Tammy Peterson On Her Love Story With Jordan Peterson & How She Knew He Was "The One"

[@FreedomPact]

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[@lvt4003]

"If I don't marry him, I won't know what happens in his life as I do now, and so if I want to know what happens in his life, I'll have to marry him." As simple as that. Marry the person whose story you never want to lose intimate sight of.

[@raem7287]

Ya that line hit me hard too

[@JeriahMiller]

This only works when a women does that, which is exactly what she says that she did. Men are the prize, women want a man who they look up to and respect. Not the other way around.

[@kenasssss]

@@JeriahMiller No, women are the prize (feminine touch, intimacy, comfort, validation, support, a rock, a mother, etc.) , men are the leaders in the relationship (go getters, emotional support, rationality). Generally speaking, there are different cases. Women look up to man and respect them, but a man look to woman and are elated they have a rock, a strong support, a beautiful person in their life. If the woman is not the prize, why bother looking good, having a good life? It's for themselves too, but they can have better opportunities and have access to better romantic choices as well and be able to cover her up for everything. In a traditional marriage who usually pays the bills? The man. Who takes care of more physical work and pays for a woman's comfort? The men. So how can a man be the prize and do all that? 😅 No, the woman is the prize. A tired man gets at home, arrives to a clean house, smelling amazing, a wife in the kitchen beautifully dressed, it's like his little heaven and he's like, ahhh. The woman is the prize. And that's okay, you just need to find the right one for you.

[@JeriahMiller]

@@kenasssss What you say is true. But a women is a prize because of her beauty. A man is a prize because of what he can do. A women doesn't want a man who treats her like the most important thing in his life. And man needs a mission and a purpose as there most important thing in his life. If a man makes the women the prize and does everything to try to keep her, he will lose her. In order for the relationship to work the women needs to see him as the prize because he will provide for and protect her offspring. She will leave him if he is not the prize her in her mind (the best option she can get). Because of a women's hypergamous nature she will leave him for a greater prize (another man). A man will be tempted by another women's beauty, but he will not see another women as a prize because he is not looking for provision or protection in a women, he in looking at her beauty.

[@kenasssss]

@@JeriahMiller Certainly some woman do want a man that treat her like the most important thing, or second most important, as number one is always God. So, first God, then your wife/husband, then your kids and the rest of your family. And, unfortunately, a lot of women are settling for less for security, so that statement also doesn't apply to everyone. Plus, do you know how many BEAUTIFUL women were dumped/ignored because that's the only thing they have working for them? I don't know the exact number, but a lot have for sure. Because why? Even if you're the most beautiful man or woman, if when your mouth opens, only comes out trash or your personality stinks, you won't be attractive any longer, maybe just sex material, but not a serious relationship. It does help A LOT for some men when a woman is more than her looks, has goals, is going somewhere. Others just want a housewife, and that's okay too as long as there's no abuse. The last statement is not totally incorrect, as a woman is not supposed to be the provider, at least that's how it was back in the day, but the woman is still the prize because it will always be the man, at least back in the days, that will cover up for her, even if her skill is only beauty. Now, even if a woman sees a man as a "prize", it doesn't change the fact she's not the one protecting, providing, or even pursing him at all. So, the balance between what a man does for a woman, at least physically speaking, is different, which makes her the prize. Back in the days, men went after woman first, mostly, and not the contrary. For what. What's the purpose of that? "man needs a mission and a purpose as there most important thing in his life." Women were that, that's why they still pursue them to this day. But since some women today have been going a little bit crazy (trying to keep it respectful), men don't want to admit women are the prize, but they go to "alpha male" channels (i'm not talking about every single channel, some are cool) to try to have sex with one, to learn tactics to capture them or to be bitter because the hot one didn't want them, while he would never or most likely not smash one they deem less beautiful. Problem is the beautiful doesn't want them, and now, some of them, feel the need to poof their chest to think they're something. Well, that's one of the reasons, some women also being guilty. Anyways, there's marriages where after years, the man is still infatuated with his wife, which proves the importance she has. And, I haven't really heard of this problem in white community, it's mostly black communities who have this problem, going back and forth and fixing nothing.

[@livvybeth2k187]

I love that the interviewer allows her to just talk and not interrupt her. Brilliant interview and she’s so soft spoken

[@artifundio1]

And I felt that his eye contact was very sincere, very present.

[@aristobrat4987]

whats funny is she really isnt soft spoken !!! Shes actually quite rude and its one of the best traits about her. She doesnt let people push her around, Jordan actually credits alot of his work to having to 'deal' with his wife. Theyre so different yet determined to love. ITs so much deeper than this interview. Go look at their daughters interview of them !! That one is incredible.

[@n.s.7223]

@@aristobrat4987 link pls

[@not-even-german4892]

​@@aristobrat4987 she speaks like Melania Trump....

[@genespell4340]

@@aristobrat4987 is she rude or does she "speak her mind?"

[@lovetownsend]

So articulate, she pauses just like her husband then speaks from heart. Love her message "Persistence, keep going, no matter what."

[@sherlock7898]

“The one” is the person who you choose and keep choosing as the years go by. It doesn’t always work out like that but if you both choose each other over and over then you have the highest chance for long term happiness.

[@rachelpops9239]

Yes! It takes work and sacrifice to stay "the one"

[@latinaalma1947]

So true. My mate and I had both been married before...I was a widow with a 7yr old child and my first priority had to be her...sheI let him know I was notminterestwd in marriage and neither was he we said we will choose eaxhbother everyday until we dont..that day never arrived. 40 years ago And we HAVE chosen to be with each other every step of the way.

[@nebulacloak]

Well said! I especially like the part " choose each other over and over again" because it's 100 % true.

[@eleanor4759]

Yes!

[@SweetSweetFireOfLove]

“A constant friend”. That melts my heart.

[@BlackPearlMona369]

A true love story...the whole interview she didn't say the word love directly... But explained all soft and nice emotions that love comprehend...love= understanding + friendship + compassion+understanding +support + admiration and so many beautiful feelings...

[@MuricaTurkey]

The fact they were young childhood friends is just so beyond adorable and sweet

[@artistheart5272]

I wish I knew this couple. They are two are the most interesting, passionate and intelligent people! I love Mr. Peterson’s interviews. Him talking about the love and dedication for his wife and relationship brought me here. I pray for them to have health, happiness and many more years ahead.

[@dogperson432]

*Doctor* peterson!

[@not-even-german4892]

She's wise, not quite intelligent

[@terrywade3696]

@@not-even-german4892 I beg to differ with you. You have to be intelligent to be wise. You’d have to be very intelligent to be married and keep up with Jordan Peterson!

[@jacobus57]

​@@terrywade3696no, you don't. I don't think she's especially bright or wise. What woman would want to be with him given his low view of females?

[@terrywade3696]

@@jacobus57 Clearly you don’t know Jordan Peterson at all! He seems to often have a very high opinion of women. Intelligent women! He just doesn’t like the far-left banshees that come at him and try to “outsmart” him with their agenda driven swill!

[@Musika1220]

Honesty is a rare quality. I am happy for the both of them.

[@ohmightywez]

I love her voice. I could listen to her speak for hours, it’s so soothing. The prayer she mentioned is “Oh my Jesus, forgive us our sins. Save us from the fires of Hell. Lead all souls to Heaven, especially those in most need of Thy mercy.” It’s an excellent reminder that we all fall short of what we are supposed to be, and that we are to treat others with compassion because we are all in need of God’s mercy.

[@KnightGeneral]

It's called The Fatima Prayer. A prayer taught by The Blessed Virgin Mary to the three shepherds during her Apparition in Fatima, Portugal.

[@ohmightywez]

@@KnightGeneral Right there with you. My favorite, and yet my most terrifying of the Marian apparitions. I just didn’t name it because, just like most Protestants don’t call the Our Father by the same name, I figured most of them would have no idea what I was talking about if I mentioned Fatima. To most non-Catholics it’s the name of Mohammad’s daughter and a common female Muslim first name.

[@simkaur9652]

Beautiful

[@randommim3929]

Is she catholic?

[@ohmightywez]

@@randommim3929 No, she’s not. But a few years ago she’d made friends with a Catholic prayer group and she adopted the rosary as a form of morning meditation.

[@leighcunningham756]

I have been with my husband who is 13 years older than I for 42 years. I believe that our being friends before we became lovers is what has held us together and yes, honesty is key.

[@peripheralparadox4218]

It’s interesting to see a woman be so honest about how her approach to love is more practical than romantic.

[@ananastea]

“so honest” - as if there’s anything bad in “practical”? or worthy of hiding? sorry if i saw an undertone that wasn’t there. in good love stories of married couples I see this tendency: a man was in love with her charming presence almost instantly, a woman fell in love later when she saw great character traits in him. i’m thinking that it’s actually a healthier version as the mechanisms of falling in love are somewhat different in men and women, from a traditional standpoint. a woman can fall in love with a man’s actions, character, attitude towards life and her later, even if she didn’t see that in him at the beginning. i think it’s vital for her to regard him as a great human worthy of reverence to sustain the feeling of love over a long period of time. (with men, it’s not quite the same - their feeling in particular isn’t that correlated to their respect towards the object of love, but more to being respected). looks like it’s better for her to make sure deep respect for him is there before she is swept off her feet. with men, from what i get, feelings either appear towards this particular woman or are very hard to awaken. it’s not a good idea for men, imo, to ask a person on dates repeatedly just out of respect, hoping the feelings will appear later - most likely it’s not happening. just my two cents

[@peripheralparadox4218]

@@ananastea it’s not bad, it’s just evolutionary psychology. But it’s a hard thing for men to come to terms with. Being loved primarily for what they can provide. For what they are, not who they are. All the stats reflect this, as well as my experience and observation. Also looks, wealth and status generally trump character. Dark triad traits are extremely attractive to many women. In this respect, a mans love is more powerful. We take more time to get over a break up. We will sacrifice our lives and do anything for the women we love. We just wish a woman’s love was just as powerful.

[@ananastea]

@@peripheralparadox4218 i partly get it, even though “the power of love” is a very new argument for me. i would rather say women know better how to love and care, self-sacrifice… maybe these are just different experiences that me and you had, being around different people. but i’d argue with “what you have / what you are”. wealth etc are just markers of your intelligence, wit, dedication. a woman is actually looking for those traits (yes, lazy ones are trusting markers only) - and rightly so, if you as a man want to be in a leadership position and also have your woman trust you with her safety when she’s carrying and caring for children - if you are for that type of exchange - you have to understand those traits are required. and most of them can actually be developed. it’s better for your own sake to have a goal and succeed, after all. but aren’t women in a similar position - loved for what they have? i bet you many would complain about exactly that. used in relationships for sex only, being left for a younger chick later in marriage (it’s always more complex that that but let’s simplify as we simplified the wealth thing). the main asset in attraction - beauty - is something that is either given to her or not. if you weren’t born with model looks, you just won’t get them - you can enhance yourself but only up to a certain point. i’m not even starting on youth - something that it totally out of woman’s control. we would all prefer to be loved for what we are deep inside. but women are often chased for their looks, men - for their status. by the way, it kinda sucks in both cases - if you don’t have it and if you do. in both cases the real you often gets overlooked. i think it’s somewhat pointless to argue who gets used more often… and also better to leave generalizations and look for your own authentic relationship. maybe your specific woman won’t care about the car you drive or your height - and all of this stuff about what “average” men and women want won’t matter then. at all. 🙌🏻

[@peripheralparadox4218]

@@ananastea that was an intelligent and thoughtful response, and for the most part I agree with you. Both sexes have their pros and cons in the dating market, although I think it’s clear women have the advantage (and a small % of men). Yes looks are the primary selection trait for men, but I would say it’s more important for women, since women rate 80% of men as below average, and 4% above average. Whereas men find 80% of women attractive. I also think men are used way more than women. Yes there are a few men who will deceive and use women for sex - but the women are still enjoying the sex. But men get used for free dinners, drinks and favours all the time. There’s no shortage of desperate simps who allow themselves to be manipulated and used, and that’s mostly their fault for being naive and desperate. And then there is the vast amount of women who will take half a mans wealth, even though it’s not proportionate to her contribution in the relationship. My mum married a guy for 10 years and didn’t want to work. He worked his ass off, and when she divorced him, she took half his house. All legal, but morally disgusting. Hypergamy is an instinct that makes perfect sense in our evolution, but I think in today’s world it’s maladaptive. In the same way access to plentiful food has led to widespread obesity, hypergamy has led to widespread greed. Even the poor people in modern societies have better food, health care and entertainment than any of the kings of the past. An average man can provide everything a woman needs, but not everything she wants. Personally I don’t have much money, but I have everything I need. My idea of success is deepening my connection to art and music, hiking, doing things that I enjoy and inspire me. Maybe none of those things will lead me to wealth or status, so I accept that I will not be desirable to women. And if it does lead to wealth and status, I will have the unfortunate knowledge that women are only attracted to me for those reasons. Tammy only settled for Jordan when he was showing greater potential and being desired by other women. It wasn’t ‘omg, I want him so bad’. Only a small % of men are genetically blessed enough to elicit that response. So I respect her for being so honest about her hypergamy. Many women are not.

[@ananastea]

@@peripheralparadox4218 again, i agree, but there are important nuances. do you think an average man will find 80% of women attractive? like - all women? i think you are taking into account women and men in their 20’s - then yes. it might be reversed if you take men and women in their 50-60s. maybe even 40s… it’s already very different if we think about 30s. it’s exactly because of the beauty/wealth parameters. men profit from the dynamics shift when they are slightly older. also - a bigger factor than wealth - to me - is a man’s creativity, his ability to be interesting, when he’s fun to listen to. i don’t think it directly correlates to wealth - although it does in a way - and you can notice Tammy mentioned those traits. i am personally not impressed by someone’s money to the point that I get feelings for them, and flashy behavior repulses me. i guess i just like when they find ways to provide for themselves enough and don’t complain about the misfortunes of life. i think there are many women that would totally agree, and you might not be at a loss in the dating market if you don’t earn huge money. but! if you keep believing that it’s your disadvantage then it will bite you. i notice the same thing with guys who can’t gain weight, who are short or balding - it’s not a huge thing at all if he’s smart and fun to be around! if he can laugh it off. but as soon as he feels insecure you can feel it too. and people tend to catch on to that… in friendships, business contacts - “oh, he feels inferior? well, he knows more about himself than i do, he might be right”. i also have kind of an issue with the word hypergamy… isn’t it perfectly normal for the reasons i mentioned above for women to at least aim for someone who earns more and can make their life easier instead of harder in times when they have to rely on him? it would be a problem if committed women ditched their partners for someone higher on the social ladder. a clear problem but saying it’s something shameful is the same as shaming men for liking slimmer or younger women. you can’t forbid people to “discriminate” in those ways, especially as they make sense. it may happen that she falls in love with an artist and spends not a very rich but a happy life with him. or he falls in love with a woman men typically overlook and stays happy. but a tendency is a tendency - it’s just there, gotta accept it but not fixate on it. lastly, on getting used… some are just naive or don’t want to hear the truth, they end up getting used as they like it and let it go on. women in purely physical relationships hoping for more are the same as simps spending money and time on a woman who doesn’t even notice them. they both chose it. however, abuse i meant is domestic abuse when you can’t just simply leave as you are in an inferior position - with kids, no job, no money. and it’s women who are most often in this position. didn’t think about courts as abuse - in my country it’s very different. but i know men can get ripped off in US courts… but also - men can walk away and it’s easier for them to find a woman and start over at 40 let’s say. for women with kids it is so much harder. women file for the majority of divorces, but it doesn’t mean they are the perpetuators of it. men are just scared of the whole court thing as they will lose money, but they might be the ones who cheated or dove into work and left the woman with no love or attention. it’s complicated. don’t know what your family went through, but i get where you’re coming from with women going after money. i don’t know what to say here… it definitely happens, i don’t know if you are into mgtow, kinda sense that, but i think it’s not the healthiest answer.

[@nixonjohn934]

Whao! Today I truely realized why Professor. Peterson loves his wife so much. May God continue to bless this wonderful couple n their family.

[@goldenglowladore3842]

Yes, Amen!

[@lifewitholliethegsp9203]

This is how I picked my husband out. The plot twist was that when we kissed I saw my reflection in his eyes, so it wasn’t just me who had picked him out for me, but I believe the good Lord was showing me, this is the one. But I studied him from afar, we were also good friends who had crazy chemistry. He was the smartest person in our class filled with high achieving Asian kids, we went to school in an Asian dominant community. I knew he would be someone great. He was also incredibly kind, and in a strange way, he was and still is, probably always will be absolutely crazy about me. I grew up with a toxic family, I never knew what true love was. My husband has shown me that. But as a woman, I saw his potential from a distance. He has lived up to it, and surpassed it. I believe our family has been blessed. We are so grateful. It is not easy, we have our trials, but it’s been a blessing. Soulmates are real, pray to meet yours, and pray for a sign so that you know when you meet them. That’s what I did.

[@R1Neey123]

Beautiful 💕

[@lepolhart3242]

It's nice you love your husband deeply and he has lots of good qualities but lets not kid ourselves, you also chose him because he was the smartest kid in your class and you knew he would have a successful career and be a high acheiving man and good provider as a husband and father. He is a high value male. This is hypergamy. If he'd been the dumbest kid in class you wouldn't have been interested in him.

[@R1Neey123]

@@lepolhart3242 I have noticed that most of the dumbest kids in class hails from a wealthy family with business etc. Reason why they don't concentrate much in studies cos they already know their future career which is to look after their family business & they prefer to learn family business traits from childhood instead. But those who are not that wealthy, or good-looking & are not that intelligent do find somebody of their own level. But hey what matters is that everybody is happy at the end of the day. But a man with intelligence needs to have the good looks!!

[@lepolhart3242]

@@R1Neey123 those children who have family businesses to fall back on will still be seen as successful by women especially if those businesses are turning over alot of money. Most women are not necessarily bothered by how many qualifications a man has as long as he has money and can provide for her. Equally though men with high level qualifications usually go onto good well paid jobs as well. The men who are more working class may find women as well who are less materialistic but they will still need to work hard to provide for a family. No decent woman would settle for a lazy, non working man, drug addict, alcoholic, severe mental health problems etc as it would be insane.

[@R1Neey123]

@@lepolhart3242 True.

[@jessaguilar4747]

I met my husband when I was 17, we got married a day after my 19th birthday. We have been married for 16 years, together for 18 years. I had our first child three months before our marriage, then our second (and last) child when I was 21. We made a choice to grow together, instead of apart. I love him more everyday.

[@jumpforjoy6]

BORINGGGGG

[@Rose-pf6pk]

Awesome!

[@VenusManTrap-777]

I’m 19 I would never get married at this age. That’s just dumb asf

[@F16486g]

@@VenusManTrap-777 it’s because they got pregnant

[@MaxxPrime-hm2tv]

Outstanding achievement. Folks these days barely last a couple months.

[@Milestonemonger]

When a relationship was first based on genuine friendship, it has an excellent chance of surviving anything.

[@roelinamackintosh5376]

I went to see Jordan In Australia, there were so many young men that bought tickets. He is like a good fatherly role model. He motivates me too. You can be so proud of your husband.

[@lisaproustresearch]

What an amazing interview ! I adore that the cadence in her speech follows the same rhythm & flow than her husbands. It’s almost as the soft version of him. At minute 4 I was melting…. What a rational yet powerful connection filled with admiration & companionship. I’m so happy I came across this interview. Finally, I’m really impressed by the young man’s ability to genuinely listen instead of interrupting. Thank you for posting !

[@FreedomPact]

Thank you so much, Lisa! That has made my day. It was an absolute pleasure to interview Tammy, and I’m glad you think I did a good job! So glad you enjoyed the episode 😀

[@lisaproustresearch]

She clearly is a wonderful soul so I’m certain it was amazing to listen to her and connect - you were chosen (by her ) to open up for a reason :) you are amazing :)

[@jumpforjoy6]

Melting? Get a grip

[@lisaproustresearch]

@jump for joy : what does get a grip mean ? English is not my first language but based on your beautiful nickname I assume is something positive so i thank you and I’m glad you also enjoy the beautiful story - love and light to you

[@jumpforjoy6]

@@lisaproustresearch OMG but I thought you melted??? It's a miracle!!!!

[@lungiswashongwe735]

We need a movie about their lives.

[@moreover1238]

I know right… it’s so unique because it started when they were kids! N he was so intelligent then.. imagine their kiddy-no-so-kiddy conversations

[@classicepisodesofcrimewatc9971]

We need a movie about *my* life.

[@flrg2159]

@@classicepisodesofcrimewatc9971 haha why

[@PhillTheGreat]

No, it's actually very nice that she is private and keeps the secrets of the family

[@acv5700]

We all damn well know that books will be written and movies will be made the day he's not here anymore.

[@Kerry.moynihan.intellectual]

I love how the modern feminists hate him but this seems like actual gender equality to me. Two very intellectual and compassionate people.

[@graceygrumble]

There are feminists and then, there are people who are not feminists, but claim that title. They have hijacked the term and done feminism a disservice in the process. They have alienated people like yourself from a cause which, believe it or not, Jordan Peterson and his Tammy espouse, if not in word, then certainly in deed. Feminists admire the man, enormously. They might not agree with him, sometimes, but they don’t hate him.

[@khalil7011]

@@graceygrumble No True Scotsman.

[@graceygrumble]

@@khalil7011 I do not have the pleasure of understanding that comment.

[@candide1065]

@@graceygrumble feminist in a nutshell

[@graceygrumble]

@@candide1065 Thank-you.

[@sundayweiss2779]

I love Mrs.Peterson’s voice it’s the essence of strength and honesty in the most feminine expressions and tones. Her female Voice and James Earl Jones masculine voice are very pleasant.

[@cleomanuel4459]

Marriage is a work in progress. Perseverance is one of the key.

[@thorbeorn4295]

Listening to Tammy and Jordan talk about eachother brings tears of joy to my eyes. I'm sure there were alot of struggles between them, for that you can't escape, but what a wonderful couple. Much love to them both and I wish them the best!

[@haha-cm6pg]

One lucky lady and one lucky man!!! Congrats and have many and many more years together.

[@Danceofenergy]

I love the way he talks about her and the way she talking about him is pure love-so inspiring ❤️

[@Kiwiwanderer]

She’s a lovely woman. So gentle & calm but strong too. Both of them have great relationship skills and good communicators.

[@teresarodriguez821]

The sweetness and beauty of this lovely lady and her husband Jordan Peterson is that she has never lost faith in family and love of her beloved, and he of her as his beloved.

[@sharmpadayachee8939]

"Getting up and trying again.. And perseverance" I loved that she said that.

[@mthoodstyle]

I knew I wanted to marry my husband when he told me he read child psychology books. I asked why and he said for when he had kids to be ready. I was FLOORED. I knew then and there he was the one for me. It didn't hurt that he was handsome and made my heart race. That was over 15 years and 2 kids ago. Today we are a steady, reliable couple that is always trying to be better people for each other and our kids. Good luck to all you young people out there. Just know that if you find someone who is committed to being a good parent and willing to make ANY sacrifice to be that then you have a person you can respect and live with forever.

[@abdulqaadir6510]

“It didn’t hurt that he was handsome and made my heart race.” Hahahahah! LOVE IT! 😆

[@msprokofiev8716]

Sorry. I got jealous briefly while reading your comment.

[@blvdrd018]

Which books did he red

[@farrellraafi1301]

@Siraj Haq why are you that edgy akhi who hurt you

[@dearbrave4183]

@@abdulqaadir6510 hahaha right 😂😂😂

[@laylaali5977]

She seems a wonderful lady I can see why he fall in love with her

[@DNS0875]

My husband’s intelligence and temperament/passion is quite compatible to Jordan Peterson’s. Fascinating men indeed. The first thing I did before we started dating was explaining my ‘vices’. He still asked me out, so many years later, we’re so much more in love. He’s me and I’m him although we’re free. He’s also my best friend, I tell him literally everything! I’m so blessed and I wish for everyone to experience this kind of connection.

[@bluaska]

Thanks so much for this interview. I've always wondered what kind of person Tammy is. It's so important that she mentions considerations other than "romantic" in her decision to marry Jordan - qualities like having his act together, being compassionate, or being a good father. You need more than infatuation for a successful long-term relationship. They are such a great example!

[@DaughterofJerusalem]

Tammy cared about Jordan's well-being to embolden him to prosper. There's something very poignant about that. Eternal bliss.

[@dn1697]

... sounds rare to me ... nobody out here for 20 years has ever bothered to be my most loyal friend ... especially females in fact ...

[@DaughterofJerusalem]

@@dn1697 I know what you mean. Right now, I'm trying to just be a friend to myself, and kind to others.

[@shoqvaive1842]

@@dn1697 it actually is rare, hence cherished.

[@safina1253]

Tammy Peterson You are Stunning and You have a Divinely wonderful voice It says everything I really Love You. God Bless You and All Your Loved Ones Abundantly. Thanks for sharing

[@carolyngalbraith6202]

I grew up in Alberta too, was born in Calgary and had many friends at the little Gospel Hall in Fairview. I am am excited to know what wonderful folks that community brought to the world. Love to your family.

[@Snowboardbound]

I’ve gotten a huge amount of inspiration from Tammy and Jordan’s relationship. A few years ago I began incorporating a lot of their ideas and principles into my new relationship at the time. I come from a background of abusive relationships and a disfunctional family. Needless to say I will be asking my girlfriend to marry me and she’s already told her parents she plans on marrying me. We truly have an amazing relationship, full of truth and love, and I owe some gratitude to the things I’ve picked up watching Jordan Peterson talk. 🙏

[@wandertree]

That's so great. When you don't have good role models in your family, look for people who are living well and in solid relationships and ask them questions! Mentors can be so helpful. Best wishes to you and your future wife.

[@Godsglory777]

I like listening to her almost as much as Jordan. She has such a sweet sweet soul.

[@EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher]

It's something that regularly perplexes me that the truest deepest love is seen as the prerequisite for a relationship or commitment, when it's so clearly the reward for moving through life together and the shared experience of life and it's difficulties.

[@هُناعبير]

Somehow i can relate, the reason i have a good relationship with my husband is that we truly admire each other for our ethics. We appreciate that we don’t lie, we are not mean to others, and we make good parents for our kids. No matter how much our relation was about to break, these pillars kept it together in what we consider a healthy marriage that not a lot of our friends/relatives have. Although my husband knows almost nothing about children psychologically, but he’s a loving, caring, patient father, and that makes a great father! I read a lot about children psychology and he believes in what i say because he knows that I put our children first.

[@anniekahl7980]

Awww such a lovely lady! Soft spoken and kind, I can see why she’s adored.

[@butterflymoon6368]

"he was a constant friend". How lovely. I'm not a Jordan Peterson fan at all but I admire his relationship because most men are incredibly shallow.

[@charmainemiles4089]

Beautiful love story a match made in heaven, I can see why he loves her and why she loves him so much, 🥰.

[@carolineleiden]

My husband of 32 years and I met as students, and from day one we could be just ourselves and that was good enough. I never had to pretend, I never wanted him to pretend.

[@truthinthefaceoftyranny]

There was no mention of fluttering heartfelt emotion.... just simple wanting to be around each other. For me, it was this feeling of "home" with my spouse. I remember the first time I heard his voice over the phone and it was comforting. Like a missing part that I had lost and now found. But the euphoric falling feelings of love was terrifying for me. I wrestled within myself when he could stir up in me this feeling like I was losing control of my heart and emotions. He is my best friend. We faced very tough challenges with each other, and we challenge each other.

[@ST-yc7uj]

They knew each other from the time they were kids.

[@ericmelchiore5519]

I don't mean to underminding their struggles and difficulties. What they had to sacrifice in order to make it work. But I wish we are that lucky to find that bond with someone. Its a thing of beauty to watch this. Im happy for her.

[@izawaniek2568]

What a beautiful story. God bless you in everything you do together! Merry Christmas.

[@megofiachra3247]

I, too, chose my husband because we were good friends , he had a stable and supportive family, he is a good, trustworthy person (no, not perfect), we share faith in Christ, and he would be a good father. Coming up on 25 years of marriage, 4 kids, and I would do it again!

[@TessG9107]

I'm happy for you.

[@yourcanadianscotsauntynanc9946]

Dearest Tammy, you have a lot of love in you, Dr. Peterson is a great man because your a great woman , there’s not a chip on your shoulder , you have found your destiny . And your sweetly open about your feelings and thoughts. And they’re nice . Good bless you for sharing your sentiments

[@marias.p.1297]

No, you don't find the one. You make him or her the one by your conscious decision.

[@shivanshtyagi3254]

Thats a brilliant articulation.

[@eg4514]

You can’t make just anyone ‘the one’.

[@mansasedanu-kwawu5122]

@@eg4514 exactly

[@blairpham9429]

@@eg4514I believe that she means that with open communication and (hopefully) wanting the best for one other, no matter the differences, then compromises will bring more security and fulfillment to the two as a whole. Healthy relationships require work, but that’s for you to decide if it’s worth working on and committing to for a lifetime. That’s how I interpreted it at least.

[@SarahMc585]

I told my sister in law when I was 8 years old that I loved her brother haha we all had so much fun playing together as kids. years later I moved back to my hometown and although he had a girlfriend I really couldn’t help how much I liked him lol they were always on and off again and I knew I could treat him better then her. So on one of their breaks I asked him on a date. That was in 2011. He’s now my husband and we have a two year old son. I still very much enjoy his company

[@SarahMc585]

@@sashavladimirova1458 do you know how marriage works?

[@SarahMc585]

@@sashavladimirova1458 You need to read more Carefully

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

You saved that girl's life, thanks. Your guy couldn't just say no to that and probably strung her along for casual stuff whenever it suited him.

[@roelinamackintosh5376]

A lovely story. 😀

[@SarahMc585]

@@DiamondsRexpensive you might be right. But unfortunately I think he really loved her. It left a lot of mistrust in him after the relationship ended.

[@vicki-alanarasmussen8544]

Beautiful 🥰 to the interviewer ... wonderful questions and thank you for allowing Tammy to speak uninterrupted. It was a pleasure to watch and listen to 🌹

[@FreedomPact]

Thank you! That means a lot 😀

[@malihehbrasseur778]

Mrs. Tammy Peterson, thankYou , this is blessing to listening to you God bless you .

[@ForeverXO]

Thank you for sharing this. 🌸 I heard that he wanted to marry her from the beginning when they were younger and that he always knew she was his one. 💖

[@questioneverything4601]

Now it's swipe left if you don't quite look right... Society has taken a wrong turn somewhere.

[@aojbooker8650]

“If you don’t look quite right” Hahaha I see what you did there 😂😂

[@DNS0875]

Beautiful and inspiring people, the entire Jordan family. Stay strong, you’re very much supported!!

[@jdmatchett]

What a beautiful story. Many blessings to you both.

[@valeriehoule5300]

Wow, that was such a simple but indepth way to deal with a relationship/marriage problem...Perseverance! You have to really like each other to push forward to getting the best possible result for both involved! Someone can be in and out of love but truely liking someone with their imperfections and not feeling like u hate someone after cooling down after the disagreement just to Persever on solving a situation. That's truely blessed and beautiful!

[@charmainemiles4089]

And they are very beautiful with each other, I love watching them on a big stage together, Tammy asking him question, and jordan answering the question, they even look inseparable together Tammy sounds like a very soft lady, I'm sure she is his rock, 🥰

[@carolynnr.6409]

Thank-you for the big smile of joy for you I received watching this video.

[@TaraHower]

Love this! The part about honesty is so overlooked. It’s viral for a relationship to be built on trust and honesty. Talking through and digging deep to the roots of a miscommunication or argument is also so wonderful and necessary to make a healthy long term relationship.

[@dankemp1470]

Love this, I love everything about the relationship between these guy's. It's very clear how to look at things.

[@MarthaMcCrum]

She has a very sweet, soft & youthful voice.

[@mmoro143]

Thank you for sharing and leading by personal example ❤ Rev.Monika

[@heathergalbraith7444]

The mysteries in the Rosary teaches perseverance. Get up and try again ...brillant..

[@Men_In_Jesus]

I too was honest with the one I was married to. Big mistake! But I will do it again. I.e. marry again, and also be honest again. Just that this time I will marry the right person. As well, no point wanting to resolve conflicts if the other hand doesn't want to clap. God bless.

[@shannonblack5828]

Loving some Ms Tammy... The whole Peterson family is simply amusing, and amazing to me. I enjoy the banter and the counter balance each member contributes to the dynamic that truly makes them Majikal...

[@rahulshinde6210]

"If we really want to love, we must learn to forgive." Mother Theresa

[@cristinacamero3733]

Thre kind of husband I would like ti have. Honesty and perseverance talking the time to deal with every issue

[@svth13]

Happy to see elderly couples, esp this couple and their love. Wish everybody get such an understanding partner.❤❤❤❤❤

[@arvyarvy4242]

Jordan seems like such a wonderful man and his wife is so sweet

[@butterflymoon6368]

I love how normal she is and not some skinny model looking woman. This is the point. Jordan chose from the depth of his heart. most men don't go that deep because they are frightened it would mean he ends up with someone other men don't find attractive. They are always running away from themselves in order to fit into society and exceed the low expectations society has of them. It's depressing. I wish they were better people. How they treat unattractive women is horrible

[@gonza8824]

they also treat bad attractive women

[@vladislavstezhko1864]

@@gonza8824 100% true. They are just afraid of loosing them

[@faiabadi]

She's not unattractive though. Please rethink your comment, it's insulting and a backhanded compliment. She's a 56 year old woman, she will change but she has beauty and elegance to her

[@butterflymoon6368]

@@faiabadi Normal isn't an insult. I didn't call her unattractive (which, btw, is also NOT an insult). I said some men might not find her attractive, which is true. It's not a backhanded compliment at all because I wasn't even complimenting her. I'm a woman that men sometimes (often?) call ugly, so to have a woman who doesn't look like a model be the absolute love of someone's life is incredible and VERY RARE for me to see. You are probably represented everywhere all the time and good luck to you, but don't get in the way of those of us who aren't when we finally are.

[@butterflymoon6368]

@@gonza8824 some do but attractive women have privileges that outweight the negative.

[@linak7155]

First time to hear this. I'm in love with Jorda n Tammy's love story. ❤️ The common thread to any lasting relationship is not quitting. PERSEVERENCE ❤️ 💙 💜 💖 💗

[@76006linda]

Seems like Jordan was more of a friend instead of being in love with him. What a shame, because Jordan seems to have a huge heart and very handsome. You got lucky Tammy! What a catch you got

[@doriannemosich232]

True Love stories, like the Peterson's, are romantic, who that matters doesn't love that? You two are good, religious, authentic. Thank~you 2 & hugs for giving us what Hollywood never could. I'm so glad I found you a few months ago, I enjoy bing watching all about the correct perspectives of life meaning, purpose, responsibilities. Currently this has helped me, beyond words, due to a profound loss of my Mother. HUGS DM

[@auntyjasmine2566]

Religious?

[@marianbarchilon815]

Such an endearing story. Friends that share, trust and persevere together . "If I want to know what happens in his life I'll have to marry him." I believe that is true. You need to care about someone's life that deeply. And often the smallest details mean the most with those closest to you. Like him teaching her chess.

[@dogberry3660]

Such a lovely speaking voice she has. 💐

[@kinyakinya]

Wise words and said with such calmness that proves it’s the thought-through conclusion. I think this admiration that they have for one another is something to pursue. We’re in completely different fields with my husband. I have so much appreciation for what he does and that he’s a superhero comparing to men from my family (handyman, knows how to manage money, likes people, very social). My brothers and dad are grate guys but I can do the things they do and they will have some influence on my kids. But what my husband can potentially add to they upbringing and also to teach me is extremely valuable. I hate that pop culture teaches us this infatuation love instead of the practical. This is why roughly 50% of my childhood friends are baby momas with very few prospects. They didn’t analyze the risk and how much their partner can actually get their act together.

[@kyrareneeLOA]

I love this so much!! What a sweet couple. Jorden is very interesting, Tammy is very warm, and seems very kind. 🩵Much love.

[@tinamenon1593]

They met when very young but both sensed high intelligence, integrity and dutifulness in one another. The men of the Manosphere who try to commandeere JP's idealistic pragmatism as an intellectual veil for their obnoxious beliefs just cannot fathom that these types of unions with a woman can exist. I salute them. Unfortunately I am aware, their union is a less statistically likely than the proportions of psychopathy in the population. I know I won't ever have their type of union because men with his psychological make up, agreeableness, intelligence, determination and empathy are utterly rare, only a few people i knew at university met men of this calibre and certainly the Manosphere men appear to detest women, really detest women, even their own mothers, sisters and daughters (judging from their comments about them). If they gain power and influence, society is utterly doomed.

[@alistairfreedom2456]

Smiled the whole way thru this.

[@gabrielavargasb.3655]

I felt exactly like that with my future husband, when he asked me if i wanted to be with him the first thing i thought was: i don’t know what do i want except for this: i want to have him in my life until i die. That’s when i realized.

[@evaphillips2102]

It’s hard to hear this sweet story and to think of how rare stories like this are these days.

[@tarey05]

It's my understanding that Tammy was introduced to the Holy Rosary by a nun who did pastoral visits to patients in the hospital she was in while covering from her cancer treatment, is it wasn't introduced to her via her family. Once explained to her, the Mysteries and so on, she became devout to her faith. I find great solace in reciting the rosary.

[@randommim3929]

Is she catholic?

[@mariascott675]

💝💗😢a pure and gentle soul

[@velvetindigonight]

Great and truthfull snippet. With ref ‘the one’ yes there is a very compatable opposite call them ‘twin flame’ if you wish but there are many aspects of this in incarnation on the planet. I have a certain ‘type’, similliar strengths, weaknesses, interests and stories in different bodies…….. If you ‘mess up’ but continue to ‘persevere’ and grow somehow they find you again years later and often very different packaging! Enjoy

[@123bgmiller]

I feel like Tammy is going to be like Eliza in the hAmilton Musical. She's going to be the one to tell his story. From the backseat or sidelines most of the time but always his rock. The one lifting him up, pushing him and helping him to push on. They are both great! I'm so glad she's telling her story too.

[@king489]

JB knows the laws of relanshiosip and you can see decades of wonderful marriage...

[@711yada]

Jordan has great insights and even better taste. Absolutely lovely.

[@jody2873]

SINCE THEY WERE KIDS!! THAT'S BEAUTIFUL!!!!

[@imareader7570]

An amazing relationship built on trust and mutual respect.!

[@gabrielasanchez2028]

2:45 WOW that hit's different! it's all about perserverence...

[@dayan47]

It is important that you said it would take 3 days to straighten things out. Prophet Muhammad said to not pass 3 days in anger and resentment to anyone.

[@ayseyilmaz217]

This relationship is built on trust, that's why it will last forever.

[@jerrymaserjian2588]

Beautiful story.

[@FreedomPact]

Isn’t it! 🙏

[@normasouthwood3182]

An amazing couple. Great interviewer too.

[@susanflakes6968]

Blessings! Tammy and Jordan!

[@pattieabc]

Love this family!

[@margaretchaves7735]

Beautiful friendship and love story .

[@miamilan4812]

Such a sweet story. Peterson is a romantic at heart.

[@lynnkirby9638]

I guess my Mum and Dad decided that they were the ‘ones’ for each other , and 63 years later that decision remains a fact!

[@lynnkirby9638]

I need to correct myself my Mum and Dad have actually been married for 67 years…….it’s ok I’ve given myself a slap on the hand 😆.