FIVE GREEN FLAGS to look for in man

GREEN FLAGS
You just click with him.
He never lets you doubt his love for you.
He genuinely wants to make you happy.
He will see the real you and want to understand you completely.
He will go out of his way to make things work with you.
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[@MelodyFreeman]

Feel free to add to the “green flag” list down below!⬇️😊❤

[@celestialexistence3014]

1. Who does their duties and take responsibilities. 2. Their life doesn’t revolve around their partner and are detached from them. 3. Who knows how to balance others emotions & feelings. 4. Who is family oriented. 5. Who value their goals and values more than their partner. 6. Who is not lustful. 7. Who doesn’t expect anything from their partner. 8. Who can live comfortably without their partner or anybody. 9. Who doesn’t simp and is ready to walk away when the relationship doesn’t work or move forward. 10. Who can sacrifice for children & family. 11. Who plays their assigned gender role of traditional masculine and feminine. 12. Who doesn’t cheat.

[@mgntstr]

@@celestialexistence3014 2. Uhh.... A man and a wife.... they uh... they become One. 3. Telepathy.. ok. 5. Again, husband and wife are one. 6. Why get married then if you never experience lust? 7. Why get married... again. 8. Congratulations you are functioning human. 9. You truly want to be in a relationship with a man who has one foot out the door? Stop the cap.

[@marguskiis7711]

All true. But there is a problem. Many women consider these men boring and not entertaining enough. Especially the 40 plus women.

[@MelodyFreeman]

That’s their loss then. They don’t know what’s good for them.

[@marguskiis7711]

​@@MelodyFreeman women never know what they really want.

[@MelodyFreeman]

That’s your opinion 🤷‍♀️😂😂

[@celestialexistence3014]

You just click with him. If there is initial attraction then yes. He never lets you doubt his love for you. No there should be space otherwise it will be boring. He genuinely wants to make you happy. No he should not go out of his way just to please you it’s up to you to be happy or not for who he is and how he treats you. He will see the real you and want to understand you completely. Yes agreed otherwise it will be a problem in LTR. He will go out of his way to make things work with you. No if he does that then he will become a simp for you. There should be boundaries.

[@MelodyFreeman]

Absolutely there should be boundaries, don’t get me wrong. But when problems come he should show his woman that he isn’t afraid of facing them. He should be ready to fight for her and for the relationship, as long as she also is the right woman for him, respects him and isn’t toxic.

[@mgntstr]

A woman who needs to feel unsure of her potential future man's affection for her just to feel entertained... is one I release back into the pond as if I've been stung by venom. A woman who looks down on a man for putting in effort to make her happy is also a hard pass, I'm sorry. There are plenty of faux-disinterested and self-absorbed man babies out there looking for a pump & dump or a friend with benefits. It's as if you are looking for a meat eating vegan. Godly men are not playing games.

[@rm6857]

Be careful, stable good men are often very boring, and they often tells you "no", and dont treat you like a queen. For men you click and he is very entertaining, there is big chance he fakes it. Noone mission to make you happy, you should be happy just with yourself.

[@MelodyFreeman]

Thats an interesting perspective 😂 But I agree that it’s your own responsibility to be happy. But the right man will absolutely want to do things to make you even more happy 😊 A relationship is about giving to each other. You should choose a partner that adds to your life rather than brings you down.

[@rm6857]

@@MelodyFreeman Its reality, not perspective. I think good is to ask old happily maried couple, which is like 2% of population. They give good advice. With what you say, its like disney movies, holywood films, which make people unhappy. Then when getting old(25y+) it will be just choice for money. Even it might sound negative or to bring someone down, its just reality.

[@MelodyFreeman]

@@rm6857 it’s only reality if you choose it. You can always choose not to settle and focus on your relationship with God. He can bring an amazing man into your life at just the right time 🥰

[@sammyb1651]

@@adamgd34 Very, VERY well said.

[@sammyb1651]

@@MelodyFreeman Most women don't show up in a man's life with the intent of making his life easier. At the same time those same women demand to date men who they feel will make their lives easier in some way (by access to his resources, time, energy, emotional support, make her laugh etc etc). What you need to understand about the expectation to be treated like a "queen"-these days men understand this means you're looking for an unfair bargain in your favour. You are describing a job. What previously was held up as female empowerment/women "knowing their worth" has been exposed by the internet as completely exploitative female behaviour. Fortunately this is starting to become well known now and will hopefully force change in the future.