Funny 16 Personalities Highlights (INFJ Only!)

[@FrankJames]

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[@numberapollo6909]

Frank James will you do an INTP one

[@chaneliz92]

I feel attacked lmao #datinfjlife

[@Anony-Miss]

Oh please, do an INFP one, too. "At the doctor" and "On customer hotline" were at the point. I couldn't stop laughing.

[@equestrianrosie]

INTJ next! I’ve been wanting a comp for so long 😂

[@ducksandtinyteacups1178]

Can you do an infp one at one point? Pls

[@ajj774]

I swear people spilling their biggest darkest secrets to you happens completely at random.. usually when you least expect it..

[@npiontek]

Yes. And I don't get how or why this always happens...

[@katalinaloves]

I always feel guilty afterwards! Like, are you sure you wanted to tell me that super personal stuff you’ve never told anyone else? Was that an accident? Are we friends?

[@ajj774]

katalina l 😂😂Seriously though.. It’s like.. Me: How are the kids Bob..? Bob: I killed a man

[@ajj774]

Cherry Muse There are times that it’s useful though.. you can find out whoever you’re dealing with really is.. and whether or not you should fully trust them...

[@bwb106]

FACTS

[@secretninja247]

INFJ...soooo basically like a chameleon having a constant existential life crisis and questioning it's every decision in excruciatingly painful detail?

[@makeda6530]

Yes, that's it exactly

[@ameliad6807]

Yes...yes indeed...on the outside we're like 😐 but on the inside:: 😖😬😩🙃😜😷🙄💔🔥🤯🤷🏾‍♀️

[@LaraRico-y9o]

this is the most accurate representation i have ever seen of what it feels to be an INFJ

[@OfJournalandJourney]

Yup with a possible caffeine addiction

[@Harukaluin19]

Exactlyyyyyyy

[@vkohlt]

Anybody feels uncomfortable introducing friends to your others friends because you feel like you won’t know how to behave anymore? Like you become somewhat different depending on who you’re with..?

[@stripyrex_gaming]

bruh facts, it becomes hard to keep the persona if you have two persona's to juggle at the same time

[@bluevlilac09]

Yesss

[@LauraLopez-ms5ix]

It happened to me a few weeks ago. My best friend wanted to meet my favorite cousin and I was like no, no, no, you can't. I am my truly self with both of them but I usually hide certain things form one or other; besides, they have almost totally different personalities, it would be a mess.

[@meowmimie]

SO SO TRUE

[@kayseacamp]

For me my fear is that I don't want to engage too much with one friend and not enough with the other and just exist the whole time panicking that one of them is going to feel left out and be angry with me. Then I will continue to overly read into all their texts for a week after the social interaction still worried if they are mad at me.

[@tigerex777]

His non-existent face expressions are what truly defines us INFJs

[@tingvakvaiphei7217]

So true

[@kyranyakoah4047]

when I laugh my face immediately goes back to it’s normal emotionless state, it really scares some of my friends. Or sometimes I laugh internally.

[@Avenray19]

@@kyranyakoah4047 omg lmao I feel you.

[@blues998050]

@@daydream5120 🤣🤣🤣 same thing happens to me!

[@The_Red_Pill__]

Kyra Natalia “or sometimes I laugh internally” lol 😂 I love it! I’m totally going to use this.

[@FrankJames]

alternative title: watch my hair grow week-to-week

[@hollyp.8849]

your ongoing hair journey is one of the cornerstones of this channel, let's be real

[@sassafrascal7102]

@@hollyp.8849 I'm still waiting for him to get frosted tips lol he could pull it off

[@sassafrascal7102]

@ginaintegrityseeker I think the short stubble beard looks best on him; the longer beard makes him look like Abraham Lincoln

[@melissaphillis7247]

It's bloomin' awesome hair....

[@brigiish]

But I miss your beard

[@user-ve1fb4nd1y]

It scares me how accurate this is we really are just unpaid therapists

[@nternetrat]

FACTS HAHAHAH

[@arthurgrey8967]

I just don't get how it happens with complete strangers. I asked my sister her opinion on it and she thinks its because when I speak to someone people feel they have 100% of your attention when they're speaking, so maybe I need to try looking more distracted:)

[@danvieira22]

Exactly. But we still need to do therapy ourselves for dealing with our bottled emotions :'(

[@danvieira22]

@@arthurgrey8967 I generally like the counselor part, but I try to look astray when I'm too emotionally overwhelmed to hear anything deeper from other people

[@chahdtouaibia3792]

Facts😂😂😂😂💔

[@anoushkasingh1230]

"Just tell me who you want me to be,I'll be that" If that doesn't describe me on point, I dont know what will

[@tokensharma3738]

I've stopped doing that because it made me lose myself.

[@My-Name420]

Lol still. Best comment.

[@nikkiwilliams3519]

I just found out who I am 🥳

[@kronercyisotp3403]

Me too

[@Priya-mf8gn]

This line i literally spoke to my papa.... When he asked me what i want to become after high school..... 😂😂

[@kittycow6442]

Ahhh infj’s group together “I’ll help you and want to listen, but don’t you dare ask if I need that too bc I won’t know how to react and I’m going to be uncomfortable”

[@MidnightMeka]

yeah i used to be like that but now ive learnt that thats the path towards suffering. its gotta be a 2 way road

[@Neopolitan_Illusion]

And thus, the conversation exists non verbally. And maybe we'll then form a telepathically organized cult. LoL, just went too overboard😂

[@thebudgieartist3391]

This is so me. Except for being able getting help. I think that's the difference between enfj and infj. I'm an enfj but well I got parts of both. ;)

[@Tei_022]

accurate.

[@dafaazka102]

@@thebudgieartist3391 Fi shadow function that's why

[@humanoidaktilo]

I love how INFJ just becomes depressive for a moment then just turns happy after seeing everybody having fun

[@JasmineLi]

Relatable

[@1tingspecial]

Real

[@hollyp.8849]

My favorite is still you going "HI FOLKS!!!!" with the immediate break into static 110% how it feels to put on my fake extrovert persona

[@melissaphillis7247]

Me with my clients every day....lol.....please don't come, please don't come....Oh! Hi! How has your week been since I last saw you?.....(insert 20 minute monologue here) 😂

[@hollyp.8849]

Melissa Phillis Lol, I feel you! My middle school students love to tell me their life stories when I’m in the middle of trying to do things, so that side of me is always getting a workout 😂

[@sandybeach8596]

@@hollyp.8849 I was a teacher for several years and became a marketer later on. I used MBTI a lot in marketing to adapt script & close. I did millions in sales. But I need a lot more time alone these days to recharge....like today I contacted an online marketer about subcontracting for him. I'm moving toward working from home so I don't need to go out so much. I think INFJ's can fake extroversion when we're young but honestly it becomes more exhausting as we age. I could almost be a hermit at this point.

[@melissaphillis7247]

@@sandybeach8596 totally! I had to bring my practice to my home office, because just going to the one in town was too exhausting, scaled back to two days instead of 3. Wears you down.

[@melissaphillis7247]

@@hollyp.8849 so hard not to snap....💕

[@TheTuxedoCat-sh5fn]

The coffee date turned relationship coaching and the customer service call turned therapy session are too on point for their own good. XD

[@foretcl]

I have lot of friend who seek advices from me so I can relate that, it is so hard to say no because I felt guilty if they are sad. I hate dating because most of people are not what I looking for and we ended being friends, sometime dependent ones.

[@TheTuxedoCat-sh5fn]

Forêt I feel giving advice is easier than becoming an impromptu therapist. That’s a major drain. Especially if you’re not prepped with an invisible energy shield to protect from complete mental fatigue. I’ve also been in the same position of not be able to find what I’m looking for. But it’s difficult to even say what we’re looking for. It’s like we know it when we know it. X) Update: I hold true to what I said, but I have learned through different good and bad means of what I’m looking for in another person. XD Oof

[@foretcl]

@Rubix Cube I know just but sometimes I need my time and it's hard to be always available

[@sandybeach8596]

I related to the coffee date from when I was younger but I think the move toward mentoring masks over the awkwardness of not connecting. We see people's patterns and sense underlying issues but we may not be of much benefit. These days I just make online self-help tools available during introductory stages of getting acquainted which normally happens online. That way I don't have to meet anyone in person and the individual gets what they need without the superfluous interpersonal contact. I recognize the person doesn't need to know me. In truth I assume most people aren't interested in anything real to begin with....it's a little depressing but saves time.

[@Neopolitan_Illusion]

That makes the type harder to be found. The convenience that the internet offers doesn't promote communication in person anymore which is disheartening at some point and even more isolating, but I do believe that there are lots scattered all over the world to serve a purpose. If INFJs truly are gifted, it's nice if they can share it to the world.

[@waterdrinker4033]

Having people randomly dropping you their whole life story/biggest regret/deepest secret sometimes make me think maybe I am some sort of manipulative psychopaths trying to get into people's heads by nature and I don't even know it myself.

[@EmTreasure88]

^^ the overthinking and existintial crisis of the infj ^^ (sorry i had to. How are you?)

[@Algotube]

@@EmTreasure88 *shares deepest darkest story*

[@edlinnaurah]

true tho like i think we infj just had the talent to see right through people and with that can manipulate them in some kind of special way that only we knew about and yea we can either use them for bad thing or good things. and even when we are being manipulate we knew that we are being maniuplate if that makes sense

[@adrialee8149]

I get that. But do you use it against them. No and thats the difference between us and sick fucks. We listen and dont judge

[@asparrow5505]

Actually some of the people dumping on you could be like that cause it can be crossing a line if you're not up for it. Or they could be codependent magnets for those types and learned that behavior from them.

[@soldierside365]

‘...one year closer to inevitable death’ Literally my every birthday

[@rovli816]

Hahaha same

[@darkgrim_art]

same HAHAHAHHAAHHAHA

[@ImNotTellingYou-ht8uq]

My birthday was yesterday and I said that and my friend just looked at me funny 😂

[@VeronicaKulchitskaya]

Saaaaaaaaaaameee

[@salviarifdah2730]

I know really

[@montanakennedy6480]

The INFJ in retail sums up my entire existence.

[@montanakennedy6480]

@Isaak The struggles of INFJ's like myself-- and most introverts in general.

[@SummeRain783]

Same haha. Especially when my boss comes up to talk to me....

[@humminbirrrd]

💯 But retail is the worst. I remember dying a little inside every time I was put on register and being in my own internal hell my entire shift but especially when I saw a customer walking toward me

[@toroynicolelorraineg.3889]

Retail work i think is the worst job an INFJ could have.. Imagine the ANXIETY hahahahahahaha

[@lambogirlrusty87]

Mine too.

[@lilymoon2829]

a) chaotic and overly sensitive baby alien b) everyone’s therapist c) edgelord The three INJF modes 😹

[@pot8os]

And “A different persona for every friend group”

[@SeintDirk]

​@@pot8os Right!

[@celestialys]

I wanted to know the meaning of edge, I'm a french speaker

[@redsusoverparadise2700]

@@celestialys nerveux

[@celestialys]

@@redsusoverparadise2700 oh I see thanks

[@FranciscoMartinez-em6ro]

“I’m at the wrong airport... again” I FELT THAT

[@VivianValeriena]

How could you be at the wrong airport? 😂 - curious ENFP cat right here

[@yardena520]

@@VivianValeriena Look as an INFJ things like that just happens to us all the time, we dont even care anymore we just suffer quitely lol.

[@dorisreisen1127]

This is just basically me: totally planning out my trip in advance, what time to read my book, what place to have dinner on Tuesday. But then: "I'm at the wrong airport" I FEEL THAT TOO!

[@guidedbywind147]

I litterally check everything twenty times at each plane travel I make because I'm so scared this will happen

[@loulou19956]

hhahahahhaha i am lost all the time, people can't even tell i am lost anymore. once i was out with friends, they thought i was guiding the way but turned out i was lost, they were all surprised at how unfazed i looked.

[@cinnalosasha]

I love how he captures the deeply ingrained and uncomfortably awkward inability to perform everyday tasks (airport/camping)

[@demiari499]

oOEarlGreyAllDay Oo god so help me when I have to go through an airport alone lol

[@HackersSun]

Camping especially Tell me when did sleeping in dirt become fun again We spent all that time to get away from it to go back

[@cinnalosasha]

HackersSun THANK YOU. Encapsulated my feelings about camping completey

[@steph_nation]

The camping thing is so real, just whyyyyyy

[@fauziaelkadiri997]

Brilliant!

[@marinavoigt4594]

Being INFJ has taught me many things, one being, walking away before crying because itll make the other person uncomfortable, THE OTHER PERSON....UNCOMFORTABLE

[@moonrose9344]

It's funny that I read it and I didn't get it. I was like... of course the other person would be uncomfortable. Then after reading carefully two more times and focusing on the capitals. I was finally like... "Oh!" D:

[@JAREDAND19]

YEP.

[@thatman6916]

Ikr 😂

[@fgafga2352]

I didnt understand. Please explain

[@moonrose9344]

@@fgafga2352 It seems like we INFJs put other people feelings first. Like if I AM CRYING then the fact that we are sad should be the most important thing! and still we are thinking about how the other person would feel D:

[@omi1377]

"One year closer to inevitable death" 😂 I'm an INFJ and that's what I always say on my birthdays. That exact phrase. So weird!😂😅

[@uzziahplays1159]

And folks think we're pessimistic. Lol

[@wolfgirl4486]

I siad that to my mum and she said "Don't say that!" in like he mum tone and I was like *you don't know me*

[@ninjinczn5577]

It's not like my family celebrate it for me in the first place. But I stil say that to my family every year on my birthday lmaoo

[@SwaggerToast]

I'm mostly like "Another year has passed and I am stepping closer to my death!"

[@ongekiyowok5955]

Me too😭😭😭

[@kktxnh]

now when someone asks me to say something about myself I’ll just send this video

[@melissaphillis7247]

Yes!!

[@zsemma6599]

It was my first thought too!

[@dharmadharma3960]

That's the worst!!!

[@knoxx1111]

🤣

[@kyleefeist1324]

And just put it on when we are asked to do icebreakers in class! :P

[@rynwolfeh1904]

Is it just me, or being an INFJ makes it really difficult to choose the right set of clothes each day when I know I'm going out because every little detail such as the overall color palette, type of shirt collar, and material of a hoodie makes me feel like it has to be perfect for other people to have a 'correct' first impression of me?

[@oterysrhaegan645]

The answer is to have a Social Uniform. It's true, people who see you regularly might accuse you of 'wearing the same outfit all the time ' but it cuts out so many wasted hours.

[@drinkthywater]

I allways end up choosing an outfit already made

[@HelgarTheCrow]

Yep

[@HelgarTheCrow]

Took it from my tongue

[@wolfgirl4486]

I have to wear a uniform so its not really a problem but whenever I look terrible and I meet someone new I'm crying on the inside because I look like a shitbag😔

[@dianachamomile]

You as a high school student was me at the age of 10. 😹 The existential dilemmas are too real.

[@sandybeach8596]

Oh man...you were there at age 10? It was high school for me but was gone by my 20's when I started spiritual transition.

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Same, but earlier!

[@redheartsunglasses]

12 for me ;-;

[@redheartsunglasses]

It actually caused me to fall into a state of depression which I'm still struggling with

[@shad3revo111]

I think I started at 16 or 17?

[@valya6178]

Maybe being an INFJ is the reason why I hardly ever feel telling couples they look great together, 'cause I actually see how it's gonna end before they do themselves.

[@LEMON-cs2hd]

me too i am also think liie this

[@priyamaurya2166]

I also think like this . How many days???

[@nishadbegum4989]

Lmaooo exactly we know ot before them also the reason why i stay away from relationships

[@theroaminggnomad]

😂😂😂😂🙌

[@unknownherrscher]

same 😂

[@breeyah6379]

I literally have to TELL people that I know I sound extremely uninterested and dead inside but I do care 😂

[@asparrow5505]

Sometimes we're just tired

[@aliariena316]

Omg so trueee

[@ooneluv5859]

I feel you lol 😂😂😂

[@insectcat7057]

THIS. People think that just because I’m not smiling I’m not having fun and it’s just not how my face WORKS

[@priyamaurya2166]

Truth. Which sometime I speak? And try to explain others.

[@mendicius_jade]

Me as an INFJ: I can't help but feel nostalgic about my childhood memories where everything is fun, everything is colorful, that all I cared about was playing and having fun--enjoying the sun, the fields and the moments of fun with friends. Now my life is bland and so-so.

[@marieindia8116]

Only you ultimately have control over that

[@intpthelogician2533]

Isfj?

[@JAREDAND19]

...Why cuz same

[@Elemiriel]

I don't understand this... as an INFJ I was having existential dilemmas and asking REALLY deep questions when I was like 8... *nervous lol*

[@aarnzoo5124]

@@Elemiriel same, I was always the “quiet kid” who everybody assumed was shy when in reality I was silently observing, questioning the constructs of society and what it meant to live a meaningful life. The only difference is now I’ve lost the motivation and energy to lol

[@missfigs5255]

Almost every other 16 personality sketch I've seen always gets INFJ wrong. They seem to go by specific traits that are generalized for infj's. Your sketches and INFJ in particular are so dead on it is amazing. I love the coffee date one, that is so infj. Great job, cannot wait to see more!

[@FrankJames]

thanks!

[@Dragking38]

I actually did that on a dating app. Tried to help the people I matched with, instead of looking for "love" there. Gave them tipps, support and advice, as long as they were willing to listen.

[@missfigs5255]

@@Dragking38 that is hysterical! I loved the part about self limiting beliefs, that is so me. I can help everyone else in the world except myself lol.

[@pearls2044]

I did the same on the dating app. When I knew I don't have courage to say no... For xyz reasons. I befriended them. I repented it later as they wanted to frame me to get into the relationship and I was listening to their problems and suggesting them other people from the same app. Well... I ended up deleting that app, as two of them cursed me badly and abused me and I felt super depressed after that. But I am being honest I conveyed them politely that my family won't agree or etch etc from the day 1 or 2.

[@SA-kv3pi]

Because he's also infj :)

[@shii8885]

When im like not in a mood to give advice when they tell me their life story i listen to their story, at the same time plotting the way to escape without being rude

[@aliariena316]

Same

[@Sockfish-jj6on]

Zhongli??

[@artemisyvangeline1545]

This is me!

[@monajandali3489]

SAME If im on phone i just hang up

[@JAREDAND19]

Same

[@jacobminter5806]

Unfortunately being a INFJ can cause problems when you don’t have a good work / life balance. I have burned myself out over the years and I tend to retreat into my shell when I am home which translates into being distant to the one person I care about the most. I feel extremely guilty but sometimes it feels out of my control.

[@ivorysol7828]

Yeah. . . my ISFJ boyfriend and I have wondered if I could handle the constant stress of being a mom. Idek, man.

[@diazzsama]

Bro, how do you overcome this? This is hard

[@zp6097]

I’ve been stress burnt out for 2 years, damn near agorophobic. It feels like I’m waiting for something, I dunno.

[@praghmah7260]

@@zp6097 smh same.

[@duck7237]

I wish this was a habit that I have some control over.

[@BunsBooks]

At last, I finally get to feel attacked for the full duration of an FJ video

[@bestbirdbuds6746]

😂😂😂

[@voices4dayz469]

De-fense! *clapclapclap* De-fense! *clapclapclap*

[@Iris-is5ou]

"Tell me a little about yourself" "Tell me who you want to be and I'll be that" Me: Why is this soo accurate?

[@sallywong106]

Lol I always end up bullshitting with that question. Know will ask but still struggle to prepare.

[@annettemarionneauxstevenso6591]

Spend more time listening to other people talk about themselves it is difficult to say anything about who you are.

[@kacake]

It's like that 😂

[@jlynn5065]

Ive never related so much to an entire video. “And were cutting the cake, yay were happy!!”

[@liabw05]

HahHa right?! Like why can’t I be happy! 😅

[@kayster5890]

The high schooler sketch is classic haha!! Actual footage of me when I was about to turn 18 and had my first midlife crisis as I contemplated the reality that life would never be the same...

[@astridf5992]

Honestly my life is an endless midlife crisis

[@justdecaffeinated]

homestly that highschooler sketch was 100% me in first year college 😂😂

[@puffink.1388]

I'm a 10th grader and have already done that like twice lol

[@CryptoAmyUSA]

Me too.

[@salviarifdah2730]

I'm 18 right now and is a college student. So yeah, I can relate to this on a spiritual level.

[@mymayjunejuly9487]

1:28 "... at a wedding reception" : THAT'S SO ME EVERYTIME I SAW PEOPLE GETS MARRIED/MARRIED COUPLE (and the fact that i also "judged" my parents, wondering how they commited to being together)

[@georgiam.3957]

I'm still judging my parents decision as to why they got married lol

[@anamariak7757]

That explain why I always got the job at jobs interviews lol

[@theia_423]

Me too

[@jenrod5210]

@ Same thing happened to me 😔 When I worked retail, my old manager told me I was the most malleable employee he'd ever had. My soul broke, but I pretended it was cool news.

[@kaltra9339]

@@jenrod5210 Gosh, I can so relate to this. I dont understand Why I need to please others, it is so tiering, especially in a work environment with bad colleagues and manager. I just get frustrated, exhausted and but dont tell anybody. Like I need to keep appearances. There should be psychologist specialising on INFJs lol I always thought I was emotionally messed up growing up.

[@blevn6211]

@@kaltra9339 maybe our childhood traumas making us infj :')

[@kaltra9339]

@@blevn6211 I don't actually recall anything in particular from childhood, other than having very very high expectations from my parents and myself. Was always a very disciplined kid and never needed to be told to do homework, was told off very rarely for bad behaviour; in a way had a lot of control of 'myself' and was always very fair; would freak out on my siblings if they tried to take a bigger share of food/sweets whatever it could be. I think to a certain degree our personalities are genetic but of course we are also shaped by environment; I guess environment can increase the likelihood of certain traits to become more or less pronounced.

[@foretcl]

I used to work in a call center and sometimes I ended talking 10 minutes with elders about how they were. I get fired in two week, of course

[@Julia-LArt]

Forêt 😂

[@kore808]

Omg same!!!!

[@foretcl]

@@kore808 😢🤣

[@cametochangemyusername-can1295]

Good on you! ♥️😁

[@UnopinionatedBystander2393]

Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaame!

[@bintamar4792]

As an INFP, I can say that I find INFJs very cute and funny 💕😭

[@anandibreen2819]

Awww☺thank you🤗

[@leshynezvaloare8044]

I will print, laminate and hang up on my wall this comment

[@piotrwydra3115]

Jason the Dolphin feels.

[@magicale940]

INFP it's beautiful too 💙

[@goldtowers]

I will remember this till the day I die. Thank you

[@jaimievaleska574]

Great, now I can save myself from my social anxiety and just send people this video instead of introducing myself directly xD Thank you!

[@shinobuss2620]

Yoongi Min So yoongi is an infp and you’re an infj that’s cool

[@jaimievaleska574]

@@shinobuss2620 He said he didn't really relate to being an INFP ( as he gave it only half a star ). Also I'm just Yoongi Biased that's all. I never said he's an INFJ himself. Although it would've been cool if he was ^^ Sorry if it made you upset or anything.

[@laurak3052]

Lol

[@hanian7908]

“getting home in time to watch Arthur... now look at me one year closer to inevitable death” Oh the feels

[@simonsaunders4881]

As an INFJ this cracked me up the most, very rarely i laugh at thing but this one gave me a little slight chuckle and slight tears in the eye. hahaha And I really enjoyed Arthur which i did watch in high school too. lol

[@grayowl167]

I watched Arthur through high school too lol. He knew!

[@sdogboe]

🤣🤣🤣

[@laurakmetko5400]

Squeals with delight remembering Arthur ..

[@aquila6894]

I literally fall in love with INFJ’s every day, their truly amazing!! Sincerely, your ENFP friends✌️

[@IYKYKtwins]

“What’s the WIFI password?” I’m dead. 🤣 🤣🤣🤣

[@deacindyps]

Kim Thomas thats 100% me hahahah

[@IYKYKtwins]

And me. 🤣 preach FJ.

[@mendicius_jade]

Me, it is always good to retreat to the countryside, breathe the fresh air, enjoying the view with the silhouette of sun's shades and hues, the blue sky, the chirping of the birds, the peaceful breeze of everything... BUT I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT WI-FI.

[@nmjr547]

Sometimes I wonder if we are just projecting ourselves into everyone else, when we suspect whatever thing they've been through.

[@sarahthebug6613]

Same

[@chossenone9508]

because that's the truth

[@asparrow5505]

Or our experiences hone our intuition into things that others are blind to

[@stripyrex_gaming]

I believe that is exactly the thing actually happening. The moment we intuitively suspect something others go through, is the moment we become empathetic, and empathy is literally the act of us putting OURSELVES at their place.

[@samevans1289]

The job interview one is so freaking accurate. Anyone else feeling like they don't have a real personality and instead just mold themselves into whoever is needed when interacting with different types of personalities, or mirroring them? Like, does "just relax, be yourself" push anyone else into an identity crisis because you have no idea how to do that, who would that be? And also panicking when you have to introduce two different types of people in your life to each other, because you're a different person to each of them, and you feel like an imposter and don't know how to deal with having to reconcile those two different facets of yourself in front of them? Is that an INFJ thing or is it just me being a weirdo lol? Also, INFJs/INFPs, important question! If you find it brings you fulfillment, contentment, or is just simply fitting to your "personality needs" (gosh that sounds just👌😂), what is your job? I 'm desperately looking for ideas.

[@lauragoreni3020]

As an INFJ, I do have my own personality, but it took me some time to actually understand myself. With time I've also become more assertive and therefore I don't change the way I behave that much, even though I still do it to make others and myself feel more comfortable if we are very different people or if we don't know each other well. But I never do things I don't want to do just to please people I don't care about. As for the job, I teach English as a foreign language and I like immensely, because I can choose to make the class talk about any topic I like in order to train their language skills. It brings me the perfect mix between human relationships and technicalities (as when I teach grammar stuff). It's very fulfilling. I prefer to teach to teens or older students: I like kids but don't enjoy teaching them because it's harder to talk about various topics and develop together different ideas. However my absolute dream job would be becoming a screenwriter or even better, a movie critic.

[@janifathimajamal4826]

@@lauragoreni3020 I very well connect with this..This seems to be what we are doing while we get matured.While I was so sure of my identity, all the time and what I wants too.. I realized quite late that I can make things easier for others by unconsciously making it difficult for myself, be it in casual conversation or to avoid conflict or just that things can get more easy..But then changes and bound to happen when you realize it.So I have consciously put this effort, I suppose

[@alaricbelmain6935]

I don't think identity crises are inherent to being an INFJ, rather it's part of growing up. That just takes time and self-exploration. As far as the high levels of agreeableness expressed by INFJs are concerned, I see the malleable aspect of my behaviour around other people as a strength rather than a weakness. It makes empathy much easier, which for my line of work is essential. Of course we INFJs have to be careful not to adapt to others so much that we lose ourselves, but if you are able to find yourself first it becomes much easier to stand steadfast. Being more or less confident now, I find others try to be more like me rather than the other way around. I'm 24, an INFJ-A, and am studying medicine. Being a doctor fits my need to help other people very well and the profession's close proximity to mortality keeps work profoundly interesting. Medicine is rewarding and intellectually stimulating. I couldn't imagine myself in any other career as that sense of meaning is vitally important to me. I couldn't get out of bed in the morning for a job as a salesman for example. Therapy is also a great career choice for INFJs. I also considered being a teacher or creative writer growing up. Then again, if you can't find meaning in your work, you need to find meaning in other aspects of your life (family, hobbies, etc.).

[@CristalRose03]

Well, I think that it's not like you don't have a personallity of your own, just that maybe being an INFJ makes you rethink your personallity some more. For example, I've liked rock and metal since I was about 7 years old. And just the other day I took a second and thought 'do I really like it or is it that I got used to listening to it?', and after a couple of seconds of thinking, I just said 'no, I actually love it. It's no habit, it's just me'. Same with my taste for books and videogames, or even my goals in life and my feelings. I just have to double check if they're still there sometimes. By the way, I work in administration. Not what I studied in graduate school, but I like it cause I get to organize and plan things. It's enjoyable.

[@user-fm4ip7lo8u]

"Relax, be yourself." I can't be myself! Myself isn't good enough! Everyone wants me to be an extrovert! I'm an INTROVERT!!

[@annamarkovic3161]

I’m a flight attendant and an INFJ thank God I was never at the wrong airport xD

[@tingvakvaiphei7217]

I too am a former cabin crew and infj. I did get lost in airport 🤧😁

[@xero6396]

Hahahaha! 😆

[@chelseagirlatheart]

How do you handle the pressure to be "on" for long flights with no escape? I would be beyond done with people by the end of my shift.

[@annamarkovic3161]

Lacey Byers I am in fact beyond done after a long shift spent among 200+ needy passengers but I come back to normal after a hot shower and 8-10 hrs of sleep :)

[@martina5850]

@@annamarkovic3161 I want to be a flight attendant too and I'm working on learning new languages for it! I hope this will be a work I truly enjoy even if is really stressful! Do you like it? How many years you've been flying?

[@dasytaylor]

please do this with the other types too, i love this and i'd love to see them all in their own compilations

[@linkinpark8628]

Please do it. Especially the INFP

[@basedloser42]

👏🏻

[@gretals9782]

ENFP!!!!!

[@ebrarakar3446]

Do istp too please.

[@xero6396]

Yes, please do them all. I have a hard time distinguishing some of the types.

[@CR35C3ND0]

Me an INFJ winning in Monopoly: If only life can be this easy

[@saloma1979]

I've never manage to win Monoploy. I'm broke 20 min in while cheating

[@TheSuzelfruz]

As an INFJ in high school, I can confirm that I have regular existential crisises about the inevitablility of oncoming adulthood responsibilities and long for the carefree, ignorant joys of childhood. Also the wedding one is just...bang on. What am I saying these were all super accurate lol

[@underground7879]

me: but wait am i really infj? what if i'm another type... how to know *this video exists* never mind 100% infj

[@pizzadohpaz]

These kinds of videos are what made me realize I'm *not* INFJ! I tested as that at first, but I'm really INFP

[@underground7879]

​@@pizzadohpaz i'm glad for you! :) this is why i love these mbti type representation videos, it helps us pick visually our type :)

[@pizzadohpaz]

@@underground7879 thanks! Yes, these videos are great!

[@garrikaart9675]

Hahahahhaha just me now

[@GamingPIPI]

@Anna Dohanich really? I can't relate to these video's that much either. But when I read a extensive discription I can completely relate to INFJ... I'm really in doubt. Maybe I can't relate to these video's because I'm HSP. Frank doesn't express much emotions in his video, he almost seems apathetic.

[@sushantakumarray6969]

As an INFJ-feeling totally emotionally drained and empty, so here I searched for Frank to lift up my mood- thanks for existing 😭♥️

[@aeiouaeiou100]

I worked in retail for a good 10 weeks. Safe to say I figured out that's something I won't be doing anymore for the rest of my entire life.

[@valeriegrace2144]

I'm an INFJ and I work at a Chickfila. And yep. I want to quit half the time because **exhales** so...much...social...interaction😳🥴🤪😂

[@M4ggy98]

I got exactly the same insight after working for a few month as a waitress😅

[@kitty24632]

SAME!! 😓

[@zp6097]

INFJ here, I don’t know what I want to do with my life, but I damn sure know what I don’t want to do!

[@tessatheartist33]

I can't believe I'm lasting 3 years now... Gonna quit soon though

[@AndyyWithAY]

OMG the date at the beginning is so me. I totally want to analyze everyone and fix their life

[@Algotube]

ME TOO. I'm like ok so this person's parents probably said something along the lines of blah blah blah which led to the natural reaction of now doing blah blah blah because in the moment he felt like blank which led to trying to counteract that trauma. I would be a great psychologist if i actually knew how to speak and express my thoughts but thats not happening.

[@asparrow5505]

I analyze everyone by default but I don't want to fix them. That's 100% their job. I will drop truth bombs if they're working in that direction. I mainly need to know how they operate and what kind of results they'll bring to my life.

[@mio0101]

I called myself the cupid during school..

[@stacyelaine5799]

@@Algotube 100%agree 💝

[@nternetrat]

YESSS because 90% of the time we aren't a good match anyway

[@user-fc5jb8gz6y]

That "Yaaay! We're cutting the cake! We're happy!" after all of that almost had me in tears. 😂💀

[@lizzypinky9621]

Pro editing skills. Felt like a good trailer. Aren't you proud of that ending tho. Dang. Rocked it.

[@melissaphillis7247]

My thoughts exactly...only you said them way more cool....

[@khadiisam26]

The wedding scene and the retail is the most relatable to me 😂😂

[@ana-ry3jj]

Everyone: INFJ is the “rarest” type Also everyone: is an INFJ lmaooo

[@johncalixto1983]

Welp, doesn't mean that they are self-entitled or what. Come on, there are 7 billion people in the world, 1% of it includes numerous people. (I know the 1% data comes from only the US population but I assume since this is the rarest personality, there are only 1% percent of it in the whole world too). Do the math and you'll know what I am saying. Ciao *wink*

[@earen_zzz]

@@johncalixto1983 1% of the world is 70 million lol

[@johncalixto1983]

oikawa said gay rights Yeahh there are many of us, INFJs hohoho (this is just my brother’s account who is an ENTP lol)

[@MarthSR]

INFJs tend to be the type that's the most interested in personality assessment and self-improvement in general. It's only natural for a majority of them to gravitate towards subjects tailored towards them. Also, "everyone that watches this video" does not equate to "literally everyone on the face of this Earth". You may wanna stop over-simplifying things. It's bad for you. :P Also, ana: "lol everyone claims to be an INFJ", less than 8 comments later: "I'm an ENFP".

[@hopelesshaddy3332]

@@MarthSR To be fair, some of them could be mistypes

[@mallorielouann546]

I swear, as a high-schooler most people know me as the quiet person, but I can get to know someone for about 15 minutes and they're already telling me about their deepest worries and problems...😂 I honestly love it though because I feel it makes the other person feel more understood and builds trust.

[@EmTreasure88]

thats a good way of looking at it :)

[@sn9731]

This is the video to get all the INFJ's lol. We're ready to be adopted, guys.

[@roxannehawi]

Watching this in 2022 and the "I don't think we are a good match but I think I can be your relationship coach..." is spot on...😂😂 as an INFJ, I truly can see myself saying this (I probably have)...

[@kalieris]

I’m thinking maybe I should dig into INFP vs INFJ more. I have been scoring INFP lately, but this part of the video has literally been my experience with several dates as well as a couple of bosses. I also still get random people telling me their life story, even masked and standing well away from them. And “what do you want me to be?” is painfully accurate.

[@sarah52292]

Hahaah omg as a INFJ and former retail employee, I couldnt agree more with the “please don’t come to my register” bit. 😂😂😂

[@EmTreasure88]

Drive thru service person here, Yes yes yes yes yes! I love humans but also don't wanna talk with them always (especially when some are rude. Also, a tip, if you get an earlier shift, people tend to be nicer because they havent dealt with crap for the day yet so yeah)

[@fluffyclouds555]

You’re so cool FJ. You make me feel seen, unique, and even sort of lovable. Keep on keepin on

[@Greenplanet949]

This is so on point! We were shopping in a different town and she said -why does every store owner tell you their life story?

[@jenniferforrester5406]

This is totally my INFJ other half. Coffee is life 😂😂😂

[@stephanvillavicencio5679]

I think the coffee part of the skit would relate to me as long as either "coffee was decaf" or "substitute hot chocolate for coffee"

[@CH1K3N99]

@@stephanvillavicencio5679 same, I wonder if it's just more the free courtesy service. I mean, I don't want to be rude to the coffee /hot chocolate machine, it's going out of its way to provide a lovely warm drink over and over again

[@MusiicStarLOVE20]

This is the compilation I never thought I needed

[@goingcrazywithyou2]

I am an INFJ and I really enjoyed this. Thanks Frank for making me laugh. 😄

[@Piscesbaby823]

LOL the wedding guest. My thoughts during all of my friends' wedding

[@Bigpolylonghair]

Costumer Service: “ and you know my girlfriend broke up with me and it’s been rough, you know man?” INFJ: “yeah, yeah...Sooo about my BILLING question.” 🤣🤣🤣

[@sleepyhead5306]

I'm a teacher, and 1:09 is super accurate 😂 I teach and always try to do my job with all my heart, but idk why rather than focusing myself on explaining the teaching materials or guiding my students to do their tasks, I tend to 'give advice' for their lives (mostly related to their motivations to study or their future). I just can't help it 🙄 And one more thing, if it's not the first meeting, I barely start my sessions with other questions than "You have homework, right? Let's discuss it first." 😆

[@nancysloan3731]

I was a teacher and purposefully focused on my job. I couldn't be their emotional counselor. It was too draining. Talk about being a perfectionist. Academical I was in the top 2 percent of my graduating high school class. I strove for 1 percent but didn't make it. It really bummed me out!

[@blunt0sword0meals97]

The very first one of the interview is my favorite. That's exactly how I basically approach every interview. You just can't be yourself on a job interview cause you won't be liked for being your pseudo-antisocial self. Also retail....that's how I feel on a daily basis whenever I had a job. Beautifully done.

[@goldfishcrayon]

I love camping. Except the stress of planning/packing everything and not having a shower. Give me a book and a hammock and I'm a happy camper :)

[@chelseagirlatheart]

Spot on. Me too

[@AndreaCrisp]

Same here. I like the outdoors.

[@trubadorphotography2541]

I like the idea of camping. Went several times with my ex. The bugs 🦟🦗🕷🦂🐜🐝🐍 bug me, though... and the ever-present thought that some random psycho in the woods might kill us all after a days-long torture. 😱🤣

[@slitheringsoundcat7996]

I just watched this like, 3 times in a row. I freaking love INFJ's. You guys are hilarious.

[@Elemiriel]

aww thanks!

[@magicale940]

Thanks 😎

[@q.u.o.t.e7149]

Your cool too

[@maryh2730]

This video sums up the reason why I will forever love INFJ's

[@dharmadharma3960]

😄😄😄😄😄

[@shinaying7554]

but why?

[@Twiti47]

When they tryina fix people it's cute and quirky and empathetic but when they witness that on other people it's toxic abusive and manipulative.

[@theretrowriter6454]

The one about the free coffee in the hotel, hit me hard. Thank you for this! 😊

[@MetaGiga]

I’m an INFP, but 95% of this is so relatable that I feel like I should retake my Myers Briggs test

[@heathermillsap9017]

@@l0uderthanbombs me, too!

[@adabarbosa23]

if you really wanna know, the mbti test ain't the best way to do it. You can search the cognitive functions to see if you can find your type :)

[@melodyconte]

Apparently, this is common for INFPs. "Hmmm maybe I'm actually an INFJ." NOPE! 😋

[@MetaGiga]

Coming back years later after multiple other tests and talking with other people more invested in MBTI and I actually am, in fact, INFJ

[@stephanieokkay]

I’ve never got over the monopoly scene - it’s too perfect!

[@jenniferm3656]

YES! I have always freaking hated that game. 😂

[@LetsSaboogi]

I always loved Monopoly growing up, but I remember feeling that way about Game of Life just last year💀

[@awkwardzoltar3529]

Watches video: A R E Y O U O K A Y F R A N K J A M E S ?

[@mikailaemaline]

The doctors office one reminds me of anytime I need to ask someone for something but I don’t because I don’t want to inconvenience them. I seriously almost took a whole physics test without a calculator because I didn’t want to interrupt my teacher.

[@Amanda-lz8qd]

Second scene 😆 I died from laughing! Wow that’s exactly how I acted few days ago on my date 🤣😂🤣🤣 now I wonder who really needs a life coach me or that guy that I met.

[@taylorjade6918]

Definitely him 😂

[@Just_Robi]

The wedding reception and the waiter ones I've enjoyed watching the most because... Relatable? ;D Also, thank you, F 😊 Now you could do 16 types doing the profession that fits them the most 🤔

[@robynb1310]

Yes, great idea!!

[@kaylahall1219]

Yes! Please help me settle on a career choice. Love ENFP

[@insidiouslyfanatic714]

I think I have never seen a person who knows so so so much about his subject , like I saw your other videos Frank, and I feel that my KZbin did a great job my recommending ur channel. You're absolutely amazing!! And what I admire the most in you is your capability to make things genuinely funny still maintaining the authenticity of the personalities. And otherwise, I think you should enroll and try it out in the entertainment industry, you might as well flourish over there, cause you're a damn good actor too!! Your talent and knowledge says that you deserve much more subscribers. My well wishes!! And Happy new year!!! - Your Subscriber 😇🤗

[@_CrowDivine]

I have a strange sudden urge to vote for Frank on election day

[@crapolaist]

I thought this was going to be the 16 personalities of INFJ's

[@xero6396]

Hahaha!

[@civilizedmonster]

Lol

[@Algotube]

hahaha theres a lot more than that. I know more than 16 people. Everyone gets their own personality.

[@lizetteroni5410]

underrated comment 😭😭

[@EmTreasure88]

🤣👍

[@thegreatgoddess9149]

So relatable... Always getting some into philosophical discussion with my self 😂

[@natthebatcopson]

I’ve just found out that I’m an INFJ and it’s been such an enlightening feeling to know that I’m not alone and there ARE other people like me. THANK YOU SO MUCH for making me feel a bit more normal!

[@preezybeats6520]

are you nomral i'm not trying to bash your new personality discovery but i think still thinkking lost my train of thought thats great your one of us your fucked .....

[@magicale940]

You are amazing as you are, remember that 😊

[@barbie3727]

Oh man I wish I can marry an infj... Im a single enfp🤣🤣😂😂🙆🏻‍♀️

[@RoisinMcAuliffe]

Me too, single ENFP haha

[@natofficial6722]

Hi girls, my enfp gf broke up with me today so it seems like I'm free now. And no I'm not too sad because I expected it since a while thanks to my infj powers ! yay

[@barbie3727]

@@RoisinMcAuliffe 😂😂😂 Do you want an infj too? I so damn want an infj..cuz I feel so understood by them.. they just understand my heart so well😭😭 But too bad I have came across taken infjs, or an infj that just broke up🤣😭😭😭 DAMN I WANNA MY SINGLE INFJ😭😭😭😭😭🤦🏻‍♀️

[@barbie3727]

@@natofficial6722 Awwwww 😭😭😭😭

[@andrielisilien]

Awww 😄 don't stress about it. Take care of yourself and an INFJ will love you for who you are. 😉 it took awhile for my ENFP and me (INFJ) to find each other.

[@5.5.Below.5]

As a New Yorker who worked in customer service with severe depression, I strongly approve of this video.

[@sophiaredwood5825]

I’m an ENFP... but I feel like I have this INFJ part of me that comes out at times. It’s like my whole mindset changes- especially when I’m alone. (I have a whole lot of introverted feeling for those of you who know cognitive functions.) And then when I try to share my deep and introspective ideas with people, my words don’t come out right because I get far too excited or complicated to make sense. Is that... normal?? Because oftentimes it seems like I have a language barrier when my introverted mind speaks through my extroverted talkativeness 😂

[@uzziahplays1159]

Yep! Lol

[@acesix5354]

I thought I was crazy... it’s like everything about me gets stimulated when I’m with people then when I’m alone, I feel dead inside. Like an introverted extrovert... why does that hit the nail so hard on the head? Lol hsp btw💀so I can just feel the drugs in my body get unbalanced when I’m happy and sad. Life’s so fun🙃

[@brandonwilliams3777]

Shadow istj. Which gets disrupted by dominant Ne energy

[@seacrest73]

You know what's funny, I had doubts about you being an INFJ, but seeing you do the skits and being a chameleon acting the different types, and acting how INFJs do in public--it has confirmed me you are indeed an INFJ. Thanks for the laughs FJ. Keep em coming!

[@jocelynamil5244]

I didn’t know I had this type of personality and I always felt like I didn’t fit anywhere with anyone.. I’ve done the test multiple multiple times and I have made so much research about this and Say I have never ever felt so recognized and seen before in my entire life is an understatement, thank you for this video is amazing how true it all is

[@audrey4785]

I'm an INFJ and these are crazy accurate. The airport one, the wedding one and the camping one are like 100% true.

[@cjdp238]

Thank goodness! Now I don't have to feel guilty for skipping through the others to find infj again!

[@AshrafTheStubborn]

At music festivals, some random person always comes to tell me 3 deep stories about themselves for 45 minutes in the middle of the dancefloor, my friends learnt about this and now they save me with a "phonecall" or "something that they wanna show me" 😅

[@kore808]

Literally everytime I've been on a register this is my internal dialogue. The validation I feel right now omg

[@naomianomaly8540]

I moved from Toronto to a tiny town in Manitoba and did everything in my power to not meet or speak to anyone for at least a year. Then I decided to go to the bar to buy coleslaw one day (lol) and left a couple hours later once the school bus driver’s wife was done telling me how many times she cheated on him :/ I could write a massive book of stories like this. I mean, I know people can trust me but this happens so much I’m constantly asking why they do.. and then they look at me like 😳 because of all the things they just told me haha

[@melissaphillis7247]

I know! Makes you feel like their priest or something, lol.

[@agastyasingh4548]

The job interview one is perfect. Whenever someone asks my about myself I try to be what they think I am and what they actually want me to be

[@firsabr2906]

Wow, it's all so me. I made strangers spilled all of their secrets without me asking much like i was just sitting, alone and then they just talked until i really need to go after an hour nonstop life-coaching a stranger lmao

[@nourn07]

Guess who always goes above and beyond? Yes, it is you FJ 🙌😄

[@BK-nc7sw]

Customer Service, Doctor's Office & Nature. Nailed it 🔩🤣🤣

[@Vrona44]

Yeah it’s exactly like this. High five to infj’s squad

[@sosinlethyug1051]

Love from a fellow INFJ ❤

[@lovely_bitterness2024]

Okey, I can relate to everything in this video, especially to random people telling me their problems and story of their lifes, but the most unexpected thing was when my therapist has started doing this. Now finally the therapy is interesting, guys.

[@arthurgrey8967]

LOL. That's funny as hell. You should tape the sessions. Then tell her her time is almost up and you can pick it up again with her next week towards the end