Finding Strength While Grieving The Loss of Your Spouse

Moira Brown speaks with Kate Cantelon whose husband passed away after an accident on the mission field -- she talks about how God has guided her in this time of loss.

[@barbarawright6844]

I just lost my husband suddenly 2 weeks ago and the pain you feel after 40 years is overwhelming. I believe I am in the shock stage and waiting for the death certificate because I don’t know the cause. The peace I do have is my husband was a God fearing man and had no fear of death or heaven. He is in a place of glory that he study for so many years about. My life has been turn upside down and need for Jesus to walk with me holding my hand guiding me through the next chapter of my life. 💔😪 I know my eyes need to be focus on God’s will for my life because you can easily allow yourself to be depressed and isolate. God allows me those moments of tears but my joy comes in the morning.

[@richardbradshaw7830]

Well am really sorry about that okay 😒☹️and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday.

[@richardmcguinn732]

Hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again?

[@debbieroberts600]

Barbara, I am sooo sorry for the Loss of Your Husband! Praying 🙏 God will Give You Peace & Comfort in the Day's Ahead, as only he can do! God's Blessings! 🙏

[@barbelgraham6580]

I lost my husband 2 years and 8 month ago he was a good men yes we had our mistakes but I love him for eternity and what keeps me going is that I will see him again and we will always be together with Jesus I miss him every day he was the only family I had ilove him always and forever

[@gabrielazeina1753]

Exactly the same for me... But I lost him on February..

[@chrisjohnson2246]

I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on, I lost my wife 3yrs ago to a terrible heart disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number [phone]

[@methatlovescats3602]

I'm sorry. I know that feeling of no family. The Holy Spirit is always with you and he sticks closer than a brother.

[@rabick62]

Love your " I will see him again and we will always be together with Jesus I miss him every day ". Only I lost my dear wife, so I say the same thing about her.

[@richardbradshaw7830]

Well am really sorry about that okay 😒☹️and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday.

[@kimmydora7863]

Watching videos in youtube about grieving spouses helped me a lot knowing that I am not alone we feel the same thing. Grief. My husband passed aways may 1 of this year. Its still fresh and everyday i cried myself to sleep thinking of the future that we planned and promises that we made. I miss him so much and everyday i feel like dying. I miss his voice, our small talks just before we sleep, his kisses and hugs. And we say I love you everyday. Now i cant see and hear him. Which breaks my soul and my heart. Im only 30 with no kids. 😞

[@florencekim1740]

Kimmy Dora Same experience with me and age. My husband passed away on 10th May of this year. Everyday I think about him and cry every day. I even wish I died with him. Almost went to depression bc I started seeing allusions. So, not to go into deep depression I have decided to move on and be happy. Though it's not easy.

[@laram5104]

Dora, I lost my beloved one this year on May 3 because of heart attack.. he collapsed at home just before we were going to sleep.. i am grieving so much that feel myself like I am empty .. have no other feelings just grieve and tears. Each and every days he is in my mind and cannot do anything about it. How did you deal with it whole year?

[@chrisjohnson2246]

@@florencekim1740 I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on, I lost my wife 3yrs ago to a terrible heart disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number [phone]

[@cherrylarroyo4097]

my husband too passed away last month ago! so much hurts and pains!!😭😭😭 i really miss him soo much!

[@cheryljune1603]

I fear I’ll never hear I love you again

[@maryharrington3404]

My husband died four months ago. We were married 50 years. You gave me a reminder to trust God with the last years of my life. It was so hard, and it helps to know how you survived and trusted God with your life.

[@jessicaagosto3633]

so beautiful, my husband went to Paradise with Jesus May 2, and ive been so hurt, but this story has uplift me, God bless you and God bless all the Widows and Orphan’s in Africa 🙏🏻✝️

[@richardmcguinn732]

I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's. My son and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again.

[@yvonnetrang2148]

I'm so glad and happy that you've found happiness. Good people like yourself deserve to be happy. God bless you.

[@milfordfowler9771]

I lost my best friend, my soul mate and the pain is still unbearable after three years. I still hope I wake up from this nightmare and see her when I wake up. I picked a prayer card for my wife's funeral, footprints in the sand, the next day I woke to a voice telling me to get dressed and go to the beach, so I did as I was told. my wife and I have a English mastiff very big paws. so I walk to the beach and I look down and notice my dogs footprints in the sand and heaven behold my wife's beautiful little footprints along side his. I turn and look back at home and a huge storm was blowing in. that was gods way of saying everything is going to be ok. she is in heaven and I know for sure. I can't wait to see you my lover, my best friend, not yet tho it's to soon. with all my deepest love to you jenna fowler. love always and for eternity milford h. Fowler II my heart goes out to all. god bless

[@desireedavis6116]

Milford Fowler im so sorry for your loss i just lost my fiance to gun violence july 5 i know how extreemly fustrating and painfull it is i still cant find ways to cope with it thats how i find myself on these videos be strong you are not alone

[@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844]

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[@germanshepherdmom1143]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve lost my life partner too.

[@chrisjohnson2246]

@@germanshepherdmom1143 I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on, I lost my wife 3yrs ago to a terrible heart disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number [phone]

[@andreareynolds909]

How did you get so much support ? I lost my fiance and father to our 1 year old. Last month and I am drowning with absolutely no support or family near.... it feels like ppl are acting as if his sudden death didn't matter ... our jeep is broke down along side a highway completely broke and oh the sorrow is my soul . Our daughter keeps asking for her dada... Lord if it's part of ur will we need a blessing 🙌

[@richardbradshaw7830]

Well am really sorry about that okay 😒☹️and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday.

[@bbb.5573]

I lost my husband on 2nd of April 2018. He had bowel cancer. He was my best friend, my soulmate, my fun and my happiness. My heart is broken and full of sadness. it’s ever so painful to cope this life without him.

[@laurenalman]

I lost my fiance on April 2 also. He was so happy. We had just built a new house. My friend came in my business the day of Al’s death and my friend said when God builds your house, you need to move in. How ironic. It is so painful but they love us still and we miss them. Heaven is complete joy and is our home. I wish your comfort in your loss.

[@bbb.5573]

Lauren Alman thank you very much, also I wish you comfort in your loss.

[@laurenalman]

Thank you so much

[@chrisjohnson2246]

@@laurenalman I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on, I lost my wife 3yrs ago to a terrible heart disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind it'd be nice if you just say hi here is my number [phone]

[@laurenalman]

@@chrisjohnson2246 Thanks so much Chris. I am doing much better now. But I did go to hospice for counseling. Yes, time does heal you.

[@baharalassa4941]

I lost my husband june 3rd 2020. In congo he had material and passed away. The last time I seen him on March 11th 2020. He couldn't come back to Sheffield because of covid and lock down in UK. And he buried there. And the grieving is so hard crying most of time, had no closure. I am still greiving.

[@richardbradshaw7830]

Well am really sorry about that okay 😒☹️and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday.

[@enlightenedcrain3812]

Reading Helps. Appreciate your video.

[@yannitoob7525]

I can't imagine being remarried. Especially not after a year? There is no way

[@jwillisbarrie]

Thanks for having the closed captions for the Deaf - helpful to watch Kate share.

[@richardbradshaw7830]

Hi

[@buffer1954]

Bless your new happiness

[@kissfan5150]

I was married for 17 yrs & lost her due to kidney failure. This was a yr and a half ago & the roller coaster ride of grieving, learning, reinventing is still unfolding. All i can feel here is, remarried in 1 yr? A year. Really??

[@gavinstarling8737]

My thoughts exactly Michael. I lost my beautiful partner of 18 years 9 months ago and still live and am committed to her. I can't understand how you could love someone so much and yet remarry only a year after

[@marysamuels2569]

My second husband went to be with lord just over a year each day is a walk of faith I’ve been loved well buy to different me n fifty years to the first thre and half with the secon so great full for love of family an d gods provision each day Mary

[@richardbradshaw7830]

@@marysamuels2569 i came across your touching comment in the death of love ones post here on you tube. Well am really sorry about that okay 😒☹️and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life must move on because death is inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday..

[@arnellehardy1091]

I lost my Earth Angel One in a Million Man 3 weeks ago a day before our NYE engagement anniversary a month before the wedding my heart is shattered. I’m still in shock the pain is so great is unbelievable!! A different pain I’ve ever experienced. I lost my mother and my baby then re meet this earth angel and he now passed away! He was 39 yrs old My mother loved him when we were kids smh I’m just leaning on Gods unchanging hand. This woman’s testimony is very intriguing she went minister to widows and became one wow !

[@tumpelukongolukongo4069]

I lost my husb 7yrs ago suddenly was too tough but Jesus took me through without that situation would be more miserable...l pleased to what ua sharing be blessed

[@chrisjohnson2246]

I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you loved, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my wife 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer. I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number [phone] or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you.

[@kingofdarkness8436]

I lost my woman to T Cell Lymphoma.. cancer freakin sucks man.. I miss her so much and replay her voice messages on messenger often. It's so sad and hurts to lose someone close.. its like I'm torn an empty.. as of a part of myself died with her..

[@meeshterious8644]

I’m sorry for your loss. My beloved husband who was only 38 yrs. old also passed away from T Cell Lymphoma (NHL PTCL-NOS) on March 5,2022. It was a very rare type of blood cancer and a very nasty and aggressive one too. I lost him 9 months from diagnosis. I miss him so much.

[@minedavaz1019]

I lost my husband to a motorcycle accident July 6th 2021, I am so heart broken. He was 40 years old

[@sujathasatish9559]

Am sorry for your loss, I lost my husband 3months ago due to covid complications,i have two daughters 8 and 3 years old ,I miss him terribly, he was 42,my life feels empty.. But I keep praying, I just don't know what to do.. I keep crying all the time.. But I know Lord Jesus Christ will never abandon us ,I believe and see hope in him, and I will pray for you... All the tears of sorrow you have shed will change into joyful tears

[@richardmcguinn732]

@@sujathasatish9559 I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's. My son and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again.

[@richardmcguinn732]

@@minedavaz1019 I came across your comment at the grief of love ones post here. ☹️That’s so touching and I know how it feels to be lonely without our love ones, we've all loss our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, I truly understand how you feel cos I’ve felt same hard and terrible experiences before but death is just inevitable no matter how hard we try! And we'll all have to face it someday, and every of our love ones we’ve loss will always want to see us happy again wherever they’re okay. I loss my oldest daughter February 24th 2020 in a crucial car accident, and she just turned 22 on her last birthday before she got knocked down by a moving vehicle 🚗 and so unlucky for me that horrible day the driver was drunk. That was the worst and most lamenting day of my whole life as a single Dad raising two kid's. My son and my 4 legged 🐶 families are my everything and the reason I still keep strong, and keep going! My late wife passed away three years ago from a shocking disease, I felt devastated with grief, and I was so heartbroken 💔 but God and time are indeed the best healers. I pray and hope you’ve found peace, comfort and happiness again.

[@sujathasatish9559]

@@richardmcguinn732 sorry for your loss sir, you will always be in our prayers... You have gone through a lot, really sorry 😞

[@richardmcguinn732]

@@sujathasatish9559 And thank you very much for your kind words and prayers! You know life can be so unfair to us at times but we must do everything we can to be strong.

[@lillieknight]

So what exactly happened with tile saw? Big buildup then no details on whether he cut himself, fell, got electrocuted...

[@lillieknight]

Here’s what I would say: We should have never gone to Africa. Marrying after one year? Sounds like she married for financial reasons and he married for conjugal reasons. I hope he doesn’t do anything to the kids.

[@cheryljune1603]

I lost my husband 3days ago

[@claireinglis889]

Am I ask how you are, our time line is the same xxx

[@jessicaagosto3633]

God lift you up 🙏🏻✝️

[@kennsaunders1690]

I lost my wife in 2002, we were married only 4 years with two sons ages 5-1/2 and 22 months. She was diagnosed with primary breast cancer and secondary liver cancer 12 days before she passed. I re-married a few years later and that was a train wreck where I was left out on the street with my two sons and broke and lost everything. So for me to trust again will never happen. Burned in London ,On

[@dds2839]

So sorry that you had to go thru this painful experience. May you find healing and peace in Jesus name

[@mikesavo6666]

THE LOSS OF MY BEUTIFUL WIFE OF 40 YEARS,TOGETHER 50 YEARS IS LITERALLY KILLING ME.I HAVE HARDLY ANY DESIRE TO GO ON.SHE WAS MY HEART,MY SOUL,MY EVERYTHING,WE DID EVERYTHING TOGETHER AND GREIF IS HORRIBLE.I ASK AND PRAY FOR ALL PEOPLE WHO HAVE LOST A LOVED ONE.PLEASE JESUS HELP US ALL.

[@dds2839]

@ayla swift so sorry for your loss. May Jesus comfort you and heal your wounds.

[@heleneschaefer1214]

mike savo Please tell me how you cope?

[@jessicalt4121]

Kenn I’m very sorry you were deceived! She will get hers someday. You can have a life with someone in the future but with separate households OR a prenuptial agreement. It’s easy to choose unwisely when grieving. I hope your life has gotten better and you all are well now.

[@juliocesarmombiela111]

So basically your husband died in africa and you came back home and got remarried a year later. Wow seems you didn't grief too long at all.

[@Jerrymc1975]

Seriously, remarried that soon? Something is wrong with that picture.

[@juliejohnson4146]

she don't look very happy with her new hubby. Juss sayin.😏