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Ep 38 - Evy Poumpouras is a former Secret Service agent, speaker, author, and media personality. In this episode, she shares with us what she learned from her training and her time on the job as security for multiple presidents of the United States and polygraph specialist, and how she incorporates it into her daily life. As a professional interviewee and liar detector, Evy gives us her tips for acing a job interview, asking for a raise, and spotting a liar.
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
00:39 - The most important skill you can have
09:45 - Working with the US presidents
13:04 - Assessing yourself and the relationships around you
20:10 - Exuding confidence in your life
26:49 - How to confidently tackle job interviews
31:19 - How to confidently ask for a raise
33:26 - The importance of language and how to build rapport
42:55 - How to improve your personal relationships and recognize harmful relationships
51:39 - How do you spot a liar?
01:05:52 - Evy Taught Me

[@rae717]

There is so much wisdom here: "Trust in You" "People reveal themselves to you. Watch them." "Honour yourself" Thank you for your honesty, your interviewing style, and your curiosity.

[@roughroadrunner88]

This is a one of a kind interview, thanks Erika for having her. She is awesome.

[@maryglo1]

I have watched many of Evy's interviews. She speaks of incredible experiences and hard work invoved in her job. Highly recommended!

[@MsAdrienne1990]

If I were a guy I would merry her, same I wish i couldlisten to her in my teens

[@user-yv2ll7yh8h]

Erika, thank you so much for letting Evy speak and not interrupting her, so rare to see this. I love this skill in interviewers! Letting the speaker talk, express herself, makes you, the interviewer great! You shine through your guest! Also, this podcast is a powerful one!

[@rhonalaw1629]

I totally agree, too many times the interviewer talks too much.

[@cltinturkey]

So true. I see many great speakers drowned out by the interviewer interrupting and talking over them. Waste of everyone's time. This talk was spot on!

[@codeman7348]

This interview had two very intelligent women who are able to elaborate on their experiences using empathy and wisdom. There’s so much to take away from this. Erika, thank you so much for the valuable, relatable questions. You’re fantastic for letting Evy speak, clarify points, and add to the message. This is so damn helpful!

[@taan-yzah9210]

This video is GOLD!!!!! Two incredible women of different fields, talking about self empowerment and creating impactful change to push humanity forward. Wow! I have no words, just hopeful and inspired ❤

[@assemm]

The main takeaway from this episode for me was: "How you are is not how you have to stay. Evolve!"

[@100PercentZelda]

It's hard the find the words to how great this video is. She was fantastic and you asked amazing questions. People have no idea how much valuable content is in this video. Thank you Erika!

[@erikklee743]

Evy has excellent and very succinct advice. She is open and willing to share her experiences with the audience. What an amazing guest! One of your best podcasts Erika.

[@Croiz3744]

"being on time is being late" is something i learned growing up in germany 😍😂

[@maryglo1]

My kid was crying after school one day when I picked her up from the Salvation Army daycare. She said she stopped at the store while walking to daycare. The kids she was with stole some things. We went to the store so we could tell them. My kid felt better. Come to find out they were the same kids who were acting badly outside my best friend's condo. She made them cookies from time to time as a thank you reward for being respectful. They loved her! She is a teacher and got them to act nicely. The store said they knew someone was stealing. My kid felt better and the others respected her because my teacher friend is my child's Godmother!

[@maryglo1]

Fascinating to hear about Evy's job responsibilities. She's a super-dyno American. Secret Service rocks our leadership! So grateful for our strong and brave personnel keeping our representatives safe! True Americans!!!

[@mauxam]

Erika I am astounded by the broad range of guests that you've invited onto your podcast! This one specifically spoke to me at a few points. I will definitely replay your interview and update my post with time-marks once I let this information sink in. Thank you for the great work you do and provide for your community.

[@newcivilisation]

There's a homeless man down the road. Says he doesn't drink or do drugs. He's in one spot most of the time, outside a store. Talks to me about his problems. Seems genuine. He's trying to get off the street. All he needs is £150, but I don't want to raise that if he is going to mis-spend it. He disappeared for a days from his usual spot, then was back again. I said to him 'Where have you been?' He said 'I have been ill.' NOT ANSWERING MY QUESTION. 'WHERE.HAVE.YOU.BEEN?' 'I have been ill' is not saying where he has been. If he is homeless then why is it such a problem to tell me where he vanished to for a few days?

[@FysSessions]

The whole episode was invaluable but the "Evy taught me" at 1:06:04 worth it all. Thank you both ❤. So Glad I've found this channel

[@Stormy_Dawn]

Evy Poumpouras is such a bad azzz, great segment Erika! I've always loved her wisdom that she drops. Thank you for mixing it up with her. I'm loving what your channel is becoming!

[@fancyquebecoise4550]

One of my favorite interviews. You have insightful and thoughtful questions. Bring her back.

[@HeyyTiya]

I listened to this before my interview and everything went very well! I went in there with good posture & took up space lol. Thanks Erika! 😊

[@sslopianka]

I’ve already shared this podcast with a couple of friends. Excellent advice on trusting yourself. My favorite line, “if you are on time, you’re late.” Great interview, Erika!

[@The_green_zebra]

I just found your channel and I absolutely love it! Thank you so much for having her on I love listening to her wealth of knowledge. I've listened to her speak before and it's always such a confidence booster. I'm just learning how to listen to my intuition again and this was very helpful.

[@papimimi5469]

Wow! I love this interview with both of you sharing beautiful pearls of wisdom. Everyone needs to hear this - “you can have humility without diminishing yourself!” “I fear regret way more than I feel failure.” Thank you ladies, what a gift you both have.❤

[@brendamclean8447]

My all time favourite interview to date. Unbelievably awesome content, I was hanging on to every word and every bit of advice! Thanks for this helpful and interesting podcast!

[@kristalhumphreys4621]

I love every time Evy is interviewed, she’s simply admirable & stunning as well ❤

[@Dynamofoe]

Excellent interview- packed with GOLD! Thank you both 🙏🏽 😊

[@jrgvb]

Wow what an incredible interview. Given the title I wouldn’t have actually clicked on it but I saw another of your text posts that referenced this interview. I’m so glad I didn’t miss out on it. I’ve shared it with a couple people

[@n.c.467]

The most interesting and valuable time I spend on KZbin is with Erika Kulberg-- her content is top-notch and her transparency is so refreshing! So glad I discovered her channel.

[@samme1024]

I weeded out the toxic people in my life. Looking forward to knowing more people with integrity and transparency.

[@blackchickadee1]

Absolutely loved this podcast, learned something about my environment. Took so many notes and will be replaying it. Thank you !

[@doortovalue]

Love all of your guests Erika! I swear everytime I watch a new episode it becomes my favorite. She is awesome and this added so much value. Thank you ❤

[@Mewa-tv6qc]

You both communicate so well! Great questions and answers!

[@timwindsor03]

Thanks ERICKA. Loved this podcast. Very informative. Keep these coming. Hope you enjoy your day. Much love. Hugs

[@phaedragardeness]

Such sound advice. I really appreciate the time you both took to share this with us! There are some ideas I’m taking into my life from here on!!

[@Channel-ou9rq]

Wow. This was an excellent interview. Well done! ❤

[@currencyenthusiast5360]

This interview was beyond phenomenal! I'll definitely be sharing this with my friends.

[@karenpetersen8868]

Erica you are an amazing, charming, elegant interviewer and this was an AMAZING podcast! Have her back and go over more and different subjects because you guys REALLY click and teach and we learn! Thank you so much♥️♥️♥️

[@shrutisadana]

I absolutely LOVED this interview! Both of you are truly inspiring, and Erika you carry yourself with such grace, warmth and class! :)

[@Chasing72]

The day you think you know everything, you become obsolete. Evy was so spot on.

[@ycrem0n]

Great video for personal development and assessing your relationships!

[@Nola_Travel]

Great interview. Thank you both!

[@karinacordova6829]

Erika, Im a new subscriber looking for Evy interviews and I can say you were my favorite one. Your smart and hearty questions take the interview to higher levels that all that we watch and listened to you and Evy, we relate to everything you said and feel, and obviously Evy has always the acertive, smart and honest answers. I love her, I'm her fan... Thank you for the quality of podcast you create for us 🤗

[@JC-jcarlisle]

Such good advice and loved this interview

[@ldrum2116]

This was my introduction to Evy, and this entire episode speaks to the different life experiences you may encounter throughout your journey. Another great episode!

[@mo1979ca]

This is awesome. I am only half way. Excellent advice. Always be confident.

[@d.w.7114]

So much great information. Thank you for saying to listen to the feeling in your body and your intuition.

[@juvy6061]

Super love this podcast!❤

[@nancyinthegarden3160]

This was an amazing conversation and Evi was right on the money about people.

[@aliensamiri]

Thank you so much Erika. She is an amazing guest! I learned so much 😌

[@marylenux29]

I feel like this advice is so oversimplified. You can be on time consistent and your boss, coworkers etc. can still have it out for you. Office politics is a thing.

[@denaaustinmiller1331]

So filled with important information. Thank you Erika Kullberg

[@PJ-we7cy]

Awesome interview and an awesome program too!! 👍👏 Huge thank you to both Erika and Evy for putting this out there. 🙏 World-class!! 🙌💪🌟

[@kathylobmeyer4904]

Great show and advice.

[@HP_Quinn]

Thank you both so much for this.

[@michelelujan7268]

I absolutely loved this. Such validation and confirmation from Evy. I shared with my daughter too. Trusting ourselves is the life mission, isn’t it. ❤

[@khinmoewai2663]

I love you having her and the podcast is 1:06:28 but it doesn’t make me think I was listening an hour long. It is so much deep in this conversation. She is low profile and brilliant person.

[@Itsjustjoseph]

I live for this so much

[@mmlsweet]

Wow. Awesome interview. Listen and trust myself.

[@maricelquezon7245]

love listening to both of you

[@msb358]

This is an amazing interview!!! Thank you! She articulates everything that took me over 50 years to learn. I'm going to have my teen grandson listen to her.

[@juliel6223]

awesome!!! loved the entire thing. hundie percent agree that you were the perfect interviewer!!! thank you ladies ❤❤❤

[@BNcherrypeppermint]

Erika, I love all your videos, shorts, & podcasts! Can you do a video about tips/secrets of buying a new car?

[@janeminty6947]

Really moving podcast! Great job to you both!🥳

[@La-bq6jj]

Thank you for this interview Ladies!

[@santitaish]

Love your content!❤

[@cindyd1042]

Fantastic pod cast

[@sherryneely3296]

Absolutely Loved the episode. Both ladies are amazing. Thank you for your time & information. A+

[@gahippie2017]

I agree on giving people access. Reevaluate your relationships. True and healthy friendships will last decades

[@i.a.m.270]

We need another episode!

[@ladidadi79]

This interview is phenomenal ❤

[@patriciocheltree752]

Absolutely loved this! Thank you so much❤

[@stevenpates3791]

Absolutely loved this ladies thank you ❤ I can listen to yourself n Evy all day n night cause ya both talk sense n these talks will help sooo many men n women too x

[@teenafrench7236]

No way! I absolutely love Evy!!! By far the most kick ass B&$ch out there. Awesome Erica❤🎉

[@felishamohamed8911]

amazing..I enjoy this podcast.....

[@dannig2117]

Excellent 😘🙏🏻 Thank You

[@wellnesstree]

Loved this conversation. Great takeaways for the workplace and perspective on how others handle different relationship situations ✨

[@carmenciumber5298]

Great Interview ❤

[@makeyourlife8282]

Good job 👍🏻 Amazing interview

[@dianaelizabeth15]

Great interview

[@maryglo1]

HUGE RESPECT!!!

[@wasode20]

You asked interesting questions to this author/ professional who I admire so much.

[@DacysBaseBuilding]

Recently started following you on Instagram, and this was the first time I saw that you had a podcast. Really good stuff, I'm wondering what else I'm going to learn as I listen! Thanks!

[@laurierodriguez1432]

This was so empowering I've shared with my friends and family✌️💜

[@willmallory9085]

Excellent video Team

[@NikkiValentine_]

Mind blown. I’m glad that I stumbled upon your channel. Thanks algorithm!! I left with so many gems after watching this video.

[@julio-tv2xt]

Love Evy!

[@hollymahler8213]

Great reminders.

[@Artsylandandsea]

I’m watching this right now and I know I’m going to have to watch it again and next time with a pen and notebook. Two words: life changing Thank you so much!

[@skywolf288]

Great interview! Thank you both so much! It was very insightful💜💜💜

[@suecullen631]

Evy taught me to validate myself noone else matters with the decision of my well being ❤

[@carolgerber6375]

Thank you! Grateful for your words! ❤

[@CarlosArizona]

OUTSTANDING.

[@annettecabezas6697]

Amazing interview ❤

[@user-px5po7xj1z]

Thank you😊

[@wavybone999]

Finally a good interviewer! Evy deserves only the best!!🎉

[@kun_kue]

OMG I love Evy, shes awesome

[@YanivGorali]

I've learned so much and it came at a critical time of self doubt and one of life's biggest fork in the road. Thank you

[@rainbowtravelingyogi]

It's really good. I love it when I'm listening to someone, and I can feel the words resonate through me. Thank you❤✨️🌈

[@nugglebunny]

Wow absolutely love this interview will for sure be listening to evys book next.💖

[@WannabeMonkey]

Early is on time. On time is late . Late is unacceptable. Thats how you say it

[@missmermaid232]

Wow! What a great interview, and with such an interesting guest. I deliver messages all day from Spirit and Evy's advice is in accord, brilliant!

[@liatkan]

this was great

[@Euromelinda]

Evy is so smart and intelligent, I would love to have half of her knowledge. I’ve learned so much here thank you Erika!