Feisty Shamara Downs Shots Of Tequila For Dutch Courage | First Dates USA

[@eslaone8721]

I'm glad he said nope. Shows he has some integrity about himself

[@Account-br9kc]

lol he is absolute loser. She used common sense

[@Myview246]

I did find her very obnoxious. But when she said her mother left at 14 and her father was never around I understood why shes behaving that way. She has trust issues, understandably.

[@soblase5342]

She shouldn’t have let her inner saboteur win but it’s easier said than done when it’s a constant battle. She was wrong but she isn’t a bad person, just needs to heal.

[@lauradelaney5457]

So glad she apologised because she was notttttt being nice up until that point

[@ubs16]

She apologized because she was drunk and her guard was down from the 40 shots she took

[@bollegijz]

She only wants to drink

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

@@bollegijz She took 3 drinks and those drinks are high in alcohol content. She judged him too quickly didn't even give him a chance that is what most women do. Sometimes you get surprised with people when you give them a chance.

[@bollegijz]

@@eduardomaldonado1647 ye alcojolic

[@MichaMontreal]

Good on her for having the self awareness to check herself. Maybe she's taken that forward into other first dates and found the right guy.

[@kennybenjamin3230]

True

[@Account-br9kc]

why? she was completely right

[@angelicharmony]

Yikes, she was just awful towards him. I'm glad she recognized that and tried to reset, though. She said it - she was getting in her own way

[@harbyarby1347]

I like that he said right away. Dudes legit told truth. They’re both pretty aware and awesome

[@kabysummit5801]

Love the reset. It went so much better and got down to being real.

[@AdamFrancisco]

He’s too mature for her

[@reenh462]

He had alot of patience to sit through that horrible date. sheesh

[@kosoriwombe]

He didn't say much, didnt react much, was in control through all of the neurotic wreck, battling of demons happening in front of him, kudos. The 2 babymamas started it but his choice of juice over alcohol hit the nail through the door of resentment. like how do you not cope with harshness of reality through intoxication like i do, punk..

[@rooliver7798]

She was a freaking EMBARRASSMENT..And Extremely disrespectful to call a man a punk

[@Account-br9kc]

he is absolute punk

[@susanbuckley4153]

Agreed 👍🏼

[@ChristineSmileyFace]

I learnt a lot about not what to do on a first date after watching this lol

[@rogdawg123]

hello there beautiful 😍

[@ranapartap1501]

Ya dont call you date a punk

[@chickolat]

she needs a date with AA.

[@jubernardi23]

😂😂😂

[@bollegijz]

100

[@nantetoev1188]

😂

[@annajames9682]

So glad she realized

[@IrishYobbo07]

I don't think she's a bad person, Just needs to work on herself more. He seems lovely

[@femkebouwmeester4272]

Sending love to this women, its brave to look yourself in the eye and change.

[@jennifergirling6850]

Four kids not married to either women sends up red flags

[@ralphlyda4545]

His red flags weren’t nearly as bad as her drinking a dozen shots red flag.

[@lavinder11]

@@ralphlyda4545 No. His red flags were glaring but a lot of you men here can't see it.

[@butterflyblessbless5836]

She had more 🚩🚩🚩than him

[@cb4017]

@@butterflyblessbless5836he has four red flags lasting 18 years each

[@Von_RX]

She learned a lot through this date. Hopefully she can reflect and find someone special. Same for the guy, he was great from the start and very respectful.

[@Account-br9kc]

she dodged a bullet

[@karissakline6765]

40 year old women expecting men the same age not to have past relationships or children are just weird. It would be more of a red flag to me if he didn’t and was a forever bachelor.

[@lynxo5695]

💯

[@lavinder11]

No one expects a 40 year old man to have no past relationships. Most would find a man that age with no experience strange. No children? I lived in NYC and found plenty of childfree men my age (mid-30s). Plus, she was critical about his baby mama situation. That's irresponsible as hell. It's no wonder why he opened up with "everyone's damaged."

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

He has kids and never married.

[@semvlasveld8799]

Can imagine when you hear about 4 children with 2 women that it is hard to not judge but I´m glad she apoligised for being over the top with bad comments.

[@Daisycakex3]

You know what, yes she was arrogant and judgemental in the beginning. But few people are able to self reflect and be honest about their flaws or wrong behaviour and apologise. Nobody is perfect and those qualities are hard to find. He does have two baby mommas so he probably did things wrong too in the past, but he also tries to improve himself and be the best dad. So, honestly, I think she deserves another chance. She definitely learned a lesson. And girl, don't be too hard on yourself. Trauma can cause you to be defensive and hard on others, but also yourself. Be kind.

[@ralphlyda4545]

Her horrible drinking was the first red flag. The second was ordering something expensive when he was paying. What horrible behaviour! She should either have one drink, & stop, or, if she can’t do that, *zero* drinks.

[@beckstyles3467]

So dont pay then babe.

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

@@beckstyles3467 it is considered courtesy and polite when someone else offers to pay to try not order the most expensive dish in the menu and order a bunch of expensive drinks. Also drinking hard drinks and getting intoxicated is a huge turnoff. She had 3 shots that is a lot of alcohol.

[@Peteristrate]

The guy dodged a bullet. Glad he's able to filter through the bs. He deserves better than that. She's a boss babe and boss babes are a nightmare.

[@sssp7801]

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

[@vaanipapadakis2226]

Boss babes aren’t like her. She’s just rude.

[@peacheskong2245]

Does he really? He fathered 4 kids with 2 different women, and he was talking about wanting to find the ''right type of damaged woman''...WHEEEET???

[@c4arla]

he lost me at damaged

[@waynejones750]

Bless she was so nervous ❤

[@believeinyourself7511]

Tequila will catch up to you real fast and bring you down hard.

[@cedricliggins7528]

Especially six shots

[@hudsonkorion]

Absolutely…I had to learn that the hard way 🤢

[@purplebutterfly7257]

Neither one of them are a prize. 😂

[@kennybenjamin3230]

Atleast she knew she messed up and tried to be better at the end,without the camera and no pressure I think she is a nice lady.

[@lawrencekelli]

What a gorgeous man charming and respectful. And what a women to realize she was being way to harsh and checked herself. Hope they both find true love.

[@Cal222]

At least she realized where the problem lied. Unfortunate. He seems like a good man and she seems like a good woman, she just needs to get out of her own way❤️

[@sssp7801]

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

[@lavinder11]

4 kids by 2 women is a no

[@vs0063]

Yeah, he's really gorgeous. Super great personality too. Love how she apologized. That was real integrity.

[@ulynvanzyl8474]

I know why she’s single...

[@beckstyles3467]

and he has four kids with two different people

[@elizabeth3280]

2 BABY MOMMAS and SMASHED within the last 24hrs before going on the date. He friend zoned her too 😅

[@menen9391]

He is so gorgeous especially when he smiles😊 ....this woman is a mess yoooh

[@M.9.m]

3 min to watch and I’m like “what is wrong with her????

[@Shaara1]

She behaved like trash. And he couldn't accept that his past can be a red flag.

[@carleyanneart8068]

I think multiple mothers and a lot of children was her deal breaker, so she immediately shut down and started behaving badly. But yeah he was good looking!

[@scarletlady3727]

I do feel bad for her….I think she simply doesn’t know how to receive masculinity because of her traumatic childhood….she knew internally she was off and half way through checked herself to apologize to him….it would have been so amazing if he would have given her a second chance

[@Lcmrockets]

Wow. He’s very much a gentleman and she is just wayyyyy too much.

[@CassTrashPuppy]

The burping and the shots was a buzzkill 4 me ,take your time 🤗

[@eagillum]

"I'm the worst first date ever". Aww, hugs.

[@space_btwn_notes]

he's got some denzel mannerisms in him

[@travmarquee3213]

Dating is for teens and young adults. It’s not for 40 year olds and divorced parents with a bunch of baggage. I say that because what tends to happen is women and men have too many expectations and experiences. Basically, to start the date she was hyper judgmental as most women are. They get in their own way. He has lots of kids so he has to understand that women will wonder why.

[@asandi4444]

Wow did she ever miss out. Men like this sure don't come along every day. He is gorgeous, intelligent, easy-going and don't even get me started on his beautiful smile. Sigh...

[@waitwho9283]

After the second shot, I’d have paid and left! She’s disrespectful but some guys when you meet someone this crazy you almost just want to stay, see it through and sit through the whole joke. 😂 She’s not 3years old, can’t treat people that way!

[@bitcoinmaster3634]

At least have fun in the date even if you were not going on a second date. Now you are left with a terrible memory.

[@lynxo5695]

Damage is such a negative loaded word. Should have used flawed instead.

[@LSD77777]

This sounds like Drew Barrymore in the voiceover

[@angelicharmony]

it is

[@jn8922]

He stayed through that rudeness? It's a date, not a war. American men deal with a lot. That behaviour is a red flag.

[@Burningarrow7]

Exactly! Western women as a whole are becoming more and more like this and they cry when we go after feminine eastern women. In the end it's just the women who are losing

[@Britvian1982]

I'm sorry, that comment about her being judgemental, he did it as soon as she walked into the room. So it was probably best they were not together in that way.

[@lavinder11]

Right.

[@Dymsx86]

Aw, I think they would have had a better time if she didn't come in so intensely. I'm sure the shots she was taking didn't help matters. I wish the reset was how the date originally started. While I can understand wanting to know more about his children, this was not the way to do it.

[@giovanapc1]

He was so handsome, kinda gave Denzel Washington vibes. She seemed so nervous, I feel like her anxiety got the best of her, unfortunately. Not easy being on a first date (and blind, no less) but hopefully next time she can just more open and burp less, LOL.

[@sssp7801]

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

[@Lcmrockets]

@@sssp7801of course. Here you are again.

[@lavinder11]

He insulted her. That clearly threw her off, along with the 4 kids by 2 women and married to neither. That should turn off any sane woman.

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Blind Date - the freakin show should pay. If not they should go Dutch. It wasn't a date initiated by either person.

[@SongBillong]

She knew she was wrong and rightly apologised, but then continued to be judgmental at the end. Good on him for saying no.

[@Skeezer66]

She might need to talk to a therapist, she doesn't have walls, she has a fortress! Not a bad person!

[@michelletanner7047]

Girl , don't worry about it, you will find a man! you're absolutely right 4 kids 2 baby mama's sorry I'm out the door!

[@karissakline6765]

She’s 40 years old…any men her age are going to have history and children. Grow up!

[@Oneofonenotoneofmany]

You're the type of friends she has already, the way she behaved was unacceptable and unattractive

[@sssp7801]

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

[@dantoinettem6825]

​@@karissakline6765 it's not the children, it's the fact that he never married any of the women who he had children with

[@nottodaysatan101]

She’s definitely a wreck, but he is heartbreak waiting to happen. Four kids with two women is a red flag.

[@teedee1170]

How does this woman expect to find someone😳she’s outright rude and crass… and the burping😩

[@jonathandow684]

That’s what I called a hit and Miss!

[@LC-lf8se]

"one of the things that went wrong...ONE of the things..:" LOL! I was cringing with her behavior.

[@carolinerhodes8956]

I like him. Very confident, no ones fool

[@krisarbuckle]

What is wrong with her ability to see what a train wreck she is! She is abrasive, crude, and presumptuous. Then she tries to pretty it up by saying she is a “blessing blocker”! Blessings come to those who are humble and kind and generous. Doesn’t give a man a chance to be smooth and easy to get along with. She likes battling, so she will be alone all her life.

[@akl9354]

Bless her!❤️

[@michelleroselilley4637]

She's so sweet

[@mattneillninasmom]

Her apologies were too little too late. Her own worst enemy, throwing down shots of tequila like a desperate alcoholic and throwing out insults without provocation. Lady, you're a train wreck. That was a good man you had in front of you and you killed it dead!

[@tiagoagm]

Scary woman, went all the way in the oysters when he said he was going to pay.

[@leahnyb6878]

Are you poor? Yes you are.

[@tiagoagm]

@@leahnyb6878 I am not. but from your conversation you have a lot of dates that are paying lol

[@beckstyles3467]

do you have a minimum wage? Then dont pay.

[@norahcutts6989]

I think with four children with different mams would make any real woman’s jaw drop and question his fidelity if nothing else…if so attractive. You won’t be the only one to notice either……RED FLAG. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL RADIO LADY…love from Wales

[@ppumpkin3282]

She asks "who's paying" before the order and after several shots. Big red flag.

[@darthvader3910]

Dang 4 children AND YOU'RE DATING!!!!!

[@lavinder11]

She was on guard because he criticized her as a radio host. Maybe he shouldn't have started off with that. And four children by two men? No.

[@pierr6496]

He had 4 children not her

[@Annsunshine30]

I`m sure that seeing her downing strong alcohol like that, was turing him off big time already! !

[@robkamanda]

🤔 I didnt like her personality but... I wouldnt want my daughter persuing or being persued by a dude who has 4 kids by different women and is not at home with them. I dont care how nice his personality is. I grew up alot of guys who either hit it and quit it or call it quits when rosey love fades into the reality of fighting for their relationship or family. Her flaws aside, she dodged a bullet with that 1.

[@kerriwilliams1503]

❤ the way shamar dates!

[@hoops8534]

Good grief, at least you know you blew it 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ToFunForThis]

I mean is good to ask questions, she had experience this already with her parents. Maybe not judge so quickly but yes ask questions!

[@AmorDivino-e5q]

She just was interested in getting drunk with tequila shots, that's insulting.

[@tsambikatsa926]

She drinks quite a lot!! That’s why he did not like her! And he doesn’t wish to make a Commitment!! Neither are suitable for anyone! Unless they learn to amend their ways!!

[@yolandarubalcava523]

Poor guy she’s awful. She is a scorn definitely woman she’ll be alone forever.

[@timkbt]

Four kids with two women never been married and he’s upset that she was prejudice against him. She would have been number three. Hey it just happened. Loser!

[@tonyhudson8698]

SHE SURE IS RUDE.. I watched up to 4 minutes, no more for Me.

[@bronzb.1499]

her hand shake and terrible body language shows from the beginning she is not ready for loveor anyone other than herself for another 40 years.

[@princessangerloo5905]

He’s fine and she’s a disaster 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@sssp7801]

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

[@Lcmrockets]

@@sssp7801why are you commenting the same thing under almost every comment in here? I mean maybe you should take out a billboard or go door to door. You seem way overly committed to your cause. You ok?

[@sssp7801]

@@Lcmrockets you seem triggered lol

[@daldas1]

And she wonders why she is single

[@jessica-lz1dh]

I think, she needs to watch this video ,reflect and get counselling.

[@plasmaarmelund]

She's so offputting. Unless she changers her attitude real quick, she'll end up with cats and boxed wine.

[@syerega]

She is way too damaged for you Corey.

[@jasminaj3682]

She is gorgeous

[@rohananya]

She is horrible…..he’s too good for her !!!! 🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶

[@TheAndyweeras]

Imagine being a 5 at best 😊with all that sass

[@greedokenobi3855]

The host looks like John Locke lol

[@claudiacorral4559]

He was a catch ❤

[@o_vroboros]

If this is what she behaves when nervous I don't think she should be going to any dates.

[@christineleahy2013]

Men like that are very few and far between , he was a gentleman 🥵

[@kennaharrison603]

she messed up he seems like a real catch!

[@zaveeramini9712]

Nah, you can't end the video by her saying "I'm the worst date ever!" I hope she will learn to be more open minded and find someone 🙏

[@sssp7801]

4 kids and 2 baby mamas lol clearly not a seroius man ! he got butthurt by the truth lol

[@41Gecko]

@@sssp7801 How many times you gonna post the exact same thing?! Clearly you’re taking it way too seriously. Shamara, is that you?

[@sssp7801]

@@41Gecko triggered lol

[@Lcmrockets]

@@41Gecko😂😂

[@aylinkoksal8649]

She is being horrendous. He seems like a cool guy and she's being straight up obnoxious

[@Rahel8811]

To much alcohol! 😧

[@tonysatie2291]

N O P E, bye

[@chimakalu41]

4:11 This lady is trying to sabotage her own date