Fun With Your Narcissist! How To Beat Them At Their Own Game And Enjoy It

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[@PermissionToExist]

When narcissists rule the world: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y4rdn6StmL9jmLM

[@FREEDOMWARRIOR792]

TRUE💯

[@breaisalive3424]

If you're going through hell with a narc, I love you and it will be OK.

[@yoda4204life]

Thanks! Almost didn't make it.

[@MYNDRIGHT]

Brea S ❤️

[@blessedone28]

Thanks. It’s hard to deal with one who drinks and uses drugs.

[@sunnyshonte5367]

Thanks 😚

[@thewolfofjersey9784]

She honestly made me want me to kms

[@FergieFlavor]

When you can laugh at the things the NARC has done you are healed.

[@joelee5875]

hopefully one day.

[@brandondavisful]

how about when you torture a Narc family and don't even know because I don't care about bs and I can play games too

[@kasiar1540]

I will never be able to laugh about children's lives being destroyed by a narcissist

[@snowingsart4568]

Superb! I agree!!!!!! I was actually laughing out loud yesterday! Great advice!

[@simplyrise930]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAI

[@cootie911sm]

I never hear anybody laugh when they discuss dealing with their narcissist. This really is such a relief to listen to.

[@gisellefernandes927]

I did once! I started laughing and saying he looked like a child throwing a tantrum! He did not like it at all! I loved it!

[@hugmc]

Yes it’s funny when we learn too play them there insanity back.

[@tracynelson5253]

6 A.m....He just threatened to beat me and got out of his car to do it and rear ended the new Nissan because his company car wasn't in P-a-r-k. I laughed out loud. I do.

[@Mllascelles1]

I’ve done it and she was thoroughly confused while I was tickled.

[@chrissie2793]

@@gisellefernandes927 8y8o9u99967777yyii it⁷8 it⁸8p 8PM jill io ok⁸⁸ the o⁸o

[@Cubpupsmom]

Narcissists never learned “Do unto others as you would have them do to you.” A taste of their own “medicine” is exactly what these toxic trolls need and deserve.

[@heidieybers3134]

I agree

[@deborahrichardson3731]

Yes, but be prepared for the backlash....

[@k.a.wippel8790]

Absolutely

[@four-x-trading5606]

As soon as I started giving my narcissist a taste of their own medicine they got so Mad they started blaming me for everything and pointing the finger as much as they could giving them a taste of their own medicine means your the bad guy I’m the guy who don’t take shit from no one that’s what I am you treat people how you want to be treated that’s the only way they may learn being the bigger person just give them a reason to keep walking on you for being to nice I rather not be the bigger person and give them a taste of their own BS and be labeled the bad one then let someone walk all over me

[@kepistevoloboo6916]

I gave him a taste of his own medicine and he totally zipped up 😂😂😂😂😂😂he wouldn't believe how excellent IAM at his own game

[@dickensrivers9862]

Fun with a narcissist is an oxymoron... not being around them is truly fun

[@nmaope]

She said if you cannot not be around them for various reasons.

[@metfanmetfan1477]

Loled 😂

[@HackerActivist]

Mine decided to project and gaslight me Christmas and leave me. So my cats and I threw and impromptu party! Yall are invited!

[@lillyfingers]

agreed! it isn't fun it it survival even though i am healed i have to use these techniques to stay healed!

[@goddessrulz3094]

Best advice! The air is so much clearer without them!

[@avopia4925]

i must say, some narcs actually do alot for others, but not with the right intention, they do it to look good, brag, etc and have a cover for themselves to appear as noble

[@Hana-uy1wi]

avopia . Oh yes , they will do shit for you , so they can ruin you later , it's easier to ruin you like this, cos now you are they b...🐶

[@mckenna8663]

Mine (ex) is a doctor. There is no better occupation for a narc then a doctor who saves the lives of children (which he does). All the adoring grown-ups who "owe (the narc) our lives" "how can we repay you" "will forever live in debt to (this narc)". On the surface, it seems remarkable. Then a dear friend (who quickly was thrown away after this observation said... "(narc)? Isn't it funny... those who love you the most...are the ones who know you the least."

[@barrywiltbarrywilt6331]

avopia you nailed it...build up the profile...

[@barrywiltbarrywilt6331]

Magnus Melenkurion I feel your pain...The most annoying thing is everybody loves the person I deal with ...but the jus love the fake person...I hve saw the other side to them...scary

[@pernillahansson2808]

yes my ex tried to buy me stuff and at the same time he felt like a god because of that, and he called me poor and he is so rich.

[@gbeana81]

“You’re giving you them what they’re giving to you every day” spoke to me. It’s so funny that when you start treating shady people the way they treat you, they dont like it and suddenly you are “mean” or “toxic” 🤣

[@sabrinawanderer7560]

Ahuh! And they will convince others to hate you too😂😂😂😂 i'm so immune with toxic people😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gbeana81]

@@sabrinawanderer7560 exactly.

[@Complex616]

🤣🤣🤣

[@rebeccarpwebb4132]

Exactly!!!!

[@yehmen29]

As she points out, they don't like to do anything for other people.

[@kynchan3332]

Truth is I don't want to get even with the narcissist I just want all my time back.

[@dawnemile4974]

You have lots of time.

[@kynchan3332]

​@@dawnemile4974 Decades of youth time, full of energy, full of motivation. Now, tired, body hurts, have a portion of the progress that didn't need to be wasted had I not been brought back to starting at step one over and over again. The narcissist has nothing, they squandered theirs as well as most of mine. To add even more metrics the young version could lay over a thousand bricks a day consecutively over a week the pathetic old version can barely manage 400 a day and still needs a little time to recover. The young could lift 270kg and run 8 miles averaging just under 6 minutes/mile on the flat, the pathetic old can barely lift 90kg and can still run 8 miles but needs over 10 minutes/mile on the flat.

[@ganymeade5151]

Sooner or later, narcissists will mess with the wrong person and get some get back.

[@suganthram7767]

@@kynchan3332 I'm sorry. But you got to accept reality for what it is. The narcissist has screwed your life over and it can't be undone. What can be done is live the rest of your life as you wish raising a giant middle finger to your narcissistic oppressor. Even I felt the same way when I realised.

[@calmcalm6203]

Revenge makes U as worse as them.that was Satan's plans all along. Change course. Pray for them . Forgive.

[@sezza271]

"Overgrown 4 year olds who never got their empathy chip installed" - AMEN to that!

[@richardm.4997]

My ex narc is almost 50 and still plays with dolls

[@alagianelloni1500]

Its really funny, but is sii true

[@jacqueline4365]

True dat! I called mine a 12 year old 40 year old.

[@adembasou]

I beg, stop comparing them to innocent Children who have LOOOTS of Empathy, Folks :)

[@isaacladd6757]

😆

[@katiemason9727]

Isn’t it liberating when you finally figure them out but keep it a secret and change your behavior around them? Nothing pisses them off more!

[@carziyah4192]

Katie Mason what would you do in a situation were your narcissist husband says don’t come back and pick me up from work when I drop him off because he knows I will think he’s cheating and I will probably cry

[@katiemason9727]

HALLELUYAH So if I am understanding correctly, he tells you to not come back but then asks you to pick him up after work?

[@carziyah4192]

Katie Mason I took him to work this morning but right before work ended he said don’t come up to his job and pick him up he knows I will think he’s with another woman after work but he don’t care

[@roxylee9560]

Omg yes lol they do not know how to act or deal with you but it's a constant struggle to never let them manipulate you

[@kmlac6596]

@@carziyah4192 I would start to consider the possibility of leaving - you deserve better!!

[@dalenelson7161]

Every personal problem i told her in confidentiality is being weaponized against me.

[@rolandoscar1696]

Name your fear and you no longer fear it. Same applies with what you just wrote here. No longer give her ammunition to throw back in your face.

[@cherylstell3344]

Understand that what they do is not a reflection of you or who you are. They act crazy or as a demon because they are. Separate them and their actions from you. Like a light switch, cut it off. Be head strong. You and them are two separate people. Just look at her and say, nothing you can do or say bothers me, I know you’re crazy and I’m not. And walk away.

[@taraarrington2285]

Act oblivious😂

[@sajor1847]

That's exactly what they do. Hang on. It'll get better.

[@sajor1847]

I was on a long cruise and there was a couple that were the empath and the narcissist if I've ever seen it. He was overt. Very dark and aggressive. She was obviously afraid of him. Trying to please him. What I did so that he wouldn't be so dark was to ask him about his scuba diving adventure. He immediately was friendly and much more tolerable to be around. He loved talking about himself. Too funny!

[@loriegregory1032]

Why even waste your time with a narcissist doing any of these games? Just walk away get out of their lives. That is the best revenge of all

[@SweeteesLifestyle]

My narcissist won’t let me leave

[@whataboutlastweek8211]

sometimes it's the parent. and you might be stuck with them at home as a college student, a minor or a caretaker.

[@hofmdnt]

When its family or parents its a lot harder unfortunately

[@lollic307]

@@SweeteesLifestyle leave

[@mary007maga3]

Sometimes it is a DIL

[@goldenallicaster6049]

I've learned that the best way to silence a narcissist is to recover and live well, while keeping them out of your life.

[@DOTMH_1]

Golden Allicaster Seems weak to just move on especially if they will stalk you later. I wish I could just let go.

[@DOTMH_1]

Raman Dhaliwal I agree with you, but I feel like they win since I walked away.

[@snowingsart4568]

BEAUTIFUL... ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!!!!!

[@snowingsart4568]

AMEN!!!!!!!!

[@sndgrpr6633]

Hi Maat11. I genuinely understand where you're coming from but there's no winners and losers in the situation you appear to be in - just survivors.- and you're bound to feel as though you've "lost", and that you're "weak", if you treat your situation as a battle. As tough as it is to do in the moment try to recognise and accept that that's a battle of egos they _must_ fight (it's what defines their illness,) and one you'll _always_ "lose", regardless of how well you fight. Respectfully, if you ask yourself why you fight back (and question how you fight back) you'll get a better understanding of how to move forward in a healthy way. Something you'll need to accept is that if the person in question is someone you love, and want to be loved by, then you're bound to get scarred to some extent regardless of what you do - that's a heartbreaking but unavoidable fact; it's how you respond to that scarring that'll determine how deeply you're scarred. I don't know the specifics of your situation but I'll remind you that remaining well (physically and emotionally) and "letting go" are two entirely separate issues, and that how "strong" you truly are depends on how you wear your own scars, not how many scars you inflict on others. All the best to you.

[@seethetruthis]

Ignoring them is the best.. It KILLS them.. Ive learned from the best..

[@williampolk9782]

Absolutely, I've learned ignoring my narc and not engaging with them causes them to lose interest. At least for a little while. 😀

[@krystaldaniels7940]

Yep. I don't think there's ANYTHING I could say or do bc he is ALWAYS right regardless. I learned to just stay away from him and don't engage in conversations. Works perfectly

[@TheMaggie23]

But how about if he blackmail u? Shall i ignore him? He=bf

[@o.h.w.6638]

I did this and it DROVE her NUTS. She was talking to me on the phone and telling me what I "need to do with my life" so I said "Oh! My cat is choking!!" (I don't have a cat) and hung up the phone. Never talked to her again but I see her often. It drives her NUTS.... hahah nah beech go away LOL!!!!!

[@celeste3100]

@@o.h.w.6638 I woulda been like, omg, something happened!! i don't fuckin care! then hang up.

[@queensnonprofit]

They need a serious spiritual cleansing and an exorcism

[@iiLEINii]

exorcism LMFAO! 😂

[@Jessica_BR]

No one can help them. They are demons

[@Kim-vs4vb]

Add in a good ass whooping to that spiritual cleansing and exorcism😂🙌

[@teeare2367]

I have told my NEX your EXACT words!

[@suzyloo21]

😂😂😂 thank you.

[@PaulHenreid]

Finally someone who says get back some redemption before going No Contact.

[@stacymilligan4011]

I really wish there could be more of these types

[@PaulHenreid]

@@stacymilligan4011 It is the only way to deter their future bad behavior.

[@BreeTee353]

The only way to get real revenge and power, is to focus on bettering yourself.

[@goddessrulz3094]

Latania Is here I couldn’t agree more

[@billharden7127]

I'm working on that every day.

[@RJ-zr9ss]

Very true! And heal the wounds

[@madeleynecarat3368]

I agree with that

[@bubblywaters3116]

Hallelujah!

[@libra42ful]

The best way to deal with one.....pretend they don't even exist

[@ryansteele2446]

libra42ful that’s what they do with you so might as well

[@rohithreddy75]

just mirror them.

[@nunyabiznush6013]

Amen to that. 😎

[@evelyneernest8854]

libra42ful FOR REAL 😳 FOR SURE AMEN

[@moodmusicofficially]

Absolutely!

[@holywaterrr9166]

I did realise that i was doing the gray-rock technique already, everytime we fight and there’s hoovering and on and on, until this monday i injured his narc by just asking for his time, then now his giving me a silent treatment. I knew from the first fight i didn’t fckn listen to my intuition, but now. I am saving all my energy to execute my exit plan. For all the empath souls reading this, i wish us all healing 🙏🏼 and radical acceptance

[@1c2h3e4u5n6g]

When I have contact with my narc mother, I focus on innocently talking about all the good and successful things in my life and how happy I am, and when she says something negative I just ignore it and talk about yet another thing that went well for me and how lucky that makes me feel, she HATES it 😂 the happier I am the more she suffers, it’s a win win, success really is the best revenge.

[@ChristyWilkinson]

Yes! I see my old witch mother crumple with rage and frustration when I am just plain happy and doing my own thing. If she does attempt an information dig, I usually bring up the need to get our living wills and funeral arrangements done and this really deflates her. I laugh and say: We are at that age, Mom. You or I could drop dead any day. She is a very somatic narcissist and aging has been terrible for her.

[@Fidacats]

COOL ;)

[@calmcalm6203]

Revenge makes U as worse as them.that was Satan's plans all along. Change course. Pray for them . Forgive.

[@drlarrymitchell]

I've never met a narcissist with anything worth being jealous about.

[@scrollpio7777]

LMAO right???

[@prittyugly86]

Omg!!! When I first was suggested that my mom was a narc I instantly thought "why would she be a narcissist? she has no accomplishments or does anything at all?" How funny looking back.

[@andreasleonlandgren3092]

I have. But it must be an illusion.

[@pamzpamusarascalpatriot7763]

@@prittyugly86 the shrinks say Narcissists are jealous of everyone. Say jealousy is hate from childhood in adult form. Strange, isn't it???

[@whitneywallenborn4442]

Amen!! 🙌🏽

[@mxmike1388]

Being a genuine empath in the world today is so overwhelmingly hard and that's putting it lightly

[@KooPooky]

I know what you mean...I feel the same! Everyday for one reason or the other is very difficult and overwhelming. It's like a dog eat dog world now and you're always having to look out for yourself and avoid being a victim of something or someone. It's tiring and anxiety inducing being on flight or fight mode constantly. Where I live everyone is pretty miserable and walking hostile shells so it's draining when their bad vibes rub off. I can't help but absorb that negative energy. At the same time being an empath I'm highly concerned about society and the direction the world is going. Thanks for listening to my blabberings. Phew, good to get it out 😅😅😅

[@mxmike1388]

@@KooPooky your in no way blabbing! We need fellow empaths to talk to and if possible get with another in person to recharge and get your frequency back up where it naturally emanates, although it seems extremely hard to find any nowadays. As far as living where majority are hostile, bitter, etc. , unfortunately that seems to be where society has vastly gone and it leaves us more vulnerable and forced to be in a constant state of defense and seeking to understand why they do what they do. We are so acutely tuned in to not only our own energy and emotions but also all that surrounds us and we are easy targets, especially for the narcissist. Beings of light in as dark world, yes exhausting but getting to experience the full spectrum of deep intimate emotions makes it worth it:)

[@bluecollarlit]

Capitalism is being abused by narcissists who reward and promote one another.

[@KooPooky]

@@mxmike1388 Thank you...this is so true and accurate all of what you said. It is a blessing but can also mean protecting our natural pure gifts :)

[@vollie66stone66]

It is not hard.

[@juneofspades2374]

THE BEST PART IS WHEN U KNO ALL THEIR WEAKNESSES. CAUSING A DOMINO EFFECT IN THEIR LIFE

[@edigabrieli7864]

Let them finish the their long sentence look them straight in the eyes crack a smile and just clap your hands in a robust applause as if at the theater for about 10 seconds long without saying a word I guarantee you they will go INSANE.

[@EmpressDivineFeminine]

HAHAHA

[@sunrise7244]

Love it!

[@seviyorim]

I think this will either put them in a rage, or cause them to save it up for revenge later. Not a good idea.

[@brett6239]

Classic LOL. Yeah this type of mocking is the best thing in fights. They will absolutely meltdown.

[@ganymeade5151]

Narcissist have serious mental illness and personality disorder.

[@8230olga]

I finally learned from a narcissist and if you use their tricks on them THEY FREAK ! LOL!

[@blessedone28]

They are demon possessed and it’s so hard to talk to the person. They get mad at you for everything and blow things out of proportion.

[@xodon8040]

This is so true lol bruh i had to leave my ex bitch she was a sick fuck immature

[@monetthood2770]

blessedone28 yep and at the end, it’s always your fault

[@blessedone28]

Reese see I’m dealing with this now. He is using drugs and drinks alcohol so it makes things worse . He told me that I make everything his fault. So he is now saying that I bring up things that he doesn’t remember telling me and he says it’s nerve wracking. He also hates for me to hang up when he is cussing me out and calling me out of my name. I think I’m at a breaking point.

[@monetthood2770]

@@blessedone28 and thats why you need to run to the hills baby, it only gets worse, they are satan kids, star manipulator and will drive you crazy, they breaks down your self esteem make you feel like you do everything wrong, Im telling you what God loves, Break that cycle before it gets worse, because believe me you, it does. Fast, pray that demon out your mind, body, and soul.

[@monetthood2770]

@@blessedone28 see, what I tell you, my ex just called a sec ago, literally, DECLINE😇

[@gemsoftheheart]

The reason why this video is so fantastic, is because you added the element OF FUN. Otherwise, it would be just another boring narcissist video. I love it.

[@empresszoe9351]

I actually got a call from a narc asking how I was. She was actually trying to see if I'm suffering. I came to a point that I spoke so much they eventually said they really have to go now and basically hung up on me. I felt so good afterwards.

[@kimsherlock8969]

The Narcissistic in my life only call me about a problem to hear, or their suffering or health issues searched for to find a problem to dramatise as it is not you but them whom is important I have tryed to get advice from Narcissistic people and they will gaslight me to non important person only needed to work for their egocentric nature on demand of phone call

[@empresszoe9351]

@@kimsherlock8969 Everything revolves around them.

[@kimsherlock8969]

@@empresszoe9351 when I am suffered from depression or physical pain she laughs and sends me shots of herself having a huge time socially. I'm in pain but her having facebook photos. I really needed a friend and asked for some form of friendship loving? I was not called or contacted by her even in the death of my father nothing as a Man and her sex life was everything 💯 😌 I wasnt a friend I was useful to laugh at

[@empresszoe9351]

@@kimsherlock8969 Hope she's out of your life.

[@kimsherlock8969]

@@empresszoe9351 Tryed but am being punished as I was so 😔 Alone. I tryed change in dynamics in cutting her off ....I was told I was Mad. If I died no empathy would be easy for her.

[@dhawan167]

They love to listen if u r giving them some sort of information, they love the information, so that they can use against u later on

[@mimiashford5544]

OR praise of some sort.

[@alagianelloni1500]

Yep that is true. You open yourself up then they betray you.

[@ilovejesus6762]

So true.

[@cece6347]

Good lord this is to true👏👏👏👏

[@wonderwoman3526]

Give them fake news then..😁

[@AsktheSpirits]

Do not give ANYBODY power over your emotions. You control how someone makes you feel. Love yourself and nothing can break that.

[@pamzpamusarascalpatriot7763]

Easier said than done when you are a child of someone narcissistic who doesn't seem to care or live you. Just not that simple, as you grow up thinking you're quite flawed to never be able to please your parent.

[@pamzpamusarascalpatriot7763]

@Her Right There nooo, ask God above or Jesus Christ.

[@AsktheSpirits]

pamzpam TruthpushingPatriot absolutely ask god!! He’s first and foremost but you gotta love yourself that’s power!!

[@AsktheSpirits]

pamzpam TruthpushingPatriot I’m sorry😔 But now you are AWARE you can change the way people make you feel. Strip away the parental conditioning and yes there’s steps to it it’s not easy but once you do you’ll have a breakthrough and aha moment and you really can change the way you see yourself and ultimately love yourself unconditionally. I know you can do it no matter what has happened in your life. I got faith in you💚💚💚💚 Your a beautiful soul never let anyone dim your light including Narcissistic parents💚💚💚💚

[@Cortanasboyfriend]

Too late for me my childhood was shit and now I’m one of them

[@bhandy1747]

One thing I notice about narcs is they hate when your right and doing the right thing

[@pastlivesprincess4594]

Omg, I wrote everything down, and they tore my journal out of my hand 😂 I couldn’t stop laughing which made them angrier resulting in more laughter

[@deniskomoda6423]

Please explain more!!!

[@ramon1733]

Predictable is the prime word when you know you're dealing with a Narcissist.

[@iinlove118]

💯 they are very predictable. I make sure I don't even see them. Turn my back and close my door.

[@lawerancelanham]

To deal with one... you had best be strong minded and one with yourself. Because they're full of shit and only out for themselves. This lady said study them. I did exactly that for years. I learned what NOT to be and what I didn't want to be surrounded by. Once you learn more... the more you will see. The sad part is...you will start seeing it in more people than you wish to and realize how sick our society is.

[@farfetched9296]

Mines was a bully when I checked him he sat down somewhere then he was apologizing....I told him don't apoogize you're entitled to your feelings he argued with me about letting him apologize I laughed and told him I was coming over....he said don't I showed up anyway he was such a good boy....you can't show fear nor weakness...he can't slander me because everyone knows my business I'm an open book no secrets mean no ammunition....then I tell everyone to fuck off I stand my ground....narcissist in a weird way are turned on and weaken by a person that has balls but it's how you do it that's key....my narcissist is a bully I know what to do with bullies

[@farfetched9296]

@April M. at least you see it and you are wiser and will chose ppl carefully....

[@jondough679]

You also see it in yourself

[@blessedone28]

Tough Shit mine is a bully too. I need help. I’ve been learning to hang up and ignore him, but at times it doesn’t work. He got mad when I needed to get off the phone because I wasn’t feeling well. So this morning he tells me he can’t talk to me because I was sick and he’s sick today, lying ass.

[@casse1458]

Yes indeed

[@allyb5156]

"Missing the empathy Chip"... I love this 😂🤣🤣

[@ljahoda3068]

Haha!! “Give their ass a task.”

[@aceofswords8637]

If you can ever experience a narc get laughed at or made fun of by another person in front of you when they are trying tear you down its pure Heaven 😃💯❤😂

[@deborahrichardson3731]

Karma 😊

[@leeannmoore6800]

It did feel awesome!

[@mia_1969]

Omg'sh YES!!!!

[@godallowsuturns679]

YES!!

[@queenonthedeen4555]

Yes lol

[@1RPJacob]

I have to say that, any interaction with a narc drains my energy. Even if I win with it, somehow I always absorb some of their poison. Avoiding any contact is best for me. Nice video, Thx.

[@afaf233]

yes its like a smear campaign....some of the shit will stay and at least leave a stink....

[@Ineptatpiano]

Rafal Jakubek i have beaten narcs at their own game, i am only left with an empty feeling because i do not enjoy other's pain the way they do. no contact is best contact

[@angelahagerman5693]

Rafal....exactly.....but they don't have to know this....all I can say is when you outsmart them they lose it...knowing their next move is vital...even if you don't...Narcs are all the same...attention whores..

[@angelahagerman5693]

Hey Joe...so right...I have flashbacks...it's not fun...he stole so much from me...I got rid of people that even reminded me of a narcissist....Selfishness and greed are a sure sign

[@VelcroKittie]

I'm the same Rafal. It's completely draining. The best advice I can possibly offer to anybody reading the comments is to give them a completely wide birth. They are the biggest waste of time. Do not believe the charm and the lies. Just walk the other way and do not look back.

[@DiannaDiary]

This is soooo funny. They are literally looney bins.

[@missware2677]

It’s really fun to watch when you turn the heat on them. I gaslighted him so bad that he became confused and worried about how he had become so forgetful. Already he was having sleepless nights and was forgetting things so gaslighting him really worked! I could see the pain in his eyes when I pretended I didn’t remember the things he told me or did for me because they didn’t happen and that his mind was playing tricks on him.

[@adrianions2805]

Fabulous!!! Feel the same hearing your presentation xx

[@cherylstell3344]

Be careful. When you are acting like them, you might as well be one. Don’t stoop

[@mrs.cardona1362]

having those kinds of ppl in your life is so draining. lifesuckers.

[@sumayakenan6955]

reduced fat girl They should be called life suckers instead of narcs

[@zerocool9851]

big time drainning energy

[@monetthood2770]

Phewwwww, , broke up with one, the best thing I’ve ever did in life

[@bobdabolina5389]

@@sumayakenan6955 , Parasites

[@bw6138]

Mrs. Cardona What if it's my Mother? I feel like she uses my Autism against me.

[@knowledgecopes7714]

I got my narcissist to the point he no longer wanted to be in my life

[@PermissionToExist]

Knowledge Copes Congratulations! 🎉

[@knowledgecopes7714]

Permission To Exist And Im the king of assholes.I use to try to be a man of peace do to my life of stress and depression but when i tapped into my rebellious aka dark side my narc became frustrated.

[@yello.universe4164]

Ohhh yessss girl. I need your suggestions and tips

[@ElvisInTheSky]

+Ruth LOL at that name, Ruthless Aggression, so proud of your serious defect :)

[@wkdemers]

Ruthless Aggression :'D

[@medronhos]

LOL! I had a boss who was a master on gaslighting and, without knowing about this narcissist thing, i once told him, i should start taking notes of what he tells me to do. Looking back now at his reaction, it was priceless! And he started doing it much less, because he understood he could no longer easily fool me : ))) Definitely, try it!

[@innersourcetherapy4520]

Love these tactics! Perfect for keeping your sense of humor while the narcissistic attempts to drain you!

[@taraarrington2285]

They're clowns

[@carolloraine223]

FUN is kicking them to the curb and beyond!!!! Total waste of time to be anywhere near them!!!

[@misstmemrs]

Narcissists are sadistic and enjoy kicking people to the curb. They don’t lie to be near anyone who makes them feel insecure or is more beautiful or talented or successful them and they project narcissism into others for superficial reasons. It’s interesting theses channels don’t go into how narcissists actually manipulate and dominate others with narcissism with hunts. Narcissists are evil people of the lie who manipulate with logical fallacies and cognitive distortions. These channels don’t seem to discuss evaluating our own character defects and questioning ourselves or the issues with reflective functioning or objectification. Triangulation. It’s a witch-hunt.

[@user-zm9yc2kb8x]

Families Supporting Trauma Recovery a narc is mentaly ill..whats your excuse

[@misstmemrs]

Nonsense bully talk. Logical fallacy. Gaslighting.

[@TagW110]

@@misstmemrs So the archetype of the "narcissist" is as important to understand as our own potential for taking on the archetype of the role as "victim?" If that's the case (and I understand you correctly) then agreed, certainly - learning to handle a narc is as important as learning to understand our own toxic behaviors and relationship to the narc.

[@misstmemrs]

Fallacious question. Abusers communicate with common propaganda techniques. And missatuned.

[@yourmindvstheworld5807]

The people who judge you for employing these tactics have never lived under the psychologically abusive yoke of a narcissist. It’s about survival, redemption, liberty, and regaining your personal sovereignty from an abuser.

[@snowingsart4568]

Amen!

[@vaughnemett4545]

Unless it unwittingly also makes you an abuser.

[@yourmindvstheworld5807]

Vaughn Emett, you’ve obviously never lived under the boot of one of them.

[@arjunaponchalil6947]

REVENGE. Sweet one. I see no moral code violation. You are not physically harming any one. Fuck the judgments.

[@maudebeland2779]

Vaughn its starting to show bud stop commenting narcissist fuck

[@avaisabelle6936]

You sound like a very healthy intelligent stable person describing a chaotic 3 year old

[@rorysirawesomeness8332]

I had this older female coworker who I'm 95% certain is a narcissist. I knew she was obsessed with me and I could feel her watching me at work. It was creepy. She was consistently tattling on me for minor things like being 4 minutes late to work. One day on our walkie talkie system at work she was being rude over the walkie talkie channel. I made a perfectly timed joke in a very witty manner. It couldn't of been timed any better. This woman flipped out in front of everyone and made herself look stupid. I remained humble trying not to laugh at her immature behavior. She got in trouble lol she never messed with me after that plus I was never scared of her after that

[@kittenmittons1968]

He digs at me all day, then asks me wtf is wrong with me? Why I'm so depressed? So lately I just smile and give one word answers. Or say, "sorry you feel that way". Little does he know I'm moving out, little by little..in just a few days I'll be gone, no goodbye, no contact. I'm going to completely cut him off. It will drive him insane. I've watched so many of these videos and read alot on how to deal with a narc..I am prepared! NO CONTACT!

[@heatherw.4230]

Meredith B I hope you are well...and away from him💗

[@traceyellis8942]

How did it go?

[@deesee3622]

YES! NO CONTACT! DO NOT GO BACK!!!! You are way better off - these people are beyond psychotic

[@arr-g6477]

Meredith, how did it go??

[@sunshineroyal8382]

Meredith B I’m just seeing that you left a year ago already how are you holding up.

[@kimberlyj4538]

Your humor reminds me that actually using humor can be affective. Knowing how absurd narcs are, laughing at them can throw them off, too.

[@amoore7960]

Humor is an amazing relief!

[@abbyw5803]

This is good to know lol

[@abbyw5803]

@@amoore7960 well apparently those two are lolololling cause I mean... we have all known each other for a long time and this is all true down to the gum wrapper stuff lol. So...

[@rekietastovall2084]

That's what's called being an "Heyoka Empath".

@@rekietastovall2084 ....what is a heyoka????

[@elanahammer1076]

A long time ago in a far away land I started studying (exclusively) this subject of narcissism. It was blatantly obvious that it was everywhere in society and even family relationships. I have to tell you that the adventure is worth the brain power you put into your studies. I want to thank you for your posting of this you tube message because although narcissists are really sad people who lack insight and content of heart and humanity. I have always believed that self armor is the best protection through educational means. Thank you ❤️

[@queenonthedeen4555]

This is the most jolly comment section I ever saw under a narcissist video

[@jennismeltzer3085]

I do like that the channel is called "permission to exist" because that's what it's like when you grow up with a narcissistic parent. They expect you to get their permission for existence

[@gwen7205]

So true. I used to thank my narc mother for feeding me.

[@charliesaz0626]

Gwen doesn't everyone thank their mother for giving them food though? That's just basic manners

[@twilight9237]

Also when you grow up with a partner🤔

[@twilight9237]

Loved it... Permission to Exist... You Rock... I live with a Narc.. it’s almost like living with my happy soul’s predator. Nailed it sister!!!😘

[@delicatedamsel8734]

+Jenni Smeltzer: I had to ask permission to go to the bathroom!!!! They'd gnore me, look at each other, make me ask two and three times till they'd laugh and say yes you can go. Talk about uncaring and possessive. All those memories don't go away... then they expect us to drop everything we've worked for (home, sons, career) to go cook and clean for them and oh yeah.... I would also be EXPECTED to pay her rent too!! LMAO!! Freaking INSANE! SO DONE :))

[@andthnwat]

He just hoovered..with the whole "I have realized how badly I treated you and how much I regret losing you." My response: 'That's great.' He was PISSED..🤣🤣

[@cryptkeeper5029]

Andrea 😂😂😂😂 I responded with "cool"

[@wokekoala3888]

Damn, I wish I would’ve done that to my bully, I just blocked him and removed his number after he said that

[@jimallen2252]

better to be pissed off than pissed on!

[@wokekoala3888]

Jim Allen nah, that was probably one of the most satisfying moments of my life, I wrote that guy like a 5 paragraph essay on how bad he makes my day for him to give me that response, and it was priceless to finally have him off my back

[@arjunaponchalil6947]

lol That's awesome. Point noted for future deployment.

[@Foczee]

What's really frightening is that if you are not vigilant, some of their evil characteristics can rub off on you.

[@enricosanchez894]

Gaslight them. "You told me never to call you again, so I will honor your request."

[@1710tmk]

narcissists are often workaholic because it is the main way to keep their self-esteem

[@commentgenerator8856]

Yep they may believe that if they outwork someone, they become better than them. That’s how they think they can control whether or not they’re the best. That’s why I don’t agree with the part of the video that said they’re lazy. They’re only lazy when it’s a task that does not elevate them.

[@cassielee1114]

Hmm, mine bragged that he's never taken a day off sick.. Interesting!

[@kimyoung2748]

The ones I know are very busy putting themselves out there for adoration. They dont sit still long. But they dont work. They are lazy because they dont like tasking for others. That said there are many that do work but its usually doing something that gives them their narsisistic supply. Many are politicians, CEOS, surgeons etc. And some like to make you think they are busy. Pretend or lying about their work.

[@sndgrpr6633]

Hi cynophilist boi. Laziness isn't a rare character trait and that's all it is - a character trait, not an expression of narcissism. Loosely put, narcissists have damaged egos, and the bulk of their narcissistic behaviour stems from a pathological need to protect their ego from further injury. How they do that is as varied as it is with 'well' people. So while 1710tmk's observation is reasonable, given there are more 'workaholics' than 'lazy people' in the general population, and 'work' is a common way to deal with self-esteem issues, those traits in themselves are not particularly useful in helping to establish whether someone is a narcissist or not. Credentialed and armchair experts alike have taken to spreading many ignorant claims regarding narcissism (I'm guessing for reasons that have more to do with their own ego issues), which has led to a lot of general confusion and misinformation about the condition. One important (and pertinent) example of that is this bizarre notion that narcissists "lack empathy". As you I hope know, that's utter crap - narcissists, like sociopaths (as distinct from psychopaths), simply have an irrational tendency to override their empathy when they feel the _need_ to. (So if your dad has never shown you an empathy he is not "merely" a narcissist, which is entirely possible of course). I feel for you (it's an ugly situation to be in ain't it) but I certainly hope you don't take the advice given in this video - it'll just turn you into a toxic person and that'll just add one more "victim" to the list. However difficult it may be for you to rationalise at the moment your dad's not 'evil' mate, he's really unwell, and a sad truth is that it's extremely unlikely he'll ever be 'healed' of his narcissism. He has very little control over his narcissistic behaviour,; in fact, despite how "obviously wrong" this may sound to you now, know that _you_ have more control over how he acts than he does. If you use that knowledge lovingly, and can resist falling into the trap of "demanding" (or expecting) that hee _not_ act narcissistically (very difficult to do - we all have an ego' right?) you may be suprised at how much less toxic your situation can become. Again, and contrary to what some would have you believe, your dad's not trying to _wilfully_ destroy your ego, he's trying to _pathologically_ protect his own. Try keep that in mind - especially at the worse of times. If you don't you'll just be adding bitterness to your heartache. All the best to you.

[@sboland1016]

Kim Young I agree. The ones I know work for their supply only.....

[@chillout7975]

I was with a narcissist for four years ...once I caught on I that I had wasted years on a man that was nothing but a weak piece of shit It became quite easy for me to send him into a deep state of depression and self doubt - everything he did to me - I did to him....after a while you realise that you're behaving no better then person you are trying to destroy.....it is best to just have no contact with the abuser at all - EVER and focus on getting yourself back to the old you - that is what I have done....single life can feel lonely but at the end of the day it is much better to be alone then be with a person that makes you loose yourself.....

[@TaliWho9]

Jesse lee Same here. Agree, my ex wasn't worth it. Glad you're free now, blessings!

[@chillout7975]

TaliWho9 hey :) thank you ... Appreciate that - glad for you as well😊🍀life is too precious - we can't waste it on those that do not appreciate us hey

[@mitchellbabies2094]

Exactly what I needed to hear!

[@chillout7975]

Mitchell Babies I'm glad :) I sometimes feel silly leaving a comment...as I'm far from perfect or an expert on this subject but you saying that has made me realise it isn't a waste of time to speak from the heart and try reach a stranger :) hope you find happiness and peace 🍀✌️💐

[@errinmora]

Trippy Cookie AMEN!!!!

[@shubhisharma4261]

Man u r only person who made me laugh aftr going through PTSD meeting a narcissist recently.

[@sarahgoodwin6475]

Same I think this is hilarious 🤣😆😂 really made me chuckle 😆x

[@chaunceym5487]

"A birth injury"! 🤣🤣🤣 "Sentence, after sentence, after sentence, after sentence..." LOL.

[@SheenaRea]

Best way to converse with a narcissist: Just say, "Whatever," and move on.

[@joshsmith7810]

The best way to mess with them is to realise who and what they are, then drop them completely out of your life. It may take time but get RID. It’s empowering, freeing and completely liberating.

[@Cortanasboyfriend]

Lol that doesn’t work with some of them

[@davidharrell8890]

Lord of Cinder Some one finally says something that makes sense! YOU!!!! TYSVM!!!!!

[@mixwb]

@@Cortanasboyfriend Why? Just ignore their ass and if they insist continue to ignore

[@Joseph88keyz]

ABSOLUTELY!!!

[@genedesalvo1120]

When he had burned all his bridges he circled back to me. I left him in his trailer, which he is of course too good for.

[@teal1010]

🤣

[@anotherplanet5828]

You had me rollin’! Yes ppl, please only poke the bear if you know it won’t eat your face.

[@whoaretheyhiding798]

How to beat a narcissist? Go no contact, forgive them, go and have a successful life without them while developing a relationship with God through Jesus Christ.

[@Hovis1001]

Do NOT forgive them. This gives them permission. Have faith in yourself. Organised religion is very narcissistic itself. Grandiose, entitled, esp Christianity and Islam. IMO of course. Love to you all. Xxx

[@Hovis1001]

Forgive yourselves for being human, normal and having hope and empathy. All qualities that are used against you.

[@markfive3731]

Good advice

[@ministryjjteam]

if u go no contact should i block them or should i leave them as if nothing happened and continue to follow me on social media so they get jealous and leave as if they never existed ? i need helpppp

[@johnreynolds6369]

The War on Children Absolutely right. And to forgive isn’t to “give permission” or to imply that what they did was ok. It’s about releasing yourself. Unless, of course, what you really want is to stay connected to your N, one way or another.....

[@zengreen7]

The narcissist loves to get you off of your center, always stay centered, NEVER take them seriously. Don't reply, but if you MUST reply to their subtle attacks, just say: "INDEED" and nothing more, then leave. Be BORING and or NEEDY, drain THEIR energy. It says somewhere in Sun Tzu's Art of War, that sometimes it PAYS to use the enemy's OWN strategies AGAINST them, usually they can't take it. Offer them canceler responses to their silly, loaded speeches, just give them a response like "TIME WILL TELL". If they ask you where did you get your new sweater? Time will tell. You respond with something GENERIC. They can be fun IF you know they are a narcissist.

[@sheepdoginbozrah4411]

"Beat the grass...to startle the snakes". So to speak. Beat ever so lightly.

[@loveuforever59]

23 Psalm

[@loveuforever59]

zengreen7

[@loveuforever59]

23 Psalm

[@Millennial_Luxe]

This is the funniest comment I've ever read. Lol. So true!

[@Happydayz1111]

😂🤣😂🤣I love this, thank you. I'm just releasing a narcissist relationship. I feel so free. I'm healing.💗

[@nikinitee2219]

Me too

[@marciewebster2490]

I absolutely love how you laugh during this clip. You've got me ROLLING, but I can't wait to start using these tactics.

[@johnmiller-jf3ez]

Start recording all, conversations,especially when they are being abusive.Warning! Act in secret, always be careful.

[@johnmiller-jf3ez]

@Marichu Quional which ever you can get away with.lol

[@Mel-oe3dw]

And then?

[@johnmiller-jf3ez]

@@Mel-oe3dw ,then that person cant be gas lit and accused of being crazy and being projected upon. If you've been with a narc you know the projection,the gas lighting, the deflecting. The recoedings can come in useful at court or simply to remind you that youre not the one at fault as the narcissist is good at convincing their victims they are the problem.

[@alexispritchard1955]

@@johnmiller-jf3ez thanks for this comment!

[@johnmiller-jf3ez]

@@alexispritchard1955 hope its useful.

[@Lilc365doinitbig]

Just throw the whole narc away😂😂😂😂

[@howardtheduck4715]

doitBIG lewis amen

[@speedylinoone4722]

How? 😛 I must know? Maybe like this: 🔥😵😜

[@debbiewatkins7488]

doitBIG lewis I did. Beat him at his own game and divorced him. Yayyyyyy me.

[@jennifermartina129]

doitBIG lewis 😂😂😂😂

[@diahnn.lewoodie9699]

LOL LOL👍

[@gnhansen29]

Clever! My mother once told a narcissist that her money was now in my bank account and the narcissist changed overnight.

[@martin5088]

After 10 years Im exactly at the point you describe. I understand her game. Mind blowing to think about how much inner doubt and feelings of guilt and shame I've internalized due the abuse. Now it's actually fun to watch her prop-up herself and try to hand out instructions. Only to see her feel insecure when I don't react😊Soon she'll be start doing me favors to get back in the game or seek my pity. You guys ought to see this

[@sungirl9951]

Just got discarded the second time and now I am really kinda enjoying being at peace at home relaxing. Feels good. No more wondering...pondering...trying to figure out a problem that never ends...weird silences...guilt trips...questions...lies...its just evil. Peace is great!

[@celeste3100]

dude went through the same with this guy. tried to gaslight me but i never replied back cause I know thats what he wanted. The chase. I said, Im going over here.

[@amoore7960]

It is great to have peace and quiet! I especially enjoy just laughing at nothing at all now while I'm all alone! I just crack myself up! Smiling at random people and they Smile back!! It's such an amazing feeling to be well and safe! 💪

[@abbyw5803]

Dunno what yours is about but agreed lol.

[@abbyw5803]

@@celeste3100 I eventually met a more mature one and it's not been awful lol.

[@rockerg4366]

sungirl99 oh I get that wondering too much weight lost, I’m over it

[@chrisdaykin3899]

Playing around with a narcissist is dangerous, I would not - better to eliminate them from your life.

[@amypattie7004]

Not everyone has that option

[@evangeliamintzai6302]

What if the narcissist is your mother?

[@sherrygeorge8613]

Our niece is a narcissist and yes you can ignore your narcissistic relative(s). It is for your peace of mind. To get out of the constant drama and chaos.

[@questionthenarrative2036]

That what hilarious , when you start talking about switching notepads😅

[@aprilpatriot8823]

I went from tears to laughter. Thank you so much. I j love this!

[@siziwekoba1124]

I refuse to stoop to his level,I am walking away with my head held up high and beginning the journey of working on myself for myself .

[@danaegonzales9335]

This abuse is by far the most painful I have ever felt...

[@KAdams-dr4pc]

Danae Gonzales Get out of there !!!

[@sweetjudy7192]

Danae Gonzales I agree with you... when you love someone and they turn out to be a narcissist... and they abused you and disrespect you and make you walk on eggshells because everything you say and everything you do is wrong.. Yes it is the most pain you will ever ever feel.. I moved away from my narcissist even though I love her very very much.. so painful when your only child your adult child treats you like dirt on her feet... I pray you are healing

[@Kendrick_won]

Danae Gonzales I 100% agree. I was in a physically abusive relationship before the one I'm in now and I will tell you I would rather be physically hit then deal with what im dealing with now. I have never felt so low or useless. I am so lonely and feel like I cant come out of it because in my mind I love him but in my heart I know I should not be treated this way. And the worst part is we have a child together.

[@dawnkohler2437]

I just met one and I just ignore them when they say stuff to me. I just keep talking to my friends and having a good time . Makes him so mad and made me free .

[@MYNDRIGHT]

Danae Gonzales then u have to get some of this “fun” ❤️, give them a taste of their own medicine 😉. One year later how are you making out🤔?

[@vuokkorusso2841]

Love it!...the reason why they are always the center of the conversation is because we LET THEM.

[@sleeperno1215]

I like the response "So?" It works so well in a variety of situations.

[@jillians100]

I scared him so much and convinced him I was crazy and broke. Gone forever.

[@seewhatisee7427]

Jillian S Lmao when u say you’re BROKE aww damn they don’t want u so that IS definitely effective

[@Mirmir.0]

I was crying when I clicked on this video, feeling hopeless with my narc spouse in the next room that I’m trapped with. And now I’m laughing my ass off!

[@scotterickson9898]

My mother is a 3rd generation Narc. The reason I was put on this earth was to wait on her hand and foot. I realized this by age 11 or 12 and didn't sign on to this agenda. Drove her nuts Anyway..... On my fathers side of the family are people who can really talk. They will follow you all over the house talking and into the bathroom and not miss a breath. My sister got this gene. So she was always doing what you suggested in this video and drove my mother nuts. So I love how you put this as a suggestion. In the comments below I did see where someone said you don't want to share information that they can use against you. That is correct you don't want to do that. But my sister had a skill in sharing things that were useless. If you go into great detail on what you had for breakfast, or how much you like the chair you sit in at work. The paint color on the wall that you look at all day in the office. None of this is something that could be used. My sister was a master at this without even realizing she was doing this. She can read cookbooks like a novel and have a long one sided conversation on what she had read. So I had a full hard belly laugh when you said to do this. When my sister was in the 8th grade her music teacher's husband died. He was out shoveling snow and had a heart attack and died. He was 40 years old. From that moment on my father couldn't do anything without my mother trying to stop him from doing what he wanted to do, and inject me doing it. Because..... He is over 40 and could have a heart attack and die. When I turned 40 and started in on her old habit of trying to get me to do something for her. I would say: I'm sorry, I am over 40 now. I can't be doing things like this. I'll have a heart attack and die. Don't you care about my health? Drove her nuts..... she didn't have an answer (my father is now 85 and never had any heart issues his whole life) When I announced I was getting married to my husband I was gotten rid of. As you know Narc's are all about image. A gay marriage is not the image we want to present to the ladies at the garden club. (aside the fact all these women have known me since the day I was born and know i'm gay. But they do give her the courtesy of not saying anything) Was this easy to go through? No, but every coin has 2 sides. I don't have this crazy in my life anymore. I live a very peaceful now..... Narc free.....

[@dawnkikong637]

Glad you found your peace and happiness.

[@Rayna429]

I think this is fantastic! And it's not being mean (like a typical narcissist; or at least my narcissist) it's giving them a dose of their own medicine and mirroring their bad behaviour at their expense FOR ONCE and not ours!! ---love love love it! ; and your giggle/glee makes it all the more enticing to want to try it on my narcissist!!!

[@gwendolynwehage6336]

Wow, this is so true, narcissists are lazy, they hate to help others unless there is a benefit in it for them. I know several, they love to ride on the good deeds of others as though those were theirs. They even take credit for what others do, while they did nothing.

[@joysalsman2696]

Gwendolyn Wehage Yes so true!

[@errinmora]

Gwendolyn Wehage YEP!!!

[@sandman1318]

My narcissist father used to do that all the time. A friend of his had a son who was a doctor. My dad would always make comments such as, "He's one of the best surgeons in the United States," as if it was one of his OWN accomplishments!!

[@patchlange]

Gwendolyn Wehage So So True! My narc sister does this to me all the time!

[@maraka8106]

Gwendolyn Wehage you are right. They like to shine at other people's expense

[@yvonce7309]

I don't have time to be playing games. I despise Narcs and can't stand being around them. No Contact!!!

[@serenarossi8480]

sometimes you can't go no contact

[@yvonce7309]

Serena Rossi Than you go Low Contact if you have children, otherwise No Contact.

[@annshort5541]

What about the kids. Help

[@MySuperNoodles]

Empathy for your anxiety- perhaps this You-tube link might help: Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc.

[@MySuperNoodles]

Ann, I've found this woman's approach very genuine and helpful: Lisa A. Romano Breakthrough Life Coach Inc.

[@christinacatalano]

This title made me giggle! Once the toxic bond is over and you’ve healed, they become so booooring. 😅 Then it does become fun when they try to contact you, gosh it’s a hoot.

[@sharonwaddell2548]

I’ve used “your telling me this, because.........”

[@ForeverPisces843]

Omg I used that too 😂😂😂

[@nevestory5401]

this is the best one to pull out😂😂😂

[@rain3743]

Fabulous

[@d.m.schwarzer3729]

He came back with an hoover attempt, asking me if I wanted to work for/ with him on a website .... I asked him like - and now you tell me WHY I would want to do that ?

[@queenonthedeen4555]

I love that one

[@lincmerc1581]

Ha! I actually tried the note taking. I was being harassed and singled out at work by the Director. One day, she sent someone to tell me, "I can't have him writing down everything I say." My response? "Tell her to quit talking. Then, I'll have to quit writing."

[@aceofswords8637]

😂😂😂😂👍👍👍👊👊👊👊 something similar happened to me but they told me i could not recap our conversations that was their job only not mine 😂😂😂

[@lincmerc1581]

@@aceofswords8637 That's not only false, that's downright insulting! Documentation is your legal right. The burden of proof would be on them should you require an attorney and legal action. And, vice versa.

[@ifeelprettyohsopretty806]

@@aceofswords8637 Oh my goodness! I had a college professor who absolutely forbid anyone to tape his class or even after or between classes. I always tape recorded my classes so I could listen over and over in order to study. He was especially paranoid about being taped between classes. Probably because he would flirt with girls etc. Unbeknownst to him, I would turn my recorder on (phone) and have it in the front zipped pocket of my backpack. Recorded LOUD and CLEAR! He was so full of himself.....acted like such a jerk!

[@bettyboopster53black31]

Hilarious

[@mia_1969]

Bahaha! 😂 That's SO great!!!!

[@Mavrik9000]

"If you really want to sketch out your narcissist (boss) switch up the color of notebook, every time you take notes!" Hahaha! Too funny!

[@queenonthedeen4555]

This title, lol. Long story short. Make sure you don't care, not act like you don't care, but honestly stop caring. Also don't tell them you know they are a narcissist. I have a narcissist in my life and I always laugh in her face or I show her I don't care. If I tell her no and she becomes mad I ignore her in her face and just continue the things I was doing. Only works if it's not acting tho. But it really helps.

[@tinishaavay7263]

I LOVE everything about this, including the disclaimers and consistent laughter about this. 😆So refreshing and encouraging to continue helping to maintain inner peace and healing while returning the energy back to sender. The world including narcs should be taught more lessons demonstrated in love not by returning the hate this is how we keep our power while teaching them we are not with the BS. Sometimes strategic war is necessary to maintain peace. ☺️

[@cyn555cc]

When they give YOU a task, F it up miserably! Lol!!😂🙌😂 Woman, you're hilarious💙💙

[@smusicluv]

This is funny. They become unraveled when you don't give them what they want

[@WORTHELLE]

I paid for a trip for my boyfriend to see his mother whom I had never met. Boyfriend told me his life story. So I had a clue. She's only 6 years older than me. Huge challenge to her image goals of babies. Within 20 minutes of leaving she text him "blah blah blah, My house is small and I know your girlfriend is used to better" I exclaimed "why, cause I have a 2001 CRV?" I thought it was hilarious and it said way more about her. 5 years later...she triangulate​s the stupidist attacks. "Grandma was afraid she was going to eat bugs because your girlfriend decided to eat outside​" 3 months after we had Christmas dinner in Florida outside on a Beautiful deck.

[@jilliansmith7123]

Bonnie -- what does an Ns unravelling look like? It looks like RAGE.

[@denisejohnson8947]

It seems like they don't want the target to just be themselves.

[@barbaraburns1301]

Love your suggestions. My husband and I actually did some of these things with our narc ex friend. One of the things I used to do to her was to and make a joke out of some of the annoying things she said or did. She has this super annoying phone ringtone that said, "Hey beautiful, you have a text message " in a male voice. It would go off constantly and loudly all day (and night) long. Sometimes it would be so annoying, even to her, she would start "yelling" at it saying, "I know I know, I'm coming!"; or "What do you want, leave me alone!" So I used to say to her half jokingly, " You know, that thing does have an OFF button!" She never laughed or even acknowledged what I said but I thought it was a way to sly dig at her and her constant need for affirmation from her many "admirers". Lol. She used to always fish for comments from my husband and at other times would say things to subtly (or not so subtly) put him down. His response was just to ignore her and I'm sure that drove her crazy. We never did directly tell her we figured her out to be a narc, and I'm not sure who made the decision to disvard whom first, but we have gone no contact now for six months. No doubt she suspected we knew what she really was and was probably going to discard us anyway. She hasn't tried to contact us since, but she's probably figured out we know by now for sure. I'm glad! 🙂 Don't need someone pretending to be our friend for 25 years only to find out it was a total fraud! 😡

[@pastlivesprincess4594]

“Sentence after sentence after sentence” 😂 before I learned about keeping color coded journals, I would sketch them.

[@texuztweety]

Play dumb / play dead / be boring = "Gray Rock Strategy" = problem solved = Awesome! Your videos are so outstanding and spot-on. I hope you are well xoxoxox

[@charlottenrgaard7942]

You do not sound like a victim but one who is in control.. I love that:)

[@teal1010]

“Their tactics don’t work on you anymore!” That👆🏾part! 😂😂😂😂😂