16 Personalities on a Date with an INFJ

[@FrankJames]

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[@niluferismayilova7763]

Me, an INFJ, trying to register on a dating app for the first time in my life, looking at profiles, feeling lost, when I recieved a notification about 'other types on a date with INFJ' video of yours 😅😆 Thank you for lightening me up🙃 BTW the app makes you take a personality test, so the timing of the video is spot on

[@elenazam7507]

love ur vids smmm

[@solarisan_]

Do you celebrate Thanksgiving? I have just read that Canadians celebrate it in October (second Monday of October). I didn’t know that. Either way, this year was the first one with Buggy, right? How did he react? If you ever feel comfortable sharing some photos of his reactions (either here or Instagram) I would love to see the little Buggy one 🥳

[@faolan2174]

Next video idea: 16 Personalities on a Date with an INFJ... at the Same Time.

[@lathifarizqiandhary8927]

Hey Frank I've got an idea for your next video. How about 16 personalities playing werewolf. There's so many character in werewolf game, I wanna know what will they suit the werewolf game character, if 16 personalities play it. Must be fun to watch. But I don't know you ever make it or not. It will be interesting if you make it.

[@pitulanek]

Once, when my now husband (INTJ) and I (INFJ) were still dating, we were woken up by someone knocking on the door. It was a Saturday or Sunday morning, around 9-10 and we were both exhausted because we had come back from a party just a few hours before. What's more, the knocking was completely unexpected and a tad suspicioud because you generally needed to get through two intercom operated doors to be able to climb to my apartment and then finally knock. We stirred in the bed half-dead, listened and as I silently decided that we are just going to be uncivil and completely ignore the knocking, my now husband said "Let's be very still and quiet and then maybe they will just go away". I mean, that's precisely what I was going to do, but he said it out loud ;)

[@eggsnspam]

Whenever we have late night visitors, I (INTJ) tell my husband (ISFP) to take care of it. I tell him, there's no way they are MY visitors.

[@pitulanek]

@@eggsnspam Haha! What my husband (INTJ) does in such situations is to just go to sleep! He excuses himself very politely, tells everyone to have fun and he's out. But truth be told, most of our guests behave themselves ;)

[@Gilda3110]

INTJ and INFJ

[@icalotdonthide2646]

Infj married to an INTJ as well. 😂😂😂

[@Liat.]

Way to go complete off-topic 🤦

[@jurikuran333]

as an INFJ woman, I couldnt stop laughing 😂

[@firespawnie537]

What was your favorite type to date out of all these I wonder!

[@alllscination]

@@firespawnie537 Another INFJ woman here. Definitely the INFP, right? At least he is sweet. Even though it was definitely over the top and had the instant codependency alarm going off in my head.^^

[@bia5141]

me too that ESTP especially got to me

[@firespawnie537]

@@alllscination Oh i see thats nice. I m an ENFP guy and I like INFJ women , they re so cool.

[@BluemareLuna]

Same 🤣

[@irienerd8178]

As an INTJ, my family acts like they are put off by me saying "what everyone was thinking" at extended family functions like Thanksgiving, but they all secretly love it.

[@shelbywoo3229]

I think someone saying aloud what everyone else is thinking is quite handy and an efficient way of communicating. Someone being annoyed by it is dumb. 😂 I’m an ISTJ and my bff is an INTJ. She’s able to pull things out of me (I have a hard time saying how I feel) and I make her laugh (she’s more serious) while we go about our lives in a logical rational manner with zero drama. You keep saying all the things!

[@irienerd8178]

@@shelbywoo3229 I used to have a male friend who was an ISTJ and we were able to have the same type of relationship for the most part. Where it went sideways was the fact that we were kinda dating and it complicated things a bit lol, so we aren't close anymore. He always said he loved that he could say what he wanted to me or around me and knew I wouldn't be offended I would just laugh.

[@yates667]

We’re like chemotherapy. Nobody likes it, but it’s useful from time-to-time.

[@cc1k435]

​@yates667 Also toxic. And makes people lose their hair. 🤔

[@yates667]

I’ve never poisoned anybody, but I do make my wife and children pull their hair out sometimes.

[@audreyh8209]

Jokes aside, the ESTP interaction was soo true and reflective of INFJs personality

[@whateverr4363]

exaclty

[@gabagoba4331]

No, it's just a funny stereotype

[@FringePrincess]

yeahhhh, I felt so called out 💀

[@ginargentum]

yeah if ppl don't ask me then i just shut up until i realise and make a failed attempt at summing up my life

[@dontbelasagna5968]

Wait a min, im infj female, my male friend is estp, but i feel like i talk abt my self a lot 😂😂 maybe im comfortable with him..never been on a date with an estp tho.. but one thing we always have problems with is that i wanna talk abt life, abt dreams, abt soft life etc, living organically like that, more about things abt connecting emotionally.. he wants to talk abt hustle life all the time 🙄 one good thing abt him is his patience.. im quite avoidant when im annoyed and only want to confront him in chat cuz i can think before i send anything. he likes to talk abt our problems face to face which im learning to get use to, i was always nervous and changing topic when trying to discuss problems face to face 🥲

[@reabright7307]

As an INFJ woman dating an ENFP man, this is one of the reasons I love him. Whenever he catches me in my staring state, he always asks what I’m thinking. This leads to discussions of why I think that way and my opinions on things. In return I get to hear his opinions and why he thinks what he thinks. Only person who has ever cared about what’s going on inside my head and truly trying to understand me.

[@avril.227]

I’d love to meet an ENFP guy

[@nikitaacoral]

@@avril.227 as an ENFP woman all I seem to meet is ENFP men. I want an INFJ man!

[@NancyGaming64]

I do miss my ENFP man ... Stay healthy and together till the end, oky? :,)❤

[@bbjudyfit]

​@@avril.227i hope you find one. They are the best.

[@Darkrenheit]

Why all of the INFJs and ENFPs wanting each other

[@A.nony.Mouse2]

INFJ, and I'm dying laughing. Once, I dated a fellow INFJ, and the results were hilarious. We did not stay together. We were too much alike, but we still got a kick from sharing our tale. When you can read each other's minds, it gets old.

[@_DeadlyNightshade_]

When I found out I was INFJ, the first thought that came to my mind is that my soul mate is definitely someone same type as me which is INFJ, but people's opinions on INFJ-INFJ relationship are that it hinders any future personality development, and that it would get boring and draining when both people laugh together and cry together, because we are affected by each other.

[@princesserika9899]

I found a bestie who is an INFJ and we're still online besties up until now 😄😄

[@dragweb7725]

INFJ here too, i think indeed in INFJ-INFJ relationships you can be very close friend your totally at ease and confident with, but to live with it as a life partner it seems kinda difficult

[@RurijoDeijiRikorisu]

@@_DeadlyNightshade_ Depends. If you make your personality development completely dependant on your partner then yes, it's hard to grow from that relationship. But usually people still have friends out there and other persons they interact with who can give their opinion on your behaviour and challenge you so you can improve as a person. I think in the end it's up to yourself. What you value in a relationship. And if you can deal with the hard times where both of you are down.

[@vecchiosaggiowannabe1932]

I am in a INFJ-INFJ relationship since 2020 and it's very comfortable and happy. We are very similar in thoughts, but we have different behaviours and energies. When everything in the world is difficult and incomprehensible, it's not boring at all to have a caring partner who deeply understands you. Don't be afraid of this kind of pair, INFJs are not really that similar to each other. We are not the same person, but we are a team when the world seems too complex.

[@savanger953]

Watching an INFP saying his inner thoughts outloud was super relatable. However I have to mention that for me it happens only if I trust the person to a degree and I have to complete it on my own, so I can choose which parts of it I wanna show the other person.

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

With an INFJ, you feel safe from the first minute... So you could say things out loud 😅

[@tp3218]

But then an infp I’m dating said he has been reluctant to open up more because he felt being psychoanalysed by me (infj) all the time

[@alllscination]

@@tp3218 I as an INFJ heard that from a suspected INFP as well.^^ INFPs can become very distrustful with their tendency to feel misunderstood and judged and be very in their feels generally and conflicted between heart and head and fill in the gaps with their narrative according to what feels fitting to them and the strong moral codex they tend to live by... I do psychoanalize people but not to judge only to get a feeling for how I can show up and open up with them or work on the relationship.

[@isabelleskiss]

Then you have an idea what it's like to be an ENFP. As an ENFP, I tell my innermost thoughts to everyone sooner or later. Even people I don't trust.

[@Interestking]

@@alllscination You seem like a good person. -an INFP

[@xenopinquiauri]

I love how the INTJ and ENTJ are the same in the sense that they say what the INFJ either wanted to say or was thinking lmao.

[@kyurei4478]

We usually find both types very funny for saying what we think out loud.

[@albertojosesayago8421]

I really like how sassy this INFJ can be. When she actually took advantage of ENTJ asking for a better service, so she expressed the things she didn't like about her order (a thing she wouldn't do typically), and at the end she got desserts (better than what she meant).

[@totalfree8740]

A likely conclusion from another INFJ that cannot read faces

[@peekab0o]

I agree..I have an ENTJ friend who has helped me a lot with my low self-esteem and confidence. I learnt so much from her and I feel great when I am with her. We understand each other so well. She just read me and knows when I am uncomfortable in any scenario and takes care of things effortlessly. Sometimes she gets too judgmental about certain things but I know she never has bad intentions just wants to see the best in everything.

[@albertojosesayago8421]

@@peekab0o now I can't help but to think that that part of the sketch, probable happened in Frank's real life. Probably, with his wife, hehe.

[@Darkrenheit]

As an INFJ I can confirm that's how we got most of the things we want.

[@KattSyllek]

​@@Darkrenheitnot me 😂😂😂

[@sakura-kj5wn]

The infj and enfj suddenly getting silent by the end and saying bad match straightforwardly was so hilarious😂

[@acelnut]

I'm an infj with enfj

[@coveredandfree]

​@@acelnutCan I ask how it's going?

[@lolduck3445]

I am an ENFJ and the number of times I think of different scenarios to talk about people is insane, literally plotting out what conversations will engage people more that align with their interests😂😂

[@avril.227]

I would think this could be ideal 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@sakura-kj5wn]

@@acelnut oh then you can relate to the infj and enfj scene in the video. When I search in Google it say infp and enfj are a perfect match since infj and infp are both similar so both pair would be great. 😊

[@Dummy_1]

I love how frank has a way of highlighting the best and worst parts of every type that it makes us come to his videos to find comfort or feel better about our own type that in fact every single personality in the comedy sketch feels relatable

[@LibraryofAcousticMagic3240]

right I loved the ESTP despite not usually liking them all that much

[@kyurei4478]

I love that it's somehow an INFJ personality trait he pushes to next level.

[@bennyton2560]

the well-roundedness of an INFJ hehe

[@theyellowferret5125]

Don't let us INFPs scare you. Sure, we've already imagined the wedding before we've even managed to ask you out, but it's basically just a reflex. Like breathing. 😅

[@OzmaOfOzz]

I'd love to date a kind and loving INFP ❤

[@theyellowferret5125]

@@OzmaOfOzz Aww, what a lovely thing to say! 😀

[@owengreig1088]

Heck, I scare myself, mostly because I know I'll get too attached too fast.

[@TopZsi]

ive dated one and he was basically drowning me in his tears and all 🥴 mentally not a good time for me (and him)

[@Adhirakali0325]

Aww I wanna date a INFP now😂

[@maddie788]

As an INFJ, I can confirm this is how i basically feel interacting with each one of them on a daily basis. Guess we ARE chameleons, aren't we?

[@totalfree8740]

Sometimes a bit Charmeleon

[@andianderson3017]

As an ENFJ watching the outward effects of it all a bit more, I’d say chameleon is the wrong word. YOU don’t change. You just reflect back the people around you like a mirror. We do it too but we’re a bit better at building an outward persona and we have that whole being a touch judgey and organizing the humanity around us to the extend that we feel a bit more individual.

[@mehitablestorm8877]

I like to think of us as astoundingly flexible.

[@ModestClassyGirlie]

As an INFJ woman…After watching this great video, I realized that I had literally already gone through all of these possible scenarios before in my head.

[@alllscination]

Yep, same. :D

[@ChloeGrace-4ever]

True!!!!! 🤣

[@Levntna]

Hahahaha same!

[@SteveCobsStepOnMe]

Sameee😭😭😭

[@KB-xp8bs]

INFJ here. I married the ESTP. 25 years in! I ran and he chased… finally I gave in. 😂

[@Arandomperson-ec1xq]

What is it like to be with the opposite type ? just curious

[@KB-xp8bs]

Challenging, but rewarding. I think it requires extra communication. But, because we bring opposite strengths to the table we are both valued and appreciated more at times then we might be with another type. I rely on his strength and “doing” when I am low energy,, and he recognizes and appreciates my relationa/emotional savvy. It’s a great blend as long as we take the time to understand each other. We look to God’s word for wisdom and guidance about relating well to others and we practice praying together. That helps tremendously. He’s my strong Marine and I’m his contemplative songbird. It works.

[@mussharatnaaz1325]

​@@KB-xp8bsThat's so sweet 💖. I'm curious about estp but I never met one.

[@gailmorgan2556]

I've attracted them all my life, my high school sweetheart was 1. It lasted 6 years then the NF vs ST was just not working. Had another estp boyfriend 10 years later after almost marrying ISFJ. It still didnt work, lasted 4 months same issue he wss ESTP. They seem to like INFJ but the only thinking type I Can tolerate is ENTP

[@四方八方]

0:01 ISTP 0:10 ESTJ 0:23 INTJ 0:38 ISTJ 0:55 ENFP 1:15 ENTP 1:31 INTP 1:44 ENTJ 2:00 ISFJ 2:17 ISFP 2:42 INFP 3:00 ESFJ 3:20 ENFJ 3:37 ESFP 3:59 INFJ 4:16 ESTP

[@EyeHeartSUSHI]

you are the best type of person. I recently learned I'm actually istp a.. thought I was infj a for a long time.. they are way more patient than me. so I say thank you for this

[@klexddr774]

Yes!

[@sams_enfp]

The INTPs are AMONGUS

[@evilmastar]

Aww aren't you the sweet one :) INFJ here what type are you?

[@whatsup5355]

I blocked an infj ​@@evilmastar

[@sun.369]

As an INFJ who is married to an INTP, I cracked up at their interaction. One of the reasons I’m so attracted to him is because I can never predict what he’s going to say! (and I love talking about all things aliens) 😂

[@Rinsuki]

I'm dating an intp and she finds my responses funny because they usually are unexpected ones.

[@hengi333]

I need to find myself an INTP. The moment he started talking about aliens I was in love. 🤭

[@jamiehackney5619]

I’m married to an “ENTP” (he acts more like an INTP with me) and he does say the most random garbage all the time 😂 sometimes WHILE I’m trying to be all emotional and serious 😂😂

[@mirasolsumagang6166]

This is also the reason why I love INTPs 😅

[@finafarhana19]

wow that's so cool, intp female here

[@signalfire15]

As an INTJ, I can confirm that 90% of my interaction with other people is just saying out loud what both I and everyone else around me is actually thinking. And then sitting there in confused silence wondering why everyone is laughing…

[@MelodySmith07]

aha! same me too, looks like we(INTJs) are not that much of a mystery jk! everyone around me also told me that I usually say what the people are thinking but are hesitant to say it and I be like loud & clueless fire throwing mouth and everyone be taking sigh of relief and smirking and smiling on me.

[@floralfancy7814]

The INFJ girlfriend seems so nice, also ENTP sounded like he wanted to pair up with INFJ to become the ultimate power couple, that was pretty cute actually.

[@MoralGovernment]

I'm an ENTP. My best friends and most of my exes were INFJs but I married an ENFP instead. We interrupt each-other constantly, we we need to hire someone to do the chores, but at least we understand each other. I don't have to read his mind and guess his feelings.

[@アシキン]

​@@MoralGovernmentAs an ENTP with an INFJ ex, I do relate so much. Now is meeting an INTJ, I think I'm giving up. I'm not a social butterfly, but I need someone with the same level of energy as me to go through daily lives feeling I'm not being ghosted and need to wait or mind guessing all the time. At the very least, I need someone that can talk with me in a constant basis. Not just once in every blue moon.

[@MoralGovernment]

@@アシキン Yeah, I'm sure it's gotten worse in recent years. I got married before those swiping dating apps came out.

[@affinity266]

I love the dates with ESTJ, ENFP, ENTJ and ESFJ in this sketch. ENTJ over reaction was hilarious "what is happening in that kitchen?" 😂 well, they think it's all potatoes 😂

[@jimclayson]

No one with any sense wants to get drive-thru food when an ENTJ is ordering. You just KNOW there's a little something EXTRA on the burgers as a "thank you" from the staff...

[@KatherineMagistri-cc2de]

I’m an INFJ and am Married to an EntJ and yes over reaction is common. Haha but I love how protective and respectful and how they make sure you’re being treated right they are. I love being married. 13years.

[@madisonaubrey6076]

This is pretty accurate. I (INFJ) met my (ENTP) boyfriend at a holiday party. He mentioned how he thought my calm demeanor was so powerful that he felt envious of it! 😂 He immediately began wooing me, and we quickly began dating. 6 years later, and we are still the power couple he envisioned. I have no idea how he saw that, but I love his big ol’ brain.

[@roxana7230]

I love the Entp and Infj couple "with My brain and your looks we could do some damage"😂❤

[@diyalectic52]

That INTP/INFJ date is so true 😊 After the INFJ gets comfy with you, they become the ones talking about obscure topics with an excited or intense look in their eyes.

[@jackieschesnuk6669]

Even with a creativity block, he still knocks it out of the park. Well done, good sir. Well done.

[@mflow6485]

As I watched him nail every single mbti type, having written it and acted it,, even dressing the part, I found myself thinking "How could this man think he is creatively blocked?" I think he underestimates the magnitude of what he has created--it is truly astonishing, it is so so good. But perhaps it's hard to follow something so amazing with something new.

[@wehcd]

"Tell me a little bit about yourself" is the WORST QUESTION you could ask an INFJ

[@A.2.0.2.4-5]

Currently interviewing for jobs.

[@sushi-shi-shi-shi-shi]

​@@A.2.0.2.4-5 oh my god what a nightmare

[@marinanosova9787]

ENTJ:Screams at the waiter. INFJ: *Feels horrible* ENTJ: We are getting a free dessert out of this. INFJ: Oh, that's good. INFJ's brain: Maybe we should try this more often...

[@suburbohemian]

Lol, FJ is INFJ and his wife is ENTJ... ;)

[@arrynliu337]

That interaction was basically my parents in a nutshell (INFJ mom and ENTJ dad) lmao

[@zlumi428]

Hehe🤭😋🍦

[@Elle10033]

This is me and my INFJ to a T lol. Just tell them what the problem is omg 😂

[@Nerdy-By-Nature]

I'll be honest ... I didn't marry my husband for the free desserts, and occasional free steaks, but they're an awesome fringe benefit.

[@prachiroy3871]

I went on a date with an isfj and he kept asking me " are you okay" i was starring him the whole time and after that date he told me he felt like i was reading his soul and it made him little uncomfortable...but in reality i was actually thinking ...okay not thinking i was getting anxious about "what should i order" 😂

[@plantwizard666]

As an INTP with many INFJ friends... so true. Love that they go along with the unpredictable things I say

[@isegard2957]

for real. I talk about the concept of how teleportation work and how we can make one and my INFJ just sit there for hours poking holes in mytheory so we both can cimprove on that idea. It was fun and tbh most ppl are not that patience with us INTPs

[@isegard2957]

@@otterinaballgown3703 Sorry if I sound hard to understand I'm not english native but my bf is. So I start with telling him how it's easier to fast transport something small and not heavy in a long distance than something big and heavy. What if we first create a machine that can break down any item or living being into small molecules and can rebuild back to original form afterward. If we can make that machine we can build a teleporter on top of that to transfert those molecule to point A to B and then rebuild to original form which make the transport nearly instantly ? He then tell me are you sure it's safe ? Do you think living being will still alive after the transport and hope do you make sure nothing is lost during the transfert from point A to B. Even if everything is intact and you are alive how do you know if it's still you ? Will your memories be altered or not ? I agree with his point and we end up spread out more on the idea which is too long to write everything here but we end up agree that currently our technology is nowhere near that level where that kind of machine can be created and it may be too unsafe to be use so it should remain a fiction for now until the future figure out the way.

[@TamarMebonia]

INFP started so sweet and innocent and then the tiny red flag grows right out of his head 😅 Also, to add to INTJ's movie idea, it gives you a default conversation topic if you can't think of anything. That's a big plus!

[@Haise-san]

Planning about her becoming his future wife or just the impulsiveness in general?

[@ellier2018]

am loving how ESTP directly calls out exactly how the infj works literally on the first date 😂 they voice all my thoughts about the infj I’m too scared to say lol -ENFP

[@aestaetic07]

the INFP one is TOO FUNNY 🤣

[@INTP_Apologist]

As an INTP, I relate to the INTJ and ISTP, as well as the INTP, but instead of aliens, it would be another one of my interests, specifically MBTI.

[@elizabethkenobi1365]

Same! I talk more about daily life stuff, psychology and society, not theoretical possibilities.

[@INTP_Apologist]

@@elizabethkenobi1365 Exactly. I only use theoretical possibilities with few. I don’t not use them, but it’s not the main thing that I talk about.

[@jimclayson]

Besides, we all know the Drake equation, using current approximations, indicates there's (statistically) no intelligent life (with the possible exception of humans) within the galaxy cluster containing the Milky Way. There are dozens of more interesting topics... not that I'm likely to suggest one. There are only a few possible outcomes. 1) I mention a topic which reeks of "nerd culture" and am forever after looked at as "other." 2) I mention a topic about which the other party THINKS they know something, and I have to politely entertain their attempts at communicating their poorly formulated notions. 3) I mention a topic the other party finds interesting and find myself having to teach a beginner's course, which again tends to tag me with the "other" label. 4) There's a TINY chance I manage to bring up a topic in which we both have some shared interest and knowledge and we're able to have an enjoyable conversation. 5) I just shut up and let them talk about whatever interests them and hope for the best.

[@louisejoel]

Ahh yes, I had a complete stranger believing I was psychic

[@BodaciousBovine]

@@jimclayson Since when does "nerd culture" make you the "other"? Like damn... that reads like an intense persecution complex LOL. Some people like nerd stuff, others don't. It's the same as literally any other topic of interest. Also things classified as "nerdy" are so incredibly broad and varied in scope that there's bound to be some aspects of nerd culture that resonate while others don't with a lot of people. Not only that but your other points are so condescending and rude that the only reason anyone would classify as "other" would be because your acting like an a-hole to them. You can talk about your interests with other people and not be awful about it, but I don't think you've learned how to do that yet. You want to think of yourself as smart so badly that you immediately write off the person you're talking to as having nothing valuable to offer, which leads to close minded ignorance because you're unwilling to learn from other people. Even if your interests are different from the other person's, that just means you can both learn from each other. Like human beings do. From what you've written here, the last option of shutting up might be your best bet, at least until you're capable of seeing other people as people.

[@mctdones]

Frank, I gotta say, you acting as a girl here: so good and keeps getting better each video. The subtle movements and expressions. You didn't act too feminine, like some guys tend to as acting like a girl. As a girl and an observer of people in general, I appreciate that so much. Really, each scene played out like you're 2 different individuals!

[@artariaria9054]

Yes! I agree with you. I was so shocked at his acting skills in this vid! Very natural

[@SharonPorts]

INFJ here, recently started dating an INFP. As we are getting to know each other, he told me that he’s always had to watch what he said. You portrayed him pretty well. I swear that’s the conversation he had in his head with me.

[@Rebecapg44]

My brother is an ENTJ and he does EXACTLY what the ENTJ in the video did. It’s so embarrassing sometimes because he will even stand up and go to the kitchen to ask things like “what is going on in this kitchen?? I asked for an appetizer 30 minutes ago. Do you want me to make it for you or what?” I always have to pray that he doesn’t find anything “wrong” with things whenever we go out. Good thing is, he is REALLY GOOD at solving problems. I mean, he and my dad are the only ones who will speak up whenever their order is wrong, which all of the introverts in my family are thankful for but sometimes they do need to chill out😭😭

[@Aashka_The_Mystic]

Lol, I would shrivel up under the table 😅

[@MelodySmith07]

Nah as an INTJ, I really like their straight forward way to go and talk, we all are introverts in my family INTJ(me), ISFP(mom), ISFJ(dad) and ISTP (lil. bro) and whenever there's any situations like this come up, it's most of the time me and some times my brother need do it. My mom and father are ambiverts but peace loving people they usually avoid confrontation ( oh! except shopping and bargaining than my mom's Te gets activated like ENTJs ). As an INTJ girl, I really like ENTJs character in FJ's videos. Among all these type of videos of frank james, I usually end up respecting ENTJ, ISTJ ,ISTP and INTP for how straight forward and efficient they are.

[@darkspice6339]

As an INTJ female, I adore ENTJ's. People really need to be efficient and attentive to customer's concerns. Getting the order wrong or taking 2 hours in the kitchen is a recipe for low profits and bad publicity. They need to value our time and money.

[@chrish564]

As somebody who has worked in restaurants that is a horrifying Karen nightmare!

[@kssgpv]

@@chrish564 stop using the word karen to insult males and females, like only women are annoying and they should shut up. Sexists.

[@nikkip.Christ-is-King]

My husband and I are both introverts. We hangout by ourselves in the same room. It's great and he doesn't make me go out in the world. That's also great. We're happy.

[@morghan_]

As an INFJ I'm pretty sure I've been on most of these dates but the last one left me feeling SO called out 😂 You mean guys don't want me to just reflect whatever I sense they're looking for?! 😅

[@SS-bu8ez]

No just be you

[@MsJoanis98]

Right?! you've gotta give me some time to accidentally lower my guard down before I share anything 😅

[@SS-bu8ez]

@@MsJoanis98 Those accidents don't happen ever 😅

[@MsJoanis98]

@@SS-bu8ez 😉

[@kimakiniifriends]

@@SS-bu8ezBut who am I really?

[@RobertMatlock]

As an INTJ engaged to an INFJ.... this was too accurate lol

[@namez2a]

Was your first date a movie?

[@AK_golden_rose]

@@namez2a I'm an INFJ dating an INTJ and our first date was actually a restaurant

[@namez2a]

@AK-gp1np I dated and INTJ once and that was our first date too. I like that it is proper...as long as you know your not looking to run

[@AK_golden_rose]

@@namez2a Yup, I definitely agree

[@DontMindMeWhoops]

The ESTP date seems to be the most normal/best date for the INFJ to be with 😅

[@masteriko1369]

As an estp, I strongly agree haha.

[@tiantian6956]

I genuinely loved the ESTP date, too

[@blazenra08]

ESTP is the best date irl. Me approved.

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

I had a crush on INFJ... I'm INFP (both girls)... Things I've impulsively said: - "you look amazing" -multiple times- (she blushed and remained silent while I was dying inside) -"can I kiss you?" -I love you so much" And a lot more. Turns out she doesn't feel the same, but I still LOVE LOVE LOVE her so much!!!!! She's my friend and the most beautiful person I've ever met ❤

[@lovisasellman5005]

That's so sweet of you 🥰

[@dreammore1589]

As an INFJ, dating an ISFJ I can say that he is too kind for his own good. He somehow resents people but still cares a lot about everyone and thats what I like about him too

[@StephanieJeanne]

Hilarious sketch, Frank! They were all funny, but I really liked how she needed extra allotted time for having a meltdown about the parking problem. The ENTP wanting to combine his brains and her looks to do some damage was a crack-up! INFP...😂 Loved the piano music, too! LOL🙌😂

[@lauravintson7753]

Seems like the INFJ/ENTP match might be promising on the surface 😂

[@vcasxsnk]

This is the most millennial reply ever and I love it

[@ALynch-jl2mg]

As an ENTP who's constantly falling for INFJs, I wish I could give this video at least a thousand likes. Amazingly accurate, almost based on the exact dialogues I had in the past.

[@zoeorchid]

[@frostyhannah]

As a INFJ who has never been on a date, this is hilarious. Also, if I met a INFP like the one in this video, I would so fall in love. Just, INFPs in general are so ardorable even if they do have deeper and darker stuff going on underneath. lol

[@indianlaozu]

That explains why i always end up with some INTJ at the end of the day 😂

[@Aashka_The_Mystic]

I like ENTPs because they are funny and like our quirks. And I like ENTJs because they stick up for us when we are terrible at doing that for ourselves because we want harmony so bad.

[@Ali-Oli09]

As an INFJ, I would vote for INTP (1:30). I would love to talk about all my conspiracy theories to someone who understands.

[@tarawilber8501]

That opening convo was my ideal lol.

[@pinkymermaid9967]

Same here

[@chwakrine]

INFJ on a date is like that one character on a sitcom that's really reserved with smart wit but a bit strange in some kind of way

[@lorelittrell]

As an INFP I thought all people imagined their dates as their future husband or wife. 😅 I love INFJ 🥺

[@tamarah2085]

As an INFJ married to an ISTJ, this is accurate! My ISTJ husband ALWAYS looks up the menu and decides what he's getting before we get to the restaurant.

[@serena6276]

As an INFJ woman who's engaged to an INFP I found that really sweet!

[@suburbohemian]

Once again, INTJ is spot on! Loved it!

[@sheilajstorms]

I’m an INFJ woman who found herself late in life on a date with an INFP. Reader, I married him. 😂❤😂

[@Aashka_The_Mystic]

I recognize that "future wife", no, gah!! 🤣

[@pitulanek]

Aaaaaw!

[@duskiibuni]

@@pitulanek Hiii, I'm an INFP too! :D

[@sheilajstorms]

@@pitulanek My best friend is also INFP, so I’d already been trained. LOL

[@mrsinfjudith]

Oh, I love Jane Eyre 😄

[@amampathak]

Frank that was so hilarious! OMG that INFP part hits so REAL man!!

[@kimm.8800]

This was good. ENFJ-INFJ spot on! We are too similar in the wrong way to work, haha. But the ENTJ really seemed to work out well!=D

[@nevilgeorge9472]

Strange, I'm with an enfj but yet we seem to work 🤔

[@ClellBiggs]

Love the INFP honesty. Always know what you're getting.

[@NESherv]

And nobody wants it! (Source: INFP)

[@Narmarinka]

I’m INFJ and one time I was talking with the therapist, and she told me ”Tell me something about yourself”, and I was like ”Oh…okay..uuuummm…….I guess I’m friendly?…or…I don’t know…” (my english might be bad)

[@AnaWaterkemper]

I'm INTJ and I have a really hard time talking about myself too. I'll be way more focused in mentally judging her. (No therapist last long)

[@mflow6485]

I cannot withstand the scrutiny of an INTJ. If I spend any amount of time with my INTJ sister, I'm just a tiny pile of ash. -INFJ

[@nadaibrahim8489]

I feel the title should be more like "16 weirdos dating INFJ" instead 😂 But seriously, I like it. I hope we get a whole series out of this. 😁 - ISFP

[@jiminycricket6428]

I agree..pfff weirdos, that INTP is nothing like me....erm... - An INTP of planet Earth

[@nadaibrahim8489]

@@jiminycricket6428 For real 😂 We are basically angels in real life 😇

[@doriag6605]

INFJ woman married to an INTJ and this skit reminded me why I fell for my husband- straight to the point and efficient. My mind is alway on and he grounds me with logic and the most profitable outcome. He tells me all the time to stop overthinking it all and just take the most logical answer, or we will waste time! That's my kind of flirting! Bring me back to Earth and away from my alternate realities. ❤❤❤❤

[@casperharper2126]

Wow! And here I’ve been wondering how each and every other personality would react to having an INFJ as a date, and you did not disappoint! My smile couldn’t fade away due to anticipating every personalities next move, but seeing how serious “we”( INFJ’s) are in our own mind and thoughts, it would make sense why we are seen as intimidating. But GREAT JOB on the video FJ and Stay Positive while you’re at it! (Sincerely, an INFJ-T fan.)

[@BombshElle_7]

INFJ can live like a king/queen with an ENTJ significant other. I would take FULL advantage of their bossy nature!--INTJ

[@gailmorgan2556]

Oh god ENTJ are the worst. Next worst is ESTJ then ISTJ . Horrible confrontational dominating people!

[@BombshElle_7]

@gailmorgan2556 They can be bossy and stubbornly traditional. But the INFJ would be able to see that and get around it. They're very good at studying people and can play a Jedi mind trick on almost anyone. xSTJs are a cake walk

[@Ktrainsfootball]

Please make INFP and INTJ versions of this! This was amazing!❤

[@TaraTara-ld2xb]

The ENTP one was spot-on. I'm INFJ and my husband was ENTP and he would say crazy stuff like that all the time!

[@namez2a]

Getting to know an ENTP as an INFJ is just them trying to recruit us as accomplices.

[@CaptBrightside89]

INTJ here - I dated a ton in my 20s, and did the LTR thing once. After years of post-break up analysis, I've determined... never again. Turns out I've never felt lonely and romantic companionship is surplus to requirement. I felt so liberated when I came to that realisation. Thankfully I have a great family, bio and chosen, so I don't lack connection with others. Aromantics for the win! 🥳

[@liam78587]

u had to test it out? lol I simulated that in my mind and came to the conclusion I'm aromantic I just can't see myself with anyone for more than a month that would be hell for me i can't even have pets for long but unfortunately i have a human brain and it wants connection and I'm in trouble

[@CaptBrightside89]

​@@liam78587 hmmm... why not with pets? I got a cat and thought about rehoming her almost constantly until the lockdowns started. Then we bonded and thoughts of rehoming stopped. Unfortunately she passed away too young and I'm in absolutely no rush to adopt another. But it may be worth considering for you if you're looking for some kind of companionship?

[@liam78587]

@@CaptBrightside89 maybe i'll try again but I'm in no rush either

[@CaptBrightside89]

@@liam78587 Yeah definitely not something to rush into. It's a big commitment. No matter what you decide, I hope you find happiness and contentment 😃

[@amooosasaki2299]

That was the realest ESTP interaction I've seen by a long mile. That's basically how I have conversations with people that I'm trying to befriend or know more about. Great job Mr.James.

[@iKeto_gal]

as an INFJ, the parking mentality is real. But I could be extreme to where I'm estimating time with how many stop lights, how busy the parking situation might be in the area at that time of day and calculating those minutes as well lol

[@FatimaAftab-o7c]

The chemistry between ENTJ and INFJ was 🔥🔥

[@renevanderwesthuizen1520]

Hahaha - as an INFJ, I always feel that fire with ENTJs.

[@pinkymermaid9967]

King and queen energy ❤

[@WolfFiddlerguy6285]

Wow frank just opened a can to a whole new series!!! I'm all for it!!! Also as an INTP who talks to a lot of INFJs this was pretty accurate... We always start our conversation with odd topics no else would talk about xD

[@talesoftheneverendingsagas36]

As an INFJ dating an INFJ that was pretty funny! My 1st date with him started at like 2pm and didn't end till close to like 10/11pm. We were both awkward and stumbling about how to interact with each other initially, yet we stayed out talking to each other. Extended the initial park date to a boba tea shop across town, to then talking and procrastinating getting into our separate cars to leave even though it was cold and neither of us had jackets! And the next like 3 following dates were probably just as awkward and cringe-y but yet also so refreshing... Eventually we figured out a groove, found out we are both INFJ and it made sense why we both were waiting for the other to take lead, so we mutually agreed we'd just voice what we want to do/talk about vs waiting for someone to initiate it since we both were actually already thinking the same stuff (like wanting to hold hands or be official, or go somewhere that we thought the other might not like yet we were on the same page/pacing for everything once we said it out loud)... Needless to say I'm still with my INFJ man :)

[@DogOnAKeyboard]

This sounds too cute x) also BOBA yum

[@talesoftheneverendingsagas36]

@DogOnAKeyboard Yes! Though due to health stuff I can't really have boba much anymore T.T But I can at least steal a tiny sip of it when he buys any

[@DogOnAKeyboard]

@@talesoftheneverendingsagas36 aw no, is it the sugar? I always get like 50% or below sweetness lol. That's still fun though ^^

[@talesoftheneverendingsagas36]

@DogOnAKeyboard Not sure if it is that or if maybe it's an issue with the boba pearls or something else like maybe the flavor syrups. Not lactose intolerant though as I tested that before

[@svclana4ever]

This is why I got myself an ENTJ as my boyfriend 😁❤️

[@HLA-vh5of]

Is he that loud? 😂

[@svclana4ever]

@@HLA-vh5of He's one shouty boi 😂

[@MelodySmith07]

@@svclana4ever Congratulations🥳 for having someone to stand up firmly by your side yay u go lucky one.

[@svclana4ever]

@@MelodySmith07 Thank you!! I'm so glad to have someone who doesn't mind doing the stuff for me that I'm not comfortable doing :')

[@LittleBallOfGiggles]

This is genius!! I love how you ended it with the opposite type. We need one of these for all of them!

[@kellyhjelmeland6503]

Suggestion: You should do “16 personalities on their dream vacation”

[@tabithamcintyre4570]

I literally spend 10 minutes minimum looking at the menu and end up getting chicken tenders 😂 Also - I'd love to see more INFJ/ESTP interactions! Just a little fyi from a random stranger 😄 Thanks for the videos FJ!

[@masteriko1369]

yeah same

[@mydailyangel]

I JUST cannot do dating. This clip is a GREAT explanantion of WHY, as an INFJ 🤣 (And PS-I ALWAYS give myself an extra 30 minutes-to get lost, to find my way, and to have a meltdown about how I got lost. Yep!)

[@klarakurara]

That's excellent. After this I've started thinking about finding ENTJ for real, never been interested before, but after this sketch.. my god... I had all these kinds of interactions with my friends! So accurate!

[@g0neg1rlg0ne]

As an INFJ you saw right through me with the last one damn 😂😂😂

[@alllscination]

I felt called out by that one, too! Me as a teenager and young adult, but I have been working on that for a few years now.

[@g0neg1rlg0ne]

@@alllscination same here, we tend to not know we're even doing it.

[@alllscination]

@@g0neg1rlg0ne I don't know if that is quite true for me. I used to hold back a lot out of fear of seeming abnormal and being judged and rejected. And I think I could feel my shame and fear to some extent and it felt like a holding back sometimes, so I knew to some extent that something was off about my behaviour but I didn't unterstand what it was and its consequences. I was not holding back in a way of actively trying to manipulate another to be able to fit into their picture. I think it is manipulative to not actively show oneself and be honest and open with what we need and who we are, but not all manipulation is intentional. A lot of the time it is just the only way someone knows how to get their needs met. Its the difference between an unknown unknown and a known unknown. My family of origin is pretty chaotic and unhealthy, so I knew I must have picked some of that up along the way.

[@coconoir6187]

Frank, glad to see an INFJ video! It used to be all INFJ stuff back in those days! Is your ENTJ portrayal based on your experience, your wife?

[@upirosna]

ENTJ was spot on! I remember being such a people pleasure and he was always there defending my rights out loud 😂 With INTJ the date would be like an educational/philosophical podcast or seminar we go deep right away! I always love ENFPs. Always fun but deep with them. We’re like two hippie aliens in the middle of human invasion when we talk somewhere out. 😅

[@NightCloudI]

As an INFJ that's exactly like I order the food. I'm searching through the menu to see if i can find something I would like to try, but usually end up getting everything as always. 😅

[@shannon1242]

Nailed it! My second date with my INFP husband had him casually dropping having 2 kids together and our current arguments are about me taking what he says at face value.

[@An19941]

As an INFP, I feel called out. Told my now-BF on date 3 that I loved him (and I restrained myself since i wanted to do so on date 2 but knew it was too soon 😬). I surprised myself because I usually don't dare share my inner most feelings but I just had to get it out. Sharing our traumas on date 1 and chatting online for 1,5 month before we went on our first probably helped a lot and made me feel safe with him. He's also my 1st and hopefully last BF. He's ENTP/J and would definitely make a fuss as I would definitely refuse to say anything about a wrong order

[@K-Mariposa]

I’m INFJ and every one of these scenarios is precisely why I’m currently single 😂. Awesome video as usual. Your creativity and insight are incredible.

[@fishnewt1331]

This was great. Depending on what they are looking for, a lot of these could be options, even if the INFJ still stars around a bit before calling back. My personal view of these dates as an INFJ if I were in their place: ISTP- The INFJ (and thus me) literally does what they do. There will be anxiety of appearing not like a weirdo on this first date though. ESTJ- Hit or Miss. Me personally, I would give it a chance, but there is a possibility I would become annoyed at the silent judgment. Ironic and a bit hypocritical, but feelings are not rational. INTJ- A keeper. Is completely fine with staying home and intuitive enough to see bad situations. There will definitely be anxiety though to not be a bad date. ISTJ- A bail. Would not be a fan of making someone wait for me when they planned ahead of time. Gives impatient vibes. ENFP- Annoyed with the perceived judgment over my choices. Definitely a no-go. ENTP- I recognize this one (like the rest of these) are parodies and exaggerated. But not a fan of being used like that. Or calling intimidating looking. Bail. INTP- Again, an exaggeration , but plausible. In this case, bail. Paranoia has its place, but not 24/7 over a conspiracy theory. ENTJ- Actually, a potential keeper. Would talk with them about it not being a big deal or would probably suggest we go somewhere they trust to get things right. Overall, if they learn to relax, good potential. I would be excited to see their goofy or relaxed side. ISFJ- Oddly, not that big of a deal breaker. Presuming I can get a hold of the conversation to prevent him from turning me into his therapist. ISFP- Red flag. Bail. INFP- The INFJ is definitely not thinking about that stuff. Personally, I would and would be very amused with the INFP. I at best would interpret it as their own anxiety at play and they are just panicking with their constant correcting themselves, meaning they do realize it is way too early to say these things. ESFJ- Anxiety inducing. I would try to be realistic and think they chose me for a date, so they have to at least be somewhat attracted to my looks. ENFJ- Instant besties. Would make plans to hang out platonically. ESFP- Bail. Their definition of softer, quieter is a whole different one from mine and do not want other situations like it. INFJ- Platonic potential. Too anxiety inducing romantically. ESTP- Actually, there is potential. They are an open book and are actually interested in me, even if they overreacted a bit to get it out of me.

[@nadaibrahim8489]

As ISFP , I wanna know why ISFP here is red flag.. I mean he made an exception LOL 😂

[@HollieDaNugget]

The looking at the menu for half an hour to then just decide on the meal you always go for was freakishly accurate haha. I will admit though, me and my ENTP bf would be way too powerful what with his 'brains' and my 'intimidating looks' xD. Thanks for the awesome videos as always!

[@krysanne8986]

Because of this very thing, I adopted the trick her date used and I google the menu in advance and come up with what I want, a backup option, and a backup for the backup. Just in case. I got anxious always being the one to hold up ordering. 😅

[@EmmaG1993]

I'm an INFP married to an INFJ, thankfully my anxiety kept me from blurting out anything to my husband when we were dating, how embarrassing to blurt out I love you

[@louisthewolf0816]

As an ENFJ, I can relate to the pause on both ENFJ and INFJ. Yes we can read minds, and when two mind readers reading each other's mind it's... Like a 5d Chess

[@amyg9518]

Pretty sure the ENTJ one is based off something Frank's wife literally does when they go out.

[@coldsky1p]

Omg she’s entj ?

[@zaidhajju2804]

Yupp

[@hoboverted]

as an ENFP this is so real i always skip the small talk

[@starrynight2206]

The meltdown at the start about anything new is so accurate 💀

[@alexplayer8367]

I'm an INFJ, I'm a man and I've never been on a date, yet I feel like this is too accurate.

[@AnniePants367]

The INFP had a fair question, who has not asked that on a first date? 😂 I think the ENTP and the INFJ would be a force to be reckoned with! However, ESFP wins due to superficial reasons, I love that purple shirt, and I went on my first date with my partner to a dueling piano bar… lol

[@tripletflamesrainbowstarpeople]

My mom is an INFJ and this explains why she’s had so many dating fails. But she is going to marry her ENTJ fiancée in June 😊

[@ieshaspeaksofsavannah2874]

Thanks!

[@drchristopherjsernaque]

The ENFJ and INFJ...oh boy...😅 My INFJ fiancée is the best! 😂 Sincerely, A Very Sincere ENFJ 🎉

[@leenawathiq1937]

Not a bad match at all ❤

[@OzmaOfOzz]

I feel like infj with enfj is a hit or miss. I've dated 2 enfj s and even tough the conversations were amazing and we never wanted to shut up, there was no real romantic chemistry 😢

[@crossXFaed]

Awwww how sweet. Congrats for finding each other! - INFJ

[@crossXFaed]

@@leenawathiq1937 Yea inherently it's not "bad." In relation to the issue featured in skit, it's more to do with how secure a couple feels with that level of vulnerability, relatability and feeling exposed 24/7. That's usually the make or break deal I see in both platonic and romantic arrangements between ENFJs and INFJs' personal experiences including my own. The other thing is how much relatability they want vs variety in their dynamics. But I think ENFJs and INFJs can be different enough with how they approach life, people and their shared common values. Frank has made some more positive skits around the pairing and I hope to see more of that side. Thanks, Frank

[@flyingunicorn109]

I didn't expect to be revealed by ESTP like this 😂 I always observe and gather information about people first and then see if we're a good match and I feel comfortable to open up 😀

[@AngelaLochCross]

Despite the awkwardness, only INFP was able to lock down a second date. Good luck, buddy!👍

[@HarshiP-k5i]

As an INFJ who's in a fresh relationship with an INFP, I can say this is quite accurate!

[@WandyPaolaGalvezSolares]

As an INFJ with and INFP boyfriend this was so accurate and adorable

[@kowakowa2]

As an INFJ, i can relate lol. When my ex (im not sure what type but I can tell he’s an ESFP or ESTP) and I had our first call together, he asked me “Why do you like me in the first place?” and that question took me half an hour to think of the answer. I was like “uhh umm uhhh well” and I told him that I couldn’t explain them in words. So instead, I typed a long message on the chat and sent it to him lol. Another thing is that he knows that I’m always deep in my thoughts so he looked at me in the eyes and like, “What are you thinking right now?” just like what ESTP asked in the video 😂 I really love him but we fought a lot due to misunderstanding. The worst part abt being an INFJ is that you can’t express your feelings directly. When my ex and I talked it out, he told me everything about the problems that he’d been dealing and shared his feelings to me. But when he asked how I felt, I kept quiet. I really couldn’t express my feelings at all. Then, my ex told me I came unprepared when I was the one who tried to talk things out 😢 He always told me to tell about my problems and text him if I feel upset about something. The thing is I have so many things that I want to share with him. My feelings, how much I was upset and everything but none of these came out of my mouth. I kept my feelings too much only for him to realize that “this isn’t going to work”. In the end, I had to write a letter to him saying that we couldn’t be together because our communication was nothing but meaningless. He was really surprised that I made the decision first when he knew that I didn’t want to give up on our relationship (before we break up, I started to see that there’s no hope in continuing this relationship - We kinda fought a lot in three to four weeks). I told him that even if we broke up, I would still like you. On the day we broke up, he would hug me from behind and put his head on my lap as our last moments. We chatted and updated about our days and all. He wanted to hold my hand but realizing that our relationship had ended, he stopped and just nodded. When its time to go home, he stood up and headed for the door. Then, he just smiled and left without saying goodbye. A few mins after he’s gone, I cried like a baby. That really shattered me into pieces 💔 It’s been almost a month since the break up. I’m currently trying to hold the pieces together and move on like a normal person. I still love him from the bottom of my heart and I hate the fact that I always think of him 24/7. II would sometimes cry because I remember his voice saying “I love you” and I admit that I miss him a lot :’( I really miss him. I always wonder if he thinks the same. But if he’s happy, then I’m happy too. That’s the end of my story :)

[@jananik20]

✨...soon you will get better

[@adityamohan4973]

The INFJ dates with ENFP and ENTP were hilarious among all others. INFJ thinking similar to INTJ and ENFJ was also on point. INFJ leaving the ISFJ when he was crying was kinda rude.Didnt expect that .

[@mitaandtrishabhowmik1894]

I think the Infj just didn't know what to do and ended up feeling uncomfortable. Real reaction, but yes, I won't leave that easily either.