She Threw Me In The Trash, Until I Did This…

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@livewithinthedream]

The sheer amount of personal suffering & reflection someone has to go through to come up with this. Astonishing, I look forward to seeing what's next

[@ahmedshah5922]

I think the paradox of change is actually necessary for us to cement our changes into our subconscious because if it was always easy how could u know for sure that uve actually changed or not . When the going gets tough that’s when your true colors show and if u can make urself perform in those times then it means u really are different now

[@georgebonilla8685]

Great video! I struggle with no contact especially since one of the reasons for the break up was me not reaching out and letting her do all the contact🤦🏽

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Appreciate the kind words! Have you seen this video pertaining to no contact? It will show you what you need to do in order to regain and KEEP contact :) kzbin.info/www/bejne/kIq0ZZugZbh6b5I Also, check out John's story in regards to no contact (both parts are below): kzbin.info/www/bejne/qWG6m3V8p9yAntk kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqCUhWewZayJh68

[@georgebonilla8685]

@@GeoffreySetiawan Thank you!!

[@gladlordkyle2599]

Thanks for the new vid my guy!! Always looking forward to your vids every weekend!! I appreciate all that you do 💯💯

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Appreciate the kind words, my man! What did you find to be the MOST earth-shattering part of today's video?

[@luigigabriello]

amazing as always Geoff

[@luigigabriello]

Geoffrey I’m currently putting everything you say into action. She is presenting a lot of resistance due to the POC, but I’m flowing with it and learning how to shift it. My question is the following. Should I date or go out with other woman while I’m in this process ? Not for relationship seeking motive, but just to be social

[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

1:01:20 if you take ONE thing away from this video, what Geoff says next here is it. Marriage Helper and other programs will give you a whole bunch of scripts and things to say. But what they have you say is so fucking passive it's maddening. Geoffrey here lays out a terrific "script" to "lay it all out".

[@MeekFighters]

How long are the master class

[@Johnjohn-187]

Hey Geoffrey and saboor. My self growth progress is going well.although there’s a lot of work still to be down, internal shifts are shifting esoecially. Untethering is still a work in progress. I have a Question. wife still only wants to speak about our dog. You mentioned here that smart contact is wasted opportunity. Then you go and do the TTH and say to wife, “hey I would be sceptical of me as well. so now I’m not going to say anything and let my actions do the talking” is that smart contact ? Not bring up the relationship until wife does and then you perform with the work you have been doing in the program process? Seems like smart contact because in Sean’s video October 9 2023. You also say don’t bring up the relationship if you get to speak to your wife. Bring up normal human things like growth etc. so my situation I should just wait until my wife is ready to speak and perform and show my changes then right????

[@TimmyAlaz]

Hey Geoffrey! I know you heard a lot but thank you very much. I’ve watching your videos since last month and watched around 40 videos. Unfortunately, I cannot afford your 1 on 1 mentoring so I’d like to ask if you have some community on social media where you from time to time help and answer questions?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

If you cannot join my program's community, then why not engage more in the KZbin community here? I can answer some questions right here :) With this video, what resonated the most for you? Seeing connections between your situation and Bart's situation?

[@TimmyAlaz]

Little bit of a background. I majorly fucked up in the relationship in several ways and after the break up we were keeping contact until she said a day before she went to the trip in another country - let’s stop and get over, I don’t feel alright with myself when I talk to you and it feels bad that I am trusting you again, it feels like I am doing something wrong. After hearing that, I felt angry and overwhelmed but what I felt more was loosing control over the situation and loosing her. With the hope to keep at least minimum contact I begged her and said exactly the same things that you said - I will do anything in the world to fix the situation. She got mad for that and resisted saying - it feels like you can’t get over me while you claiming to be okay. My reply was exactly as you described as well - Then I’m not sure if I will be interested in talking to you after your trip. It blows my mind with every video that I watch - what I am in is not unique 😂. So I will keep watching your videos and my only question was, could you give me some examples of frameworks ?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

@@TimmyAlaz Yup, no situation is unique :) As part of my Internal Shifts series, I will be producing a video discussing the Frameworks. So, stay tuned for that! In the meantime, feel free to check out the rest of the series: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8tvyhQlPzve8y0JwtzHhTGFGBjjwbbk

[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

1:14:38 also an important takeaway

[@StevoSparta-tt5vu]

Haha! You are right! I was the guy who argued with Jeff. I did make an assumption about the meaning behind the initial reply he made. It felt like an insinuation of my situation when I never even spoke about my situation was. I guess the same as the assumption in this video thinking I was actually mad at him or that it was about being right or wrong which never mattered. Looks like we all have a lot of room to grow. It was my mistake to take that out on a public channel on something you guys work your asses off on. That wasn’t right to do, I apologize for that. Good interview

[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

You have a fourth floor?? Dude, how big is your house??