Former Miss USA

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Dear Future Wifey

Dear Future Wifey

Жыл бұрын

This episode is a beautiful, real-time unpacking of managing expectations while getting to know a potential love interest. Is it just platonic? Is it romantic? Love takes both parties to be submitted at the same time. Former Miss USA, Deshauna Barber and Marvin Echols, share their powerful story of "The Fateful Journey."
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@Iamlonndanicole
@Iamlonndanicole Жыл бұрын
I am forcing myself to listen to your podcasts so that I won’t give up on love, marriage, and family. I use the Bible, prayer, fasting, and this podcast to heal. I see myself healed for real this year! Hello Future Hubby, meet Future Wifey!
@RhondaR4
@RhondaR4 Жыл бұрын
You got this sister! Your future husband is near. Pay attention to what GOD has you doing. Sending blessings and hugs your way.🙏🏽❤️🌻
@Unalunallenadeluz
@Unalunallenadeluz Жыл бұрын
In the name of Jesus!
@janicetaylor1272
@janicetaylor1272 Жыл бұрын
Remember what Pastor RC said "You don't need to be married if you need to be married ". Let's spend our single time enjoying life and doing what God wants us to be doing. Single and satisfied 😌. Blessings to you my Sister
@Iamlonndanicole
@Iamlonndanicole Жыл бұрын
@@janicetaylor1272 I understand and I’m doing just that but I also know through the relationship I have with God, that part of my legacy and destiny includes marriage. If you knew my story sis….. bloodlines and legacy can end when you’re an only child and you don’t continue the legacy…it’s much deeper than a title and ring for me (edited)
@Unalunallenadeluz
@Unalunallenadeluz Жыл бұрын
@@janicetaylor1272 I love how God is preparing me so I start to say, "I'm not waiting, I'm training" haha
@jerlynnghee207
@jerlynnghee207 Жыл бұрын
I admire the way that he disagreed with her. He kept touching her and reassuring her lovingly. Also not bending and dating while he was focused on his goals.
@timbawangu3038
@timbawangu3038 Жыл бұрын
Right👌
@ajordan1847
@ajordan1847 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I observed that too. ❤
@rachelmcpherson6010
@rachelmcpherson6010 Жыл бұрын
I loved that as well. Very Beautiful The Two of Them ! God Bless Their Union ❤
@stephf4175
@stephf4175 Жыл бұрын
Meeee toooo. Also loved how he spoke the words "I love you" in the midst of a convo, too. He bedda cover her! 🙌🏽 P.S., I do get the vibe that she covers him, too...😉
@tylynn256
@tylynn256 Жыл бұрын
This is a man who knew/ knows what he wants. He wasn't so pressed to be in a relationship that it trumped his goals. I love it!
@asills423
@asills423 Жыл бұрын
I love how he dated with the intentionality of finding a wife. He did not date to hurt or use women as objects. A man that was able to discern and refrain from poor decisions, not too many men can do that. His mind was not disrupted by the foolishness, and this was how he could find his Queen. She is a very lucky woman, and s is he. I can only imagine how this will go. To God be the glory.
@georginachibbamulilo5968
@georginachibbamulilo5968 2 ай бұрын
I agree. I also love her courage😊
@teachandinspire437
@teachandinspire437 Жыл бұрын
He's such a true Leader. He will continue to teach and love her in ways she's never known!♥️🙏🏾
@fareedhawilliams-appah3560
@fareedhawilliams-appah3560 Жыл бұрын
Please have them back 6 month to a year after they have gotten married. I would love to hear about their newlywed journey. Great podcast!❤
@herfamiller139
@herfamiller139 Жыл бұрын
I beg to second this ps.👏🏾👏🏾
@lafranceandco
@lafranceandco Жыл бұрын
I agree because I think there is still some work that needs to be done here. If they continue to openly communicate, things will be worked through just fine.
@mika4eva314
@mika4eva314 Жыл бұрын
I went to high school with Marvin and when I say him and his sister Focus in on their goals THEY ARE FOCUSED!!! They are really great, loving people. I wish Marvin and Deshauna the best in their future endeavors. #BlackLove ❤
@nosindisomyeni
@nosindisomyeni Жыл бұрын
Praying for more men who are this intentional like Marvin, don’t play with people’s feelings while looking for the one.
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын
Yes. Very impressive
@MzzTPC
@MzzTPC Жыл бұрын
Whew...The maturity of this young man is SOOOOOOO refreshing! All in decency and order while also knowing how to care and communicate with a woman! Love it!
@angelstatum2584
@angelstatum2584 Жыл бұрын
THIS!!
@ajordan1847
@ajordan1847 Жыл бұрын
Their story had me revisiting my perspective of men and my impatience with intention, and now I understand why; my "bar" needs adjusting. Agree; so refreshing.
@aielnod
@aielnod Жыл бұрын
Seems out of order to me. She doing the persuing
@MzzTPC
@MzzTPC Жыл бұрын
@kiuleiaable They all addressed that point and she def noted and saw the error of her ways. I'm speaking the order in which HE pursued when ready. Not her approach. I would Never! Lolbvvs
@ladiesofiron
@ladiesofiron Жыл бұрын
He was protecting his heart at the beginning whether he knew it or not.❤😊
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын
He definately was. I wish I was that intentional in my previous relationships. It's a very laudable thing.
@williaminaloftin3814
@williaminaloftin3814 Жыл бұрын
I love Marvin's intentional approach towards dating and marriage. His parents did an outstanding job of living out a beautiful example for him to emulate.
@socasoul
@socasoul Жыл бұрын
Their level of communication is really good. Love that he didn't let his ego come into the conversation. He was so calm and respectful and they clearly 'hear' each other.
@cavellfrancis6449
@cavellfrancis6449 Жыл бұрын
This episode was hilarious 😂😂😂😂 I love them for each other. He is so reassuring and leads in a quiet, gentle way
@aielnod
@aielnod Жыл бұрын
I think she leading
@keepthechange1
@keepthechange1 Жыл бұрын
@@aielnod She definitely is leading. I don't think he will marry her. She is too much of a DRAMA QUEEN!
@aeriel4972
@aeriel4972 Жыл бұрын
I can tell she respects him. He's knows how to handle her, and she admires him. I like this couple's realness.
@mostdefmodest
@mostdefmodest Жыл бұрын
Marvin's approach to relationships, in terms of how deliberate & intentional he was in taking his time paired with his discernment, is commendable!
@kayfleming5180
@kayfleming5180 Жыл бұрын
When DeShauna talked about vetting people and raising the bar!!!! I ran around the room!! 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️THAT is so critical! As a society, we’re so ready to microwave the courtship (vetting) process with just anybody. We need to set that thang on simmer. It’s important to see a person in all seasons (temperaments). Kudos to Marvin’s parents for raising an upstanding & outstanding young man! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@RhondaR4
@RhondaR4 Жыл бұрын
Please bring them back in years to come. I'd like to see their growth, kids, and hear their stories.❤
@cshell75
@cshell75 Жыл бұрын
This was so interesting to watch. I almost think it should have been titled “Managing expectations” or something related to “Timing.” I appreciate the honesty in this interview. All relationships don’t start like a fairy tale.
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Жыл бұрын
Facts. Many definately don't start with bells and whistles.
@jinajames3525
@jinajames3525 Жыл бұрын
I wasn't sure where this interview was going at first....BUT the nuggets that were dropped were worth the wait. They are the cutest couple and have a great future ahead of them. They've already shown they can work through adversity and differences. Keep going yall.
@adinahj.9212
@adinahj.9212 Жыл бұрын
I agree l had to force myself to continue to watch this episode 😬
@nnena3631
@nnena3631 Жыл бұрын
@Adinah J. Same, and I still don't feel good about it
@jinajames3525
@jinajames3525 Жыл бұрын
@@nnena3631 hang in there. There really is some good stuff here.
@mgm2923
@mgm2923 Жыл бұрын
A man of honor! What a great example to other men.
@jerlynnghee207
@jerlynnghee207 Жыл бұрын
I love the way she was unashamed to speak about anxiety. Her "No" pageant video is so inspiring.
@beat4broadway203
@beat4broadway203 Жыл бұрын
Ok.... all the comments say watch till the end, so I will. But the first 30 minutes sound like run sis run, because he did not pursue you.
@sheistamikawells
@sheistamikawells Жыл бұрын
He has great communication skills and also has such an engineer-analytical mindset. 😊
@genikathompson5432
@genikathompson5432 Жыл бұрын
MY GOD ..... SHE SAID A WORD 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 CAN THEY REACH THE BAR ??
@rebecca9519
@rebecca9519 Жыл бұрын
When the bar is low it's easy too easy to walk over it without making any effort. Well said. This couple will make it as they communicate with each other openly and lovingly.
@genikathompson5432
@genikathompson5432 Жыл бұрын
@@rebecca9519 Yes exactly, that analogy was just amazing.
@nnena3631
@nnena3631 Жыл бұрын
I appreciated her saying that as well.
@IkeRuffRyder
@IkeRuffRyder Жыл бұрын
Stating your intentions is a KEY FACTOR
@kishah4799
@kishah4799 Жыл бұрын
I love their transparency. They are indeed on a fateful love journey, and I am happy the decided to trust the process. Thank you for this episode, Laterras!
@roea7846
@roea7846 Жыл бұрын
This was a great story. More men and women need to take their time to get to know each other. People can be so in a rush to be in a relationship with someone they don't take the time to get to know the other person. I am happy it worked out for this couple. There is nothing like a man who knows what he wants.
@reginaclaxtonministries
@reginaclaxtonministries Жыл бұрын
That's why she felt anxious... She was operating outside of her position as the woman who would be pursued. I respect he was true to himself/his goals.
@adriennenicolewilliams1366
@adriennenicolewilliams1366 Жыл бұрын
This is so good...and he is correct...understanding is EVERYTHING!!!!! I'm glad they are where they are today ❤️🙏🏽
@liberty_-qf1nb
@liberty_-qf1nb Жыл бұрын
My my be free
@loisbanks4030
@loisbanks4030 Жыл бұрын
Timing is everything with open honest communication! Great interview!
@natalie3608
@natalie3608 9 ай бұрын
Totally agree
@kristinesmith1665
@kristinesmith1665 Жыл бұрын
There's nothing better than reassurance from a man who is so intentional - a true leader, methodical, caring and empathetic. He was very transparent without throwing smoke. He could see her pain and uncertainty and sought guidance to make sure he can be her trusted partner in their journey. I absolutely loved this episode ❤️ #gems
@atlantasfaithsmom
@atlantasfaithsmom Жыл бұрын
He was strategically reeling her in. He was interested the whole time, but felt taken for granted and ignored in the very beginning.
@aielnod
@aielnod Жыл бұрын
I don't like that. He playing games. and its Not that she wasn't interested in the beginning , she didn't even know him . he liked her in secret for a whole year before speaking . I don't like Their relationship. it's kind of sketchy
@atlantasfaithsmom
@atlantasfaithsmom Жыл бұрын
@@aielnod It may work, but I had the same feeling....
@nnena3631
@nnena3631 Жыл бұрын
@Ariel Nod He's giving red pill, and cut her down a notch vibes. I observed something else and I mean no harm. But his determination to not big her up or pursue her like other guys screamed insecurity, and when I saw their engagement video he appeared to be vertically challenged. There are men of a certian stature that have serious chips on their shoulder and take it out on women they feel have a high opinion of themselves and "neg" them to keep them under thumb I didn't even like her countenance in the interview it appeared self protecting and his distant and aloof..😠
@nnena3631
@nnena3631 Жыл бұрын
That sounds like a fragile ego to me. How were you taken for granted when she wasn't available and all you're doing is liking pictures on IG?
@mzbrown6969
@mzbrown6969 Жыл бұрын
@@nnena3631 exactly those who know know, no regard for her timeline, waited two years put her in the terrain of a geriatric pregnancy and the fact that she keeps entertaining him when he gave her nothing but negs is wild to me
@ladydee7099
@ladydee7099 Жыл бұрын
I look forward to Wednesdays because I know Laterras is going to drop another GREAT DFW episode!!!! I can’t wait to watch this one!!!!
@justinashealthyghanaianmeals
@justinashealthyghanaianmeals Жыл бұрын
Facts !!!
@SandraJamesmentor
@SandraJamesmentor Жыл бұрын
📌He is not interested! When he is interested you will know it, you won’t be confused.
@atlantasfaithsmom
@atlantasfaithsmom Жыл бұрын
He was interested.
@tiffmat9475
@tiffmat9475 Жыл бұрын
This was actually refreshing coz it's not the typical love story, it almost seems very real, and they are also not too lovey dovey. This is actually the realest conversation, it was raw and honest!
@Itsbrittanykerr
@Itsbrittanykerr Жыл бұрын
As always Laterras, I like how you really dig and ask the important questions. I think they have a good shot but I’m concerned that the man is concerned with getting the upper hand in the relationship, out of his own insecurities. I hope that he changes his mindset so he can truly open up to all the intimacy that marriage has to offer.
@womanofgod2948
@womanofgod2948 Жыл бұрын
I loved this episode. Their love story didn't go the traditional way, but God bought them back together. What is for you, will truly be yours ❤
@TiffanyBTV
@TiffanyBTV Жыл бұрын
I was locked in after Laterras said “he’s not that into you”… i wonder how they were able to move forward because she did all of the initiating from beginning to end. I was watching with one eye open, hoping that one of them wouldn’t let the realization set in and they begin to overthink if they’re really meant for each other…. Let me keep watching
@CEC805
@CEC805 Жыл бұрын
This is an interesting story because she mentioned having anxiety which would be a red flag for me personally or maybe the anxiety is from her pursuing him....
@jakhyiajohnson7812
@jakhyiajohnson7812 Жыл бұрын
Your thoughts are valid. I'm happy for them, but honestly if it was me, I would have dropped him like a bad habit and moved on with my life. From the outside looking in, it certainly appears that he just was not that interested. I would have felt differently if once they started speaking he was more intentional about courting and marrying her but he purposely waited until the end of the two years for the proposal. To me, he play too many mind games. I've learned through THIS podcast that it takes NO time for a man to know if a woman is the one. 6 months tops! NO way on God's green earth should MISS USA, as beautiful as she is have experienced mixed signals from a said man that was interested in her. Nonetheless, I wish them the best and pray they have a happy union.
@kingleyo9277
@kingleyo9277 Жыл бұрын
@@jakhyiajohnson7812 stop it lol you don’t know anyone in 6 months!! Stop lying
@jakhyiajohnson7812
@jakhyiajohnson7812 Жыл бұрын
@@kingleyo9277 I said a man knows within 6 months. These are the words from multiple men who have sat on that yellow couch. But as for me, I would certainly know if a man is the one within that same time frame. It definitely wouldn’t be two years.
@ThirtySomethingDiaries
@ThirtySomethingDiaries 10 ай бұрын
It is incorrect to assume that because it us said here by a few men, it goes for alllll men. Some men may know, not ALL. BUT even those who know from 6 months or earlier, they will take their time. We are often rushing our way into relationships...starting it before it should, making it permanent before it should begin. There is no set formula for relationships...this worked for them, it worked for others too...we have to respect differences.
@leatricewalker8038
@leatricewalker8038 Жыл бұрын
This was great! I loved how they are so comfortable with each other and authentic.
@Letstalk_LoveHopeFaith
@Letstalk_LoveHopeFaith Жыл бұрын
Wowww amazing talk, thank you for allowing us to chime in on these!! Straight gems!!! But i have to say that my favorite part of these podcasts are your letters to your future wifey.. they are so poetic, real, and powerful!! you can feel the love you have for her with every word expressed even in the painful times!!! I'm praying for you and her and everyone connected to this journey!!!
@deyaonsotti9594
@deyaonsotti9594 Жыл бұрын
Very healthy conversation. Thank you all for being vulnerable.
@godsfav
@godsfav Жыл бұрын
Packed a punch in the beginning with setting the bar. Whewww Def watching til the end. Love this podcast. So many teachable and beauitful moments. 😇
@WoundstoScars
@WoundstoScars Жыл бұрын
Another great episode. I love the respectful way they disagreed with each other and give each time to share their perspective. Many lessons that can be learnt here about communication and managing conflicting points of view.
@ambriaberryhill7017
@ambriaberryhill7017 Жыл бұрын
This was beautiful! I truly enjoyed this conversation.
@carojenn
@carojenn Жыл бұрын
Watching this episode was quite enlightening.. Listening to Dashauna really made me think because I was able to recognize some similarities in my own mindset. It was refreshing to hear her articulation of how how her unmet and unexpressed expectations caused her experiences to be a different/negative one than Marvin's. I was also pleased that the Bahamas was positively mentioned and factored in their relationship. I am also hoping to attend your upcoming session in Nassau, and to meet you as well.
@CherryCalypsoTea
@CherryCalypsoTea Жыл бұрын
I agree why pursue an unavailable person. Healthy pursuit. He definitely had his head on straight. Glad connections happened has it should.
@marlenapetty7561
@marlenapetty7561 Жыл бұрын
This episode was so resourceful! Insightful of terms that communication and clarity is essential. This was good. Super way of unpacking that timing should be considered.
@rrnn6472
@rrnn6472 Жыл бұрын
Another great episode. This young man is so honourable! Hope he has the time to mentor and share his skillset!
@Samone681
@Samone681 Жыл бұрын
This whole podcast is a word!! It's not how you start but how you finish!!! Both Deshauna & Marvin had amazing nuggets❤😍🥺
@c.j.promiseland6456
@c.j.promiseland6456 Жыл бұрын
This was such a good interview. Brother knew what he wanted and him standing on what he says and thinks, let's us know he is a man of his word and he means what he says. They are communicating effectively, glad they are growing together. Patience on both sides is so key. I am glad she was willing to push past the fear, take it one day at a time.
@denisehouston7805
@denisehouston7805 Жыл бұрын
Thank you both for being transparent with your relationship this is so beautiful y'all being transparent about the negative & the positive. This interview was amazing & the clip made me cry. I wish you both the best - I pray God's Blessings for you both.
@yeyeni9893
@yeyeni9893 Жыл бұрын
I love how they worked through that! TRANSPARENCY AND COMMUNICATION!
@IAmMonicaDenise
@IAmMonicaDenise Жыл бұрын
This intro just preached! 🙌🏾(Great editing skills Laterras.)😊I can’t wait to receive this full message. I’m sure it will bless me as always. ❤
@tikerachisley6028
@tikerachisley6028 Жыл бұрын
I so appreciate this episode! We often have these Pollyanna stories of love that make you think relationships have to start that way to work. Thank you for your honesty, transparency and vulnerability.
@janicetaylor1272
@janicetaylor1272 Жыл бұрын
My bar was low. Unfortunately i was not taught about relationships. This podcast has definitely changed how i see myself. Thank you for another good episode 🙏
@stephanielang5632
@stephanielang5632 Жыл бұрын
This pod is fire! I appreciate how Ms. Deshauna put action to what she wanted. I learned, even more, to protect my heart in my intentions and communicate what is going on in my head. Assumption is not the move.
@godsglory1921
@godsglory1921 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this amazing episode Laterras. What a beautiful couple. I love their transparency. I do see how how God used what was unfamiliar to orchestrate their love story. As usual, you dropped some gems. The anointing was definitely flowing through you. God bless you MOG❤
@JustUdoro
@JustUdoro Жыл бұрын
WOW…such a beautiful and wonderful testament of who God is and how God works all things together for our good! This was beautiful and needed. Thank you again! 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾
@thegardineventvenue5052
@thegardineventvenue5052 Жыл бұрын
I REALLY loved and enjoyed their story! Super inspirational and 💎💎💎💎💎 GEMS. 🥰🥰 Thank y’all!
@wpooh6181
@wpooh6181 Жыл бұрын
I loved this episode! It is Hands down my favorite to date!!! You must do an update!!!!! It reminds me of the conversations I have with my adult son who has a similar spirit to the young man in the video. These two young people make me feel hopeful for love. Just beautiful. It's great to see values and beliefs being displayed period! The world has gotten so far away from that! You must do a follow up to all of your most beloved episodes! Definitely this one!!! I don't expect perfection from these young couple but I do see something very special that is truly missing in the world today and it is inspiring! Well Done!!!!!!
@lakeishawright535
@lakeishawright535 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 4 minutes. .. I feel you. . Sis
@VonnieVon86
@VonnieVon86 Жыл бұрын
Their love story is so relatable as love can have challenges. Best of luck and love to them both.❤
@OptimisticKTV
@OptimisticKTV Жыл бұрын
I LOVEEEEE this LOVEEEE STORY!!! I love that he took his time to really get to know her and go through the process!! I can relate to her husband’s approach I’m definitely a person that takes my time to vet people especially when it comes to my heart! I’m definitely going to always uphold my standards. I’ve never had a serious relationship because I’m not trying to attach myself to anyone that I don’t see a future with! I take relationships seriously! You’re not about to be saying you dated me. Lol I love seeing this example in living color. This is so beautiful.
@ileniepowell
@ileniepowell Жыл бұрын
This was such an interesting and honest story by this beautiful couple. Seems like a solid foundation has been established. God bless your unión and a happy life❤
@catherinenjoroge1236
@catherinenjoroge1236 Жыл бұрын
A very honest conversation.... A beautiful story n I pray that it all goes well...
@ANGEL_MONIQUE
@ANGEL_MONIQUE Жыл бұрын
Talking about being honest open and transparent.. This was a beautiful episode, I laughed 😂and smiled 😊 the entire time watching.
@roslyntrotter-harmon4111
@roslyntrotter-harmon4111 Жыл бұрын
Excellent podcast with this couple. I learn something about relationships each time I view your show. This couple has given me hope as my husband and I navigate marriage for the second time with each other. Powerful!
@graceali-grap9919
@graceali-grap9919 Жыл бұрын
I wish he just admitted that he was not ready at the time... truth is most men who are interested don't need that much opening given to them to make their intentions known. I am struggling with the fact that he can't admit he was not ready, I can 't really say I would have encouraged my sisters to wait for him. listening to him talk he is a great guy...but he almost messed up...BUT GOD!
@deidrefearn6634
@deidrefearn6634 Жыл бұрын
I have been following you for a while. I have grown spiritually by your guest. Lots of wisdom and understanding
@heirtotheking5832
@heirtotheking5832 Жыл бұрын
Strategic! Intentional! Kudos! This is a beautiful love story!💞
@ladytinag4276
@ladytinag4276 Жыл бұрын
Great love story! I predict longevity. Blessings!
@islanddreams1072
@islanddreams1072 Жыл бұрын
Really nice couple. Great wisdom received from both parents. I pray they have a long marriage and that they get premarital counseling to make them and their foundation stronger before the wedding.
@winfridahbanda5739
@winfridahbanda5739 Жыл бұрын
Oh yes!!! I'm looking forward to seeing this❤
@Justmythoughts___
@Justmythoughts___ Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed the realness of this episode 🙏🏾
@renembongn.5877
@renembongn.5877 Жыл бұрын
Nice episode. I feel the guy was just being a gentleman as should be. A lesson learnt here, ladies should present and not pursue. I think the lady here crossed into the pursuit zone to ask him out to the trip then expectations were not met. I’m glad though that you both ended together, so keep it strong🙏🏿
@jaybrad1070
@jaybrad1070 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful interview and The last part hit home for me. God bless this union and once again Laterras, well done brother 🙏🏾
@raej4884
@raej4884 Жыл бұрын
Another great one! Thanks for the reminder to communicate 👏👏👏
@petajoanderson8108
@petajoanderson8108 Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful love story … blessings to both of you and thank you for another wonderful episode Laterras
@MNIU_
@MNIU_ Жыл бұрын
This was a great convo even if most of it was about the trip , seeing this kind of communication, different expectations etc play out is very interesting
@its.jasminesmith
@its.jasminesmith Жыл бұрын
29 seconds in & Deshauna already preached I so relate to her def watching this whole video. So happy for her congrats to this beautiful couple! 🎉❤😊
@kaones5928
@kaones5928 Жыл бұрын
This was good! Great video Laterras. Please bring in Maya and Javaughn Graves for an interview as well. ☺
@chblck
@chblck Жыл бұрын
Wow!! I just met Deshauna as the keynote speaker at Develop Her Women's Summit in Memphis and now here she is on one favorite podcasts. Keep shining Queen 👑
@lindaholcomb6443
@lindaholcomb6443 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this conversation I received the answer to an issue that has had me stuck in the pain of heartache for years!!!!!
@missadug
@missadug Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! I love her, I just taught a lesson on grit and showed the video of her Miss USA journey to the group of ladies I was teaching.
@shaniagilles20
@shaniagilles20 Жыл бұрын
I REALLY enjoyed this episode.
@rebeccaemmanuel8074
@rebeccaemmanuel8074 Жыл бұрын
From 1:14:28 to 1:15:00 Love that! Sometime people shame or think people who don't have many relationships before getting married are weird or strange but I feel like that should be a normal thing.
@nnena3631
@nnena3631 Жыл бұрын
I'm a bit curious about that because in this day and age people don't have to be in relationships to deal with and sleep with a lot of people which could cause as many if not more problems as the relationship baggage..
@chimakalu41
@chimakalu41 Жыл бұрын
Agree that should be a normal thing. One does not want to go around wasting time with different people. If they check the boxes with the one person they feel they can settle down with for marriage. Quantity does not equal quality.
@rebeccaemmanuel8074
@rebeccaemmanuel8074 Жыл бұрын
@@nnena3631 Yeah I see what you mean. I did not mean it in that way (sleeping around or having flings). I'm talking about just not dating or sleeping with people until you're ready for a committed relationship.
@williaminaloftin3814
@williaminaloftin3814 Жыл бұрын
Amen, Rebecca! That was definitely one of my favorite parts (take-aways) of the whole conversation.
@azanianpulse
@azanianpulse Жыл бұрын
First time watching this podcast, was always lazy to watch because I find it to be very long. I really enjoyed this and will definitely be coming back for more. Thank you, and may the Lord bless the work of your hands regarding this podcast and Kingdom Royale.Blessings from Cape Town, South Africa 💙
@asills423
@asills423 Жыл бұрын
A lovely interview. Congratulations on your upcoming union.
@elenapyle4524
@elenapyle4524 Жыл бұрын
this was sooo good! Great podcast love the transparency between them both blessings to them thanx Laterras ❤
@angelaphelps9986
@angelaphelps9986 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful! Beautiful! Beautiful couple! The genuineness and intentionality is refreshing. Thank you Marvin and Deshauna for sharing your love story! Laterras is an instigator!!!! But, I like it. Great podcast!!!
@DearFutureWifey
@DearFutureWifey Жыл бұрын
Lol. How was I instigating? I was trying to get to the bottom of it?
@angelaphelps9986
@angelaphelps9986 Жыл бұрын
@@DearFutureWifey OH, you definitely got to the bottom of it, sir!!! Lol 😆
@IAmJamieAlexander
@IAmJamieAlexander Жыл бұрын
Laterras!! I take my hat off to you brother! Season 6 just keeps getting better and better. This couple/episode has me on the edge of my seat!!!!! 🔥🙌🏾😩🥰
@stephf4175
@stephf4175 Жыл бұрын
LOVED this podcast, as with most others. What a testimony of God's timing. I really enjoyed their dynamic together after so many years, but I LOVED that an organic "Fix it Jesus" part happened still happened here as a result of and in the midst of your powerful channel, LRW. Both a Blessing for them and us watching. 🙏🏽🙌🏽
@williamjohnson7829
@williamjohnson7829 Жыл бұрын
Man, this was a good one. Enjoyed the podcast. Another great couple to sit on the yellow couch. 😊😊
@leanetta3673
@leanetta3673 Жыл бұрын
OMG! If only Marvin's "strange" could be more common with men, this world would be more like Heaven!! Fewer Heartbreaks and less damage all around. Ooooh I can only wish. But I'm older, more seasoned and experienced, so romance isn't my go-to. Can we enjoy one another's conversations and company first... and then, let's contemplate if we both want something more. I LOVED this episode Laterras. Thank you all for sharing so honestly. (I believe y'all learned some additional things about one another and yourselves whilst you talked this out on the podcast).
@leanetta3673
@leanetta3673 Жыл бұрын
Happy belated birthdays Laterras and Mother 🎉
@myllenacarlagoyasilva9747
@myllenacarlagoyasilva9747 10 ай бұрын
She reminded me of myself at her age🫣 Thank you for sharing🙌🏾 God bless you 🙏🏾
@91WriterzStatus
@91WriterzStatus Жыл бұрын
Their story is so interesting! Expectations are very important.
@snowbaby1982
@snowbaby1982 Жыл бұрын
Woooo setting the bar!!! That was a whole word! Time to move that bar🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽!!!
@cletang88
@cletang88 Жыл бұрын
There were so many take always from this podcast. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Definitely asking the same questions in my next relationship👍🏽
@lrice645
@lrice645 Жыл бұрын
Whew..I love this.. you both are amazing....he makes her better and she's not afraid to admit it...
@jakhyiajohnson7812
@jakhyiajohnson7812 Жыл бұрын
I learned way too much through this podcast that men know within six months or sooner if a woman is his wife. The fact he intentionally waited until the two year mark to pop the question unsettles me. I would've went on 'bout my business personally. He playing too much chile.
@cannon5041
@cannon5041 Жыл бұрын
I came across your podcast on Instagram today and have been hooked ever since. I love hearing about the love stories from my people it's freaking amazing.
@wendyjenkins6076
@wendyjenkins6076 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much wonderful segment everytime i watch your podcast it's always amazing crying here and there love it .
@butterflyj08
@butterflyj08 13 күн бұрын
This was a fantastic episode. Deshaun said something profound she said she couldn’t longer sit in her anxiety and fear and just embrace and be optimistic. There’s a-lot of things that she has learned along the way with Marvin. I believe that purpose partners definitely help you uncover things that you may not see and will help you heal.
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