Curiosity Call: Why Was Her Wedding Invitation Late?

[@maryann3820]

I think Grace has a lot of issues already and she blew this situation up in her head stressing over it so much. She needs to go to counseling to help her out with everything.

[@smidgelette]

I have to confess, listening to her having a little tantrum through the squeaky voice changer was really funny. What a total over reaction. She’s entitled to be a little upset that her friend doesn’t reciprocate friendship at the same level but she’s an adult. Know your place and keep your pity party to yourself. Be happy for your friend that you always thought so highly of. Be gracious, go to the wedding, thank them for inviting you, tell her she looks beautiful and wish them every happiness. Be an adult.

[@IamParalegal]

Maaan. I wasn’t invited to a friend’s wedding, and I thought we were super close. But, we’re still gonna give her a wedding present. Don’t hold grudges, instead build upon your current friendship or establish new ones. 🤔

[@DianeWilliamsCurvyGoddess]

This is why I don’t have very many friends. People compete and try to keep track where they are in comparison to others and complicate things. Just focus on the present and that you have friends to share moments. That’s it.

[@rayabayaya]

I Planning a wedding in pandemic is already stressful and the caller who is her "friend" is not helping but to add drama. Why there's always a friendzilla in all wedding who stir up drama. I wish all the best for the bride and groom.

[@nurserocky6159]

The problem here is communication. She isn’t a good friend like she thought she was which would be category 4 she’s probably category 6 or the bottom of 5. Which is fine unless you felt you were more of a friend but I personally would not have sent some coworkers friends (category 5) until I had more space due to this reason. She’s simply a coworker nothing more and that’s ok because we all have them but she considered her coworker more like a BFF.

[@gretasmadbeck1680]

I mean we aren't just talking about the bride and her friends and family....we are also talking about the groom and his friends and family. Some people have a lot of friends 🤷 You don't know how many long term or childhood friends she might have outside of work. I've never felt like I deserved an invite to any wedding. Invite lists can get seriously out of control.

[@Ipleadthefifth]

Exactly

[@MsJamrock86]

I think her issue was she thought she was a top tier friend and she got invited after other co workers. She probably thought she was on the same level as longtime friends. I wouldn't take it too seriously if i was her though

[@flohawkins1]

Grace needs to chill the f out. Good lord I've been on the b list I was literally told "we had some old relatives who couldn't travel do you want to come?". Was estatic we got invited and had a lovely time.

[@dorothytenute2710]

What an over-the-top reaction.

[@suzannadannaTARDIS]

I really hope Grace got some counseling to help her with that inability to judge close friendships and her extreme upset at this situation. I had a work coworker about 10 years ago that in our department of 10 people, the primary topic of conversation all day, every day was her upcoming wedding. Have at it, girl, I know you're excited. I was rather surprised that I got an invite to her bridal shower, but everyone in the office did. (can you say gift grab? I knew you could!) Someone didn't get the etiquette lesson that bridal shower invites should only go to the people invited to the wedding. Then I found out why - it was a POTLUCK bridal shower and it was based on one of Gordon Ramsay's cooking shows. I'm a massive cook and Steph KNEW that I'd bring something good. I made Arroz con pollo as a nod to the groom's culture (it was a Jack and Jill shower). After the shower, all talk about wedding invitations was done in whispers. One of our interns would show up to work at 7, I'd come in at 7:15 and the rest of the crew came between 8 and 10am. Steph came in late, left early and spent most of the day on her wedding stuff. Intern shares with upset expression that she heard Steph say that she wasn't inviting me to the wedding. Intern was raised knowing this basic wedding etiquette and is horrified that everyone else in the office got invited. I laughed and shared that this was a relief, as the only weddings I will attend nowadays are for people that I love - but I did like how Steph and her buddies were now keeping things hush hush, so I told the intern to please don't tell them that I really didn't WANT a wedding invitation. She smiled and agreed (The intern sent her regrets - clearly there was no tiers of invitees for Steph's wedding!). The Monday after the wedding was quite entertaining - they were all bashing Steph behind her back, then when Steph returned from her honeymoon, it was like hearing about a totally different wedding.

[@lakeyawheeler1695]

Did we get an update on this episode.? If not someone please write in and ask for an Thursday update.

[@lilyxxxxx]

Davi was right on the money lol. Tara answered her questions with a lot of grace (no pun intended) lol, I would've done what bert said and not even answered because wtf.

[@dogsandcars202]

Man Davi had zero empathy for the girl lol

[@laurao8099]

For those of us who have friends out there who are not emotionally regulated and may have had very traumatic childhoods, the ending is definitely NOT a surprise

[@nessreview7249]

They are not friends they were just co workers. She said she couldn’t go because she’s not on the AList I agree with Tommy.

[@daceliajustice2359]

I think she couldn’t go because she was on the 2nd string

[@cheyennerenee9231]

This woman doesn't sound like somebody nice to be friends with lol Lord Have Mercy 🤣🤣🤣

[@There__there]

I'm a therapist- she needs therapy. This reaction is likely why she has difficulty with people in her world

[@s.holmes613]

Yeah she was to dramatic about that.

[@Rudy-oh9wc]

I couldn't wrap my head around her reaction.. I started thinking about why a person would react this way and came up with 3 possible scenarios. 1. She secretly was in love with the bride. 2. Unlikely but possible.. maybe the bride and her had a "thing" before. 3. She truly just misunderstood their friendship. Reaction was too dramatic for the answers she was given.

[@DianeWilliamsCurvyGoddess]

This is high school stuff.

[@JiroProject]

Omg is this real life? Get over it. But when she cried it made me laugh with joy

[@kathleenm6443]

Besides immediately family and one friend since 5th grade, I’d totally understand. Otherwise it would hurt my feelings, but I still wouldn’t get mad at any bride. She must not be married. It costs way too much money to invite everyone.

[@markanthonyreedjr6432]

Wow. She sounds lonely.

[@jeanniehaselwood450]

I had a friend which I thought she was my friend got married, known her since she was two years old she’s getting married She told me that our family was not allowed to go and she invited neighbors acquaintances, so how do you think my family and me were supposed to fill at least you were on the list and got cited to put your Cryan

[@ashleym.2981]

I understand the caller being upset, but she doesn’t need to be such an ahole about it. Caller needs to be more understanding of the bride’s choice. I had a very intimate wedding(50 guests). Caller would be surprised how fast those guests add up! At the end of the day, she DID get an invitation 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@derekyoung4637]

Waaaah waaaaah,im a babyyyy and everything is about me.😅😅😅

[@jeanniehaselwood450]

So that the one word at least you were on the list and got invited so put your bellyaching

[@christinamichelleee]

This woman has some serious issues. Not trying to be mean at all but she needs therapy for real. How can you be *THAT* off about the reality of a friendship?! The bride seems very calculated (not in a bad way) and strategic and that naturally spills over into every area of your life- so of course she is going to treat planning her wedding that way. I thought her system for inviting guests was really well thought about and from a place of empathy and kindness towards everyone. When I got married, my partner and I just named people who came to mind and wrote them down 🤣 too bad if you slipped our minds I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@edp6619]

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[@thebertshow]

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[@RB-sm3eu]

Wow It’s the bride and grooms day - not yours Grow up

[@teresaneumann8505]

Are you kidding? 😂 Oh sweetheart, you sound insufferable...

[@HannahNoBananuh]

Omg.. I love Davi... i just wanna stay home and watch RPDR too 💅🏼 lol That caller though.. I'm literally baffled at the level of self-centeredness she's achieved to throw a tantrum like that about receiving a wedding invitation later than the brides own family. 🤦🏻‍♀️ The caller needs to apologize to the bride for being so petty...especially since she declined to go. Smh

[@Rudy-oh9wc]

Bride should cut the caller off completely after hearing this. Incredibly irrational response to what were very informative and understandable answers to her questions.

[@HannahNoBananuh]

@@Rudy-oh9wc I totally agree. I've been on both the invite sender , and invitee sides of weddings , & her behavior is completely ridiculous either way.