i would rather be in a cold bed alone than be in a warm bed with the enemy
@83ttaylor5 жыл бұрын
You said a mouth full🙌🏾🙌🏾🤗🤗
@queenredbone74055 жыл бұрын
Sunshine Diaz you better preach Hunnti!!!!!
@Akilarae5 жыл бұрын
Girl!
@Novakane785 жыл бұрын
The reason for my last divorce
@Passion850315 жыл бұрын
She desperate & very insecure
@QueenTasia10015 жыл бұрын
I respect the fact she gave to the homeless instead of tearing the clothes up👏🏽👏🏽
@Keati17085 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾
@messiahlove69095 жыл бұрын
Tasia Pittman right
@ondreahall15365 жыл бұрын
No respect from me on that. We women have got to stop being controlled by our emotions!
@whitneydavis83415 жыл бұрын
@@ondreahall1536 I feel like her emotions was well under control she gave it away instead of messing it up I would have did the same thing
@kenzhernandez62765 жыл бұрын
No honestly! Gonna have to remember that lol
@Whistlesonthewind5 жыл бұрын
She is literally gorgeous. Bathed in melanin and pretty as a doll. This is sad.
@ISUPKSTLOUIS-kk1ny5 жыл бұрын
WHAT DOES HER SKIN HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING
@makaylacotton09285 жыл бұрын
ISUPK ST.LOUIS damn they just saying she’s a beautiful black woman. What’s your problem?
@Whistlesonthewind4 жыл бұрын
Makayla cotton Right! Plus, this dude is supposed to be apart of the one of those religions that encourages black people to love themselves; yet he has an issue with a black woman being praised for how beautiful she is. Smh Talk about a confused mind.
@kocominaj65994 жыл бұрын
She is gorgeous
@kocominaj65994 жыл бұрын
@@ISUPKSTLOUIS-kk1ny it has everything to do with it
@lilmakori4 жыл бұрын
I just wanna hug her. Girl being single is not a disease. It's a luxury. You have the freedom to do what you want when you want.
@sspears45592 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!!
@SISTAGURL2 жыл бұрын
These dumb men keep saying we’re going to die alone with cats so they can keep doing this to BW. Alone does not mean lonely sistas
@lilmakori2 жыл бұрын
@@SISTAGURL exactly. Some people like their own company
@Jahairalove84 Жыл бұрын
She deserves no sympathy. Females like her show how desperate women are to keep a man.
@Tonshmar Жыл бұрын
Is she an influencer? She looks awfully familiar?? 🤔 She looks like this gal who is now married to a white guy??
@LadyLikeBabyKay5 жыл бұрын
She's drowning in tears, snot all over her face, talking about "the sex is good" whet??? Ladies, level up.
@shalanathomas77515 жыл бұрын
LOL IKR!!!!
@staywinning32995 жыл бұрын
LadyLikeBabyKay sad
@nakiastringer29925 жыл бұрын
FACTS, she better rock the boat like Aliyah said and find another one.
@PranaChi3695 жыл бұрын
@Elyse George they have to master the skill of dick-matizing....
@catyjones62955 жыл бұрын
I do not know. Not enough MEN to go around. In jail, drug addicts,or whatever else. Side bar So, we just love hard
@trlive59425 жыл бұрын
She better be glad she didn’t have kids with him.
@angelalopez88975 жыл бұрын
They have one child together.
@iamapearl59525 жыл бұрын
Glad he didn’t give her any STIs
@shioriryukaze5 жыл бұрын
@@iamapearl5952 that was the first thing I said! Honey you need to go get yourself checked for STDs, mdt's and mpqs!!!
@MalcolmJosephMJCross5 жыл бұрын
Dodged that bullet like the matrix
@laurieg.30165 жыл бұрын
No, HE has one. She does not. Lord only knows what he's teaching his son or daughter with his behavior and attitude.
@haworoblay93275 жыл бұрын
She is so lucky that they don't have kids.
@jackkofalltrades68735 жыл бұрын
hawo roblay they actually have one child 😕
@gamegirl855 жыл бұрын
jackk Of All Trades not together
@asabifatosin11505 жыл бұрын
They have a child
@Feenyx1185 жыл бұрын
@@jackkofalltrades6873 HE has a child, she doesn't have a kid.
@shaynation26345 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@carriemtsh96482 жыл бұрын
She spoke and healed many people with her wise words ❤️
@QueenGleaux2 жыл бұрын
I just saw the ending to this on IG had to find the t=full video!!
@bgwalking12 жыл бұрын
Same girl same 😁
@brittanymckinney1141 Жыл бұрын
I was one of them
@devontafranklin50686 ай бұрын
Literally had a tear come down my face
@crechb60505 жыл бұрын
He is a narcissist. He Has no empathy, and emotionally abusive. Girl run... actually sprint.
@AuthorJanaeMarie5 жыл бұрын
Yup, and she's a codependent.
@iconikei5 жыл бұрын
Nah forget a sprint she better HAUL ASS
@dcoleimpact20635 жыл бұрын
Crech B 😂😂😂👏👏👏👊🏾
@miawilliams66535 жыл бұрын
Yes that dusty bum is a narcissist. He will reap many stripes .no worries. 😡😡😡😡🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@dyheshataylor8695 жыл бұрын
Crech B teleport! My ex was like that! I cried to the Lord saying I didn’t want to hurt anymore. Me being naive and didn’t leave God had him LEAVE me, laughed in my face in the rain! Now I am Happily married to THE MAN OF MY DREAMS❗️❤️
@LYJmusic5 жыл бұрын
He’s not cute, he’s arrogant, he isn’t supportive, he’s negative, he’s a cheater. He’s a liability. I hope she really leaves him.
@asmaj.6315 жыл бұрын
LYJmusic he ain’t shit but he’s cute, unfortunately 😭
@luvashxo5 жыл бұрын
He’s a narcissist, you can’t cure narcissism! People like that you run! Far!
@mosesomorogbe36785 жыл бұрын
Those are the qualities girls like. That's why she's crying for him. She won't like a good guy.
@ashabifatosinrich54035 жыл бұрын
All that, yes. So worthless!
@nanakadija15575 жыл бұрын
He ain't shit but he is cute fosho
@SharpieDarlingLLC5 жыл бұрын
Judge Toler’s delivery when she is giving advice is powerful.
@toyamosley19555 жыл бұрын
I was in tears as she was talking to her at the end 😢
@k.b.89945 жыл бұрын
That was one of the saddest episodes. Girl is far gone... she needs to go into rehab for that man.
@bucckjones64205 жыл бұрын
Courtney Takia yes, she has a gift with how she speaks
@oseanferguson74705 жыл бұрын
I get goosebumps everytime!!
@tonyahurt60583 жыл бұрын
YES!! Wish she was still on DC
@xandra_5099 Жыл бұрын
I lived this life for almost a decade....literally every person in my life knew and tried to warn me to leave. Trauma bonding is no joke. This type of relationship will destroy you. Its been 4 years since I left him, I'm still healing from it today.
@DomeknoCJonez9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ keep going. My dumbazz did 17 yrs..
@MarinaRhymin2 ай бұрын
@@DomeknoCJonez Good for you and Xandra for gathering the strength and self-worth to leave! You are more valuable, more beautiful, more intelligent, and more powerful than you believe even now!
@Summerbreeze3455 жыл бұрын
He ain't even all that walking like he's God's gift to a woman 😒
@SiimplyAngie70885 жыл бұрын
Meme 1981 PREACH ❌❌
@BernardBethea63395 жыл бұрын
These are the men you women choose each and everyday not giving the good man the time of day and get on here talking like it's not you yall love the pritty boys the thugs and men with money married or not when you get burned you won't take responsibility for your choices and say all men are bad most of you been in this situation this is why you hate it such but keep in mind no man will want you after you been ran through by these sorry men you choose then complain where are all the good men. Give me a break
@TruValidity5 жыл бұрын
@@BernardBethea6339 You really came in the comments to blame women after watching this? Wow
@amberdagoddess1115 жыл бұрын
I approve this message lmmlll he is weak he cant deal with a strong woman bet that and he's insecure his damn self clearly smh I hope she drops his behind
@Anthony80x5 жыл бұрын
Men like that will continue to act like that as long as seemingly good women continue to fall all over them and take thier crap.
@christainyancy545 жыл бұрын
Judge Toler was mad and even went up to her and hugged her. Man she felt this case
@felicialatson69105 жыл бұрын
Yes she did! I felt that too
@tonishaegidden52605 жыл бұрын
Judge Toler is right there are man like that and they don't want to take responsibility say what th're about. their want to trample on the female and spirit their crushed I endure Mrs Toler talk don't mess up my community...
@jessisrael5355 жыл бұрын
The girl was broken. Only a shell of a person. I was in tears looking at this.
@ingridjohn34555 жыл бұрын
She sees that she is weak and needs all the support she gets..... judge Toler is always 💯 be strong girl once u get yourself straight you will be ok
@skywatchersdreams5 жыл бұрын
I love the hug at the end. This woman has big brain and heart.
@feliciahepburn28545 жыл бұрын
"In my defense, I can't kill him" I felt that in my soul!
@youmakemelaugh17975 жыл бұрын
Honnnnnnnnney yes they play too much🙇🏿♀️
@k.b.89945 жыл бұрын
If she feels that badly bout him... why? Her self esteem is low down dirty shame.
@tumama0305 жыл бұрын
Yet, she stay with him. Smh
@lakeishacampbell27805 жыл бұрын
Looool rolling dwl
@asjeje5 жыл бұрын
But if a man said that it would be a problem
@realblackman45 Жыл бұрын
"You cant make people do right by you. But you can decide how often you let them do you wrong." Bars.
@queeenpeechez5 жыл бұрын
Dammm he's a gaslighting narcissist and she don't think she can get anyone else. No self esteem!!
@BernardBethea63395 жыл бұрын
She can get any simp she wants shaki g her ass all over ig
@Passion850315 жыл бұрын
None at all I don’t get it. Even if it’s daddy issues come on. Look how that booty meat move look at her beauty she can get ANY man she wants hell she can have a plethora of men financing all her needs. Sis plz plz plz I am begging u to wake up baby girl u r worth so much more than his nasty ass 🤬
@shesabeauty80275 жыл бұрын
Yep and it’s so sad
@Passion850315 жыл бұрын
Beverly Allen I understand what u r saying but come on now 🤦🏾♀️
@sterfry31825 жыл бұрын
He didn't gaslight I this, he admitted to everything she said he did.
@gogoscorner11115 жыл бұрын
He is a true narcissist to the core! He's with her because she feeds his ego by being hurt. He's evil. I hope she listens.... and he's not even cute with that beard! Ugh 😒
@Shabzana5 жыл бұрын
wow, ha
@dashawnalong61445 жыл бұрын
@John Smith exactly hes trash and nasty
@stacytucker4 жыл бұрын
Damn right
@roznichols3713 жыл бұрын
In the update show she went back to him.
@AmayaRue23603 жыл бұрын
@@roznichols371 really?🙄 some women. Do you have the link by any chance?
@uncommoninspiration88595 жыл бұрын
There's a saying, "What goes around comes around." He will meet a woman he's head over heels with one day, and she will drag him through the mud.
@shaynamonique19065 жыл бұрын
That or he will reap what he sows in different ways in his life. People like this always feel the wrath eventually.
@anditsreyna0205 жыл бұрын
Boomerang
@shioriryukaze5 жыл бұрын
@@anditsreyna020 He is Eddie Murphy for real!!!! Or Martin Laurence if.you remember that movie....
@drethethinker64185 жыл бұрын
Doubt it. Women are apparently more head over heels for him. He can tell them he has a wife and they will still sleep with him for months apparently.
@misslauren67985 жыл бұрын
@@drethethinker6418 I agree with you. I doubt it as well.
@azrcn_2 жыл бұрын
I watched this video 2 years ago when I was in relationship with someone who didnt value me and put me through a lot of pain. Now Im watching this 2 years after . Im doing so good in life. Thanks to Judge Lynn’s advice. Shes so right , this is the best thing that ever happened to me.
@msg3156 Жыл бұрын
Lmao value is something you create how can you value someone if they dont value themselves enough to be healthy
@780baby5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes leaving is the ONLY thing left to do.
@misstinahamilton57145 жыл бұрын
Yes queen ! She needs to bounce - there is no other solution !
@melanatedaboriginal47525 жыл бұрын
The ONLY THING & THE BEST THING TO DO!
@alexanderbemar26375 жыл бұрын
But even leaving gets some being murdered.
@juliajulia18355 жыл бұрын
She ended up staying.
@hurricaneheli795 жыл бұрын
@@alexanderbemar2637 You watch too many crime shows but your not wrong either.
@justtracie79505 жыл бұрын
This guy is the most disrespectful guy I’ve ever seen, but he can only do to her what she allows. I pray that she learns her self worth.
@heatlifer36405 жыл бұрын
Being in a relationship and being twerk queen on social media is also disrespectful.
@sufundasamuels23132 жыл бұрын
Exactly, once she can take care of her own being, I believe she will be in a better place.
@shan56232 жыл бұрын
He is very disrespectful
@heatlifer36402 жыл бұрын
@Catherine Gutierrez because aint no committed woman gonna be showing her body to other people. She ain’t doing it for other women. It’s for men. That’s how it’s disrespectful. A RESPECTFUL woman won’t twerk for other men.
@jackiebennett63042 жыл бұрын
@@heatlifer3640 you are slow
@thickseptember5 жыл бұрын
Sis said “in my defense, I can’t kill him”😂😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
@shaym7545 жыл бұрын
thick september I’m saying lmfaoooo
@coriesmith26335 жыл бұрын
He isn’t even trying to hide it he is blatant with it..... but is waiting for him to step up to the plate. She better off going to get one of them thirsty niggas she shaking for
@dyheshataylor8695 жыл бұрын
The GraceFX well...,ya know....... good point 😂😂😂😂
@Acecentricsp055 жыл бұрын
Threats of murder are only toxic coming from males I guess
@la-trelboss45995 жыл бұрын
I'm with you 😁😁😁
@DREAMENTERTAINMENT-DE4 жыл бұрын
She inspires me a lot and I’m only 12 watching this but I can use the tips for later when i get older. I love this woman
@gabybitch69942 жыл бұрын
Yess please listen to her cus she is so right keep ur head up baby girl don’t let these boys play u
@Cal-xo3fj2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely darlin this amazing woman is being 100% real, don’t let yourself break over a guy
@owlfeathers66152 жыл бұрын
Yaaaasss!
@delishme2 Жыл бұрын
Good on you sweetheart, thats so smart of you. From one woman to a future one, i would reiterate what she says and break down what is underneath this. Love on yourself !!!. Set boundaries, work out what they are. By that i mean, what are the behaviours/ actions of others you will NOT tollerate. What are the base line things you know will hurt you and hurt a healthy relationship. These cases probably show you what that stuff is, and what people do to each other out of selfishness and ignorance, so it's good to watch. When you know what you don't want, then it's easy to let the men you are with know from the start. When they know and still do, then you have your answer about who they are, and how much of yourself you should invest. People that care, respect and love you, just don't do those things, only broken people do. Don't let people cross your boundaries and when they do, back yourself with confidence amd walk away or send them packing. That is how you stay whole, by loving on yourself and respecting yourself and holding yourself and others to the standards you set for good and healthy relationships. Until you can do all that with confidence, don't date, and definately don't have sex. It's like going into a snake pit without a weapon, you will get bitten. Good luck honey.
@sebrinaalarcon65725 жыл бұрын
Steve Harvey put it like this: You went through 5yrs of that situation. Do you want to go through 5 more years? If the answer is no, then run.
@honeylilies15 жыл бұрын
Grace Munich clearly people need to hear it like this cause we have girls like in the video that don’t got to common sense to RUN from bullshit like this
@neresycoote97405 жыл бұрын
An what if u have kids have no help no job help needed please
@kadracliot58405 жыл бұрын
Neresy Coote my mom walked out with two kids no place no job no money no clothes and went to a whole new country but that was the best decision she ever made because after that she found a place a job and she became healthy including her two children and one of them is me. Trust me those kids should never make u feel like u need to stay, at the end of the day u will end up hurting yourself and them🤷♀️ Also one day your kids will applause you for taking a big step. Speaking for my self I have learned from my mom that I should never let a man treat me how he wants but how I want if that ain’t happening them open the door and walk out You will see the light 💡
@14omoon4 жыл бұрын
@@kadracliot5840 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@tinybootykia44114 жыл бұрын
True 💯💯💯
@shaqriusmaddox23255 жыл бұрын
She’s way too beautiful !! Once she realizes her worth she will not put up with anything ! All women should realize their worth and not take anything from a man!
@jesterarts7345 жыл бұрын
First and foremost, he's trash. My question...if she wasn't too beautiful, let's say she was overweight... would that change anything?
@zee.2345 жыл бұрын
@@ShayMarie.00 agreed!!
@wkhristafer5 жыл бұрын
This is false. What'll happen is, she'll put on her stern face and make decent men jump thru hoops before eventually going back to this type of men. Are we really gonna act like this isn't how these situations play out?
@jesterarts7345 жыл бұрын
I ask because you say, "she's way too beautiful" as if, if she was ugly...she should accept it. lol
@lewischinquita42785 жыл бұрын
If and when she realized her worth then she will stop the unclean videos, she will stop sending nude pictures to strangers and ect. She do not respect herself and he do not respect her either. People will treat you how you allow them to.
@kristine68295 жыл бұрын
“In my defense, I can’t kill him”... I felt her pain and frustration
@sweetsweet815 жыл бұрын
I felt that too!!!!
@ande18055 жыл бұрын
Bruh!! If someone got you in so much pain like that, you need to x him all the way out of your life
@qdeezy50115 жыл бұрын
Y’all crazy as hell
@shalanathomas77515 жыл бұрын
Yesss!!
@shaynamonique19065 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@mydigitalspace132 жыл бұрын
When the judge said,"you are gorgeous" ....some dude loudly said Yessssss 😍
@LYJmusic5 жыл бұрын
“You do not need a man to define you. A man should be an option not a definition” Judge Lynn Toler
@reginathomas21544 жыл бұрын
That's right!
@yenh11442 жыл бұрын
To this day I still use that
@miztinkerbellno25 жыл бұрын
This man cares nothing about her....nothing! He does this because she allows him to!
@lolag.96205 жыл бұрын
loving the natural me exactly.
@multyz15 жыл бұрын
She also cares nothing about herself to be with a man like that.
@Mrstookie1015 жыл бұрын
PERIOD!!
@tamaradula5 жыл бұрын
loving the natural me ... 👏🏾👏🏾Period ! They can only do what you allow them to do . She needs to get a backbone instead of a Wishbone
@alexvensel57305 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but he's just going to do it to the next girl and the next, five at once, who knows knowing demons like him. He's a toxic, no good fool.
@annie.j21675 жыл бұрын
She is literally STUNNING and deserves WAY better.
@kondwanimututa23025 жыл бұрын
No she doesn't shes crazy, doesn't think before she does things, has no values or self respect. I think it's a perfect match
@austinabanidoni58355 жыл бұрын
She isn’t stunning. Nice bum though
@sandrastephens5 жыл бұрын
She looks stunning to me. She deserves better than that gentleman.
@dabathiam93395 жыл бұрын
Austin Abanidoni pleaseee she’s gorgeous.
@austinabanidoni58355 жыл бұрын
Daba Thiam she’s ok. Nice pert bum.
@Msvonea Жыл бұрын
This was me for 2 years I left while he was sleep and never looked back
@reddqueen97225 жыл бұрын
This dude is a clown he's blatantly disrespectful and shows no sign of remorse.
@gorgeousbttyfly5 жыл бұрын
Right..an absolute narcissist to the core.
@angelabaldwin98894 жыл бұрын
Narc will never make sense.
@Underratedcommentator2 жыл бұрын
He’s a psychopath, not a clown
@ricardomoseley2 жыл бұрын
He’s strange af. 🤷🏾♂️ AF.
@zenz16245 жыл бұрын
People need to be strong enough to stay single 😆
@veronicawatson25255 жыл бұрын
I've been single for 18 years
@nicoladavis5805 жыл бұрын
Zenz 1 girl nail on the head. You have a lot of happy single people living fulfilled lives
@venessakamau41444 жыл бұрын
You couldn't have said it better. If you cant be satisfied by being alone, then you cant satisfy anyone your with. We should learn to appreciate and love our selves first before we allow anyone in our lives.i learnt alot from Dr. Myles Maroe teachings of "love being single" before loving Anyone else.
@iamstela40124 жыл бұрын
Thats true
@chelseyp.68604 жыл бұрын
Been single 24 years and I’m 24 lol. It’s hard sometimes but chileee it’s worth it.
@The.S.M.Evans.915 жыл бұрын
I wish Judge Toler could call Sallie Mae and kick her out my life like she kicked that guy out her courtroom.
@unalteredbeauty12465 жыл бұрын
Spencer Evans 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. And let the church say, “Amen!!!”
@SoulSista65795 жыл бұрын
For real for real 😭😭😭😭
@tickles145 жыл бұрын
Unaltered Beauty AMEN sista! 🙏🏾🙌🏾
@beemonique84665 жыл бұрын
Hilarious
@hazelscorpio855 жыл бұрын
Spencer Evans 😂
@CindyPaul3 жыл бұрын
I recently left a relationship due to this reason its been a month and its been hard and after watching this video. I feel stronger and understand that I do deserve better and I would rather be by myself then be with someone that doesn't treat me right.
@suchafknladyyy57802 жыл бұрын
Period sis and u deserve happy and peace and I know the universe got u....
@brittthecancerqueenempress91372 жыл бұрын
Right I was just in a situation like this as well with low down trifling trash individual just like him n I’m done of being sick n tired I felt like she was talking to me in this episode too although it’s been hard n was I know I don’t deserve this and he put me through trying ti destroy when out destroying others
@PrettyVee832 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@126677dede5 жыл бұрын
She is so pretty, how dare she be in love with a pile of feces with a beard
@tyrishasmith-grady7035 жыл бұрын
Denise DeShields 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Shabzana5 жыл бұрын
lol lol lol
@debbiethomas44725 жыл бұрын
😂👏
@sashawilson69495 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@PiscesPrincess875 жыл бұрын
Right she needs to learn her worth. Some women sitting around waiting for men to get old and get it right.
@queeenpeechez5 жыл бұрын
Judge Toler quote: "Isn't it better to be happy and whole and feel good about yourself by yourself then it is to feel low and degraded and unloved with another dude!!!!" HAMERCY JEEZUS!! "YOU DO NOT NEED A MAN TO DEFINE YOU!!!"
@sirajsoul5 жыл бұрын
And still she goes back to him .. omgggggg!! It was obvious in her eyes she wasn't leaving .. it's infuriating
@queeenpeechez5 жыл бұрын
@@sirajsoul she has no love for herself. Hell, she doesn't even like herself!
@sugarsalt65485 жыл бұрын
AGREE
@Suddenlyshon5 жыл бұрын
"A man should be an option, not a definition!!" SPEAK JUDGE LYNN!!!
@foxyroxy1010 Жыл бұрын
I love that " a man should be an option not a definition " women please listen and believe that.
@BlackgirlStan5 жыл бұрын
she's gorgeous. sis, please bounce! you're better than this mess
@andrathomas97285 жыл бұрын
So true
@anyerealvine6115 жыл бұрын
To think that I had a bf like this of 2yrs. I couldn’t take the bs either and left. Months later I’m blessed with my husband to be. Never settle sisters
@estieeu23645 жыл бұрын
Blesssings👏🏾👏🏾
@seasonedqueen69605 жыл бұрын
Good for you sis 👏👏👏👏
@MrLiliamarina104 жыл бұрын
I was 3 year relationship omg their all the same.
@31Dimo4 жыл бұрын
To God be the glory. God's blessings 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@ShadesofSage4 жыл бұрын
God bless you 🥰!
@Yuli20135 жыл бұрын
A man will go as far as you’re willing to let him.
@manisyaya31995 жыл бұрын
True
@loranbolding86705 жыл бұрын
Fact...women need greater standards and more respect for themselves. We need to lift each other up or men like that will rip us apart
@ISUPKSTLOUIS-kk1ny5 жыл бұрын
A MAN IS A MAN AND NO WOMAN IS LETTING HIM DO ANYTHING!
@amaripoole48474 жыл бұрын
A BOY maybe. Real men have respect.
@iamstela40124 жыл бұрын
@@amaripoole4847 true
@laetitiaausborn81304 жыл бұрын
I do like that she gave the clothes to the homeless, and didn’t destroy them. This is how you know she’s a good woman, with a good heart, and deserves so much better.
@JenessaAndKingston2 жыл бұрын
Lol that’s funny imagine him driving down the road and seeing a homeless person in his clothes and shoes 😅 im dead.
@Jan.S5 жыл бұрын
I actually feel bad for her!! She was very honest when she said. “Its all that I know! I pray god bless her to move in and find someone worth her love. I wanted to smack that grin off his face😡😡
@j.t.76715 жыл бұрын
He was smiling the whole time. I wanted to punch him.
@itsme3k4 жыл бұрын
She's in her peak years! Guys will be chasing her down.
@smoothking58734 жыл бұрын
I dont feel bad for her a bit guess Lynn toler waste her time and energy of her because she went right back to the dude.
@ShadesofSage4 жыл бұрын
Right?! 😡😤😡
@sufundasamuels23132 жыл бұрын
I felt her hurt and frustration too! I hope she left his ass and started focusing on herself.
@chantelcampbell24385 жыл бұрын
Don’t let a man tell you he doesn’t want more than ONCE. His actions are a very CLEAR indication of him not wanting her
@downbad28745 жыл бұрын
Shit he can want her and still cheat
@sctemple70435 жыл бұрын
He doesn't want HER, he just wants to use her and what she has.
@sweetsweet815 жыл бұрын
@@downbad2874 his actions say he doesn't want her. Period. He is using her submission to keep doing what he's doing because he knows she'll never leave.
@user-zx5xw4yw2e5 жыл бұрын
@@downbad2874 I agree. He can want her n STILL cheat. Many guys tend to be greedy like that.
@downbad28745 жыл бұрын
Sweet Sweet Joy hunny let me tell u one thing about a men that women seem to act oblivious to a man is going to do what he thinks he can get away with no matter what if he thinks you will never found out he is going do it 🤷🏾♀️ y’all need to stop saying his actions show me he don’t want her because that’s a false statement man will cheat on you but still love and want to be with you it’s your narrative that if he did he wouldn’t not his so stop it it has nothing to do with her or her submission because even with if she wasn’t if he thought he could he would
@mdungethulile5 жыл бұрын
What a “Wow” 🙄🙄The judge was as disgusted by him as I was.
@steficiarichards30285 жыл бұрын
Its the best case i have ever seen
@charlzwill4955 жыл бұрын
yes i was too just sickened
@araisininthesun5958 Жыл бұрын
I can't even shed a tear. This hits so deeply in my soul! Ladies, ladies, girls, daughters!!!!!!! PLEASE! Love from a distance! Don't put up with this evil from men in our lives. Don't fuss, don't fight, just walk away.
@blacksilkrose7775 жыл бұрын
The disrespect is systemic and he absolutely enjoys it. He enjoys breaking her down, because of the power he has to do so. Her feelings are meaningless to him. A typical narcissist who plays psychological games in order to turn you against yourself but blames for why he's doing it. She's in pure tears, she bottomed out..in five years he has managed to strip her of her dignity, self esteem, self respect, happiness and peace of mind. He stands there arrogant, self absorbed, gleefully evil, condescending and prideful...no regards for her pain...especially since he installed it. He is trifling, despicable, low down, disrespectful, disloyal, untrustworthy, a born again liar and a con artist. I think the only time he looks down is to see how much of her heart and soul he stepped on this time around. As a man I'm telling you ladies these types are not the end all to be all. There are phenomenal men out here who love being loyal, honest, trustworthy and loving. Stop trying to change what's in front of you to fit the paradigm you created for yourself. You all deserve way better than what you allow yourself to receive. Be Blessed.
@Miss__bri2 жыл бұрын
Amen !!!!!
@Souloflyricz232 жыл бұрын
I love this and he is so damn trifling it is Burn Me Up Inside and she is so beautiful in this said that he put her through that's that's okay he will be handled I know other than God and her ancestors.
@kenneldaallen98812 жыл бұрын
U r 100000000% correct
@brittthecancerqueenempress91372 жыл бұрын
&A Sure is & he gonna get his
@yordanoshaile78002 жыл бұрын
Well said !!!! 🙏🏽thank you for sharing
@TheSoftLifeMeditations5 жыл бұрын
Whyyyyy is sheee stiiiiillll theeeeeeeeeeeeeereeeee
@JuanitaMichelle5 жыл бұрын
gänsefüßchen thai self esteem on the ground
@Passion850315 жыл бұрын
Because she stupid
@hiddenpayne91305 жыл бұрын
Exaccccccccctly!!!!
@be_you_til_fulljourney20335 жыл бұрын
gänsefüßchen thai Because she doesn’t see her self-worth. She measures it by a man
@nnamdiphilip30115 жыл бұрын
Well, if you don't know your worth you can tolerate this rubbish.
@wynterbreeze12025 жыл бұрын
God didn't give Judge Lyn a daughter instead He gave her internet daughters! This case helped me so much! Her wisdom is soul reaching!
@user-zx5xw4yw2e5 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@shanshansworld58782 жыл бұрын
I love her!! ❤️❤️
@samonethomas80992 жыл бұрын
I understand the pain she went through. It’s better to be alone until someone values you and respects your loyalty.
@MyraKnowsItAll5 жыл бұрын
*This was soooo hard to watch!🥺 Made me realize how far I've come...This could never be me again, and DON'T LET IT BE YOU*
@amaripoole48474 жыл бұрын
SAY THAT SHIT!!!!
@tamariapatterson30004 жыл бұрын
Yeszzz me to never again
@pamelasalhany53634 жыл бұрын
Oh sweety I understand your pain! I wish you the best life❤
@angeliaimeanttoloveyouharr84044 жыл бұрын
Yessss....This Is The Comment For Me👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@robbierob8332 жыл бұрын
Talk it sis🙌🏾❤️💪🏾
@tlm36465 жыл бұрын
Someone needed to hear Judge Toler today, and that someone is me. Thank you.
@wynn2812ify5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@misslc78644 жыл бұрын
She def dropping wisdom
@ShadesofSage4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏿
@carriemtsh96483 жыл бұрын
Amen, please be strong, the heartache gets better with time and you when you are happy you look back with disgust and relief.
@TruestLovely3 жыл бұрын
💖
@dspenderella96712 жыл бұрын
"Starting over" is really "just getting started" when you finally get it right. Saying you don't wanna start over is like saying, "I know I'm going the wrong way, but instead of making a u-turn & going the right way, I'm just gonna continue to get further and further lost until I run out of gas - that doesn't make any sense.
@camalcina5 жыл бұрын
I'm not religious but if Judge Lynn was a pastor, I'd go. lol
@sweetsweet815 жыл бұрын
I would too
@36chinadoll5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@aphroditeXvenus5 жыл бұрын
She went for the money maker job instead lol.
@grandfatherclock99375 жыл бұрын
@@aphroditeXvenus JUDGE KNOW WOMEN CANT BE PASTORS IN A CHURCH...
@grandfatherclock99375 жыл бұрын
THE JUDGE KNOW WOMEN CANT BE PASTORS IN A CHURCH...
@marthapage92705 жыл бұрын
He really think he's something, boy stop fooling yourself.
@sweetsweet815 жыл бұрын
Of course he thinks he's something. These females out here making him feel that way!!!!
@sweetsweet815 жыл бұрын
@Piatequila he needs a Jacqueline Broyer in his life (from Boomerang)
@Ms-Jones5 жыл бұрын
He doesn't even have his own car! I don't get it smdh
@brooklynforever19905 жыл бұрын
He’s a joke and he will never change
@ondreahall15365 жыл бұрын
But the sistas' keep letting him do it...so whose fooling who???
@rhiannaholder-waterman81605 жыл бұрын
“In my defence I can’t kill him” ; and from now on that is my excuse too🤣💁🏾♀️
@erieyoung26155 жыл бұрын
rhianna holder-waterman 🤪😆🤣🤣
@treacletart2032 жыл бұрын
7:29
@erinjohnson4273 Жыл бұрын
I remember this case. I wanted to shake her and ask how much does he need to disrespect you, in order to wake up
@victorrichard29885 жыл бұрын
This man is a liar, has no sense of humor nor integrity how could you disrespect a woman right in her face !!
@sheilae.96705 жыл бұрын
He's so wrong for all he's done to her however she stayed with him so he will never change
@victorrichard29885 жыл бұрын
michelle louise I expect them to do better than that , cause we can it’s all about discipline
@joshandabradford31445 жыл бұрын
Lol..Not right in her face..She shouldn't be disrespected PERIOD!
@TT-th1gb5 жыл бұрын
@truth only Grow up youngin, the amount of hurt he put this woman through is a punchable offense right to his fugly face, he deserves the karma that is coming to him & nothing more bruh
@tatucorreia5 жыл бұрын
Because she accepts it...
@samanthamajor31145 жыл бұрын
The energy n time u putting into tracking him, put that energy into tracking down ur self esteem
@iamgoddess97905 жыл бұрын
FACTSSS SIS😂😂😂
@jocage17195 жыл бұрын
And to tell you the truth, she shouldn't even waste her time doing that because he's not going to stop doing him whether she catches him or not
@maraviliaa5 жыл бұрын
Jo Cage true and she did not even leave him once she caught him 🤦🏾♀️
@jocage17195 жыл бұрын
@@maraviliaa ONCE SO EVER smh but like samantha said she need to put more work on her self esteem
@maraviliaa5 жыл бұрын
Jo Cage yes i agree
@Ms-Jones5 жыл бұрын
"You can't make ppl do right by you, but you can decide how many times they do you wrong." 🙌🏾💯
@velwright22115 жыл бұрын
So true Judge
@eboniebo13672 жыл бұрын
Judge Toler words were POWERFUL!
@MrMecc5 жыл бұрын
"There's some women out there who's self-esteem is so low, they will still ride with you..." - Judge Toler. I guess she didn't realize, she was talking to one.
@Mindurz5 жыл бұрын
Preach
@JustBeREAL1st5 жыл бұрын
She knew
@aphroditeXvenus5 жыл бұрын
She is implicating that there are women out there who are happy to accept him for who he is and how he acts. She wasn't implicating on the lady on the show who clearly is not happy or agrees to his behavior. She just needed some advice on what to do because she is too afraid to leave.
@GEANAJO5 жыл бұрын
He ain’t even a good catch . To stay in a relationship like this is toxic.
@latishablango43874 жыл бұрын
These men r not even lookers but..they seem to get so many women
@mzshunarenee5 жыл бұрын
Sound like she about to go right back into that trap with him! He ain’t no damn good at all‼️
@rescuemepookie52565 жыл бұрын
she aint going no where...he gonna sweet talk his way back into them honey walls and keep been the honey badger that he is..
@mzshunarenee5 жыл бұрын
hasin israel Yep sure is!
@mial.83685 жыл бұрын
Soooo sad right?
@cyndylove48165 жыл бұрын
i knew that the moment she put "if" in her sentence
@tefnut935 жыл бұрын
She definitely going back.
@Tajographist2 жыл бұрын
"You are gooooooor-geous. GOOOOOORGEOUS" SHE NEEDED that
@brandim.93475 жыл бұрын
She dropped some gems on this one. So many women need to watch this episode
@brooklynforever19905 жыл бұрын
Brandi McRae yup
@alisont66595 жыл бұрын
This woman crazy, she stayed with that foo foo bwoy.
@hurricaneheli795 жыл бұрын
Like that was even a surprise. It's suprising when they actually leave.
@royalneal32655 жыл бұрын
I need a Judge Lynn Toler in my life
@mpphil85974 жыл бұрын
In my head, I've adopted Judge Toler as my Auntie😊. Blessings
@MrOctober5103 жыл бұрын
I love the wisdom that Judge Toler pours into people
@way2blessed2bstressed525 жыл бұрын
I'd rather be single any day than miserable in a relationship. 🅿️
@nicoladavis5805 жыл бұрын
Unbothered * preach
@tashawilliams80933 жыл бұрын
👏
@brittthecancerqueenempress91372 жыл бұрын
I swear to God
@ReReBaby1435 жыл бұрын
He's a narcissist to the fullest. He won't be married again
@AuthorJanaeMarie5 жыл бұрын
Yup. She's a codependent.
@grandfatherclock99375 жыл бұрын
THEY ARE NOT MARRIED....
@grandfatherclock99375 жыл бұрын
@@ReReBaby143 I WATCHED IT TWICE, THEY ARE NOT MARRIED!! I HEARD HER SAY THE WORD COUSIN... WHICH SOUND LIKE HUSBAND.... ANYWAY THEY ARE NOT MARRIED!
@rosej50295 жыл бұрын
God's Angel Bet you he will be married and soon. This show demonstrates there are available women with low self esteem willing to be with males who are trash.
@ReReBaby1435 жыл бұрын
@@rosej5029 Very sad
@patiencechibanda68135 жыл бұрын
"You do not need a man to define you"...amen to that
@brishaberries01015 жыл бұрын
I been saying this for my whole entire life.
@briannatathamrhoden31903 жыл бұрын
That speech that the Judge gave her‼️, and this ain’t for her alone this for all my ladies out there who feel like they are stuck.
@4ceeflower8365 жыл бұрын
She's been crying throughout the whole episode 😔 I'm 28 too and sad to hear that "that's all she knows" and "the sex is good" there's better on the other side !!!
@ddnquestion15 жыл бұрын
Poor Baby she is as broken as the car windows she took that bat too my heart goes out to her!!!!
@malikasampson76735 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@lavelausvi5 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@pamelasmith75505 жыл бұрын
She said he's all she know, so sad, I hope she realize her worth
@ArtisticDreams2U5 жыл бұрын
So sad. That's all she knows... Is him? Lord help her.
@fizafiza19825 жыл бұрын
His dog not a man
@asheenprince88034 жыл бұрын
I got tears in my eyes for this young lady .He is a narcissist and will never change .
@willymase022 жыл бұрын
This episode went Viral all across social media and I bumped into it and I’m glad that I did. So much rawness and truth. So many people identify because we have all been there. Those words by Judge Lynn were so powerful and I needed to hear that just how many others needed to. If you’re reading this I hope it gets better. You won’t be stuck there forever.
@anitaekpo31705 жыл бұрын
I’d rather bite a rock than be with a man like this!
@MyPeace19775 жыл бұрын
LOL. A 'rock'! 😂
@creamekay4 жыл бұрын
Same here an i love my teeth
@LeeTheLee5 жыл бұрын
She stayed... he gone give her a good 60 to 90 days of hiding his bs to make her think he changed. And bam.. back to normal!!
@adwoaasisi89085 жыл бұрын
They never learn
@LeeTheLee5 жыл бұрын
@@adwoaasisi8908 nope.. never!!!
@lewischinquita42785 жыл бұрын
He do not have to that. He knows she is not going anywhere. He will continue to do what she said she likes and he know he has her until she becomes CELIBATE.
@lewischinquita42785 жыл бұрын
He knows her weakness. He is being open about things and he see she except he just as he is. Her cry seem to be the rejection. Because if he love and wanted her then he would respect her and they would not have been living together, nor being sexual involved and not married, and he would not have brought another women into where they live in her face nor ride another women in her car. She thought she was going to make him hurt by asking for money for her breaking her own windows and really she is responsible getting rid of him property and can be and could have been held accountable if he had a counter claim against her for a certain about. He can still sue her if he chooses. Sin make us do foolish things to our own self and to others.
@mizztikle5 жыл бұрын
60 to 90 days? My love you are very optimistic
@silk5105 жыл бұрын
She’s such a beautiful lady. She deserves so much more. I couldn’t help but tear when she said he was all she knew... a lot of young women can relate to her
@smoothking58734 жыл бұрын
She'd beautiful but stupid
@makingmovesvips Жыл бұрын
I hope they got it together or left it alone 🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾🙌🏾 28 years old. OMG she has so much life ahead of her. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@ShaunJackson095 жыл бұрын
Soul ties are something serious. She cried through the whole episode and STILL took him back.
@march86march365 жыл бұрын
It's very sad
@adamantbelieva5 жыл бұрын
Exactly and he knows exactly what he’s doing..... lord forbid if something happens to her and he meets a real woman they will not be impressed with “the sex” he got a rude awakening coming
@queenredbone74055 жыл бұрын
😥 she better read that book Judge Toler gave her.And I wouldn't take someone back that has mistreated me.Forgive & move on to someone better.That will respect My Worth.
@MsKitty23115 жыл бұрын
@@adamantbelieva and I'm sure the sex isn't even as good as she says, her self esteem is just low.
@alexvensel57305 жыл бұрын
Karmic relationships need to be broken and learned from.
@arielhansberry33865 жыл бұрын
“You can’t make people do right by you , but you CAN decide how often you let them do you wrong. “ WHEWWWWWW I felt like she was talking right to me 🥴. Love really can cloud common sense.
@mattiec70722 жыл бұрын
Yup love is a drug it’s good but it can also be toxic at certain levels
@veeh22295 жыл бұрын
Man, that clip I just witnessed on IG, with her chewing this clown to pieces, was everything. I’m tuning in, baby!!!
@tiberiusedwards39685 жыл бұрын
I saw it to i clicked on this so fast but its not the full episode
@ms.iamtheone84985 жыл бұрын
Yesss I had to come through to see this
@angelicareese22846 ай бұрын
I wish I was there to hug her. When she said “ I don’t know anybody else.” really felt her emotions. That hit really hard.
@Uniquelhuff5 жыл бұрын
She’s gorgeous! Very sad to see her in a situation where she doesn’t see her own worth.
@joshandabradford31445 жыл бұрын
"I can have a disease for 5 yrs but I still wanna get rid of it! Talk about word of choice Judge Lynn. Love you❤
@stella58225 жыл бұрын
How does he even get any women, he can’t even articulate himself. He talks like he rode the short bus.
@beverlyallen84935 жыл бұрын
Like he's got a mouth full of quarters
@d820m5 жыл бұрын
Whatever it was, it worked....He got her and all of his other women and she hasn't left him
@kondwanimututa23025 жыл бұрын
Stop lying he communicates fine compared to most African American.
@SunshyneA5 жыл бұрын
My aunt told me once the slow ones always got n big 🍆 from watching y years of DC i believe her cuz Lord the things they accept esp the public embarrassment its gotta be dipped in gold cuz aint no way!
@TheLaShawnya2 жыл бұрын
I saw a clip of this on Facebook, and had to come here to see the whole episode! Wow!😳
@estieeu23645 жыл бұрын
"I can have a disease, I might be used to it, but I have to treat it" Wow judge lynn💕
@jenniferdownard99482 жыл бұрын
I know a couple worst than this
@Iamirealla5 жыл бұрын
She is a beautiful black woman, she will find someone that sees her beauty.
@Greatsharkbite5 жыл бұрын
Will she? All she has to do is not have patience and take the first loser who hits her up--as she just did.
@shioriryukaze5 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful but in her heart she's destroyed for now. She needs to learn how to love herself first before she puts herself back out again. That way she's not trying to find somebody to fill a hole in her heart, she's trying to find the right thing for the right reason.
@drethethinker64185 жыл бұрын
She keep twerking online and she just gonna attract the same assholes.
@dashawnalong61445 жыл бұрын
@@Greatsharkbite I'm so glad she's not went back with him anymore
@dashawnalong61445 жыл бұрын
@@shioriryukaze she need to find somebody to be with not him he just dirty and nasty
@katrinafrench10435 жыл бұрын
This was me 17 yrs ago. I'm so glad I left
@mdungethulile5 жыл бұрын
I have abandonment issues unfortunately I shut people out prematurely. I would never ever allow someone to treat me like that.
@roshondaburks9425 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you left as well 💜
@AreUTakingTheBubble3 жыл бұрын
I love how calmly the judge hears them both out even though she’s hearing nonsense.
@nadiavitalbeauty935 жыл бұрын
This makes me appreciate my man more! They are not a lot of good men out there anymore .. 😪
@Shaney_Lee5 жыл бұрын
NadiaVital beauty yup! I’m with u. He has no respect for her.
@tinaamariee8325 жыл бұрын
Chileee I finished this episode & went ahead n made my BF favorite meal. Cause good lord I’m blessed & grateful for him if this is what’s being offered in these street
@thatgirltp69885 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is the worst case of low self esteem and stupidity I’ve seen in a very long time. I hope she wakes up quickly.
@DavidSaul2035 жыл бұрын
Yo! man to man. You're straight up blatantly disrespectful to the woman you're in an exclusive relationship with. Be a better man bro! It's sad, so sad you're so disrespectful.