3 Dark psychology tricks to make someone obsessed with you 😍

[@harmoneypeters]

Doesn’t work on me distance teaches me how to live without you !

[@youwish9452]

exactly.

[@codshottagaming]

Factz

[@folakeabioye1193]

😊

[@omolevincentia3447]

Lies,it works on everyone

[@Tax_update2024]

You’ll work on the right predator, he just need to get the right victim

[@sbella6719]

The antidote to this toxicity: love and respect yourself enough that you're more afraid to lose yourself than someone else

[@HopefulTarnished]

Well said, self-respect comes first

[@user-mg5oe2zj6y]

Amen

[@topdon5961]

And this is why I hate dating rn, everyone wants to be manipulative

[@Lonewolfalchemist]

You gotta play the game back if you wanna succeed in your own dating life 😁

[@yamiyo6050]

This is and always will be female nature my friend

[@jeaicbreathnach1724]

Ikr it's sad

[@NathalyPolanco-ko9or]

Manipulation is actually an old and "normal" behaviour. We are all manipulators to a certain extent but some people manipulate for fun or to hurt others.

[@Keesgamer]

Yes!!

[@Chris777.]

They don’t fall for you,,, they just get obsessed,,,, Love is different!

[@timwhitten4179]

Or sleep with ur cousin a week after yall separate

[@jiyaissleeping]

Truueee

[@ranjanasharma297]

what is love please explain I am not being rude but I can't figure the difference 😭

[@silverkitty2503]

being in love and love are different... the first involves limerance and obsession

[@readerzozo410]

I think love usually is not about sex or physical attraction, it happens when you believe someone is worth your love and you appreciate the person. But i guess love don’t happen from the beginning, it needs time to build. what r ur thoughts about this?

[@sindng5343]

That sounds toxic 😅

[@timothee3783]

Lmaooo low-key

[@ruimtek9788]

Stockholm syndrome vibes

[@creamypiss2951]

it is, its manipulation

[@sinazotame2411]

Well guys take advantage of good girls so girls opt for this.

[@Prodigy300]

Very very

[@ashmeet_2617]

And that's how you end up with a *TOXIC RELATIONSHIP* my friend...

[@richardw3347]

Do things with genuine intentions. It works. Still have boundaries tho so your not a sucker either.

[@optimistic_guy313]

Exactly one day all these psychological drama will make the other person burst out and it may lead to breakup

[@East9211]

“Dark”

[@jacklan4103]

This is why it's called "DARK."

[@rm.p]

Yes! Thata the point, it is so HARD to escape from toxic relationship

[@debbiewatkins7488]

I do not want a man to need me. I want him to want me.

[@sassyashell305]

Gurl, what shit are you spitting??

[@makdrumz]

Same thing 😂

[@rachaelgibson2330]

AMEN sista!! 🎶" I want you to want me, I need you to need me, I love you to love me, I'm begging you to beg me!"🎶😊

[@roses6564]

They want you by needing you.

[@MeiMariie]

I need both, want me & need me

[@lindaaryani5795]

I’ve been treated like that before and no thank you, I will NOT go down to their level.

[@atrijadhar3442]

Aren't all the therapists trying to tell avoid this kind of partner 🤣🤣🤣

[@Sezfluffy]

Yes and don't know why this is paraded on KZbin

[@CraigCatapano]

Yes, but it works

[@roses6564]

@@Sezfluffy For those who need it.

[@Elonmuskateer]

No, Corey Wayne presses on this

[@pundoorasbox7485]

@@CraigCatapanoif it works then it’s not the kind of person I want to be with. It’s one thing to not come across as “thirsty” or “needy” and allowing so your bf won’t feel smothered when you’re dating because they’re just as busy as you are . Busy people= no time for stupid dating games

[@UnosHombreBlanco]

These are psychology tricks but they're also traits you would find in a controlling partner, so ya gotta watch out for it happening to you

[@agbokskester9708]

Technically in every relationship, being that women cannot be separated from M.

[@daiseysgirl]

True

[@darynagorska655]

​@@agbokskester9708 hahaha you won't believe it but some women can be distant and detached and men, too attached

[@apostateturtle1960]

This makes sense, this is pretty much how my mom got my dad to cut off his whole family and all his friends and now literally the ONLY thing he cares about is winning her affection. Although she did let him have a cat, so that was nice of her.

[@keke9670]

How has that affected your relationships? Do you think that's ok or do you try to be different

[@hakang1331]

ur father is a loser

[@fignewton8690]

You can most certainly desire something you already have! I’ve been married 17 years and still desire my beautiful wife! Thes psychology tricks might be what’s wrong with the world.

[@deuceman6707]

Bruh this is just a toxic relationship and it will just take you down the rabbit hole 🕳

[@cherryrosestar6050]

Yay I wanna go down the rabbit hole to wonderland lol 😊

[@khabir2869]

That's why it's called dark psychology. That's the point

[@ancconsultant8667]

Distance for me makes me miss at first you but then it also sets the tone to make me want to move on tbh . I am a women. So what I have learned from my 34 years of living is if someone is distant there just not that into you, and there is probably someone else in there life that they are talking to. So I keep it moving Don’t waste energy on people who are not even trying to make a effort. You deserve someone who will not make you wonder if your good enough! You are enough! If he’s playing distant game run !!!! Red flag

[@Amberguymerhosking]

Same here. Distance makes me Run away. 35 and not interested in stupid games. Xx

[@user-mg5oe2zj6y]

So true

[@yodaspank618]

Better tip: approach everyone new, be empty inside , have no wants from the other person. You will become a magnet to peoples hearts.

[@Jana140277]

That's only because they don't know that you are Empty like an empty bucket (nothing inside you... ) Nobody should fall for an empty person it will hurt, and create only a toxic and self destroying relationship... But, that will bumerang you one day too.. The karma is real.. Stop doing it to people..

[@WoozyCool]

Step 4. Once you've gotten them to the abandoned building, make sure you already have covered the floor, so as to make it easy to dispose their body later and to not leave blood marks behind.

[@doctorsneha__]

Difference between boundaries and Manipulation is right here , ty

[@alezy7645]

so basically you are saying ; 1. make them love you for what you arent. - when they will get close after distance, they will realise you were nothing more than a fantasy 2. to play hard to "keep" to make them anxious and fearfull - they will feel manipulated eventually and associate negative feelings with you 3. to gaslight and isolate them to make them dependent, playing with their vulnerability and their life - this is respectless and a shameful thing to do nobody will ever love you for that

[@franco7928]

That sums it up perfectly 🍾

[@naida6958]

Exactly it sounds like narcissistic abuse been through it

[@ughicanteven5896]

I agree with you for all but the last one. I don't see how it's playing with their vulnerability or anything. Plus it's important to have a special place in someone's life and make sure somebody is not getting say physical touch from someone other than their partner

[@rittickdatta1209]

You summed it up. Plus she has this crazy smile of a manipulator, drawing sadistic pleasure.

[@Noir0rioN]

You're wrong about #2, tbh. - attraction, strange as it seems, is in fact created through anxiety. through the fear of losing something (i.e. someOne - & this is just a factually accurate, observable truth about attraction-even in "healthy" relationships. (Which this short ISN'T espousing, granted. That said, again-attraction = fear of losing you. - do the research; I wish it weren't this way either, btw 😑

[@Phoenix_Rising000]

This should be titled: “How to become a narcissist and emotionally abuse people for your own selfish need to feel important, in control, & powerful.” OR “Signs your crush is using the tactics of a narcissist to manipulate you into becoming their human marionette toy”

[@Dani-lc9hq]

🎯🎯

[@Eveyrttt]

Spot on sister

[@AndyLiam]

#1 distance Yeah, and continue to create more distance long term bc that’s a whole lot of mind games. Keep it 💯

[@jacklan4103]

So be around them 24/7? Got it.

[@sk8_b0ard_l0ver]

Literally just be yourself. Don’t try to change for someone. If they don’t like you for who you are that sucks for them. Don’t try to make yourself uncomfortable just to get someone. It’s not worth it. Plus if you make them uncomfortable, they might not want to talk to you ever again. Just be who you are nothing more. If they want you to change, they aren’t worth it.

[@learnitnow6265]

I finally understand why someone thinks I did this to him...he thinks I wasn't in his words "authentic". He hardly ever communicated with me and would not respond to texts which is how we communicated. So I gave him space and was waiting on him, but he got upset and I didn't understand why and he pulled away. I felt he wanted me to chase him and although I showed interest and did everything possible nothing worked. But it feels like he's trying to make me believe it's my fault he went silent and ignores me when I did absolutely nothing to him.

[@leawas_here]

This is straight up manipulation. Yall lets do it differently this time and try to genuinely connect with someone, without the need to posses them. Manipulation wont bring you love babes, only toxic relationships

[@blinkzth]

It says dark psychology for a reason

[@atrsthesecond9479]

Manipulation is the best

[@leawas_here]

@@atrsthesecond9479 you obv need therapy if you honestly think that way

[@a2n0H]

“I have met someone in the meantime, but we may stay friends.”

[@Trollika_Devi]

This lady is telling people to be manipulative. That being said I'm currently being devalued and low key abused by someone I tried to connect with. I poured my heart out , was 'myself' and they assumed I was selling myself short. From being in awe of me they went to being condescending and snide. There's plenty of gaslighting when theyr confronted. Dumped their ass and now they're stalking me ,giving me prank calls , sharing my pics and info online. I didn't overshare or do anything that would make it seem like I'm easy game. They simply assumed that because I wouldn't put on a fake desirable facade which apparently is what they think self respecting people should do. Sometimes you can't win.

[@arabbithole5382]

This is true... Being 100% present in their need and thats why my friends don't care for me and my emotions at all!!

[@work204]

A person like me would be dumping a toxic manipulative depreciating liability like that after 1 date for a High Value, stable woman.

[@ItzLivvy]

Not me now realizing that I might have been manipulated and possibly not on purpose. He talked to me like a lotttt He stopped talking to me and ignored me He starts talking to me and flirting with me He stops talking to me Starts talking to me even more than before and being more flirty This kinda made me feel like I needed him more..

[@mreshadow]

I have a girl doing this to me rn and I'm losing my shit

[@avakin8884]

If everyone keeps doing this there will never be love in this world distance makes people forget about you eventually and let someone else hug you and touch you and kiss you especially someone that is more affectionate and is giving you the attention while you're so busy being distant

[@leish9203]

I just can't stop thanking you enough Dr OLUWASEUN or bringing back my lover to me..... really appreciate sir😇❤

[@leish9203]

He’s on Facebook…

[@JoeJoe-gg9uc]

Bot

[@chseylver4180]

This is a unhealthy game.

[@psychobaallll]

That's my problem. Im so clingy i don't shut up 😂

[@ahmadsarkinyaki]

Thank you Dr Oluwaseun for helping me resolve my love problem. I will never forget your favor for the rest of my life.😊

[@ahmadsarkinyaki]

He’s on Facebook….

[@nayshaprasad8318]

who tf is this kid and why is everyone commenting him

[@user-gs3bg4uv4s]

Do ya like him?​@@ahmadsarkinyaki

[@user-gs3bg4uv4s]

​@@ahmadsarkinyakibest of luck to obsessed him with ya

[@xejelah]

That's dependency - not obsession. You don't need to have any contact to have someone obsessed with you - that's an emotion that comes about because something is wrong with THEM.

[@thegranddukesupremacy756]

They certainly work very well, but mostly it ends badly, in my experience, it is not worth trying and less in a person that you are supposed to love.

[@Rose_ben]

I can't stop thanking you enough Dr OLUWASEUN for bringing back my lover you are the best❤

[@Rose_ben]

He’s on Facebook….

[@t.j.5574]

It’s great that women are teaching other women shit like this. Happy to turn dating not into something that’s authentic, but reduce it to a game of emotional and psychological warfare. Thanks lady.

[@vanessat7758]

She's saying it too everyone, not just women. Also, it's labeled "dark psychology" for a reason.The only problem with these tricks is that they can become excessive in the wrong person's hands. At the beginning, they work fine when you're trying to get someone to catch you. Once they have you, however, keeping them constantly on the edge will mess with their minds.

[@thespecialant8092]

This is a good advice to someone who wishes to become a narcissist!!! Lol

[@Dani-lc9hq]

Exactly!!! That's narcissistic games, they don't have real love to give so they need to create dependency to keep you hooked.

[@thespecialant8092]

@@Dani-lc9hq Absolutely!

[@reoij]

You just described the manipulation I was going through lmaooo I feel as though my ex partner watched this before fucking me up, but the most messed up thing is I think it was all just a game to feel power since they got hurt multiple times by their partners who also left them abruptly and they just wanted to feel the same power for once

[@Sanjoycrazycuts]

Only by watching people can't master the trick.. It takes time to learn and use properly. Fool yourself first then others. 🙂🙂🙂✌🏼

[@learnitnow6265]

Exactly same happened to me. I feel he deliberately set out to hurt me because of what someone else did to him. It devastated me.

[@hearty1240]

Something that triumphs all of this kind-of-toxic tricks, is that the both of you share the same spiritual and personal growth goals. That you both appreciate peace and straightforwardness, avoiding dramas. This is the only way a relationship can last in a genuine way, beyond getting old, being sick, and going through hardships.

[@jamesandrew62]

A lot of time put & distance reminds me how self reliant I am "as a man" while enjoying own peace of mind. Many men don't have to pretend to be strong & independent, they get so much they are bored of it & appreciate effection from time to time.

[@pratikmore1900]

After listening the background music, I'm feeling like -Aliens Attacking Earth- Bruh☠️💀

[@Kowrin1]

I mean I have been told a lot that space is healthy, not manipulative. For both partners. And if you get too comfortable in a relationship you can take each other for granted. That doesn't mean neglect the person you care about. Having boundaries and respecting them satisfies this quite a bit. The last one is where it gets questionable ig but if I'm honest I would leave a partner that got certain affection somewhere else

[@annali4066]

Sounds logical!!! Think about that LV bag that you desired for so long 😩. Finally, you purchase it, now you have what you obsessed about for so long, now, what's next? A Chanel!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jannkarylle1437]

This is the reason I hated my ex... The mind games

[@salvia1264]

His mind and heart were flooded with extraordinary light; all torment, all doubt, all anxieties were relieved at once, resolved in a kind of lofty calm, full of serene, harmonious joy and hope, full of understanding and the knowledge of the ultimate cause of things.

[@sandrarickovic8139]

Men always have more than one source of affection

[@vdl3984]

Most men have zero sources of affection. Idk what you are talking about

[@impotaetoe8171]

That distance shit works and I don't like it, because while I'm falling harder, I feel like they're falling out😫😫😫

[@karenhall8330]

It's like dating and being faithful being with one person you will both fall love 😍 this is old fashioned courting

[@positiveenergyhouse668]

Learn these toxic tricks to identify people who use them and push them out of your life.people who use mind tricks will never stop unless they have you obsessed.and thats not Love.

[@_Matilde96]

It you’re their only source- they’ll need you ? Ok if he’s a narcissist and you’re one of his supplies ?

[@malavikaraam]

Being the only source doesn't lie only in our hands .. it is about the other person whether they consider us as the only one 🙂

[@Sezfluffy]

Its the way you speak proudly of it. Manipulative behaviour causes untold damage to the recipient

[@Ragnar.W]

So being in a relationship is the first red flag for desire, you always want what you cannot have The second one is living together because their is no distance anymore and it gets boring over time The third one is marryage and having kids that’s completely committing to each other, that’s the ultimate attraction killer Zero to no sex most of the time, no personal space and time for yourself anymore, often stressful and frustrating So don’t get in a relationship

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

This is what people who haven't seen ANY healthy relationships or healthy marriages with kids. You need to get to know more people cuz it seems in your circle you only have people involved in unhealthy relationships

[@oceanhayes1649]

You can be everything he needs....he still won't just want you lol. And you can be everything he wants...but not able to give him everything he needs...and eventually he will get fed up.

[@tanyarawat9700]

Why do you say so

[@cheetahcat3940]

Yea.. Create distance and theyll ffind someone else to meet their needs. 1 and 3 don't go together.

[@s.k1127]

😢he used it on me. Thankyou so much, You save me. ❤ I need to absorb this. Now I think he didn't do good with me.

[@yl5020]

No, he did not do good with you Sweetie💔 It's time to heal❤

[@redish953]

3 dark psychology tricks to make anywomen obsessed with you 1-be handsome 2-be tall 3-be rich

[@lovesubliminalmanifest9851]

𝕔𝕝𝕖𝕧𝕖𝕣 𝕥𝕠𝕠

[@bushrag945]

I agree, this is my correction which makes many women like me attracted to the guy: 1- be handsome blonde with blue perfect eyes 3- yes! Lovingly, unconditionally, respectfully, and effortlessly *******provide her with the most luxurious and lavish lifestyle and enjoy seeing her happiness, comfort and peace and in the main cities and classiest areas she likes**** 4- be perfectly healthful, safe, loyal, and respectful and never have her abused or hurt 5- be from the classiest and Godliest blonde lineage with titles 🤴💍🍀✨ 6- be younger than 30 and propose 7-believe in God and be the classiest guy

[@abs0lutelyn0t.]

@@bushrag945 w h a t

[@AdityaSharma-xf6ig]

Very easy tricks🤡👍👍👍

[@matrixgaming3906]

​@@bushrag945 I don't believe in god anymore and I am not rich but I fit the remaining points 😅

[@Bearoo-V]

100 percent correct

[@Poulasamm]

Long distance gave lessons in relationships, when I was waiting to meet him after two months, but he became engaged with someone else....

[@khandakarshaffatakhter3844]

Love is not a feeling its a choice If you chase for someone then it's a feeling. If you do something without expecting anything in return it's unconditional love

[@arpitdoshi]

You exactly explained how relationship works..

[@pranavjadhav1083]

The other side. YOU NEED THEM SO MUCH THAT THEY NEEDING YOU IS SO IMPORTANT THAT YOU ARE READY TO MANIPULATE THEM. DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT MEANS ON YOUR PART. IT MEANS THAT YOU HAVE LOST YOUR FREE WILL TO CREATE YOUR OWN HAPPINESS AND CONTENTMENT. IF YOU ARE MANIPULATING SOMEONE, ITS YOU WHO'S BEING MANIPULATED BY THE DARKEST CORNERS OF YOUR PSYCHE THAT YOU ARE UNAWARE OF.

[@monkeytrumpet11]

I never read anything in all caps.

[@sorschawinter7125]

Truth

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Obsession is different with falling in love…People, please don’t take this advice! It’s manipulative and the outcome can be disappointing. They’ll have to get to know you at some point, you can’t just be the mysterious cool baddie forever. And once they see how manipulative and toxic you really are (or how you don’t fit their ideals/romanticized version of you), all that obsession will fade. Obsession is temporary, it leaves just as easy as it came. True love for someone, however, is unconditional and never-ending. ❤❤

[@rajadavid2064]

1. Distance, people fall in love through imagination 2. Create desire 3. Be the only source for their need

[@myhandleis9500]

three steps to act like a narcissist... if you gotta trick someone to be "into you" they still aren't into you...

[@hello.5720]

this is happening to me right now and it’s killing me

[@vitali-opal-and-gem]

Give them the gift of missing you. Your time is precious. Don't give it to someone who doesn't reciprocate

[@ketara1234od]

same it is really hurting me i wish i could have a courage to stop talking to him i know that he manipulating me but i just CAN'T LEAVE , i LOVE him so much but he treat me like trash

[@escapefr0mslender]

@@ketara1234od find someone else, or maybe something like a hobby or hell even a new friend to fill the void he's filling for you.

[@iopakayalo3459]

It's not entirely honest, genuine behavior. Narcs behave this way so run for yo life!

[@yl5020]

GET OUT

[@kryptoonstories7814]

That’s what I call toxic ✨ And they actually work or maybe I just obsess over people easily I’m a lil unhinged-

[@Nytyly]

Solid . Distance is a no in true love. You share a body

[@s.r9211]

Well your dark psychology got me. Now i got a crush on you 😑

[@ForemanFitness52]

The sarcasm is heavy in this comment, lol😂😂😂

[@Georgia.J]

@@ForemanFitness52 I think he's serious. Don't let your inner insell taint your perception.

[@electrodynamicorb6548]

So basically I’m a hard pass.

[@johnbascom4523]

She is spot on.

[@A.nasierkhan]

Thanks! This works perfect for my toxic relationships😊

[@GGtheArt1st]

This is one of the ways my cousin manipulated me he did it so well I almost actually fell in love with him but luckily I came to my senses beforehand lol Edit: I'm adopted so stop freaking out!!

[@juegosquagga9135]

I'm sorry...ur COUSIN??? u almost fell in love with ur COUSIN??? Sweet home Alabama ig

[@zazoomer_]

@@juegosquagga9135 HAHA

[@beesilovebees8541]

....your cousin??? 😥

[@GGtheArt1st]

If I get one more reply that says "your cousin" ima delete this coment

[@juegosquagga9135]

@@GGtheArt1st chill there are only 2, besides blame it on the other person she's the one who copied me

[@jessicadonati4414]

You shouldn't have to play games with someone, to receive the love and attention you need from them. The right person will want to spend quality time with you and will appreciate you for it. They will also appreciate the fact that you truly love them and make efforts.

[@user-jl4po8ye3y]

If they have someone else being needy wasn’t the issue to begin with to become distant.

[@keenah1111]

sounds fun and something to do with someone you feel lust for, not love. love isnt about games or manipulation

[@scillaperks7990]

I understand

[@malachi1516]

This is narcissistic, don't follow this advice. Instead have empathy, if someone doesn't want you, walk away because surely there will be a someone who will love you for who you are!

[@rajdeolohra1068]

Don't need obsessesion , need love

[@kilariinazuma8273]

Thank you for this, I know remember why I really hate it when people are obsessed with me and need me a bit too much. Just be yourself and live your life, let me live my own life, yall need to be warned that someone being obsessed with you could also very well be a curse, in the short term it gives you gratification, in the long term, it's way too much.

[@JuliannFlavin]

She's being 100% honest rn

[@paranoidmonkeymafia3946]

So it was all a game 😅🤣😂 I already new , I don't care , I got alot going on in my life , like trying to get some sleep 😴😴😴😴

[@marioalarcon5817]

😂 someone to shut her channel down it’s toxic and her advice is so questionable

[@blinkzth]

Ummm it says in the title dark psychology I hope you weren’t expecting good things

[@peanutbutter4978]

Distance is a two way street. I have experienced both scenarios where it created more romanticizing of the person but also taught me that I didn't need them at all.

[@lauanaautery6103]

I am this way naturally and she is right, my boyfriend is beyond obsessed with me.

[@rajeshukardepatil7549]

👌

[@amitdaswani6922]

I have met a lot of psychiatric patients during my lectures at high security prisons

[@jia7969]

This is so sad, I can never imagine someone doing this to me or me doing this to somebody :,( why not just be yourself and if that person is the right one, they'll love u no matter what?t

[@Historylover2007]

I am sure you also suffered from this, very valid points 🙌🙌

[@JS-ld2qd]

1) How can you manage distance and closeness at the same time in a relationship or when trying to get the relationship off the ground? 2) how can you manage that the other person is not getting something from someone else and that you are the only source?

[@marlasanchez9551]

Dominant thoughts and imagination create your reality. If you are feeling insecure that they might lose interest in you and your doing what you can to keep them interested, they will lose interest in you because you are coming from a place of lack and you will appear looking desperate. I learned this from watching manifestation videos. You have to focus on on what you want instead of what you don’t want.

[@babyhandgrenade4004]

He needs me in his life because I'm the only woman who makes him feel the way he does. He says that I make him feel good about himself and that no one else makes him feel the way I do. I'm going to share with you guys another little tip, make a man feel good about himself as much as you can. Pretty soon, he'll start to associate that feeling with you and he'll want to be around you all the time. You're welcome.

[@anushreekm8507]

distance often teaches us to love without them.. just let it go.. wait for the right one for you..

[@ananth227]

To those complaining these are toxic; she already mentioned these are dark psychological tricks so it's meant to be vile💁🏻‍♂️

[@amandabarnett6286]

She is right and psychology is matter of factly

[@user-tp8nu1zw3k]

The more time we spend together we will love each other more with respect ❤

[@HemantKumar-fq1fp]

Just be yourself. If they love your personality they will be with you. If not, good for both.

[@rsb7608]

I just put a nicotine patch at night on my woman. Then when she goes somewhere else, she thinks her withdrawal symptoms are from missing me

[@lc4972]

🤣🤣🤣

[@joon8136]

I am these three laws, and he's crazy about me. 😜

[@yusufxaka1915]

These classic examples are the manipulative reasons that distance doesn’t make me want her more,it teaches me how to live without her!

[@parvathy555]

The 3rd point especially, is toxic. You must let your best breathe grow their network. Also too much dependency on one person is troublesome for both.

[@shereent3121]

Yes number 3 is vital, it is why they're not going to show consistent interest if someone else is meeting their needs. You can go single for years, or you can continue the rebound relationships until you meet the right one, unless you settle for another wrong one. When you're on the rebound at least you're looking and your energy wasn't for nothing, because you're transferring it, no guilt if last person's energy is with someone else anyways, you fed their relationship to be stronger, so use their energy to make your next relationship stronger too, a bad relationship doesn't have to be a waste of time, transfer energy. You can take breaks, but don't give up, and save your lust energy for the right 1, if they're settling for someone that provides lust alone, their fire will burn out, don't be a part of that, you're a whole package, not some random entertainment.