[Full Story] My Sister Brings Out a Cake in The Middle of My Wedding to Announce Her Pregnancy

[@kathleenmcfarlane2555]

OP didn't ruin her sister's marriage. Her sister ruined her own marriage. Truth is never a mistake. Sister f-ed around and found out. The parents are so wrong in this. They should have shut sister down when she started acting up.

[@Fiero425]

It's so hard believing these stories are real when it consistently have doting parents that can forgive anything of a fave child, while the other should be the bigger person to understand and forgive anything maliciously done against them. I'd be cursing my parents out trying to not only forgive the spoiled brat, but apologize for stressing them. Fk. them. 😆

[@patriciaredding3133]

You handled this Luke a Boss.

[@MrsHecklefish]

💯 correct!

[@germainelytle9272]

OP was given an arrogant ultimatum by her stupid, vain parents......oh well...nice knowing you! You have a new life with truthful, really caring people now. Your sister is a sleaze, and your parents are shallow.

[@RockDay-wv8jq]

100% right. OP was completely in the right. Sister and parents were 100% in the wrong.

[@reginadoggett9921]

Allison wanted her sister's wedding day to be about her... and it was. The parents are the AH for not reining in the princess.

[@RedPanda74]

Hijacking someone else’s wedding is NEVER “insignificant and small”. It’s downright disgusting. Never bow down to the person giving an ultimatum. Always choose the option they don’t want you to choose and tell them to shove it.

[@georgewashington4866]

OP should tell her soon to be ex-brother in-law to get a DNA test on the baby because something is telling me that the sister's ex is the father

[@HylianWolfMage55]

I will never understand people who blame the one who revealed the truth rather than the one who kept a marriage destroying secret like cheating. Maybe it's because I have made peace with the skeletons in my closet while they haven't made peace with theirs.

[@BK-tp6jf]

In this case they think it affects the family reputation people like to pretend them and their kind are perfect in front of others and rather bully the victim then ask for truth and justice

[@joettabaker-fry932]

You have some wisdom. Lol. Are you surprised you're wiser than you thought? Lol

[@dawnwalker4574]

@@BK-tp6jfI was the fall guy for my mom. I was blamed for everything and my brother was the golden boy.

[@innerlude]

Its a trait of Narcissism. They are never wrong, its everyone else, thats wrong.

[@shedeuray5305]

Allison knew Jared still loved her. She wanted to keep him dangling.

[@WivesStories]

Absolutely, it’s sad how she manipulated him to stay on the hook while pursuing another relationship it's truly heartbreaking

[@LillianBartlesby]

Yeah, it reminds me of that one episode of HIMYM.

[@fearnes.5272]

I wish OP had the photo/video team capture all event in video so she could post it about ‘my sister’s special moment at my wedding’ 😂😂

[@lynndaniels-dn9tq]

I CANT STAND PARENTS WHO ENABLE THERE KIDS!!! AGAINST THERE OTHER KIDS!! LIKE WTF!!

[@GillianBergh]

'Cheating on one's spouse is 'nothing?' Even if OP apologised as her parents demanded - don't they think their pampered princess's husband would at least demand a paternity test?

[@lindalanteigne8909]

I think parents knew about the affair. They are upset because you outed her. Family sometimes are nuts and yours is

[@kotorisama3080]

Dont start no 💩 wont be no 💩

[@musicnightmare]

Play stupid games. win stupid prizes as they say.

[@jacalynstaten5607]

“I don’t know what I did wrong” Oh yes you did and I’m here for it. Sister had it coming.

[@rosevan7845]

Sounds like this little drama mama has a thing for her sisters ex. She is alot more like her sister than she has the self awareness to realize. She could have gone to the courthouse to get married if she was all for true and justice, but where is the story in that. Adult decisions for adults, not this girl, drama it is till the day she dies.

[@Kozygirlie_eats]

That's my thing, op acts like she's soooooooo innocent. What she did was WRONG like her sister. She's twisted. She could have revealed before wedding and respected diginity of sister's husband and had a peaceful WEDDING. She loved every bit of drama, literally ESH. She might benefit from therapy @rosevan7845

[@SublimeQueen_28]

The sister started it. She must pause her whole wedding for a person whose irrelevant and is a complete narcissist. This is called it for tat, if you can't dish it, don't go to the buffet. The sister had it coming honestly, and we can't be adults all the time. Kudos to op.

[@XMaster340]

Wow, I really didn't expect some sane people in these replies. I could really see a former friend of mine in OP. She would always retaliate every bit of minor wrongdoing against her with the maximum amount of drama and then act innocent like the world hated her and she just did what she had to do.

[@ninaross211]

Parents will only pretend to love you as long as you were paying them enough to pretend so they can give sister money, but if you’re not paying them to pretend, and not able to financially support, sister won’t make them suddenly loving

[@peggyseabrun4829]

Stay tuned for possible update saying baby is not Eric's baby

[@itsjustme7487]

I wonder if there really is a baby. Sis wouldn't be the first person to lie for attention.

[@CarolEdmonds-pk7hr]

The parents have coddled the younger sister for her entire life. Time for them and the sister to grow up!!

[@droid2645]

I'm proud of you. Don't back peddle anything. Stand up for yourself always 🎉❤

[@lindahutchison3870]

Just be careful picking the mountain you want to die on since this has started a MAJOR family battle. Close the BOOK on this!

[@superpunkin93]

*you take the low road and I'll take the high road*..... I mean high way to hell 😂

[@ednakravitz2738]

Allison cheated That’s why there is a divorce

[@fishscales28]

exactly. Also the only reason her husband believes it is because the guy she was cheating with literally showed him proof, and he wasn't as willing to believe it before that

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

Block means BLOCKED...Period

[@Gabrielnow69]

No, you're not wrong she made her bed and let her reap what she sowed. This is the result of her actions, and as for your parents, they made their own choice. Enjoy your life with your husband, and just move on in peace ✌️

[@amandasmith2399]

Alison is only mad at OP because she got caught.

[@stillscrimmaging283]

I really like this OP. She kinda badass 💪🏽

[@wendy908527]

Play stupid games and win stupid prizes 😂

[@musicnightmare]

Exactly!

[@debfletcherwins6488]

Stay away from toxic people, they love to gaslight you, and make you feel guilty.

[@deborahkizer4664]

😢 Disgusting behavior. And your parents are mad at you about it how disgusting of them that's awful. That was your day honey nobody else is just yours and your husband's nobody else's. 😢

[@AwenitaOrtega-cl5be]

I wouldn't be surprised if she wasn't pregnant at all and just doing this for attention.

[@wildhairchronicles4009]

When people like OP s sister keeps getting away with things they think they can do whatever they want and no one would stand up to them. They become adult bullies and when someone finally gets completely ticked off and does stand up to them, those bullies become delusional or probably broken in the head zzz

[@allrequestsdenied1321]

Most adults who have tantrums over being told no are the ones who didn't get it out of their systems toddlers, which is when most parents teach their kids what "no" means.

[@shellnet411]

Well, when her parents said that she did that over something so insignificant and small I would’ve retorted with my wedding is insignificant and small. My life is insignificant and small so I’m insignificant and small. I’m glad you tell me now so I know that I don’t need you in my life, because what if I’m insignificant and small your even smaller, you are gone you can either apologize to me for even allowing her to do anything at my wedding of this nature or you can stay out of my life anyone who wants out of my life can be I am married and I have friends. I do not need family that thinks I’m insignificant and small.

[@rowan5335]

I think her sister thought of Jared as her backup

[@MamaKarma13]

Yup, her Plan B.

[@musicnightmare]

Mmm she might wanna look into a plan B for that kid too like maybe adoption because honestly a kid shouldn't be raising a kid if she's gonna act like a spoiled child then she doesn't have the maturity and responsibility it takes to actually raise another human bean.

[@boatthere867]

op your sister did it to her self and mum and dad helped make her that way. p.s what your sister was doing was keeping her back up plan around witch is just wasting his time and life away waiting.

[@BluemoonLacrymosa]

I utterly hate it when parents overlook vile activities of one child and expect the other sibling (usually older) to just forgive and forget because they’re family.

[@ADuvall-White]

I have never understood why people blame the person their S/O cheated with instead of the S/O. Can someone explain this?

[@knrdvmmlbkkn]

"I have never (...) someone explain this?" Yes, I can. People tend to be willing to cut those closest to them some slack. And they may be married to, have children with and/or share property with their SO, which may serve as incentives to attempt to remain on friendly terms and perhaps even stay in the relationship/marriage. Cutting off/blaming/ignoring/hating a stranger is presumably a lot easier. No love lost, no relationship to save and (in many cases) not years or even decades of knowing eachother.

[@xxstaindrosesxx]

These parents are delusional. Their daughter literally had a cake made and told the baker to keep it a secret, which clearly shows malicious intent. She wanted to ruin her sister's wedding and put the attention on her. If I was the OP, I would have confronted my sister, and then uninvited her to the wedding. Either way, the sister still succeeded in taking attention away from the OP, and even if she got her revenge to a certain extent, it still tarnishes the event. I just wouldn't have wanted her there at all.

[@susannlemke514]

You should have just had the baker change the wording in the cake. . Congrats Jared and Alison on your pregnancy

[@PatriciaChestnut-v9q]

I think you are better without parents and sister!!! Who need enemy when you got family like that!!!! One more thing the family card if she had done that to you I do not believe parents would help you . She got what she got no husband hope if the baby is his hope he try to get custody of the baby. Sound like you got our soulmate and father when you two get pregnant.

[@rsstenger5113]

It's weird that some people like to blame others for outing their despicable actions but themselves. If you don't want to get caught cheating, then don't cheat.

[@deborahkizer4664]

Your parents knew oh my goodness.

[@MizzShortai]

I love how the parents said that what Alison did was "small" like excuse me.? She interrupted her sisters wedding for attention. OP had every right to expose her sister. Lmfao Alison really didnt think things through since obviously Jared would have proof she was the one messaging him first. Lmfao they really thought OP would pay for the divorce and medical expenses after what Alison did.

[@MimiNwabuokuMD]

16:17 Ohhhhh, the screams that I have scrome. Why not throw in college tuition for any and all of Alison’s crotch goblins whilst they’re in this lady’s house and making demands? LMAOOOOOOO

[@curtdottiesundell]

Considering your parents allowed her to talk about being pregnant at your wedding is just wrong. They all need to be no contact. You were right with what you did.

[@alishasimms2846]

Parents who choose one child over the other make me sick!

[@kristalparsons5473]

Well, your sister got what she wanted, didn't she? I bet she'll never try to one-up you again, huh?

[@amandasmith2399]

Oh...I think that she definitely would try one upping the OP again....she would just try to do it a different way.

[@nebelland8355]

Somehow I don’t believe a word on this channel. 😂 But well made up stories.

[@mauvibauer1828]

The Lego graphics are really annoying.

[@itsjustme7487]

True!

[@JohnSmith-kf8mv]

🙈

[@TD-qx9cy]

I put my phone down so I don’t look at the screen

[@motherofcatsnz]

Some-what better than the scenes filmed at tourist venues where it features people dressed in the most unflattering clothes and straggling down the street stuffing their faces looking most ungainly. What is wrong with a fish tank.

[@tomhaskett5161]

I suppose that a passive-aggressive response when the sister brought out her cake would be for the bride and groom to simply thank everyone for coming, and just walk out of the wedding celebrations (at least, calmly go to another place for 30 minutes while the guests stood there slack jawed!)

[@nicolakent1673]

Why should the couple leave their OWN celebrations? The sister wanted all the attention and boy! Did she get it!!!

[@rugr82day]

No need to be passive-aggressive in the face of aggression.

[@questions3983]

If the parents threaten no contact, hell I'd be overjoyed and make sure they tell the sister to no contact too. And when OP have kids and they try to get in contact, remind them to keep their promise of no contact. 😂

[@rskcg]

You did the correct thing. Well done guy. All the best.

[@JCB171]

Why should OP pay for anything when the baby has a father married or not.

[@mariafox9226]

Talk about Alison being the golden child.

[@juneosborne7523]

You did the right thing. It was your day!!!❤

[@toniirion5225]

Wow your parents don't just show favoritism but, their delusional. Always treated you equally and did nothing wrong. Then I would of asked who's baby it was? I don't understand why when people start blaming you for someone else's awfulness you don't block them. Then your not bothered and don't have to listen to their stupidity and meaness. Doesn't make sense to me.

[@darscassel]

How about a brother in law proposing at his brothers wedding without the bride knowing about it!!

[@tracyh.8611]

You could have just told your sister that you cancelled her cake and she should pull no shenanigans at your wedding.

[@trinitymdc3974]

This reminds me of high school.

[@vfields]

That Ashley is obviously unhinged and her mom is an enabler.

[@lindahutchison3870]

😂The WEDDING was YOUR EVENT, YOUR DAY and you were picking up the tab for it. I would think that a CELEBRATION of any kind would have been in poor taste! If she would have thought you would be OKAY with this, she shouldn't have been trying to order a cake for HER EVENT behind your back. She DIDN''T ASK! Too bad it caused such a BIG fight. I wouldn't have gone any further, though, with inviting Jared And former husband and doing the BIG REVEAL! You ruined your OWN wedding! Should have told your folks all of this, but don't drag dirty family laundry out in public! The SISTER'S WEDDING was in trouble because of what SHE DID! I don't think you MEANT IT as a joke. When the parents came the next day after leaving their wedding, I would have told them they could feel free to leave. Don't block , though. They owe YOU an apology. Leave the lines open for it!

[@goombabear]

At Christmas I told the families that I was pregnant. My jealous brother-in-law decided to propose marriage on that same Christmas Day. And then they scheduled their wedding on my exact due date, which happened to be a weekday. They are very odd. My brother-in-law has been nasty to my husband since they were children. He was jealous of my husband because my husband is sweet and got all of the attention from their family.

[@Tr3B3lla]

The whole family is terrible if we're being honest here.

[@questions3983]

Story 1, OP should have told the parents in front of everyone how much of a failure they are and their sister is the outcome of it.

[@huntergilbert4593]

Allison wants to be an attention seeker so bad now she's getting it but since it makes her look bad she no longer wants it

[@dorabarkley6335]

Still want to know “whose baby it is “ need another update

[@MH_Prof]

“When you dig a ditch you better dig two, ‘cause the trap you set just might be for you.”

[@mitsuomits9077]

The story sounds so much like a soap opera: exesive drama, unrealistic situations, and plot twists after plot twist.

[@ADHDGG]

It’s time to NOT be concerned with your family. Let them say and do what they will because there’s nothing you can do about it. Your best revenge is to let God take priority in your life and He will handle everything for you. God bless.

[@malisamohammed516]

Op shouldn't have done her sister that, who even was a golden child. Revenge is not always the answer. Same things you do to others will come to you or children. You don't pay evil with evil.

[@innerlude]

I was always told the Wedding is for the bride. Never heard anything about sister's pregnancy at a wedding. That's just a selfish sister trying to steal the spotlight from the bride. NTA

[@innerlude]

The parents are bat-shat-crazy.

[@dizzydiscovolante3927]

Sister is brat, but op says she doesn't know nor has proof the sister cheated, and talking to your ex is not the same as having sex and is not cheating. OP has a lot of justified anger and resentment towatd her spolied sisrer, but she chose to split up her whole family over it. All these wrongs do not add up to any rights. OP took it too far.

[@chronic2023]

Sigh. Seriously? This is how ADULTS behave? The bride should have been mature and told her sister that she knew what she was planning and she wasn't going to allow it, even if she had to uninvite her. Now the bride has to handle the aftermath, while her parents support the sister. How's that going to work out?

[@Peak_a_Boomer1963]

I think it's working out fine. She's happily married. And she is now no contact with the parents who haven't valued her for a long time.

[@twiceshy9773]

Ugh, the parents and sister are disgusting, why bother kowtowing to cheaters and liars and bullies?? They ony care about looking bad in front of their friends. Sounds like going "no contact" would be the healthiest thing all 'round, protect your future and your family from toxic people, and the people blocking them?? They're probably all cheaters and liars too, no loss

[@flamelily2086]

Alison should know that you don't announce your pregnancy at someone elses wedding! OP's parents should know that, too. A wedding should celebrate the happy couple, and the attention should be focused on the newlyweds. Alison was clearly trying to.upstage OP.

[@oekmama]

OP should have cancelled the cake and asked the baker to refuse delivery last minute. She should have told the parents beforehand and not invited sister’s ex.

[@crystalfish9660]

NTA. You dont announce your pregnancy at SOMEBODY ELSE'S WEDDING. That is hella disrespectful and your sister should know better than that, but looking at how her irresponsible parents spoil her, she probably, genuinely doesnt.

[@musicnightmare]

The only thing I disagree with is the you can't be in contact with an ex. Yes yes you can and it can have zero effect on a relationship if you were truly serious about ending it with the ex and it was on good terms.

[@ajaneether1295]

I don’t understand why some parents cause confusion in their families by having favorites. Her parents fanned the embers of their discord and ended up ruining the peace in their family. The heroine isn’t to blame at all. Rather, she should be apologized to and commended for her actions. If Alison is still being shielded and favored even after everything she did, then their parents should be sued for parenting abuse and trauma of the heroine.

[@patriciaray-s9o]

You did the right thing

[@dawnwalker4574]

It’s always the youngest In my mother’s eyes my brother is the golden boy. I’m the black sheep because I speak out But they way I look at it it’s their lost. And they can say what they want and do what they want. I don’t care anymore and I live my life without them and it had to be done. I may call once in awhile but that’s it. I don’t make that much of effort to contact them. And ever since I moved away my life has been better. I have no one talking shit about me anymore well I’m sure they do. But at this point I don’t care anymore because the people that know me are the ones that matter to me. They are my family

[@jillkukulka1613]

A) Did sister deserve it? Is B) Was it the right thing to do? No. She simply could have uninvited her sister, and continuing on with the social media crap was immature. Sorry chick... you're both the AHZ

[@webott4862]

this story only serves to show that two wrongs don't make things right

[@TimberlakeTigerGirl]

So she should of just let her spoiled sister ruin the wedding? Even if she had talked to her sister in private, I guarantee you that sister was going to go through with it anyway.

[@MrsHecklefish]

The sister RUINED the sisters marriage...PERIOD. Those parent's have lost their d@mn minds. 😂

[@GillianBergh]

I would have stayed for the floor show!

[@emzet1740]

The parents argumentation is so out of logic... If sister wanted to share joy she would first go and ask if she can do baby cake news on her sister weading instead doing this in hiding. But as always is pointless cause they blinded by the sister playing victim.

[@user-guigui01]

Okay, but she was gatekeeping the information about the affair....

[@TheOriginalXultar]

Story about the baker doesn’t line up. If she told the baker she had permission and then said keep it a secret how does that jive?

[@jeannieplunk6945]

That's why the baker called OP...she knew it was wrong

[@gailjohnston9253]

Her husband realized he married an attention seeking narcissist and fled. Good for him.

[@jayneliberty3429]

What country is this where they always care more about how they appear to others than how they treat their children that they supposedly love. It really makes me sick. Who needs parents like that!

[@treehouse2902]

I may be the only one to think this, but there are other ways the OP could have handled Allison's attention-seeking syndrome. People like Allison feel like the world revolves around them, so although it is understandable, however, OP could have: 1. Make the pregnancy announcement herself and steal her sister's thunder, then immediately move on to another subject related to the wedding. 2. She could have told her sister in the presence of security guards that making that announcement would get her thrown out of the wedding. 3. She could have told her enabling parents of her sister's plan, and that would not have been tolerated. If the parents balked, she could have threatened to throw them out, too. 4. She could have had one of the bridesmaids steal and dispose of the cake. Providing information to ruin her sister's marriage was going overboard. As I said, I get it with these golden child brats, but that should have been a card for the OP to play at some other time since the sister has issues with jealousy. The parents are true idiots. The best move is for the OP to go no contact with her parents and sister.

[@saran.4001]

I agree. OP handled it wrong, she is just as drama loving as her sister. She allowed all this. Sister should have been uninvited, parents informed and if they objected uninvite them too. The guests are just there for a wedding, not all that unnecessary mess. OP's manners are as bad as her family's. Now OP's wedding is going to be remembered as trashy.

[@rugr82day]

The planned wedding interruption was probably the straw that broke the camel's back. There's no way that was the first time something like that happened. Maybe if the parents hand treated the sister like the golden child it wouldn't have pushed OP over the edge. See how the sister lied and manipulated her husband again. Years of bad behavior.

[@sachawilliams2959]

Nah OP had EVERY RIGHT to publicly HUMILIATE her sister😂 like did u NOT LISTEN to what her life was like. Also, the sis, her husband, the parents, and those that disagreed left afterwards and she was able to enjoy her day😂😂🎉

[@lunar_nocturne1868]

I don't think you ruined your sisters marriage. Any sensable person who finds out their spouse has been overlaping between them and an ex. Or overlaping between them and someone else in general. Would go for divorse anyway. As you said. She was trying to make your wedding day about her. You weren't being a bridezila or any of that. You gave her what she wanted. While also effectively putting her in her place at the same time. I feel for her husband. Because this brings into question of if the baby is even his biologically. Or if the baby was someone elses that she's been with behind his back during their marriage. And shame on your parents for enabling her. She's a grown woman who made her own bed. So she gets to lie in it. Your sister wanted to cause drama at your wedding. You gave her drama alright. And you weeded out the people who would side with your sister anyway. You found the true people who would stick with you. And not side with your sisters childish behavior. I don't usually make assumptions about people and how they were raised. But I'm guessing your sister was told 'yes' one too many times by your parents. And now she thinks attention at a wedding that's not her own no less. Has to be about her. I feel for you, having a sister that didn't appriciate your happy day for what it should be.

[@expression3639]

People stay in contact with their exes all the time. I'm still very good friends with my last ex.

[@slyph63]

Always call thier bluff.

[@MsIndigoNY2]

Allison, gurlll BYE ✋🏾🙄👉🏾

[@causerie1on1]

😂 I would have either kick down her cake 😅 or tell the baker to say they forgot and will bring it to the wedding last min covered😅 and put my n my husband name large on the sides an baby decor on top so it will only b seen when revealed

[@darylgreenway8137]

She ruined her own marriage

[@realbeautyness25]

WHO DOES STUFF LIKE THIS JUST JEALOUS AND WRONG TRYING TO STEAL THE SPOTLIGHT

[@eleanorturner4651]

I don't see what you did nothing wrong your parents was totally out of line as was your sister this is your wedding if she wanted to announce the birth of a child coming she should have put it on her dime not yours so I don't blame you for telling them that this since they didn't like it they could leave too and you know what I'd go one better I'd go no contact with them since they couldn't see nothing wrong with that!! Well since they came to your home and basically even though they're your parents they disrespected you by saying you did something to ruin your sister's mad your sister did that on her own by trying to have one man on the side and one man in the pocket!! And I would not apologize to her if anybody's doing apology you and your husband are doing apology and since your parents sent out that harsh ultimatum if you don't fix it and apologize to your sister and say it was all just a bad joke they'll never speak to you again!! Now understand me I love my parents and they would never do that!! My sister would never do that we wouldn't do that to each other!! But since these are your parents this is my opinionsaid if you can't fix it they'll never speak to you again I would have told him okay we're starting right now Mommy and Daddy and you may leave!!! You are definitely not the a-hole you did not ruin your sister's marriage in my opinion and I go no contact with all of them mommy daddy and her!!

[@thisismetoday]

Narcissist. And Eric seems silly. He believes her gaslighting.

[@cree878]

Sister is the one in the wrong

[@JohnSmith-kf8mv]

If you act unreasonably, you can't complain about how people react.

[@ktj1220]

Jared should've kept your involvement to himself!!! Goode residence, not your fault!!

[@magdavanzyl6141]

So much hate in the world

[@dawnwalker4574]

U didn’t do what I would have done. It’s on ur sister not u.