Finding my biological father after 31 yrs | Part 1

[@JB-ro7kq]

I don’t know who my biological dad is either. I took the test and got connected with a half sister and a first cousin. I was so excited. I reached out and none of them responded. I take it as maybe God is protecting me and I’m 100 percent ok with that. I’m thankful that God blessed me to be raised in a loving two parent household that took me in when I was infant. But this is exciting to watch and I can’t for part 2😄

[@ByTheShepards]

Wow. I love that you’ve been able to accept that as the Lords protection. That takes some serious spiritual maturity!

[@daniellemorocco9242]

You’re out there now somebody meant to connect will. I found my sister on ancestry recently she’s been on for years waiting to find out who her bio dad was. Our family didn’t even try to reach out and could clearly see her. In 2018 my mom died I was suffering so badly from grief, I kept asking God to send me an angel. Fast forward to today 2023 I got stuck looking for grandfathers and family history building my tree so I bought a kit on Mother’s Day. Results came in and there she was someone I never knew existed under close family. We met and are practically twins. I’m overwhelmed with love for my sister. Gods timing is so good. Grateful we didn’t meet at 80. I’m never gonna lose my sister again!!❤️Love the way you look at it. God knows everything and we know nothing. Best of luck to you beautiful person.🫶🏽

[@CCCCCCCCCCCmany]

Found out my father not my father as well. I was able to figure out who he was. But ah🤕

[@daniellemorocco9242]

@@CCCCCCCCCCCmany it gets complicated.💔💔my heart to yours, I’m praying God sends you an angel beautiful Channie🙏🏽❤️

[@Imani..]

Oh wow we have the exact same story!! And I’m currently waiting for my results as well

[@ByTheShepards]

Prayers for you 🙏🏾 I hope it turns out well

[@pianoman2ga]

I know this feeling. It’s horrible and seems unfair. God gives me strength daily. I am a better father to my children than mine was to me! Thank you for sharing your story!

[@ByTheShepards]

Well said!

[@Blackspeare]

ima product of momma’s baby daddy’s maybe and just found out 4yrs ago at 28 that i didn’t know who my actual bio dad is and desperately in search now

[@ByTheShepards]

Praying you find him 🙏🏾

[@RealTalkRealGrowRealLife]

I found my biological 3 days ago father after 30 years, and it’s difficult for me to talk to me . I mean when he text I don’t know what to tell him. It feels off

[@kevin2960]

You have an amazing smile. I hope it all works out for you

[@angelamccarthy4731]

How did Asia and Africa travel to "meet" each other? Were there trade routes?

[@traceythomson879]

Wow I am looking for my biological father. I am white British and my father is black american so for me it's very complicated due to the fact that I only know his name. He did come to see me when I was born and I never saw him again. I believe that it's because he didn't believe I was his because I am fully white but the way I look at it is its not my fault. Anyway I am now 46 and I don't even know where to start. I am looking forward to following your jour ney. I might get a test to see what comes back. X

[@thewordsmith5440]

So you look completely white?

[@jackwesley7530]

i found out i have 2 daughters i never knew about on march 26 and dont know what to think

[@kamrynonlyy2996]

this was so me my whole life i just got one of these test hopefully i have the same luck

[@elo0o207]

You should link part 2 in the description so i can find it

[@evelynmahoney3569]

@elo0o207 Part 2: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZ6cZ2BtZZKkr5Isi=eI3aCRUkfBuGvbGT

[@deniseegbeto9053]

Wow, we got some things in common. You are my twining❤

[@ByTheShepards]

Well Denise is one of them lol 💕

[@lilliejackson2210]

How much is the test. I'm trying to find my grandson father.

[@AMANRA3]

On sale right now

[@denisebradley8151]

First off, you’re so beautiful. Second, I thought I knew my background until I completed a DNA test. The nationality I thought I was I was only 2% of it.

[@ByTheShepards]

Wow! It’s crazy how these tests can be so mind blowing!

[@tmoniquecornwell9874]

I met my sister one of my sisters and a brother I found on Ancestry DNA. Reached out to my father by letter with all my info & he ignored me. One day after my just gonna knock on his door.

[@ByTheShepards]

I’m so so sorry. I hope it turns out well 🙏🏾 either way I’m so glad you connected with your siblings!

[@texaslaptop]

We have been looking for my husband's birth father since 2017... we know he's Hispanic and was born in California... his nearest match is a 2nd to 3rd cousin on Ancestry... so, we're still looking...

[@dieauferstehung]

this is so sad. i wish men wouldnt be deadbeats and abandon their child in the womb.

[@LJLee-gt9uw]

Or mother's sleeping around then picking any dude put on birth certificate

[@laleezy77]

True but she's been with her mother this whole time & had to do a dna test just to get factual information...so the mom was so great that she left out who your father is for 31 yrs & counting...?

[@Triplenet_Agent]

Im on this journey now. I have a match with my half uncle but im terrified of reaching out.

[@ByTheShepards]

Praying the Lord gives you courage & wisdom!

[@Triplenet_Agent]

@ByTheShepards I reached out and he wanted nothing to do with the situation 😩

[@lwieserce1899]

Have you found any other person?

[@Triplenet_Agent]

@lwieserce1899 yes a half niece and a lot of others. Honestly my journey has been crazy. My half niece doesn't even know her dad and neither did I.

[@MyaThegoat774]

How long it took to get results back from ancestry

[@ByTheShepards]

I did 23 & me! It might be different

[@chynaslife22]

How long did it take for the 23and me test I did mines not sure when it’s coming in though

[@kayy1171]

@@chynaslife22 Personally for me my first kit failed. It took them about 2 to 3 weeks to start analyzing and I had to send another kit. I sent in a new one on January 3rd and received my results today. Usually it's never this fast and most people's results come in after 3 weeks. It depends on your DNA so I recommend keeping your kind off of it and just let the results come in but check atleast once a week to see if everything is going well.

[@daniellemorocco9242]

Took me 6 weeks total 2 weeks to get test 3-4 weeks for results.

[@RoseaaMarie]

Omgggg I’m watching this jun21st😊

[@Tigereye-s4p]

23% European is a lot,if i‘m right,it could even be one of your grandparents…

[@nitaatkinson4707]

Think I found mine. They joy replying to me though. Disheartening

[@levinolan636]

Women keeping millions of kids away from families n the fathers. If you have long lost kids,LEAVE THEM BE. NOT WORTH THE HESRTACHE.

[@ByTheShepards]

I’m so sorry that this has been your experience and has influenced your perspective. I’m glad that my biological dad didn’t feel this way. We have a phenomenal relationship today.