Fridays with Tab and Chance Episode: When Losses Become Wins

[@belcollege]

"If you lose yourself, you are lost" quote of the day.

[@ashleywhite309]

Love love this conversation

[@MsVee-nc5kd]

I specifically searched for this video to make that comment. Nailed it Chance! And Tab, you are such a light in this world. Thank you for being you.

[@FAB5FORTY]

I will never forget that quote!💪🏾💜

[@TripleTheBetter]

That’s deep but so true 🙌

[@veronicakay8688]

I will forever love the way Chance looks at Tab! The sweetest 💜

[@patriciasmith5778]

And the way she looks at him... They're in love with each other...🥰

[@toomuch8931]

“If you lose yourself, you lost” and that’s on period!!!

[@Elaine-ee1eh]

I know y’all gonna be a whole vibe from the first 30 seconds and Blackie thought you were too busy to notice him! 😂😂😂❤❤❤ I love y’all!

[@rheeryder2524]

Yup. Blackie was like "Let me get this lil'piece of mushroom out the trash while the humans are distracted." 😲

[@reatha26]

I felt Chance on the job thing. I had a job that I was fired from that led to a year of unemployment, when I tell you that changed me & God used it! Whew! I carry the lesson with me to this day! Also, I love how Chance was lowkey wanting to go in on the Food Network situation! Protect yo woman!

[@EvolvingMama_]

I lost my mind, marriage and daughter… all in the same year. God tripled my blessings. Ofc I would wish to have my daughter back over anything I’ve gained since, but He has shown me that with Him I can conquer anything 🙏🏾😮‍💨🙏🏾

[@sassyx2048]

Being your authentic self will make you loose those who refuse to catch up but you will gain new authentic circle of life friendships. That will lift you up and elevate you. This is what I'm striving towards. Thank you both for sharing

[@ayannabrandon]

In my losses I’ve learned that… Rejection is for my protection. God has my best interest in mind. ❤

[@letoriapennington7270]

I thank you all for reminding me to not be complacent or too comfortable in a situation.

[@blessedmodebeauty247]

Chance was preaching tonight about corporate America!!! Never get comfortable, then Tab was really preaching “ sometimes, but all the time but sometimes it’s God pushing on to something more because He knows you’ll stay

[@raeciprian690]

The way chance started banging on that table!!! 🤣🤣🤣 That mixed with Tab saying "Blacky get out of that trash can!" and still was on beat 🤣🤣🤣....y'all are hilarious!!

[@justlillian__]

"If you lose yourself, u lost" - Uncle Chance.... soooo good! 👏🏾 🙌🏾

[@reneah9199]

Y’all Tab and Chance speaks to the soul ! They are real as they come 😂😂

[@joymadison2079]

I so appreciate you guys. I’m sorry that Kale My Name didn’t work out for you but I and my niece’s had the great opportunity to meet you there!

[@TinaTheTinyTuscan]

@tabithabrown love your show Tab and Chance. I lost everything in my business last year 2022 financial and equipment etc and on the Process lost my home in a hotel now. But your show today gave me hope I will come through with this loss. Thank you both

[@lifecoachthirl]

Praying for you 🙏🏾

[@rheeryder2524]

Similar situation. Prayed for you.

[@TinaTheTinyTuscan]

@@lifecoachthirl Thank you! Will do the same for you

[@TinaTheTinyTuscan]

@@rheeryder2524 Thank you! Will do the same for you

[@lifecoachthirl]

@@TinaTheTinyTuscan Thank you.

[@shelbyspellman3046]

18:20 , you could tell Chance wanted to say more and you could tell Tab caught on to that energy. It was beautiful seeing Tab be his peace and see Chance being her protector , even w/out saying too much . && I know he was serious but that “nah” at 18:38 had me crying because Chance said nahhh , I feel this one

[@sagireconsultingfirm]

That's a husband who says its not okay because anyone who hurts my wife I'm coming for you... Tab says babe God's got it we good... 🖤🖤🖤

[@earthgoddess_66]

Donna's got some STIFF competition! Chance's hair is poppin with Donna's recipe. Great topic. Great testimonials. Great stories.

[@Ty1on3twelve]

Chance and Tab are so funny. I look forward to Fridays with Tab and Chance.

[@myieshalovelyyy8091]

My loss that was a win: I had a miscarriage in 2021 and although it was a loss and it hurt it turned out to be a win. When I prayed for a child I prayed that God show me I could get pregnant and he showed me I could but reminded me that that isnt what I asked him for previously. I asked that I have my child in June/ July and that’s what he gave me 💙and through the loss my marriage became stronger .

[@ae7091]

22:53 THAT PART!! So happy that they unapologetically confess their gratefulness to God for their wins!

[@thedeanecrew7359]

I felt this all the way in my spirit. I experienced a few losses last year. Something I’d never really dealt with ever in my career. But it wasn’t until months later even almost going into 2023 that it is all making sense. I wrote down that I wanted to see what God sees in me in 2023. As I began to move forward, I realized that I had to experience losing that job for me to see my value and prepare me for my next role(s). I’ve got so much to give in this lifetime and sometimes we can be so quick to place ourselves where God did not put us in in the first place. I just want to say thank you Tab and Chance for sharing these moments as they are very inspiring and uplifting.

[@babycakes412]

Chance and Tab are the rainbow after the storm. This is season of growth and discomfort. Dont miss the next season of reaping what was sowed. It can be external or internal growth or both. If you're fearful and doubtful, it's okay. Do what you know to do with all those feelings. Bring them with you so you can look back on how much you've come with even more pride.

[@julietoneill1268]

I love that Chance talked about his truth about being so confident and never getting too comfortable that makes you rude to people, thank you 👌👏

[@Loveisaverb2022]

God told me to leave an abusive relationship with a toddler and one on the way. We ended up homeless in a hotel until god put on my heart to go to seminary to become a Chaplin. I’m in school on academic probation for the first time and I feel like I’m at a loss and can’t hear what god is telling us to do next. May my next journey show the fruits from what I thought was a loss amen

[@llawanakemp]

I love this❤️ I most definitely have experienced this. I got hurt on my job and was laid off. But I was working to pay for my home. I was devastated 😢😳😭But I thought I would lose my home, not knowing than God had a plan for me. I recieved enough money from getting hurt through workers comp to pay my home off. So although I was looking at it as a loss, it was a win. I am disabled now at home. Living the life I always desired. Not worrying if me and my babies will be sleeping in a car as we had in the past. This was most definitely a learning experience for me. I love and are praying for you Tab & Chance 🙏🏾❤️ Llawana Kemp from Mobile, Alabama

[@sparkle3000]

❤ 🤣😂😅💜🧡💛💙 The more I lose others after I set boundries, the better I look and feel. 61 yesterday. The best Birthday I ever had! 🌞

[@Ladyj12345]

Family this video here hit home. I am in that uncomfortable season and know it’s GOD pushing me to my new season. I tell people all the time, if you don’t own the company don’t get comfortable. People would ask me, why don’t you decorate your office, put pickup. Hello this is not my home, period! If they say today is your last day, baby, l could walk our head high pocket book, coat and cup in hand. Great video

[@rheeryder2524]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I heard that. Just walk on out in one moment. Lord knows I've had to make SEVERAL trips packing up plants, Tupperware, etc. when I either got laid off or terminated. Humiliating & frustrating, thinking "Why do I have all this stuff in my drawers?" Never again. NEVAH!

[@lisahill4743]

Tabitha and chance I love you all's commentary because you all keep 💯 it's about you guys growing and learning from your mistakes and keep on pushing can't get no honest than that

[@user-lenise876]

There were many gems in this video. The one that's for me in this season is to not get comfortable in someone else's space. Keeping a healthy distance. That spoke to me because of my current situation....I'm in a new role on my job and in a new team...yes....its a word for me. Amen 🙏🏾 Brother Chance.

[@scly6951]

Thank you just what I needed. I lost my best friend. I received my Bachelor now working on my Masters. She stopped calling and did.not come to my graduation party. I am still healing from the lost BUT finally Loving me💜💜

[@andreauswilliams8354]

Fridayy's with Tab and Chance , such a blessing!! This conversation is so very poignant. You all transparency and willing to share is helpful to so many others. For every door that has closed, look at the many doors that have now opened 🙏🏿❤️. Love the Browns 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

[@idivorcedit]

🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@MashondiaSWells]

“What goes on in the house stays in the house” is not being transparent. They just choose topics that they think the audience is interested.

[@verabass2868]

Sometimes it takes that loss to see that you really won!! God makes no mistakes ! God Bless you all!

[@taytriggs9065]

You got me saying “bring the best in” and it is annoying my 15 year old. I volunteered at her school assembly just yesterday and low and behold my baby name was on a slide for Principal’s High Honor Roll. 3.9 or higher since her 1st year of high school. So I yelled out “Sadie bring the beat in”. Everybody screamed and yelled because my baby go through a lot (I’m in need of an organ transplant) and has a little anxiety. Anyway you help me find ways to connect to her. For example I have always called her “sis” like you do Choyce. Thank you…

[@rheeryder2524]

Just prayed for you. Sincerely.

[@lajoycealdridge5386]

Ooh. Discomfort is what I'm dealing with now. Help me Father in Jesus Name Amen. Praise God

[@ItsPersonalwithAshleyElle]

I love listening to y’all. It’s like having a conversation with the cool aunt and uncle

[@STOCKUPwithLarryJones]

Hey guys Love the positivity you guys bring ❤

[@feliciaglover]

Preach Tab, this is what the World needed 24:11 to hear. The Truth, this message you shared with your husband, especially the very end you witnessed of the Salvation of God, that there is CHANGE! Although you were sleepy, the Holy Spirit was present. Amen 🙏🏽

[@sherronfraser4823]

Oooh! Love what Chance said, if you lose yourself, you've lost. Coupled w/Tab's statement of finding yourself and being authentic. I am on this journey, realizing some of the things I'm facing is because I am not my authentic self.

[@Unapologetically211]

Me too I feel you on that. I been doing better in this area but I sometimes wonder does God hear me ?!? Tab and Chance always confirm that God is always listening.

[@lifecoachthirl]

I'm less than 4 minutes in and laughing. The honesty gets me every time. Chance is showing us more of his comedic side each video. Love Tab & Chance ❤️

[@lifecoachthirl]

And the rest of the video does not disappoint. Absolutely love this episode. Thanks again Tab & Chance! Love these Friday conversations 💕

[@olly2027]

I was sad that I was fired from my daycare, now I’m working at a high school.

[@lifecoachthirl]

@olly2027 one door closed and another one opened! Awesome!

[@Lajuanitsme]

Sometimes you have to lose to gain and I can live with it as long as I learned from it♥️💯💪🏾😘

[@ritastarrgreen611]

Y’all are helping me!!! Thank you Lord!!! 🙌🏽❤️❤️❤️…I love you both so much!!!

[@ThyKingdomComeCooking]

I love how her loses are actual beautiful wins bc they fit into the full story of her life. It's like a quilt. There are different stories in every square and every square is not the same. Some larger than others, some with frills but the story still grows and shows the beautiful journey. Keep showing others how to pull the Win outta the Loss

[@4ErickaT]

My mother & I were JUST talking about how they're times when we hold people to where we "once" knew them. We have to allow people to grow, as we all should. If they haven't, you'll know a well.

[@PaulaBrown-xp1vg]

when Jesus leads you....All you need is 1 season! God Bless sis!

[@tara4563]

When one door closes, another one opens. You both are so inspiring. Team Chance and Tab. ❤

[@mistyblue3206]

This was on time. God spoke to me thru you regarding some of my concerns I spoke to Him about. Thanks Tab

[@LivingIntheRED]

I’m newly married and I rush to see Fridays with Tab and Chance each week. I’m so excited to hear you all discuss marriage and relationships. Thank you for being so transparent and true. #ManyBlessings

[@ladycslifestyle5055]

Hey Y’all!! Great conversation!! I have had a lot of losses that the Lord turned into wins and I am thankful!! Amen!! You two stay on the journey!! Love y’all ❤

[@RhondasCreativeCorner]

I am in tears! I just went through this same thing closing my warehouse! Some won’t ever understand this! But I do! ❤❤❤ Thanks Tab and Chance 😊

[@JoyceDoty]

I look forward to Fridays with Tab and Chance every Friday and y'all NEVER disappoint.. Thank you!

[@mstea4325]

I appreciate you both! Thank you so much for pouring into the world! God Bless you! Keep on being You!🥰 We love you guys!!! That is Real talk. I know God is using you.

[@fdoctor79]

Yes, the pink slip can be a blessing in disguise. Change = GROWTH! Amen!

[@Virtuouswomanproductions]

This came right on time as always. You both are changing the world. One video at a time, you are bringing truth love and wisdom...OOOh God we thank you

[@missmeyon]

Some people discuss the old you, because they don't have access to the new you. You leveled up so hard, they had to get to know you again!

[@sonyablessed]

I love Fridays with Tab and chance! You two are a inspiration, THANK YOU TWO!! KEEP following God and and sharing your wisdom with us💖💖💖

[@bemefreedom]

Awe, I love your story Chance, it rings true thank you for sharing it! Tab you are always awesome too! Thank you both for showing up, because you'll help me show up for my life!

[@diaelise]

Whew!!!! The way this is RIGHT. ON. TIME. for me 🙌🏾 all I can do is praise God. Wow I’m definitely in my transformation phase right now & this hit my spirit. I love y’all & I seriously appreciate the conversations you guys bring to the table ❤️

[@she-whoempow-rzz6562]

SOOOOOOO MANY PRECIOUS RICH NUGGETS, YALL!! Rich gems! I've learned in these 64 years of overcoming adversities & LOSSES, I hv DEVELOPED n2 A LEADER DESTINED TO WIN!!! All the losses have cultivated my character.to withstand/overcome what COMES w/winning. ONE MUST BE EQUIPPED & EXPERIENTIALLY TRAINED 4 IT! ONLY BY THE MERCY & GRACE OF GOD AND MY PURSUIT OF EXCELLENCE TO BRING HIM GLORY! Working on myself daily! God continue to bless your WISDOM, KNOWLEDGE & MINISTRY ...YALL KNOW YALL R SHEPHARDING, RITE? Luv U & pray 4 U daily!

[@Backpack16]

100%, sometimes you have to lose, in order to win. We may not like the lost, but when you reflect back, you say thank you God. For taking me out of that situation

[@aisha_lovely]

Great convo, very real!

[@v.v.6551]

Great subject.Most people are made to change because the other person is trying to mold you for what they want you to be and the relationship falls apart cause you couldn't be yourself.

[@tee5096]

Lol..we always go through this with the intro/song🤣

[@lydiagibbs1001]

You both are very encouraging. God bless you.

[@JulyMoon82]

I started watching your videos on Facebook during the pandemic, and you've been such a light since I saw that first video. Don't know why I never got around to visiting your KZbin until now. That said, I'm so happy to see all these wonderful things happening for you and your family. Listen, I picked up so many items from the Tabitha Brown collection at Target from the past couple weeks, and went so far as to order 3 of those beautiful drinking glasses to match the ONE I found in the store. I hope Target does a permanent collection with you, because these limited edition collections (though special) are not enough for us. We need a permanent partnership. That said, thanks for this message. We need to learn to move with gratitude even when the spirit is rerouting us in another direction. Y'all are so beautiful and I wish you continued success. 💜 Funny final side note, I used to work at Apac in South Texas answering calls for Verizon many, many years ago in my 20s. I felt that story deep. 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

[@zahria4495]

Definitely needed this , things haven’t been going right in my life for awhile now , I finally let go off weed 1/6/23 and I notice a difference in myself I still feel God , now more than ever .. he speaks to me through literally everything I do and I love it I love im finding God again I love im finding myself again

[@zahria4495]

Thank you Tab for always being a “auntie” for years to me it means alooooot I hope I meet you one dayyyyy !

[@rheeryder2524]

Powerful!

[@n.v.1173]

Tab you wear colorful clothing so well. Beautiful. 💃🏻⭐️✨🥰

[@arteshastafford]

I really appreciate you sharing these vulnerable spaces in your life. It was very helpful to hear your perspectives on “losses”. ❤❤❤

[@creativetechconcierge]

The losses in life and love have set me up to win. I’m so grateful for them. Bless you both!!

[@blacklovenlight]

20:42 I needed to hear this. Thank you Tab 💜 still healing my loving loss/ lesson to get me ready for a win!

[@ministerfelichafisher2]

Excellent topic-and I am loving that sweater, Baby Girl. Like I tell my husband often, “It ain’t the clothes; it’s you that make the clothes look good.”🥰🤗💜🌷

[@keishadawkins-hardy]

Thank you HOLY SPIRIT! 🙌🏾 I NEEDED THIS WORD!!!

[@ShireeHutcherson]

I love y’all Like seriously Tab I love your voice it’s soothing & the positivity affirmations are beautiful ❤️❤️

[@bbgirl6741]

When she’s serious me too not when she talks silly tho 🤷🏻‍♀️ I prefer the serious Tab.

[@kimberlyfolmar]

I always feel like if something happens where it appears to be a lost. I always think okay God what you got coming, because better got to be coming. That setback set you up for your future. Change is inevitable. I love this conversation you're having. I love you guys ❤️🥰🤗

[@charisb2507]

What a beautiful family. How many times have I seen Chance bring in the beat off the beat 😂

[@Christmas2Hart]

I love everything about this message. Truly there is a message in this video. I have gone through some of the experiences mentioned. It hurt at the time but God had a plan. Growth and change took place and that far outweighed what I thought was a loss.

[@cassandrahansberry1195]

"People who see you completely and love you for you...." Throughly enjoyed this discussion...❤❤

[@nursinglocdvibes9912]

I look forward to Fridays with y’all! I learn so much from you two beautiful people. I laugh and even had to cry on this one (and a few others) because y’all helped me heal from being fired from a job I loved years ago, but I understand now that if God didn’t remove me that I’d still be there and would not have became a nurse which was my dream from the start. I could not become a nurse at that job…I had to go! Thank you both for helping me heal…I pass y’all videos on to many other people as well because YALL ARE NECESSARY for so many of us out here. Thank y’all for what y’all do. Looking forward to this Friday!!! ❤️♥️

[@chenicerogers9130]

❤❤❤I Look Forward to Friday Nights!!!This Conversation was on point and RIGHT ON TIME!!!!!!!

[@shelleyharris247]

Sometimes you gotta lose to win again….so true. Just want to send out a reminder for you to stay strong through the transitioning process. I love ya Tabitha. Your messages always seem to hit on something we are going through over here . See ya on the screen soon

[@madeleinebruna9382]

Amen 🙏🏼 our Father will meet us were we are Amen 🙏🏼

[@justmeprematee]

Same here. I used to think that she was reading my page😉

[@jandonahue459]

Love the wisdom y’all share… Y’all were truly built for this!!! Y’all make us better; even Blackie🎉 💕💕💕We love y’all 💕

[@movettwilliams9029]

Girllllllllllllllllllllllllllll…You said that!! Stuck ❤ Push ❤ New Level ❤ So thankful for the Lord doing that too us~

[@freesfiyabling5376]

“You changed! I hope so!!”Love this quote!

[@tarachristina3922]

This was a very powerful and necessary conversation, thank you 🙏🏽 I had a major aha moment which is too personal to share, but just know that I appreciate you both. Be Well!

[@Domonique025]

This was right on time and confirmation at the same time. Keep allowing the Lord to use you both! ❤❤

[@paulaadeoye987]

I really appreciate the message trying overcome a great loss now 🤦🏿‍♀️ God will see me thru it .

[@mosue3200]

A conversation full of gems! 💎💎 Thank you Tab and Chance!

[@lafinawoods2174]

Lord, I thank you for the loss. I trust the process and plans you have for me!

[@lynnbill]

Another great conversation 😊 I agree and related to everything said. I just gave my kids another 1 of my testimonies along the same lines. I like to give them real examples to know GOD is real and not just in words ❤️❤️

[@StarhasReturnedToSenderForever]

I think this will be my favorite episode of Tam and Chance... However, this is a very vital message for the past present and the future. In addition I truly enjoyed this episode from beginning to end. Thank you!

[@toomuch8931]

Mr. Chance Brown dropping gems!!! Being a winner is a character position! Love this family❤️❤️🙏🏾 #tabithabrown❤️

[@shyysheis]

currently experiencing this transition 🥰🎉 This came at the most divine time❤

[@ashleybcookin]

Ive experienced something similar ( failed business etc) and I’m at a point in life where my peace is something I’m not willing to compromise. My last day at my job is Wednesday and I’m so overjoyed to release that weight on my soul. Wins and losses.

[@yolondagarrett7247]

"Who would we be without the challenges and opportunities we faced?" The LEARNINGS that come from failure are invaluable, even if you learn something15 years later. It's important for people to know that failure is an event, not a person. I'm blessed that an element of my day job (innovation) has allowed me to reframe (recovering perfectionist 🙋🏾‍♀️🤣), and coach and enable others to think differently.

[@I_am_wtl]

“I am who you see” YEEEESSSS SIIIR! Felt this in my soul. ❤

[@NicoleAllwood]

This episode truly blessed me especially the friendship part! God has been restoring and renewing me more and more and I’ve been distant from my old friends praying about where the friendship go from here because I’m not the same as far as my negative ways (cussing, secular music, etc.) and I don’t know if or how the friendships can continue. Love them, miss them, pray for them, but his really helped me.

[@vanessadeberry2453]

I just love them and their relationship

[@promisking3904]

Just listening with understanding I'm glad to get confirmation & know that the loss I took wasn't my fault that I just can't & want settle for just any man...so I'm single but winning I'm grateful for all your accomplishments & Blessings you are both so uplifting May the God Lord continues to keep you Blessings

[@jeneeg6852]

I agree. You never lose if you learn something from the experience and it might not be until years later. I too have been in a job knowing it was supposed to be temporary but got comfortable and each time God said if your not gonna move I will make you and I was laid off. Each time I found better opportunities with almost no time unemployed.

[@sharonadams2858]

Chance your story about that past job experience was quite powerful. I had a similar experience, getting terminated due to a conflict with my director so she set me up with false falsification. I was falsely accused of falsifying records. I'm a Registered Nurse and chose not to pursue advised legal actions. I grieved a long time but that setback was a setup for greater things for me and my family. Sometimes we get too comfortable to move so God has to do it. Thank you both for your transparency. 🌟💜🌟

[@MDavis-zy6nz]

He looks like a bumb free loader and a cheater, fake...just hanging around for a free ride....

[@CartersEat]

FIRST TIME CATCHING YALLS FRIDAY. BLESSING BEAUTIFUL BROWN PEOPLESSSS.. LOVE THE ENERGY.. BUT THAT GLOWING SWEATER..