FTM Phalloplasty I Might Need Surgery Again

[@evastephan9441]

Just to sum it up: You were completely healthy before you got on this trip and probably wouldn't have seen an OR from the inside for at least another 30 years, instead you were celebrating one year without surgery. And in the precise moment when cancer surgeries got delayed because of Covid you were planning the next intervention - due to an all too predictable complication of an elective surgery.

[@Bergkind]

Exactly!

[@missycitty9478]

Well, maybe completely healthy physically. Clearly not healthy mentally. Otherwise I can't see someone choosing to wreck their body like this.

[@ceecee9906]

It's crazy! Celebrating 1 year without surgery whe you couldn't have gotten any at all. Very sick!

[@marywhitworth6769]

Social engineering, the product of indoctrination by media.

[@silasnorris2065]

Typically transgender surgeons mainly do surgery on transgender patients exclusively so idk how cancer patients are relevant. Second, if you're crying yourself to sleep every night because you dont have a penis, have thoughts of killing yourself frequently because of it and will never truly be happy in the body you're forced to call home; so much so your therapist(s) and psychiatrist(s) AND doctors tell you the only way to save your life is to have surgery, it's kind of not really elective, is it? Imagine if your genitals were mutilated in an accident or something and it made you feel horrible about yourself and you couldnt enjoy not only sex, but looking ar yourself naked made you wanna vomit? You get surgery for this, which helps tremendously and makes you feel like a person again. You share your experience online with others who are like yourself, since you know this is a rare experience and you feel alone. Then you see a comment like yours. Just stfu about shit you dont know about, okay?

[@sdrockrgirl]

I would say get the relief. Otherwise problems could continue to get worse. I love your videos and have so much respect for you. Good luck at the bodybuilding show! Much love!

[@gaelier2861]

Wishing you All The Best Always!

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you so much!

[@marcmessner1554]

Sorry you are still having issues, I hope this brings you some much needed relief - I'm pretty much in the same boat arm-wise as you are.

[@Phoenix-pl6ys]

Even if the procedure goes “well” that piece of meat will eventually fall Down on its own in about 1 year

[@julzgulz1992]

Loving Father, please grant this precious human healing and peace. Please guide their doctors to do what is right and necessary to bring complete relief, physically and spiritually. 🙏 Amen Bless you sweet brother!

[@Gideon.Warrior]

God doesn't support this nonsense, please to stop being a man pleaser

[@Blissaway1]

i can't tell if you're against him or not 💀

[@inTruthbyGrace]

@@Blissaway1 how are you confused about words like precious human, healing, peace, complete relief? seriously

[@niketap2449]

W comment

[@missycitty9478]

Sadly, I can't help but think this is Only the beginning of life long problems. I'm so sorry.

[@Angela-zp2gy]

You are adorable and so smart. Thank you for sharing a very personal journey. I hope everything works out for you. Surgery is tough. Been through my fair share. Its exhausting. Hang in there bud!

[@azdart]

I hope you got relief, you deserve to leave behind all this and have a great life.

[@rs-lo1ki]

Hi Cody.... ♥️ Your. Smile is contagious. 😁 don't worry you are amazing in explaining things.. You'd be very busy the coming months... Tc Cody. Good Luck🍀 ♥️

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you!

[@yoyoyoyoyo6714]

Omg we really can't let kids go through this

[@lee_aveittome]

Kids arent you have to be an adult to get these surgeries

[@yoyoyoyoyo6714]

@@lee_aveittome Search about the Boston children's hospital and many others they do it on teenagers

[@hazedcosmo8522]

@@lee_aveittomeYess, you do need to be an adult to have these surgeries. The original commenter is just being transphobic👎

[@dingdongshush]

Jazz Jennings was 17.

[@yoyoyoyoyo6714]

@@hazedcosmo8522 check it out they do it on teens at the Boston children's hospital and others

[@BryceJose97]

Imagine having your life reduced to celebrating “one year without surgery”. You should have lived your entire life without surgery. Why did you let people convince you that you weren’t okay the way you are? Why did you let them tell you that you shouldn’t accept yourself or that you needed to be physically altered in some way? You are literally a science project for these people. You have been mutilated to the point of not even being able to use your arm correctly, much less the imitation of make genitals they sewed onto you. This is completely sick, and history will look at us like psychopaths for allowing it.

[@greenspark101]

Wrists in the thumbnail...update on dick 😂 Such a great educational channel, thanks Cody. Your hand looked painful!! Had no idea this was something people have to go through. I got endermologie a few years ago on some terrible scarring I have. It helped with healing and blood flow.

[@EduSlashbr]

i pity you. brainwashed.

[@Sumthing4theWkend]

Good luck with your competition, dude! U look amazing! I understand the problem with hand/ wrist problems...I have radial neuropathic palsy- sometimes my wrist / hand/ fingers simply wont b able to move for months at a time...my hand just flops there and starts to curl under and I can’t move it at all...it sucks! Hope u get some relief soon! x

[@amielawson8344]

Hoping this is the fix and life can go on uncomplicated for you.

[@MindyReedJones]

Good luck with the revision surgery. Great idea doing your competition first, then get it done and chill for a bit. Nikko says hi to Carly.

[@CharcoalTeddy]

“I wanted to be a normal human for a bit” - yea I think that ship sailed

[@Codytalks11]

Well, if being a normal human means leaving rude comments on someone’s KZbin channel that I don’t even know, then I’m glad to see that ship sail.

[@cooliipie]

It is quite interesting listening to these people. They're essentially one big experiment

[@johndavis452]

Everyone has something they want to change internally or externally. It's all good for these surgeries because of this new agenda, but addicts and alcoholics that want to feel normal and use substances are told that they are not well, or crazy and must conform to treatment that doesn't work. Just putting my 2 cents of think how bipolar and schizophrenic and addicts feel every day. Yet surgeons are all too willing to mutilate these people.

[@DanTowey]

Cody, another surgery isn't your only option. There are LMTs that specialize with post surgery scar tissue. I'm one and live in FL though. While the deep fascia work does relieve the symptoms your stated, it can be painful if the therapist doesn't know how to work below that threshold. Ask ANY local friends nearby that get regular bodywork for referrals. You may have to track down someone via conversation with LMTs there locally. GOOD questions to ask a potential therapist you may contract 1. What kind of sports massage training have you had? 2. How many hours was that certification ? (not a weekend workshop or a few hours in their basic program) 3. What injuries have they had from sports, etc and how did they recover ? If they DON'T say with massage... => next ! ALSO, ask if they own, have and/or use a percussor ?

[@TheDramacist]

From research, it seems ftm surgeries are much less evolved than the mtf options. So much more is required of the person going ftm. It's such a hugly invasive process. I'd not cope with a damaged scarred arm/leg, and having to make that sacrifice for a more complete transformation is a savage choice.

[@banjodawgsofjupiter4958]

Might've been easier to just learn to accept the body you were born in. So ridiculous. Don't do this, kids. You will reget it. Sooner or later... they all regret it.

[@Codytalks11]

All? Have you met all trans people? 🙄

[@jillybean3688]

​@@Codytalks11let's check in on them in 25 years and see. Nobody knows the LONG TERM issues that may arise, do they?

[@paulaharrisbaca4851]

You would have been happier and healthier as a human being and a regular woman... yes it sucks going through female puberty, but thank goodness it wasn't an option when I was 12, because I would be so miserable without having been an adult female and having a baby almost too late, it was the best thing I ever did. I hope you feel better and give advice to other confused young women.

[@Robie212002]

Good luck with the surgery Cody! Is there a lot of pain in your hand now because when you made a fist you could see that the blood was more prominent than in your right.

[@Codytalks11]

Thanks!! And yea unfortunately it is pretty uncomfortable :(

[@jennya2439]

You’ve had so many surgeries and been through so much but if you can bare it I think you should have the procedure on your arm because it’s still troubling you a lot and the outcome could be a great improvement on your flexibility and therefore increase your enjoyment of weightlifting 🏋🏻‍♀️

[@pjdickerson6661]

Great to see you doing so well. I totally understand surgery issues. II am schedule for 4 surgeries this year. I already hand 1 which was my 3 hand surgery schedule for another plus and my top surgery is approved I am suppose to have knee Thrusday but mentally I think top is more important due to dysphoria. You are so informative about your surgeries you are helping so many others. My orthopedic have taken a toll on me but hopefully soon in the future I may be able to get back to the gym

[@katebeck9852]

wishing you the best! :)

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you!

[@emrahyilmaz7268]

How much it cost ?

[@k-rayspencer1360]

I paid for your patreon and it won’t let me watch anything. I found your entire phallo playlist really helpful as I am thinking about getting this surgery. I don’t know what to do but I hope you know what would help.

[@Codytalks11]

Hmm 🤔 I only have one video on there I’m not sure what you mean.

[@jayjaydubful]

Don't do it. I hope you haven't done it. This is extremely dangerous, experimental surgery with a likelihood of failure/complication. Your healthy body is more valuable than you know. You are perfect, you do not need surgery

[@leylakim9531]

I think you are so strong. I’m sorry you’re going through this right now. I have hopes that someday, everything will feel perfectly comfortable and you won’t have to step back into that operating room ever again. Wishing you the best for your competition!❣️ your muscles are looking HOT

[@MarcFTM]

Hi Cody. I'm so sorry that you've had complications on your arm. I'm no expert at all on phalloplasty, but not so long ago I researched the surgery options to make a video and I found out that depending on the functionality of the penis, surgeons could offer to take the graft from the lower back or the calf. Do you feel these options are more suitable in terms of body recovery?

[@ajalvarez8279]

I’m not an expert but keep in mind that what ever body part they allow a skin graft to be taken from, that part will also be in pain while it heals

[@pmbluemoon]

I've been watching your old videos too lol. I wish I could donate some of my skin for you to fix your arm up better/give you more room on your arm, I have excess skin from weight loss, and it's driving me nuts! I would go for relief if you can. That's pretty good timing I do agree to have it fixed up again. Thank you so much for the information that you have and that you're willing to share with us, I always wondered about "down the road" healing from having a graft from a forearm. Is there any way they can put in a skin stretcher to loosen up your graft at all? Or would it shrink back after a while, hence needing another surgery to loosen it up a bit by your wrist? You're looking pretty buff there my good man! If I had those neck muscles, I would have a head attached to shoulders because I don't have a neck to begin with lol! CodyHulk! lol! 💪😁

[@ThisIsNoahHii]

wish you all the best💖

[@Codytalks11]

Thank you!!

[@poohbearny]

Have you checke the page Trans swag? He has the same issue of the wrist with it being too tight. I dont think hes talked much about it lately since he just had his final state of phalo and still healing from that. But check him out .

[@Codytalks11]

Yup I know kameron :)

[@riyaz6553]

Artificial Things always bad,Natural always Pure.

[@Deserthillbilly]

Lol, guess you shouldn’t seek medical care for anything. Cancer is natural. So is cyanide. And depression. The beauty of the medical field is we can change, improve, or remove the “natural” aspects of ourselves that cause us pain or inhibit our ability to function.

[@giscell4853]

@@Deserthillbilly yeah that’s why this guy wasn’t a slave to the medical aftermath of the surgery...

[@missycitty9478]

@@Deserthillbilly Wow. You are soo confused. They are CHOOSING this!! People don't CHOOSE to get cancer. There is absolutely NO comparison! Educate yourself. This is becoming a HUGE problem. HUGE.

[@RupturedCatalyst420x]

Good for you. I'm just sitting in the hospital rn 4th day of surgery for mtf vaginoplasty. It hurts like hell right now because my bladder is leaking onto my wounds

[@ThanatosWings]

Do all arm skin grafts attach to the muscle, or is it a flook that it happened to you? I'm sorry fi you answered thia already, I haven't watched your older videos.

[@Codytalks11]

It’s pretty common since there is no fat underneath to prevent that

[@Telenaus]

are you ok with me sending this to a younger person who is considering this surgery? they have noone in their life thats gone through it. im ok with all of what they want im not trying to scare them . but i have been through surgeries where no one was clear about side affects or possibly further surgeries. i dont want them to go in it blind, it will be a few years before they are able to do the surgery if they can find anyone in this state . but i want to give them the advantage of being able to go in and ask the right questions. but i fully understand if you would rather i not,since they are young (teens)

[@willbrooks49]

As Cody said in the video he has a whole playlist that covers his phalloplasty journey. I think that would be more rounded and helpful to them/him as a resource than one video about a complication.

[@a.abarker8387]

i would send them not only cody's full playlist but other youtubers whove had phalloplastly as well, theres a range of different experiences someone can have

[@Codytalks11]

Of course! Definitely share. I think it is important to have as much information as possible. It’s not meant to scare, just to inform :)

[@Telenaus]

@@willbrooks49 i was planning on it

[@sophiaperez9056]

Take care of yourself first cody ok❤

[@ekko9397]

I'd rather lop off my sex parts than wreck my hand. I use my hands way more than those parts. Was it worth it to you?

[@BK-yr7df]

Great idea to have the surgery. You might get some relief!

[@ainilaukka6365]

I’m newer to your KZbin so I’ve been watching your journey from the beginning👍😁 and I’m not even a 1/4 threw right now👍❣️💞. But ya Your arm looks great 👍. So this is random, but I have carpal tunnel tendinitis and when I make a fist sometimes my hand gets red or even just the way I sleep, anyway my point is you might suffer from one of those two things as well as your surgeries? Just a thought. Take care 👍.

[@wolfpawdrawsstudio4253]

Oh no poor man hope you feel better and this is something for me to watch for as well cause I’m ftm thank you 😊❤️❤️❤️

[@thatpantransguy]

I know for many ftm guys with bottom dysphoria, waiting is not an option. I’m very grateful to be able to live with what I have (for now). Some days I feel frustrated and angry, but it doesn’t affect my ability to function on a day-to-day basis. Eventually it’s something I plan to have done, but for me it’s just not worth it yet. Videos like this are very helpful, though, to talk about different peoples’ experience with it and some post-op effects and complications that can happen. I’m grateful to any guy who decides to have bottom surgery because it gives me a chance to see the progress in real time. It’s also encouraging to see how happy and uplifted their spirits are.

[@KingAce49ers]

I can't stand to see you in pain Cody. Thank you for open I g up to us. Plz call me Ace! Thank's again.

[@MommysMindMatters]

Youre super perfect Thank you for being honest

[@missycitty9478]

Perfect? NO such thing.

[@silasboyle6434]

Love Buncke Clinic. Dr. Lin was my 2nd microsurgeon (behind Dr. Watt). Must be that time of year bc my hand is swelling this week after months of no issues. My graft site feels like I have a cuff of some kind on my arm.

[@stephdowell8563]

it probably is from growing from working out ...your arm has grown so much since surgery? the muscles are too big for the skin graph...maby idk...lol

[@sarahjones-jf4pr]

SO you only get the nitty gritty if you pay for it ,sounds about right today.......

[@marywhitworth6769]

Look how much time and energy, etc.

[@jessicawebber7490]

Hi Cody how are you 😃

[@kavitadeva]

Hey there Cody. Well you said your brain wasn't working well today but to me you were looking quite handsome and quite vibrant today. Also I can't believe the difference when you make a fist with both hands. the one with the scarring is so red filled with blood compared to the other hand. I can only imagine what it's like to have to go through another surgery. I've had two major surgeries and I woke up in both of them too soon. And now I am completely freaked out ever have to go under general anesthesia again. Too scary for me. I've been too traumatized waking up like that before they're finished. I want to ask you a personal question and I'm not on your patreon so I'm just going to ask it. I hope you don't feel it's inappropriate. Did you ever consider when you were getting the phalloplasty that the scar that's left on your forearm would let people know that you're trans? Because I would think someone who is trans would want to go stealth and just be seen for who they are a guy. I just have always wondered when people have that scar if they think that other people will know. Anyways I wish you did not have to have another surgery but I can understand that feeling that tightness and the constriction is quite annoying frustrating and painful. Have a great day and I'm really glad you uploaded I've been thinking about you.

[@Codytalks11]

Yikes that is terrifying. I can understand not wanting to have surgery after that. And honestly anyone who knows I’m trans due to the scar is probably already open minded if they know. So not too worried about that :)

[@victoriawhitaker3486]

Do you regret what you did to yourself? Why did you do it?

[@AngelaMartinez1991]

I'm so happy to see you doing well.

[@BM-qw8hy]

He isn't though is he🙄🙄.

[@keyboarddancers7751]

"Doing well??"

[@marywhitworth6769]

Why did you do that?

[@ellenrichardson8701]

Interesting content! 😃😇💝🌺

[@chellemotsinger1200]

Hi cody

[@RealLordkiffington]

But your still not a man, I feel sorry for you, I hope you find happiness

[@bugsarecool84]

😂😂

[@bugsarecool84]

Full beard, short hair, etc. still not a man though apparently 😂

[@ARandomAnna]

Your so real Cody! Love you mate! Take care 😊

[@jacobgreer1512]

I feel bad for this guy but at the same time he did It to himself and therefore there’s not much really sympathy that people can have because he knew the risks it would take to do a phallopasty or however you spell it.

[@broicherdorfstrb]

❤️

[@marywhitworth6769]

Could have been avoided all together. I'm sorry you are having a hard time. God bless.

[@tstylez986]

Damn again? :/

[@aeughcarrot]

You were perfectly fine. Now look..... That's all I have to say. 😢

[@kjones81]

Pretty sure you chose not to be a normal human

[@Codytalks11]

And you chose to spend your time leaving a mean comment for someone you don’t even know. Sounds like your life is going well.