Finding A Father Figure | Underage and Pregnant | Full Episode | Origin

16 year-old Becky is mum to 14 month old Kenzie. Tragically, when Kenzie was just seven months old his 16 year-old dad died suddenly in his sleep. As a result, Becky has found it difficult bonding with Kenzie as he is a constant reminder of her ex-partner.
Becky struggles to look after Kenzie by herself, feels alienated from her friends and with little social life her dreams of meeting a new man seem remote. Can Mum Trish persuade Becky to get out more? And will she find love - and a father figure for Kenzie?
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[@BeatrizPereira-mk2cr]

I think she needs some serious therapy and help to bond with her baby. Obviously, people deal with death and they morn in their own (special) way, so I can’t really say she is wrong for feeling the way she feels BUT she needs help to channel that “anger” or her feelings in general in a healthy way, for her, her child and the rest of the family.

[@cuddlygoblin]

She's obviously grieving and therapy would definitely help her cope. I really hope she got some help and didn't try to just bury those feelings.

[@redravenous1604]

Grief-stricken I'm sure.

[@jadecarter1555]

Her mom deserves an award! She's a saint!! I hope with age and maturity she learns to appreciate her

[@mrs.dalton3738]

It's so sad that she rejects her son until she gets a new boyfriend! Poor baby!

[@mariemunoz9673]

That’s so true it’s her fault not her baby he didn’t ask to be brought in the world

[@lapatti]

@@mariemunoz9673 what is her fault exactly? That her boyfriend died? That she was young, not coping with grief and having a baby? That she was depressed? Women deal with post partum depression in apparently "normal" situations, this kid needs help and compassion, not anyone's judgment. She is a victim just as much as Kenzie is

[@laurencoradeath3755]

@@mariemunoz9673 What is her fault?

[@JadeCarter66]

So incredibly sad

[@JadeCarter66]

@@lapatti stop it… It’s her fault that she had a baby… We need to stop making excuses for people. She had a choice and ultimately she chose to have the baby. She had a choice to either keep the baby, give the baby up for adoption, or have an abortion… She chose to keep the baby, so if you are adult enough to make that decision, then you have to step up and raise the child and raise the child properly… If you can’t do that, give your child up for adoption. Stop being so selfish and do the right thing for the child. PERIOD!

[@perfectlyimperfect1095]

I think she needs to get counseling. She is clearly not coping with death of her baby's father and as a result she isn't bonding with her baby.

[@laurencoradeath3755]

I do think she needs counseling because she is not bonding well with Kenzie and on top of that the death of Kenzie's father.

[@lapatti]

She definitely needs counselling. She's only a child herself coping with being a single mom. She must feel so scared and lonely even with her mother around. If she doesn't deal with these issues she might fall into depression again if things go wrong with the people in her life. I really believe she needs to realise that she's stronger than she thinks, even on her own

[@nicola6530]

Postnatal depression and grief are awful. I hope this young lady got help and her and her child are living happy lives.

[@tasheamaxwell6828]

I was 17 when I had my baby and he is now 21. Depressed or not if I would have mistreated my baby my mom would have kicked my ass.

[@JadeCarter66]

THANK YOU!!! Please say it louder for the people in the back!!!

[@wynterblackwell3640]

you don't understand PND or even plain depression do you? It's not oh I'm sad now 'cause my bf left I'm all depressed. It's an incredibly debilitating condition

[@wynterblackwell3640]

@@JadeCarter66 that goes for you too

[@jadec3453]

He isn’t calling for his dad, he is making a sounds cause he is a baby. She needs therapy. She is grieving and depressed and this is why she is like this. I feel bad for judging her

[@chloebird860]

Jade C he was saying dada my 13 1/2 months old says it all the time while looking at her dad then looks at me and says mummum so he was calling for his dad

[@alyssagosche8017]

He is 100% saying dada my 13 month old says it all the time (his dada is away right now and he has missed him greatly these past few months)

[@moobagmoobag4913]

He definitely was saying dad . Bless him ❤️❤️

[@L0zzle]

“So she doesn’t get overwhelmed he goes to a childminder 5 days a week” …… that’s parenthood my love!

[@silvasilvana9392]

Hope she gets the help she needs. Her mother is an angel ♡

[@alexripley251]

I feel so bad for kenzie ❤️ he loves his mumma so much and it’s not even his mums fault 😢 I hope they grow and she learns to love him unconditionally because she’s been through so much and he’s the one that can bring her true happiness. Honestly wish them all the best ❤️

[@laurencoradeath3755]

I really hope she got help for grief and depression and hope mum and baby are ok.

[@Bratzismylife]

Now I understand why comments are turned off on this channel most of the time. People really are quick to judge and put hurtful comments considering she is grieving.

[@catsforever3999]

I was thinking the same thing. People are quick to judge others when their not in that persons person's situation. It's sad

[@laurencoradeath3755]

Exactly and she might be suffering with depression as well as grieving.

[@beckyparker5661]

I know it's really sad and people need to stop judging... She's grieving and just needs help that's all

[@kellyannnoble1288]

I really love this channel😩

[@kimberlymcdonald7405]

She needs to get back at school full-time . Grandma needs to reach out to the other grandmother of the deceased father and do alternate weekends the baby can be a blessing to the fathers family as well. This will help the mother get back on track , and become a better mother as her and the baby grow up together. They need to remind her your life is not over just a bit harder in beginning.

[@EC2019]

Clearly needs help with the grief, post-natal depression etc. Poor girl. Poor baby, poor everyone.

[@ddbrooks6473]

So she’s only treating her baby better because she has a boyfriend now very interesting

[@brilliantbutblue]

Dd Brooks; IKR!! Immaturity and low self esteem if ever l seen it.

[@LucyLucy-]

Because she was clearly depressed and struggling with the death of her baby’s father, therefore a new boyfriend was a happy distraction. When you’re happier in yourself and not as depressed, your attitude, patience and motivation improves. Being an immature teenager, having a baby you’re struggling to bond with due to depression and grief is never going to be easy.

[@brilliantbutblue]

Lucy: Excellent point. Well said.

[@laurenhibbitts952]

its sickining

[@offensivelyright5362]

Desperate for attention idk why mom let a boy move in she will get pregnant again smh and he will most likely leave her than she will have 2 kids and not want them. It pisses me off bc I know several teen moms who stepped up and raised their kids and we're happy to do so. It was her choice to have a baby n her choice to get pregnant I keep saying parents should take kids to get a depo shot stop assuming they will take a pill every day smh

[@hkrobertson]

This pisses me off. I was a single mom at 16 & no daddy involved. I grew the hell up and didn't expect my parents to parent MY child. It sucked and it was seriously difficult but my baby has always been MY responsibility! Stupid mom enables her way too much.

[@jadec3453]

Same.

[@rohidnablay9474]

hkrobertson I’m 16 and the more I watch these videos he more I want a baby, how difficult was it and did your teenage years disappear because of it? Everyone says when you have a baby as a teenager your life is ruined

[@sheanellasimon5746]

Rohid Nablay yep

[@monicanath4859]

I totally agree hkrobertson-the daughter is not accepting her responsibilities here, and her mother is enabling this.

[@mrs.dalton3738]

Rohid- being a teen Mom is SO hard! I was 17 when I had my daughter. I do not recommend getting pregnant on purpose as a teenager, that's really immature. As a teen mom I couldn't give my daughter the things she deserved, not to mention the fact her dad bailed on me the second I told him...most boys do leave so it's always the girls responsibility to grow up fast!

[@elyseeblackstone4597]

I hope that poor precious Kensie grew up ok😢

[@WolfGirl988]

He is a beautiful baby boy and its a shame that she dumps him off on her mum and wants rid of him constantly

[@gaylesbeautycorner1996]

"I like being out of house I have nothing to do when I'm there" umm, maybe look after your son?

[@cairanandrews]

Or maybe a job? 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@shortyylu]

Don’t judge unless you’ve been through it

[@shortyylu]

You try being a kid with a baby. Working on top of being a single mom is extremely hard. Only in America you don’t get a year or 2 depending on the country of parental leave after having a baby. ALL PAID TOO. It takes a while before mentally and physically Recuperating having a child especially as a child!

[@hollyeverton2767]

Can't even imagine how hard that would be losing your partner and learning to be a mum all at the age of 16. And not having friends around. Lucky she has such an awesome mum. Becky if you're reading this don't be too hard on yourself, depression is bloody hard. Your boy loves you that is so obvious. If counselling and parenting classes are an option please don't be scared of taking them! I needed counselling due to depression when I was pregnant and things are going much better now :)

[@laurencoradeath3755]

Exactly

[@judithryle2113]

The mother tries to pet her way to much. Now mom is letting this guy move in with them. No way

[@mafianails527]

Unfortunately this is what happens when self absorbed people think they know better and go ahead with pregnancies, they completely forget that the responsibility for that child falls on them and they should become second to that child. Yes she needed help to bond with Kennsey, but she had to want that help; all she wanted is to be the one looked after.

[@lilyknowles8586]

Mafia Nails this is what happens when your baby’s father dies and you don’t know what to do with yourself

[@mafianails527]

The grieving yes, but the selfishness no

[@lilyknowles8586]

Mafia Nails the resentment in the grief

[@laurencoradeath3755]

@@mafianails527 Yes she is grieving but i don't think she is just grieving it could be a sign of depression.

[@abbiegreene2602]

This is what happens when someone is suffering with depression, grief, postal depression etc people use the stigma that mothers should be happy all the time and that is what pushes depression furthers until a life is gone. We should be teaching that it's ok not to be ok, that it's ok to cry, be upset etc she needs time for her mental health that doesn't mean you self-absorbed because you feel the way you do.

[@marikabournes9703]

Seriously she is so spoilt. She should have given her child up for adoption if she couldn't care for him.

[@beepboop9464]

She is grieving and was obviously in need of some serious therapy. You're so disgustingly judgemental. Get a life.

[@lifeandmusicccc7562]

That wasn't the right thing for her.

[@aprillove9318]

I 100% agree someone would love this baby if she doesn't want to

[@laurencoradeath3755]

How is that spoilt? Do you even know what being spoilt is? She is grieving and could be suffering from depression she needs help not negativity.

[@saharahxxxx1251]

Her boyfriend died shes grieving and very Young

[@ZeroFreak1]

She straight up said she doesn't her kid around instead wanting peace and quiet Kid should habe been adopted to a family that wants him :(

[@river8760]

This.

[@JoJo-hg7tg]

The bf moved in quick

[@eristemo]

Baby 2 on the way

[@judithryle2113]

A loser

[@MissKealoha]

Becky needs to be kicked TF out and Nana needs to keep that baby! I feel so bad for that poor baby! Hopefully he gets to home where the family loves him. Mom is an idiot for letting a boy move in. Baby #2 coming soon...

[@laurencoradeath3755]

she is suffering with i think postnatal depression, maybe anxiety and also she is suffering with grief oh poor baby really? Alot of mothers don't feel yay i am to have a baby/ had a baby straight away some suffer with postnatal depression or baby blues. She is grief because her boyfriend died. P.s they are not teenagers anymore most of them have 2/3 children maybe 4.

[@leannejayne5529]

What a dear boy Kenzie is. I can’t have kids so this is absolutely heartbreaking to see 😢

[@beckyparker5661]

So sorry to hear about that 😭 xx

[@felicitys8673]

I’d adopt this little boy! ♥️ I’m praying for a baby and to see this breaks my heart. I have so much love to give to a child and give them a happy family 💕

[@pattipurzycki6201]

Hang in felicity cat lady one day your gonna have what your wanting in gods time. Trust me I was told at 12yrs and my parents due to some bad things happened that I'd never have any babies. Well I turned 25 and I got pregnant but it was a very hard pregnancy and my boy had some heart issues and stomach and intestinal issues but I've got him and hes awesome and hes going on 19yrs in July!! It was tough when hes an infant and as a child due to some the health issues but hes awesome to this day. He works 10 12 14 hr days graduated with honors from high school and want s to be into auto mechanics. He will cuz my boy will make it and he will succeed in life. Keep your head up if cant have by normal means try to adopt or even do foster parenting that helps so much your not even know. Some people out there do foster care for wrong reasons. Money is not a reason its love and all that which is needed and someone who has a true heart to love and guide a child the right way and show them how to be in this world. Love em. Peace I'm out ! Patti420!! Patti420high@lovingit!!

[@beepboop9464]

Then adopt a baby that is truly unwanted. This girl is obviously struggling with the death of Kenzie's dad. She probably was in need of therapy and had post partem. There are plenty of truly unwanted children in this world.

[@felicitys8673]

Clare Keys we’ve looked into adoption and it’s very very expensive ☹️

[@beepboop9464]

@@felicitys8673 You could foster. You could adopt from a foreign country. There are a lot of options other than being judgmental to a teen mom who has been through grief like this.

[@Maybenottoday525]

Felicity S foster before hand. It costs much less if you are a foster and decide to adopt. There are many many many babies and small tots that need a loving home out there. I always wanted to adopt as well but had three of my own and husband said that’s enough. Lol

[@lunalove9395]

I'm surprised that the mum let the boyfriend move in when they'd only just started dating? She barely knew him.

[@CM-vs5cj]

I wish there were updates on where they all are now 😔

[@pattipurzycki6201]

Wow Becky you need to grow up now ,period!! That little boy didnt ask to be brought into this world. You may feel bad awful whatever the feeling cuz his dad died and you dont have him anymore well that's not Kennseys fault at all. Babies ,toddlers ,infants and kids of all ages are a pain but that's called growing pains lol for you and the kid. Becky you need some counseling ok with and without baby Kennsey!! You have a beautiful red headed lil guy there and he loves you so much. Hes gonna trigger off you anger and your moods so Beck please get some help. Counseling and maybe a parenting class with other young moms and young dads without the other partner!! You've got your mom and your lil bro helping you. Kennsey loves you rewatch your show and you see that little boy looking for you and to you for his love and how to do things. Grab that baby boy Kennsey and hold him cuz hes not gonna be this little for long and next thing you know they're graduating high school off to college and moving out then your pride and Joy's gone and your nomore then you were but grown up and alone. So make everyday with baby Kennsey count cuz YOU ARE ALL HE HAS IN THIS WORLD , UES MOMMY YOU AND YOUR IT !! Peace I'm out !! Patti420!! Patti420high@lovingit!!

[@bubblegummel]

Why are you signing off a KZbin comment like you're a rapper?

[@brilliantbutblue]

👏👏👏👏Well said.

[@tegannn9745]

She is at least 20 now

[@lapatti]

She was just a child when this happened. Good god, your emphaty and compassion has gone down the drain!! If this child was your daughter and you talked to her like that, do you think that would have helped? I can tell you never experienced mental problems or struggle of this kind. Good for you, but gee, go spew hatred somewhere else!

[@hairproducts7637]

Truth comments👏👏👏

[@bettyjeanzepeda4767]

She doesn't want him. Period. I wouldn't allow her alone with that baby anymore. 😣 I've seen some amazing men throughout these programs. Thank God.

[@stephanieschmaljohann226]

Welcome to parenthood! She’s a typical teen. She’s lucky her Mom is so supportive. My parents would have disowned me before allowing a boyfriend to live with me in their home.

[@michaelas.1837]

after 3 weeks, he is a stranger

[@katieann2360]

Why keep a baby you don’t want

[@helenabarnett1699]

Seriously!! Ikr!! Let ppl that can actually care for & about the baby!! Do the selfless act of giving your child an opportunity @ a better & brighter family life & future & then you can go back to being a selfish teenager!!!

[@laurencoradeath3755]

she could be suffering with depression and she's also suffering grief as well I think she needs help.

[@abbiegreene2602]

Why be judgmental when you don't understand PND? Postnatal depression isn't about not wanting your baby so please do some research on the topic.

[@jadec3453]

Five days a week in care. Mercy.

[@alexandracopland6686]

Im a full time mum as my partner works full time , I couldn't imagine putting my son in to children care for 5 days a week!

[@maditry3066]

She could literally kill him. She literally left him in a bathtub with water by himself and at 2 weeks threw him on the bed. She is so rough with him. He needs to be taking away

[@powderandpaint14]

I'm surprised social services haven't been contacted.

[@bettyjeanzepeda4767]

Sadly, she said she gets angry and she's also grieving. So my thoughts as well

[@saharahxxxx1251]

Her mother Takes good care that’s why

[@Lashamarie22]

Why do they all wanna be a midwife but majority of them can’t take even take care of their kids

[@amyj4071]

Thank God Kensey has a loving Grandmother. ❤ No father and basically No Mother. Poor wee kid.

[@momorich1836]

Becky's mum is an angel she shouldn't take her for granted. I hope she bonds better with her son tho.

[@KEENDARLING]

I wonder why The dads family isn’t involved in the baby’s life?it seems they would like to have their deceased son’s baby in their lives Kenzie is so beautiful I hope mom comes around... she says she wants a father for him but at this point he doesn’t even have a loving mom

[@abbiegreene2602]

Struggling with depression or mental health doesn't mean you don't love your family nor kids, it's means Becky was in a bad place mentally. In the video it said Becky did struggle with depression even parents can suffer mental health too not everyone is happy all the time.

[@KEENDARLING]

I think when these teen moms complain how hard it is - or say they want their life back I think a parent or someone should sit her down and say then let’s put the baby up for adoption- that’s the only way you’re getting your life back

[@laurencoradeath3755]

She lost her boyfriend due to he passed away some people can cope with grief and some can't maybe she is suffering postnatal depression or baby blues as well. Some do just complain and some do suffer with baby blues and postnatal depression just like adults.

[@abbiegreene2602]

Wow truly heartless there is a differant between struggling with being a parents and struggling with depression. She's struggling with Depression she's needs help not a judgement.

[@bobby-joday4730]

💕 Thanks so much for having the courage to be so honest about how you both feel/felt 🎖️ Please don't take any notice of any negative comments from anybody online or IRL❤️ LOVE is the miracle that unites humanity. Whatever your beliefs/ background, there's no other way to feel as good as falling in love. I wish your little family the very best. 👋👣

[@samwright834]

I was a teen mam on my own I brought my son up myself and hes now 14 yes it was hard and I struggled but I would never change anything my boy is my everything and my heart bursts with pride each time I look at him

[@meganbeattie1358]

Stuff teenagers do? Ima teenager but i use protection

[@gwendolyn0515]

Stuff dumb teenagers do

[@jacklynyoung2168]

People get pregnant using protection

[@__________________________7455]

This is the advice I would give one of my own teenagers, and I am passing on to you. Trust those who have your best interests at heart, who have walked down paths in life you have yet to experience. You have no idea how rocky that path can become sometimes. Why place yourself in an position to get pregnant when you are not even in a position to provide for yourself financially. Ideally, it would be 100% guaranteed you don't get pregnant if you abstain from sex. Realistically, you are not going to do that. So know condoms alone are not effective, and no form of birth control is 100% guaranteed. So use as many layers of protection as you can, which then further cuts down on your risks of pregnancy. Make an appointment with Planned Parenthood, to explore other birth control methods. There can be emotional damage and fallout from having sex too prematurely. It's not that you don't value yourself, but I don't think teenagers have a clear enough idea of exactly what it means. Counseling is a excellent way to get more clarity on this. We as humans naturally have sexual desires. We also have desires for food, but we can't overindulge ourselves without negatively impacting our lives. Sex is the same way. You can negatively impact yourself emotionally, because having sex for you, might not mean the same thing, or done for the same reasons as the person(s) you are sleeping with. Keep in mind, since birth control is not 100% effective, than personally, I would take time to get to know as a person , the male(s ) I sleep with who could potentially wind up being the father of my child. This might give you a reality check, because the boys you sleep with are not ready to take on like you, the financial and other responsibilities of parenthood suddenly thrust upon them. Having clear plans and goals , activities , and interests really helps to keep you focused on more than sex.

[@laurencoradeath3755]

@@jacklynyoung2168 Thank you exactly I agree.

[@abbiegreene2602]

Even if you use protection there is a chance you can still get pregnant.

[@helenabarnett1699]

@15 getting drunk & sleeping with random ppl is Not “normal stuff that teenagers do”.. @ 15 I was practicing & worrying about making it into Show Choir @ school.

[@anyatindall5678]

lots and lots of people do get drunk and sleep with people at 15, I definitely don't think it's unusual.

[@beckyparker5661]

@@anyatindall5678 I did 😬😂xx

[@hollieburn1156]

Poor baby :(

[@alexisdixon1799]

To people saying ugly baby etc Looks don't make ugly or beautiful personality does. The baby is cute and in my opinion all babies are cute the baby is not ugly at all.

[@LL-sh5gm]

He's such a cutie 😍

[@pencerism]

We've all got opinions here. You can't go shitting on somone who has an opinion with an opinion.

[@alexisdixon1799]

@@pencerism 😂😂😂😂 first of all I am not shitting on anyone's opinions if you read the post I put in my opinion babies are cute. How am I shitting on an opinion when i posted my own lol you accusing me on shitting on opinions.

[@alexisdixon1799]

@@LL-sh5gm I agree I think the baby is cute and I think all babies are cute in my opinion.

[@laurencoradeath3755]

@@alexisdixon1799 I swear Hangeraza doesn't know how to read or needs glasses I can clearly see in your comment In my opinion and etc looks don't make ugly personality does.

[@llamazarecool]

Incase many of you guys don’t realise the underage and pregnant series was filmed between 2009 - 2010 or 2011. So no point shitting on the mother’s and their families

[@mariav7190]

It disgusts me that people like her can have children and people who desperately want them can have them physically. Somone would love to have that child .

[@alfiekelly3563]

Didn't know you could fit that many now's in a sentence🤣

[@kyliepretty5072]

So sad for this child. There is absolutely no bond there and he will always feel emotionally neglected by his mother no matter how hard his grandma tries to compensate. She will probably end up getting pregnant again and have her mum raise her heap of kids.

[@athenabelle5794]

She was far too rough while changing kenzie

[@shear7712]

Yes she was

[@sandcastles73]

I feel for some of these girls, doesn't anyone ever give them their options when they find themselves pregnant? I swear the UK has some kid of love affair with pregnant girls. Becky obviously struggles with her son and will for a while to come. She is only happy if she is part of a couple, which is quite damaging.

[@malicahamilton]

sandcastles73 Of course the girls have options keep the child , adoption and abortion. They don’t have to keep the baby if they don’t want to. We also have sex education in primary and secondary school but there will always be girls who are uneducated or just young and dumb and don’t expect to end up pregnant and then you have the small amount who want to become mums at a super young age

[@laurencoradeath3755]

Of course the UK gives options abortion, adoption or keep same goes for other countries like America.

[@abbiegreene2602]

Of course we have choices and options but at the end of the day it's their choice also it's ok not to be ok people throw that stigma around like mothers have/need to be happy what about our mental health? What about it's ok not to feel ok?

[@hopesutopia4458]

Soooo you didn’t want your child to grow up without a dad figure? But now that the father died (so sorry about that) you’re pushing your son away? So basically your son is an orphan! Good thing your mom is there. She’s the hero.

[@onedayindia]

what a great documentary. what a strong family. I hope they find a good therapist and help for raising this boy. Broken Attachment between a mother and a child has lasting impacts on children. good luck.

[@sheenashroder5315]

Kinda put off by how her motivation and attitude seem to stem from being in a relationship. I just don’t feel a sense of independence from her, like she’s just given up on everything, unless there’s a man in the picture. What’s going to happen if they break up? She needs to go to therapy to address everything she’s been through. Being a teenage mom, the baby daddy’s death, difficulty bonding with the child, self confidence issues... that’s a lot to take on and she owes it to herself and her son to get it together and get on with life.

[@amandah2638]

Why are the parents not saying that "Hey getting a guy to take care of your baby and be your boyfriend isn't important right now"???

[@XMizzTuraX]

I completely understand why she feels the way she does but she really needs to grow up, she's a mum and should act like one, not a child. That's a dangerous situation for Kenzie to grow up, he's going to struggle when he's older if his mum doesn't bond with him.

[@laurencoradeath3755]

she could be suffering with depression and she's also suffering grief as well I think she needs help.

[@sarahclark7923]

Kenzie is a beautiful baby. Thank heaven for Trish. It is tragic that Kenzie's father died so young. Becky needs grief counseling, but I also think Becky is impatient and emotionally immature. She wants to be a teenager, not a mother. I feel they should give Kenzie up for adoption.

[@laurencoradeath3755]

I don't think she was just suffering from grief I think she could be suffering from depression as well she needs help with her grief and depression if she has depression.

[@saharahxxxx1251]

But why her mother takes good care of him

[@QueenJasmine1991]

Becky doesn’t deserve that sweet child. I understand she’s depressed because Kenzie’s father isn’t there anymore but that gives her no right to treat that baby the way she did. He goes to daycare 5 days a week, she spends no time with him and then complain she’s tired and needs a break from her son. She only started spending time with Kenzie because she got a new man, but what happens when they breakup? Will she go back to not being able to stand the sight of her son? Kenzie didn’t ask to be here, he deserves his mother’s love and attention whether she’s single do dating

[@hannahroyle2886]

Kenzie would be 10/11 now. I hope he's okay and has a better bond with his mum now. 🙁

[@sukamayoutube2323]

People need to rememeber, she's still very young her herself. She has just been through the biggest life event, giving birth and at such a young age. Then having her babies dad die so young adding to post natal depression, I'm pretty sure she doesn't want to be cold with Kenzie, she's struggling a lot. It's sad to see so many comments saying she doesn't deserve the baby because all I see is a teenager trying to handle two huge life events in the space of months, I've known adults who can't cope after giving birth, never mind being 16 and losing your partner. She's happier now she's with a new boyfriend because being with him makes her feel like she has a future to look forward to. She's lucky to have her mums support.

[@jenng1929]

I had my son when I was 19, I was all alone, my babys dad was rarely around and my family lived far from me so I was alone all the time, I couldn't sit down and be bored or pain him off on anyone. She needs too grow up and be there for him more. Shes so cold towards him, he is a little doll. Sin.

[@JessFMcC]

poor baby boy. :/

[@kaitlinfield7822]

That poor baby suffering because of his mother and she acts like she doesn’t even want him.

[@abbiegreene2602]

She's probably suffering with PND post-natal depression.

[@justme-qj1mq]

*This poor baby!!!* the kid lost his dad and now his mum is not mentally there for him.. *SAD!!! HE DESERVES WAY BETTER THAN HER FOR A MUM* 💔

[@jadec3453]

Wow! Mums ok with her teenage mum daughter’s boyfriend moving into her home also? It’s a shame she had to be with a boy to catch feelings for her child. This is a bigger indication of her grief depression. Hope that even though this new fella is clearly a rebound and grief bandaid that they actually form something special. Being a single young mum isa hard thing. I remember crying myself to sleep and feeling so lonely.

[@aprillove9318]

So sad she shouldn't be a mother her mother should take custody or she should give the baby up for adoption for someone that will love him and treat him right this angers me

[@lapatti]

Good god no! She has depression and she struggled with grief. Why would you do that to a child and her baby even before trying to help! She needs counselling and Kenzie needs her mom to be well again, not to be abandoned!

[@abbiegreene2602]

1; Wow do you say that to older mother suffering with depression or post natal depression? 2; Don't force adoption on people 3; She's needs help not judgement.

[@samadams35]

Oh wow, what a situation.

[@karenrainer9497]

shes bored OMGu have child!! grow up!!!

[@juliebegay2433]

Why do they use the statement "fell pregnant "? It's the stupidest thing that could be said...

[@bubblegummel]

A fell doon da stairs and go' pregnahhnt didn' I?

[@selobee4831]

It's just a colloquialism, every language has them lol "came down with a cold" doesn't make much sense either when you really think about it lol

[@Usamimike]

We say that in Hungarian, too. Teherbe esni = to fall pregnant. It's the same with "to fall in love" (=szerelembe esni).

[@jemma-skyeblues7120]

Julie Begay nearly every country says that😂🤷🏻‍♀️

[@laurencoradeath3755]

Feel pregnant is used mostly for a unplanned pregnancy become pregnant is used mostly on a planned pregnancy.

[@savvyg571]

I’d be so embarrassed to neglect my child and then suddenly treat them better once I’ve got a boyfriend. Her mom should have taught her about self love and contentment when she was a wee thing and she would not rely on a lad for happiness.

[@emj6068]

Do people realise this was filmed years ago.

[@malicahamilton]

Yeah you can easily tell

[@gripitl6878]

Chic Bear Any update links?

[@llamazarecool]

This was filmed in 2010

[@brilliantbutblue]

Chic Bear: Yes we do.

[@amygoodman8417]

She is only 25 or 26 now..... I bet she has another 2or 3 babies. Makes me wonder why the heck those teen girls' mothers wouldn't teach them about birth control and the harm it does to your body and mind giving birth to a baby at really young age.

[@elizabethcampbell5428]

This was a sad upsetting story this mother has no love for her son and just wanted nothing to do with him and baby’s feel that.Its scary she wanted to be a mom when she got a boyfriend..her mother is a pure angel with so much patience I hope she really appreciates her mom and sees what she has done for her

[@safinakauser2414]

Kenzie is so cute god bless him

[@standuptobullies9603]

Her mums a good mum she lucky her mum done all that not many would xxxx

[@MrsBSullivan]

But as soon as that boy leaves her she’ll be back not caring about her baby… smh poor baby 🥺 i need a update. I hope she’s healed

[@AriaCadence17]

Why have a baby if you don’t want them?! This isn’t just because the dad died, she threw him on her moms bed when he was 2 weeks old because she didn’t want to deal with him. She needs help to get her mind right. If you don’t want to be a mom, then don’t, it’s fine, not everyone does. But don’t make your baby feel unwanted or like he’s a burden when he’s not.

[@laurencoradeath3755]

she could be suffering with depression and she's also suffering grief as well I think she needs help.

[@pndgetsmewetter]

She did want the baby but postpartum depression is a thing.

[@abbiegreene2602]

Please research postpartum depression aka post-natal depression it's not about not wanting the baby it's struggling to bond alot of mums go though it teenager or older and postpartum depression can affect up to 20 percent of mothers.

[@izanneferreira785]

Do these people not understand what Adoption is? Don't want a kid? Give it to someone who does.

[@laurencoradeath3755]

she could be suffering with depression and she's also suffering grief as well I think she needs help.

[@beckyparker5661]

Obviously she doesn't want to give him up or she probably would have by now she's just needs help that's all

[@pndgetsmewetter]

You are slow

[@abbiegreene2602]

You Obviously don't understand what PND aka PPD is so don't be judgmental having post-natal depression doesn't mean you don't want your baby or love your baby so stop with that stigma.

[@abbiegreene2602]

to add;if you want to adopt good for you don't force it on others.

[@niciafincannon9651]

This girl makes me so angry. Why did u have the child if u seem to not care if he is taken care of. Grow up!!! I get that it is hard and she needs to seek help so she can be a better mom and a better person

[@frostigthjarnsmor6303]

This make me so greatful for everyday in my life where I don't have a kid.

[@rohidnablay9474]

Wow he’s so cute but a huge baby

[@deeschwass3886]

Does anyone ever say "you chose to keep your baby" ??? Whatever their age

[@anaholjevac2884]

It seems she is dealing with post-partum depression. It's so sad. Hope she got some help

[@natashawilson1861]

Why in the hell does this little girl want a career in midwifery if she hates her own baby? I sincerely hope she gets the help that she needs and becomes a better mum

[@rugrat4287]

honestly I would feel the same way she feels but I feel bad for her son too I am 23 & I CAN’T even take care of myself let Alone adult & she wanted to be with her baby daddy she wanted A family. *NO* one wants to raise A child Alone I am sorry for the whole family .

[@annemullarkey5839]

She needs to grow up now and step up to being kenzies mum

[@abbiegreene2602]

Telling someone to grow up when depression is saying oh their feelings are invalid, it's ok to not be ok the stigma of a mother being happy needs to stop.

[@CEDL4072]

She sounds like my stupid ex: He couldn't handle being a parent 🤦 sooo guess who got left all alone to take care of a baby? 🙋 But we're very happy and about to purchase a home soon 😊 But I also had my kid at 28 not 15. OAN, did she really just say her new bf moved in because he got kicked out of his place?!? 🤦 This girl needs to grow up. Can't stand women who put men before babies ugh.....

[@alfiekelly3563]

Now what's the point in using condoms now, it's not like now you're gonna get pregnant now

[@alfiekelly3563]

@sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman it was a joke from what she says in the video

[@pencerism]

I don't even know what she even means by that. Like condoms are SUPPOSED TO prevent pregnancy. Not everyone wants to get pregnant.

[@LucyLucy-]

sara Allison aka Miss true Freeman You can’t get AIDS that way. AIDS is not transmittable, it is a condition not a virus. You mean HIV.

[@abbiegreene2602]

@@pencerism Condoms and other birth control are not 100% and there are chances you can get pregnant on birth control.

[@monicanath4859]

This girl needed to accept her responsibilities, and not see her child as a source of irritation. She thinks she is happy now, however she should probably try to work on herself. Her little boy deserves better.

[@maddisonmaclean3620]

They will become a great mum when they get older they just need to learn how to become a mum it breaks my heart to see there kids in the middle of all this... x🥺

[@stepheniespetcare6390]

It's so sad watching this, Kenzie putting his arms out for his mum and she pushes him away. Adoption is sometimes a better option. Her mum has made it easy for her to walk away from her responsibility. If she was my child, I'd get her counselling and tell her to step up. If she didn't, there is no way I'd be paying for child care 5 days a week!

[@FionaKumariCampbell]

Adoption should be presented as a reasonable alternative, there’s so many able parents in waiting

[@judithryle2113]

Poor little unloved boy. At least he has a good grandma

[@NicNac081909]

She only wants to be bothered with Kenzie because she has a new boyfriend. If you noticed she wasn't even playing with the baby in the ball pit her and the boyfriend were playing with each other and Kenzie was off doing his own thing. Sad thing is she's going to find herself pregnant again and not wanting to parent two kids. Lord this girl needs help.

[@stormy8427]

She needs very much therapy to help her. The answer is not to let a boy move in after two weeks.

[@npesce01]

Her mother should have called social services. These parents allow too much from these teen moms. It is not helping their grandchildren. It is enabling laziness, and entitled behavior from the teens.

[@laurencoradeath3755]

she could be suffering with depression and she's also suffering grief as well I think she needs help.

[@pndgetsmewetter]

Why would anyone put their grandchild in care ? When they can take care of them. You are dumb

[@abbiegreene2602]

You're enabling judgmental people like yourself she probably suffering with depression.

[@finetuhipa4968]

Kenzie is so handsome. Becky appears very lucky compared to many other young & new mums.

[@jackienganga5338]

Depression is real, she needs treatment and not judgement

[@laurencoradeath3755]

Exactly thank you i agree.

[@grounderprincess7799]

You dont really here much about adoption in the UK. I think that makes people to afraid to even look into it or see it as an option. I think adoption needs to be destigmatised in the UK and young and older people need to be educated on it.

[@laurencoradeath3755]

some people in the uk do talk about and some don't same goes for other countries like America.

[@lifeandmusicccc7562]

Awwww......Kenzi is beautiful. 😘😘😘