FINALLY READY TO TALK...life update | GRWM + chit chat

Sooo...I've been avoiding this question for awhile, because I've been having a hard time deciding what I want to do and how to talk about it. Balancing my ambitions with having a family has always been a struggle for me and I've finally decided what I want to do. Get ready with me (GRWM) while I chat about my medical school dreams, thoughts on moving to the US and whether I would settle for another career.
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[@proro1974]

Vlogging with an active baby in your lap without losing your train of thought WHILE also applying makeup takes some serious chops.

[@939nchs]

Lexa, my grandma used to say to me, "Just keep living". The scriptures (Ecclesiastes) say,"Time and and unforseen occurances befall us all". Take each day one at a time. You really don't know what each day will bring. Live to serve the One True God. Be obedient to His laws, rules and commands, and you'll find out what the future holds for you and your family. Thanks for sharing. 😊

[@couchpotatotwin21]

That is talent! Putting your makeup on with a bouncy baby in your lap!

[@Its_saada]

Can we just take a moment and applaud her ability to draw a wing liner and put on mascara with a bouncing baby on her lap!? I mess that up and it's just me and a mirror 🤣🙌

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

🤣

[@debrawilliams2781]

Jordan says she has things to say too. How beautiful is she, sooo cute.

[@dianneraven916]

Lil Jordan is lively today with her little cute self.😄

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Dianne Raven 😂 she’s been a vlogger her whole life.

[@dianneraven916]

Yes she has. Today she said " no medical talk , its about me today"😀🥰

[@coll6171]

Amazing skills.. putting on makeup( FLAWLESSLY BTW)... while holding an active baby... WHILE TALKING BOUT HER GOALS IN THE MOST CALM MANNER?!?!??? GIRL, INSPIRATION TO THE MAX 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🏆♥️

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

😂thank you

[@Superiortaurus]

Okay but can we all just appreciate how she continued to flawlessly apply her eyeliner with Jordan jumping up and down @ 12:58 😂😂 QUEEN it didn’t even phase her

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

😆

[@tweetynewport47]

Everything will work out...you're such a strong woman and have such a great family...

[@Desery168]

You put that liner like a pro

[@jillgarittagoatgirl-expose2759]

You are so right about the U.S. healthcare system....OUR HEALTHCARE SUCKS!😕 You have a very active and wonderful life..How about don't make any plans, and just enjoy one day at a time??.. I think everything will fall into place for you...BEST OF LUCK!🙂

[@georgianalinton6616]

I cannot get over how absolutely adorable the baby is. Lexa, I wish you all the best in your career.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thank you!

[@TheMoonDejesus]

You are making 100 the right choice. I know women that didn’t have choice but to grind for career with small kids. They are happy where they are but they’re kids had issues. You can’t get this time back. On the flip though my cousin was told by professors not to pursue even grad school. At that point she had two small kids. She didn’t listen to him and she’s now tenured professor at two of most prestigious universities in US. She also didn’t have the support of a partner. Her kids turned out great ( though it was a difficult winding road for eldest)but she now has a 2 yr old and is able to be attentive and present in ways she wasn’t with older two. She had tone super strict and run a very tight ship. I’m pretty sure her parenting style at that time to your kids would traumatize them. You’re setting emotional foundation for the rest of their lives. There’s nothing more helpful to the world than that. Signed someone from a country of emotionally problematic people regularly shooting schools and public places up.

[@itsmejessi]

We need more black female physicians. Take your time love, you will get there in your own time.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

I agree, we really do!

[@gunnercaps]

Thank you for sharing about your medical school plans and your thoughts on having it all, but not at the same time. Your perspective was very insightful and I agree that there really is no 'right' way when it comes to pursuing career and family. Side note: your makeup skills while bouncing a baby is CRAZY! Lol, you are a woman of many talents 😂🥰👏🏻🙌🏻👍🏻🙏🏻

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

lol thanks Meg!

[@IamBrendaMarie]

Do what makes you happy.🤗

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thanks Brenda!

[@IamBrendaMarie]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs You are welcome 🤗

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

My nighttime skincare routine --> kzbin.info/www/bejne/haTMfXxqZdiqp9E Sooo...I've been avoiding this question for awhile, because I've been having a hard time deciding what I want to do and how to talk about it. I haven't even spoken about this with my parents and siblings...Balancing my ambitions with having a family has always been a struggle for me and I've finally decided what I want to do. Get ready with me (GRWM) while I chat about my medical school dreams, thoughts on moving to the US and whether I would settle for another career. Thanks for your patience and encouraging words!

[@Llama-Mama666]

I get and understand everything your are saying.. You are right, kids are only babies once. So take a few gap years. Enjoy being a mom and wife.. I myself was able to stay at home with my kids untill they were all in school. Then went back to working full time. I don't feel like I missed anything in life I wanted to do. It was about the time and place in life, as to what I need to do to be happy.

[@g.8848]

It seems you have a very loving supportive husband/family Lexa karlyn your ambition and determination is what's going to get you through, just pray fast keep things between you and God and your husband, God will show you the way. 🙂🙏

[@joycelockett7032]

YOU definitely have your priorities in order!..This subscriber is proud of you & may God continue 2 bless you & your family.

[@MsTemptation]

I had to rewind this several times because the baby was being so adorable that I couldn't listen to you.😃😃

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Lol it's okay, I figured that might happen.

[@TheGreta2400]

Lexa...follow your own Happiness wherever that may lead. NOTHING else matters! 🙂

[@lelaratu1187]

Everything will be ok. Have fun in what you doing ❤❤

[@loveheaven1696]

As a mom, i would advise you not to leave your young children especially the baby. Bond with them and spend quality time with them . You will never regret that choice. You will be still young and beautiful. The children are already here so both you and husband should just focus on staying in love, work hard to help your children grow up healthy and happy and educated, at least an age where you are comfortable that they will be ok when you go back to school. You have to execute a plan on how you are going leave them. You already created a fun loving environment in your home so to move forward to get your education when you are ready, would be easy plus rewarding. Your children will grow fast and you will have plenty of time to go back to school and be a doctor. That is your calling. Dont ask God to take it away. You need your own education to feel that you accomplish your calling and you will be a great Doctor. Your children and husband will be proud of your dedication and sacrifices and you will feel much better that you put them first. Dont miss out on the best part of your children's life. They need you and their dad to teach them how to be the man and women of tomorrow. Too many people regret not spending the time with their children in their early years and the children grow up to tell the tale of how they were neglecte by their parents because of work etc I hope my advice as a mom help you in some way.

[@traceylennon1204]

She has a great husband and family!!! @Lela Ratu

[@lillieseefeldt9466]

Beautiful little girl and so happy enjoy her now because they do grow

[@kariketo2050]

Good for you! Your children are only young once. You would miss all the joy of that talking and happy baby.

[@MsTemptation]

You have to do what is right for you and your family and it sounds like you are on the right path. You will get to where you need to be when the time is right. I love people who have a great head on their shoulders.

[@coleda-1460]

I really admire how you have your priorities worked out in your head, I love what you said"You can have it all, just not all at the same time". beautifully said. You have such impressive self awareness, that I never had at your age. The things I could have accomplished if I had had that insight, ah well, it is what it is, and I'm happy with my life. You would make an amazing life coach, Jordan is an absolute scene stealer, just saying. Till the next vid, peace

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thank you. I would love to be a life couch. In a way, I use these vlogs to do just that. If I don't end up going into medicine, I'll definitely do something that helps others find their path.

[@ginahappyjoseph944]

Yes more GRWM, sis you did your make up with your baby on your knees your a boss and you CAN do anything take care and may God bless you and your loved ones😉

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

😂thanks!

[@allinministries4948]

Jordan is so happy and gorgeous. Put God first , take care of your babies and your husband. All is truly well. It will work out whether you go to medical school or not. School doesn't make you who you are, God does through life, tests and trials. Life happens. Just live your life girl !

[@Lifeofabossmom]

Can you give a skincare routine? Your skin is flawless 😍😍🥰

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Lifeofabossmom yes! I’m going to be doing more beauty related videos. Thanks btw.

[@rjames7426]

I believe you have made the right decision for now. When you are ready, you will make another right decision for the future. Trust Him.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thanks, I think so too.

[@elainerucker5492]

I love how you're doing your makeup while balancing your beautiful baby! She is so adorable!🤗

[@c.r.harris]

Lexa Karlyn, thank you for sharing your experiences ! 🙏 Peace & All Blessings to you & your precious family ! 🙏

[@ilawaters708]

Hey Lexa first of all 🌟💫⭐️OUTSTANDING💫 VLOG 🌟applying makeup FLAWLESSLY and juggling 👑Princess Jordan at the same time without getting annoyed at her vibrancy 😳 AMAZING 👏🏾but you know 👑Princess Jordan stole the show right😀l love how joyful she was absolutely priceless seeing her so happy😆Love You Baby Jordan , So you are definitely focused on not letting life just pass you by and your not wrong, again you raised some great points but l was happy when you decided to enjoy your babies because once that time is gone it’s gone but you have to know what’s best for you and your family l would just put God First and ask Him to show you what His will is for you to do because he made you and knows exactly what’s right for you and your family, you won’t regret asking The Father, So stay blessed & thank you for taking the time to do this vlog, Much Love 🌸Su🌸

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thanks Su!

[@valsmiles8529]

I commend you for putting your family first and it's never to late to fulfill your dreams I feel like you would be a great Doctor. You have a beautiful FAMILY!

[@kumujacq6419]

I could listen to you all day and not get tired. I'm glad you found your bearings and I hope you finally achieve your dreams. Lots of Love 😍 Oh Jordan is adorable 😘

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

kumu jacq Aw thank you!

[@iammekkb]

It sounds like you have a good plan, stick to your plans, you know what's best for yourself and your family.

[@celestesobers8697]

Girl you have a good on your shoulders.You know what you want , you have your priorities right.Your family comes first .Children grow so quiickly so you need to cherish every moment of their childhood.I hope you're able to acheive your goals by Gods' grace.All the best.

[@feliciawebb7706]

Anything is possible. Don't give up you can do it

[@MsBaldhead1]

You are the only one walking in your shoes, therefore, you are the only one who can decide what is right for you. Your 'head and heart' decision-making process led you to the right choice for your family.

[@norasanchez2348]

How awesome, that you kept going to school. That is something your babes will want to know to encourage them to do what they want in life . Cute, cute😊

[@JazzyNegrita]

Smart girl! There's ALWAYS time. ❤💓💘💞

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thanks Annett!

[@lyndeeboyland]

Your baby is adorable. Like the way you’re so comfortable with her sounds and movements. Some people would be freaking out.

[@laquitawilliams7439]

What a beautiful family you have!

[@angelawright454]

Lexa, YOU ROCK!!

[@alinainchaustegui8956]

You’re awesome!!! I work with kids all ages (even Jordan’s!) as a swim instructor and I swear u blink and the child has grown at the speed of light. Momma knows best, nothing like a mothers love!

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

They grow too quickly 😩

[@noluthandomakhaye1011]

Cant wait till Jordan has a youtube channel, she has alot to say. ❤❤. Love your mentality Lexa, ppl could learn alot from you. Kisses

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thank you! 😂she really does. I thought she was going to be the quiet one!

[@Ljaraj7]

I'm a single mother of 6 and works part time and its hard. So I admire you so much wanting to raise your children and become a doctor. I pray all you plan come through and God bless you and your family. Everything will work out cause you choice your family first which is so much more important then anything. Good job mom!

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

You don't know how much I needed to hear this in this moment. I still struggle sometimes. I miss pursuing a career I know that I would love, but I also know that if I became a doctor today and couldn't raise my kids the way I want to then I would be miserable. How you and other single mothers do it is beyond me. And of six kids at that, you are amazing! Your kids will not forget your hustle and love. My mother was a single mom for five years and those years shaped who I am today for the better, so thank you for all that you do.

[@Ljaraj7]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs, you welcome and thank you for taking the time to read and reply to me. Keep up the good work you're doing God's work being a parent. And dont worry about struggling it keeps you humble and teaches alot. God bless and Merry Christmas and Happy New Years to you and your family.

[@rhondamcfadden9860]

Just found this video by you. You are correct in choices. I love interaction of your family

[@cherylroberson2702]

I one hundred percent agree with you as an African-American woman and a person who wanted to be a registered nurse I tried to work and go to school and take care of my mother and my two younger siblings who were still at home and then two more years ago children because my sister got on drugs it was so hard to settlement for less professionally and then I end up getting a occupation that was so physically demanding that by the time I was in my 40s my body begin to break down physically and now I’m older and stuck with one income that is not even enough to take care of myself. I find myself crying a lot because had I been able to finish my degree as a registered nurse I would be able to still be working making great money and to financially support myself. So so yes I do understand your plight. Our struggle is real.!✊✊✊

[@katherinehazen4154]

You have the cutest family! I love watching you guys! Your daughter is darling ❤️

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

thank you!

[@Hace_0101]

Awwwwww Jordan is sooooooo cute 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️ wishing you and your family the best 🙏

[@avalangrin4904]

Alexa (I hope I am using your name correctly.) you don’t have to explain yourself or your process to your subscribers. However, I must say I like what I’m hearing. I told you not your time God’s time. When you are ready everything will fall into place. Perhaps America will establish universal healthcare at that time. Maybe some other opportunities will open up for you and Ryan that will make your medical school dream fall into place. Don’t let anyone define how your career should manifest. I have a law degree, and was teaching close to 20 years. I didn’t pass the bar exam and wore that failure like a ball and chain. I was depressed when my teaching career was no longer fulfilling me. However, at the ripe old age of 55 I have found new purpose. I am thinking of taking another stab at the bar exam. I tell you this to say that if you believe in God and ultimately yourself there is nothing you can’t accomplish. I want to thank you again because your positivity and crazy sense of humor was one of the things that inspired me to look at myself and my aspirations differently. You encouraged me, and I want to encourage you. It is never too late to achieve your goals. Where there is God there is always hope. I am praying for you Alexa. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Ava Langrin Thanks Ava 😊 and thanks for sharing your experiences. Can’t wait to hear from you when you pass the bar! Not getting into medical school last cycle was a blessing.

[@avalangrin4904]

And I will continue to watch your professional and personal triumphs along with that beautiful family of yours. Keep the laughs coming. 😊😊😊

[@traceylennon1204]

I wondered if I'm saying her name correctly as well!! I've said Alex more times than not... but I think it is Alexa! @ Ava Langrin

[@shelleymorris1191]

Lexa, you are such a well rounded and focused young lady. Stay true to yourself and keep your eye on the Sparrow!(say your prayers), He will see you through. You have the most important thing in your life...Your loving husband and family. Continue to be the BEST you! You are on 🔥😎🔥!

[@marilynpoetess8321]

Aww, your baby is sooo adorable. You have a beautiful family :)

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thank you

[@traceylennon1204]

I love your candor and relatable quality that's what makes you so lovable to all of us who've watched your KZbin videos!!! 😘😘😘

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thanks Tracey!

[@traceylennon1204]

You're Welcome Lexi! 😄

[@blessed1377]

Hi Lexa !! Your baby is Soo cute !! Yess your doing the right thing !! I've always stayed home with my Children until they were old enough to go to school and talk very well !! It's a wise thing y do especially in this day and age !! Maybe the denying of the 2 med schools you mentioned were confirmation of that along with the take off of KZbin !! Well I hope everything works out for you just the way you want it to ❣️❣️❣️👍🏾💪🏾🙏🏾

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Yeah, I'm big on staying home with kids until they can talk well. I agree with you! Just the idea of turning my attention from Medicine to KZbin is daunting. I've never been really into social media 😬, but I've got a message and I'm fortunate to have people like you who are willing to listen to what I have to say.

[@blessed1377]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs No doubt ❣️ your a very Smart young lady ❣️ anytime ❣️❣️

[@MsCaroline42]

when one door closed another one opens.........

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Caroline spooner Exactly!

[@stephaniea.5648]

love the way you view things.. its wierd to me to see this video especially about the topic, because i literally keep having troubled discussions abt work and school with my husband and we are 4 months pregnant.. amd i love the decision on all this and really makes me think hard abt what i really want in life besides just being a mom.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

It's tough, but it can be done. They say sleep when your baby sleeps, but when you're in school and have a baby, you don't sleep. Surround yourself with people you can trust, allow yourself to relinquish some of the things you normally like to get done yourself (like cooking or grocery shopping etc.) The fact that you are talking about it with your husband now is a good sign. Congrats by the way.

[@stephaniea.5648]

Lexa Karlyn vlogs well the thing is, i want to work but he doesnt want me to. he wants me to be a stay at home mom and i dont really mind that but sometimes its too much being at home all the time when u got no vehicle. i also want to enjoy the moments with my baby when it arrives but i also want to make something of myself. he thinks i cant manage making a living bc of the wages. but after watching you video makes me want to just wait till the baby at least goes to school so i can work while its thier. cus being at home can be a little depressing. and thank you❤️

[@jillosborn5160]

Jordan is sooo happy today. I don't know how you can put makeup on & hold Jordan.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

She's such a happy baby. I've learned to complete most tasks with a baby in hand lol.

[@carmenbanister4917]

Jordan is so adorable and such a happy baby. You should be a makeup artist

[@sweetlaidefrench5570]

Women are so strong and you are, girl. Everything will work out in due time.

[@olabeeisi]

i cant wait for the day you post a video tittled "i got in" its coming keep pushing you got this

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Look out for that video in six years 🤪

[@oneway4250]

Alex thanks for sharing this with us. I understand exactly where you are and I feel you're making the right decision. I too was in school, a single mother with a young daughter. She's always been a good girl, never giving me any problems. But suddenly she started acting out a school. I couldn't figure out what was going on because there were no problems at home. I felt at the time and at her age that she just needed my attention. As important as school was to me, what she was going through was even more important. So I put school on hold (it was a hard decision gurl) because we don't want society shaping our children. She needed me. I got her back on track (emotional stability) and she never had any more trouble. I waited a few years and went back to school and because she was more independent, I was able to focus on my studies and breezed through graduate school. You are right we can have it all. We just can't have it all at the same time. So we keep those goals close to our heart as we learn to put first things first. Some people can sprint to the finish line. Some can walk-jog. Then there are those who have to take it one step at a time. And that's ok. Just remember that the race isn't given to the swift, neither the battle to the strong. But to the one that endures to the end. Many blessings to you and your beautiful family. 💕 P.S. Jordan looks just like her "Diddy"!😋

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thank you for sharing! Yes, kids are so sensitive to change. I'm glad you were able to take time off to nurture your daughter. I too feel that my kids need my attention. I want to be able to give medicine my complete attention, and I just can't do that right now...I wouldn't want to.

[@sylviacoleman4287]

Just love you and family🙏💝💝

[@Pumpkin675]

Jordan is so beautiful!!

[@unicorngaby8968]

I love your family and your babies are cute and you are beautiful inside and out

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Unicorn Gaby 🥰 thank you

[@carlathomas7836]

Super cute,beautiful family.

[@carrollandfionaadoptedcat8133]

I love you and Jordan together. She is so talkative and happy. Your multi-tasking skills are incredible! Applying make up, talking, holding Jordan while giving her attention, her pacifier and love kisses! You rock! Hang on to your dreams. But...i want Gabriel to have a brother...which means... just one more baby! 🤗💓 Love your message/video.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

A BROTHER? [soulja boy voice] lol.

[@OutdoorAdventuresFun]

I understand your position 100p%. I'm supposed to be taking my architectural exams. One test cost about $300-$500. There are about nine sections. Their rules have changed. They might have less sections now. However, the major problem with their new rule is you have about five years to complete EVERYTHING. If for instance, you pass, let's say eight sections. You're having a difficult time passing the last section and that five years time frame come. Guess what? You have to start ALL OVER AGAIN. Remind you, those tests are not CHEAP. To keep myself SANE, I decided NOT to even start taking ANY. I'm trying to guide/raise my boys. When the time is right and if I FEEL like taking those tests, I'll do it. When I was YOUNGER. before having kids, I think I was focused on TITLE. A.K.A being an "architect". It's nice and all. BUT, as I get older and WISER, its NOT that important. I find myself being more simple. "LESS IS MORE" motto. I've encountered many successful ppl. What I originally thought of them is NOT. I DON'T know what my future hold in the architectural field or I would regret my decision. For now, I am thankful to God my family is healthy and I'm raising my kids; NOT a nanny. I discussed part of this on "maparis" my other channel. By the way, I'm in the states. I completely understand the healthcare situation that you are talking about. Keep your head high. Do whatever you feel you can do. Leave the rest to God. Keep your family TOGETHER ❤. ENJOY your FAMILY. These little rascals grow so darn fast. Enjoy their hugs and kisses and all the little fun things that they do before they they start thinking they're too old to give them. Lol

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

I hate when they change the rules like that! Yeah, as you get older you start to think about the type of life you want vs success as defined by society. You'll write the test when and if you feel it is right. Enjoy your life too. Also, thanks for sharing!

[@drealove9351]

Beautiful baby!!!

[@KEOSHAANEILIA]

Jordan is such a cutie! I've got the same skin issues so I would Love some tips if you don't mind sharing!

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

KEOSHA ANEILIA I will definitely share 😉

[@KEOSHAANEILIA]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs Thank you, Lexa!!

[@donnaowens3023]

There is a time and season for everything,this is your season to be home. I believe when your season come you will go through that door.Whom God bless no man can stop the blessing.You will for fill your destiny and purpose.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Amen!

[@CatB1PYT]

Listen closely...sistah you can do whatever you want, whenever you decide to make the choice. Your Family comes 1st! You have achieved so much already, the rest will just be completion. Can you really imagine having some other people raising your children in daycare and after school care? The money most people spend on that, they wish they could save and do it themselves. Since you are currently in the position where you can be there for your children’s 1st everything, then don’t trip. Don’t feel like you have to explain nothing to anyone. Keep loving on your family, those kids are beautiful and love on that Man of yours. Nothing is worth more, than their love. Take your time Lexa! The medical field isn’t going anywhere. As long as we live, the world will need physicians.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Agreed!

[@priceiris]

Suggestion Massachusetts has great health insurance options based off income. Not to mention our top rate medical schools. It is no Georgia. But, it clicks off some boxes.

[@kayd7485]

I know this is an older post, but I’m in a similar situation. I’m a single mom and I’m 10 classes away from my degree, then 3 years out for PT. My son is 4 and is my baby! He needs me and the strict nature of my house during the seminar is hard. I work full time and there’s just not enough hours in the day to do EVERYTHING well. I want my home to be successful before all else. The sacrifice is real but I KNOW once I achieve it all it’ll change our financial future and open up opportunities. I like how you thought this all through.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

I hear you when you say there aren't enough hours in a day to do everything well. I had a really hard time accepting that. Just remember that if you want it to be, your sacrifice can be temporary. In the meantime, don't forget to take care of yourself. I'm going to be posting more videos about this (I'm literally editing one right now). I think you'll enjoy it. Stick around and we can coach each other through this period in our lives. We've got a great community on this channel. We laugh and cry together lol, no judgement. Glad you found my video by the way and thank you for sharing your experience with me.

[@kayd7485]

Lexa Karlyn that’s the hard part, I can’t seem to take care of myself. Showers became a luxury 😵 lol oy. Being a mom is all consuming, definitely not for the faint of heart! I totally dig the nonjudgmental space here. I’ve been a quiet watcher on your channel, I LOVE your family. ( I came across your videos when Ryan tried to braid Madison’s hair lmbo). I’m excited to see what’s next for you all!

[@naibecks9452]

Hey girl, hello from the UK London, it is your life and you only get one. So live it how you want, never feel you have to please anyone but you. Also how are you doing your make up so good with Jordan on your lap, I just about manage mine with 2 free hands. Please do more videos like this I really enjoyed it. I'm 31 and not settled down I constantly feel pressured to start thinking about settling down and asked when I am going to have children. I want to be able to enjoy my babies once they are here. I feel old but at the same time I don't want to give up my career just yet. Part of me wishes I did things the other way round. I ended up writing a story sorry🙆🏾x

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

I love the 'stories' lol so no worries. There is no right way to get the family, career etc. No matter what you choose, someone will always have something to say. By the time you get to your third child you learn to do anything with a baby in hand LOL. Thanks for the feedback, I'll definitely keep this type of videos on the channel!

[@Fitbody_bysarah]

Love your skin!

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thank you! My cousins have the same last name as you btw. 👀

[@Fitbody_bysarah]

Yasss!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Yoruba 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

@@Fitbody_bysarah 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬. By the way, if you're interested, I just reposted my nighttime skincare routine --> kzbin.info/www/bejne/haTMfXxqZdiqp9E

[@9MissCourtney6]

Have you considered master's entry nurse practitioner programs? I know we have those in the states. You don't have to go back to do a second bachelor's and they're a lot shorter than med school. There's also physician assistant programs that are only 2 years.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thanks for the suggestions. In Canada NP requirements are bachelors in nursing plus a master's in nursing. NPs don't have the same scope of practice as physicians. Physician assistants aren't regulated in Canada and don't have the same autonomy that I'm looking for. My issue isn't getting to medical school in the US, nor is it the length of training...so applying for another program isn't the answer in my case. 😉

[@9MissCourtney6]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs ah, okay! Makes sense :) I'm sure you will succeed in whatever you decide! I love your channel!

[@charlotteechekwa9956]

Love from Zimbabwe

[@katialemos474]

I could just squeeze this cute.😍

[@27Socrates]

Hear u sista! Do u!

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thanks Robert!

[@rachelhartley6724]

Off the subject but Jordan look like Ryan in this video, she is so pretty as is Madison and Gabriel is so handsome.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Rachel Hartley she’s changing so quickly!

[@AirborneEclipse]

❤️

[@deniserutherford9250]

Hey Lexa... Not 2 be deep... but I would ask GOD what is HIS Will, Plan & Purpose 4 your life! Much ❤ & respect to you 😉

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Denise Rutherford that is not too deep. I can make all sorts of plans, but if isn’t his will, none of it will happen. I mention Him later in the video (I know it’s a long video).

[@deniserutherford9250]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs AMEN Lexa 🙌... You've accomplished so much and I am so proud of you. Thank u for sharing your ❤

[@honeybun6050]

You said correctly Denise.

[@shaynice1040]

I admire your views, valid and so realistic. This is actually words that so many are unable to Express...many truthfully relate to this. Thanks for sharing and don't give up on your dream hon.

[@GlassTotem]

2:15 Wow! I didn't know about this kinda stuff. I'm glad I do now ^_^ It's kool to hear different peoples sides of their processes. There is no perfect way. The only "perfect" way is to keep up communication with the children and yourself right? And don't shy away from the hard topics with them, cuz if they're interested now then that's when you must educate them! xD

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Exactly!

[@juliannesharpe278]

You are beauiful. You have a beautiful family. Go to medical school and be a medical doctor.Do Not compromise or go below your capabilities.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thank you. I'm definitely not settling or compromising. But if I went to medical school now, I would not be happy. I believe timing is everything.

[@juliannesharpe278]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs Timing is indeed important. Therefore, go forth when it is time.

[@ComradeHB]

I totally understand why you wouldn't want to give up your healthcare.

[@barbcarter690]

That is the prettiest baby.

[@mayberrysgirl4ever]

Miss Jordan needs her own show. Little mama has alot to say! lol

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

She's sooo talkative lol. When her siblings aren't around she finally gets a word in.

[@r.kerindongo9012]

I'm so so sorry im trying to follow what you're saying but big momma is soooo sweet, adorable. She stole the show...sorry

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

🤣it's okay, that was her plan!

[@1NeoSoulChild]

That skin !!!

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Thanks. I just relisted my nighttime skincare routine! My nighttime skincare routine --> kzbin.info/www/bejne/haTMfXxqZdiqp9E

[@muxlimah786]

Alot of people go to Eastern Europe to do med from the UK. It's quite inexpensive aswell.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Amz Lemons True. If I were to move for med school I would probably go where I have citizenship (UK or USA).

[@mikkomalinen2641]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs Oh, you are a citizen of UK? As of now, when UK is still an EU member state, you can apply any university within EU. For instance there is no tuition fees for EU citizens in universities in Finland. However, nobody knows how things are going to change when and if brexit comes. Finland is more or less like Canada in Europe.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Yes, my mom is British 🙂! We've played with the idea of moving to Europe...but we don't have any family there. A friend of mine is from Finland, he said it gets really dark there early in the day. Is that true?

[@mikkomalinen2641]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs Yes, that is true. I live in middle part of Finland, some 400km north from Helsinki and during the darkest day we get only five and half hours of daylight. Flip side of the coin is that it doesn't get dark at all during the summer months.

[@Bebe-xn4tk]

Have u ever thought about maybe (maybe) about being a PA?👀 Do u and Ryan both have an undergrad degree in nursing?

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

PAs are not registered in Canada, don't make a good living and don't have the autonomy that I would like. Ryan has two undergraduate degrees, one in nursing and another in kinesiology with a minor in psych. I have a BSc (Medical Science and Psychology Honors double major) and a MSc in Medical Science with a specialization in neuroscience. My thesis was in molecular biology (genetics). I'm currently a clinical researcher at a hospital and Ryan is a community mental health nurse.

[@Bebe-xn4tk]

Lexa Karlyn vlogs wow 😮👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. You guys are really smart lol!!! Nothing better than an educated couple👫

[@yvonnedavis1697]

💪🏾

[@serinat2181]

I would love to go to med school but girllll it is practically impossible

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Serina T why is that?

[@angelcasiano-hoskin6369]

YOU GO FOR WHAT YOU WANT AND DON'T SETTLE BECAUSE YOU WILL REGRET IT IN THE END. Enjoy your babies....they're only little once. Don't pray that away because it's your destiny. The timing will be right for you to go to medical school. 'just sayin'

[@honeybun6050]

And you don't have to Alexa. Keep trusting Jesus! He's always right.

[@heartsdesirebathandbodymic6817]

Jordan was watching you SO closely while you did your makeup, she's gonna be into it! Yes, I had to put EVERYTHING on hold when I found myself with 3 kids, ages 16, 10 and 2 and my ex and I decided to divorce! I couldn't finish my nursing classes, I had to hustle my butt to a well paying job and thankfully that was available to me. But now my youngest is 21, so I raised them on an office mangers salary and they had all the needed, especially LOVE! Whatever YOU decide to do, it will be PERFECT for YOUR family! You look so pretty sweetie! Lots of love to you, Ryan and those fantastic kids! Today is our youngest granddaughter, Aliyah, 3rd birthday! Have a lovely night Lexa💗♀💗

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

Wow, I can't imagine taking care of three kids and working full time. I'm sure your children appreciated your hustle and sacrifice. Did you ever think about going back to complete nursing? Or did your aspirations change over time?

[@heartsdesirebathandbodymic6817]

@@LexaKarlynVlogs I own my own bath and body product company (like LUSH, but ALL customer request products) so it keeps me busy and my husband has kidney cancer so I get to be home with him. We watch our grandkids a lot, who are becoming great helpers, so being at home is BEST for ME now. Thank you beautiful!💕💕

[@vanessarussell8158]

As a single parent I had to put off becoming a nurse until my children got older.

[@LexaKarlynVlogs]

I don't know how you did it! These kids are a whole full time job!

[@Kueytwo]

You can combine your passions for being a Physician and a KZbin guru just like Dr Mike. He should give you some advice and pointers to balance both.