Fr Paul Nicholson: The Secret of How to Forgive

[@broeske11]

I have watched and listened to this 3 times and find it calling me to an awareness of what my anger was "doing" to me. Thank you Father for your humility.

[@sainthenry2150]

Almost exactly what it did for me . 🙌🙏

[@projecteucharist]

I will be ordained a priest in 2 years. Please pray for me. 😍

[@tojesusthroughmary8932]

@@projecteucharist🙏🌹🌹🌹 Deo Gratias!Ave Maria! Jesus,Mary,Joseph,assist you! St Therese,pray for us and esp for this future holy priest!🙏🌹🌹🌹

[@JayneCooney-ym9kp]

Me too

[@JayneCooney-ym9kp]

Mary mother protect him

[@jml2241]

Best homily I ever heard. I needed to hear it today. abused my alcoholic narcissitic parents , I am full of anger , suffered depression and addiction and codependency. Now I pray to the sacred heart of Jesus forgive them they did not know what they were doing. I feel free

[@Louisianasfinest]

@@Soyebakhtar0105move around with that foolishness!! Repent . I forgive you for you do not know what you are saying

[@gemum4219]

I love and pray about what God is doing for you. I can relate, my parent was a damaged (PTSD) somewhat self-focused, easily manipulated person who married a third spouse and that spouse turned to be a psychopath who caused ruination for our whole family. This person strategically planned every living moment of their lift to manipulate others in order to destroy them and get what they want. We were that person's pawns. Had this person been a serial killer and killed all of us, that would have been MERCY in comparison to what they did. I get what people who deal with these narcissistic types have gone through. Please pray for our family too and for this person to come to God and repent. Thank you. God bless, heal and protect you.

[@sainthenry2150]

Seriously this by far is one of the greatest sermon I have the privilege of watching, listening to and understanding. Thank You.

[@kittyblaine7917]

No doubt brother!!! No doubt🙏✝️🌹❤️

[@mick1gallagher]

@@kittyblaine7917 did you ever consider calling yourself idiot clown fool

[@theresafoster7352]

He helped me so much

[@janicemosen5028]

True and beautiful ,freedom through the cross ofJesus , lovely Father !

[@Louisianasfinest]

Most definitely!! The best I have ever heard, understood and thoroughly enjoyed!!

[@gabyrodmac6419]

Father you remind me so much of the late and great bishop Fulton Sheen, and ai mean that in the absolute best way. bravo. Thank you for this!

[@MsBrigitte2012]

I thought that I had forgiven everyone... I am 66, and have suffered with depression since I was 10. Finally, thanks to this holy priest, there is a way to release the anger which seemingly turned into depression and unforgiveness. Thank you, Sacred Heart of Jesus ❤.

[@noelalmeida3393]

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[@sainthenry2150]

✌❤😊🙏

[@stunnedmulletblah9714]

🙏 ☺ 🌸

[@cathysears6700]

At 66 myself I so related to what you said. Thank you!

[@salzadancing1]

God bless you!

[@maryque300]

Excellent homily. I’ve never heard a priest talk so relatable to me and what I really needed to hear. Praise be to God for this man.

[@deborahvrtis4428]

Thank you so much for this sermon! My mother, a Protestant, is also a narcissist. I am 60 yrs old this April & I still have nightmares about her. Still a constant question in myself that I’m so messed up because of her & how do I handle this. For so long I just got mad at even the smallest contact with her, & I couldn’t understand why she makes me so mad. It’s because she can’t love. I must forgive her. Every day. Every time. She’s mentally ill -& maybe even possessed from some of the things I’ve seen her do & say. Thank you Fr for this healing sermon. I can get righteously mad when she plays favorites so cruelly with my grandchildren where they can see how she treats them, & the list goes on & on. But I still must forgive her. We are both a work in progress… May God bless you!

[@theresac2944]

Thank you Father Paul . I am listening to this at 3:30 a.m. This resonates very close to my heart . Sometimes I think I have forgiven , only to be wrong . ❤️🙏💙 I am trying every day at 70 . You are so right , Penance is the answer .

[@JayneCooney-ym9kp]

This is amazing I am crying

[@sainthenry2150]

I listen to this when I get lost... thank you✌❤

[@ghmus7]

THANK YOU Father, for this. My name is Dr. Gregory Hamilton, and I was music director there at St.Theresa for 7 years, It is great to see that good homilies are still given. God Bless you.

[@2timothy477]

This is a must watch for all of us! Just watch a few minutes a day, there's so much to take in and healing just waiting for us. Thank you so much Father. Your humour is soothing! Pax. Steven. U.K.

[@kacperz5683]

As a Polish catholic I gotta say it's one of the best preaches I've heard in my life, including those by some best priests and religion experts that I know. Thank you, Father Nicholson. Thank you.

[@theclapaolini4322]

Great great Like never before.this talk is going s long long way Thank you Bishop.

[@kacperz5683]

@@Soyebakhtar0105 I'm praying for you to return from your path and return to Jesus, One and Only Saviour and to the One God in the Holy Trinity. God bless you, brother.

[@TheRosaryGarden]

This is probably the best talk on forgiveness I ever heard. Xx

[@albertoascari2542]

One of the best Priests I have heard on KZbin. Great clarity of thought and profound words

[@jovanatirant5697]

Father you are preaching what I needed and I believe many others needed to hear. We need more priests like you.Bless you Father priest 🙏

[@geneievefrancis755]

Praise God for this priest!!! Wonderful talk on reconciliation! God bless him.

[@Linda37JMJ]

Thank you Fr. Nicholson for this inspiring video. I can’t quit thinking about it. Humility and humor, a great combo. Three Hail Marys for the priest. Immaculate Mary, pray for us.

[@kindsir2734]

This very revealing and very real to me. I am Catholic, but this would help any sinner( myself) but anyone out there. Extraordinary stuff

[@afreeman379]

I've been very hurt by a breakup. This sermon resonates so much with what I've been through, and is the single thing that is most helping me to deal with it. Thank you father, God bless you.

[@margokupelian344]

Oh, father this was so unexpected. It was just awesome! Your humor and your articulation is unsurpassed and so are your insights. It touched me deeply bc you were talking as a vulnerable human being and as someone who is going through the struggles that we all go, acknowledging our shortcomings and struggling to get over them by the grace of God. But the struggle is ongoing. I have great devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus where His love gushes out for us. Oh, Jesus give us your peace. Thank you father, may God bless you!

[@ajaydsouza2858]

This sermon is tailored-made for me! Thanks be to God for this pastor!

[@bridget1780]

Sometimes I pray for people who I feel hurt me the prayer for conversion that Jesus gave to St. Faustina - "O Blood and water which gushed forth from the heart of Jesus as a fount of Mercy for us, I trust in You.". This prayer is bringing about healing for me a graces for the people for who I prayed.

[@michaelmita8584]

My name is Michael For no reason my cousin and I are being tortured by freemason cancel culture They run us off the road. Our constable in Sputhampton has threatened to throw my cousin out of his home. An angry evil man whom we were always good kind and loving to. This torture is designed to make us sick wesk discouraged turn our backs on Christ in dispare. We understand the power of forgiveness Especially for those good and ugly to us. Thank you for your video reminding us of the power we have in us to forgive this way. Thank you for fussing us to love this way and how to show the reality of this love to an unforgiving world. Please pray for us. We are unjustly being tortured.

[@gemum4219]

Wow, so sorry for you. And I thought I was going through Hell. What I am going through is nothing compared to what you are going through. I will pray for your cousin and your peace and freedom from harm and for the person(s) who are doing these things to you that they have a conversion to God, to what is right and that their wrongful actions are completely stopped in their tracks..

[@rodamkandawire3355]

Father thanks for prayers. Direct to the point no of us is ever going to be able to do everything right but Jesus forgives us Everytime. Amen

[@ipoh3629]

Awesome!!! To forgive doesn't mean allowing your enemies to walk all over you. Not to forgive is to allow them to walk all over you. How profound! What a priest. I needed this to help me on my own journey. Bless you Fr Paul.

[@time4grace]

My Testimony: I am always a disciplinarian, but no matter how I discipline; my younger sis kept talking back! Years later, I heard she was receiving psychological counsel. When she again tried to very disrespectful to me; I intentionally did not even say anything as if I did not hear any rebuke and false accusations just for the sake of the SACRED HEART. But, for some reason, for the first time. she UNDERSTOOD what is disrespect! From that day, she was not shouting at me anymore. Alleluia! I praise and THANK Lord GOD. My sister is now my best friend. I forgive her many times as many as she opens her mouth.

[@AnnaPlucinsky]

We all have some very, very interesting stories. They soud stupid very are serious things to us. Have to have an open mind and heart. 😅😅😅😅😅❤

[@AnnaPlucinsky]

Open mouth,, open heart....❤

[@tatie7604]

Marvelous. Genius. I have begged to know how to forgive. The hurt is real and pervasive and deep. This priest is effective. That says everything.

[@zilawylde7006]

If I feel I am cheated I get very angry but then I realized it's just not worth as it plays on my mind for a long time. So I have decided to let go. Thank you Jesus Praise you Lord God.

[@blueskysunnyday6239]

Wow! Excellent teaching on forgiveness! I did not know I needed this! Thank you, Father.

[@kathleenodriscoll4112]

Thank you so much father for this talk. It was something that I needed to hear. I will outsource my anger and hurt to Jesus instead of trying to do it on my own. May God bless, protect and guide you and all priests and religious in these troubled times Amen 🙏

[@grannynans3776]

"...instead of trying to do it on my own." Yes. ♥️🙏

[@berniedaly2151]

This is truly what I need to know in my life to deal with all the hurts I have experienced .I have a truckload of people that I want to forgive so that I can become free to live the life that God gave me."So So enlightening"

[@anneanne8822]

All glory and praise to God of Forgiveness..Lord teach me how to forgive..Amen.

[@Westyrulz]

A sense of humor is a sign of a balanced state of mind.After I heard the joke I was happy to listen to the whole sermon.

[@gloriajohnstone1218]

Thank you father for the beautiful message, May our Lord Jesus Christ bless you always, I've learned a lot. I will definitely put it into practice in my life.

[@raymondmartin7332]

Thank you Fr Paul for that gem of a sermon on a topic universal in nature. The insights you gave were very valuable. There is always a need to forgive as the Lord has asked of us. But it is so difficult to forgive. Thanks to the many points you have given we will be able to forgive as in reality we stand to benefit most for ourselves by it. God Bless You Fr Paul and give you the grace and strength to continue in His Vineyard. Amen

[@jesuslovesyoulove9991]

Amen ⛪️😇🙏 may our Lord Jesus and our Mother Madycof Guadalupe have you safe and secure we’re ever you are Fr. Paul Nicholson such a great Priest and Preacher of our Lord Jesus Christ

[@AnnaPlucinsky]

Genuine information I can use today. Thank you🎉🎉😂

[@AnnaPlucinsky]

Forgive for they know not what they do.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@VS-yb7oq]

Absolutely beautiful! Thank you so very much, Father Nicholson! May God abundantly bless you! Yes, there is true freedom in forgiveness!!! 🙌🙏

[@PaulBouchillon]

This homily is resonating to the core of my soul. Up until 2weeks ago, when the boulder of anger was more than I could carry any longer, and was about to crush me, I took a moral inventory, hit my knees and surrendered. This homily, in a series of homilies, has caused me to experience the presence and peace of The Holy Spirit. God Be Praised!! I'm the prodigal returning home!

[@lidiasoares5675]

Wow, that's me!! Thanks be to God for Fr. Paul. I always seek revenge and pay back!! Now I am so ashamed!!!

[@paix1234]

Thank you so much Father. This is incredible.

[@KolokaiKalai]

Fr. Paul...Listening the second time. Indeed the greatest sermon on forgiveness. Thankyou Lord for the amazing gift of Fr Paul. Blessings blessings abundant blessings. Prayers for you 🙏. 🙏 PTL.

[@GuruRasaVonWerder]

forgiveness is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT

[@PhonieOperator]

Such a powerful teaching thank you Father for baring your soul

[@carolt7322]

Thank you. Praise Jesus for this much needed perspective. I need to listen to this multiple times. ❤❤❤

[@JustAThought155]

This brother is seriously knocking on some doors. I am not Catholic, but I am glad this older video just appeared as a recommendation.

[@680719]

May the Lord always watch over you and keep you enlightened all the days of your life.

[@geidicalcagno]

Who knocks the door, Jesus will open it for you, who search and search, JESUS THANKS FOR THIS MAN OF GOD WITHOUT FEAR TO SAY THE TRUTH. THANKS FOR THIS SPIRITUAL FOOD, exactly what l need. THANKS BE TO GOD FOR SAINTS AND HOLLY PRIESTS 🙏THIS SPEECH WAS ALMOST 6 YEARS AGO, I THINK IT WAS CLOSE TO LENT SEASON. DO I HAVE BALANCE IN MY LIFE? JESUS PLEASE DONT ALLOWS THAT ANGER STAY IN ME, HELP ME TO CLEAN MY HEART AND SOUL❤TEACH ME TO FORGIVE AND FORGET.

[@maribelsantos3886]

Simply amazing! Truth! 🙏🏻❤️‍🔥

[@jmn2010]

This you tube video has answered a question i have wanted clarified and wanted the answer to, for as long as i can remember forgiveness vs Reconciliation, thank you God bless you, i am at peace now and I hope everyone that listens to this recording, find peace too God bless you 🙏

[@suedeslippe]

Father Paul we miss you here in Canada. Someday I hope to hear a sermon from you in person again! You are in my prayers ever day! God bless you 🙏

[@DrSniperLT]

A clear easy to listen sermon. I really enjoyed what he said about forgiveness and what needs to be done, especially when it comes with prayer at 47:00 and 1:01:30 Which is a big problem that priests neglect nowadays.

[@josephzammit8483]

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[@sarahmacneill3882]

Lukas i dont know what you meen

[@tzcleary]

Thank you Father! Without giving the hurt that agonizes our heart, that makes us angry at “jerks”, through confession or in adoration, at the foot of Jesus’ Cross, we can not forgive anyone. We need to recognize that the task of forgiveness is way too big for we mere creatures to conquer alone. It is the power of God and our will, together, that forgiveness is achieved. And then we are free and in God’s Peace!

[@MaryKane-qv5vz]

Our Lady said at Medjugorie She understands we cannot forgive BUT if we would pray to the Sacred Heart of Her Son and Her Immaculate Heart for 15 MINUTES EVERY DAY we would be given the grace of forgiveness. Thank you Father for your wonderful talk. Needed by so many.

[@gkim5095]

Praise the Lord Jesus Christ for good and holy priest like you Fr Paul Nicholson. This is my first time listening to Fr Paul. Very good and inspirational. May the Lord bless you. Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏

[@rosalindarosas4549]

I did all the steps you mentioned before even seeing this video. I now know now what to call each part of my journey when I forgave. I do realize that the only out source is the Divine God in three. Thank you for your video, I am so glad I came across this video and took time to listen.

[@cissystellampiima2128]

God bless you father for your honesty.

[@rosielabonne5739]

What a beautiful sermon. Thank you and God bless you for that.

[@mariajl9252]

Spoke right to my heart. Thank you Fr Nicholson. God bless you 🙏🏻

[@andreyaparecidosilva1374]

This Mass helps us all regain our strength.

[@sHORtstUfF46222]

Father! Amazing homily! It changed my perspective🤍

[@GuruRasaVonWerder]

This is SUPERB. Saved to my playlist. Was hoping he could ask that Bishop if he could be his chaplain.

[@TheSaintemplar64]

Wow! I'm just going to get started on this! Thank you Jesus for your priests. Amen.

[@njmsjf]

Wonderful to hear such an inspiring Catholic preacher. Your message is simple but powerful. God bless you in your mission.

[@yvettecaldwell4576]

WOW! So thankful I stumbled onto this. It was exactly what I needed to hear. I am going to do these exercises! Thank you, father and may God bless you!

[@marciaguerrero3663]

Thank you Fr. Relevant so much for me. May God preserve you.

[@billvinnette4535]

God's perfect timing! Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

[@catholicfemininity2126]

This priest seems so cool, chill, and warm.

[@KolokaiKalai]

Fr.Paul...This is the greatest sermon l have ever come across on forgiveness..Forgiveness is a very difficult thing...A need at this time..Thankyou...PTL.

[@pinay-dane-missioneri]

Wow… thanks God for our priests. Thanks Fr. Bill.

[@pam8sj0611]

Just... wow... I listened to this twice in a row today. So inspiring. Thank you, Father. It's nice to know even a holy priest is also just a human

[@maryjohnston-trainor9118]

Praying for a miracle for Brian and his 7 children and Father Pat for his Amen and Alleluia.

[@anitarushlow4022]

I'm watching this again. I am asking Jesus to forgive those I feel I cannot forgive. In Scripture, Jesus said, "I will contend with those who contend with you." I have been repeating this over and over and working on releasing my anger but am still stuck on whether or not I have actually forgiven them. This is so difficult since what they did amounts to murder and deep betrayal. I wonder if they are asking Jesus for forgiveness for their sins? If I assume Jesus forgives them of their evil deeds, who am I to withhold forgiveness? I have forgiven many for abusing me my entire life in every way possible. But this last situation has me struggling since it ended with the untimely and unexpected death of my dear father. My grief and anger have persisted for many months. I need to release this from my soul. I will continue to ask Jesus to forgive them. I know this is an old video, but any feedback to my situation would be appreciated. God bless all of us struggling in this way.

[@annestrada1724]

Meditate on Mary holding her deceased Son. She forgives us...

[@kamarbazarek6460]

I’m so VERY PROUD & THANKFUL - THAT I’M A PROUD CATHOLIC🙏💐🙏🇮🇹, THANKYOU FOR MY GRAMA & MOM - WHO NEVER GAVE UP AND ME.... “ My poor Guardian Angels - worked “double-time” watching & guiding me.....

[@kussmannjv]

Thank you Father Paul...i,m 61 years old and am finally feeling genuine grief for all the times I've been hurt(previously repressed and stayed angry)

[@EvanBear]

Thank you, father. This may be old but it has genuinely touched my heart.

[@Zanner1015]

This is a wonderful talk. Thank you.

[@sandravigliante6477]

I’m from st Patrick’s Catholic Church in Mackay Qld Australia 🇦🇺. This is so great to listen to this homily . God bless you father .

[@albafaria7107]

Absolutely true. Thanks be to God.

[@likelittleflower]

What a great homily full of sense of humor!

[@mohancharles3158]

Very interesting,thought provoking and inspiring sermon! Honest and straightforward! The irony of it for me is as a lay Catholic I too had a similar experience with a Catholic priest! I am not alone in it ,some others also agreed! He too is holding a senior position in church.----still....----God bless and protect us! Greetings from Colombo Sri Lanka with Christian Catholic love for all people of good WILL! Glory to God in the highest and peace to all!🙌😇🌹🌹🌹

[@mohancharles3158]

watched and listened to it again

[@Honeybee-z]

Thank you Father, Ive watched this one several times. It is wonderful. I wish you'd come back to public ministry.

[@patrickpala5642]

Such courage from you Father. Thank you so much

[@lenaparnell2417]

I’m not a catholic any more but, the title of this pastors talk was very intriguing so I watched & listened & he made a lot of sense. I got a lot out of it. Thank you Fr. Paul.

[@E.Peretica]

But if you are not practicing your faith anymore you are missing on the most important things of all: the Sacraments, especially confession and receiving the Holy Eucharist! ❤😭😭😭

[@bielsabas4407]

Thanking the Lord for your talk, Fr. Paul Nicholson

[@carrolpierre1819]

Many thanks Fr.God bless

[@toufa89]

This is a changing sermon, really.

[@TheFirstManticore]

Very insightful, and not oversimplified.

[@bongifrias3579]

Thank you Fr Paul I learned a lot from you the difference between forgiveness & reconciliation

[@barabbas57]

Amazing Sermon! - Enormous Courage...addressing the issue of Homosexuality...Child-Abuse...since they run the church.

[@E.Peretica]

The Church has been infiltrated by evil men. Pray for the Church. 😢

[@dimithriadimi7364]

Muito bom! Fico feliz de encontrar vídeos de sacerdotes tão sábios como este, Deus te abençoe e abençoe sua vocação!

[@darlenesnowdon1870]

Fabulous sermon on forgiveness

[@susannebrule3160]

Thank father for sucha wonderful story of your life so full of wisdom Father this is just what I need to hear. May God continue to bless you.

[@JacylnFord]

Thank You for this message.

[@mershane4022]

Wow! Wow! I'm in the process of trying to forgive my mother. Thank you for this.

[@pr2548]

Me too are you here from search?

[@mershane4022]

@@pr2548 No. I'm working with an EMDR therapist. It's really has been difficulted for me. To forgive my mom. What I have learned is I pray the Rosary everyday and give it to God. I am not there yet. But, I am at peace with what I an doing. Hope this helps.

[@pr2548]

@@mershane4022 thank you

[@reg8297]

Me too I'm finding it so so hard after consequences of child abuse lost everything

[@angelalalhmangaihsangi7821]

So sweet... God bless you abundantly dear Fr..

[@JP-tq9lx]

Wow, another one of God's Holy Servants! Nice to see and hear his message. May God bless you too Father and thank you for being a Priest.

[@bestill7698]

Oh thank the Mighty Lord that someone had the presence of mind to video this and give this to the world. Its a treasure. Luv you Fr. Paul and thank you so much. Preaching with a sense of humour, your own human-ess and testimony really opens up the hearts of all and such humility make people thirst for more spiritual food from such priests. Makes the listener feel peace and comfort from the humble glow of the priest's own human testimony and encourages one to grow in grace along with your fellow priest, like we are all in this together.

[@karenjaques3937]

Amen. Lord have Mercy on us. 🙏 🙏 🙏. In the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

[@annlysak3414]

Excellent explanation of forgiveness, thank you Fr. Paul. You are a wonderful speaker and able to deliver an very informative talk. God bless you.

[@michaeldsouza1092]

Rev fr Paulson thankyou for the message of forgiveness and how to forgive holy Spirit give us the grace to forgive God bless you amen

[@MaryKane-qv5vz]

My nexr Holy Hour will be for God's comfort for all those who have been severely hurt by others that they may surrender their lives to Jesus and "let go and let God". As Fr.says "Hire Jesus". Simple.