Gabor Maté: Asking For Help Is A Strong Thing To Do 💖

World-renowned trauma expert and author Dr Gabor Maté talks about remembering yourself during trauma recovery and the importance of asking for help ⭐️
#gabormate #traumahealing #selfhelp
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[@MISNM0]

Whoever booked this man needs to be promoted.

[@BuBu-uz9qi]

First they don't want anyone know about Ukraine, me and Vatican. If they win China , they will attack Russia after Russia is lost. Suddenly, they attack India by the tanks same as Russia attack Ukraine while Ukraine didn't repair on Feb 2022 and then they will attack Japan, Viet Nam, Korea, Taiwan , Middle East and Africa. Because We don't have the paper work about the win but the paperwork just say we corporate with them . If they are serious . They must tell Taiwan, Philippines, Korea and Japan stop fighting. The reason they don't say because it is a best chance to attack those countries due to low weapons. Anyway, I have a question to Taiwan. Do you have a contract with them that Taiwan will take over China or China is belong to them either half of the land??,,?,??? Because their tanks will enter into the India .Another word, their army is on our land. Lastly; after they United all nations. They will announce to the public about the Vatican But we already forgot the bad deed of Vatican by that time same as Zeleski will claim himself Jesus. The bad thing to us , we might become their slaves because we don't have any one help us. Do you remember the Black slaves in the History.?? @BuBu-uz9qi 1 second ago That is why that man in the morning call me animal . Later; he sent a sentence ' animal and more animals. That mean we will be their slave as an animal in the future

[@Luella-zg1og]

He's amazing.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

yes! ❤

[@misstierneyjh]

Everyone who was a child needs to get this and quick. Thank you Chris Evans for a superb interview and to Gabor for your work as ever. Phenomenal. The health of our species is most definitely at risk, depression, suicide, ADHD, autism, mental health diagnosis, physical anti inflammatory diseases are all up in such a short space of time on evolution, big actions need to be taken by societies thank you to all for this interview❤

[@phyllisfoster6589]

The one common denominator is Western (I e. "White") pathology and it's tireless quest to effectively indoctrinate it's transform native and indigenous proples by striping their culture and language. It's an unquestionable form of mental, emotional, and spiritual genocide.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

❤

[@lanehewitt7685]

Always good to see Gabor get mainstream exposure.

[@sydneyfletcher5603]

This makes a lot of sense. I am a retired teacher who mostly worked as a substitute teacher (less stress). I am much younger looking than most other teachers of my age. I have always attributed it to lack of work stress.

[@eirigh_suas]

Epigenetics is so fascinating, our environment is making us sick , it's obvious, more and more of us are being instinctively drawn to simpler, slower, more natural lives, and it's the body , every cell screaming for help

[@lf1496]

In America the hatred and anti blackness is Epigenetics. Understand that tens of thousands of people gathered had picnics dressing up bringing their children to watch black men, black women, black children be LYNCHED, having their bodies burned and mutilated. They made postcards of these events putting them in family Bibles😮 This psychosis is passed down through generations of a sick hateful culture. When you watch police shoot and beat heavily pregnant black women you understand the Lynching of Mary Turner in Georgia where they hung her 8 months pregnant upside down taking a hog knife cutting open her belly the baby dropped to the ground crying and they stomped it to death while she blew to death hanging. Epigenetics explains the culture of 🤚🏻 America 😮

[@piccalillipit9211]

I moved to Bulgaria 15 years ago. When I arrived, I thought they were the laziest least ambitious people on Earth. 15 years later, I realise that actually, I was completely indoctrinated to believe that slaving myself to death for the benefit of others was somehow moral and good thing to do. Working, only the hours, your boss pays you for, and dedicating the rest of your life to yourself, and your family is not laziness. But in the west we have been told that it is.

[@lindsaykubena6622]

This man is a true gift! Thank you for this interview.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

agree 100% ❤

[@heatherthorne9130]

I hope that some enlightened person or organisation invites Dr Mate to visit Australia in the near future. What he says about the indigenous people of Canada equally applies to Australia's indigenous communities as a result of colonisation.

[@boshmow3600]

It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society. -Krishnamurti

[@valtracey6180]

Delighted to see Gabor back in the UK, even if it does cause discomfort for many. The truth hurts …. but an examination of the collective conscience is long overdue. I really admire his courage in speaking out, in challenging the so-called norms, and mostly how he is open and honest about his own failings. I’m looking forward to the next book which I have no doubt will give great insights into the mistakes we made as parents while at the same time giving all of us the opportunity to be open and honest with our own offspring, so hopefully we can break the cycle of bad parenting for good, and give all future children a much better start in life. I’m not aware of anyone else who’s had the courage to speak out against the ‘system’, particularly using his own personal experience, including all the mistakes, as evidence to support his views. And I hope he gets the respect he deserves …. as far as I’m concerned he’s one of the greatest heroes of our time. Thank you for sharing with us, and for letting his voice be heard.

[@andyjm7122]

Finally this stuff is getting into the mainstream.

[@user-ns9zc5wx6i]

I love you Gabor, you are so sane. I first was introduced to Mr. Mate when he was interviewed in the Documentary Zeitgeist, I knew he was brilliant then, must see documentary!

[@celesasheldon6931]

He's a decent human being.and he raised a decent child whose an honest journalist:)

[@margarethayes9888]

Many have already known this information. Nothing new but a good reminder.

[@booreed7813]

And many have not known this information. Thank you Dr Gabor.

[@lindaw.5836]

I know this is a bit of a misnomer, but has anybody ever disagreed with Dr. Gabour? He always seems to speak a truth so completely valid, not only for me, it reaches so many people all over this globe. ❤

[@grizzlybear4]

I have asked for help, and have been on a waiting list for counseling for a year. This waiting list makes me eligible for the 2024 waiting list. If I hang in there I am 17th in line for one counselor. When I called to find out my waiting status, they told me "maybe some of the people in front will decide not to go, so it could be shorter." My doctor just moved on too, so I am back on that waiting list. The receptionist at the new doctor's office let me know, after several months, that I needed to get records that I had been told were already sent. I am that extra patient, so the new doctor is now too busy to put me on the patient list. I am on a waitlist for an apartment as well, and there is no time limit on that wait. I was told by all agencies that I should be more of a "positive person." That is what asking for help led to. I am in the USA.

[@dandersohn]

I’m so sad to hear this! My heart goes out to you. ❤ I wish there was more help for us! I’ve had much of the same :(

[@endevourdaze]

I empathize wholeheartedly, today I woke up to a text message informing me that my appointment(my very first therapy session with this clinic)which was scheduled since last week..has been cancelled due to someone's illness(Monday morning hangover?)..to wake up with a semblance of hope in your heart to have it dashed in this way is what drives those who are told to seek help to give up on life completely!

[@lindaw.5836]

This wonderful man, Gabour, is a constant wealth of never ending, very important, valid, information.

[@DANStickerman]

What a connection these 2 had here! Powerful and so flowing of an interview.

[@yukio_saito]

18:34 "Growing older" -- I like it 😊

[@boombapandsoul]

you know what else is ,, helping someone that does

[@booreed7813]

Female, 89 yrs, different, a loner …cannot ask for help! April 1940…my father took younger sister and me on the road, looking for work…..mostly farm work. I was told, with a pointing finger “Ya don’t ask no one for no help! Ya say don’t call no attention to yourselves! Ya stay by the car, ya take care of your sister!” He left car in dark of morning as sister and I slept. He returned from field’s in early dark of evening. My sister was 3 1/2….I was 5 1/2 yrs. A year later, (1941)child welfare services found us. (which probably saved our lives) We were then processed to a children’s home. ….started1st grade age seven. There were abandonment issues throughout next few yrs. Separated from sister…..adoption age 10 yrs. Was always different! Thankfully now…..can still manage. Am good driver and take care of health. Definitely hv self isolated though….not lonely….not unhappy…..crave quiet. Thank you Dr. Gabor for giving us voice.

[@SandraMartinez-ko5qx]

Yes. It took me a long while to understand this fact.

[@Stephanie-tj2ws]

"Hello again" I need that book!!

[@normanpouch]

Gabor Maté: Asking For Help Is A Strong Thing To Do Best sentence I have ever read.Shame people with drink problems cant read.

[@janhirahara9001]

💖💖💖Dr. 🎈Gabor Mate 🎈Md,, and more. Thank you for you 💙💙💙🙏❣️

[@zovalentine7305]

Gabor Mate MD PhD ❤

[@dobromiaannapiega880]

Dziekuję.

[@robertcalamusso1603]

Dr Mate is great. Thx so much !! ☮️🇺🇸

[@user-ns9zc5wx6i]

The Documentary Zeitgeist was produced and directed by Peter Gabriel. Great documentary about the Future, a must see for young people and old.

[@topalaluiza9647]

Thank you 🎩🙏🤗

[@juliechurch1799]

Wonderful interview god bless

[@mubikarimjanovnabob8779]

Amazing❤❤❤

[@proudchristian77]

If your a yelling person, imagine, unzipping a human being & looking at their heart while you yelling at them, ill bet it's visibly looking weak , like stop or I will , how u get drug problems, u don't get healed up before they hit u again, in a family no one sees it or hears & the can destroy people from the inside & not think about it, don't harass me fir smoking stuff, I got t pushed into it ! Be glad I don't drink, I am! 💝

[@zeppo3508]

Happened in the highlands of Scotland after Culloden

[@ourlovehowerica]

Absolutely

[@celesterosales8976]

20:03 thank you! It’s about time! How is this hard to find?

[@TheCADPOD-wn4qk]

Doctor Mate’ us like a Jesus!! He should be mandatory in schools and for physicians. ❤

[@biserkaj.4489]

Where can we read those studies?

[@MISNM0]

Won't let me edit but it's Reveal podcast, Buried Secrets series.

[@kathleenwharton2139]

Love and Bless your enemies. The Love you Give others will be Given to You..a principle in the Universe. You are welcome..Folks. 😊❤

[@davidevans6618]

To seek an answer is to ask for help 🕛.

[@thirdrockjul2224]

👍

[@andreantony5017]

gabor is in trauma until now,

[@decencywarrior9598]

I think this man can use a little self help , start with 8 hours rest each night , there is my genorous advice for your genorous advice.

[@robynhope219]

He is a self proclaimed workaholic.

[@decencywarrior9598]

@@robynhope219 He should have an analysis done , that can’t be healthy . 🤣

[@robynhope219]

@@decencywarrior9598 it's not, and he knows it.

[@karmadog4565]

I’ve been saying this for years……and I’m only a healthcare worker (therapist), not a Dr. If it’s this easy for me to understand, why are there so many people out there who can’t grasp this concept? And why is it only accepted when stated by a Dr vs those of us who see reality for what it is? I’m personally sick of it.

[@davidevans6618]

Knowing where it is is intelligent 🕛. Making you slow Ed on Dictator's Ships 💵 governed MINTs tell your time what to do.

[@robynhope219]

Asking for help is risky...u face rejection.

[@valerievaleri]

yes, i have been rejected so much. it has depleted my very little self worth. the truth is people are not very helpful or do not even have the capacity to be.

[@robynhope219]

@@valerievaleri also been my experience...ppl are too busy or self absorbed to help.

[@toninof]

The only thing that experiences rejection and hurt is your ego, my friend...once one understands that ego is just an illusion (although the convincing one), one doesn't even need a help. It is totally unimportant what other people think of you, but unfortunately its a long way to realize that fact...

[@valerievaleri]

@@toninof spiritual bypassing 101 right here. this type of advice does not help victims of childhood trauma and abandonment but further shames them. good thing i know better than to listen to the likes of you. i hope you feel superior after this comment which seems to be your intention.

[@robynhope219]

@@toninof it's normal to have an ego..we need ego to survive, unless you're on a mountain meditating.

[@hablabamosa]

The problem for men isn't that they don't ask for help. We do. Often. Until we realize that we don't receive it. The problem is that men know that nobody cares about us.

[@sarahmurphy-nf4yl]

Same for women. Same for all unfortunately 😪

[@hablabamosa]

@@sarahmurphy-nf4yl I don't agree. I have sisters who were able to coast through life because of the continous help and lighter treatment they received.

[@amyrenee1361]

​@@hablabamosa so your sisters lives are the truth of everyone else's lives? Think about that. You have taken a billion women and fit it into the experience of your two sisters. You just dismissed all these other women's experiences so that you can justify the jealousy of your sisters. Everyone has different experiences. Your perspective is absurd.

[@hablabamosa]

@@amyrenee1361 no, the truth is reflected in the stats. The suicide rate for men is 5 times higher and that's for a reason. To not acknowledge that is a sign of deep dishonesty and lack of compassion. People care about women (in the west). They don't care about men and we need to acknowledge this problem and not distract from it with what about-isms.

[@endigosun]

Gabor Mate knows a lot, but sometimes he goes overboard.

[@lynnglass575]

Disagree you obviously haven’t had much abuse in your life or you would understand what he is talking about how lucky are you.

[@endigosun]

@@lynnglass575 Wow, you did a complete psychological analysis of my entire life's experiences by reading a 10 word sentence. Actually, I've experienced lots of abuse in my life... and that's why I said what I said.