[FULL STORY] Am I The A-hole for insisting my fiancée include my daughter in our wedding?

[@TalesChambers]

1:22 If came from short

[@TALLCAT6969]

No you not the ahole for wanting your daughter to be a flower girl in your or be groom man in your wedding if your fiancee thinks that she can control everything about the she's lying to herself and her mother is wrong for saying that your daughter doesn't have to be anything in the wedding just set with your family like you said you and your daughter are a package deal if your fiancee wants you she has to accept your daughter to your ex-mother-in-law is very very wrong for saying that she only wants pure blood or pure children in the family. Your daughter is your pure blood your daughter is your pure child just go no contact with your mother-in-law and your ex-fiancee move on you and your daughter just live your best life ever.

[@kristashafer93098]

Taking the ring off her finger is such an incredible power move. You go, dad!! Putting your daughter first is the most important thing.

[@AleenaCortez-k1y]

Fr tho

[@Gojo_Satoru_iluvbillyhantoo]

Damn she really expected a father to give up his daughter for herself 😂

[@randomkat7755]

Fr, what a selfish egotistical woman 😂😂😂

[@jacobchang5816]

Did you pray today?

[@catherineaustin2]

​@@jacobchang5816Did you mind your own business today?

[@ToastyCheeseBread]

​@@catherineaustin2no it's a meme based on the person's pfp

[@Arina-1208]

...because most fathers would do exactly that

[@Tinkerbell-d3j]

my opinion ✨ As if Shannon thought that op will drop his bio daughter get a grip as op said they r a package deal GOOD LUCK TO OP

[@DamontaeBrown11]

Nah the ring move is crazy HE JUST LIKE ME FR😂😂😭

[@Arcticafoxis]

Frfr

[@Fallensoldiersss]

Such a happy ending

[@melanieaguilar8850]

YEP!!!😌😌😌

[@Calypso_Videos]

Fr ❤❤❤

[@arifasultana2953]

IK!! I'm very satisfied with it, glad he chose his daughter

[@Muichiro_Tokito124]

He got back with his Ex-wife W!

[@carolnitte1800]

He should have asked the MIL if SHE would give up her daughter!

[@ekaterinar.7677]

If I got the guy that cares so much for his "ex" kids I would be secure that even if our marriage sinks at some point, my children will still have a father who cares. As it was a case for my dad, too, and deadbeats who throw kids after divorce are just disgusting. That's just crazy.

[@PhaethonCrafts]

Glad to hear that OP dumped Sharon, though I saw where Sharon was going with her resentment in the short. Good riddance. Wish more parents took their child’s feelings into consideration before remarrying considering the wackadoos out there.

[@Originella]

What in the Parent Trap!! This is just like that but without twins and shared custody!

[@davidmauriciogutierrezespi5244]

NTA. OP is a model father, Sharon should have known better than to follow her mother's insensitive request, there's a reason she's divorced genius!

[@catherineaustin2]

Let's be real, her mom may have pushed her a little on it, but she was alllllll for it, she was gonna stop at nothing to keep her new hubby all to herself.

[@kellysorensen1419]

Wow! It's not just her wedding! What a lousy stepmom she would have been. You and Polly dodged a nuke! Bridezilla to be he max!

[@jbejhrzc]

My kids not being there would be a deal breaker for me too, looks like you dodged a bullet in that relationship she showed her true colors

[@maddmaestro1]

I really don't understand people that date parents, yet have no desire to be a part of their children's lives. It is honestly stupid and selfish. It would be one thing if the relationship was antagonistic, but it honestly sounded as though Polly really tried to connect with her, and there was no friction. Ex fiancé sounds like an entirely entitled twit.

[@MEMESUDONTGET]

Ngl that ending was badass

[@Inesvera270]

Like they always say, you always end up back where you were the happiest

[@Riddles.wifey31]

i love this but can you do more cooking bits

[@kesiapontes5033]

YAY POLLY GOT HER MOM AND DAD BACK TOGETHER THAT'S SO NICE

[@Swiftie-h5i]

This actually made me so happy and satisfied me. I love how he just says "Lets just say I took my ex-wife with me to Hawaii, and we decided to give it another shot." Also ops daughter sounds adorable

[@waterdragon55]

Awww this was a cute update wish u the best of luck and wanting them to get married

[@Average_fairy_girly]

Omg I’m so happy abt the ending!! Y’all will make such an amazing couple!❤

[@Sattrax]

NTA. Your fiancé is being weird. Your fiancé is turning into Bridezilla. Hold your position.

[@abi-149]

I love that for him. It made me sooo happy that he’s still on good terms with his ex not only for the good of the child but you have a bigger support system and a friend that prob knows you better than you know yourself

[@MicheleRBrown]

You would think if she loved him she would want the little girl to be in it

[@ihatepeopleyes9492]

Well she doesnt.

[@deborahroper3694]

You did the right thing with Sharon. You are lucky she and her mother showed their true colors before the wedding. I think you really dodged a bullet. If she has no “real” compassion for your daughter, then she is not marriage material. She is just materialistic. Also, she is not a good role model for your daughter. Stick to your guns and don’t take Sharon back. Funny her name has share in it but she has no share in her heart for a little girl.

[@P3T4LS-THE_ONE-AND_ONLY]

I believe that Polly should be in the wedding because my dad is married to my step mom but I was still a flower girl.

[@L3g0Luv]

Sharon is a complete a. She expected op to marry her and not see his daughter a lot. Nothing can outdo a good father’s love for his daughter.

[@Cooking_FunYT]

damn this is the happiest ending to a reddit story i ever heard ❤😂

[@testcitsl1468]

Wow OP even thinks that this is a question he needs to "ask others" for opinion is so messed up.... the step kids need to be accepted if you marry a SO who has children from prior relationship.... the SO who doesn't respect that is a walking red flag

[@OrangeM_42]

I hope you and Polly'soyher get back together. Y'all seem like a good couple

[@KaizerofHell28]

Bro I’m so glad the OP took his ex-wife with him to Hawaii it was one of those thoughts I was thinking would be nice 😊

[@roxcyn]

NTA, ex fiancée sounds cray cray. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@bobm5951]

Women Need to get TF over that "MY wedding" BS. It is NOT ALL ABOUT YOU!

[@croseght]

1:13 is about the short

[@helgardhossain9038]

I just thought back to 19th and 18th century where widows (and occasionally also widowers) were coerced into removing their children from the previous marriage into boarding schools ... My grandmother was forced to marry at the age of 17 years around 1880 being this kind of uncared-for child from a first marriage ...

[@ForgePC]

Bro really explained some so complex so simply

[@dianesinger9729]

She is purely selfish, good for you dumping your former finance

[@lisforluna833]

Erm... What the sigma?

[@theagingmillennialvarietyh7751]

Good dad.

[@malpat118]

Wow that’s so amazing I hope you have a great life if you have any more updates please update thank you so much!

[@ofccitshal]

So why can her niece be in the wedding but YOUR DAUGHTER can’t???

[@Llifewithbella]

I am going to be a grooms girl at my dad’s wedding

[@GamingWithClarice]

1:56 A father daughter dance seriously?? Tell your daughter to grow up. This day is about the bride and groom not the daughter. It is the brides choice who’s the flower girl so just don’t be dramatic

[@_Ssamantha_]

Man you're no fun

[@rainfallen7574]

Nah, it's NOT just about the woman in a wedding. EVERYONE is involved and important,not just bridezilla You sound like a horrid person to get married to. Daddy daughter dances are extremely important

[@hunnilola]

Are you re started? “Grow up” she’s only 11 💀 and a father daughter dance is at almost EVERY wedding where the groom has a kid. Also, the day is not just about what the bride wants. It’s also what the groom wants. HE gets to choose his groomsmen. That woman has no rights to decline.