Date Tries to Run to Avoid Paying the Bill | First Dates USA

[@sophie2084]

They are actually a perfect match. He is just as superficial as she is, and they both think very highly of themselves - not sure why

[@Skeezer66]

Yes, these 2 are Quite The Pair!! They deserve each other!

[@christineazmi]

Yeeeees!!!!

[@MaRiAm936]

I can't agree more!

[@Deana9528]

I can see why they are both still single.

[@yogaqueen1527]

I'm surprised the show doesn't pay for the bill

[@colourwheel1050]

For the drama. Makes it so kuch more interesting

[@bibakroll8999]

In the UK (original) version they each get £25 towards the bill.

[@yogaqueen1527]

@bibakroll8999 that's good they cover some of it

[@cupidok2768]

How do you get paired these people out. they don't match at all

[@cheery-hex]

yeah otherwise what's the purpose of going on the show? to get a date? to be on tv? the least the show can do is pay for their supper

[@JKalllday]

He’s smart for realizing he can’t afford the upkeep of dating her😂

[@wendyalthaus9389]

I would never run up a bill for someone else to pay. I’d watch what I order.

[@jeretso]

Guy wants to go camping. She wants hairpins. Bad matchup.

[@jackfenton2271]

Always carry cash in small denominations. You can stand up, throw down your share & walk away.

[@TheNoonie50]

"My hair clips cost that much".....RUN!!!!!!!!!

[@PontiacGal1996]

He definitely thought she was hot, but he knew they weren't compatible. He's a country boy and she's a diva. Lol. Who knows though, sometimes opposites attract!

[@annmarieb987]

I now understand why she is not married and only a bridesmaid😉

[@ronberman8947]

That's what I was thinking😊

[@crystalbee9706]

Please explain

[@Bongwater33]

I googled this: On the show "First Dates," the contestants are not actually paying for their meals; the production company covers the cost of the dinner, and any apparent "debates" over the bill shown on the show are staged for entertainment purposes. So...

[@hottubtimemachine1200]

It’s a blind date, never expect anyone to pay for you. You are both adults, pay for what you order separate bills if he wants to pay he will. Never assume anything!

[@Jesussavedme]

I was raised that the man should pay..

[@hottubtimemachine1200]

@ I was raised you get more respect if you don’t have to depend on others, if you are handed stuff you don’t respect it as much as if you worked hard for it!

[@judester9482]

Just be a gentleman and pay for gosh sake

[@swaggmamibebe4005]

Hi 🙂 question just curious what is your age 👀👀👁️👀👁️

[@hottubtimemachine1200]

@ does it matter? I’m not a gold digger, like most of these women who EXPECT they don’t have to pay for anything.

[@philc8575]

The lights are on but nobody's home!!

[@BottleNed]

Respect to him for not lying about wanting a second date knowing he could at least get laid. Respect to her for being honest about what she wanted.

[@aussiechick23]

she needs a sugar daddy, not a husband lmao

[@aveuch]

Women call them “providers”

[@ElyassSaleh]

He is upset because he paid the restaurant bill. He is not very happy with you.😂😂😂😂🤣😆

[@coleb4991]

This guy is a total stranger. For all she knows, he has bodies in his backyard, and she is already planning a wedding in her drunken thoughts! OMG honey!

[@alen7492]

She's 100% entitled. That's why he dumped her. Palming his face was a big tell.

[@mariem3429]

What does palming his face mean?

[@alen7492]

@@mariem3429 She has used her hand and placed disrespectfully over his face. And not just placed, but tapping all over it.

[@Nancys_on_fire]

He wasn’t trying to get out of it. He asked her that question to see how appreciative she was, and if she’d at least offer. Had she showed any semblance of grace, it wouldn’t have caused an issue. That’s the kind of guy who wants to treat a woman right, but only if she’d do it in return. She failed that test. Good for him for vetting her so effectively.

[@916TheBear]

I was rootin' for him to dip before it even began 😆

[@Sharonberry893]

Personally I offer to pay for what I consumed, if the man insist I will accept him to pay if I know I will like to see him again. If I really not feeling it I will say no I will pay for myself. My last partner sometimes I paid and sometimes he paid.

[@lindsandkev]

She is annoying 😢

[@mavhusamuriwo1314]

So is he 😮

[@HotVenus]

you sound jealous.

[@BuddhaBeanie]

Guy shows up in a faded looking tee. The beard looks unkempt. A hard no for me. But she should have suggested to pay their own bills.

[@natalieelliott1984]

Agree. He looks unkept and sloppy.

[@elisadelaurenti2516]

Ha! He should have dropped his half in cash on the table and sauntered out away from that thing.

[@danabrennan628]

There is ZERO explanation needed as to why she's still single. She simply hasn't found her shmuck yet.

[@lalasi5832]

So he is

[@davidmarks8318]

Ugh she's a nightmare.

[@pinnacle1717]

She thinks she can get a free ride her whole life just because of her looks. 🤣

[@lydiasinclair1126]

She probably will. It's amazing what that can do for a simple man.

[@pinnacle1717]

@ Sad, but true. 🤣

[@cupidok2768]

Oh my God he's touching her is this real... Are they drunk or is she just so

[@crystalbee9706]

And she does

[@sheff-eb6jb]

And she's mid😂

[@meerkat8998]

How wrong was she? She was the one ordering the booze and wants him to pay? If I took a part in this I would want to go 50%. You know it's going to be pricey, so be ready for it. Plus a tip!

[@cheery-hex]

I feel like I am legit watching a date scene from an Adam Sandler comedy movie 😂🤣

[@kaycampbell8532]

She's nothing but trouble. RUN AWAY!

[@nohox9444]

Don't get drunk on TV people. That's what that was

[@lydiasinclair1126]

Dodged that for 200. I'd call that a win.

[@safekicker]

What an embarassment to women. This is a tv show; this is someone youve never met; and to adhere to whatever archaic "values" she believes are important versus embracing her own personhood, means this guy is still on the market. And he is welcome to hit me up - we can go Dutch, homie.

[@galaxy98765]

That woman is horrible. So entitled. And what a narcissist. She should have paid for everything she had. I didn't like him either necessarily, but it was generous of him and good of him to pay the whole thing, even though I don't think he should have.

[@msunje9862]

He is horrible and twisted too, amazing how y’all exaggerates her personality while downplaying his

[@michellelemmons5157]

It's totally about respect. If $ was an issue, say it ahead of time.

[@safekicker]

100% T H I S

[@pinnacle1717]

@@michellelemmons5157 Definitely yes she should have said at the start that she expected him to pay, then he could have left straight away.

[@cheery-hex]

ppl have different values. what one thinks is disrespectful another may not

[@cherylbenton7107]

The biggest problem, in my opinion, with basing a relationship on superficial attributes like money or looks is that if that attribute fades or is lost...the relationship has no real basis on which to survive and blossom.

[@gohanson8846]

She's a red flag

[@vienchan4975]

When my only son was 10 years old he have his crush on his school class girl, on valentines day he ask me can i give him £20 to buy gifts for her and i did , and see he buy her red roses and box of chocolates and a little box i don't know what, later i find out it was a silver ring, They been together more than 20 years now and i am a proud grandmother of 3 , my son have been a provider and everything he pay for from renting their fist homes to buying their first house , everything she earn is her , now she don't work because of the children's but she never worries about money, If a man's ask you to pay for your meal on your first date, run to the hills, lady don't waiting your time with this stingy because he counting the penny over the value of you.

[@lalasi5832]

Thank you!!! My thoughs exactly! I am happy someone sees things clearly. congrats for your awesome some, a real man and a provider and not a penny counter! You raised a MAN!

[@msmoenergydet]

ALWAYS!?

[@AsadKhan-lm6yr]

She is horrible! Thank god he said I don’t want to see you again!!

[@msunje9862]

He is horrible too. Amazing how you overlook his personality. Typical

[@SJ_Vibezz]

Red flag!

[@GypsyRoseGirl]

I want a divorce, lol.😂

[@levans3447]

She has a quirky sense of humor thats all... Oh and some red flags 🤣

[@angelaegan7511]

Awful, both of them.

[@eh6454]

I can’t believe he paid for both meals, just because she said so. Just disbelief.

[@duvine3882]

She wanted to play house and he didn't, bad timing.

[@Micahsnow-333]

This was funny asf😭

[@sheff-eb6jb]

"The man should always pay" I'd leave too wdym 😂

[@LanaMyslyvetsPlanners]

lol never saw this ending coming.

[@fiona0595]

Why does every man in the world now have a beard?

[@pepper1188]

Right? They are sooo gross, especially the long ones...

[@safekicker]

Why does it bother you? If you don't like beards, don't grow one 😊

[@pinnacle1717]

@@safekicker great advice for women, men don’t like beards on females at all or moustaches. 🤣

[@sarahosborne7477]

Ive seen this guy on another show i 🤔 think

[@angelazimdars1122]

In my opinion, this is the perfect Country relationship

[@susanbuckley4153]

Very weird … why’d she keep saying they were married?? Then pats his face down? Drunk woman :(((

[@francinejones2524]

I DONT think the man should always pay!!! It should be half on the first date.

[@ronberman8947]

" The man should always pay?" Definitely not " marrage material " This is why i suggest meeting for coffee on a first date..

[@yvetteeuler2123]

I agree with her

[@roguelove807]

wow I can't stand her

[@Awaken3111]

Don't blame him

[@annastuller8869]

She was wayyyyyyyy to desperate and it showed. It literally scared him when she mentioned marriage. Literally 3 mins in.. kinda funny he wanted to not pay the bill😂

[@ryanlovelock8020]

What a lad 😅

[@brandysnaps9221]

Wgmhat is wrong with going Dutch. I don’t expect anything from a date. Don’t let yourself get letdown by having any expectations. Saves a lot of grief

[@janty962]

This 2 are not meant to be together itsbtrue its a bad match up

[@fun----]

She's too expensive, he sees that.

[@bibi1893]

They are both goofy and weird lol

[@denisethomas7245]

😂😂😂😂This was hilarious

[@lalasi5832]

This episode infuriated me. He expected her to pay from the beginning. Second hand embarrassment. Girl, you dodged a bullet,dont feel sorry! ❤

[@fm.pereira2753]

She will probably be back for another free date. He should have stood up to her and asked her to pay the bill instead.

[@Ladyscarface]

That nose begs to differ on him being a good looking guy 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jq5150]

A man is a provider. He always pays. Buck up, boys.

[@krisbest6405]

This bill deal can be discussed before ordering like adults.

[@karlslife2635]

I’m in love

[@UchennaMbawuike]

She is pretty! I think she is single because she comes off as loose...so guys see her as a one night stand.

[@francinariske9896]

Two narcissistic psychos, what's not to love about each other...??

[@RubyMc-v4i]

Me sat here waiting for this Bloke to blink…….

[@dollydimple-ek3ex]

She should of gone halves...spoilt&rich comes to mind...run a mile dnt blame him🤷‍♂️

[@lalasi5832]

No she shouldn't! He should have show his a gentleman but he obviously is not. I really was hoping she will be the one who doesn't want to see this freak again.

[@ArranVid]

Yeah, your eggs are getting old, that's your problem.

[@nevereverforever0010-uf9su]

RUNNN MANNN NOOOOOOO

[@lalasi5832]

Only bcs he has to be the man?? She was way out of his league aniway.

[@HotVenus]

Wow! Shes absolutely gorgeous and her dress is beautiful. They did her wrong setting her up with that creep.

[@LanaMyslyvetsPlanners]

I don’t get this?! The show does not pay?!

[@trenasmith714]

Was the movie Gone Girl based on this woman? Just asking for a friend!🤔🤔

[@Curious245]

Wow ! I am a woman and never understood the “men pay” attitude ! Pay for your lunch,make sure you can get home on your own and have some dignity and respect for the man period

[@CanMoose]

I grew up in the days where a man always paid..wouldn't DARE take a woman out unless you KNEW you had the money for the date.

[@Curious245]

Of course it is very nice for a man to pay but I don’t expect it and won’t ask ! Dating has changed with the world ! Good or bad !

[@CanMoose]

@@Curious245 yes...I suppose it has

[@lalasi5832]

As a man, he gives second hand embarrassment with his attitude. He absolutely don't deserve any other date. She is way out of his league aniway. Run girl, run, he is misogynistic!!!

[@safekicker]

Beautoful people who make their looks = their personality are so disappointing.

[@lauramckiernan3213]

I would only ever allow a man to pay for a first date if I was certain I wanted a 2nd date and liked him, and that I'd shout the next one. No wonder men can't be bothered putting effort into dating these days, if every woman expects the man to pay.

[@inflationking1271]

The guy is so good. More women should go through this type of reality check

[@allana.nascimento]

He was as terrible as her... two extrems of the espectrum

[@inflationking1271]

@allana.nascimento I agree

[@Mel-vp7fk]

Yeah naw she better stay single

[@Lulu10-t9k]

She's obnoxious, he's an idiot. What is the mystery here?

[@TheSixthSLoT]

When she saw the bill, she literally said that it was nothing to her, The girl has money. This tradition that the man should always pay was born in the early days before modern industry, when it was uncommon for women to hold jobs, and it was actually frowned upon to be a married man with a working wife. Back in those days, women really didn't have their own money, so the man *HAD* to pay. Things are very different now. Lots of women work. This idea that the man should have to foot the bill is insane in the modern era, and it's just women holding onto antiquated traditions that no longer apply to them. this outdated rule of one person (the man) paying for the entire first date needs to be done away with.

[@owenlarson07366]

It’s not about the money. It’s about respect. It’s about weeding out the kinds of guys who think like you. It works and it’s never going to change.

[@TheSixthSLoT]

@0wenlarson07366 Right. Everything you said is true… except it’s not. Other than that one thing though, you’re totally right 👍

[@TheSixthSLoT]

@@owenlarson07366 "It’s not about the money. It’s about respect." Right. So if she's making her own money, she should have enough respect to pay her own way.

[@amymay6591]

Lol, and as a woman I do work, but my husband definitely makes more than I do and I most certainly cook, clean, and take care of my man as a woman should. Stop being cheap!

[@karencampbell2410]

Unfortunately often men do make a lot more money than women as a lot of women’s professions such as nursing and teaching are not that well paid. That said I would have never expected a man to just pay for me on a date. At least spit the bill nowadays.

[@jamiebrooke]

These two have to be married. Their chemistry is crazy ❤

[@rectify2003]

I actually like her, she funny

[@VanessaAndrade-fw6vq]

she was entertaining but a little too agressive im guessing thats why he said no lol

[@lalasi5832]

He said no bcs he is cheap and counts every penny. She is way out of his league and she deserve better at soul level. She is a nice girl. Asking her from the beginning how she wants to do it with the money, just gives me second hand embarrassment vibes.

[@junebixby7041]

Carpet cleaner?

[@danjamil167]

they are not a match bc hes broke... don't date a guy or girl who is below ur financial level

[@roojistanr5015]

Tbh I don’t think she was serious

[@sheff-eb6jb]

She's drinking and driving ? 🥴

[@lovemylife2024]

She's way out of his league. He comes sloppy with a $5.00 worn out tshirt. He's gross

[@ms.sherlock]

that girl with the carpet cleaner guy is a total pia and he made the right decision

[@angelazimdars1122]

all I see is the typical country relationship right here

[@joanntumbleson4169]

She is single because of she is into herself way too much! How could she love anyone else more than she does herself!

[@lalasi5832]

In order to give love to other you have to love yourself! How to you expect water from an empty recipient? To me she didn't seem to be full of herself. She was to cute to him, he doesnt deserve a real woman, he deserves a village girl, max!

[@kerriwilliams1503]

Guy dodged a bullet!

[@lalasi5832]

She dodged a bullet! The guy is a freak

[@FC-kc6iz]

She dodged a bullet. He’s clearly cheap & looking for someone mid

[@alen7492]

She's 100% entitled. That's why he dumped her. Palming his face was a big tell.

[@sharonkahan1079]

She’s the cheap one. Couldn’t be faker

[@phehibs]

You trying to attention seek as much as her. 😅 Look at me, look at me.. no thanks

[@galaxy98765]

@@FC-kc6iz How can you say he's cheap? He paid the entire bill ..... $200.00, he said it was. She paid for nothing.

[@samoday2992]

She is mid .