From Fearful Avoidant to Securely Attached - My Personal Journey | Attachment Styles

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In this video I'll talk about my personal journey from FA to Secure. This video is not me giving advice, but merely sharing some things that worked for me along my journey. If you are struggling with addiction, an eating disorder etc., please seek out help from a local medical professional and be sure to follow the protocols of the program you are enrolled in!
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I’m Thais Gibson, welcome to my channel and thank you for stopping by!
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[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

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[@brunoeugene9293]

you all prolly dont give a shit but does any of you know of a trick to log back into an instagram account..? I was dumb forgot the login password. I would appreciate any tips you can offer me!

[@Mindsetolympics]

Just wondering during your four years if singleness did you make make friends with guys you were attracted to?

[@PR-cv1if]

Thank you so much for this video! I am an AP and found many helpful things to use in my life in your story. Thank you for all of your content ❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

so happy to hear that! @@PR-cv1if

[@Mama_Moosh]

You being vulnerable and sharing IS serving the listeners. I can’t tell you how helpful it was to hear your story. When people feel like they can relate to you, they trust what you say even more. Thank you so much for all your work and all your videos. They really have been life-changing for me.

[@JessentialLife]

I 100% agree!

[@TMH792]

Yasss!!!!

[@lindsayCswain]

100%

[@leonabylinski5800]

100%

[@amanda4sss]

Spot on.

[@starqueenlotus3755]

I become anxious when in a relationship and dismissive when out of it. Staying in a dismissive space feels safer than being in an anxious one.

[@oreokid77]

Exactly the same! I am doing my best to balance it out. Dismissive avoidant patterns are painful for me without a lot of effort and communication. Preoccupied triggers avoidant patterns for me. I need a securely attached person willing to work with me.

[@AA-ey6xw]

Ready to watch all 41 mins of this

[@christinapalchetti9531]

I have noticed that when I’m vulnerable or I say too much then the other person goes away too so I don’t know when to say something or when not to or how much?

[@Getwasted221]

I’m crying because I just spent the entire weekend drunk to avoid feeling my pain. I was in denial about it and telling myself I was just having a GREAT time... drinking on my own for 3 days straight. Yeah right. I’m an FA and INFP and I needed to hear this so bad!!! Thank you Thais

[@allicia5188]

Love u

[@kellidottridge2599]

❤️❤️❤️

[@kaylakunkel783]

I'm also an infp and fa, and one of my closest friends is also an infp and fa. I wonder if infps have more of a tendency to become fa's easier than others because of our sensitivity. It's just a thought I havent explored, but I'd like to know your thoughts on this if you've thought this before. But, I hope Thais' videos help you to grow and heal 😊

[@Getwasted221]

Kayla Kunkel I definitely think so. Infps value closeness as long as it’s not superficial and hate small talk like FAs. I also think because we think so differently to most people, feeling alone and misunderstood definitely contributes to my FA type. Like I feel like even if I get secure there’s certain things that will make me feel like I’m still FA because of my infp personality.

[@lindsayCswain]

Yep, I’m ENFP and FA. I totally agree that you’re onto something with that. Being highly intuitive and feeling makes us quite sensitive.

[@claudiaaegsidone]

The part where you talked about a year of being single and working on yourself, I did the same thing after a pretty crappy relationship, and it was amazing. It was probably one of the best years of my life. I truly believe that is the year I became a secure person.

[@evaistheway]

Not only did she share a personal story, she was thoughtful enough to not interrupt it with ads for her listeners. Thias, you’re an angel. ❤️

[@TirsaTalks]

i got like 4-5 ads 🤭

[@riverbilly64]

Definitely full of ads. Irrelevant loud ones!

[@AbyssalTenacity]

​@@riverbilly64tbh wish yt had a way to choose muted ads or set ad playing volume

[@alexandramaria7754]

My dear Thais, I am glad you recorded this video for your audience. Sometimes, more than scientific explanations, people need real healthy testimonials from real people. Sending you love. Alexandra

[@12345678abracadabra]

Wow thais I have no idea, I just assumed you were secure right from the start. You are definitely the role model to all your subscribers

[@matthewschultz3986]

I can’t put into words yet what your story just did for me but you reminded me of things I forgot about myself. I feel so lucky and fortunate to be part of your community. Crazy how your story triggered memories I had buried. Your timing is always right when it needs to be. You da Best, Thais!

[@Architecture_and_visualization]

“Having resentment against someone is like drinking poison and thinking it will kill your enemy.” ― Nelson Mandela 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@smileyface702]

Hey, I'm an INFJ too! :O (also FA). Thanks for sharing vulnerably - I know how hard that is for us. I might have to start meditating.

[@hollyrobinson488]

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I noticed you kept mentioning how long this video was as if it was a negative. I think others might agree with me when I say, what are you talking about?! It couldve/ should’ve been longer!! After watching your video I felt like I knew where I stood in my own journey and that I was exactly where I’m suppose to be right now, as cliche as that is. I felt guidance as well, not from a superior/inferior, do as I did, angle but, from an equal level, non-judgmental, take what you want from me sharing my own experience angle. The kind of guidance that is actually helpful and able to be received, at least with me. Just having an idea of what your journey has been like for you offered amazing new perspectives, thoughts, possibilities and hope. Serving from an angle only possible from going outside your comfort zone personally. As uncomfortable as you were, know it was definitely worth it. You being vulnerable and open with us is as important and valuable as the scientific information and explanations you offer within the PDS and KZbin videos. And that’s coming from a lifetime member (edited to add: ‘of the PDS’) who knows her journey is not a fast paced one, hears internal dialog saying it should be faster and is already feeling more peace before I even had a chance to change the thought patterns yet. I’m so glad you listened to all the requests to share your story. Thank you for taking the time to make this video.

[@raylaughlan5324]

I thought the same thing!! We’re way too appreciative of what this angel is sharing to be annoyed she’s taking “too long” lmao

[@heartpoint5289]

Thank you Thais. As a fellow psychotherapist, I understand the consideration, self-awareness, skill and artfulness it takes to use self-disclosure in an authentic way while also considering how to make it connective and helpful and avoid innocent mistakes that could possibly burden or confuse others. I thought this was a very graceful example of the power of sharing our story. I am FA and becoming much more secure. Like you, I had studied and practiced many psychological and spiritual growth systems but the clarity and actual concrete steps you explain have been a major turning point in my journey ❤️

[@nataliel2149]

Thais you are a beautiful soul, it’s obvious everything you’ve been through has made you into a wonderfully warm and empathetic person. I think one of the reasons PDS is so good and effective is because of your authenticity 💜 everything you’re teaching us you’ve lived. Thank you so much for sharing and being vulnerable with us, you are a gift 🎁

[@miguelchippsinteligente6072]

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[@GraceEunity]

I'm also a fearful-avoidant leaning anxious and I'm dating a dismissive-avoidant and I get so nervous that I'm gonna ruin this relationship. Hearing your personal journey just gave me a lot of hope.

[@miguelchippsinteligente6072]

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[@tchaney3777]

Same

[@ruthr8990]

I ended my emotional entanglement with a da and I am here to look for myself. I hope you have a good relationship with your da as I noticed it was three years ago.

[@jellyrcw12]

"pain doesn't solve pain" AMEN. I also loved "it is better to focus on finding solutions than the problem"

[@omarlynda]

I'm FA leaning DA and this has been one of the most helpful and insightful vids I have ever come across in my healing journey. I had placed you on a pedestal and almost told myself that where you were could not be attainable. However listening to you sharing your truth, the highs and lows has made it all the more real to me. You didn't have to share but in sharing, I am in eternal gratitude. I am learning that just because someone has their ish together it doesn't mean they haven't experienced adversity and overcome it. THANK YOU for being vulnerable and I'm so proud of the person you have become x

[@ZoeMaier]

Thais Gibson, you have changed my life and given me hope, strength, inspiration and light after so many years of darkness and pain. You are unbelievably brilliant and literally spot on in every video. I cant describe how satisfying it is to finally have some clarity and understanding of myself as an FA. I have suffered for years and been overdiagnosed, overmedicated and considered to be an "anomale" by medical professionals. Yet nobody could put their finger on the issue. Your videos have helped me understand the intricacies of my personality, my relationship dynamics and have pointed me to the source of my issues. You have an amazing grasp on human psychology and are so gifted at explaining it with such clarity. I honestly cannot thank you enough for gifting this world with your knowledge and it is evident how hard you have worked to reach this point. You are such an inspiration to me and a true example of someone who took their years of suffering and darkness and transformed it into pure light. I am eternally grateful to you for making it to the other side and for dedicating your life to helping us get there too!:)

[@alexandral1731]

Zoe, YES to all of this

[@ZoeMaier]

@@alexandral1731 Amen sista!

[@JenniferNoble09]

Talk about synchronicity. I was walking to the store to pick up a new bottle of wine because I finished my last one. I decided to get something else to work on new pathways. And give myself compassion until I am ready to get a handle of this. Thank you so much Thais for sharing your story. It’s inspirational and powerful. Thank you for being you.

[@andreawilson6890]

Oh wow! This video was so healing! Especially the part about recreating neuro pathways. Lately I’ve started therapy and I’m working on my fearful avoidant attachment style with my therapist and I look in the mirror almost every day and say “I love you, I’m going to love you through any moment of your life, I’m not going to run from you or leave you….your okay” this is helping me work through the pattern of beating myself up

[@helene6686]

This wasn’t even super emotional yet I had to pause and cry about 3 times because I relate so much and it almost feels like I can’t get out of my traumas and pain. But your story is so powerful and motivating❤️😭 thank you for sharing! xx

[@florenceofori7930]

Helene, We'll heal ❤

[@eisraa.8105]

Watch her videos. Learn about your attachment style. Start journaling. Take it slow. Every little change that you make counts. I thought it was impossible too. Healing is confusing and it's tough but it's so very possible! You are capable of more than you give yourself credit for. Start healing! ❤ Wish you well. 😊❤

[@Stella-cv4mc]

Omg I clicked INSTANTLY, haven't even seen the video yet but GOD BLESS YOU Thais Gibson, and thank you SO MUCH for how you've been saving my little FA soul, too :)

[@razvanyke]

me too :D

[@TempermentalTart]

Ditto! I ❤ her!!

[@CosmicHealingGoddess]

She’s so amazing! ♥️

[@nadskilove]

I don't think you understand, this video saved me. I feel so seen and heard. I learned so much. I've been sober now for almost two months, going to therapy, learning a lot about myself, tending to my mental health practices and this was just so eye opening. I feel so lucky to have stumbled upon this video, thank you for doing all that you do. You are saving lives

[@henryzhao4622]

Proud of you pal

[@thejordyjoansofficial]

Thais, as an ex FA who became a secure attachment through similar experiences, learning patterns and therapy, finding your video and listening to your story has helped re assure me how far I’ve come, and reminded me to even now forgive myself and have self compassion for the smaller mistakes. We all make them, so thank you. ❤️

[@theottoresearchinitiative6723]

My god. I'm in the exact same space you were in. Meditation, learning and figuring out what's going on.

[@hspinnovators5516]

You got this. Humans are amazing at change. Keep reaching out. You deserve it. Don't give up❤

[@iamalady461]

Hello! Fellow INFJ and fearful avoidant too. Thank you for pushing past those feelings of not wanting to be the center of attention, and sharing your encouraging story.

[@Omega70]

I took your test and another test on psychtest and scored both secure attachment

[@akc1739]

It’s one thing to trust the information a professional shares but quite another thing to trust the person who shares it. You were brave to tell your story. I’m not able to do that yet. Thank you for sharing who you are. 🙏

[@MisuZama]

I experienced severe trauma and struggle with CPTSD. Thank you for sharing. I need the 4yrs.

[@tulip5210]

14:00 so much relate, the constant research into psychology, absorbing little things people hear around like about boundaries ect

[@cameranserrano1263]

I just wanna say, i've been struggling dealing with the attachment style of my crush/friend (and my own). Not to mention the frustration of so much isolation these days. Your videos have helped me so much. Instead of being frustrated at my crush, i empathize with them and don't personalize their actions. I don't know if things will work out, but i feel like you've given me a cheat code and now i don't get upset with them when they deactivate. So i just wanted to say thanks! You and your staff are appreciated for creating this lovely community :)

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Thanks Cameran! You're so so welcome and I am very happy to hear you aren't personalizing your crushes actions! Thanks for your lovely comment - PDS team member

[@pinquefire6416]

Thank you for sharing. This gives me hope because healing can be overwhelming sometimes. Feeling like I took 3 steps forward, only to take 4 steps back.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

It can for sure be overwhelming. Please keep on going forward, be easy on yourself and give yourself so much credit for being brave enough to try - PDS team member

[@miguelchippsinteligente6072]

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[@fromeveryting29]

What if you (me) are so insecure, hurt, distrusrful and have so much shame even getting into a relationship feels impossible. It literally feels impossible for me to let myself be liked, let someone see me and all that. I'm doing pretty well the more alone I am, because then there are no triggers. But the shame, self loathibg and toxic super ego is going all the time. Feel like I've tried everything. Everyone who says they struggled with self-esteem, relationships and self-sabotage somehow always at least managed to get into some kind of relationship. I can't even do that..

[@K-A5]

Oh btw, on the cptsd subreddit, theyve done polls on everyone's personality types. Turns out almost all the members on that board identify as INFJs. Very interesting...

[@kubasniak]

I'm part of that sub and that fact seems interesting wow. I'm a guy...

[@ashleyshingleton982]

Interesting. I'm also an INFJ.

[@kmold0033]

A year later and you still make me feel hopeful 💕

[@brianag1175]

I relate SO much. I was in competitive soccer. I developed chronic regional pain syndrome in my legs. I developed severe bulimia and then addictions to drugs and alcohol. All of my relationships were abusive and tumultuous. Meditation has helped me so much and I had a similar process if realization and betterment. The relationship stuff is my latest hurdle. Also, i relate to the damaged teeth girl. When I sobered up i had 9 cavities and a few root canals. Lol you've given me even more hope and I have so much faith in the path you've laid out. So grateful for you and the work you did on yourself.

[@seansull]

Guys. After watching some of Thais’ videos, I decided to go to her online school and enroll and start taking the emotional mastery course- and BOY has it been incredible. I’m nearly finished with the course now and I can honestly say after going to a year of therapy that *this* short time I’ve spent learning has been far more useful. Some of her examples are literally the exact problems that I’ve been facing and the number of epiphanies I’ve had about my own life is insane. Just the ability to hear what she’s saying and then have this internal realization about why I am the way I am. I’ve learned so much about myself and I’m just so so thankful I found someone as incredible as Thais. For anyone considering it, please at least take the 7 day trial and learn as much as you can in that week of free content- i promise you will not regret it :)

[@MissModernprincess]

After the free trial is it 67$ for one time payment, or monthly?

[@seansull]

@@MissModernprincess that’s per month, I did the 3 month plan and just did as much studying as I could in those 3 months. But it’s 100% worth it because it costs about what you’d pay for 1-2 therapy sessions and what you learn here is way more important

[@MissModernprincess]

@@seansull Awesome! I am glad there is hope out there, because I was out of hope yesterday with this particular attachment style

[@smonaful]

Isn't it soo beautiful to witness your soul's healing into wholeness through your own unique human journey

[@tulip5210]

I KNEW YOU WERE AN NFJ

[@Hevianix]

I think More likely Fe-Ni-Se-Ti rather than Ni-Fe-Ti-Se, that mistype is very easy to make.

[@anjakeller6612]

Thank you.. I also am FA and my partner is also DA, sometimes we deactivate so hard that it is just so discouraging. Knowing that there is this reward at the end of this hard work is such a motivation! As always- you are an inspiration what one can achieve when we choose connection over self-protection

[@95turbogirl1980]

After a year of battling and only making small progress in couples therapy, I've found these videos and started analyzing me and my partners attachment styles and I swear one of jer videos on a relationship between a FA and a DA was like OMG SHES GOT CAMERAS IN OUR HOUSE! I pray my partner is open to learning about what she can do to work on herself because she too agrees we are just like that video, and she told me what I didn't voice, she can be both FA and DA so she gets it...but I don't know that she's ready to do the work on herself. She believes if I FIX me, we will be great and me working on me the last 6 months has helped but only because I've learned how to control my emotions and how I react to things but it doesn't change the things I have issues with in our relationship and I'm not willing to endure that for the rest of my life. Unfortunately we truly had such a great beginning and a significantly long "honeymoon " phase, like 2 and a half years easily and such an easy relationship that when we started hitting regular bumps and challenges in the road, it was HUGE and we didn't handle it well at all.

[@coppersense999]

20:00 Actually thank you for modeling successful harm reduction. That is so important. As you say nothing against the 12-step model, but the alternative is certainly relevant and needs to be de-stigmatized. End of the day all that matters are successful outcomes. As everyone has said, thank you so much for sharing your story. 💕

[@dawnrodes2329]

So true! Thanks for pointing that out

[@mailill]

When I started meditation I was usually only able to sit like 4-5 minutes every day. Even that short amount of time every day was of huge help.

[@SophieLukacs]

Thais, thank you so much for sharing your story! I’ve been in PDS school for months and have followed your videos for quite some time. Of course it is clear to anyone who has lived and processed that you must have lived through a lot to be as wise as you are today! But nonetheless was still powerful to hear your journey! We have many parallels 😳 I am an INFJ, FA, grew up in Toronto, was also a soccer player and obsessed with going to the states on a soccer scholarship, and also struggled with annorexia/ bulimia for a long time. But I chose music as my path to help myself ( and hopefully others) feel less alone 🙂 Thank you for all your work ❤️

[@thehapagirl92]

Congrats on becoming secure. That’s amazing and I’m proud of you☺️

[@bv644]

How great your payoff Inside has changed. Openness, pain.. used for good. The desire to be more, the depth so helpful, so attractive. Thanks fir all the work and sharing

[@Learn-to-Reconnect]

You are such a gift. Thank you for sharing so much personal detail. It really really does help others ... I can relate so much, and being brave helps others. I learned to self-soothe and have intimacy with myself partly through your videos. (Forner FA here) 🥰🤍✨

[@miguelchippsinteligente6072]

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[@TempermentalTart]

I can't wait to watch! I knew there was a reason I was so comfortable watching your videos. They come from a place of understanding. ❤

[@TMH792]

Thank you sooo much for sharing all this! I’m an FA and have CPTSD, was addicted to pain meds from an injury as well. I have wondered your story for so long and literally felt my nervous calm down hearing you share this! Thank you!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@lunab.7858]

i love you so much, Thais! i definitely get where you're coming from in regards to "not making it about you" especially because i have noticed that people sort of tend to parentify therapists (without meaning to probably) and they probably see it as like a compliment, but one of the things i love about you is that you make sure you clarify that you are human in all of this. you aren't perfect and that's not the goal. that's very inspiring and just thank you for being so loving and sharing this with us 🥰💗

[@iconoclastic-fantastic]

Thank you so much for being vulnerable & sharing your personal story, Thais. It is so important (more important than you may realize) for others to be able to see such a success story, and be able to see a part of themselves in someone like you who has committed their life to helping others through these very issues. It has really helped reignite some sense of hope within myself for my own healing, so thank you

[@taylorq3947]

It makes me so happy to be able to relate to your story of transforming from an FA to a securely attached individual. I am at the stage of knowing how to take care of myself but still needing to express my needs and accept when others can’t meet them that it’s a deal breaker. I’m with a partner who is an FA leaning dismissive and I always leaned anxious, but this story gave me hope because it is so similar. Thank you!

[@martinrehout9121]

What a beautiful video! Thank you so much for sharing more of yourself with us Thais, it's such a gift.

[@mindfulmeaningfulmoments247]

The much awaited video is finally here...yay!! Thanks so much for being open and honest with us! I enjoyed listening to your story! Your story offers hope to the world! Thanks for all you are doing to make a difference in the lives of others. 🥰🤗

[@prayingmantis5435]

Thank you for opening yourself up like that , Thais. You have no idea how much you have helped me in my journey. I am so grateful to you🙏🏼

[@slamchopp]

That was so helpful and beautiful and inspiring. I’m grateful for everything you do, Thais Gibson. Finding you and this community is such a gift.

[@yuristeaparty]

Thais thank you so so much for sharing this with us. You’ve changed so many lives for the better, we are so grateful for you and your journey!

[@arankapasanka]

Thank you so much, Thais, for sharing your story. I felt completely identified with the stages you went through. I am currently at my second year all by myself, learning to love myself, and it is truly the most beautiful and special time, like you mentioned. Everything just falls into place: career, money, friendships, family, and maybe someday it will also be love again for me. Who knows. But this journey of healing oneself is truly a blessing. Thank you for the part you’ve played on my healing path🙏🏼🥰

[@elle381]

There is such generosity in sharing your personal story. I was so curious but you do so much for us and building this school I was okay with respecting the boundary of privacy. I feel comforted and inspired because you exemplify what it looks like to progress and to grow in a real way. Past few days I've been feeling like I'll never change and like I'm kidding myself for wanting to do better after failing so much. Thais thank you so much. Words fail me. I'm just grateful.

[@lauraliz6782]

Relatable! Thank you for this and opening up💕

[@anacampesan]

Beautiful journey, Thais! I couldn't be happier for you. Thanks for everything you do to make people's lives better and for the courage to share your story

[@rocamallorca4201]

FA, CPTSD, INFJ too- thank you so much for sharing your journey! Starting my own reprogramming journey and this is so encouraging to hear and I appreciate you going out on a limb and letting us get to know you better! 💛

[@wht1232]

I’ve been wanting to hear about this since I started the school! Thank you, Thais.

[@roshalllambert]

Wow this was so inspiring and you are such a resilient person. I was so excited to view this after I saw the title. Thanks a lot for sharing this. I am definitely going to apply self compassion to my life now.

[@sshuteandrew]

So glad you took the plunge and shared your personal story. I’ve been waiting a long time and I know I won’t be disappointed. Thank you for your warmth, generosity and openness!! You are an inspiration 💕💕

[@SuziQue86]

Thank you so much for sharing your story and journey. So much of what you said resonated deeply with me. Growing up in chaos, I carried that chaos within me into adulthood and numbed out in much the same manner as you described. I'm a single parent to 2 young children and during the lockdowns here in Ireland your daily uploads are what have kept me resourced and sane. They have changed my life and given me the key to seeing myself and my relationships in new light. Thank you so deeply for all you do. I have no doubt you've saved lives

[@cemarci]

Thank you so much for this video! Hearing your story is so helpful and encouraging! Your channel and work has helped me so much, and I just so appreciate learning more about your journey!

[@damonchampion823]

Thank you for being open and vulnerable. I found your story very inspiring, how thoroughly and consistently you approached getting to know yourself. All of the fields you studied and how you put them all together to create the PDS. You are so passionate about your work it really is infectious. Since I found this channel I have learned so much and I can feel myself changing and growing for the better and I am so grateful. Thanks again Thais 😎

[@JonaTwiFan7]

Thank you so so much. I needed this.

[@khanfareeham]

Thank you for sharing! Your channel and your work has been so helpful to me -- I feel like I've been looking for something like this for years, something to really help me understand the psychology behind it and actually effectively help me change. This is a really special thing you've created. Thanks for all you do!!

[@krixzee]

Thais! Thanks so much for sharing your story! It gives me so much hope! Sending a big hug and love your way! You were so brave! ✨

[@ceh171]

I literally love you SO MUCH! THANK YOU!

[@abby4027]

I am looking forward to this!! You’re inspirational Thais.❤️

[@AGMresults]

Ahhhhh...this is just what I needed! I really appreciate you sharing your personal journey of healing with us, so we, to, can heal.💞

[@celinabarrera7819]

Thank you so much for sharing. Its like you are sharing my story!! I have been sober for almost 4 years. I know how hard it can be to share but hearing this is so important.

[@soaringdavis8202]

Beautiful testimony. I related on SO many levels. You did a wonderful job of telling your story without giving fodder for trolls. My trama was initially family dynamics, then my brother was brutally murdered by his girlfriend and best friend. Talk about trust wounds. First relationship was identical to family dynamic between my mother and father, but I got out. My first time opening up ended up being with someone who had heavy narcissistic tendencies- he laughed at me while I was expressing my pain over the death of my mother. That incident took the cake and has been very hard to forget when it comes to vulnerability, but I have made a lot of progress over the years- All of that was before stumbling upon attachment theory and personal work. Indeed it is journey, there is not a quick fix and forgiveness of self and others plays an indispensable roll. Thank you Thais for your candor.

[@ninagillis8066]

I love this!!! Thank you for telling your story:)

[@karinmolder4796]

This is amazing, thank you so much for being so brave :)

[@MegaWakingup]

So glad I found your content. This video in particular (and your sharing your story) gives me hope!! I have always felt like I had so many "issues" to work on and it can feel exhausting to untangle and tackle them all. Your explanations give me clarity and a new understanding. A pathway for healing. I plan to start your courses and look forward to digging in. Thank you.

[@marcellerusu]

I really needed this, thank you

[@JessentialLife]

Thais, I love how you shared your story. THANK YOU!

[@pikapoka17]

Thank you SO MUCH for sharing your story! You are such an inspiration, thank you for all that you do 💗

[@roshnishah3403]

Thankyou for sharing about your life and journey! All the work you have done to reach this stage is amazing. Your videos are so insightful, bridging deeper psyche to real life...I’ve found them so useful personally! Ty 💛

[@Meaowwww]

Wow, thank you for sharing. Your journey gives me hope as to mine xxx

[@catherinebatamuriza6061]

Absolutely loved hearing you talk about your journey. There’s so much hope for all of us here. Thank you for sharing, Thais. ♥️💕✨

[@desikrus]

Thank you so much, Thais, for sharing the story of your journey! You are such an inspiration!

[@calture5086]

Thais, thank you for sharing your story. It gives me hope. I identified with so much of what you went through and feel blessed to have found your channel. Thank you for what you do.

[@Greenwitch_Garden]

I held a lot of grudges as well. My true healing came when I learned to love myself and respect myself. Prioritizing Self care was key to feeling safe, then I was at peace with my past and was able to forgive and let go of resentment.

[@clairedilworth2973]

This was truly lovely-thank you for sharing your life and learning with us xxo

[@QueenCJ]

Thank you do for sharing it's so valuable.

[@cameronforbes2649]

Thank you for sharing Thais! I relate to a lot of what you are saying

[@lindsayCswain]

This was amazing - truly thanks. I’m new to the school and this has been really insightful and also made me trust the content and process more. I also loved that you didn’t edit it, and it was authentic. Really great thank you 🙏🏻

[@lindachristinelee]

I love personal stories - thank you SO much for sharing your story with us, and for all you do to help others

[@Selam-fr4lf]

Thank you Thais, you’ve changed my life. I was always researching psychology as a way to feel in control of the people around me and last year I began my journey of spirituality and creating new paradigms of thinking... but it was only during quarantine when I had an emotional breakdown that I began focusing on my internal emotional world, and the past, and my traumas... and your channel has helped me create a relationship with myself for the very first time. As an FA it’s overwhelming at times trying to find out what I don’t know, what I wasn’t taught, my blind spots... your commitment to changing lives and ending suffering inspires me and fills me with certainty about the future I strive for.

[@verosaenz75]

I needed to hear this ❤️❤️❤️

[@beckym8245]

That was a really cool sharing of yourself. Some huge stuff here and if a person can heal from all that, there's hope for us all! Thanks.

[@livingoncetwice]

Wow Thais thank you for sharing your powerful story. I'm very new to your channel (just subscribed) and have been trying to get better at learning about my fearful avoidant style and how to heal it to become secure. Your story gives me so much hope in my own journey. This was so inspirational to listen to and I'm looking forward to checking out more of your content! Appreciate you sharing your gifts to help so many like me in their awareness and healing journey.

[@suzywilliams4424]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. The PDS facebook group, as well as the school courses and all the youtube videos have been so helpful and supportive. It has helped to dispell a lot of the confusion ive been experiencing in my relationships and through your work i am coming to a place of self love and self forgiveness and healing at last.

[@Canadianforestfairy]

You are so inspiring, insightful and helpful

[@shawnelleprice7670]

Thank you so much for this!

[@juliecord5409]

This really gives me hope. Thank you so much for sharing your path.