Four Words That Can Change Your Marriage

Pastor Greg continues his series "Happily Even After" with a message titled "Four Words That Can Change Your Marriage" (Ephesians 5, 1 Corinthians 13)

[@brandondenton494]

Me and wife are currently separated but trying to fix our marriage. I pray that Jesus restores my marriage and restores b the love for each other that we once shared. I love my wife so much and I’ve made so many mistakes. And she is stubborn and holds on to anger and won’t forgive me completely… please pray that Jesus softens her heart and fills it with love for me again ! As well as helps me control my own anger and walk in love with her.

[@OOICU812]

Four words: "We are not enemies."

[@zocalo1990]

Thank you .. That's why I come to comments..

[@kimmillynn2161]

Me too lol

[@Aysofamily]

Six years down the line and this sermon is most relevant and vocal in 2019 and more years to come. It deserves millions views. God bless you pastor Greg.

[@robynsolansky8897]

Trrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrknn

[@Aysofamily]

@@robynsolansky8897 what do you mean

[@joshualuntsford]

Amen.

[@emanuelcazarez940]

This belongs to Christ. These are the 4 words I came up with. Whenever we look at anything or anybody, those words must be brought

[@kathye3821]

I wish my husband would listen to this. He has walked away from our 30 year marriage. He's no longer happy; he's no longer in love. It hurts so badly. But I'm standing with God and refuse to give up. I know God can and will bring healing and restoration.

[@trisiamccaughin8726]

I am so sorry. Im in the same boat - 33 years.

[@kathye3821]

@@trisiamccaughin8726 Keep praying and trusting God. 🙏

[@modern7861]

My wife has done the same. Praying for you and your marriage to be restored

[@zocalo1990]

The power of praying.. Let's pray for your husband.Sometimes husbands or wifes don't realize what a blessing they have in the person of the spouse.. I'm a widow and at one point I almost divorced my wife,now , being with out her made realize what a blessing my wife was to my life. I will pray your husband through God realizes that blessing you are to his life.

[@zocalo1990]

​@@modern7861I will pray for you my brother.I promise,there is power in prayer

[@ColdSteel-dz3pf]

This is a game changer. I amazed how when step outside of this and each time I return to church. I’m blindly walking into the message that I NEED. That’s not a coincidence, God delivers.

[@bigjohn2073]

A "Perfect Marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

[@neptunes1293]

It's a triad between man ,women and God....where man and women r imperfect

[@susanogletree3899]

Absolutely ❤

[@nunyabb]

Or two servants in love 😃 -jimmy evans

[@mariankeller5852]

A GOD CENTERED LIFE IS THE KEY. . LOVE..TRUST ..COMMITMENT.. FORGIVENESS..IS THE GLUE THAT HOLDS IT ALL TOGETHER ❤

[@lprescott131]

4 words Jesus please help us

[@CliMilsTVunstoppable]

This message really got me. The most important is being conneted to the source because only He can enable you to obey what you are called to.

[@DollytheDOL]

Dont wait til you feel love, love now, love anyway.

[@sweetlybroken4176]

This EXACTLY where I am. Very difficult at times 🙁

[@andybennett562]

I enjoy listening to your sermons. If there is any way to add on the screen the person signing for my deaf nephew it would be a blessing.

[@chronological6240]

Turn in the close captioning and then he can read the subtitles. I understand he is young and may not be able to read that fast but that’s atleast something. Have a good day brother

[@jennya7438]

4 words = Jesus is our answer! Focusing on our Creator changes everything especially when observing Mat. 11:28-30 and working together on casting our cares before Jesus who'll make a supernatural exchange with us where His burden is light and His yoke is easy. Got to learn to let go and let God stop trying to act as though we have all of the answers when we don't.

[@sadeojolola2507]

Listened 30/7/2020 and i feel so blessed, alot of lessons learnt. Very knowledgeable, truly the word of God conquers all. God bless you Pastor Grey Laurie

[@healing9167]

Every marriage is unique. There is no perfect marriage. Be honest with yourself. Tell your spouse how you want to be treated. I believe that if you ask God about your problem with your spouse...He will only tell you "why don't you talk/discuss it with him/her? Communication is the key.

[@indiyahblaque878]

Just because you discuss something with your spouse doesn’t mean they will listen, take what you’re saying in consideration and change their behavior. Communication is only one piece, but it’s not the answer.

[@Gameover24able]

@@indiyahblaque878 it's the Holy Spirit job to equip us to want to listen.

[@ladennayoung2939]

@@indiyahblaque878 It is apart of the answer though. You don't have a marriage/relationship if you can't communicate with them. They must learn to be open and receptive to what their spouse say and vice versa.

[@Annabelle-ex5pg]

If you talk to mine it's an argument

[@lexieoverman7341]

Love this!

[@chanteldixon7841]

Amen. Thank you for this awesome word.

[@kennybranshaw7526]

4 words = I'm tired of arguing.

[@dogblues4829]

Lol

[@annatevesbanzon1359]

Thank you, I'm sorry 4 words that can save any relationship.

[@emac1882]

I still can't stop thinking about his "hello kitty" comment and im 10 mins into the video.

[@anitaharrell3716]

😂😂😂

[@draytonblackgrove]

I love Pastor Greg.

[@kittycatsforlife5769]

Loved this ❤ 😊

[@samueldick9933]

Great message 👍

[@paulkelly5072]

I loved what he said I saw my own mistakes in his words . I and we must change the direction we are going ,,we must get back to the start of our relationship . Start over,bring back mutual respect .for it has gotten lost over time .

[@JasonBrown033]

Awesome message Pastor Greg!! Thank you.

[@anitaharrell3716]

Merry Christmas and a happy new years

[@smitapapade3722]

Thank you so much wonderful word. God bless you. 💕

[@audialiastt2601]

Those words gives me strength for the day.

[@bugsyfreebury2631]

Thanks Paster Greg.... Wife and I are parked in the Kia listening to your message. Should I say...... I, as a man was listing closely since you're message was directed at husbands.... Good message, helped us out.... we will keep listening.... How can I, as the husband, get filled with the holy spirit?

[@MrBrentc76]

I may be a little late since you wrote this 2 years ago, if you are a Christian then pray to God to fill you with the Holy Spirit 🙏.

[@carolwalker485]

Ask Jesus into your heart and read the Gospel.

[@livingwithcancer1245]

My marriage is in shambles right now. I love my husband more than life itself. I don't want this to fail. But we have been failing since I was diagnosed with cancer. How does a couple make a marriage better when one is fighting a life threatening condition? And the other works so much he is barely home and on off days he is always off doing something for others instead of being home and working on things.

[@StidhamFamilygospel]

Bless you.

[@mariankeller5852]

Give your marriage over to God..let him do the heavy work and you concentrate on your recovery...many people are afraid of illness..they don't know how to cope ..Prayer works..I know this is true..been there

[@joshlester8954]

I made a mistake in my marriage and my wife says she can’t forgive me. I know God can fix it. I’m praying that he will. I’m praying he will soon.

[@juggiebonebrain3383]

Four words: "Jesus, we love you"

[@valor101arise]

Paul was right...you will be happier single. Marriage is HARD

[@neohermitist]

AMEN. Pastor Greg just wants people to get married and have children to fill the pews.

[@audialiastt2601]

Simple complexities. Spirit and flesh cross. Every once in a while, we come to a junction in the road. Who has the green light and who has the red. What happened last time? What will happen the next at that junction. Has she remember? Does it matter if she does or does not. Have I remembered🤔🤔🤔🤔🙄. In the Holy Spirit we find all the answers because we find trust and we find God.

[@evef9798]

If "husband's love your wives" is the 4 words.. we there prayers...

[@jameszapata8290]

I can't even believe this these people in these churches don't even know they're in the old Covenant. Why isn't Pastor Craig talking about that.

[@FamilyGathersHere]

What about a unevenly yoked marriage?

[@Dabznbabz92x4]

Read your bible the answer is right there I just can't remember what chapter and verse it is. But I did read it 2x with my own eyes in my short 5 years of being saved as a Christian. I wish I had married. God hasn't put me with the right person yet hopefully soon. Because I was saved late and I might have a 50 years left or maybe more depending on his plan. But I'm sad to say if that happens I'll be in my 100s. I always wanted to buy I believe God knew how badly from the time I can remember I didn't want to get divorced EVER. My parents luckily still alive are still together. So it's rare and they are NOT BELIEVERS. I PRAY and plant seeds I PRAY to God every day and night that God has all knowledge that I and they don't have and know if the plan and just maybe they are from a time and place they had something happened that they are ashamed to speak about. I found put today my dad actually owns a bible when a month ago I asked if he at least prayed and he flipped and said NO ABSOLUTELY NOT. I cried and said maybe u should start rethinking that. Because you evolution beliefs who created the universe and planets and stars and animals? He said I don't know but something bigger than you or me. I smiled. It's a huge start and step for him. So God willing he will be asked by both of them to be saved and let the light into their hearts before it's to late. My dad's brother died 2 weeks ago today. So with that said I PRAY and talk to my mom. She is confused as she was a born and baptized a Roman Catholic. So there is no surprise she was confused as an adult coming from Catholic school then leaving the church after I was born and NEVER went back. When her and I talk about it I also explain just maybe they could find happiness within themselves and within each other as God would forgive them and they aren't bad people. Just under the devils black cloud never got ahead in life working still and they don't compromise they fight everyday all day. That's all I know for parents though and now as an older person myself I dated naturally but I would always at some point hear a voice say this is not the one. I would say but God I want to get married and I would hear it again. So I would always leave if they didn't want to entertain marriage after being together for so long. I never dated short term. But had I known now what I know I would still be a virgin. After u read it I wish I could mesmerize it. But it's all new to me. And I messed up . but since then I asked got forgiveness and been re Baptized in 2015 and now I'm just wanting to settle down with another Christian who believes in the true word of God and not buy into the majority of these corrupt false churches. I stick to the bible which sadly they have censored. Some of it is not in print anymore. But with all that said if u do find where the message is not jumping around during sermons for an agenda. Yes in the churches too. U won't hear the majority take about love and Jesus as Christ out savior and lord dying at Calvary on the cross for our sin debt. I am amazed if u stick to the bible and commit to bring a real Christian everyday all day and 2x on Sunday. Not just a Sunday Christian that isn't what God wants. All this is in the bible. Dont believe me read it for yourself then try seeking out a church. Be cause then you will know who are the showmen and who are sent to do God's work. It's simple but not easy to totally surrender at first. Like I'm not fond of this guy. This is my first time coming across him and of course they always all push the marriage in churches but tends to stop there and just briefly if at all pass over the unconditional love for our father and savior and teach us to sit still and listen not ask why me... Because we have a merciful God and our father God is an unconditional loving God a forgiving God of we ask he shall provide he will forgive but u can't keep repeating sins once u do ask u also ask for him to help u and show you his way and how to deal with whatever it is you're struggling with it did wrong. I think imo the hardest part is his timing. our one 24 hours period is 1000 years to our one day in God's timing. It is rough to deal with at first. But doable. Then when u learn anger is a sin you get over it if you're commuted and a faithful serving Christian. U go to your father first for everything WITHOUT stepping out in front of God. You won't believe the difference in your life. But be prepared for persecution. Because like our father and Jesus we are different we sin and will always sin. He never EVER sinned. I like that this guy is trying to adapt to the younger people as well by quoting song lyrics it's creative. I can't and won't judge if I would come back after ONLY one sermon. I would try again because he understands that these churches mostly don't care that they should and can change it up and be fun and not mundane and putting u to sleep with that same exact Sunday service every week. Which leave more chance for the devil to grab them before they even gave God a chance and don't know it till it's too late. So read the book for a year then start to seek out what God is asking you for. At some point if u are serious it will all of the sudden click and it's amazing. EVERYTHING changes. Even your so called blood family to friends to materials u listen to do and watch. I can't explain it. But if u truly obey you will know and hear God clearly there ever after and have your name go into the lamb's book. God bless you.

[@maryeliasen6942]

What do u when your husband runs and hides from conflict? And stays away

[@kzeetha]

My husband is th same very frustrating really

[@jordonvizer9638]

what's the next one for woman???

[@tarp-grommet]

First Rule Of A Good Christian Marriage: "If no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death." Deuteronomy 22:20

[@DoingthebestIcan.1datatime]

That’s inhumane

[@tarp-grommet]

@@DoingthebestIcan.1datatime And rhats not even the worst of it,

[@mesfinhailegiorgis7985]

I love it. but those who possessed by evil spirits cant respond whatever you do. unless they get delivered. that is the problem even the spiritual leaders couldn't understand.HUGE PROBLEM

[@TheYvetteRod]

Yes! I have an unbelieving husband who most definitely has evil spirits and needs to be delivered from alcohol! I have done everything I can to save our marriage

[@KennedyWatti]

The best.

[@nsikakobongeyakz4032]

give it a try after church

[@framboise595]

Where has the submission of wives gone in this day and age ?

[@mikemcleod7334]

There is no such thing as a perfect marriage on the earth . Only that of filled with love from the holy Spirit not being commanded , that is forced being commanded . That's the difference between law vs grace can't coexist together . New testament tells us a new command he gives us , love and you fulfill the law .

[@licdaysi]

Jajajaja hello kitty sleepers

[@zocalo1990]

Husbands. Love . Your. Wife.

[@amandawebb3387]

What if your husband isnt a Christian or has walked away from God? A drinker or an alcoholic? Or if he is a 2and husband who does not love his stepchildren as he should?

[@magisvita2937]

Pastor Greg what about the men this is way to easy to talk about the men's short comings

[@patriciarowland8230]

Yes erase the D word it is de vasting feel like your ripped apart youve lost part of yourself.

[@cawaalecaydaruus3455]

Four words in Fifty Minutes. 🙃

[@neohermitist]

IT IS GOOD FOR A MAN NOT TO TOUCH A WOMAN and IT IS NOT GOOD TO MARRY Plain clear Scripture. You'll notice that when people are given the option of divorce many take it. That's because marriage is, in many cases, destructive to an individual's spiritual and emotional well being. Yet preachers universally paint marriage as an unalloyed good. It is not. Instead it is highly dependent upon the spiritual, emotional and (sometimes) financial health of each partner.

[@freddavidson286]

My wife of 43 years left I have found out why god hates devorice 😢

[@pennypenny2588]

Husbands love your wives......

[@MaisonAceNutter]

Not sure if anyone will see or pray for me with my comment My wife is on a path for divorce currently as far as I know but I don’t believe it will happen I believe our marriage is restored in Jesus name I know God is for our marriage and He wouldn’t give her peace about this path I messed things up I committed adultery and lied to her so many times I’ve repented and I’m living for the lord right and I pray for restoration and to stay on this path.

[@rosserscott4376]

Out of gas and the wife is selling the car.

[@ericbrittain2478]

You'll get a new car. One that gets better gas mileage

[@rosserscott4376]

@@ericbrittain2478 nope

[@jamielacoste8190]

Sad that my husband is still a twin brother to his twin sister than being my spouse. I can't even consider our marriage a marriage at all.

[@emac1882]

My girls are twins and they really have a special bond, something we can never understand. Make known to your husband how u feel but try to understand him as well. Im sure if we had a twin brother we would feel very close to them as well. Don't let this break your marriage. If he didn't want to be with you he wouldn't have married you. May God bless you!

[@ajohnson3830]

Is your view of marriage realistic? Don’t allow jealousy to come in between you both. Share with him how you feel. Communication is key. If he’s mature he’ll care how you feel.

[@leibau7055]

Jamie Lacoste 🤝

[@disciplewarrior686]

Hi Jamie, I know it is hard to handle that and thanks for sharing. Please keep praying for your husband, forgive him and express your concerns to him. Important in this is ensuring that you are knowing what Christ did for you on the cross, your identity in Christ and ensuring that no matter what you are acting Christ like no matter how you are treated. There is power in prayer and fasting for your spouse and drawing close to the Lord. God can turn around stubborn hearts or even inspire and reveal to your husband wisdom that he may need.

[@stephaniethompson7995]

:-( :-( :-(

[@philipbuckley759]

the hippie Church....Calvary Chapel.....just preaching the word, of God....and this guy.....once more has a net worth of more than one million dollars....3.5 million to be precise....what is up, with this...

[@taliaperry7817]

So?

[@carrybear2362]

Ugh no, the bible=/= is not the word of God, Jesus is the word of God

[@sirpepeofhousekek6741]

If you're a man, I got four words for you: DO NOT GET MARRIED.

[@jingrags]

funny

[@lindafrazier8799]

Sir Pepe: I think that is a great idea!

[@valor101arise]

Its the hardest thing ive ever done... Paul was right...stay single

[@joesamayoa32]

Ask God if I'm still married in his eyes. "Muslim" Father,Action🤬

[@davidbarnes94]

Good to listen to and some truth yes husbands must love their wives! However, Because this is not a full Gospel teaching pastor loses The credibility of Holy Spirit Inspired teaching !

[@stephaniethompson7995]

what do you mean?