Follow up : My own father rejected me for years because he wanted a son for a first born | LNN

When we first brought Lynnet to the show, she was broken, lost and could hardly understand why the man she loved most would completely reject her simply because she was not a boy.
And then when he died, she had to bury him in the most decent manner she knew.
Today, on this episode we follow up with her to find out what happened to her and why forgiveness is not a choice but a priority in order to move on
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[@kwinlyn]

Thank you so much for having me on the show Lynn. May God continue blessing you and expanding your territory. 🙏🏽❤

[@LynnNgugi]

You are awesome and I love you so very much❤❤❤

[@monalisakaetano8083]

Hi Lyn it was nice to see how things have greatly transformed for u.. Keep shining, May God richly bless u ✌️ 👍 🙏 ☀️ ✨

[@onejikospeaks]

You are the epitome of grace and resilience @Kwin Lyn ❤️

[@brendawanjirundegwa4913]

Thank you @Kwin Lyn for sharing in both interviews. Many will learn from your journey and through this, many lives will be impacted. You are such an inspiration. God bless you indeed.

[@Koilekaki]

I relate as a firstborn

[@catherinejimmy1022]

"Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could've been any different,it's accepting it for what it was,and using this moment to help yourself move forward"," Oprah Winfrey", thanks girl for choosing to send off your dad the right way, despite of what he did to you,your courage is on another level

[@lyn254]

She's seems well connected to herself, her faith and her inspirational words are very meaningful I just love her spirit ❤️ she's a preacher for sure .

[@doreenmwenda939]

Forgiveness is not something we do for other people. It's something we do for ourselves to move on. Thanks Lynn for this follow up.

[@jlmchannel5579]

We're not asking'how much forgiveness do they deserve?'But rather 'how much freedom do you desire ?' let it go.❤️

[@Koilekaki]

This is profound

[@gladysmomanyi4491]

This sweet girl speaks to my heart. I am a first born and I sometimes feel so born out but I still love my family.

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Hugs my dear. Being a 1st born can be demanding

[@gracey1080]

This girl is so rich, authentic, amazing. Am glad she has built her tenacity and mental resilience and the Lord has carried her, am absolutely inspired.

[@margaretanyiso2433]

Big up to all firstborns. They're blessings 🙏🙏🙏

[@Glorianjeriofficial]

Rejected by both parents. They all look down upon me , just because of my health condition. All in all am ambitious I believe am going far in Jesus name!

[@irineotieno6367]

Pole sana

[@joymutinda5775]

Hugz da

[@danieljohn2184]

May God bless you.

[@paulinekangu729]

Coming from a polygamous family my mother being the first wife and me being the first daughter I've gone through alot of pain, I had planned to kill my father and go to jail for the sake of the peace of my mum and siblings but until when I listen to ur story I was able to forgive this man and I'm totally healed, thanks Achieng' as I do call for sharing ur story, maybe if I didn't hear ur story at the right time I would be behind bars by now. Much love the Queens ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@kwinlyn]

I’m so proud of you for choosing light ❤

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Hugs dear

[@jennifermcwhortet7934]

Jesus made it happen for you to keep safe

[@hermajesty2165]

My mum is also first wife ,we go through so much as children of the 1st wife. I can totally understand how you'd feel like this. Im happy you didn't throw away your freedom

[@paulinekangu729]

@@hermajesty2165 Thanks alot, yeah I heard planned everything until I heard her story, it wasn't easy but with time I got over the pain.

[@julieotieno]

The wisdom flowing from Lynnet is so inspiring. Even in my old age :-) I am walking away with such powerful nuggets. God bless you, Lynnet and Lynn

[@anastasiawanjiku]

I just love the energy on this gal, she’s such a vibe and well focussed🫶🏾🔥

[@fancytulula9537]

Follow up is good. She's better now than she was previously, i noticed, she didn't cry, great improvement! ... She's beautiful, her encouragement is so mature, infact her suffering built her! Surely, everything happens for a reason. Though painful, she, wouldn't have known this if her Dad didn't abandon her. God wanted her to entirely depend on Him. Remember, the abandonment by her Dad, shaped her & God put Guardian Angels on her path to achieve her goals. That fulfilment came when the Bible tells us that even your Father, Mother, can abandon you, but God will appoint people who are not related to you, especially for her, not your tribe to hold your hand.. That's our God, is Merciful. Elevation requires isolation 🙏

[@kwinlyn]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@brandyendy9881]

I am the first one today.. before I even watch it I need to let Lynn know that you are doing incredibly a good job. Thumbs up

[@LynnNgugi]

Thank you so much Brandy, truly appreciate this❤❤

[@liliannakhumicha7952]

Lynet, you are such a motivation. Most of first born get in a position where they have no shoulders to lean on but the Grace of God always shine. Thank you Lynet and Lyn for Inspiration.

[@rosemarywairima3120]

Being a first born is like a calling. It's a full time job

[@kennedynyaminde5661]

Positive energy and the spirit of forgiveness have kept this lady going..She's such an inspiration..Glad to see her doing well after the first episode..

[@florenceachieng]

Wow,love her energy and thanks for bringing her follow up.

[@marumbusophie7839]

I have watched all the episodes of lynette, allow me to say that I also suffered rejection from my dad,with my siblings,all I want to say is thankyou lynette for sharing your story to the world,your story is therapeutic..

[@bellaolum9768]

I like this girl's energy, glad she has come back - such a go-getter!

[@sonyia7521]

Please bring us the followup of the lady who was abused by truck drivers as she was coming back from tz with her daughters. I guess the headline was "truck drivers from hell"

[@gladyswatson2081]

How I got glued to this interview like a movie till the end it's amazing. You are both (Lyn's) meant for great things ahead. Go Ladies 💪💪💪🙏

[@rmotlhanka]

Lynn, you do this so well, and you speak to so many of us without even knowing you, The day I listened to this lady's interview I cried with her. I love her spirituality, she's so wise and blessed. May God watch over you both and continue to use you both to heal nations.

[@harrietsandra6369]

The power of forgiveness, but you don't have to force it just one step at time❤️❤️❤️

[@eusticegadaga1734]

I am just 13 minutes into this conversation and i already want to pass a comment. Lynette, i listened to your first interview and cried a lot with you. I am a 51 year old woma who is a first born. I relate a lot to your story.

[@LynnNgugi]

She is such a strong woman ❤❤❤

[@roxysunshine6418]

Me too!

[@bettya4601]

We are many…

[@sisterslove1651]

Am a firstborn and as I speak now I don't know where to start from 2 siblings in high school ,am a single mom ,my parents have nothing,they even need my support,,I have never slept for the last 3 weeks ,leave alone school coz some friends have lend me money I don't know even how they will get to school yet they want some shopping,,I can relate being a first is full term responsibility,,may God give us finances

[@damarisayako8919]

Very touching story

[@tabithawaithaka2851]

I need psychotherapy coz this childhood traumas has really affected my social life,at 30, with self esteem issues and really many doubts.to a point i can't trust anyone or myself..I need healing .

[@perpetuaishika2574]

Now this is my story. That man🙌🙌🙌 He even said he can't recognize me as a girl because only thing i will achieve is been a prostitute. But currently he is in agony because God suprised me with all favours in this world. His boys are the mess . I pray he lives longer so he can experience all the pain the life had to offer him.

[@sonyia7521]

Please forgive him and help him

[@janengui3905]

usilipishe ubaya kwa ubaya

[@nancie_daisy3213]

This forgiveness 😢Lord teach me how to forgive and not to be bitter😊

[@rogattabitumu196]

One word - Inspiring 😍🤩. Lyn, you are an epitome of beauty, brains, grace, composure, courage and many more great attributes. You are a gift to humanity.

[@glslatifahnsubuga51]

Thanks so much Lynnet for blessing us with your encouraging and inspiring Words stay blessed and thanks so much Lynn for the follow up

[@perpetuankirotek5868]

Queen of follow ups. I love what you are doing. Keep doing it girl. May God increase you this year Lynn.

[@onejikospeaks]

When you know better, you do better 😇. Such a lovely interview!

[@AuntyKarenasaysdonoharm]

I didn’t always value my older sister because she policed us when my mom was working. However, she did a great job. I was the younger girl out of 3 and the middle child of 5. I was a different from her and my sister. They were more reserved. I danced to my own music. She’d make me come in and read books instead of hanging out with friends, skateboarding or playing football with my brothers. In high school if a boy came around, she’d run them away. Nonetheless, I finished college (actually completed a master’s degree). She helped me with financial literacy as a young adult. My husband and I bought our first home in our 20s. I remember my 2 kids getting chicken pox one behind the other and I had exhausted my time off from work with my son who had them first. My older sister took off work and used her accrued time to take care of my daughter who had chicken pox right after my son recovered. She is truly a positive example of a first born -DAUGHTER.😊

[@pendomunishi8379]

Keep her my dear,more zawadi ya kumwonyesha appreciation ,cherish her for you are blessed with such a sister

[@HamiraMkikiki]

Well..well.. I would have loved to skateboard but its' the skateboard which I didn't have and also an older sister .

[@rebeccatshibangu4872]

Girl, you are a true inspiration to the young generation and the world at large. I watched you before and I am watching you again and you never cease to amaze me. May you never lack in your life stay blessed

[@reginakarim5007]

Thank u Lynn for bringing this lady ,her story is so emotional

[@respahmaina5866]

Lots of wisdom right there. God continue enlightening her and using her.

[@valarychristina1379]

When I see this she is exactly and what Iam still going through seeing her happy makes believe that there is God of hope I believe that one day I will also stand up and be able to share my story for now let me just keep trusting in the process I know that God is watching over me and knows that I will make and forgive my dad too completely

[@healthy.naturalhair]

I can listen to her for hours♥️,be blessed Lynnette

[@giggyjackson333]

I can't

[@LynnNgugi]

Hello team LNN, We hope you enjoy this follow up❤ What message do you have for Lynnet? You can reach her on [phone] or connected with her here instagram.com/kwin_lyn?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= You can watch the first part of our interview here kzbin.info/www/bejne/g5esm4SGnKmBbM0 To share your story with us, send a summary to info.Lnn.digital for consideration Thank you so much for watching

[@hildahkobori]

Wow lynnet you are so strong . Thank for having such a strong heart to your family. May God bless you

[@lydiagikonyoofficial3884]

Thank you Lynn

[@elizabethwachira8508]

She just a strong lady,full of wisdom .am happy for her

[@mercykaniniwambua7509]

You know if I wasn't a first born maybe I wouldn't understand this lady.but the truth is first borns need people to think about them.counseling would help.

[@margaretwanjiku5491]

Hi i am one of them i am going through alot i am the first born i have to pay the school fees of off my siblings i have to give them food everything that they need but i know i am the i don't know what to do next

[@wisdomlife]

Happy for you Lynnet, having watched you in the previous episode, I can't help but thank God for you and what you have become...

[@mightydynamite]

m filled with positiviiity through this interview.Thank you ,m so humbeld

[@terryteryl]

I have listened to many counselors, psychologist and being one of them but today i felt like i didnt go through one of those. She is Gods sent. Thank you girl keep pushing on.

[@Irriswhartirris]

I feel at home.. My traumatic childhood really made me into a fully dysfunctional adult with social anxiety.. Because the abuse and rejection I got from literally everyone was.. 🔥🔥🔥

[@rosemarykilonzo3119]

Waaah...... yaani you two ladies. May the good Lord keep on blessing you. You are amazing. This is what we call a calling. Thank you soo much 🙏🏿

[@saumuhamisi1603]

Lovely seeing her she’s looking beautiful and I’m really happy Lynn you brought her back 🥰🥰👏

[@mrdayien1042]

I love this young lady . Because I'm emotional watching the video. Thank young you so so so much. For inspiring me .

[@annyterry1162]

Am the firstborn daughter in my family and it's not easy 😞😔,,,you are working but sometimes you can't even buy something for yourself because back home they depend on you ,,,may the good Lord give all firstborn strength,wisdom and bless them to never lack ,,,🙏🙏🙏

[@loado6787]

Super wisdom, more than I can ask or even imagine at such a time as these. Kwin Lynn and LN be blessed I am heading over to subscribe at Kwin

[@namukwayalydia9195]

Young lady you have inspired me a lot. am single mother at age 40 but also struggling to raise my children. Thanks a lot for sharing your story and for your encouragement, God bless you so so much Lynette

[@judykirui8269]

Congratulations Lynete,you're a young strong lady, this time you're crying tears of joy,God bless you mummy.Lyn Ngugi you're a blessing to all of us.

[@eliudmucheru9613]

Power of forgiveness is my takehome.... Lynn may you be highly favored for everything you do.... Restoring smiles to broken hearts is what you were born to....

[@evalynewangui228]

Aki Lynn, God bless you. Your channel have impacted my live in a positive way, and through this lady Kwin Lynn's testimony I choosed to now face life and overcome my past. Thanks so much.

[@aromaofzanzibar]

Thank you so much for this follow up, Lynette is so amazing and has that spiritual strength that holds her and keeps her humble , I learnt alot from her today she is such an inspiration. Be blessed!

[@kwinlyn]

Be blessed ❤

[@nancythuo9311]

Thank you Lynn for this wonderful gest she has change my seeing of my daughter amenisubua but God will give me this lady to see my daughter life negative God bless you

[@Her_Self..]

Cabt wait to listen to this one. My top 10 favs list keeps getting longer but she remains there at the very top and guy who sells thrifts. Gosh love them 💕

[@momentintime2262]

Ooh Lyn, you are such a beautiful soul,oozing wisdom and with an amazing spirit. Nakupenda bure.

[@judiekerry8499]

I can relate to this story, but I got the Grace to forgive.and the peace of God that goes beyond human understanding has carried me this far.he is Ebenezer.

[@getrudekarani8151]

Such inspiring story ♥️Lynn you are inspiration keep winning

[@janeblessedjcheboi5877]

Thanks Lynn for the follow up forgiveness heals

[@lydiagikonyoofficial3884]

I must follow and subscribe to this queen. She is such an inspiration to many.

[@sharpcontrast]

Hey, Lynn! Your guest there is a POWERHOUSE! So eloquent, articulate, intelligent, Linnet is too mature for her age!! Wow, she is so loveable, all-round beautiful. She has said everything about her life perfectly well. She may not be perfect but she's on the path to complete healing and she's raring to go for her life purpose. I'm her great admirer.....I can't wait to subscribe just to see more of her. She's a Kwin of my hear.

[@KuiWaKamau]

Forgiveness is the key & the beginning of healing. Betterness & anger pulls us backwards, making us failures. Keep on winning gal. 💟💯✔🌻

[@jademelisa7097]

Linet ... When you said, "That is day I took my father's responsibility in my mother's life," you took me back to the year 2000 ! Being a 1st born girl is the most painful thing, but we are not victims anymore. We are victors !💪Thank you for speaking on our behalf 🙏 You are beautiful. You are complete.You are not forgotten .God is not done with you .

[@purywambz2921]

Wahoo what a story

[@kwinlyn]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@Kasweetie_254]

Forgiveness is best when one is ready to forgive not just forgiving someone for the sake of forgiving. Take your time ,heal na feel good to an extent that you can forgive from deep inside your heart

[@mercieochich977]

I just love listening to her speak, Always a vibe. Beauty with brains 😘 go on sis💪😍

[@martharinebiseko1457]

True... Beauty with brains

[@khadijahnjeri.9905]

She reminds of Candice young...so beautiful!!

[@gladysmwanzia2320]

O my goodness! I indeed agree with you my dear girl! Yes I am a first born n really I've paid dearly for my siblings.

[@winfredmbithe4248]

Happy 2023 Lynn... Please bring us the follow-up of Charity Ombogho _ the lady who wanted to give out her son....

[@florenceojowa7706]

“8 billion talents, 8 billion destinies…. At what point does one begin to compare with others? “That statement is powerful. I took that with me and will always keep that in mind. Thank you young lady for opening our eyes and educating us. Great talent right there!!

[@Itsjustmaurine]

Lynnet such a vibe.I got so much love and always will. Thank you for always being an inspiration. I am glad to be apart of this inspiration. Your a gem 💎 keep soaring high ❤

[@jeanmwangi8643]

Congratulations Lynette!!!! You are doing absolutely great

[@wangugithui502]

Its called family fragmentation or lost from within. Go girl. You have made it,

[@bangibabs]

This discussion was everything 🥹🥰 so beautiful and motivating ❤. Life changing message. Thank you ladies❤️💝🇿🇦

[@monalisakaetano8083]

Lynett thanks for coming back.. We are learning a lot frm u.. Nothing is impossible wth God, no problem is permanent Psalms 30. ❤️🙏☀️✨🤗🙌🙏

[@marytindo]

You touched many...you are a star. May God use you more to heal many to the glory of His name.

[@gracenimrah9897]

I noticed something in her talking style and I was like 'she can do spoken word, so I had to go back and watch her interview which was done a year a go and I can tell that she's all in one. Keep going girl God loves you.

[@imanibrownfaith6141]

This girl is very intelligent. Go gal!

[@eunicemugo3970]

Soo lovely...soo inspiring❤keep growing and glowing...and thank you lnn for amaizing guest❤❤

[@punguzatumbo1567]

Wow this pretty gal has spoken for me n on my behalf. Very smart gal ❤️❤️may God bless you 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@pishongoldenterprises1447]

Waoh. Iam so proud of you Lynnet . I love the great woman you have and are become. You have inspired me greatly

[@rolinemakena7776]

Have learnt alot from Lynnet,am the last born in our family but acting as a firstborn,I can relate with Lynnet story.God bless you gal

[@carolmwendwa290]

The power of forgiveness 💓💓💓💓 team Lynn doing grt.nifikisheni 2k subscribers

[@scolasticalusiga1691]

Lynet thanks alot for speaking on behalf of us but some how you were blessed to have your mom for whom you can share anything

[@romeoalusa6521]

Lynn thank you so much for this episode,im in dubai but right now I feel so blessed to have listened to this lady,rejection imekua my 1st name since mimi ni 1st born tena from a broken home.ive hated myself for so long till now.all I know is life has to go on and now being a single mum myself,I would not want this for my kids.i try to give them what ive never been given

[@kwinlyn]

Keep up the amazing work Romeo. It’s not in vain. Victory is coming ❤

[@sanyuelpuganda3581]

Kudos Ms. Lynnet!! You are awesome!!

[@elcsabddes9073]

Am so glad to see Lynnet smiling all the way. I have seen her first show, when she was so broken & crying all the way to the very end of the show!! Gal, "if God be on your side, who can be against you" God is good all the time. Keep shining my dearest! Love from EstherRuth. Botswana

[@mercyedith1383]

She has grown so much. Lynn their is this interview you did of a young lovely house manager who the boss was the one who reached for you to interview Her somewhere in Ruaka joyland .if am not wrong.please do a follow-up story .She had lost a baby yet treated Her bosses babies as Her own

[@sharoncoombs5851]

Miss Lyn I really do enjoy your interviews❤N this young lady is a tower of strength what does it matter if u r a first born boy or girl 🙏🏾

[@joanochieng4046]

Congrats Lynet, a beautiful soul you are. We love you gaaall. Keep winning. Lynn Ngugi, you rock dear. We are out here vouching for you allll the way.

[@kwinlyn]

Thank you Joan ❤

[@berylotieno276]

I love that this girl is anchored in Christ.. a true depiction of "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" philippians 4:16

[@herfamiller139]

This sister is so articulate....i can identify with her in so many ways she speaks to my spirit and rekindle my hope and my dreams. Thank you to these 2 beautiful souls that have been so obedient, humble in spirit and God fearing. May the God Almighty bless you, may he continue to provide, protect and prosper you both in ALL you do.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🌺🌺🌺❤❤❤

[@kwinlyn]

I’m humbled 🙏🏽❤️

[@jennifermcwhortet7934]

Amen

[@edithmasingila6015]

Lynn Ngugi thank you for this episode again am struggling to accept i should forgive my mother coz even until now they cant involve me in what happens at home ......am at peace if i dont talk to them too because am mother HEN as Linet said my Dad would use me to get to my mother not in good ways but to bring me down more and more

[@beatriceodhiambo910]

such an inspiration, God bless you for the impartation

[@FinesseB]

I’m glad I watch this show, because being a firstborn weeee 😢😢😢, in my next life I’d not like/choose to be a firstborn. So far Blocking everyone in my family has helped me…a day at time. Dear Lynn please bring more of these kind of talks, they are therapeutic to most of us. Be blessed!

[@user-yn4ni2nh8l]

The wisdom in this gal amazes me ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Kasweetie_254]

Nimeona hii place nikatamani kwenda gym 😂😂but wueh,sijui kama nawezana

[@marrietakisaka]

Yani kwin kyn,Lynn ngugi,size -8... people who bear that name are grace filled.... Please Lord I'm one of the Mary's 😌see my pain and encourage me .

[@hildahnalias8005]

Lynn and Linet you are looking very pretty. Watching Lynn's shows it's like I'm in a different great world ready to graduate and move to the next high level of life. Actually you are empowering me to become a worrier .

[@marciajames9434]

You look like your mom (beautiful); keep doing God's work, you are beautiful inside and outward

[@edinahonchoke6187]

Speak it,we’ll said you hit the jack pot .I wish we can all normalize that we need help and seek for help.We are getting high numbers of suicide cases because we are keeping a lot to ourselves.Thank you Lynnet for that inspiration.