finally being honest with you guys

[@sebgomez]

YES! So incredibly proud of you Jess! You are such an inspiration! So grateful to have you as a friend! Your strength and vulnerability will be a light for so many broken people who are watching this. God bless your soul!

[@jacky6632]

Sebastian Gomez that's true sebabbi!

[@kayladanielle5641]

would love to see you two do a podcast sometime!! 💖

[@emilygeorge6550]

Amen! God bless you, Sebastian, for being an inspiration and encouragement to our sweet Jess❤️❤️

[@emilyferguson9655]

U are a good man.

[@macarenavalenzuela7006]

THE TRUTH HAS NEVER BEEN MORE EVIDENT

[@LifeasaMommy]

Hi Jess! I recently got my residency after being married to my husband for three years. I as well thought it would be much faster but it’s truly such a long process. When we finally got our interview I was so so nervous but honestly it was so easy and the guy that interviewed us was so nice so I immediately got approved and one month later received my green card in the mail. It was the best feeling in the world. I haven’t seen my mom for nearly 7 years and I am finally going to be able to go back home and see her with my two daughters ❤️ I’ll be praying for you and truly hope you’re able to get your card soon 😊 till then stay positive, God always has a plan 💜

[@nisakhan1258]

Omg Abby replied!!

[@jenjohn17]

So it took you 7 years? Wow, I can imagine your joy when you received that email.

[@nasteyhassle8979]

Gods plan❤️❤️

[@nicolemichele8284]

My heart like really hurts for this sweet girl

[@DjKunra]

I'm going through this exact process right now. I'm an Australian citizen living in the U.S. and I'm so far from my family. I haven't seen any of your videos, but a friend of mine linked this to me because she watches you and said she cried because it made her think of me and everything I'm going through. I've lived out of home and overseas before, but it's just hard knowing you can't just go back to give your mum a hug. I'm lucky, too, that I have such a beautiful and supportive husband by my side every step and that my mum has the means to be able to visit. The process can feel so confusing and convoluted, and I totally understand the frustration with not knowing about the Advanced Parole, because I didn't know about that either until this video! I don't know if it's too late for me to apply for it, now but I really wish there was more information or someone to actually talk to about it, or someone to actually give you some tips and advice like "Hey gal, this is how this works, and did you know you can apply for this and be able to travel back home while working on your visa?" because that would be so amazing but there's almost nooothing. I've had my cries about it too, and it really does make you feel quite alone, not just because you're so far from everyone, but because it feels like you're flying blind through a storm. I want to make sure I'm doing everything right and everything I can to make it go faster, but there's pieces they don't even tell you that you have to do. Like my initial documents, nothing ever said I would need copies of my IDs and my birth certificate or a few extra forms, so I had to send those off later and it can be so confusing. I have no idea how long it's going to take, and you go in with the idea that you can just breeze through it because you have all your stuff together, only to find out you tooootally don't. At all haha Would so love to talk to any of you about it so we can give each other tips, or if you guys have any tips for me or somewhere or someone to talk to that could help, it'd be amazing to support each other and have someone who gets it to vent to. ♥

[@worldstop2512]

Who is here after she got her residency??? So happy for her

[@georgias4239]

i haven’t been like keeping on top of all of this so please can you explain what’s going on? thank you

[@worldstop2512]

georgia s okay ,sure !! Jess and Gabriel got married in 2017 , Gabriel is American 🇺🇸 and Jess is Australian 🇦🇺. When they got married jess started to live in the US with Gabriel . The problem was that jess didn’t have her residency, her US residency . It means like she still doesn’t have the US passport and she cant go back to AUS . Not only aus , she couldn’t travel to any other countries , just around the USA area .

[@georgias4239]

World Stop oh okay thank you! that makes more sense now! i watched episode one of them going home but i didn’t fully understand what was going on. i wasn’t sure why everyone was so excited but i guess it’s just great for her to go back home. sorry to bother you but what’s the interview? thank you for your help.

[@thechildofgodpodcast116]

Me too

[@melissaangeline19]

World Stop they got married on 2016 ( December 18 )

[@nicolemcandrew7426]

And now she has her residency! Honestly so happy for you Jess ! I prayed and prayed for you as I am sure all of your fans did 😍❤️

[@georgias4239]

Nicole Mcandrew i haven’t been like keeping on top of all of this so please can you explain what’s going on? thank you

[@LauraReidd]

So sorry to hear this that is super tough :( I've had a few friends who are going through the exact same situation as you who are recently married. Stay strong

[@TheAdventuresofJade]

“There is purpose in your season of waiting” ❤️

[@catlover4915]

The Adventures of Jade I really like this quote! Love it. ❤

[@TheAdventuresofJade]

catlover49 💜

[@jadajonesoldchannel]

The system is so messy. I wish you the best in this process Jess❤️ you most definitely will get to visit home soon! You’re so blessed to have Gabe to go through this time with you. We all support and love you so much girly!✨❤️

[@LoomGeek]

It sucks to stay away from such a loving family, a place you have and always will call home. But at least that loving family and comforting husband will be by your side just as us subscribers will be. All is thru faith xx

[@brendanchwascinski2310]

Yes it is😊😊

[@gracerobertson3542]

Milo just being so cute in the background mirror melted my heart ❤️ ☺️😍

[@ashleyanderson76]

I just want to say that it’s totally ok that you kept this private! Everybody has things that they need to keep to themselves for emotional reasons and please never feel guilty about keeping things private! Praying for you!

[@MissIndependant1995]

Jess you have NO. IDEA. How bad I needed this video. I am waiting to FaceTime my boyfriend who lives in Guatemala and I clicked on your video not expecting what you said. Once he finishes his law degree there, he plans on moving to the states and he’s been telling me a bit about the process and I’ve been like “ah yeah cool we’ll cross that bridge when we come to it” but this truly opened my eyes in so many ways. To me and my ignorance to this knowledge and also to him and what a transition he’ll be making and the sacrifice to follow... thank you. You may think you were just speaking into thin air but I heard you. Loud and clear and I want to truly say thank you. My boyfriend and I will be praying for your residency and I’d greatly appreciate the prayers in our journey too. You gave me something else to pray for. I love you!

[@chattywattypatty]

My mom waited two years for her green card. On the brightside your kids will be dual citizens of Australia and America 😊

[@johnnyasus86]

Does america support dial citizenship? Its a touchy subject in Australia, besides of you have the choice between Australia and America, you would be stupid to pick Australia at this point in time, that's coming from an Australian myself.

[@ellyh3187]

@@johnnyasus86 I'm not too sure why you'd be 'stupid' to pick Australia??

[@KristinJohnss]

Proud of you💛💛

[@lilystar5063]

Kristin Johns hi kris!

[@MonicaGartner]

I can feel this on some sort of level... I'm in a long distance relationship - we travel back and forth from New York to the UK and I've been kicked out of the UK before (for no reason!) The man at customs didn't like that we had to travel back and forth so much and ordered me to leave by a specific date. I never cried so much in my life, but we were able to overcome it! We still are doing long distance - it'll be 3 years this October! We can't wait till the day we get married and finish all the horrible applications etc. You got this girl!! :)

[@samanthaflores8954]

Reading this I knew I've heard this story before, then I realized its you, Monica lol. I love you and Sam. My boyfriend and I are also in a long distance relationship. You two, and Jess and Gabriel are our inspiration. Love you all guys ♥️

[@hafsahkhan5029]

Monica Gartner Heyyy Monica....I love u and Sam...I really want u guys to collab with jess an gabe

[@annieperrin3558]

omg heyYyyyYyYyy mon ly♥️

[@sweettreatsyt]

stay strong jess, you are so inspirational. we love you ❤️

[@rosieb2832]

SweetTreats you watch all of the people I️ watch like the Ballingers and the Contes.

[@ebbzeebabyy]

There's so many people commenting saying 'people have been away from their families longer or children have been separated from their parents' etc which is true but for Jess as she stated this is the worst SHE'S gone through. Telling other people while they're going through something that other people have had worse situations does absolutely nothing if someone has not experienced that before. Why do people always have to come back with well this this and this. I don't understand.

[@alyssatony3701]

exactly!!

[@nicolea5992]

Nah, she just needs a *big dose of perspective* to see that whats shes going through is not really a struggle. It's an inconvenience, not a "struggle". Ugh, white people want to be victims so badly.

[@maried.2331]

@@nicolea5992 Ha racism muchhh xD

[@amyterry4793]

@@maried.2331 Exactly!! There's always one in the group!! SMFH!!

[@xoxolovechristielynn]

Exactly! I have multiple autoimmune diseases and I’m ill and tired ALL.THE.TIME. But I have been told so many times, “At least you don’t have cancer.” Or “It could be worse, you could be alone and not have ANY support.” And while those things are true and I’m very grateful to not have a worse situation than I do, it doesn’t negate the fact that I struggle, A LOT. And it’s the worst that I know of or have experienced first hand so that is all I can base my feelings off of. People need to realize that it could always be worse, even someone who does have cancer might have it “better” than someone else. Jess still deserves compassion and I for one will be praying for her and her family.

[@damarisgarza7565]

So proud of you for sharing this. You were not obligated to do so, but your vulnerability is so beautiful. God knows your heart and I know this struggle first hand. This system is a mess but God is our judge and he will hand you your residency in his time! STAY STRONG. Conteam is praying for you🙏🏻❤️

[@jdrou]

Jess, my girlfriend and I are long distance and we actually met through social media. However, God has placed us where we are for a reason. She lives in Sweden and I live in the USA. Right now, we haven’t met yet but we are trusting God’s timing for when we will. This residency hasn’t happened for us yet either, however, I really needed this video because of your bible verse at the end. She and I have some little problems sometimes because of dumb things but it is 100x worse because of how far we are from each other, but we can’t let the devil win. I looked up Proverbs 3:5-6 in my Bible as I was praying and I read the verses before it too, Proverbs3:3-4. It talked about love, how we need to keep it strong and bind it in us. I really needed to hear that. I also prayed for you and Gabe, if you see this, thank you💕

[@blondie4lyfe245]

MPT aww you're the best!!

[@courtt444]

You got this! Here’s to all of us that are in a long distance relationship! Wishing the best

[@khushbakhtdurrani7768]

MPT God bless your and your girlfriend's relationship😊💕

[@eiraljungberg2618]

MPT my boyfriend is american and I’m from Sweden:) can’t wait to start out life together soon. I feel like the long distance really is a test to see how strong you two actually are and if you can go through this you can go through anything together:)

[@matildagoransson8493]

Wow this is so encouraging! My boyfriend is also from the USA and I’m from Sweden. And a week ago I had to go back to Sweden because of my visa. Didn’t know there was so many couples going through the same thing. Feels a bit better knowing that I’m not alone, we can do this long distance guys!! We’re here for each other to encourage and support ♥️

[@SavannahLewie]

Praying for peace and joy during this season. And for favor for you to move forward with this process quickly! Love you, Jess! 💘 Thanks for opening up with us!

[@MiKeiladoval]

I'm going through the same thing right now! I'm an american newlywed living with my latino husband in Argentina. My residential visa (greencard) has been processing for nearly a year. Many of my family members haven't met my husband yet but they're supportive and excited to finally meet him in the future. Be encouraged! This wont last forever. LOVE YOU GUYS ❤

[@ashleymedrano8679]

I will pray for you! Someone is always gonna go through something at some point in life. It will get better soon! For sure! God does stuff for a reason. He loves you jess and he will help you!

[@annabelle2930]

THANK YOU JESS - I’m going through this exact same situation because I moved from Australia to the USA and it’s so nice to know I’m not the only one. thank you for sharing xxx

[@rileytaylor5376]

Annabelle 101 I am going though the same thing too. I moved to America from Canada and it has been such a lonely and stressful process. I wish we could all meet and talk about what is going on so she just doesn’t feel alone

[@KaitlinKalLee]

Always here for you Jess. We will all be praying for you. Power in numbers 💪🏼❤️

[@lorenpastore6280]

Kaitlin Kal Lee i see your comment all the time

[@emilysg]

Not to be disrespectful but on a totally irrelevant note, look at how Milo is just checking himself out in the mirror at 3:42. lol I just love how he's just like rolling around and chilling on the bed.

[@avanoae]

Emily Au LITTERALY WHAT I WAS THINKING

[@AGirlNamedVan]

Lol that was the most entertaining part of this video hahhaha yaaaay doggie

[@vacsoby]

Lol

[@lifewithnelly5795]

My husband and I are going through the exact same situation. We are trusting in the Lord that He will open that door when He wants. So you are not alone!! Praying that the Lord gives you peace in this season.

[@DenDenise]

I know this is a serious video, but the first 1-2 mins in the video, seeing milo rolling around the bed. CUTE AF

[@bridgetbotha2272]

Jikook Jams a

[@loulitalouli3412]

What does AF mean?

[@clvvre]

Loulitalouli As fuck

[@observantbuddy]

@@loulitalouli3412 Lol

[@TheAdventuresofJade]

Oh Jess I can feel your emotions through this video. Your so so gentle and I want to cry with you! I live interstate from my family and I know how difficult it can be not being able to see your family whenever you like. It must be so incredibly hard being so far from your family and literally not being able to see them. I hope this process is smooth and I’ll be praying for you! when you come back to visit home you’ll love it even more 💜 you’re so loved! Xxxx

[@DirtMoss]

Not sure why so many people are coming after Jess in the comments. Everyone has different struggles and hardships in life. The way they react to it is personal to them. Don’t compare her situation to other current events. She’s letting us know what’s going on, she’s not asking for pity, or pretending to be the first person to ever experience this. Let her live.

[@bridgetbow3988]

i understand because it’s not about being stuck in america, it’s about feeling trapped and alone and knowing that you don’t have that control or that comfort of seeing your family soon. i’m so sorry jess and you’re so brave.

[@amandaallen5377]

I feel like Milo was thinking “ok, this is a sad video so maybe I can cheer it up a bit by just laying upside down. yes”

[@caroltassin4049]

No questions, just Prayers & good wishes that things happen quick for you & Gabe!

[@emilysg]

I'm really glad you made this video because I know I am only experiencing a fraction of what you're feeling but I just moved in my dorm and I feel homesick and I miss my family. I feel really lonely here because I don't have a lot of friends here and I'm really conscious of the way I look and act. I feel like everyone here all look like college students, adapted here very well already, and made friends with people here already. I'm like the complete opposite and so antisocial.

[@emilysg]

Bleh BlehBleh Thank you so much for taking your time to write this message for me. Your message means a lot to me.

[@dailyvlogs52]

*I* feel so sorry for you Jess! i know how hard it is not to be able to go home! Praying you get your citizenship soon and you can travel back home!

[@robertjohn8711]

daily vlogs yes boo hoo

[@MadisonTiahn]

Girl... you have nothing to be scared of. This does not come across ungrateful in the slightest. You are Australian and you will always be Australian. The fact that you can’t go home is so cruel. Hopefully the process is over as soon as possible. Much love beautiful girl. X

[@afxaa9749]

Madison Killer WOW your name sound aggressive but your so sweet ❤❤

[@alyssaanschutz3305]

Jess, you aren’t alone. My fiancé and I are just went through the fiancé visa process so he could move here. After waiting for almost a year being apart and doing long distance, we finally got approved! After he moves here and we married we will have to apply for the same residency process you are going through now. When he found out he won’t be able to visit his family in Brazil until he gets his green card it absolutely broke his heart. It’s comforting to know we aren’t the only ones that have been at the mercy of immigration services. We’ll be praying for you that the end of your waiting is near 🤞

[@cylie]

Alyssa Anschutz hey Alyssa in the near future i will have to go through this with my boyfriend. He is from Peru and I am from the USA. Could I ask you a few questions??

[@alyssaanschutz3305]

Cylie absolutely!!

[@AdileneTiznado]

Hello me and my fiance started the k1 visa 6months ago, we dont have any answers yet, how long did it take you to get an answer?

[@alyssaanschutz3305]

Adilene Tiznado we applied last September and I heard back that we got approved by the initial USCIS review in...April I think? So right around 7 months or so? Then it got sent to the NVC and that was another month and a half of waiting. Then at the end of May I got an email from the consulate asking to schedule our interview. Good luck! I hope you hear back soon!

[@iodesamparado5688]

I’M COMING FOR THIS VIDEO TO SAY THAT IT FINALLY HAPPENED! I’M SO HAPPY FOR YOU, JESS!!! 💛

[@avaschneider3944]

God’s timing is always perfect, beautiful Jess. everything will be okay. truly. i’m praying for you and your family, for your faith & for this process. you are such a strong woman of God and a human for going through this. everything that your going through is all part of God’s plan and it WILL be so, incredibly beneficial. you are so strong and everyone is rallying around you to keep you strong and motivated. we love you so much, Jess! ❤️

[@jennamack1889]

Wow...I just want to jump through my screen and give you the biggest hug ever. I love you so much Jess!

[@sooyasdior]

thank u for being real with us jess. u’re so inspirational to me and other people...i know it’s hard but just trust in god and he’ll make a way...we love u jess💛💛💛

[@averychatfield8947]

allaboutconteam♡ okay I love how you used the right “you’re” but in “ur” form haha also yes!! this comment is very sweet :)

[@alyssatony3701]

I don't understand why jess is "ungrateful" because she misses her family back home. she never said she doesn't appreciate what she has. Jess has nothing to do with what's happening with kids getting separated at the border, so I don't think it's right to compare her to them. Trying to tell Jess what you think she is or does doesn't make her want to be honest with you guys any more... Jess, I admire your faith and honesty so much. I can't imagine what it's like for you. I'm praying for you

[@littleunicorn6573]

I know you might not read this but I just wanted you to know. Where should I start? You have taught me that you don't always have to strong. You are allowed to break down as long as you pick yourself back up and keep moving forward. When life had you at your worst moments, you allowed your friends to be there for you and to help you. Watching you do what you love and watching you make a difference in the lives of others is an incredible experience. The love you have for your family is outstanding. Watching you interact with loved ones just makes me smile. You inspire me to be the best version of myself. I look up to you. Thanks Jess. 💕💕💗❤

[@littleunicorn6573]

Erin Clark 🙈💋

[@emmmybhs]

Hi Jess! I know you probably won't see this comment but if you do, know that you are not alone. My husband and I have been going through the same process... its so stressful on a marriage for sure and can be so hard waiting for so long. We have had so many ups and downs through this time in our lives, but it has made our relationship so much stronger. My husband finally got his residency card and we could not be more thrilled. I hope you get yours so soon! It is such a huge relief and wait off of our shoulders. I hope this brings you some comfort if you see this. :)

[@XuetingJoaan]

Omg! Congratulations! How long has you guys been waiting for? I have the same issue right here. I’m so afraid about the interview! Exactly the same situation as Jess. I miss my mom😭

[@tulipska]

Emily Fernandez Congrats!! ❤❤❤

[@emmmybhs]

Joaan Carrillo thank you so much :)!

[@emmmybhs]

Joaan Carrillo we have been waiting for over a year!

[@kimberlysilva873]

I love how Milo is being so silly behind Jess when this video is so sad but I think he was trying to cheer her up and us. Jess we all know you can get through this just try to be strong! Ilysm 💓

[@letsparchmentitupyo7566]

Kim Silva I didn’t even notice that omg

[@genxclaire]

who's watching this after seeing the Going Home series trailer 🙋😩💓

[@mik-exe-]

It wouldn’t matter how comfortably you’re living, not being able to go back home and to visit your family isn’t easy. Why wouldn’t it be a testing time, y’know, wanting to spend time with your loved ones on the other side of the world? It’s a big process. I thought it was a big jump. It’s clear you love your family dearly.

[@antoniakoutalas7757]

Stay strong Jess ♥️♥️♥️ God will get you through everything 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@Maddie-xx3tm]

Was trying not to cry but got choked up a bit 😢😢- I’m so sry Jess you are so strong! U are a wonderful person to look up to and I’m so happy that I can call u my role model ❤️❤️❤️we all love u and hope u know that we are here for u 😘😘😘😘-x

[@mariadunton4760]

This doesn’t make you sound ungrateful or that it’s not a hard struggle at all. I can’t imagine what it would be like to be so far from my family. I’ll be praying for you and your family for God’s will and that he would give you guys strength. You’re so brave to put something so honest and personal out there. Love you guys! 💕

[@_anilinda_]

My grandpa tried to gain citizenship in America for years. His lawyers kept losing his papers, and he had to repeat the process over and over again. Then one day he met a man in the bathroom that offered to take his immigration case, who got him his citizenship to be with my dad and his sister. God always works in such surprising and amazing ways, you can do this Jess. God is with you always, and we’ll always believe in you 💙

[@Victoria-hd1ib]

Thank you for your testimony! I needed that reminder that God will make a way, even where there seems to be no way 💕

[@account10558]

+Katherine Um that’s pretty dramatic

[@account10558]

*Kathrine

[@riakhwairakpam7498]

Lol

[@Ellieoficial]

Stay strong beautiful! we love you and support you.

[@connorbruce9834]

Matthew 11:28; "Come to Me all who are weary and heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Jess you are doing what you need to. You are so strong and we are all here for you. I know that God has you in His hands and He is never going to let go. All the haters can step off, and they can keep their negative opinions to themselves. You, Gabe, and Milo of course, are always in my prayers!

[@KhanHajra298]

I'm watching this video again after you got your residency. Soo happy for you both! LOADS OF LOVE TO YOUR WAYYY JESS AND GABRIEL ❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@bethanytong2338]

AH yeah i looked for this video so i could look back tobefore she got her residency

[@kailanisantos504]

thank you for opening up how you feel! and it’s okay to cry!! there are so many people supporting and loving on you sister 🧡

[@timidelle1127]

Jess, I'm so happy you've mentioned God's perfect timing because *it's true* and He will bless you the moment it will be the most convenient! ❤️ it's absolutely cruel you cannot go back home (I can't even imagine....) but it will all be fine, I pray you're fine baby xx

[@khaddyjarjou3603]

Jess you shouldn’t have to feel sorry I totally understand. My mom has been here for 16 years and her mom is in decreasing health but she still can’t go and she cries about it all the time. It’s not easy but your strong and I know you can get through it. ❤️

[@alivea2267]

she’s so pure hearted and selfless 😭♥️ such a great role model

[@mikgonzales]

“I will walk through the darkest valley, but I won’t be fearful because God is with me” 💜💜💜 that verse is so relevant to you rn Jess

[@addisonrudser4440]

“Mom you’re doing good, you’re doing better.” woah i L O S T it. i love you jess 💕

[@Justpeachy1777]

I can only imagine how hard it is, to not to get to go home to visit your family...I will keep you in my prayers 💕🙏🏽 god is good and I know everything will happen in your favor. Stay strong god has you in his hands 😊

[@marissanowak5450]

mommy and me playhouse tv...... I COMPLETELY AGREE!!! I’m happy there are peopl like you in this world!

[@kryss6355]

i had to wait 2 years to get my residency with my family in australia and another 10 months to actually go back and visit Philippines (my hometown). it was so hard, everytime i prayed to God about my family in the Philippines i always cried bc i missed them so much so i get you, Jess

[@edaa9757]

We know that you know that you are very greatful for the live you’re living! You grew up in Australia jess!! You were born and raised there! That’s your home, you are allowed to miss it more than anything! I hope you can get your residency as soon as possible, I love you❤️

[@alisonvandam4950]

It is perfectly normal and understandable to be grateful for what you have but still be heartbroken about what you had to sacrifice to get there! know that we are all with you 100% and would never think less of you because of that... if anything you have simply proven once again how honest, open, and humble you are. xx

[@shaimaamohamed8164]

my family and i have been living in the U.S for 11 years and haven't got our citizenship/green card yet. So we haven't seen our family back home in 11 years because if we leave america we cant come back, but we still have hope. Stay strong Jess we love you

[@abc23123]

Shaimaa Mohamed that's such a long time omg idk about these things sorry but why does it have to be that long and InshAllah He will make things right. God is great.

[@leslievaldon8799]

I understand you, my parents can’t go back to Mexico either and they haven’t seen their parents for more than 16 years. I will be praying for you and your family ❤️ God bless

[@jazminmendozac]

Here we are almost 1 year later and she is now back in Australia! ❤️ 🇦🇺

[@kezjacobs]

hi jess! i’m in the same process with you right now. i’m from Indonesia and i just recently moved to the US. it’s very hard knowing that I can’t be back home until I get the residency. i just wanna say that you’re not alone and one day, I believe it’ll all make sense. thank you so much for encouraging me with this video I wanna cry 😭😭 it puts so much effort for the green card process and I believe God has His’ perfect timing!! ❤️ I pray that God will put an understanding in your heart and remember to always be kind to yourself because it helps a lot!!! ✨ I can’t wait to go back home and I’ll pray for you too. We got this because I know that God is on our side! 😊❤️

[@kezjacobs]

aaah aku seneng bgt denger nya!! thank you yaaa 🤗💛

[@hananehanane869]

Did you use a tourist visa to come to USA and get married ?

[@xOnlymeMonax]

My heart broke when you said you were nervous to read all the comments because you didn‘t wanna come across as ignorant or whatever. Let me just say that no person in his right mind would judge you for feeling homesick and just wanna be back „home“ where your family and friends are at. I‘m in awe of you honestly because I can imagine what you‘re going through and that you‘re strong enough to do it and not just give up, fly home and risk it all says so much more about your inner strength. Continue you being brave and the reward will be better than anything else and most importantly trust your journey. Love you Jess xx

[@blondie4lyfe245]

You're not ungrateful!! You're so strong and encouraging!! God loves you sooo much!! He has a plan!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@tianaandgracexxx1964]

Vanilla Gurl m

[@annapowell6686]

Vanilla Gurl what happened

[@blondie4lyfe245]

Anna Powell watch the video!💕

[@annapowell6686]

Vanilla Gurl or just tell me

[@clairebearm6771]

Amen

[@SamandEm]

Currently I’m this season and getting some comfort from these videos of your journey. Thank you, Jess

[@lattesdarling]

Ok I tried not to cry but I was tearing up😭

[@maurenatessa6485]

lattesdarling same

[@jasmijnborger2910]

same😭❣️

[@alexisowens2954]

lattesdarling ugh same

[@gabyydiazm]

I had a similar situation last year. I went on an exchange to the US (I’m from Guatemala) for two months, alone, and it was the most difficult thing to do. The family I went with didn’t treat me well, they were racist with me and only let me talk to my family 2 days a week for 3 hours. I was 14 at the time and it was so difficult to be away from my family, in a stranger’s home but at the end of the exchange I realized God had something amazing prepared for me. I got to go to school there as well so that made it kinda easier; I made a lot of friends I would never forget about and I learned a lot about their culture. At the end of the two months, I didn’t really want to leave, but at the same time I was really excited to see my family. I thank God for every part of that experience, the bad and the good things because they made me grow so much as a person and taught me to appreciate everything I have, specially family. I know this is a really different situation from Jess’s but I hope this helps someone who’s going through something similar. Just remember that God knows what he’s doing and that he knows what’s best for us. I know it might seem difficult right now but I promise you, it will get better. It’s all about patience and enjoying even the hardest parts of this journey. And this is preparing you for the amazing things that are yet to come!! I’ll be praying for you Jess💓 but don’t give up, keep fighting and trusting God🙌🏻

[@CarlosGallardoCandia]

I totally understand what you are going through. It is a long process. In my case, before I got married and got the residency, I got my Visa denied... I thought it was going to be the end of the world and that my relationship was over, but let me tell you one thing: God’s timing is perfect! I’m pretty sure nothing I have today had happened if I had that Visa approved when I wanted to be approved. God’s word is the last word and He wanted us to wait... and it was for the best. Praying for you guys

[@valeriemartha9870]

Carlos Gallardo-Candia Amen

[@meliahmichael4969]

Please oh please know how much I appreciate this. My husband is Papua New Guinean (the island just above Australia, as you probably knoe) and we can't go back yet, not to celebrate our recent union or to see his family. It's a powerfully difficult thing, and I'm not even the one directly experiencing it. This process is so time-consuming, nerve-wracking and high-risk. You aren't complaining about the life you're living, you are explaining a very real, very raw phase of your life. Thank you for sharing this at the time you did. My husband and I may be the ones we are the ones meant to hear this. Thank you. Much love 💕

[@cylie]

Dear Jess, When you say everything happens for a reason you are very correct. I kid you not with everything in me, 24 hours ago before you mentioned you were even releasing this video, I was looking through all of your videos seeing if you ever mentioned this process before. Just yesterday I was telling myself how I wish you could have made anything explaining how you and Gabe went through that process since you are from Australia. You see, i found my soul mate and he lives in Peru. I’m from Louisiana USA. We are getting close to our 2 year mark of being together. Long distance as you and Gabe both know is a very very very difficult thing. Leaving him or him leaving me to go back to our counties breaks our hearts. It’s truly the worst pain Iv ever gone through. Recently we’ve been discussing the visa process and our options. He has decided to move to the USA with me in the near future when he graduates from his university in Peru soon. We’ve been doing our research about permanent residency and the steps it’s takes. We already are discussing getting engaged soon and then following with a wedding. But we heard the visas take a long time to process which is why we are now doing research on it. I had no idea how much goes into earning permanent residency. The affidavit of support, the income I’m “suppose” to have to sponsor him. And more. I have so many questions and have been doing so much research to begin preparing for the whole process. Franco (my boyfriend) has been gathering stuff too and knowing how long this whole thing can take makes us emotional. Especially me. Around the same time I met Franco, I found you guys on KZbin through Kesley Bourgeois and Trey Bourgeois. They live in Louisiana and have preformed at my friends university. So, when the discussion of me and Franco came up about visas, I wanted to see how this whole process has been for you. Literally yesterday I was looking for anything about this and couldn’t find it. I was thinking about DMing you asking you a few questions about this situation. I’m completely shocked to see you have posted this topic today on KZbin. It’s what i needed. Very much. It’s showing me I’m not alone. And I look up to you and Gabe. I truly believe God was in on this to show me we all have similar issues. Last night I even cried about it. Because when you truly love someone, you want to be with them. It’s truly a very complicated and long process. Thank you for sharing this Jess. It was literally exactly what I needed.

[@gracevolpe9047]

we all love you and I hope everything works out for you soon 💞💞

[@sabrinar229]

Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Praying for you Jess in this season of tribulation! I felt God put this verse in my heart to share with you and I really hope it blesses you! ❤️

[@mikkim7275]

Sabrina R 💕

[@lydiacaron2933]

My favorite verse at the moment. It's SO rassuring to know that God works good and bad things, happy moments and difficult ones, for our good. He takes care of us in every circumstance. Glory to Him.

[@lizzywiththeglizzy5360]

Amen🙌🏽

[@joshuamueller705]

That verse has gotten me through depression about my disability! So has Colossians 2:10 And ye are complete in him, which is the head of all principality and power

[@auroramontoya305]

💗

[@nicolehoffmann2497]

Here after years! After she had a baby and is already a citizen! I have been following Jess and Gabe for so long and she is so happy now! I’m so happy for them!

[@cayleyish7357]

Sorry, but Milo looking at himself in the mirror is the cutest darn thing (3:08)

[@daishafyi]

Ikr😭❤

[@sajeda1023]

I thought I was the only one who noticed hahaha💕💕

[@kimberlytrujillo5242]

That made laugh so much 😂😂

[@_hanana0362]

Thank you jess for being so strong and telling us. We love you and wish all your problems get solved ❤️

[@mrs.hannahchiang]

Jess! My mom and I just prayed for you

[@isabellageronimo7557]

amen!

[@54blueroses]

❤❤❤

[@emilydeloach4750]

Hannah Banana awwwwww that made me cry... I love god so much people all around loving him ....hes so good

[@magdelynfarrington2202]

Hannah Banana this is so inspirational! There are not many people that would have the guts to say what you have said, but the people that do will be rewarded in Heaven! Thank you! And you are right! God is in control and loves everyone! ♥️

[@ghada1749]

After 11 months after she uploads this video she celebrating her birthday in Australia 🇦🇺❤️❤️

[@hifsa-maya7509]

Ikr. God’s timing is perfect ❤️💕

[@DanielleAyala]

Hey girl, thank you so much for sharing. I'm actually dealing with beginning the same process. My boyfriend is from El Salvador and he hasn't even been able to get a tourist visa to visit my family in the US. The embassy told us we need a fiancé visa instead, but that isn't what we can do right now because we don't have money for a wedding, and also, the legal fees are crazy expensive. We worry about the same thing, that we could get married and then he may be unable to visit his home country during the process. You are definitely not alone in this! You are NOT ungrateful or selfish. All of your emotions are valid. Don't let anyone tell you differently. Something I will say is that God can bring us into times of isolation, pain and loneliness because it forces us to rely on Him more than we naturally would. Also, use this time with Gabe to strengthen your relationship and deepen it by sharing your fears. Being away from your family is heartbreaking, but in the long run, you will look back and realize how strong you are and how strong your relationship is. What you learn now, will definitely aid you when facing future trials. Also, be aware you may experience culture shock. Being in a new environment can be so difficult. You may not feel as understood by people from your home country. I have dealt with the loneliness of leaving my home as well. Even thou I have friends in El Salvador and I am happy to be there, sometimes it is difficult to build relationships that are as deep as the ones I have back home. Anyways, I will definitely be praying for you. You are not alone. And your are brave for sharing your story! Thank you.

[@pearlqkr]

Praying for you. I’m korean fan of yours. I want you to know that you are being cheered by many people and many people pray that you will be well. My English is not good but I wrote to support you and cheer you up. So stay strong!!😃

[@mariahwisdom-peters6919]

박진주 Actually you English seems pretty good. :) I'm trying to learn Japanese and I can't write this well!!

[@pearlqkr]

Mariah Wisdom-Peters yeah, Japanese is difficult.. i know. But I hope you do well! :-) And If you can afford it, I would like you to be interested in Korea too. It is as attractive as Japan.

[@jessiannp]

From what I can see your English is amazing. Some people fluent in English don’t even write like this. I encourage you to continue learning, xx 💖

[@mariahwisdom-peters6919]

ParkPearl Thanks! I'd love to learn Korean too!! It sounds like such a lovely language!! One day soon I hope!!! ❤️❤️😊

[@SiobhanMalcolm]

I get you Jess, my grandma lives in an island called Grenada, and she isn't doing well health-wise. My aunty is trapped in America because her residency isn't processed yet, so she can't visit her mum. God is forever with you and with faith as small as a mustard seed you can move mountains 💛

[@Anne-fd6tt]

Siobhan Malcolm I’m so sorry for her, that must be really hard :(

[@beekind2everyone.]

I'm currently going through the process to get residency in Australia (almost for year and a half) and this is the hardest thing I've ever been through indeed people who has never dealt with it can not even imagine how stressful and hard it can be, sometimes you feel like everything in this country against you and you're just trying confront it But I believe in God's plans for our lives. For what will the man do to those whose trust in God, " whom shall I fear" "Have I not commanded you? be strong and courageous Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go" "For I am the Lord your God, who upholds your right hand, Who says to you: Do not fear I will help you" "He gives strength to the weary, and to him who lacks might He increases power"

[@ErikaNani]

Oh Jess :( I’ve been going through the same thing. Mine is a different process but it’s basically the same thing. I’m not allowed to leave the states. I’ve been here for 3 years now. My grandpa passed away last year and my dad two months ago and I wasn’t able to say goodbye or see them. It’s very tough but my mom always says that God’s time is perfect and everything happens for a reason so I’m here 🤷🏻‍♀️ just hang in there girl. Everything is gonna be ok and you’ll be able to go back home soon❤️

[@achsahjojo2031]

OMG, I can relate to your story so much! I have been in America for almost 3 to 4 years now and I can't visit my home country since if I leave the country there might be a risk of not coming back! and I can't take that risk since I'm still doing my education in America. My home state is in a major flooding issue right now and i can't even go there to support them. I have left my country at an early age and im really worried about my grandparents back home. They are getting old and something bad might happen but i hope they stay strong! Finally i just wanted to say that your not alone here and that i hope you'll go back to your country soon!:)

[@MaryJane-ld2js]

Stories like this makes my heart break. 💔Not being able to go back home just because of a messy system. It just doesn't make sense. Love and prayers to all of you going through this. 🙏💞

[@shreyab25]

ACHSHA MARIA JOJO are from Kerala?

[@joeyvxg]

My condolences to you. Everything’s gonna be fine, my aunt also living in germany and because she hasn’t got her president so she couldn’t come back it’s like 5 years alrd and my grandparents (her parents) passed away and she couldn’t come back to see them too. So I can feel you. Things will work out. All the best :)

[@achsahjojo2031]

yeah i am from there! how did u know

[@caitlindechteld]

Jess, I couldn’t be more proud and blown away by how strong you are in this. And I don’t think that you realise how inspirational you are. I’ve never had to go through this but I can imagine how incredibly hard and emotional this is, and for the people around you. I totally get why you wouldn’t tell us and I get it too that you want to tell us now. I hope that that weight on your shoulders you had, is lessened and that this helps you get a little bit more positive and good vibes. You have a really pure & beautiful soul!! You definitely are not coming across as ungrateful!! You are the most grateful person ever! I, myself am not Christian. So, I am sorry that I can’t pray for you in that way but I will pray for you in my own way and I hope with all my heart that you’ll get your green card soon!! Im sending all my love & hope to you in LA all the way from Holland 🇳🇱!! Love love looooove you!! -Caitlin

[@juliewaldron1716]

Jess we’re all here for you in this difficult time of your life! You will definitely be in my prayers and I’m sending so much love your way❤️ I hope that you get your residency soon and that you can visit your family because it is so evident how much they mean to you and how much you love them. I hate to see someone who deserves the upmost happiness to be hurting and I just hope that everything will work out! God has a plan and even though we don’t know what it is it’s important for us to stay faithful and you are doing just that! Love you Jess!!❤️❤️

[@AMERGIRLSAREGREAT]

I couldn't have said this any better

[@juliewaldron1716]

Alexa Brooke thank you so much!!

[@AMERGIRLSAREGREAT]

Julie Waldron is there any way you can like my comment on this video? I did write one thanks

[@Coolio549]

I'm on a working holiday in Australia right now (I'm Canadian). And I've been so homesick these past few weeks. Thank you so much for talking about missing home, made me feel like I'm not alone. I'm so glad that you're in Australia now

[@EmWilsonOfficial]

Awww how would this ever be perceived as ungrateful!! You are the sweetest and most genuine person I watch on KZbin !! Being newly married is hard and being away from family is even harder !! Let alone not being able to visit !! I lived at home with my parents until I got married and six months after being married I moved an hour away and even that left me alittle sad and depressed .. a lot of changes and it’s totally understanding❤️❤️ totally praying for you and peace with all of this and hopefully the end is near and you’ll have your citizenship finalized soon 😘😘

[@xoxoVnGxoxo]

Jess is officially the cutest and purest KZbinr ever. And I love her relationship with God. That's what KZbin needs.

[@blondie4lyfe245]

xoxoVnGxoxo yepp

[@retalalkha]

xoxoVnGxoxo ya

[@retalalkha]

Wonder Woman it does what are u talking about

[@SharonRose]

Wonder Woman I hope you can experience him for yourself, so that you’ll know that he truly does exist 💕✨

[@savannah3510]

Our world is so perfect because we have a perfect and loving God. Sometimes it’s hard to recognize that because we live in a world that is so full of suffering but I personally know that God is real and he loves every single person and he is always there for us.

[@shawnamckittrick1156]

She is so down to earth and positive! you're literally so adorable I can't even!!! 😩😭

[@bea6564]

Shawna McKittrick ikr

[@shawnamckittrick1156]

Poultry Addict 😩

[@shawnamckittrick1156]

angel cake SAMEEE😭😭

[@cheriemama5290]

The times that jess' voice is cracking sooooo so hard but she tries to stop the tears from flowing out is just a proof that she cares so much for others than possibly herself. She is such a loving and caring person and just know that we are ur family too and we are always here for u😍😘ilysm!

[@kauleen_h]

Hey Jess. I’m actually going through a similar thing! My husband is Danish & I’m American. We got married two years ago & moved to Denmark. It’s been so hard with visa issues & feeling alone and stuck here. I really love that you shared this, it really helped me knowing someone else understands! You’re amazing💛

[@jessicadron1927]

God has been with you to this moment. He gave u a great husdand that loves you and a family that cares for your being. God will not abandon you now. Its ok to have struggles in your life just stay strong and believe that everything will get better.❤

[@kendylvernon905]

I so appreciate your honesty and your struggles. I hope going through this experience can help you and everyone else see how hard the immigration issues are in our country and if someone like you (aka white Christian from Australia) has so many difficulties, I can only imagine what people from less privileged backgrounds struggle to go through.

[@joud9968]

I totally understand how you're feeling. Living outside your country (with the rest of your family living there) and not being able to travel to it is a very difficult thing. I've been through it. But you're so strong I know it. I hope that you'll be able to see you're country again very soon❤❤❤❤❤😃

[@nancylyy]

thank you for sharing this with us. you are the sweetest person ever, stay strong. I teared up hearing about your struggles. you are like the older sister I always wanted, seeing you in pain makes my heart hurt. I know there are brighter days in the future waiting for you. please hang in there, we love you so much!💕💕💕💕 I wish for good news on the next video!

[@Greydenxxx]

I rarely comment on videos but I just have to say that I have so much respect for you. you are so so strong! I know how it feels to be homesick but I could never imagine being in your situation or how I would handle it. I really have an endless amout of respect for you. God will hear your prayers and you will be going home soon♥

[@janefayad5855]

Milo staring at himself @ 3:13 is EVERYTHING

[@laurenworkman180]

Jane Fayad it’s so cute

[@i.4498]

IKR . That’s exactly what i was thinking 💕

[@aalaabdalla6796]

3:08 - Anyone else realize how Milo was staring at himself in the mirror for the longest time? Also SO happy that you *finally* got your residency Jess! Lots of love