New Rental Property Update: A Smaller Space but potential Home for the Next Two Years?

[@MySemiSortedLife]

This is part 4 of a series of 4 videos - Watch them all in order here. (More to come of course.....) kzbin.info/aero/PLOQdR5OVSlXOBtIMtgcVKH2qaX6PHKqHA

[@AprilShowers560]

Mel, once all the stress of uncertainty is behind you, you will be able to embrace this as a clean, new start. New routines, living in a decluttered, tidy home. A fresh start. It may not seem like it at the moment but this could be an absolute blessing for you. I have everything crossed for you that this works out.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for your kind words and support! It means a lot to me. I truly hope that this uncertain time turns out to be a blessing in disguise. Sending positive vibes your way too!

[@Chrisplainjane]

How exciting!! Smaller doesn’t mean bad! This will just spur on the minimalist journey. ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

So true! it will be fine... I'm maybe just managing others expectations a little.

[@nancylanderson8012]

My SIL is from Sydney and he and my daughter just returned from visiting his family in different parts of Australia. I wish you the best in securing a new place to live.

[@catherinep1800]

This is GREAT news, Mel 😃😃😃😃!! It sounds like you’ve gotten rid of heaps of stuff already. Don’t stress too much about trying to declutter. It’s ok if you move everything to the new house and then start decluttering when you aren’t under as much stress.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank-you! I kinda needed that permission lol

[@RebeccaShepherd]

Omg mel this is amazing 🎉 a 2 year lease is a dream come true. Just in time to buy your own place ❤ i have everything crossed for you

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks sooo much. x

[@soniaperichon5776]

You already look better Mel. Hope it all works out. I’m confident it will !!! Hair looks fabulous and the lighter hair suits you a lot better.

[@angid3953]

Hopefully it all works out. A fresh start is always a good thing, even with anxiety. Good vibes going out for you! ☮️

[@kateymateymusic1]

We will keep our fingers and toes crossed for you! I hope it all works out. When we lived in Singapore, our second unit was only 70sqf. It was shoe box (3 kids!). small is not easy, but it is doable!

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Right? It can totally be done...

[@fionascheibel977]

I've been in 3 private rentals. Not having real estate invasions are such a blessing.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I feel you! I've had more than my fair share of real estate invasions and it's definitely not a pleasant experience. So grateful to be in a private rental now. Especially since he'll conduct inspections over a bottle of gin lol - well - maybe better its just a glass.... or two... lol

[@Patty-vr3di]

Looking forward to updated videos .

[@afhearn5976]

I've watched your channel now for over a year or so. I was scrolling through other channels and found you. I admire your grit to keep trying. I admire your ability to keep pushing forward. Come what may. I'm cheering for you still and will continue to do so. So happy for you and your family. 😊😊

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Your comment brought a huge smile to my face! I can't express how grateful I am for your continued support and encouragement. It's viewers like you that keep me motivated to create and improve. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

[@lesleyharris525]

Sounds like you had a little bit of good news ( crossed fingers and toes), declutter the stuff you can do and then just pack everything, you can do more when you unpack, Sounds like the kitchen will need a table for prep space, but I think it's a winner, so relieved that you a possible place. Just remember to look after yourself as you have a lot to do, and if you fall health wise it has a knock on effect, sending hugs to you from me. ❤

[@Ali89x]

excited to see your decluttering process! pls take us through for an empty house tour on ur future place? xx

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Of course!! If we ever get there. lol

[@normataylor3124]

Mell sending hopeful prayers flying your way. We have unlimited wi-fi so it doesn't cost any more to watch as much as we want. I put you on two devices and just let you play away. Hope all goes well with new house and move. I know you need the peace of knowing you have somewhere to go. It may not be the perfect neighborhood but you will make it good for your family. Hugs from Tennessee mountains we are under a winter storm warning to get 4 to 8 inches snow on Monday and Tuesday. You take care😊

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Oh stay super warm Norma - I can't imagine being that cold!? I hope you don't get sick of me (you probably will! turn the volume off maybe? lol). Honestly though - I can't thank-you enough for you support and well wishes - and did I just sing a Dolly Parton song in my head when I read Tennessee Mountains - yes I did...

[@lindabourketempleton4040]

I donated everything, I’m downsizing my three bedroom house to move into a motor home and my son is getting my furniture

[@ErinFromSydney]

This is good news!! I don’t know what the tenancy laws are like in Queensland but I’m quite certain that if you have received a termination notice in NSW and you wished to leave earlier than the notice date, they have to release you from the lease. Please check your rights on this. If it’s the same as here, they can’t prevent you from breaking a lease early with a termination notice (I think). Please check this for yourself.

[@ErinFromSydney]

Read through this and see what applies to you - www.rta.qld.gov.au/breaklease Also, if need be, get advice from your local tenants union.

[@ErinFromSydney]

As for decluttering, I did what I could before we moved, but because we needed to get out so urgently so my former landlord could put the house on the market, we didn’t do it all. We continued to declutter as we are unpacking. Don’t be hard on yourself. Just do what you can. The rest can continue after you move.

[@Mrskojak13]

@@ErinFromSydney Good luck to you! Blessings

[@MySemiSortedLife]

That's interesting! I'll definitely look into the tenancy laws in Queensland to see how they compare. Thanks for sharing!

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for your kind words and blessings! It means a lot to me. Good luck to you too!

[@kristinesharp6286]

In the next property only put away the keepers. The stuff left in the boxes is the excess you don’t need. The items will be in quarantine so to speak while they are in the box.

[@rachelg785]

In my experience moving house is a 'double de-clutter' process anyway... "declutter -> pack -> declutter as you unpack" So it is perfectly fine if you don't quite get it all in the first step. 😉

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I really needed that kind of permission I think. The obvious rubbish and unused things are easy but I definitely struggle with decision fatigue after a while.

[@rachalnocchi5600]

I am so, so happy you guys have found a new home! You are actually doing all the things that it takes to get moved as well! Hang in there, before you know it you'll be all moved into your new place. It will be an awesome fresh start!❤🎉

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for your kind words! We're really excited about our new home and can't wait to start this fresh chapter in our lives.

[@katchathuff3287]

That's wonderful news! 👏👍

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you for your kind words! I appreciate your support.

[@katietayler144]

I’m lucky in that way. I’ve had the same property manager so it’s not like a stranger coming in every 3 months. We chat and laugh and we really get on. I’m definitely blessed in that regard

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I've had so many property managers I've lost count. I've had the extremes too - one walked in - went to back looked out the window and left, another looked in every nook and cranny and ran her finger across surfaces to check for dust and sent a letter about the one dog poo in the yard. (I had her for about a year and it got a point that I still have panic attacks about house inspections - my next door neighbour had her too and she moved house to get away from her!) Another I had held newborn Rosie and chatted to me while I folded laundry 3 days post-partem. Godsend!! I've run the guauntlet for sure.

[@katietayler144]

@@MySemiSortedLife omg what a journey! I have an inspection tomorrow and I still get nervous because I expect perfection from myself. And when that inevitably doesnt happen I get down on myself

[@Rocketsmansmom]

nice to see your video from around the world in the united states. will keep watching. 😊

[@annandersen3185]

All will be well Mel xx

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks for the support! I appreciate your kind words.

[@samanthabaines3578]

BRILLIANT!! WOOH!!🎉🎉

[@MySemiSortedLife]

You're the best.

[@Nanatracie]

What great news and oh my what a difference in you now that some stress has been lifted, you look so happy and thats just great x

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I keep telling myself "by May everything will be settled... it's just short term pain..." If the Landlord lets us out of our lease early it will be settled by March or even the end of February - so fingers crossed. x

[@janejones1797]

Answered prayers! I’m so happy for you!

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I truly appreciate your support and I'm glad to have you as a viewer.

[@judithwoomer7747]

Yay, I hope all goes well!❤❤🦋🦋❤❤🦋🦋

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks so much - fingers crossed.

[@annecoyle5811]

That’s great news Mel. Hope all goes smoothly and as planned for you .. Also being able to keep the pets with you will help you all settle more easily. Sometimes moving to smaller is better because that way there’s less room for clutter so it may be a huge help to you. Keep smiling sunshine ☀️ x

[@barbarap6851]

This is very hopeful news, Mel!!! xo

[@voodle48]

This is so exciting!!! Good luck with the move!!!❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks! I'm just hoping I don't accidentally pack myself in one of the boxes. Moving can be a little chaotic!

[@karenturner7983]

Good news! Thanks for sharing.

[@bronwyn3568]

Yeah start packing what you can now within reason of course, will work out hopefully, wishful thinking ok

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you for the suggestion! I'll definitely start packing what I can and keep my fingers crossed for a smooth move.

[@caramoonlynn]

This is very good news!

[@britt581]

I have 6 cars in the drive, since we have so many drivers in the house. As long as they are friendly, the new neighborhood will be worth the move!

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Yeah - it doesn't take much. I suspect this is a share accommodation situation next door - which is fine - unless they were like me and my friends when we were in share accommodation and partied a lot. lol. I intend to do a little letterbox drop and intro ourselves when we get there - hopefully build a little community of neighbours who look out for each other.

[@michellecormack7590]

So excited for you Mel ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for your support! I'm really excited too!

[@mariacastillo3090]

You look soooo beautiful Mel and I’m very excited to see your family’s new space. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Aw, thanks! You're too kind. I'm super excited to show you our new space. We wont get the keys until the 3rd of February.

[@TheVideoGamesHistorian]

So happy for you one less thing to worry about .x

[@caramoonlynn]

Eliza and I watched Bluey all day long yesterday.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Love a good Bluey day!

[@caramoonlynn]

@@MySemiSortedLife it's probably required viewing in Queensland

[@MySemiSortedLife]

lol - should be!@@caramoonlynn

[@martinafranciscus1281]

🎉🎉🎉 yay!

[@Mrsran87]

Ohhh Mel,that is awesome...with all your friends & family (including your KZbin peeps,of course;-) sending y'all so many thoughts,prayers,& good vibes only great things will come your way!!! Try not to worry & please keep us updated..we'll be here for you through it all!! Big hugs~Lisa from Virginia USA🥰❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Hey Lisa from Virginia! Thanks a bunch for the love and support, girl! It's so awesome to have friends and family (including my KZbin peeps) sending good vibes my way. I promise to keep you in the loop and appreciate you being here through it all. Big hugs right back at ya!

[@sailortwips]

I'm so relieved and happy for you!! And you get to keep the pets, that's such great news! I've had mixed experiences with private rentals but we're in a good one now and not having inspections or nit-picky property managers while also being able to make the house more of your own home makes such a difference. Love the catio idea too! All of my fingers crossed that it all goes to plan and is as stress free of a move as moving can be 💜💜

[@MySemiSortedLife]

It is such a relief to know we can have the pets... hopefully they are ok in the new place - Bruce is 10 and we suspect he was neglected or abused before we got him at 18 months and Marlin is 8 and never lived anywhere else - so we hope they both cope. The cats will not love the Catio - but it will be worth it to know they're safe.

[@fionascheibel977]

I decluttered after my moves unless something was obviously trash or not needed

[@MySemiSortedLife]

You wouldn't believe the sigh of relief I took when I read that - thank-you. I'm so stressed I'm hyperfocusing on everything.

[@lindamcauley4728]

God bless with the move ❤

[@raynachickenlivers2906]

OMG you’re smashing it Mel - you’ve already done so much. Awesome news and fantastic job 👍👍

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks so much 😊

[@juliesmith668]

Your news makes my heart sing, soooo glad everything is starting to look up. Will look forward to your future videos. Seeee you have got this Mel!!!!🥰

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Well, my news might not be as good as winning the lottery, but I'm glad it made your heart sing! Thanks for the support and I'll do my best to keep you entertained with my future videos. Seeee you there!

[@cerridwenrowan]

Hooray 🎉..... you'll make it work. You have a roof over your family's head 🫶

[@MySemiSortedLife]

CERRIDWEN!!!! I've missed you sooooo much!!! How are you??? Oh wow...hi hi hi!!!

[@raymondmonaghan4112]

You are beautiful young lady with a wonderful husband and children love from Eugenie your friend xxx 💖

[@maureensales8602]

So happy for you the feeling of having somewhere must be a huge weight off. There's no rush to declutter when moving it just makes a start of the things you really know you don't want to keep

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Some stuff is easy - and some is increasingly difficult - I did a major declutter yesterday and it was super super hard... so I'm glad to be at work this week and take it slow...

[@bronwyn3568]

Skips can be expensive, luckily when we moved in 5 years ago here currently the church we rent from paid skip for us 😊, but of course not everyone gets that 😊

[@MySemiSortedLife]

We're lucky that a friend is lending us his trailer every weekend. We already filled it once. lol

[@joycemarsh2743]

Mel you are so sweet you deserve all the pressure gone so I’m so happy for you it will all calm down soon ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you for your lovely comment! Your words really brightened my day. I'm so grateful to have such wonderful viewers like you who appreciate and support my content.

[@bronwyn3568]

Even though the house we are currently in, our kitchen is quite small too 😅😊

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Just gotta make it work huh?

[@rainfey]

So happy that things are looking up for you guys!

[@Crazymummalifewith7kids]

Your awesome Mel woohoo ❤🎉

[@MySemiSortedLife]

You are! Thank-you. x

[@raymondmonaghan4112]

All the best hope everything goes well for your move love from Eugenie your friend xxx 💞🏡🌻

[@ellenstam-mulder3002]

i hope that your landlord is willing to lett the lease go early. yes mel, letting things go is always hard but you are doing it. i give a pieces from mine furniture away. it was old and they must come over and take it. i was so happy when it was gone. i hope that you now it fast from your landlord the new and old one so you are moving forwards

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I so would just give it away - most of it we took to the tip. It's the principle of the thing now. lol

[@sonavitkova8273]

Hi Mel, I really wish you a house that will be yours one day and you won't have to deal with any rent. I hope it'll go well!🤗

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Rent or mortgage - I just want a place to call my own - with a view of nothing but trees and mountains and when I wake up and throughout the day - all I hear are birds and wildlife.... *sigh* #someday

[@kristinesharp6286]

Moving is one of life’s most stressful events.

[@Dee-iw6up]

I have everything triple crossed Mel. So hopeful for the new home. And....I adore your Bluey pjs! How cool! Good luck Lovely. 💌💐

[@MySemiSortedLife]

are they not the best PJ's ever - from Big W... before Christmas - not sure they're still there.

[@Dee-iw6up]

@@MySemiSortedLife Cute as!!☺️

[@moniquef4737]

Fingers crossed the lease goes through and you can end this current lease! Just make sure you have a contract with the new landlord ❤

[@moniquef4737]

And no more nasty & picky real estate lady! Goodness me she was awful

[@vicky_plans_budgets]

Amazing news!!

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks so much Vicky. x

[@Lanzafan1]

People don't want to pay for stuff Mel 😆 Have you thought about listing stuff free of charge and leaving it outside? People will come and get it if it's free and save you having trips to the thrift shop 🤣 Human nature. I agree with you about the decluttering because you have to have a certain amount of mental strength and calm to do it. If you're feeling too anxious, it's not a good idea. I really hope you can be released from this rental next month! Bon voyage!!!🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗

[@MySemiSortedLife]

To be honest - if someone pulled up and said "I'll take it but I'll not pay" I'd just let them. It's the perpetual "yes I'll be there" and then no show - its just not worth it!

[@bronwyn3568]

Yes we donate alot too, especially things I have multiples of and really don't need 😂 , like 3 or 4 when probably only need one or two of

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I donated sooo much - someone is going to think all their Christmases have come at once when they score what I gave away. Hopefully it blesses them - and at least the charities will make some dollars too

[@franskie1697]

So so so Happy for you Mel lots of love from Fran ❤❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much, Fran! Your support means the world to me. Sending lots of love right back at you!

[@GoingGreenMom]

You've got this Mel. A catio sounds great. MyEveryDayWifeLife has been working on one of those. And so glad you will have a walkable neighborhood and can take the dogs for walks. On the kitchen, be ruthless with the declutter, I found I loved working in my camper kitchen because everything was within arms reach, but it is definitely focusing on efficiency in that situation. Huge hugs! You are totally worthy of the support!

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Oh I didn't know Michelle was doing that - #WorstCreatorFriend! I will go check it out. x

[@Mrskojak13]

@@MySemiSortedLife Mel one thing you can get rid of is all the plastic and just go to basic white dishes. I got set from ikea. It really helped the declutter in my kitchen. I am very proud of you and you will get through this. I have been with you since you started your channel. I just don't post much. Take clothes to a charity shops. You have got this . Please try and declutter as much as can so you won't be overwhelmed at the new smaller place. I get the anxiety part I am trying to declutter also. I have a son who is mentally ill and things have really piled up. Blessings.

[@GoingGreenMom]

@@Mrskojak13 One thing at a time and you will get there! Definitely agree with white dishes, although maybe not buying new ones. Lol. We pared down to 2 per person, and the rest are packed away or got donated. And the more I have packed away in the kitchen the better off I've been.

[@GoingGreenMom]

@@MySemiSortedLife lol, that doesn't make you the worst creator friend, that makes you a busy friend with lots on her plate!

[@eagle25ful]

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[@GoingGreenMom]

Lol, does decluttering and anxiety go together for anyone? It sounds like you had lots of big stuff you are letting go of, so its hard to imagine it not being noticable. There will always be more to let go of though. New house or not, Dana has som catchy phrase, but i dont remember it, but the point is, its never done unless your dead. And then it just goes to someone else to do.

[@GoingGreenMom]

Lol, that sounds morbid. Sorry.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

is it duh-clutter... that's my fave phrase of hers. lol

[@amppari3061]

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[@MySemiSortedLife]

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[@GoingGreenMom]

You know what they say about women and hair right? You see a woman change her hair, just watch and you will see her majorly changing her life.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Lol - looks like 2024 is going to be huge for me!? 2 weeks in and my whole life is flipped upside down.

[@Rose274]

I'm so happy for you. Everything will work out for the better. I'm excited for this new adventure for you. I hope it goes smoothly Sending much love hugs warmth and positive energy to you 💜🙏🤗

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much Rose!!!! x

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