Finding Our Freedom | Picky Girl Travels Podcast Season 4, Episode 9

The ladies of ‪@exodussummit‬ (‪@StephaniePerry‬ and ‪@Roshida‬ ) join me this week to talk about FREEDOM for Black women.
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[@winnieb1352]

Adalia, Stephanie, and Roshida are the A-team for black women's freedom movement. You ladies have been a catalyst of epic proportions in reclaiming Our selves... thank you and flowers to you all. 💐💐💐

[@ExquisiteKinkyCoils]

😍😍🥰

[@Jeannine_9]

I love it when these three get together and converse, thank you ladies for giving us more options to live a different kind of life ❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Our pleasure!

[@denisenoles3159]

Stephanie is the Queen of promoting black women and their endeavors. Love it!!!

[@kemi1486]

The dynamic Trio 🙌🏾. I appreciate all of your efforts in working to get Black women finally free!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thank you!

[@gg13308]

The Harriet Tubmans of today…love it…love the message of Freedom..Dynamic Duo

[@kathyhampton_wellandaware]

This video reminded me how far I’ve come since I met all of these women. It’s amazing how free I am. The title of this years Summit is ringing true!! And, oh I won’t complain. ❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@tamikosyrie5682]

Awesome conversation.....FREEDOM! There is nothing like it.

[@MsLGC]

So encouraged by this conversation....Can't wait until Exodus Summit!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🙌🏾 this year's summit is going to be incredible

[@Abrandnewday123]

I loved loved loved this conversation. Coming into the understanding that if we simply believe we can reclaim ourselves, our lives, our time…that is the beginning. I am looking forward to the Exodus Summit and the community of black women. Here’s to our freedom🥂

[@lenorawilson2326]

I'm only 21 minutes in but this is really speaking to me, I'm sorry I missed the live. I can relate to each of you ladies but when Roshida said I didn't have twenty dollars to pull out of the bank, I use to have nightmares about the ATM taking my card and laughing at me telling my get away from the ATM you know good n well you don't have any money in her in fact its negative you owe us money. 🤣 I'm nowhere near where I desire to be but thank God I'm not where I was...😌

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🙌🏾

[@gg13308]

Time freedom is powerful. That was the last thing I got….and oh my goodness..that was a game changer or me…I love that I can go when I want or not..I am getting to do nothing..I love it

[@JazmyneNycole]

Emphasis on all 3 of you are in the business of freedom. This community is transformative, it truly is an honor to be able to witness this revolution. Peace !!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

It's a movement!

[@moneycoachmalika]

Replay gang, loved this convo. I had financial freedom first. While it gave me leverage to realize the other 2 freedoms, I moved with caution and doubt. The money made it possible to test the waters of time freedom and THAT is when the game changed for me! Free TIME opened my eyes and made me SEE things differently. I could exhale and THINK clearly. I felt LESS STRESS and discovered my creativity. I began to see the possibilities for a true life of ease. These days, I make decisions based on the level of joy it brings me, which led to my location freedom. Now I'm just bopping around the globe and discovering new things that make me smile. I wouldn't have taken the leap if not for you all, so I thank you with my whole my heart. 😍

[@rachelbey7008]

Just to IMAGINE requires a space to be STILL and KNOW and then. . . You three resonate self-healing to many women so WELL together. Shine on!

[@lakicia30]

Roshida's breakdown on capitalism and how so many facets of life in the U.S. are tied to work is a word. 🙌🏾

[@AdaliaAborisade]

💯

[@MrsMTSharr]

Peaceful Greetings, A wonderful sharing, Thank you three.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You're so welcome!

[@gailtriplin9785]

This interview is amazing. I've been watching all three of you ladies for a while, but I believe this coming together shined a light through who you truly are. Proud of you all !!!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thank you!

[@HannahGrace777]

Thank you, Adalia, Stephanie and Roshida!!! I took a six-month sabbatical in Mexico this year! I completed my TEFL certification in June in Guadalajara and now am putting it all together so I can make this change sustainable. Exodus Summit 2021 and 2022 helped me change my life! I thank each of you!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@sharonmoseley5779]

This interview spoke to me on so many levels.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

So glad you enjoyed it

[@blackhannahofficial]

Your message, as a trio, is Just as powerful to me Today, as it was the day I found you

[@zipporah5060]

I so appreciated this episode with the three of you - Adalia, Roshida, and Stephanie - as you continue to speak to and encourage more Black women to gain freedom on their terms.💕. I’m glad you are in this space!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thank you! 💖

[@NawniesMinistryToEncourage]

I relate Stephanie, definitely time freedom and getting it back is freeing. Once I retired my creativity was released to think about what I wanted.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

It's so amazing what time off can do

[@sharonmoseley5779]

All 3 of these women are amazing. So glad I came across them 2 yrs ago

[@fdoctor79]

I just moved back with mom as I complete my phd studies as a way to save and to be housed. I am trying to make the BEST out of this season and looking forward to Financial and Travel FREEDOM. 😅 Tfs. Love seeing the three amigas together. 😊

[@BlackQueenA1825]

I love so much when you all get to talk. I found Adalia's page from following Stephanie and I love when I see yall together. You queens give me so much life. This conversation has inspired me to look at what changes do I need to make to travel and live the soft kind of life that you guys are. You all are so amazing and I'm so happy that there's platforms where women who look like me can talk about living a good life because there was nothing like this when I was growing up. Thanks Queens and keep doing the good work

[@simplylovie007]

My favorite go to women for traveling advice.

[@lesliewilliams9072]

Wow! Roshida, I love that you were brave enough to trust Stephanie and that Stephanie is wonderful enough to be worthy of that trust. Reminds me of that saying that everyone has a gift to give and a gift to receive from everyone they encounter. ❤❤❤

[@living42dayonly92]

I strongly agree...each year the Exodus summit gets better and better. This year's Summit was the best. Congratulations ladies!!!🎉

[@Lady_Luv]

Wow!! This was amazing and really has prompted me to question myself, my motives and intentions more thoroughly. Black women sharing loving embracing encouraging and motivating one another is BEAUTIFUL!!! THANK YOU!!!❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You're so welcome!

[@SolH2OYachts]

Loved this conversation, you ladies are doing the Lord's work. 🎉❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thank you! 🤗

[@aimeepaterson4423]

Stephanie, THAT VERY EXAMPLE WAS...ME!!! My Lawyer Referred Me To a Financial Adviser & He Looked At My “Numbers” (As You Say) His Conclusion/Solution To Enable Me Achieve My Goal (Freedom From Work, First Class Travel Worldwide Whenever I Wish, RitzCarlton Etc + Move Abroad If/When I Was Ready) Was To Turn My Capital Into A Lifetime Robust Monthly Income! Consequently, I Was Able To “Retire”; Stopped Work & NEVER Worked Again!🎉🎉 I ❤️That Financial Guy!👏🏼👏🏼 I Spend My Days Beach Running, Playing Tennis, Walking Around My Beautiful City With Total Abandonment & Cooking Delicious, Healthy Meals For Myself! Absolute Freedom & Life Fulfilment!🙏🏼 Praise Be!💙

[@RebloomRoom]

Thank you for this conversation. I keep these on as words of affirmation as I go about my day. Exodus Summit all-access pass purchased; notebook on the way. It’s (finally) my turn! Let’s gooooo!!! 🏃🏾‍♀️

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You are so welcome

[@kahli777]

Soooo many gems from all of you... good medicine confirmation and inspiration... Saluté

[@AdaliaAborisade]

So nice of you

[@justpassingthrough7437]

I am watching this as I do the biggest purge I've done since started planning my exit (2017). This is such a motivating thing for me right now because I've done about 10 major purges since 2017 so now I'm down to the stuff I really wanted to keep. The question is no longer if I want it or not. Obviously I do. The question now is can I live without it in the name of getting freeeeee! I started 5 day ago and have been storing all donation items in my massive guest bathroom. In just 5 days the soaking tub is full and overflowing. The charity is scheduled to come in 5 days from today. I'm getting free ya'll!!! I can't take this sh*t no more!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

It is a difficult process and everyone's looks different

[@NikeiSSalas]

I enjoy your videos on black women choosing what's best for them.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thank you!

[@blackwomenbuildwealth]

I loved seeing my favorite freedom trio together. Thanks Adalia, Shida and Stephanie for this heartful conversation ❤ And it's so great that even after following you for many years, am still learning so much from you and about you. Am excited about the Exodus Summit theme this year and I have to say financial freedom is my favorite as I do believe when you have the financial freedom, it's easier to get the other 2. Looking forward to it 🤩

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Our pleasure!

[@shemari0129]

I watched this twice. Great conversation ladies!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thank you 💖

[@melisamichele7622]

I appreciate the different opinions. I’ve owned my own business but freedom to me is the security of a pay check. As a mother I had no one to call on for help financially. Thank you 💕🦋💕🦋

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thanks for sharing!

[@TeresaWilliamsCoach]

Replay squad: The Trifecta brought my suppressed desires to the surface. I’m on my way to freedom - time, financial, and location. I’m so grateful for each of you.🖤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@60plusblackwomenexpats]

OMG ❣️ this just put all the pieces together. I can relate to parts of each of you and then add to that the stressers of being a Baby-Boomer! I'm so desperate to free the 60+ group of Sistas because so many of us are being told and believe it's too late for us. Stephanie pushed me into proving that's a lie. Please let me know any way I can help. The urgency is real; there are more years behind us than ahead of us.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

So true!

[@andreanalife]

Love this trio!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thank you

[@Hello_Pri]

This was a great conversation. I love hearing from all three of you wonderful women together. Thank you! ❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@YogaBlissDance]

@20:21 Jamaican's (Islanders) yes we can have 3 jobs and go to school...it's exhausting... All I remember is I got pneumonia...and I was in my 20's...saw it wasn't something I could maintain.

[@Fairexchangenorobbery]

This video was exactly what I needed! Thanks ladies

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You are so welcome!

[@Aba_Ifeoma]

I love and appreciate these sisters and 💖I'm an absolute fangirl!

[@kahli777]

I didnt know how to get freedom in a system that isnt trying to help us get free- more than a word... ❤

[@magda3999]

3 of my favorite women. Y'all are so lovely together. 💜💜💜

[@TheJoJournal]

This spoke to my heart. I follow each of you individually but this collaboration was epic.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

So glad you enjoyed our conversation

[@mjaye1712]

Love this conversation.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thanks for watching

[@lunablu3921]

Great conversation! Love this community ❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Us too!

[@aimeepaterson4423]

Thank You, OBRIGADA, Adalia For This Session! Most Interesting & Very Instructive.🌹Thanks To Stephanie and Roshida Also.💝

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@TheOnyxQueenChannel]

Thank you ladies! Such great and inspiring content.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@stephanied.k.3589]

Love this conversation. I'm leaning into flexibility as the ultimate freedom. Looking to build location flexibility. I dont belive that the U.S is a safe place. It is home and will always be home but I feel a desperate need to find friendly places to move to when desired and if necessary. I have both financial and time flexibility but feel "stuck" by my percieved lack of location flexibility. There are just things, beliefs and behaviors that I just need to let go of.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

You got this 👏🏾

[@justpassingthrough7437]

This was so good! I really love and admire Adalia, Stephanie and Roshida!!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Thanks for watching

[@anissiawest]

That career break portal is ✨✨

[@AdaliaAborisade]

A portal to possibilities

[@ellacroney691]

Lucky for me I lived abroad over 30 years ago and travelled the world as a Flight attendant. One thing for sure travel brings adventure and introduces us to how different people live.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🙌🏾

[@Refreshing_Words]

Love y’all so much!

[@rajaal-taqi8122]

Going into retirement was one of the most difficult life changes I now think I've ever gone through.

[@ValerinaW_9912]

"Collecting dust and a paycheck!" 😮😂.

[@AdaliaAborisade]

😂

[@nelliehoosong6604]

Referred by Stephanie

[@user-qu2gp8mw9u]

👍🏾🥰❤

[@user-gs2lm4xb7j]

I understand Rashida's point at 44:22 when she said in a sense, that person had a head start or Trust Fund, won a big lawsuit that paid very well. I know because when on another episode Ivana said, I invested in something and that investment did well. It has allowed me the life I have now. Although I'm glad she admitted that I did for a second think so, she does not have to figure it out. Her investment made the way for her to live life on her terms.

[@joanebaptiste-cummins3207]

@Stepanie@Roshida will Ashley in Afrika be on the panel? Since Capetown is coming up, she would be a good one. She is currently in South Africa

[@MichellesFrenchLife]

Modern day Harriets❤

[@AdaliaAborisade]

❤️❤️

[@user-gs2lm4xb7j]

Unfortunately, a lot of black people are passing along generational wealth to their children and not regenerating wealth. Things that will constantly or keep churning out money. Things that just keep making money over and over and over and over. Myron Golden taught me this.

[@shreehill9641]

Have you considered breaking these into shorter clips by topics?