Friends: Rachel Asks Ross To Be Her Backup (Season 6 Clip) | TBS

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@bellesiricord
@bellesiricord 2 жыл бұрын
I can't help but laugh at Rachel's "Hey you" whenever she wants something from Ross. 🤣
@Ved_Desai
@Ved_Desai Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@opheliawinfrey9501
@opheliawinfrey9501 Жыл бұрын
2:51 😂😂😂
@liquifex
@liquifex Жыл бұрын
Pretty much EVERY female, including my wife.
@c.barrett5114
@c.barrett5114 Жыл бұрын
​@@liquifex Now I feel like I have to monitor if I do that with my husband or not 😅
@yanan4249
@yanan4249 Жыл бұрын
@@liquifexno, not all women. Some women are quite straight forward 🙂 Actually Rachel was my least favourite character because all her little tricks and manipulations.
@ramikaarora51
@ramikaarora51 2 жыл бұрын
Ross proudly saying Phoebe as her back up in front of rachel is best. Shows his strong friendship with pheebs though he dated rachel
@praspurgh
@praspurgh 2 жыл бұрын
you can tell from other episodes too, such as give her a bike.
@ramikaarora51
@ramikaarora51 2 жыл бұрын
@@praspurgh though joey found mike but Ross insisted to take him seriously.
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 2 жыл бұрын
I think that it says more that Ross wants Rachel to know that not only does he not need her the way that she needs him, but he's already taken even in that hypothetical situation, of her deciding their future together in the case that she isn't married at 40. Thereby validating what she's doing but rejecting her choice of action in doing it to him. While of course, not denying that he would do it if it were not for Phoebe, which is Ross hiding behind Phoebe instead of confronting Rachel head-on. Rachel should have offered Phoebe a mood-ring in exchange for the rights to Ross as a fallback and they'd all know how strongly Phoebe felt about having Ross as a fallback. In the end Phoebe throws Ross on Rachels' lap anyway.
@ramikaarora51
@ramikaarora51 2 жыл бұрын
​@@touristguy87 definitely he loves rachel but he was hurt when Phoebe made joey her back up as well because they shook the deal
@bubleshwari
@bubleshwari 2 жыл бұрын
@@touristguy87 Rachel just likes to use Ross whenever she feels like
@Heysiriitsme
@Heysiriitsme 2 жыл бұрын
Joey is always been a supportive and protective for his friends
@arthurnewmanltd5670
@arthurnewmanltd5670 11 ай бұрын
Until he moved in on Rachel when she was pregnant with Ross’ baby. Yes I know he asked but a real friend does not do that.
@Gamerafighter76
@Gamerafighter76 11 ай бұрын
I think him and Pheebs are good together.
@nncn1577
@nncn1577 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel’s long hair looks so freaking perfect
@evaml11
@evaml11 2 жыл бұрын
Hair extensions. But it really suited her.
@amiradjiar73
@amiradjiar73 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel's long hair looks so freaking perfect
@emcgrew2
@emcgrew2 2 жыл бұрын
Hair extensions so perfect she had to take them out because they were pulling her real hair out of her head but yaaaaay so pretty!! 🙄
@JennyNguyen-zv9qs
@JennyNguyen-zv9qs 2 жыл бұрын
@@evaml11 a11
@johnvertudazo7205
@johnvertudazo7205 2 жыл бұрын
@@emcgrew2 why are you so pressed about it 😂
@username4263
@username4263 2 жыл бұрын
“Ehhh he’s just a backup” 😂 truer words spoken 🤣🤣
@you_already_have_it
@you_already_have_it 2 жыл бұрын
Monica is really glowing here with a little tan and chocolate hair color.
@janneth2211
@janneth2211 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I love that look too. Sometimes she is too white😂
@henri191
@henri191 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel / Jennifer Aniston is perfect in this season , her hair is amazing and the definition of beauty
@awaisrana9415
@awaisrana9415 2 жыл бұрын
Can you send me this season Link please??
@CrazyIshan69
@CrazyIshan69 2 жыл бұрын
Season 1, 2, 7 and 8 Rachel is my favourite.
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 2 жыл бұрын
eh she's still only 5'5" and a B cup
@maiamustache
@maiamustache 2 жыл бұрын
@@touristguy87 as if jennifer aniston would even breathe in your direction lmao
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 2 жыл бұрын
@@maiamustache LOL little do you know
@dominikdobrotic8298
@dominikdobrotic8298 2 жыл бұрын
Lol Joey literally tying the knots in the next scene
@lilyrose8706
@lilyrose8706 2 жыл бұрын
Oh I didn't realize the play there. Nice
@The_Beast_666
@The_Beast_666 2 жыл бұрын
OMFG!
@opheliawinfrey9501
@opheliawinfrey9501 2 жыл бұрын
OMG!! Makes sense
@Viking102938
@Viking102938 2 жыл бұрын
Wait, does she have two backups in case on of her backups gets married? Phoebe always was my favorite.
@Bloooo95
@Bloooo95 2 жыл бұрын
With Ross being one of her backups, there’s a strong chance of that.
@waseemjaas7757
@waseemjaas7757 2 жыл бұрын
She had 3 backups. She also made a deal with Chandler but clearly she lost him.
@Karyabs
@Karyabs 2 жыл бұрын
Phoebe was too street for the whole gang
@YeeAmeen
@YeeAmeen 2 жыл бұрын
@@Karyabs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ...Totally agree
@nextctrl
@nextctrl 2 жыл бұрын
She said its good sense to have backup of your backup
@nba_fan7214
@nba_fan7214 2 жыл бұрын
Glad Rachel was able to be 80% happy for Monica and Chandler
@0RiCeBuBbLeZ0
@0RiCeBuBbLeZ0 2 жыл бұрын
She was a toxic friend
@cindy45544
@cindy45544 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Duskysky1
@Duskysky1 2 жыл бұрын
@@0RiCeBuBbLeZ0 no some people just feel weird when they haven't accomplished anything much...
@itachistan437
@itachistan437 2 жыл бұрын
@@Duskysky1 but most people dont sit and be selfish and take away from a big moment from their best friends
@bubleshwari
@bubleshwari 2 жыл бұрын
@@0RiCeBuBbLeZ0 100 percent agreed
@BREAKocean
@BREAKocean Жыл бұрын
Joey is a great friend. He always backed up his bros
@peytonlong5573
@peytonlong5573 9 ай бұрын
3:38 that split second facial expression from Rachel that thought Ross had multiple options before her cracks me up
@Predictable1
@Predictable1 7 ай бұрын
He did not have multiple options. He only had Phoebe. Phoebe is the one who had multiple options. lol She said even Chandler was a backup 😅
@princessneekee853
@princessneekee853 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel's season 6 long hair is so beautiful
@bubleshwari
@bubleshwari 2 жыл бұрын
And her personality in all the seasons is so toxic and self centred
@garimasmusicchannel9907
@garimasmusicchannel9907 2 жыл бұрын
These are extensions
@bluebird2604
@bluebird2604 2 жыл бұрын
@@bubleshwariyou probably didn't pay attention on the others characters, just to hate Rachel , this is toxic too hehe. Joe sleeping with every woman is so no toxic, all the characters were during the show on some point self centered , it's just a show .
@Beaneabean
@Beaneabean 2 жыл бұрын
@@bubleshwari All of the characters are insufferable
@bubleshwari
@bubleshwari 2 жыл бұрын
@@Beaneabean agreed
@AndySaenz
@AndySaenz 2 жыл бұрын
Phoebe is Ross’ backup, and Joey is Phoebe’s backup. But Rachel wants Ross to be her backup. My, what a tangled web of love they weave!
@djanasurkovic4099
@djanasurkovic4099 Жыл бұрын
Ant yet they are still called "friends"...
@theduffxo531
@theduffxo531 Жыл бұрын
the "hey youuuuuu" always gets me 😭😂
@katecosettevocals
@katecosettevocals 2 жыл бұрын
I got so into it that I forgot this was just a clip, I was so disappointed when it ended lol. Guess it's time for a Friends rewatch xD
@newwavepop
@newwavepop 2 жыл бұрын
i am a guy, i had hair that long in my 20s but it never looked that good. when Monica walks in and says "have you seen Rachel, or a mirror" that was such a Chandler line. i wonder if the writers did that on purpose to show how much time they were spending together, i always wonder how much forethought actually goes into shows.
@Tbone_albon
@Tbone_albon 2 жыл бұрын
You overthink too much
@tuantrananh4015
@tuantrananh4015 2 жыл бұрын
Nah they all had sarcasm just that Chandler use it all the time.
@markeec1234
@markeec1234 2 жыл бұрын
Still don't understand what in the hell your hair has to do with any of this
@jcout25
@jcout25 2 жыл бұрын
@@markeec1234 Lol I'm tryin to figure out the same thing.
@sotsubreivaj
@sotsubreivaj Жыл бұрын
@@markeec1234 he didn't put much forethought in this his comment.
@rc653
@rc653 2 жыл бұрын
Rachel's confused face after ross said they shook on it. 🤣
@paulbraga4460
@paulbraga4460 2 жыл бұрын
one of the most hilarious scenes in friens over the years - doesn't grow old...blessings
@immortaljanus
@immortaljanus 2 жыл бұрын
Phoebe has a backup for her backup. Smart.
@prasannakumar-je4ur
@prasannakumar-je4ur Жыл бұрын
because she already lost her backup backup's backup(chandler)
@Kameshkumar-mr3xv
@Kameshkumar-mr3xv Жыл бұрын
batman mentality
@geetanjalidas3417
@geetanjalidas3417 Жыл бұрын
😂phoebe want to marry Chandler for his money
@henri191
@henri191 2 жыл бұрын
So , She basically asked Ross to marry her
@FreddytheFredFred
@FreddytheFredFred 2 жыл бұрын
No, she asked him to pick her after she'd tried everyone else.
@ronaldeliascorderocalles
@ronaldeliascorderocalles 2 жыл бұрын
It was not the first time. She was the one who asked that in Vegas.
@Hello-fz3cj
@Hello-fz3cj 2 жыл бұрын
@@FreddytheFredFred and vice versa
@NSilver832
@NSilver832 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and I thought THEY WERE ON A BREAK!!!
@amiradjiar73
@amiradjiar73 2 жыл бұрын
So she basically asked Ross to marry her
@HouseOfMitchell
@HouseOfMitchell 2 жыл бұрын
This was apparently based on Schwimmer and Aniston a bit, cause in real life they made this pact about if they was single at 40 they would marry etc but neither was unfortunately
@alirezasaliani5165
@alirezasaliani5165 2 жыл бұрын
Monica's arm genetics were insane.
@Hajersyoutube
@Hajersyoutube 2 жыл бұрын
How?
@alirezasaliani5165
@alirezasaliani5165 2 жыл бұрын
@@Hajersyoutube they look jacked every time I see them.
@Hajersyoutube
@Hajersyoutube 2 жыл бұрын
@@alirezasaliani5165 lol right I noticed that too. I find them fine and healthy arms actually
@nonmagicmike723
@nonmagicmike723 Жыл бұрын
Liftin' weights.
@СнежанаНешић
@СнежанаНешић 2 жыл бұрын
1:10 Well, at least Joey tighted the knot. 😁
@wenz7456
@wenz7456 2 жыл бұрын
Phoebe is the smart one 😂🤣😂😂🤣
@violetpotato864
@violetpotato864 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks to them, I made a deal with a friend and now I have a back-up 😂😂...the deal was at 35 and I am getting little nervous since I am almost 30 and have got no boyfriend.
@beenaiqbal8111
@beenaiqbal8111 2 жыл бұрын
That's great 😂😂
@il9001
@il9001 2 жыл бұрын
Yes but the thing is, if your friend find the one before 35, the deal is broken...
@violetpotato864
@violetpotato864 2 жыл бұрын
@@il9001 😭
@nicholasflame_4796
@nicholasflame_4796 2 жыл бұрын
Do you like your friend?
@Tommy_111
@Tommy_111 2 жыл бұрын
@@nicholasflame_4796 good question right here
@CARLOSRD0239
@CARLOSRD0239 2 жыл бұрын
Phebe had a back up for the back up.
@muhammadmufly23
@muhammadmufly23 2 жыл бұрын
I mean she actually have three backups though
@hernanalejandromejiascacer3511
@hernanalejandromejiascacer3511 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe you change I didn't change Maybe that's the problem...
@toptenguy1
@toptenguy1 2 жыл бұрын
Phoebe is a "Backup hoarder" lol
@AndySaenz
@AndySaenz 2 жыл бұрын
It feels like Jennifer and David are still dating in real life.
@phillyfan-182
@phillyfan-182 2 жыл бұрын
I would marry Monica in a heartbeat
@The_Beast_666
@The_Beast_666 2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't even if she threw herself to me.
@GreaterSociety
@GreaterSociety Жыл бұрын
I'd blow her back out
@nonmagicmike723
@nonmagicmike723 Жыл бұрын
She's physically attractive but her personality is atrocious.
@spongebobswindow7472
@spongebobswindow7472 Жыл бұрын
you'll have fun eating cookies over the sink
@bigonicha3225
@bigonicha3225 2 жыл бұрын
Considered joey was supposed to be stupid he said some pretty good words in here lol
@nonmagicmike723
@nonmagicmike723 Жыл бұрын
He once said "hence".
@chightower1989
@chightower1989 2 жыл бұрын
I love that sound Phoebe did!🥰
@krishnasrinivasan2361
@krishnasrinivasan2361 Жыл бұрын
Supposedly, it's the sound of a horse before mating...🤣🤣
@intheair1987
@intheair1987 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if anyone has ever followed through one of these pacts and how it ends up
@ForeverSweetx3
@ForeverSweetx3 2 жыл бұрын
Ross and Rachel for sure did!
@ishjain49
@ishjain49 2 жыл бұрын
Well that's just some good sense - Phoebe
@zanehung7983
@zanehung7983 2 жыл бұрын
With Rachel/Ross and Joey/Phoebe being two expected pairs, I think Phoebe and Ross can also make a great couple but not so much with Rachel and Joey.
@NaticzkaKaminskaHenryDolphin
@NaticzkaKaminskaHenryDolphin Жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 Жыл бұрын
I guess so. Poor Ross. That made me sad for some reason.
@gaynorpatterson2915
@gaynorpatterson2915 Жыл бұрын
I love that polka dot mug. I can’t find the funky ones they had anywhere
@kipanuka4929
@kipanuka4929 2 жыл бұрын
I need a friend like joey...
@shalynv5902
@shalynv5902 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine Ross marrying Pheeb
@ece282
@ece282 Жыл бұрын
she can do better
@karabisahariah3724
@karabisahariah3724 5 ай бұрын
When joey said " you got that from what I said" at that moment he might have thought why he said that 🤣
@jjmaybankloverr
@jjmaybankloverr 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like Jennifer/Rachel is the only person who can *slay* that hair length
@fawnedcan4215
@fawnedcan4215 2 жыл бұрын
I have that length now she’s my inspo for hair and fashion💘
@jenlindley7780
@jenlindley7780 2 жыл бұрын
Here in Brazil this hair lenght is very common, in fact, it's not that long compared to the girls here
@youknowwho257
@youknowwho257 Жыл бұрын
What are you talking about, very long hair girls are amazing, i hate girls with short hair and Rachel hair on this ep hit the bare minimum that i like. E Jen aqui em cima, se você é do Brasil você diz o nome do pais normalmente, com S e não deformando o nome como eles fazem com Z.
@muhammadmufly23
@muhammadmufly23 2 жыл бұрын
Well in the end Ross and Rachel got remarried
@jaisonmathewjohn756
@jaisonmathewjohn756 2 жыл бұрын
And the backup became the primary choice!
@matheusbueno548
@matheusbueno548 2 жыл бұрын
I totally saw how "How i met your mother" was made from these scenes haha
@Lily-is1oi
@Lily-is1oi 2 жыл бұрын
Their skin thoo 🔥🔥
@queenjanee6290
@queenjanee6290 2 жыл бұрын
I have to say when ppl put stuff out there like this. I respect. Like don’t take anyones choice away. That why I respect men who tell women upfront what they want or don’t want bc it is your decision to stay or play. So if anything goes wrong. No one is at fault and all parties knew
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 2 жыл бұрын
nobody is a slave to their past opinions especially not women
@youknowwho257
@youknowwho257 Жыл бұрын
@@touristguy87 What in the hell are you talking about, and what do you mean by "especially not women" ? You think they are special or more important than anyone else on the planet, or you just think you gonna get some by symping ?
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 Жыл бұрын
@@youknowwho257 it is not what I think that matters so spare me your outrage and hostility in any case I am truly sorry that you were confused by such a simple statement.
@XDarkAlphaZ13
@XDarkAlphaZ13 2 жыл бұрын
well i have to say i'm certainly glad they that got together because they wanted to be together and not just because of some pact, i still think its a bit of a shame that Joey and Phoebe didn't get together they certainly had quite a connection i definitely think he was better with her than mike
@chimpobimbo3036
@chimpobimbo3036 2 жыл бұрын
Joey & phoebe would’ve made an amazing couple no doubt about that..
@XDarkAlphaZ13
@XDarkAlphaZ13 2 жыл бұрын
​@@chimpobimbo3036 definitely so many nice moments together they even hinted at them getting together many times i wonder why they never did it
@rafaelperezsosa9950
@rafaelperezsosa9950 2 жыл бұрын
@@XDarkAlphaZ13 Joey spin off
@chimpobimbo3036
@chimpobimbo3036 2 жыл бұрын
@@XDarkAlphaZ13 beats me🤷🏾
@eclipsicalbluestocking1182
@eclipsicalbluestocking1182 2 жыл бұрын
I mean I loved their friendship and a part of me wonders what they would look like as a couple but my philosophy is pretty much "If it ain't broke don't fix it"
@thenuclearsandwich
@thenuclearsandwich 11 ай бұрын
The best part is when they confront Phoebe.
@EA-uf4js
@EA-uf4js 2 жыл бұрын
1:50 hahahahhaha
@anaishammoud3163
@anaishammoud3163 Жыл бұрын
They all look so pretty! -Thank GOD for F.R.I.E.N.D.S.!
@ilb473
@ilb473 2 жыл бұрын
I love Monica's outfit
@THETRIVIALTHINGS
@THETRIVIALTHINGS 2 жыл бұрын
Don't be anyone's back up, people.
@memwasfred
@memwasfred Жыл бұрын
Phoebe has her bases covered😅
@hissendaoud1373
@hissendaoud1373 2 жыл бұрын
i 💙all Friends so much
@virginiatrailcameravideos
@virginiatrailcameravideos Жыл бұрын
"...or a mirror?" Ha.
@jjmaybankloverr
@jjmaybankloverr 2 жыл бұрын
WHY CANT PHOEBE AND JOEY EVEN TRY DATING
@Be1smaht
@Be1smaht 2 жыл бұрын
ross is always rachels backup.... thats the problem
@IN-tm8mw
@IN-tm8mw 2 жыл бұрын
😂Its happened to me 4 times. where a girl wanted me to be her backup but i had to put in all the work.
@xjcrossx
@xjcrossx Жыл бұрын
Good comment.
@bryernandrews4271
@bryernandrews4271 2 жыл бұрын
Joey's a good friend 2:27
@MGEE8572
@MGEE8572 2 жыл бұрын
It must be chilly in that studio ...poor Jennifer
@yanikg-force
@yanikg-force 2 жыл бұрын
Man, Ross' apartment must be frigging cold. 😉
@kman20
@kman20 Жыл бұрын
He saw Rachel coming and cranked up the AC 😂
@vathgriffith
@vathgriffith 9 ай бұрын
Dang Monica's beautiful hair
@camilaribeiro9191
@camilaribeiro9191 2 жыл бұрын
So Phoebe had as backup two men who loved Rachel, hmmmm, interesting.
@mrsilver8517
@mrsilver8517 2 жыл бұрын
Wow; how much of HIMYM was taken directly from this show?
@julieenzo6557
@julieenzo6557 2 жыл бұрын
Her hair 😍
@sipsimies1588
@sipsimies1588 2 жыл бұрын
This never works, imagine marrying not your first choice and trying to stay happy
@aldaamaral6416
@aldaamaral6416 8 ай бұрын
These three ladies are so beautiful and the three guys are so handsome rest in peace Matthew
@aeh5109
@aeh5109 Жыл бұрын
This is the season where the girls look the prettiest
@wulynne
@wulynne 2 жыл бұрын
Owwww. A back up! Silly me! Ahahahaha.
@gaitero1983
@gaitero1983 2 жыл бұрын
And they eventually do more than that. I heard that before, someone came up with a theory about those two.
@vijayjayaraman5990
@vijayjayaraman5990 Жыл бұрын
So Ross has two Salmon shirts?
@eshitamazumdar7278
@eshitamazumdar7278 Жыл бұрын
0:56😂😂😂😂
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 2 жыл бұрын
this just fried the few healthy brain-cells that I had after watching YT for 6 hours today
@IKnowImGayWhenISayThisBut
@IKnowImGayWhenISayThisBut 2 жыл бұрын
6 hours? You got to pump those numbers up. Those are rookie numbers!
@dj44640
@dj44640 Жыл бұрын
pretty sure there was a certain clause in the girls' contracts to NEVER EVER wear a bra for the whole series known as the NIPPLE FRIENDS clause
@tan.nicolas
@tan.nicolas Жыл бұрын
Joey is so cool
@preezo007
@preezo007 2 жыл бұрын
I locked him in years ago lool
@noelanthony1204
@noelanthony1204 2 жыл бұрын
that's funny .. can life be that simple .. if you like each other just marry each other .. yes why not ?
@canuck21
@canuck21 2 жыл бұрын
Chandler proposed to be Monica's backup in season 1.
@themarquis336
@themarquis336 2 жыл бұрын
Ah, Phoebes will be Phoebes…
@wb3954
@wb3954 Жыл бұрын
Like two attractive women like Phoebe and Rachel living in New York City would have trouble finding love lol
@MahaDevCOD
@MahaDevCOD Жыл бұрын
Joy is best friend ☺️
@greninjafw
@greninjafw 2 жыл бұрын
When Chandler tried to lock Monica in
@Jingles_Morgan
@Jingles_Morgan Жыл бұрын
Anniston at her best
@Idas203
@Idas203 2 жыл бұрын
They were basically 40 so it makes no sense.
@NoahIsThaGOAT
@NoahIsThaGOAT 11 ай бұрын
No they were like exactly 30
@vathgriffith
@vathgriffith 2 жыл бұрын
Richard was perfect for Monica tbh. they looked goood together
@merdamarshall2382
@merdamarshall2382 2 жыл бұрын
On thing my man backed up was a josh Grubb trailer!
@9000fun
@9000fun 2 жыл бұрын
Ted and robin 🤣
@Katokhann
@Katokhann 9 ай бұрын
I was always split about this. While Chandler playing games to throw Monica off was definitely stupid, there's just something slimy about Moncia being ready to drop him right there and then, and run back to her ex. All so she can say she's married.
@angelicacorrea4080
@angelicacorrea4080 2 жыл бұрын
I thought it was pretty selfish how monica would marry richard since chandler is "against" marriage. That doesn't mean you should go marry your ex-boyfriend when you find out your boyfriend is against it. She should have just went to talk to him, I didn't like Monica in this scene.
@varsha9634
@varsha9634 2 жыл бұрын
honey she was emotional and considering she is a human she can't always be perfect. Besides she wouldn't have actually married richard that is totally off character for her she would have gone and talked to him about all this instead.
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 2 жыл бұрын
doesn't mean she shouldn't besides it was Richards' idea for them to stop seeing each other Just as it was Rachels' idea to get back together with Ross and she did so on her terms, not Ross'. Ross likewise got back together with Rachel on her terms. Life is full of moments like this, where people have to make a choice between compromising with someone they already know or finding someone else entirely. Sometimes they choose that compromise, sometimes they choose to move on...sometimes that choice is made for them....sometimes they hold out for a different compromise...sometimes they accept one situation and then decide they want a different situation or even a different person entirely. Life is non-judgmental that way for one simple reason: everyone does it, everyone has regrets for what they have done, and everyone pays the price one way or another.
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 2 жыл бұрын
@𝐀𝐆 that's not really the question to ask in this situation. It makes her look like the the main reason that she's dating him is that she expects to marry him. This is why there has been such a push against the entire idea of marriage. It's also why many states have "common-law" marriage laws. In DC I think it's 5 or 6 years that couples can be together, living together, essentially monogamous, before they're legally considered to be married. And I remember several cases that were in the news where even when the man and woman had different homes and did NOT live together most of the time...they might not even have been monogamous, really...but the fact that they kept seeing each other, for years, while the man continue to give her both gifts and financial support? When he tried to end things with her entirely she said "no no no" and took him to civil court claiming that they were married under common-law, and the judge agreed that he'd established an expectation from her and couldn't just abandon her at will. They were never actually married, never talked about getting married, just kept seeing each other, and for the judge that was good enough. She won both "alimony" and child support from him....for a child that wasn't even his. Then on the other hand you've got women who *do* want to literally walk away from their boyfriends and husbands and have no contact, nothing at all to do with them and these men get zero support in court. It is rare if ever that a woman would find herself financially responsible for a man that she used to date, much less legally married to them through common-law. Happens to men all the time.
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 2 жыл бұрын
@𝐀𝐆 I think this is really the whole issue that stands between men and women. Women are concerned about what their boyfriend says to them and what kind of emotional support their boyfriend provides to them. They're not concerned with being emotionally-stable and respectable, they just want a man who supports and respects them. And guys are like, you know it's nice that my girlfriend is attractive mentally, physically and emotionally but none of that means anything if I can't have sex with her, when and I how I want to have sex with her. And that's not even considering the other women that men want to have sex with, besides their wives and girlfriends. The simple fact is that with most men most of the time "providing emotional support" is at or very near the bottom of their list of concerns and one of the few things that changes that is that they can get laid by being emotionally supportive.. The problem is that many of them care a lot more about not having to be emotionally supportive in order to get laid. Often to the point where they are sexually aroused by being negligent, even abusive. There are a lot of people in this world who get their jollies by abusing others. Some of them are happy to marry a partner who they know they can abuse and they know will stick with them despite the abuse, and for such partners the abuse is normalized by their relationship, excuses made for it, it even becomes "a good thing". People begin to expect rewards for allowing themselves to be abused. And very sadly, that spreads out into the larger society. Let's face it. In the show Chandler comes from a very broken home. His father turns out not just to be homosexual, but a flaming homosexual. He can't really be expected to see marriage in a good light. He certainly can expect that someone who is intent on "getting married" to the point of breaking up with him if he doesn't want to "get married", is not exactly a good partner for him. And so Monica who is intent on "getting married" because she is getting older and wondering where her life is going to go...she forgets that when Chandler brought up this very idea at the beginning of the show that she actually laughed in his face at the idea of marrying "Chandler". Like he was some kind of circus-clown, not a respectable person. Much less a man that she would want to marry. Time and familiarity changed that situation for her, but Chandler had already gone through all that back when Monica was cocky and self-assured. He didn't spend all that time and effort with Janice because he knew that he would find someone else and be happy with them. Richard on the other hand is the guy that Ross and Chandler wish they were, to a large extent, and he *is* confident in his ability to find a good mate...and a good match for life...but he has no desire to marry a woman who he literally does not want to marry. Are not such men exactly the kind of men that most women want? So how can Chandler be confident that Monica wants to actually marry him instead of just "settling for him" when she realizes that she has to give up on Richard? And look how quickly she goes back to Richard anyway when she can't immediately get what she wants with Chandler. Yet again another consequence of wanting one man and rejecting another man. You are concerned with how Monica feels when Chandler says no. Why is Chandler saying no? Have you even thought about that?
@touristguy87
@touristguy87 2 жыл бұрын
@𝐀𝐆 and this leads to the ultimate question, why are people having sex with people who either they don't want to marry or who they don't know will actually marry them? AND why are people marrying each other and then finding out that there's something about them that they don't like and then wanting to leave them? Holy fucking shit, people. Women? He's a guy. Of course there's going to be something about him that you don't like. That he's actually proud of! And guys, the same goes for women! Do you honestly expect complete married bliss with someone who is not your same gender? So she goes running back to Richard, that only proves to Chandler that his reservations about marrying her are correct. Everyone learns at some point that jumping from one partner to another only proves that their previous partner was right in not taking them seriously. Just as as the person who jumped will see what their previous partner was really made of in their response to their switching partners and likewise should question what they see in themselves and their new partner. But the larger problem here is that none of the three of them really care more about being a real partner for someone more than having sex with them.
@Soul.Is.Willing
@Soul.Is.Willing Жыл бұрын
I liked phoebees hair so much better in the earlier shows. It was longer, thicker, wavy and in more natural styles.
@spinmaster0
@spinmaster0 11 ай бұрын
You can't be a backup with someone who you already have been with. That relationship ended for a reason - you think it will be better the 2nd time?
@EduPotato
@EduPotato Жыл бұрын
If I was Chandler and knew that Monica would run to Richard like that I also wouldn't marry her
@lacerdafelipe
@lacerdafelipe 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder if there are people who married based on this 40 years old rule
@lyars5965
@lyars5965 2 жыл бұрын
So because your current boyfriend doesn't want to marry, you go running back to your ex? Hmp
@soufimostafavikashani8557
@soufimostafavikashani8557 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah...I think that's the right move when your current boyfriend is wasting your time and your ex realises that he wants to marry you, why not? It wouldn't be fair to stick to someone who doesn't want you, right?
@lyars5965
@lyars5965 2 жыл бұрын
@@soufimostafavikashani8557 u'll figure it out sweety😊
@shahedmain
@shahedmain 2 жыл бұрын
how can i watch this full episod?]
@cheerwhiner7829
@cheerwhiner7829 Жыл бұрын
2:51 Does Ross keep his apartment chilly just in case Rachel visits? 😉
@YasmeenQ
@YasmeenQ Жыл бұрын
Lesson: Never go to Joey for advice
@itachistan437
@itachistan437 2 жыл бұрын
Monica was wrong for trying to cheat on chandler instead of talking to him about how she felt
@heathernks8
@heathernks8 2 жыл бұрын
Chandler was wrong for his "plan", lol. When you're about to get engaged, you know it, so that little game was bonkers!
@core45
@core45 2 жыл бұрын
I am definitely having phoebe as my back up. Who is your back up?
@willgisby4248
@willgisby4248 Жыл бұрын
Was pact a word back then 😅
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