FIRST 24 HOURS OF SLEEP TRAINING | FERBER METHOD | KAYLA BUELL

Here we go! It's finally time to sleep train Jackson! Here's what the first 24 hours of sleep training looked like for him! Part 2 will be up soon! Love you guys! xoxox, Kayla
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[@daynagablonski9692]

Hey babe! I just wanted to thank you, like whole heartedly! After watching this video and the following one I started sleep training that night. With in three nights we didn’t have to do any check ins for any sleeps! Thanks to you I knew exactly what to expect and felt like I knew what I was doing for once! This will be night 7 but we haven’t even had to follow the schedule as bub falls asleep with in 5 minutes anyway. You’re a godsend, so grateful. I’ll save this video for all my friends and my future babes! Sending love xx

[@Y_Gymraes]

On a lighter note from sleep training... can we take a minute to appreciate how super cute Jackson's Star Wars crib sheets are everyone? 😍 They're so cool! Seriously though, thank you for posting this Kyla. We're in the same situation, so it's reassuring to see your videos and read the comments from other mums 👍

[@lucymoyler]

Thank you so much for posting this. It is really helpful to inspire me in sleep training my little one. It feels really scary to take this on, but you're making it feel manageable and it's a really helpful step-by-step guide

[@Maccabeesful]

2 years on and still so relevant! My wife and I are just sleep training our 6 month old and this video has been such a comfort for us both, as well as informative!

[@aprilsummers9930]

Here rewatching this while doing this with my 10 month old tonight. I’m late to the game. I tried at 6 months and then gave up. It took 30 minutes but he is currently asleep in his crib. Hoping he stays down cause my nerves are shot!

[@kristin382]

How did it work for you? My 9 month old needs to be sleep trained too.

[@aprilsummers9930]

@@kristin382 it worked in the sense that he will now go down to bed in his crib. But he doesn’t sleep through the night. He will stay in his crib until 1-2 am. Then I end up just bringing him in bed with me cause I need sleep!!

[@lessehead]

@@aprilsummers9930 So you keep rewarding the behavior that you want to stop. Why should he ever change? Good luck with that!

[@aprilsummers9930]

@@lessehead luckily I don’t need your validation that I am doing what is right for myself and my son.

[@lessehead]

@@aprilsummers9930 Happy sleeping!

[@miriamherrera3202]

Tonight was the first night I let my girl cry it out for 30 min she finally fell asleep. She just wouldn’t stay asleep in her crib when I put her down and I was so frustrated! Shes 6 months and I decided to try Ferber method tomorrow and this was the first video I watched. Thank you for the encouragement!

[@citychicken9949]

Idk why anyone would give you hate, your kids cannot sleep in your bed forever. That's not healthy for you, your husband, or the child. My niece slept in her parents' bed until she was six and then they finally tried making her sleep in her own bed. I can't even imagine not having that alone time with my husband for 6 years. You're doing the right thing for your kids and your family :)

[@u842]

I totally agree my oldest sister had all four kids sleep with her. The youngest was in her bed until he was 13 years old. Ugh I could not go that long.

[@littlegirl1989]

How can you compare a 6 yo with a 6 mo? A baby needs his mother's warmth at night. It is a western thing to want a baby to sleep in their own room, it is not natural and goes against the baby's instincts.

[@chelseajimenez2057]

Hey Kayla I'm a first time mom and i started watching your videos basically the second I found out I was pregnant. You have provided so much great insight on this whole mom thing and I really appreciate it, you've truly been a blessing. I've since given birth to a beautiful baby boy and you've inspired me to start my own KZbin journey. Hopefully i can be a blessing for other people the way you have for me.

[@shajuanhopkins1182]

blessings to you and your child

[@tunes4kids]

Yes my 2nd son was very stubborn! Separation anxiety was his issue but as soon as I put music on...it was lights out!

[@LizzyF_7874]

Thanks for keeping it real about how hard this can be.

[@cheerleaderforlife77]

Ok but on a side note even Jacksons cry is adorable !! This baby melts me 💞

[@amathe11]

Thank you for sharing your first-hand experience with sleep training! I’ve read the books and all but it’s so much easier seeing it IRL. Always appreciate how genuine and authentic you are about sharing your life, hard to come by these days on KZbin.

[@brennmartin297]

It means the world to me that you shared this. Doing all the research was giving me analysis paralysis, but watching you just do it gave me the push to just do it too. I was so afraid to sleep train and upset my baby, but it turns out that she was crying WAY MORE when I was intervening than when she started sleep training. Thank you!

[@ashb2404]

Was it after Dad's check in that he fell asleep? I'm curious, because, once I passed on sleep duty and checking in to my husband my daughter started falling asleep quicker... Once she saw I wasn't the one responding to her cries she surrendered to sleep...

[@tamstreisel4751]

My daughter would cry until she throws up and that even when I nurse her to sleep and she sleeps in bed with me. That's why I haven't been able to do any sleep training.

[@haleyn2215]

I can’t relate with the night time sleep since my son is a great sleeper at night. But oh my gosh he does not nap. I feel your pain about not being able to get anything done!

[@jadoremel23]

I’m crying thinking of having to hear my bby cry when I do this🥺

[@rosestreamer8235]

You don't have to do it, there are other methods or you can continue co-sleeping, what ever makes you and baby happy

[@jackiemunno8841]

You ABSOLUTELY DO NOT have to sleep train. I personally would never and I do not! My baby and I cosleep 🤍

[@egorxeke3465]

On our first born we bought a bigger crib and decorated his room and everything but on our second baby we have a smaller crib inside our bedroom that way when he wakes up we can hear him.

[@JA420love]

It’s ok to not sleep train. You can keep your baby happy and comfortable at night instead, that will bring baby confidence in your love and a sense of safety that will lead to more confidence and true independence that is based on love, not separation or stress. Check out “breastsleeping” by Dr. McKenna.

[@89therrera]

It’s hard mama but I promise it is worth it! It only takes a week if you do it right

[@frenchyrodriguez9137]

Crying rn as I’m sleep training and watching this video for support.

[@cecynay7369]

Here for the same reason. Putting on a happy and confident face for my 2y and 5m old as we do both at the same time. Note: earlier in life is WAY easier. For everyone.

[@taniasaavedra9183]

I’m a first time mom and my babygirl is a horrible sleeper...seriously finding your channel has been the best thing ever!!!!!🥰❣️

[@savanahswafford9027]

Same her girl

[@babygirl655]

Same here my baby boy is 5 month thinking of starting sleep training after his 6 month check up

[@carrierequejo4357]

Amaris Luengas I was in the same boat as you guys! I decided to sleep train and it was the BEST DECISION EVER! She is now sleeping through the night and barely cries when I put her down. I’m still doing it but I highly recommend

[@lauradermatis1372]

Iska just posted a video talking about that! If yours is a newborn I highly suggest you watching it, she got help from a professional and her baby boy started sleeping through the night immediately!

[@sierrapipes9347]

I know how you feel. My daughter was a terrible sleeper! We tried sleep training her many times. At 11 months she finally would give it up and would fall asleep on her own! And now she's a amazing sleeper! So it will get easier! You got this mama 💪

[@jellybun25]

Something that has helped us beat the early morning wake ups is to choose daily wake time and continue Ferber until that time comes. Ours is 7:00 and so if she wakes up before (which she doesn’t anymore) we would continue pop ins until 7:00 and then once it hits 7:00 we go in happy and ready to start the day. Also we do a dream feed at like 10:30 and it helps a lot.

[@kelseyscott-miller8141]

This is exactly what I needed to see! We are going through the same thing right now and this was so informative!

[@n.moultrie6694]

Such a good video! Started the ferber method a week ago and we finally have our evenings and bedroom back. So thankful!! And the baby is much much much more happier and rested!

[@nazekb3756]

This method was actually proven to be emotionally damaging to the baby as an adult

[@glheath11]

@@nazekb3756 no it hasn’t

[@maryjanedavis9033]

@@nazekb3756 mmm yeah that’s inaccurate

[@RE5100]

Mothers and babies are designed to be a mutually responsive dyad. Babies express their needs to the mother (or caregiver) through crying. Letting babies "cry it out" is a form of need-neglect that leads to many long-term effects. Consequences of the "cry it out" method include: It releases stress hormones, impairs self-regulation, and undermines trust. Yes the method will work but at what cost? Ever heard of GENTLE SLEEP COACHING, same results but without the tears.

[@eduardapereira4222]

How is the naps now a day?

[@El10O1]

I really would use a sleepsack and a breathable cloth. It gives them a lot of comfort.

[@nicolealexandria3752]

My daughter is exactly like Jackson and we are just starting to sleep train her. So I love watching these videos at this time because I relate to it so much.

[@MarleneOrganization]

Watching as I do some sleep training as well. Love every single video of yours Kayla 💕 whether they are 10 minutes long or almost an hour long, I’m watching it all 🤣

[@thegallofamilyy]

I would suggest a sleep sack or wearable blanket! Like Zipadee-Zip. On their website it says that babies like it because they feel comfort when they feel can feel the edges. Idk I guess it imitates the womb but okay for older babies that can roll over. Worth a shot! My almost 4 month old wears the Love to Dream "Swaddle Up" since she didnt like being swaddled with her hands down anymore. She cries when I put her down but once i zip her up (and I do use pacifier) she goes right to sleep. She knows when she's wearing it that its time for sleep! I will transition her soon to the Zipadee-zip when she can roll over. Just a thought! It might help.. Love keeping up with you and your family!

[@sarahcrisafi]

Tonight is going to be my first night doing this with my 5 month old. Your videos have being so helpful! My baby boy doesn’t even co sleep well and wakes up every 30 minutes so he desperately needs to learn how to sleep. I’m so anxious but I know this is going to be right for him

[@Jjlavids]

Per a program I used and worked in 2 nights. feed before and after naps, every 2 hrs all day so they have all their calories by night. Feed before bath time, so their food won’t come up right before bed. Once they’re asleep, dream feed at 10:30 and then 3 am. Feeding them before they wake rather than waiting for them to cry is the trick. Then you wean off night feed but feeding a minute less everyday. *also* notice how your baby likes to sleep, on their belly? Side? Put them down that way*:( good luck mommies! 🙏🏽 they say the second is easiest and I just wonderrr lol

[@Ashley-om6zo]

Everyone talks crap until they’re only sleeping 3 hours a night. I can’t do the Ferber method since both my kids scream until they choke and I just can’t do it. My 9 month old is waking up like a newborn all night long she only sleeps for an hour or two. I literally have no patience for anyone who gets to sleep lol

[@missky4316]

🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️girl you had me crying. I’m so tired

[@fransousa13]

Hahaha when you said he doesn’t get tired of crying and he’s stubborn, you literally described my Benny 😂 I used these exact words talking to my husband about him yesterday.

[@amybostic1439]

I would add a mobile or something on his crib so he had something to concentrate on other then your absence. I would also look into the wub inub (spelling), even though he may not have liked a pacifier in the past. It gives weight and something for his hands to hold as well. Just thinking out loud

[@ashb2404]

Don't be embarrassed about the nursery mess.... That's real life, Mama... I've watched so many videos where nurseries looked perfect, but wished they would have showed more of the process to share how real and acceptable it is to just get done what you can as you... It's a wonderful room!

[@jlam4618]

I have a 3.5 month year old baby girl and I so look forward to your videos! Your videos have helped me so much!

[@u842]

This video came in just in time. I have a 14 month soon to be 15 months and she's been in our bed since she was 9 or 11th months old. She doesn't sleep through the night she gets up to nurse but I know it's comfort nursing. When she was 5 months she was a great sleeper, she was in her own room sleeping through the night. When she hit 9 month she also hit regression and I'm not sure what happened. Well next week we are going to put her back in her room. I need sleep. I started to tear up when you put Jackson down for his nap. I know that cry and it pulls on the mommy's heart. Thanks again for the video. And best of luck. ❤❤❤

[@steffiurlaub5370]

I know you want the best for your baby, but I have to warn you. The Ferber Methode isn't good for your baby. There will be a huge trauma and he learns that he can't trust you. He learns that his crying has no meaning. In Germany is a lot of science data that sleep training is a horrible thing you can do to your baby. Let me told you that I'm in therapy because of anxiety. My parents do sleep training to.

[@colinecleans]

This was really helpful and encouraging, since we are starting to sleep train our 5 month old!

[@easygoer1234]

He's like yeah lunch then a nap. Yep life is great. What cutie.

[@jania8781]

*boing* *boing* *boing* “...sorry.” That was hilarious.

[@user-et2fy8jv2v]

You're doing great! I'm patiently impatiently waiting to start this with my son. Also. How fking rude of some of these people to make it seem like your a bad mom for wanting your privacy. There's NOTHING wrong with that. Love these videos. All videos!

[@yadhprz3356]

Thank you, thank you. I just start sleep training my 10 month even though it broke my heart but I definitely need to sleep to survive and to be a better mother.

[@samanthadawson1490]

wonder whos heart broke more. your childs.

[@cynthianatalio7272]

Hey how did it go? My baby is 8 months and imma start soon!

[@piggybabytiffany]

@@samanthadawson1490 do you have experience about your baby cry 10000times a night , and you and your baby can Not have a good sleep every night?

[@sambito702]

Absolutely! You need to take care of yourself to best take care of your baby

[@tziporahn6338]

I legit checked three times this morning for this video, was so excited

[@mightylittlemonkey6996]

Hi Kayla, I'm a first time mom from Dubai. I watched your videos almost every day and I am inspired. Thank you for the inspiration.

[@maxinef5783]

Our girl didn't take a pacifier for her first 5 months, we tried again with sleep training and it's been a lifesaver especially when eliminating comfort nursing.

[@alexislankford3422]

My girl is a HUGE comfort nurser. She refuses a pacifier it makes her mad 😭 shes 2 months

[@maxinef5783]

Also all the momma's are doing a great job, every babe is different and parents are too! Keep it up, you got this.

[@KseniiaOfficial]

@@alexislankford3422 be happy. That’s called a healthy baby and a healthy attachment.

[@aniovakimyan3258]

My LO doesn’t cry while in the room, she screammmmmmmmmmmmms like world will be ending soon

[@sanchitajain7083]

Finally!! Thank you so much for this most awaited video. Love you for all the efforts you put into making these videos so that we can benefit from them ❤

[@kimhedges4697]

We sleep trained my daughter at 4 months old. We started with the Ferber method but ended up using extinction because she would just cry harder and harder after check-ins. Took about 3 nights (and I cried almost the whole time she cried!), but it was so worth it in the end. We did also get her a lovey because she wouldn't take a pacifier either, but she is also a thumb sucker which helped immensely.

[@KaylaBuell]

Yea Jackson won’t suck his thumb so I’m thinking of introducing a lovey here soon. But I’m glad your little one finally slept! It’s so amazing once they do 🙌🏼💕

[@brittanywhalen4436]

I'm doing sleep training with my 5 and a half month old daughter right now, by you doing this vlog at this specific time is perfect. I'm a first-time mama and this is definitely not the easiest but it is definitely the most rewarding keep being a great Mama Kayla ♥️ thank you again for this video! Continued luck with your sleep training 🙏💤

[@teramonte7077]

When it feels like you will loose your mind if you don’t get a nights sleep THEN you are ready for sleeptraining:) WELL DONE, Kayla👍🏻

[@KrystenStrunck]

I wish i could do it but I just can’t. I’m weak😭

[@KaylaBuell]

It’s not for everyone mama! Don’t feel bad at all! ❤️

[@littlegirl1989]

Be proud of yourself for not sleeptraining. It is abuse.

[@KrystenStrunck]

Judith-D well with my baby he really angry cries so it really does feel like abuse. If it was just a little bit of fussing I would. But whenever he angry cries it’s like non stop, tears, red face, he can even bust the little blood vessels in his eyes.. it’s happen before.. I just don’t see any possible way or doing it. We’re taking slow steps he always had to be in my arms but then he was in my arms in the bed. So he’s used to that now he will fall asleep on his own if I’m by him. Not with a bottle or me holding him. So next step is putting him in his cribs for naps asleep but drowsy to see if he will start falling asleep on his own. My baby needs those small steps lol

[@CaitlinChaosXD]

Judith-D it is NOT abuse. It’s actually good to teach your kid to sleep on their own without any props. Worry about your own kid

[@jennajokiernicki4815]

@@littlegirl1989 😂

[@Lilylove_7]

My daughter did not sleep through the night until she was 2. I tried everything. She was exclusively breastfed for a year , never took a bottle or pacifier. Would always fall asleep on me and use me as a pacifier to sooth. I was miserable. Not until she was 2 she only started to sleep through the night.. I feel for you.

[@veromoon3386]

This is me at them moment. Pack n play, CO sleep, 30 min naps , up all night for feedings. I tried but I start bawling as aoon as he gets into second gear cries.

[@VanessaSamparras]

No one talks about how uncomfortable the crib mattress is. Baby goes from warm embracing mommy arms to a flat border line cement like mattress. I would personally cry too lol I would put a mattress pad and use one of my shirt as a fitted sheet. Hope that helps any young moms here

[@insanityismynormalcy]

Just want to mention that sometimes with full extinction, they stop way faster overall. I tried ferber at first, and she could go for literally hours because she was just reinvigorated every time I went in. When we tried full extinction, 20 minutes flat. Also worth mentioning that my baby would cry while being rocked to sleep as well, so we really weren't getting her to sleep cry free at any point in her life past newborn. But now that she's sleep trained, she only cries when she's overtired and only for a few minutes.

[@largefamilylivin9629]

I’ve been very lucky none of my 10 babies have had to do sleep training by 6 weeks mine sleep through the night

[@_itslesley_4727]

You’re doing a great job! I work as a nanny for an almost 3 month old. I have done the Ferber method in the past and one thing that definitely helped was not allowing baby to get so frustrated that he isn’t able to settle down. After the first few minutes, I go in and place my hand on their chest and once I see that they are calm, I leave the room. I know it’s hard to hear your baby cry, this will allow them to learn how to self soothe, before you know it.. they’re sleeping without assistance! Another tip would be to start sleep training during the day - first nap Use a sleep sack-, zen sleep sack is great!

[@cuteloverlol568]

Would you train them if they are swaddled??

[@_itslesley_4727]

@@cuteloverlol568 you can definitely train them if they are swaddled but I think it’s easier to transition to a sleep sack and train at the same time

[@dianagb9770]

Sleep training for the first time (day 2) with my 5-month old. I cant stop crying...it feels like he is gettng worse and worse...he's only had one 30-min nap today. I just feel like im torturing him but I dont wanna mess up the process. Ugh....event he "gentle" sleep training approaches make your baby cry.

[@Rosiecat677]

Why is sleep training a thing?

[@89therrera]

Because it’s safer than sleeping with your baby and it’s effective. Please done shame moms for doing what’s best for their family when it’s safe

[@KseniiaOfficial]

@@89therrera “safer” is to follow your baby’s biological needs. And she didn’t shame anyone.

[@KseniiaOfficial]

@@skrai1903 right. But the fact that training your baby affects their mental health is like whatever? You can’t just choose to be a parent during the day and respond to your baby’s cries, but at night decide to completely ignore him/her. If anything, ST doesn’t teach a baby any valuable lesson besides to just stop signaling their needs to a parent because no one will come. Sorry, but that is the sad truth. Biologically to not have sleep deprivation a baby should sleep next to his mother and then you won’t have to even get up at night because he will just feed and sleep. And also as an adult human if you decide to have a baby you obviously know that it won’t be easy in the beginning and sleep deprivation is def better than your baby having a ptsd later in life after being left to cry for hours on his own... no judgement to anyone whatsoever. Just my opinion.

[@KseniiaOfficial]

@@skrai1903 and yes babies NEED you to put them to sleep, and they don’t HAVE TO sleep more that 2 hours?? Even 2 hours is a lot and some babies never sleep more than 30 minutes. That’s a biological norm and means you’re having a healthy baby who is naturally attached to his primary caregiver. You are raising a human, not a machine who is supposed to do everything like you wish or like someone said they should be doing.

[@JA420love]

@@89therrera before the term SIDS it was called “Crib Death” prior to the modern crib (and in almost every non-western country to this day) babies slept/sleep with their mothers. Especially breastfed babies. Per country, The higher the prevalence of bed sharing the lower the SIDS rates. So being in a crib is actually more dangerous than bedsharing, if bedsharing is done properly and safely. USA has highest SIDS rate in the world, and one of the lowest bed sharing rates. The scare tactics used on “breastsleeping” mothers actually does the opposite of protecting babies from SIDS.

[@anita7136]

First time mom with a 1 year old. She has co-slept with me 95% of the time with the exception of spending the night with grandma and naps in her crib. Her separation anxiety has PEAKED ...not sure what sleep train method will work . I feel like I am late to the party on this one 😮‍💨 I work from home so I understand babygirl's fear. At this point I'm wondering if I should try to move her crib to my room, or try to wait until her SA subsides...I just dont want to flip flop methods

[@jasmintanabe8276]

This was so helpful!

[@lindajylee]

Thank you for this video. We just started ST our third child and let me tell you, the anxiety and guilt we parents experience each time we go through this doesn’t get easier! Despite refreshing my memory with research, watching your video answered so many other questions and gave me the validation that I’m doing what I believe is right and helping my child in the long run. You reminded me that each child is different and it will get worse before it gets better. I especially appreciated that you walked through the naps as that is something that I didn’t see much info on. You gave me the confidence and validation that I was desperately seeking at 2:30am last night. 😅 so grateful to have come across your channel. Thanks again and wish me luck! 🤞🏼

[@AlejandraFloresAcaboDeLeer]

I am doing the same training with my LG. Second night and .... it's really hard but I hope it's for the best.

[@itshispresence]

Your videos are extremely helpful! I’m a stay at home dad and I’m sleep training our 5 month old. I have a question though… we also use the Huckleberry app for tracking sleep. Our boy wakes up in the middle of the night a few times still. Do I stop the sleep and then start a new one when he falls back asleep or just keep it going? He’s up for about 20 minutes each time. Thanks!

[@agritaprazdnicane2750]

Thank you for your video. I've been thinking about the Ferber method. I will try to do it tomorrow. I'm doing gentle sleep training. It worked well at the beginning. But it has been 2 weeks now. It just not working. And I'm going crazy. And actually, it is jot that gentle. They still do cry.. and they will! Even after 1 month of doing it, she is till cyring. She even was crying while I was rocking her. I was lucky my first baby did well. I didn't need to sleep train her. It was very natural. But this lady.. Ohdear..5 months.. And nothing has changed. So..Ferber method. I hope it will work.

[@agritaprazdnicane2750]

Thank you for being so open. And sharing your journey.

[@realrealwithkimmy1851]

Hi Kayla plz answer as soon as u can. Is that a jumperoo jackson is in or an activity center. Plz list the one u have. I want to see if I need both ( the skip hop activity center & fisher price jumperoo).thanks alot ur amazing. When u delivered b4 me I thought I wld be left behind but ur taking me right along with u & helping me. 💕💕💕Am a first time mom😂😂

[@lynisewolf9377]

Never ever start the co sleeping, then neither of you will have to experience this horrible transformation. So uncalled for. Cribs were made for babies, king size beds were not made for families sorry mothers and fathers.

[@NaeDaNicest]

Would you consider a swaddle they have them for babies his size... & what about a projector on the ceiling for him to look at? Be strong Mama you got it you did it once and this time will be easier. &😘

[@hmm4442]

Have you thought about getting him a slumberkin? I have been following your journey since our boys are 2 months apart. We had similiar sleep issues at first. Mine did amazing in his dock a tot and his slumberkin.

[@sophiakcmoore]

The dock atot is amazing but god help you when you take it away, my LO wouldn’t sleep without it

[@autumnwilder9437]

Been watching your channel for 5 months and I’m currently in labor with my baby girl! Her name is Riley as well💝

[@KaylaBuell]

Oh my goodness!!! Congrats mama!!!! Wishing you an awesome labor + delivery! You got this! Beautiful name too 😍❤️

[@tw2525]

Thank you so much for sharing, I was watching your video while my baby cried for a whole hour until she fell asleep. Your video helped me not give up as I did yesterday when I heard her cry so bad my heart broke and I weakened and gave up. Today my baby and I did it, I got the first 3 and 5 then 4 more 5's and then 10 and 3 more 10's... She passed out after it. Thank youuuuuu

[@Dollytimebabies]

Kayla at about 7 months i gave my son a little bottle of juice he used to hug it to him and go off to sleep!! Probably not at all good but it worked. I hope he settles into a routine soon

[@hettastic]

My cousin did that and it ruined her child’s teeth. She got cavities in every tooth. Juice is not a good idea.

[@ExplorewiththeDrakes]

I used your videos to help with baby #1 getting ready to Ferber baby #2… thank you for the videos

[@y.gonz_]

My daughter does good with sleeping but she hates sleeping on her back all of a sudden. She now is a side and tummy sleeper. She tends to be more comfortable on her stomach and she sleeps longer on her tummy. She just turned 6 months. Good luck momma. You got this! ♥️

[@alaaelhusseiny2716]

Can I do this process for a 1 year old girl?

[@haleymarie8689]

yes you can!!

[@amandacollins7507]

I have a question. Dies it set them back by allowing them to come into your bed in the morning and fall back asleep? Since that’s what he wanted to begin with? Would it be like starting from scratch since he got what he wanted? I’m not asking in a sarcastic way, I really am curious about if it’s ok or if it’s recommended to always put them back in their own bed.

[@beffreenmariwan4491]

I did the same for my son he cried for 1 hour and 15 minutes he almost died I rushed to him and he fell asleep straight away when I picked him up.

[@navtejhunjan5260]

I’ve been doing my training for 10 days, and he’s still crying and not getting used to it…does it not work for some children?

[@_skywalker_]

No method in this world can not convice me that this is a better way. Im tired and I get up at nights..its a period and wont last for 20 years for God sake… but I can not leave my child to cry on its own.

[@anamariagodo5475]

Did you pump in the night to keep the supply normal?

[@trinidadianbeauty1]

Lord I’m dreading this!!! My baby calls for me in her own little way! When she sees me she smiles! I can’t imagine hearing her call me and not going in! I’m exhausted but I’m her mommy and I just can’t bring myself to leave her all alone to cry. I want to sleep train her when she’s 4 1/2 months old but I don’t think I can! 😭

[@ellenjeniffermoss6178]

Your doing so well with Jackson’s sleep training :) , do you turn off the hallway light so the light doesn’t come through when you open his door to do the check in’s ?

[@KaylaBuell]

Thank you! Yes, usually the hallway light is off ❤️

[@ellenjeniffermoss6178]

Ohhk , he’s going so good so far can’t believe how quick him and Riley are growing 😍

[@sarahmustakim3471]

Give him a lovey or a small blanket that basically he can rub his face into (babies love doing that). My baby has been sleep trained since 4.5 months. When she would wake up in the middle of the night, I could see her in the monitor searching around for her elephant. Sometimes I would go in there just to hand her her elly :-). Now 10 months and she still needs her Elly!

[@mommyjaslynn]

My baby girl is 6 months old she sleeps good but in my bed 🤪 I always thought I wouldn't do that but it was the only way she would ever sleep she didn't like the bassinet but it will be nice to get her tk sleep in her crib so we can have our bed back lol

[@rachelvazquez5481]

Lol samee

[@katelyndouglas6566]

Your video gave me such comfort and confidence! After 3 days of this method, my 8 month old slept 7 hours straight!! I was so scared to try it at first and had so many questions. Your video was so helpful! Thank you so much❤️

[@codybruns2544]

Omg i cried when you cried. Thank you for the video ❤️ you have a new subscriber now

[@Jillydisco]

Desperately sleep deprived with my 4 month old. Thank you

[@zivilenorkute4317]

Hi he might need only 2 naps a day? My baby from 7 months was refusing naps so he took only 2 and then from 9 months 1 nap and was much easier when we didn’t push him to sleep 😊

[@Julielevere]

I’m starting to sleep train my 9 month old, he’s never slept in his crib/cot since birth after suffering with reflux and finding it uncomfortable on his back. I’m so worried the bond with him and trust he has in me will affect him. Did you have any long term effects? If they wet their nappy I change and then start the process again from the start? Thank you for this video ❤

[@MaritsaElena]

I love watching all your videos, they are so helpful! 💛I have a question tho, do you check if he’s wet his diaper during these check ins? to see if that’s why he’s waking up? Especially if you’ve nursed him before laying him down? And if you do, do you check every time you go in just to make sure that’s not one of the reasons why they are fussy at all? I love the sleep training method, am definitely doing this with my next boy due this October!

[@ducttapelover4998]

Do you use black out curtains or something to darken the room during the day for his naps? I'm a first time mom and expecting a little one in November. I know they say it's important for them to distinguish between day and night and was wondering if that would be too confusing

[@KaylaBuell]

Yes! We have Velcro blackout shades in his room so that it’s super dark in there even for naps. I find that’s always helped him sleep a little better.

[@peaxnutii]

Awesome Video!! Thank you for explaining the whole Ferber Method and when to go in and out, etc. We are getting ready to sleep train our little one and your video is going to be our resource. Great step by step. Can't wait for the second part. Don't worry about all the haters, you're doing an awesome job!

[@realrealwithkimmy1851]

Oh lord am watching this almost on mute cuz my baby girl is here sleeping in my arms like a queen & unbothered while am here sitting up wondering how am going to even move 😭🤣. Not only is she sleeping in my bed but she have to be in my arms or on my chest🙄 to get a good nap. Also, my husband is so good getting her to sleep on her own even if it's not for long but when I have her i cant stand seeing her cry & it goes bk to square one. I will attempt sleep training once & for all. I admire ur strength & courage Kayla.💕❤

[@nessagerritsen1689]

Hey Kim - I started sleeping training last Friday. The first night wasn’t so great but better than we expected. The following day we continued with the FB method for naps but it was really hard. We eventually had to revert to having him in our arms (like you described). The second night was really good he feel asleep with in 10mins and only woke up for two feeds. His day started at 7am the following day. However, the naps are still a challenge. I know it’s only early days but the cries for the naps are worse than the night. It’s definitely worth doing it not only for you but but for your LO. I hope the nap situation I’ve described doesn’t put you off. I’m glad we have the night time almost sorted.

[@carrierequejo4357]

Nessa Gerritsen my daughter was like this, and then I tried blackout curtains in her room and it was a game changer! If you don’t have that it’s worth a shot!

[@nessagerritsen1689]

Carrie Requejo Hi Carrie we have blackout blinds but still no luck. I think we just have to keep going. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🤪 tough love

[@YaYaPaBla]

He’s precious 🥰

[@samanthadawson1490]

this is DISGUSTING.

[@teobuicliu6775]

In my opinion this is a very harsh method . it might work as the baby will fall asleep eventually due to the exhaustion of crying and then will develop a pattern and fall asleep ,but you must be a very strong mother to do it ( the method being thought by a man who does not have the same connection with the baby that a mother has ) and make sure also that your baby is not chocking himself with the compulsive crying , mine if starts crying because i put him down when almost asleep or even asleep and then wakes up because of the crying, will end up almost stop breathing so i am not going to put him through this. and also i fear he will feel abandoned . But for who decides to do it , best of luck and stay strong .

[@MidnightMamaStitches]

It actually allows you to monitor your child as they learn to independently focus on their sleep. It may seem harsh but it’s teaching them you are there for them as they learn on their own. A valuable lesson. So many methods out there, hope you find yours!

[@victorialemmon36]

You’re a great mom girl!! Everyone needs that separation from their children at night! My daughter is six and a half months old and we started sleep training her after watching your videos about sleep training Riley 😁 good luck with Jackson and I’m looking forward to more of your videos!! ♥️

[@dubravka5032]

This method is very bad for baby, baby needs your touch and warmth and scent, they are growing so fast, you won’t carry him forever, just hold him, cooslepping and carrying has much more benefits for baby’s mental development than this kind of terrible methods.. you should bond with your baby every minute of the day, not rejecting him... wishing you the best :)

[@lillianepperson3410]

Wow you are doing great...sleep is so important for your baby, and you. My son's pediatrician told me to give him a pacifier and small blanket so he knows it's bed time. Worked GREAT!

[@KrystenStrunck]

Lillian Epperson it’s crazy how they won’t sleep on their own flat lol. Like my baby haatesss that. But he loves to sleep like a little human with a blanket and a pillow. I’m like are you serious lol he likes to be so comfy. He can take hour naps that way. But only naps so I can watch him.. I know they aren’t supposed to sleep like that so I’m in the same room with him doing work. But just the blanket there he likes to mess with it until he falls asleep.

[@lillianepperson3410]

😁exactly!!!

[@yiannaandreou7581]

I just dont understand why is sooo hard for babies to sleep.i always thought babies love to sleep...guess what THEY DONT.my son is 5.5 months old and still didnt mqmage to sleep for more than 3 hrs (if am lucky enough) straigth.i have tried everything EXCEPT sleep training which i think i will.Let the fact that i have to rock him like 30 minutes sometimes more to get him to sleep like 20 minutes.i just really want to sleep.I havent slept for half a year.it just getting worse.good luck with little Jackson u also deserve some good sleep😊

[@janineangel6373]

Great video! We co sleep with our 18 month old. He sleeps in his crib for his naps, he puts himself to sleep. However night time is much different lol We've tried to sleep train at night but it breaks my heart to hear him cry 😔 Hes also teething right now, the last molars are coming in. So we are going to commit to sleep training once hes done teething. When hes not teething hes a great sleeper but I know it's time for him to sleep in his room. My husband & I need our room back 😔

[@MamaBear_2629]

Whew, yeah I could NEVER do this with my daughter. I just could never listen to that devastating cry, ugh breaks my heart. You’re SUPER strong for being able to do this I would never and could never. Not for me, nope. Thankfully I LOVEEE bed sharing with my girl, she JUST turned 7 months old and I still nurse and I know they should be able and can go without nursing in the night but idk for me personally I love when she comfort nurses and snuggles next to me. I just genuinely enjoy her being right next to me💜

[@HS-nc3ko]

I co-sleep with my 5 month old at the moment and really love having her near me. Out of interest where does your baby nap in the day? I would like to put baby down for naps and co-sleep at night just wondering if this is possible. All naps in sling atm. Thanks!

[@MamaBear_2629]

H S hi there! :) I get what you mean completely!! For me what I did was for naps I slowly coordinated her eating schedule with naps. For example.. I would nurse her from 12:15-12:30pm and then in my bed I’d lay right next to her until she was sound out and then SLOWLY get off the bed. Of course I make sure there’s no way she can fall off the bed etc and then she naps there. It works well because she’s familiar with the bed and feeding her right before helps A TON!! I hope this helps a bit to get an idea of something to possibly try out! Good luck 💟

[@amythompson88]

Its not being strong, its being lazy