It's all in the little choices we make that say I love you rather than I love me mindsets
@Ladylothlorian4 жыл бұрын
I was in an uber going home from work and my driver blessed me with this. He said. "Wives already love, that is why they are called to submit. They have a hard time giving their desire to lead to their husbands. Husbands have a hard time loving, that is why they are called to love their wives. That doesn't come naturally."
@sanji546 Жыл бұрын
I don’t get it
@Ladylothlorian Жыл бұрын
@@sanji546 can you tell me what specifically don't you understand so that I can hopefully clear it up? 🙂
@jessyjonas49884 жыл бұрын
" An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. Arguments seperate friends like a gate locked with bars." Proverbs <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1099">18:19</a>✝️ "Sarcasm poisons your relationship Never ever speak in a sarcastic manner The heart closes incrementally over time A closed heart is most difficult to overcome" Wisdom Thanks for sharing
@chelseahoagland4250 Жыл бұрын
I have these books. Hubby wouldn't read his but I tried to do some from mine to break out of the gutter a bit. I read the hubby book and saw how much he was already doing which helped me identify things I took for granted.
@kathycole13 жыл бұрын
What a godly couple.
@gobigten013 жыл бұрын
A wonderful marriage comes out of a lot choices to love you more than I love me... Says it all. Yeah, jokes at your own experience NOT your wife's. I also love being aware that your marriage is a treasure--it must be protected.
@TravelingwithJenny Жыл бұрын
I am buying these books today because of this show, my marriage is in a strained state with family, church, and work obligations and I want to get that living feeling back.
@GoldenPalm244 жыл бұрын
This channel is GOLD!
@annatevesbanzon13592 жыл бұрын
I agree! Thank you FOF for sharing
@pmvang454 жыл бұрын
I love these powerful messages. Thank you for sharing. Stay bless!!
@jukes2434 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Matt & Lisa. This was very helpful. Think I'll get your books.
@sgrassman42124 жыл бұрын
Helpful, needed, grateful for their input and willingness to share. Also for Focus on the Family for All the videos, written materials, etc., etc.💓✝️
@chrisnkundizana70296 ай бұрын
Thank you Lisa for being REAL!
@stephaniethompson7995 Жыл бұрын
He is 100% correct... "pursue your wife!" Beautiful!
@user-nt1cm7gp8u2 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. Wow, amazing talk. Thank you!
@josephinewliu Жыл бұрын
starting from <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="270">4:30</a>
@sarahlynnbaxter22252 жыл бұрын
What a fantastic video thank you
@kathrynford35294 жыл бұрын
How did I happen to click on the one that sp perfectly describes me and my husband? I'm sending this to him 😁
@sejalkothari66872 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@kapitanivanov2 жыл бұрын
Love this couple💗
@EdG-rn7dk8 ай бұрын
Listening is key,. My wife easily gets upset if you don't agree with her. Unless she specifically ask for advise, it often best to confirm your hearing and be empathetic
@bonnieketterman6542 Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed ur show I watch ur show faithfully ur show is really a sweet blessing t o me
@joyofsalvation1002 жыл бұрын
In western culture marriages are based on "Feelings". So if your spouse doesn't feel it, that marriage starts to collapse. That's why divorce rate is very high even in Christian marriages in America.
@shaungoodman4924 Жыл бұрын
The Light of the "western-marriage" hs lost it's shine
@theresablanchard32603 жыл бұрын
Hi is any way i can in this program?
@deals4u6233 жыл бұрын
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@kyleyoung870718 күн бұрын
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@SnookOnTheFly4 жыл бұрын
Simple unless you and your wife’s father in law have an enmeshed relationship with narcissistic tendencies (marriage counselor’s diagnosis). I’m a third wheel in their life.
@kathietreachler56624 жыл бұрын
I hear you. My heart goes out to you.
@nwankaanze70183 жыл бұрын
Thats an excuse friend, for you, not leading. He just filled a vacuum. Take charge of your marriage.
@SnookOnTheFly3 жыл бұрын
@@nwankaanze7018 come hang out for a week and see if there’s a leading problem or a following problem.
@Allin1source Жыл бұрын
Man and woman should do housework we both live together. We has couples should be has a team
@celestinebowman58873 жыл бұрын
Too late, divorce for a week now....my husband didn't want a marriage.
@Sarah088503 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry
@jillcooper6740 Жыл бұрын
So he shammed her for not gushing over him like she did for a girlfriend who she doesn't see every day? Unreasonable! If a woman said something like to her husband like he did to her, she would be labeled as needy, or a complainer, or a b!&%$. But he can do it, and she is immediately shammed and convicted. Glad I ain't married to that guy!