Is Anthony Gonna Hold his Liquor this Time?🫣 | First Dates New Zealand

[@heartpursuer]

"Twenty-two-year-old life coach." Twenty-two-years old. Life coach.

[@aron.gortman]

You'd be surprised at how many people there are who have totally ruined their lives by 22 in NZ.

[@nanayaaagyeiwaamensah134]

Ridiculous!

[@hafrunmariazsoldos7151]

Hihihi they follow a SYSTEM not life experiences😂

[@zofiawaters4913]

Yeah…🤣

[@lackerbitandersson6241]

I'm 56. You really made me laugh at loud 😂😂😂

[@jackkreacherr9339]

Bro what? The "before teeth fixed" picture is stunning. I'm confused lol

[@natevic1867]

I’m more confused why she got them fixed just because one guy insulted them. Like don’t be that person. He’s literally controlling the way you view yourself.

[@Faar369]

Same!!! Your self worth shouldn't be determined by men who want a plastic doll.

[@pamelakersten1032]

I liked them better before.

[@mohammadal-drees3106]

All she needed was braces, and that’s it. Otherwise, they looked fine.

[@CanMoose]

I agree..and his response was a major turnoff

[@smitha5022]

Her before picture is literally what I want my teeth to look like!!!

[@loulou-hf7yn]

"As far as Irelands concerned I'm a casual drinker" As a Scot & fellow celt I completely understand this

[@Cookieman524]

Love how he gave her a reassuring squeeze and kiss. That was really nice to see 😊

[@karagandrk]

I absolutely loved that moment, too, and was kinda expecting that. They were so sweet to each other, it was really good to see

[@richiem7716]

She used men 3 times a week for a free feed in London. Sums up this generation

[@karagandrk]

Three different old men pay 3 meals a week each for the company of a young, attractive lady. Sums up the past generations

[@xo121w]

Yea but she gave them all dessert in return 😉

[@BlueRazor69]

Am I insane? Her teeth were fine the first time.

[@dynamicforce8051]

She likes to date older because she wants to have a good time, and older guys generally have more money. She wants more food. She also said she used to date about 3 times a week for the free food. Ok

[@AKiki-ct1ro]

As long as its consentual i dont see the issue. Some guys literally just want company for dinner no strings attached. Obviously you gotta avoid seeing them again or they can't help wanting more. If the guy is looking for more than company (eg dating to see if theres something there) then yeah its rude.

[@MrAgmoore]

"A girl's gotta eat" *eyeroll* oh God...

[@bbj4613]

I ended up having a child and marrying the man that looked after me financially. We both contribute now but me more so with house work and childcare. It works for us and I am happy 😊

[@MichelleSullivan]

His only misstep was saying he's glad her met her after she had her teeth done. Missed opportunity to reassure her that she's beautiful either way. Not great to undermine someone's confidence... Hope they find happiness together.

[@pepper1188]

Her prior teeth looked fine

[@mikajulius8148]

​@@pepper1188Agreed.

[@alanmclean3292]

I know, right? I find "Hollywood Gleaming Teeth" to be too perfect; too glossy. A woman's *unique* smile makes her beautiful, as an individual. Pointy teeth, overbite, no matter. It's very much like her laugh - a signature. If her smile isn't like anyone else's, it's even more of a treasure. 💖

[@audhumbla6927]

yeah and her teeth before wasnt even bad at all !!????? so dumb of him. "oh no a mean guy said that toyou... well i agree höhö" so dumb

[@SallyHillsallyrhill]

I think he was joking

[@waalex11]

Young Life Coach is an instant red flag, lol.

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

Admitting to dating men three times a week for free food does not put any girl in good light, does it?

[@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja]

@@InTheShadowsOfOnesAndZeros Kinda

[@hydroman114]

yeah thats that i thought probably still living at home 🤣

[@mymobile5014]

Sums up what the dating scene is like in the 21st century. That's why I always demand the bill is split.

[@stevemorse108]

She was happy as he will pay for at least one more meal and drinks after the first date: she can then teach in her life coaching sessions to other women how to live off of men.

[@julieoluna8887]

And this is an aspiring "Life Coach" 😂

[@gerardmackay8909]

I think in this thread people are firing a lot of unfair criticism her way. The nervous giggle about dating a lot in London, never getting anywhere, but at least she got dinner, was her way of compensating for how insecure it made her feel to not date successfully. I really don’t think she meant sincerely that throw away comment at all. As for changing her perfectly decent teeth (at huge expense) because of the cruel arrogance of a casual date, to me it shows how troubled and vulnerable this young lady is (the fact she was convinced Mr Dublin didn’t really like her merely amplifies this). She’s beautiful and sweet and he’s handsome and seems kind and genuine. I wish them both well.

[@keifer7813]

Don't get too drunk off that copium 🤢😂

[@jessejames96]

Apparently it’s ok for her to use men 2 or 3 times a week for from meals and 🍹 cocktails. Seems like a catch.

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

@jessejames96 Yes! These first few lines had me not liking her immediately User behaviour! She seems just really insecure but I don’t think she’s a saint either using men like that on serial dates

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

If u know u won’t see them again romantically I don’t think you should let men pay for you imo! Not that letting men means you as a woman owe them anything (eg some bedroom action), but it could suggest there will be another date in Future where they will have chance to pay for the dinner returning the favour! I don’t think men should be obliged to pay anyways even if there’s a second date on card. Both men and women work jobs today Sorry for rant lol

[@Davechappelle445]

Life coach lol 😂

[@red2lucas]

a 22 year old life coach... yeaaahhh OK

[@stofamaan]

her teeths looks better then than now 6:46

[@Skeezer66]

it's crazy that a woman that lovely is so insecure! But better that than being stuck up. This time I'm annoyed that the after date information was blocked! Could anyone read it?

[@LeMerch]

His teeth joke was a JOKE.. he didn’t mean it FFS. People need relax.

[@mariem3429]

She's crazy! 🚩🚩🚩Extremely insecure

[@robertgelblum5154]

I was surprised that she lacked the self-confidence to think that he might like/be attracted to her.

[@marcb8141]

Tbh I wasnt so much because it may just be his way but I found this lad a bit reserved and it showed her that he didnt maybe see as interested but Im sure hes different once a girl gets to know him.

[@thisguy73]

When you use men your whole dating life for their money it's difficult to tell. One guy told her to change her teeth and she changed her entire life on that comment. It's called insecurity.

[@helenlingard7790]

@@thisguy73 this guy was a bit inappropriate too, when she showed her photo before her veneers, which really were nice teeth - he joked that he was glad he was seeing her with her new teeth ... either nervousness or rude. Men tend to be a bit slow on the compliments ... doh

[@marcb8141]

@@helenlingard7790 if that were me id have told her how she still looked lovely before with her original teeth but the new ones are very nice too. That guy was definatly rude and seemed either very slow or a bit rude

[@marcb8141]

@@thisguy73 for sure

[@spidercat2841]

How are u a life coach at 22???

[@joem8372]

dating guys 3 times a week throws up red flags. proceed with caution!!!

[@mj-rg9kp]

They’re so cute together, it seems a better match than the girl before

[@BWT599]

I'm a dude and once lived and worked in New York City. I had a good female friend who was very beautiful and we were both struggling to make it in a very expensive NYC. She would often date older guys just to get a free meal and other times I would take her out for a meal. She wasn't a gold digger in the normal sense of the term, but a young woman who was trying to pursue her dream of being a dancer. When I fell onto some hard times while switching jobs on a work visa and losing my apartment (roommate wanted his GF to move in) she not only took me out for a nice dinner, but let me crash on her couch for several weeks until I found a new apartment. I still stay in touch almost 20 years later, she was always super fun to be around and a great listener. Maybe in exchange for dinner, those other guys got to enjoy her company when they needed it.

[@leigh7507]

An aspiring life coach haha

[@HeatherArriaga]

An American alcoholic? Lmaooooo I like him already hahahahaha

[@rogdawg123]

i like you already 😘

[@karldoyle8470]

As an irish person, we do have a problem with alcohol, but i hope this wasnt the case here. He seemed decent and she was lovely .... Hope things worked out !!!

[@phina8392]

Gee i thought she was going to say, I went on a date once and he paid for my teeth to be fixed…

[@lindseyc.8162]

😂

[@flabunny1]

There was nothing wrong with her teeth. They were beautiful.

[@HaggisVitae]

Agree!

[@Finderskeepers.]

Her Claddagh ring is on the wrong way, I hope. Hands pointing out and exposing the heart means her heart is open as she is single. Hands pointing in means heart is closed because it is spoken for, its an Irish thing.

[@PV-pu5iu]

Never knew that.

[@ppumpkin3282]

I realize this is done for TV, but generally I would think it rude to leave your date to go have a phone call, or to even pull out your phone on a date.

[@teddirichardson1915]

can't read what happened after the date because you got a video in the way .

[@YG-ib6wf]

She looked SO beautiful with the before teeth😢

[@darkerbinding6933]

He's a solid guy... she should hold onto him.

[@montymontgomery2471]

What a great guy. He’s lovely

[@drummonkeystuffuk1875]

Bit of advice, for the "aspring life coach" at age 22....LEarn who you are before giving life advice to anyone else...At 22 you've barely any life experience or know who you truly are.

[@leigh7507]

I actually noticed the cultural difference with Brits and Irish dealing with Americans and drinking. If i said to a Brit I went to the pub 3 times a week and had 5 pints - its no big deal. The Americans, however, thought it was crazy to be going out 3 times a week.

[@Skeezer66]

it depends on who you ask, American or not. Many of us do the same.

[@aliciamonroe615]

The degree of judgmental attitudes towards drinking .........and just about anything they can find to be offended about, in the US is crazy ! (this message brought to you by an American)

[@garden10ful]

She has no confidence in her self 😢 such a beautiful lady, he was an IDIOT for saying he's glad to meet her AFTER she fixed her teeth, they were fine before too, I hope she finds true love

[@traceymarshall5886]

Yeah when she showed the photo before...her teeth were perfect. Now they are nice but kinda too much like Turkey teeth

[@LeMerch]

She goes on dates for free food. 😂

[@traceymarshall5886]

@@LeMerch yes but then you realise its not worth it

[@karldoyle8470]

He was joking .... Her teeth were fine before !!!!!!

[@Inquisitor2024]

Life coach,ok😂😂

[@terminallyonline280]

I like her old teef

[@MyLolle]

😂😂😂 "teef"😂

[@szyl8595]

I like that couple, they both seem really nice and genuine

[@ZootZinBootZ]

He makes me blush more than I expected. for a much younger guy he's making me re question my aspirations male companion wise,, I'm going to just get my thoughts together, somehow 😍😍

[@menaceledennis]

🤡

[@xoxsilentrealmxox]

I hope he was joking about the teeth thing. Her teeth before the dental work were totally fine

[@Godisfirst21]

Im glad I met you now? Her teeth were not bad at all.

[@sheilastahl633]

Now you know why he is single. And who cares about his muscles his head is a muscle too.

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Ladies: If you offered to go halfs, would you be offended if he said okay?

[@finnanminnan6949]

I would think he would accept because he is not interested

[@neoxochitl]

Of course not! I am more than happy to pay half! My So and I split like I get dinner this time and he next time etc.

[@delph.e8580]

It varies from culture to culture. I prefer to pay separately. Specially for first dates because if it goes wrong, then it would be embarrassing to reject someone who payed for you. To me, it's nonsense to pay for someone you don't know yet. I would be ok to invite or be invited later if the relationship becomes serious. I remember I met a Romanian woman in Belgium once and she told me that Belgian men are rude and stingy because they pay separately. I said here it's just normal otherwise you wouldn't be considered as an independent woman ! 😅

[@PROVOCATEURSK]

@@finnanminnan6949 He doesn´t pay for you therefore he is not interested? You are not a product to be bought, why do you think so much with money?

[@sofiaguerrero0969]

I wouldnt be offended if I didn’t like him and knew I wasn’t going to see him again. I’d be absolutely fine. If we got along really well, laughed a lot, and I got a feeling that he really liked me and I liked him, I wouldn’t be offended if he offered to go halves but a little gutted since taking care of the bill is usually part of that protective, caring manly thing we crave when we actually like a guy lol

[@gillowens24]

She is lovely her teeth very nice

[@MaverickLee11]

2:20 further proof of a beautiful face is not a beautiful heart.

[@rjkka7260]

They could have ironed the tablecloth..................shocking

[@xoxsilentrealmxox]

He's extremely handsome, but that alcohol is not going to do him any favours. He needs to get a handle on it.

[@LeMerch]

Oh relax.

[@deirdreloughran8258]

I agree very off-putting

[@xoxsilentrealmxox]

@@LeMerch it's not about relaxing, it's just when you can see alcohol ruining someone

[@priscila1755]

I'm crazy about ginger guys! ❤ But I don't like alcohol Irish culture.

[@whip57]

She was sweet 💖

[@melisacelese2785]

Be on watch ! Like the Aussie girls!!! 😸

[@traceymarshall5886]

As a Dublin woman i was mortified when she compared himself to Conor McGregor. It was such an insult to Irish people

[@bathtownship]

An insult to most irish men lol

[@bigmikehunt]

He does kinda have the same head and accent. It's not unusual as he is currently probably the most famous Irish person in today's world

[@reganwolf4405]

Why ? I was think the same haha he does look like the mma fighter😂 . . Only he is nicer looking then the fighter him self

[@PanHaszaman]

She literally admitted to dating guys for food...

[@cityhawk]

Appreciate her honesty though.

[@dtbristol]

Foodie calls are very common. Unusual for a woman to admit it publicly, though.

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Major turn off

[@sigma8995]

That's why you take a girl out on "coffee" dates. I've learned this from personal experience. Taking multiple girls out on dates a week can get very expensive if you are running dinner dates. So many reasons not to either.

[@Timetravel755]

​@sigma8995 or she can pay for her own food!

[@K_12389]

Gosh I've always wanted her 'before' teeth damn.

[@MikeC77]

Being a life coach at 22 was cringe but the real low point was getting free dinners 3 times a week. What an absolute parasite.

[@MillerTheOriginal]

Lol

[@melt2947]

I think she was making a joke

[@menaceledennis]

​@@melt2947no she wasnt

[@sarahmilner8483]

As an Irish person I'm completely mortified over this embarrassment. Talk about perpetuating a negative stereotype

[@bigmikehunt]

Womp womp

[@CA2SD]

Idc but she seems better off without him. She prefers dating older men and dating for dinner dates because she probably is building back her confidence. Nothing wrong with that. She seems like a good person still. Whereas, this guy who missed an opportunity to say there was nothing wrong with her teeth in that picture. He doesn’t seem ready to be ready for a healthy relationship.

[@bigmikehunt]

Yikes.

[@dewshine12345]

She looked better with old teeth to bad

[@MrBroKid]

how in the hell can a 22 year old be a life coach, and she went a sh!t ton of dates cuz a girls gotta eat. o brother this show stinks

[@aron.gortman]

Why didn't the creepy restaurant host come to check on the lad while she was in the bathroom??? He always chats up the woman when the guy is away!

[@LoveYou-ol3dt]

😂😂😂 FACTS! I'm glad someone finds him creepy too 🤣🤣🤣

[@FCS7]

And of course we don't know how it ended cos this ridiculous channel had to advertise its ridiculous self.

[@Skeezer66]

That's partly a YT thing. In the full length shows you can usually read them.

[@FCS7]

@@Skeezer66 Where can I see full length episodes?

[@marymary5494]

Sweet couple.

[@off-puddingseries4661]

Wants to see him again to pay the other dinner bill

[@monikapordan-o3n]

She's stunning

[@conorwilkinson1509]

Pad for the meal at least

[@hcklberypinkbrownies5170]

21??? You're shi**ing me? Dayumm. Wow. AICS. 💚 O+

[@scarlettkhan9667]

Broski needs to come back to UK and work as a Connor McGregor lookalike. He would get more money and more women doing that.

[@rogdawg123]

facts 🤣😅😂

[@carolinerhodes8956]

She,s beautiful and he,s a hunk, nice guy

[@vambo13257]

He has the mid section weight of a heavy drinker

[@leigh7507]

I think he has a decent body. A bit of muscle and a slight bit of chub. Dont want a scrawny guy, but the preened up bodybuilders are a bit too much

[@JB-hb7fd]

Do they have a new season to watch ? 2023 ?

[@liznicolas272]

Is it just me or is the male host kinda creepy/awkward?

[@Skeezer66]

He shouldn't open his mouth when he smiles, lol!!

[@LoveYou-ol3dt]

Agree he is hella creepy

[@JasmineSurrealVideos]

Trust me, older men in my experience are not more intelligent and they do not know how to treat you at all, except badly. Age is not a magic bullet, a panacea that brings courtesy, wisdom and consideration. I'm not sure why these two were matched, he seems borderline alcoholic and he seems untrustworthy, just something off about him, and whilst she is undoubtedly attractive and elegant, I suspect she might want an older man as she thinks (wrongly) that they have money to spend.

[@natevic1867]

I remember him. They called him the McGregor lookalike

[@letsbehonest4221]

"Life coach" ..😂😂😂. .you mean - entitled 22yo that's like a passes around 35yo wuo likes to tell others how they should live ... 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@RHathemoment]

She was gorgeous before.

[@akm1967]

2:24 And that is why I don’t date anymore..😂

[@vambo13257]

Tess, an admitted user> She goes on dates for free food, disgusting.

[@qp4367]

Now son, promise your dear ole mother one ting.....two to be sure. Promise your dear ole mother that when ya travel abroad ya won't step foot in front of any tv cameras, but son if ya do do that; promise me ya won't come off like some drunken Irish stereoty--- jk, Anthony is a top bloke! He came off less hilarious than when he was chatting up the barmen. He was in recruiter mode seems like...just a consummate professional.

[@Colin_Lawlor_Audio]

So when she shows off the picture of her with normal teeth and the irish guy is insulting.... That is a typical trick. Guy wants to bring girl's self esteem down, Girl wants to feel small beside a man, ... Long story short, it is the basis for a toxic relationship.... But both of these people seem really toxic anyways so let them at it

[@scarlettwitman2028]

Tess looks a little bit like ivanka trump

[@rogdawg123]

facts

[@remfan170]

Yeah, for me, the boyfriend experience is that we don't go out to eat often. This guy found her hot and then everything she did was like "oh yay, another plus." They don't know anything about each other really. Her confidence is wrecked from dating and prob other things. I can see her at 30 reflecting on "this phase of [my] journey."

[@soumilagarwal3626]

Me to universe where is my Tess?

[@jasonm.b1971]

And another free meal....

[@Pigdogmeat]

3 different lads a week and using them for food. What a catch...

[@thisguy73]

I havent had the bf experience... because all I do is use men. I am flabbergasted why it isnt working for me. Also I will use snapchat and tiktok to complain about men.

[@AshimDream]

I think she sounded sad when she said that..Like she was saying it as a cover up/joke to distract from the fact that she wanted a boyfriend so much that she went on that many dates trying with different people😭

[@unassailable6138]

How can she feel affection towards a man when in her eyes they are only free meals and utilities? damagged for life, maybe she will find a fool

[@danhanley1313]

22 year old life coach who went out with guys just for food. Sounds like a catch.

[@karatekai6384]

22 years old Life coach, that likes to eat, at least 3 times a week😳

[@conorwilkinson1509]

He is leaving the irish side down dig time.

[@DrDudelidge]

This guy made an appearance on Australia Border Security for trying to come back for his 2nd appearance, got found he was getting paid for going on so he was denied, also was found out he had a gf back home as well. So musta pulled a sneaky to get into NZ 😂

[@AG17FL]

@drdudelidge what episode

[@TheBellamarley]

You can see she's a sweet girl with a good heart! Unfortunately, someone made her feel uncomfortable about her teeth. She's beautiful, with or without the new look. ❤ I wish her all the best.

[@mattneillninasmom]

I dunno, is his drinking gonna turn out to be a problem? Good looking couple, that's for sure.

[@mistytaylor8166]

I think she was much more pretty with her original teeth. How ignorant for anyone to say, otherwise.

[@timhavens6361]

She is cute though

[@slimjim1104]

Tess a mess

[@sigma8995]

I have heard and seen from multiple sources, experienced it myself as well, about modern women seeing and using 90% men as a end to their means. Free food, free attention, free protection, free s** are the primary commodity. As for the top 10%, or less, they see them as "the one" or the one they want to get married with but can never. Times have changed. This isn't the day and age when our grand parents dated.

[@helenlingard7790]

Just the wrong women... the righ women wouldn't do that..

[@sigma8995]

@@helenlingard7790 That's true. Sadly there's a lot more wrong women/people these days. Time has changed.

[@rpgquester]

Your username tells me all I need to knows bout your views lol

[@leigh7507]

Its exaggerated the majority of normal women go out for coffee dates, or meet in bars, and arent as bad or money hungry as people make out online.

[@sigma8995]

@@rpgquester Not as much as you think your reply tells the world about yours.

[@timrowland9422]

Dating to get a free meal? Gold digging mentality leaves me grateful that I’m not single.

[@keifer7813]

Guy who said that about her teeth probably caught on that he was just her free meal ticket haha dont feel sorry for her one bit

[@dustyilic2588]

I’m Australian mate and far from into myself .. your just not finding the right girl for you ..

[@rogdawg123]

tess is beautiful 🔥🔥👌😍