4 Steps to Mastering Your Emotions | Your Negative Attitude Blocks Your Blessings

[@ThatDopeChickErin]

I did this the other day! I got some “bad news”. Spoke to God about how I felt about it, cried and starting planning around an alternative solution (while crying lol) & there was a blessing right around that corner 🤗!

[@divineexchange8006]

Yeah what God say? How does God sound? Female voice man voice? I'm curious 🤔

[@bentabuuhaa9132]

ليس كمثله شئ وهو سميع البصير،،،

[@lakeeshabrown9300]

@@ThatDopeChickErin Alhumdillah for everything 🤲🏽

[@gwendolyn954]

Yes! Rumination is so hard to deal with, but it’s important not to let those negative experiences prevent you from growing.

[@shyanne5670]

You lol like 😅👍🏽 love 💕😅ll😅😅😅ol😅😅😅😅lo😅😅lot o😅l😅😅l

[@mayaa7396]

I used to be so ruled by my emotions… thank God for self realization 😌💕

[@BahjaAbdi]

Yes yes yess!! I love this so much for us 🥹 it truley is freeing

[@menaa22]

you’re so gorgeous allahumabarik, may Allah protect you from evil eye 💛

[@ll-lx8in]

Ameen ❤❤❤

[@FaaAbds]

"The goal is to have a positive attitude". i knew this, but i didn't KNOW this until i heard you say it. that opened my eyes.

[@lifeasagee]

Finding your page is one of the best things that has happened to me this year, please don’t stop sharing your knowledge & wisdom. You have no idea how impactful & helpful it is ❤

[@SMS7272]

i want to recommend the book, 'the gap and the gain', which may be read to get more into depth about the topic tbh, but i find that if you implement this short belief into your daily life, that should be enough. so it essentially summarises to the idea that you need to measure your current self against the progress you have already made, going backwards in time. and not measuring yourself against your ideals, as this may lead to lack of motivation, burn out, self-doubt, etc. its honestly something that bahja has alr said but if anyone likes books, go ahead lol.

[@chhf08765]

The fact that this video popped up in my feed seconds before I got out of iMessage ranting to my best friend about how hopeless I am about my life 🤣😭💀 Bahja you are a hero habibti ✨

[@BahjaAbdi]

I love you with all my heart 🥺 may Allah make it easy for you, never lose hope 🫂

[@destineypowell3647]

Bahja never fails to come through with the perfect message! Exactly what I needed at the exact time I needed it! Thank you!❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

all praise is due to god! how beautiful is it that so many of us needed to hear this same message 🥹🫶🏾

[@xyzza]

Wrote 5 pages worth of notes on my journal while watching this because this time I really wanna change. I'll start with step 1 you mentioned. And yes journaling is the best thing I chose to do this year. I didn't start from the first day of January because of my studies, but I still did it. We also don't have to journal every single day. We can do it weekly depending on our time. But I'll make sure to make for myself 5-10 mins daily to feel better through journaling.

[@manelbouaziz2478]

You are a blessing, that's exactly what i was dealing with today, i go home and you're talking about exactly what I was feeling, I'm so grateful for you

[@BahjaAbdi]

🥺 I'm so glad this is what you needed, I'm grateful for youuu! And I pray Allah makes your journey easier 🤍

[@soulmatesis1]

These are the khutbah we all needed.

[@Unegaufreaunutella]

This video open my eyes on how i can mastering my emotions becaus;e.Every single time when i was mad,people keep saying to me:Oh,focus on yourself,oh you are too sensitive,oh just think positive.But i didnt know how to doing this.I will follow this steps tysm may Allah bless you!

[@hayleySuzanne01]

I have never related so much to a video! From the coffee spilling on a bad day to the sad song in starbucks! Every day is a continuous loop of feeling shit about feeling shit! You literally highlighted why! Im too exhausted to dream huge right now. My first goal needs to be plain & simple happiness. Thank you for making that click ❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

yes, start small and meet yourself where you are. I'm sending you so much love, may God bless your journey. 🤍

[@hayleySuzanne01]

@@BahjaAbdi Thank you xxx

[@healwmimi]

Bahja you are such an amazing girl. I pray Allah always covers and protects you from every harm and evil in this world. you change my life and inspire me to work through my uglies so I can show up as the best version of myself every day 🥺 may Allah continue to bless you abaayo 🩷

[@BahjaAbdi]

Allahumma ameen 🥹 this comment makes me so emotional! I'm so so proud of you. May Allah protect and guide you and may he bless you endlessly. Ameen ya raab 🩷🩷

[@sopressdbykd]

God is so strategic. He been on me heavy lately about this & working on becoming emotionally mature & i unintentionally ended up stumbling across this video. like this is real good. sooo perfectly said !! 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@tarynrattliff]

I needed to hear this and you came in a way that I needed to hear this. Thanks sis

[@umulisaraani]

The way you never fail to convince and change my mind is understandable. i really believe that this will change my mind and help me with my emotions. may Allah keep blessing you

[@BahjaAbdi]

Allahumma ameen. You absolutely can, may Allah make it easy for you my love 🥹🩷

[@SoulBey]

This is so good I’m going to watch it until I get this concept habitually

[@loomsinator]

I started monitoring and noticing my emotions and where they stemmed from. I started journaling it out and I have noticed such a difference already. For some it may take time but it is an amazing feeling. Jazakallah Bahja for these amazing videos! Your my number one fave KZbinr at this point. Learnt so much from you. May Allah (s.w.t) continue to bless you so that you may flourish and continue to help us flourish and grow. ❤

[@MariamKamara.]

As always thank you for the words of advice ! One that really stuck out to me was around 18mins when you spoke about how the same situation will keep happening until you choose to react differently. I never thought of things that way and now I will try and be more mindful when I’m in certain situations because I will remember it’s a test, honestly it was truly an eye opener thank you ❤️❤️

[@BahjaAbdi]

I love this and I'm glad that stuck out to you 🥹🫂

[@munaibamahmood5519]

This was such a perfect video that I was looking for to help me with my mindset and emotions. You honestly couldn't have put it better. Thank you Bahja. May Allah continue to bless you in all ways. Allahhumma Ameen

[@BahjaAbdi]

Allahumma ameeen! My heart is so full 🥹🩷

[@Samiiiii-k3z]

Bahja i must say you blow me away in each video with ur knowledge,beauty and passion. Your a true role model for me as ur not only muslim but somali too. I really love your channel and vibe we love you bahja

[@BahjaAbdi]

I love you more 🥹🫶🏾

[@Aisha_Manate]

Bahjaaayyyy u speak to my soul and i swear i just count the days of when u gonna post next, naa alaha ku barakeeyo oo qayrkaa haka saraysiiyo laandheere ayad tahay anagana wad nadhaqaajise🤍

[@BahjaAbdi]

Allahumma ameen. Thank you soo so much for the kind words and constant support 🥹 may Allah allow us to heal and grow together, ameen 🫂

[@Bekind-ve8vu]

Masha Allah. I'm absolutely thrilled to see you again with a great topic. Your modesty, mindset and also your manners are incredible. May Allah prevent you all bad things insha Allah. Btw, you look somalis by appearance, and your name sounds like somalis lool. Are you somali?

[@aishaabdirahman1510]

We’re so proud of you abayo❤

[@mystiqueday-ge7ie]

may Allah continue to bless you, you don’t know what your words did my heart and soul. thank you so much bahja ❤

[@f.fhr0]

Bahjaaa your glowing too much Allahumma Barik 😫😫🙌🏻 your honestly exploding positive energy through out this whole video. Love you bahja!! your so loved :)) ❤️❤️🫶🏻

[@Arielannee]

Came across this video at the perfect time. I’ve been working through releasing my negative mindset for a while now but I was feeling stuck and this video gave me the clarity I needed💕✨

[@BahjaAbdi]

I'm sooo glad! All praise is due to god, he always sends you the right things at the right time. I'm rooting for you love 🥹🫶🏾

[@aj__love5919]

We can do this, we will do this, and we will Succeed 💫♥️ JazakAllah Bahja! Boost goes a long way and I love all your advice

[@periria1414]

It is very difficult to constantly control, shift your thought and focus. And even harder to do so with emotions. But it’s definitely the most important thing.

[@Dp_modesty]

Alhamdulillah I’m so happy I found your KZbin. I literally have to rewatch this video because subhanAllah this is me.. JazakAllah Khair

[@Lifeptsd]

YOU JUST FILLED A LANE NO ONE HAD

[@lakeeshabrown9300]

Bahja thank you for your encouragement words because I am struggling with my negative thoughts and emotions and feelings Thank you for everything 🤲🏽

[@BahjaAbdi]

Ofc, I’m so grateful you found this video beneficial. I pray that your able to overcome all that your struggles 🥺🤍

[@samanthaholbrook4261]

Thank you so much, i realy needed this

[@chinwemueller6535]

This was a fantastic video. Perfect timing for getting out of an emotional slump.

[@munafaisal6775]

mashallah Abayo i really appreciated this segment it just ignited a sense of change in me! ive been quite stagnant and delayed in achieving specific goals

[@healwmimi]

Bahja I love your style ma shaa Allah. please do a video of how you’ve landed to your current fashion sense. how do we find our personal style? what helped you, etc! help us out 💝

[@DedeAbdeena-we4ws]

Listening to you always feels great and empowering

[@Dp_modesty]

This video is EVERYTHING

[@xyzza]

Bahja, you opened my eyes on sooo many things with one video.

[@xyzza]

Watching this and taking notes rn 📝. I'm half-way through this and I gotta say thank you girlll❤

[@shamilahahmed]

Bahja girl your videos are saving my life 🥹. May Allah keep your sweet soul blessed and in abundance 💗

[@perk63]

1st time in this class thank you.

[@Judy122550]

God a lot of times only gives us what we need not what we want ! Wanting those things & we do not get them we learn what is most important it is not the material things in life that makes us happy ! I found your channel thru Remi Clog I am a new subscriber Have a lovely day !

[@izy2302]

This video made me feel relieved!!!

[@hannanmohamed6920]

I’ve meaning to fix it and I just didn’t how and when I needed the most❤

[@Lilly-x4z]

Loved your videos so much they're all so informative, that nowadays i don't even need to read titles click and watch 😇🥰

[@FatmaaAmour-cm9lf]

Am from Tanzania and it's 05:34 and this video you'll bahja made my day ❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

Awee I'm sending you all my love 🥹🫶🏾

[@saywhaaanisa5427]

Love the neuroplasticity concept!!!

[@nocymaduba6523]

Love and Love your content ❤

[@aylaa4774]

This is a great video. Thank you. 🌸

[@LillyVibes]

I needed to hear this today

[@blueblingnails]

First time watching 💕😊 LOVED YOUR ADVICE! Subscribe

[@lovefromsidd9896]

I love love you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom gal❤❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

I luv luv luvvv you moreeee

[@xyzza]

I also pray for your success❤

[@Chamberofmirrors]

The timing of this❤

[@ScvdGssg]

Thanks Bahja sm for posting videos walahi you don’t understand how much mentally they help me may Allah reward you ❤

[@Wendy-gc1vf]

Needed that AGAIN 😊

[@Wendy-gc1vf]

Thank you I needed that ❤

[@blueblingnails]

I have watched the same video 3x already 🙌🏽❤️

[@ntombisiro]

The guilt of not being okay🙁

[@SiyanSonda-jq9ls]

This is very useful thanks

[@thelightoftrinity]

thankh you for this video sis

[@fatimaezzahra-t8m]

Congrats on 100k sweetheart ❤🎉

[@amaana1414]

bahja always speaks the truth! a godsend ❤

[@bintibinti30]

HI HI! New here…This came onto my fyp and I needed to hear this. Thank you for this beautiful. May Allah reward you for these beautiful words you’re sharing with us. 💖

[@BahjaAbdi]

Watching this while I get my steps I and I'm CRYING what is that translation at 30:49 😭😭 editing mistakes are probably the most embarrassing lmfaoooo

[@menaa22]

needed this video ep 2 of adulting 🥳 thanks babe!!

[@JP-mb3td]

Thank you habibti for this video. I came across it in suggested and after a tiring day it was what I needed to hear 🙌🏽

[@24sunsetss]

Thank you so much for making this video, I was hoping you touch on this subject! Trying to get out of a negative mode of being is challenging but with the steps you've shared, I can see it's very much possible to transform into a positive person. Thank you so much again, this was very much needed ❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

Baby steps and I promise you'll get there, I'm so glad you found this video helpful 🥺 feel free to reach out with topics you'd like for me to cover, I'm always so happy to hear from y'all 🫂

[@atiyahpetersen3137]

I needed this

[@SabinaBinche]

Thank you!

[@tyjuannarudd2661]

yes,,, Thank you

[@YoHLaNG]

Helllooo I’ve needed this sooo much, thank you so much Bahja ❤

[@Itsaniiika]

EVERYTHING I NEED AND MORE

[@amina2072]

How is it your videos appear when I need it the most 😊

[@AzeezahAlshaair-to9wu]

Thank you sis! I needed this! I love you for the sake of Allah! Allahuma Barik❤

[@BahjaAbdi]

I love you so much more for the sake of Allah 🥹🫂

[@AzeezahAlshaair-to9wu]

@@BahjaAbdi 🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@jessicamontoya_d]

Thank You Bahja!

[@junienosile2017]

Just started investing in my business and I’m trying hard to trust in God and believe in him

[@lovelylavendertea4714]

thank you for all your hard work love

[@Joaaribah]

😊 I was not expecting this video tonight lol i was the crew waiting for it to drop at 6 ❤

[@NursePodTalks]

I know when it comes to bad days or when I’m haveing a hard time I can just write my feelings down to get it off of my chest, but how about everyday things (other than journaling about how I’m feeling and what I’m thinking about)

[@mirandarios2437]

Needed this so much!!! Love you

[@typicalaeisha]

May Allah swt bless you for the emotional support you offer others. Ameen 🩷.

[@Luvhy4]

I love your videos Bahja ❤️ I needed thisssss Thank you

[@xyzza]

28:03 your starting point is my starting point too

[@Noname11196]

Thank you Bahja truly great advices and growth 😊

[@Deby_xxo]

You’re really an impact ❤

[@KalaivaniSaravanan-r3r]

Hi sisy doin great. Can we get a video on how to script our dream self or WT ever we desire.. and hope u hit 100k before Jan💥✨

[@Cecred586]

You going through something right now & still posting ; THIS IS FLAT INSPIRATION, THIS IS RAW ~Dir. DR. Jerusalem Lung

[@nadhiasaleh9426]

JazakAllah khairun sis xxx

[@hikmahsultan]

Yeah thank you luv may allah bless you sis❤

[@Nasrasheikh_12]

Thanks byo it's really helpful nd beautiful ❤❤much appreciated ❤❤

[@atiyahpetersen3137]

Jzk ghairan sister I appreciate your content ❤❤

[@FatimaGidado-j8m]

Allahummah bhareek 😊❤

[@aminatule2614]

Love your videos mashallah ❤

[@naemacali4685]

Bahja pls u need to have ur own podcast girls actually need to hear this u are healer may allah protct u from evil eye and may allah bless u sweetheart ❤🙏🙏keep up what u are doing for our sisters out there

[@unicornisland7918]

In Bahja we trust wow❤️Amazing video spitting gems for us all once again😭 I love when you edit & write down the key points on the screen it’s so helpful I be using them down as journal prompts. P.s. Day 22 of journaling going strong, it’s literallyy the best🌚

[@saf.081]

your hijab in this looks immaculte by the way, and I love the new featuring jacket you showed us before xx