse.]

What a powerful video! Your mom is absolutely amazing!

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Karen!

[@SachchaiBhajan]

hello docter hi its me sagarparce from nepal at pokhara city. i so happy when i see your video,i am watching your video seen very long time,when i watching your video i am so happy and working my self so great your video like my power,so please make video upload so good too see you docter handsuptoo you you are the one who make my life happy so great please take care yourself have a good and great time docter

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you for the kind words and support Sagar!

[@Romansbook]

Your mom is so awesome!!! God bless!

[@unkown3136]

She is So honest i really like her your mother is Amazing MashaAllah

[@shoppppping]

Momma rabah is wonderful and so so so cute! Thank you for posting this :)

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Damini

[@cristinabrust8012]

Such inspiring women!! Definitely like mother like daughter

[@mohammedAlam1]

Masha Allah I became your subscriber and your mom is so inspirational

[@alaaeldirdiri7261]

omg this video is just beyond incredible and valuable. Your mom is so freaking sweet MashAllah ♥️ Please do more videos. I'm definitely so intrigued to know more about you and your family ♥️😍

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Alaa! So glad to hear you found joy and value in this video. I hope to make more videos with her in the future!

[@heidigutierrezz]

I’m a first time mommy to a babygirl, she is one and this is such amazing advice ❤️ Thank you 🙏🏽

[@Fifteenblades]

Congrats on your new baby girl Heydy! Wishing you all the best in raising her

[@nievediaz6102]

Wow! Thank you so much for sharing this.

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you for watching!

[@jasminebaste848]

Love this and see part of my mom in her!!!

[@afzalammara5098]

Hi, could you ask her questions regarding how she made sure you are grounded and attached to your religion and culture?

[@ericshiel]

Love your mom! She did very well.

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Eric!

[@ashleydalstra4599]

I enjoyed this video SO much!!

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Ashley! So happy to hear

[@manalaltaf2338]

Dr Rola this is super relatable thankyouu for this💓

[@salehaabrahim1311]

Beyond every great woman Thera is a greatest woman 👩🏻‍⚕️♥️

[@jg1296]

Your mom is amazing! Such an amazing relationship :)

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you! I feel so fortunate to share this relationship with her

[@cardiacmyxoma4073]

She's adorable! She reminds me of my mother :)

[@shuvolinamukherjee6217]

She is such a sweetheart god bless your mom

[@mahnoormusharaf2199]

Love her accent the advices are so precious

[@mariaferreira7647]

Your mum she’s amazing lady , thank you for this lovely video 😘

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you!!

[@rehabafridi3975]

I do love your mom🥰

[@shivaniben9128]

WOW !!! Great

[@mariambachani656]

hello doctor this is so nice and soothing satisfying about teaching others daughter to do same .. as your mother wants to see you with high expectation unfortunately there are people like me maybe I was not good enough to take A HOME BACK but rather then making face my mother always pushes me to do more even when I failed... she never fail to motivate eme ALHAMDLLILAH TODAY FINAL YEAR DENTAL STUDENT MY AIM IS TO BE A SURGEON make more videos like that .. amazing literally... more power to u

[@Ale-en1tk]

Love you both! Amazing ,amazing ,amazing !

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Alexandra!

[@zohalarbabzada9654]

It was adorable that you were blushing when your mum was complimenting you

[@Fifteenblades]

I couldn't help it!

[@Karebare1234]

I am a Palestinian-Canadian with older parents who were most certainly raised in a very conservative family in Palestine, but I do not agree with setting my standards to getting " ALL A+'s and A's" ---all or nothing. Yes, school is a TOP priority and excellent grades are absolutely ESSENTIAL to succeed and further your education. BUT, I know many people who have gotten a mix of A's and B's and so on...and are successful Physicians, Pharmacists, Dentists, Lawyers, Engineers, Business people etc today in North America. I think we are human beings...and sometimes we come across a specific course or subject that we may struggle in. Regardless, I would not be disappointed or want to instil fear in my child if he/she makes a mistake in school or doesn't achieve that A+ on some occasions. That can create a lot of pressure and anxiety/stress for someone. I can also tell you..that when you go through the medical school admissions process...each Medical School has a LIMITED number of seats for the incoming class...and usually they get 1000's of applications....if they can only accept 500 students...then 500 will be denied admission and MANY of those students are those A+/A students. So, good grades are NOT the only key to success. There is work ethic, common sense (which I can tell you some medical professionals do not have), community involvement, critical thinking, emotional intelligence etc.. Anyways, just my thoughts.

[@ariannyag6]

Loved this video!!! Loved your mom❤

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you Arianny!

[@stefaniagubitta9137]

you both are gorgeous!!! thank you for this inspiring video 😍

[@Fifteenblades]

You are welcome Stefania, so glad to hear youve enjoyed it

[@rayahusami8468]

I loved everything about this video! Thank you for sharing with us 💓 ‏الله يخليكم لبعض

[@Fifteenblades]

Of course Raya, happy to hear you enjoyed the video!

[@Deba7777]

Very sweet!

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you! 😊

[@Hasanzaman2009]

Congratulations and respect to your mom ❤️❤️

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you hasan!

[@nefertiti-7330]

الله يخليها لكم 💗 تشبه فكر امي جداً .

[@Nour-gu2bp]

Omgggg soo cutttee ❤🥺🥺 you both are beautiful mashaalahh❤ and may allah bless your mom 🤍

[@Fifteenblades]

Thank you !!