Identifying Triggers in Your Marriage (Part 2) - Guy and Amber Lia

They were both convinced they had married the wrong person. From almost the very beginning of their marriage, Amber and Guy Lia experienced various tensions and personality clashes related to house cleaning, backseat driving, workaholism, and intimacy. In this two-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Amber and Guy discuss how they bravely faced the triggers head-on, and committed to working on their own relationships with Jesus. As you listen to the Lia’s story, you’ll feel hope that you, too, can see real marriage transformation!
Get the Lia's book, Marriage Triggers: bit.ly/3ehyrQv
For more resources on this topic: bit.ly/3sZsPi9
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[@noryloydnarvaez327]

Jim and Amber dominated the whole talk 🤪 The constant interruptions are sort of annoying.. pls listen patiently, let the other person finish her/his statement 😳 Perhaps ask the "lesser talker" more questions to have a more balanced conversation. 😵

[@bobbi543]

One major trigger for me is family getting in the way, we need to let them go and remember we are married and it is us, we need to say no to the in laws on both sides and have our husband and wife time. Do not take phone calls when it is our time, do not let them dictate or be controlling. We have to make sure we stay focused on our marriage and not let others get in the way

[@jessyjonas4988]

"If it feels like the death of you to Yield in that instance You are in the right place." Great advice Thanks Guy and Amber

[@lookingforsure]

She's barely letting him talk.... I hope she's working on that

[@gmar4454]

That's exactly what I'm thinking....

[@jcimlas210]

Let Jean talk, Jim 😩😩😩

[@cherylwalker2535]

I would like to have heard Jean more.

[@owlfethurz8377]

Thank you FOTF team and contributors! Amber and Guy: sharing your struggles and story of healing is such a blessing. Thanks for pointing the way to the Lord's sufficiency as we navigate marriage is wonderful.

[@alysedubuis1294]

My husband and I have been struggling silently and this was such an encouragement to me! Thank you

[@camijohnson9750]

So grateful for these resources to help marriages thrive.

[@andrea.imiller]

Love it! Do you want to win or do you want Love to win? Also. When it’s hardest to yield that the best place to be. Dying to self!

[@donnahoward354]

I LOVE this, and I definitely want love to win out in my marriage. We are struggling, so much prayer is appreciated.

[@iw7962]

@donnahoward. I prayed for you and your husband when I read your statement. May God's sufficient grace abound. May He keep you both

[@canndis967]

Thank you for sharing, i was like that with my husband with this issue of spiritual leader. Only to found my husband explain it better than i do hallelujah 🙌

[@staylor8847]

I'm glad I found the 2nd half! I heard the first one on the radio and missed the second.

[@barbarapower4245]

Jim, you are always such an EXCELLENT host! Love your transparency, love the way you move things along. Love the way you bring out the truths to be said. Thank you!

[@TP-tg6cd]

The book cover says Amber Lia and Guy Lia Vs Amber and Guy Lia...? Know it may seem like a petty observation.

[@kimberlysnell2822]

Looking for ways we're being loved....E.G.G.s - Evidence of God's Grace Lead your heart, it will follow.

[@kathymatula7163]

Thankyou so much for the deep thgs Amber in particular shared....to start to work on yourself and being humble... please pray for our marriage !!

[@marcywhitesell497]

I truly needed this. I have truly been struggling.. What r your 3 businesses... Communication has been truly difficult

[@prayingalways777]

Blessed by this amazing Podcast ❤❤ Thank you Focus on the Family team 🛐✝️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@jcimlas210]

Also, linking the marriage assessment tool would have been 👌🏼

[@marcywhitesell497]

The attitude doing the project is important

[@jamieandfamily729]

Loved this.

[@jenniferbtoo9344]

We were not raised with our parents going on dates... this seems to be a more recent phenomenon. It’s hard to justify babysitting with our family caregivers because they don’t understand why we need to go out when they didn’t do that when they were younger.

[@karoblee]

Unbelievably helpful and encouraging segment. Thank you so much for these. My husband and I will be watching them to remind ourselves of the truth. Thank you!

[@marcywhitesell497]

You sound like my husband when he goes places and talks with the kids... Some very important talks have happened this way

[@kareno6222]

I needed to hear this at this moment- thank you all 🙏🏻

[@NavyLady82]

Guy seems like a warm person.

[@jenniferhatfield8640]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@jambrosine52]

Guy you talk over your wife