Gay Trans Male Sex Ed

[@arthur_rockwell]

TIME STAMPS: General info (vaccines, PrEP, testing): 0:00-7:55 Topping: 7:55 Receiving Oral: 9:54 Giving Oral: 11:27 Bottoming (PIV): 12:39 Bottoming (anal): 19:00 Here is a link to a Google doc with the sources and resources and I consulted in making this video: docs.google.com/document/d/10tDZiHuh7lOsObsW4-rXM2Z1JANNDiDOJRZUvpf5tow/edit?usp=sharing

[@AlbertHess-xy7ky]

Sorry to be to be so naive. Do Trans Men primarily seek other Trans Men as romantic partners? Do they think of themselves as gay? Top, bottom, verse?

[@reavnthebarbarian5539]

I'm gay or bi or curious I think I'm mostly bottom than top I both but I'm mostly bottom never had sex before do you have any vices before I do have anal sex and yes protection is needed cuz I will want to try out when I get seriously relationship with someone

[@reavnthebarbarian5539]

I hope you have a good I just intense work out just now and it feels good but anyways stay safe out there and fell well 🤎❤️❤️💖💙🧡♥️💓💜🙏

[@AlbertHess-xy7ky]

????@@reavnthebarbarian5539

[@eternallustformedusa4844]

@@AlbertHess-xy7kyngl bro you sound like a pos from your comments. trans men are men. if they’re interested in dudes, they’re gay. if they’re looking for a boyfriend they’re looking for a guy attracted to men.

[@uramisugi]

im an 18 yr old trans guy on his way to university who just realized he was gay and felt overwhelmed with all of the new information, resources and potential experiences that aren't assessed in depth with trans people in mind. words cannot express how this channel over the years has helped me so much in finding my footing with significantly less anxiety and now this video specifically??? 😭😭 thank you thank you thank you for all that you do!!

[@arthur_rockwell]

Awww I'm so happy to hear that!!

[@XXXPATRYKXXX]

I'm in college and realized I was gay a while ago but nevertheless thank you for everything and also I would like to say congratulations 🎉

[@teecee9113]

All the best. ❤

[@superwhizz114]

I'm a cis guy but it's nice to see videos like these being made! I'll keep this video in mind if I ever have a transmasc boyfriend

[@okkelly6207]

i could be yo transmasc boyfriend 🫶

[@TheLobotomist-t1]

what's the point if your partner doesn't have a penis? what if you get your boyfiriend pregnant (probably impossible, but still). i'm a straight guy that has honest questions. thanks

[@conlon4332]

@@TheLobotomist-t1 I can't really answer your other questions myself, but I can say that trans men definitely can still get pregnant, unless they've had a hysterectomy obviously, which some trans men do but many don't. In regards to the first question, I think that would be better answered by someone attracted to men (lesbian here), but I will say that there's a lot more to be attracted to than genitals. You could be attracted to masculine energy, or to the male appearance.

[@omfug7148]

@@TheLobotomist-t1 I always thought that gay men were obsessed with the penis, however the Nullo movement was an eye opener for me, Nullos are gay men who choose to become Eunuchs, so no penis, no balls, apparently removing their genitalia does not have an effect on the ability to have an orgasm.

[@KITTIIEEEEEE]

​@@TheLobotomist-t1 Okay, bisexual trans man here, I am pre T but even if transmen are on T, they can still get pregnant!! Some gay men don't want to date a transman because they are attracted to the male Genitals, other gay men are not into the genitals necessarily but into men (character/looks/personality) etc! It varies from person to person!

[@elithompson3093]

this is incredibly helpful for trans men. Trying to find sex ed info that doesn’t make us dysphoric is really hard, so having something in depth like this is really helpful!

[@ettaetta439]

I'm not a trans man although I am nonbinary, and tbh even for me as a person who's very comfortable with my body (I really don't mind the way I look, the way I was born, and feel no need to change much about myself other than buying more masc clothing) it can still be daunting to find information about sex ed. Particularly in my case since I am afab nonbinary and I have no interest in transitioning my body medically nor do I want to present hyper masc, I always feel a certain amount of stress about it. I think to myself, "All of this info that is geared towards women is perfectly applicable to me, does that mean I am a woman in the end?" It causes me so much pain and I want to seek out more gender neutral or queer sex ed. While this video doesn't exactly help me, it's nice info to know especially since I do sometimes feel like I could be comfortable presenting as a man.

[@arthur_rockwell]

I'm happy to hear it!! That was my goal

[@bcoveplmene9791]

Im sorry if Im curious, Why you turn your body to be male if you like male?

[@ettaetta439]

@@bcoveplmene9791 Can you explain what you mean? I'd be happy to answer questions since I am a trans person, although they won't be super specific to trans men. It'll just be general trans knowledge.

[@bcoveplmene9791]

@@ettaetta439 I am asking a gay trans men Why they change body to be a man, if they are attracted to men

[@ace.of.space.]

i'm asexual and sex-repulsed so none of this is personally useful. but i am here to comment because trans specific health education is so important!!

[@arthur_rockwell]

Yes it is!! Thank you!

[@Snakepit_Media]

I feel this as an asexual trans male

[@uhhjemu]

me too!! good to see another asexual here :) i’m sex-averse but i still think it’s good for me personally (especially as a trans guy myself) to know this stuff just in case. safety first always!

[@luxill0s]

Ditto!

[@garglingwater5599]

it’s so cool finding other asexual trans men! i thought i was the only one lol

[@goblindude4242]

I don’t know if anyone will ever see this comment but this means so much. I’m only 18, but I was starting to figure out gender and sexuality stuff around early puberty and I stayed confused, closeted and miserable for years because it felt impossible for me to be able to be both gay and trans. It felt like I’d never be loved or accepted or understood and I didn’t have ANY education. It took me years to really accept myself and I’m so glad I’m so lucky to be alive at a time where it’s finally being spoken about and accepted socially. I’d say I couldn’t imagine what finding a video like this years ago would have meant to me but I can imagine it because in a way it means just as much.

[@HN-kr1nf]

i see you 💜💜💜

[@MothCattuchini]

Me too (: I'm glad you're here

[@teecee9113]

All the very best. ❤

[@ghost8974]

as a gay trans guy with a gay trans boyfriend this is rly helpful !! ur vids r so underrated tysm arthur :)

[@arthur_rockwell]

Yay happy to hear it!

[@Gooseknox]

Woah bro's got the double banger. What a dynamic duo

[@bcoveplmene9791]

Im sorry if Im curious, Why you turn your body to be male if you like male?

[@AinaFuyuko]

​@@bcoveplmene9791 one's gender and sexual and/or romantic attraction/preference are completely different (and arguably unrelated) things

[@h4zzze37]

⁠@@bcoveplmene9791trans people have dysphoria, and for most trans men, medical transition is necessary to live a happy life. sexuality and gender are very different things. trans men who like men don’t want to be with men as a woman, they want to be with men as a man.

[@francapiroto763]

You truly are a sweetheart for making this video so organized and with timestamps. I usually can't watch anything related to ftm sexual health because I have severe bottom dysphoria (there were well-intentioned guides made by trans ppl that made me wanna throw up), but this was surprisingly fine. You are very careful with your words and it works! The timestamps made everything a lot easier so I didn't felt super uncomfortable Great video, dude! Gonna send it to my boyfriend

[@calforpresident]

so relatable as another trans guy w severe bottom dysphoria - so many sex ed videos just make me wanna vomit 😭😭

[@mlcmercurialluxecat3018]

This is the only video I've seen like this, and I really appreciate your willingness to talk about this subject... like really really I'm super grateful for all your videos and I've really been wondering about this and scratching my head but not really knowing how to ask or who to ask.

[@contigoconmigoconwigo]

I’m an ace trans guy that doesn’t engage in any of this but I still watched the whole thing because it’s great knowledge to have! Thank you!

[@teecee9113]

I cannot believe he was born female. He's so handsome. And sounds very informative. Very helpful for people going through transitioning. This is one of many transitions I have watched. And they all look incredible. All the best. ❤

[@liminaljay3311]

Thank you so much for this!! The last trans guy msm resource made that I’m aware of is the one you quoted in your resources from 2015 - nearly a decade ago 😭😭😭 We definitely need to be speaking to each other more when you look at the sheer volume of resources available for cis gay/bi/msm men.

[@filmedepalavras]

This helped me so much, I'm a Brazilian trans man and bisexual, but I will certainly use these tips. I will talk to my doctor about prep

[@grave.]

Oh my god this video is so useful. I've always been so worried about being attracted to men when being trans, especially when it comes to sex. Knowing that theres a video about how to do it safely puts my mind at ease.

[@greyrgoose]

Important to know (as of writing) that Plan B has a weight limit! If you are over 165lbs most won’t work as well for you (or not even work at all if you’re over 176lbs.) No shame in that at all, I’m personally over both, but just be sure to incorporate that into your sexual health plans if you have PIV sex.

[@satunbreeze]

I believe it is a weight limit for dosaging. This is a "talk to your doctor" moment. Plan B will work, you just have to take more of it

[@oaklakeman]

Arthur, thank you for putting this out there. Healthy sex is what everyone should have and part of that is to take care of your sexual health. And this is even more important being a gay trans man.

[@yuriyaspin897]

I discovered your channel a week ago n im loving it. As a straight trans man starting this journey, im really thankful for your content, its been really hard to find videos like yours to help trans men n feels like a fresh air for this community ❤❤

[@arthur_rockwell]

Awww happy to hear it!!

[@Jcrosay]

Further to your point about PrEP taking a longer period of time to become effective in the front hole tissues, I recently learned that the PrEP on-demand method is not even an option for folks having receptive PIV sex. Which is a major bummer because I would have loved to have that option since it decreases the risk for side effects

[@jasencummings5534]

I wish I had a video like this 3 years ago. thank you for making it for the young transmascs

[@riverry]

I’m a young trans guy who isn’t planning on having sex anytime soon, but this video was definitely more helpful to me than my high school health class. Thank you for this crash course on having safe sex, I’ll be sure to keep this information in mind and speak with my doctor once I’m ready!

[@Sprout_Kitty]

This is so informative. I was very scared of who to go to to even talk about these things because I was curious. Thank you for making this video it really gave me so much information that was helpful.

[@Noahsharks]

We got the same flags :D

[@Sprout_Kitty]

@@Noahsharks that's cool omg hello

[@noahphillips4602]

THIS IS SUCH AN IMPORTANT VIDEO THANK YOU

[@leticiasoaresberwanger9319]

This was incredbly informative. Thanks for making this video!

[@Roshambo-i9u]

i'm an afab bigender asexual lesbian, however i'm still thankful for you making this video since this is such an important topic to be open about and to talk about. plus i enjoy educating myself on sex whenever i can. whenever people are just really open and honest about sex its something i really appreciate

[@atlas6864]

thanks for this! it's very difficult to get information about sex that apply to me so this is extremely helpful

[@lucanusafrost]

as yet another gay trans guy with a gay trans bf this is so helpful

[@kizzyface5653]

Me: I really need to pay attention to this and learn. My ADHD: Oh look! A fishy!

[@CharlieLeif]

Hi Arthur I’m not gay but I am a trans man. Just wanted to thank you because during the summer I was questioning whether or not I should go on T, and your video about when you were going through the same decision making process was a huge help, and I started on T this week. Happy holidays 😊🏳️‍⚧️

[@arthur_rockwell]

Awww 🥰!! Congratulations that's so exciting! And I love hearing this kind of thing ❤️

[@CharlieLeif]

@@arthur_rockwell thank you 😁🥰

[@Gooseknox]

CONGRATS!!! Wish you the best of luck throughout your journey!!

[@ghulehvoodoo]

yo, congrats man!

[@xdani_thethinkingneko]

Congratulations on starting the medical part of your transition 💗💗💗!! You’re already insanely handsome, so I can’t imagine how great you’ll look, much love ❤

[@bird_b0nezz]

so i’m a trans guy, and i think im gay, but also im a teenager so.. anyways thanks for making this video, it’s so hard to find decent sex ed for trans/gay people, and you made it very easy to watch

[@musica1120]

Can you make a separate video about atrophy? I’m not sure what I should be looking out for. I just had my hysto a year ago and I’ve been on T for 4 years and everything seems to be normal? Idk 😭

[@wen6519]

This was super helpful. And it was nice to hear words that make sense to me, no dysphoria just curiosity. Also I didn't know I should check interactions between birth control and HRT; glad that from your video I'm using the one that doesn't interact with HRT, but that could have been a close one. If you go to a OBGYN at all and have been able to decode the experience, could you make a video about it? It would be helpful to sooth my nerves about it. Only if you want and can.

[@AnneOnymaus]

This was very informative: thank you. I might add, anyone with a cervix, who has ever had sexual contact with another person of any gender, may have been exposed to HPV (human papilloma virus). This exposure can increase their risk of developing cervical cancer & as such, they should be screened for the disease: this includes people who've received the HPV vaccine as it doesn't protect against all strains of the virus.

[@thepeculiarmaple]

8:12 This is something I didn't find our about till YEARS later. Like, a few months ago I brought this up with my platonic partner (we talk and are chill with talking about past relationships like that!) They looked concerned and said "No wondee rhey weren't interested?! It was not the right size 💀" I personally had no idea, as I got used to it on myself?! So yes. Please be mindful there!!

[@pastelk]

Dude I just want to thank you so much for this video. I'm a gay trans guy who mostly wants to do t4t stuff but the only videos that have relevent info are usually for lesbians (which makes me extremely dysphoric). seriously tysm this is video is amazing!! 💚🤍🩵💙

[@maesaliva]

as a 16 year old trans man (gender-fluid but leaning towards man most of the time) thank you 😭 i already never got sex ed let alone trans sex ed and i think it’s so important at my age to know this stuff

[@trillerkiller9839]

Saaame ❤

[@angiebvand8456]

thank you for all this info, I'm feeling more confident than ever about sex as a trans person and it's thanks to people like you ❤

[@KarolaTea]

Thanks a lot for gathering all this info in one place! :)

[@afrofaeries]

I’m a bisexual cis girlie, so I’m wayyy out of the target audience. But I appreciate the work you’re doing for my fellow trans siblings :-) Have a Merry Christmas and happy holidays ❤❤❤

[@queeny5613]

Same here but this came up and probs for this guy for doing this

[@gabs2864]

Non binary here xx happy holidays everyone 🎉🎉

[@xdani_thethinkingneko]

Fr I am tearing up at this. 💞

[@AliceHenderson-vz7kn]

You have to have a sex dictionary to understand this.

[@beepinboopin6454]

Black people always have to take center stage for their narcissism. Thank you for your wonderful display.

[@shestewa6581]

This is an amazing resource! Well done you! I’m cis but healthcare-versed, and have known friends confused about this topic. One quick query though. About the Descovy vs Truvada. They *are* both the same medication. They’re just in different salts for your body to get them into the system. As you yourself mentioned about the doxycycline protocol, it should theoretically be just as effective. Obviously protect yourself as well as possible but if somebody can only get one over the other, it’s not like they’re completely different medications in different preparations. They should dissolve and be absorbed similarly easily, given the data on levels in cod men. With the benefit that Descovy should have less side effects on organs.

[@seraphinaLL]

im a trans woman who is into men, so somethings were outside my wheelhouse, but a lot of this info was useful. i did not realize PReP could be free or that it was just so effective. sorta wish there had been more info on ways to make sex more pleasing not just healthier, but safety is super important!!

[@arthur_rockwell]

I know right? I was so surprised to learn all of this about PrEP (it was lawyer gay friends who explained to me that it had to be covered for free by insurance - I'd had no clue). And yeah! I've had lots of conversations w trans women about sexual health and there can randomly be tons of overlap

[@DeanCaff]

Awesome video, was very helpful for me

[@TheOfficialNumber7]

* Watching this as an Asexual "

[@keepyourshoesathedoor]

Dang, I feel like I’m in puberty and in sex Ed again.😂😂😂 Thank you so much for posting this.

[@dragopistachio]

Prob wont be using this info anytime soon but its a massive confidence booster and anxiety relief to know there is usefull sex ed for trans men out there as resuources for us are damn near impossible to find. Thanks a ton for making this and sharing the info

[@pinki_starr1337]

This is great, I mean, this video probably isn't for me since I'm ace, but there's still plenty of amazing advice

[@SailorGreenTea]

4:41, not in Kitimat-Stikine.

[@thomasmandlebug9748]

this is so helpful omg tysm

[@kivsilva]

Thank you so much for this video❤

[@gretehomann7556]

Thank you for making such a well structured and informative video about this. I have been finding it difficult to find this kind of information online. Like I‘ve been wondering for over a year whether the progesterone only pill interferes with testosterone and neither my regular doctor nor the internet could tell me. Thank you so much!!:)

[@SebastianSeanCrow]

17:28 it’s also very important to get tested BEFORE getting doxypep cuz the meds are used to treat certain infections and you don’t want to make it antibiotics resistant

[@arthur_rockwell]

Doxypep is a preventative treatment so it's taken before getting tested! Part of the thought is that by taken a single day of doxycycline *before* contracting the STI (vs a full 7 day treatment *after* potentially contracting the STI) it might reduce antibiotic usage and decrease antibiotic resistance (though they're continuing to study doxypep and antibiotic resistance and it currently looks promising --www.ucsf.edu/news/2023/02/424861/doxycycline-sti-prevention-highly-effective-minimal-drug-resistance)

[@SebastianSeanCrow]

@@arthur_rockwell yeah I prob should have been more clear in like If you got tested last month it’s fine but if you haven’t been tested in over a year not so much Considering the way it’s taken (directly after barrier free sex ) it’s not like a good idea to WAIT to take it if you haven’t been tested But when I first heard of it it was def pressed that if you have an STI it won’t help but idk how long ago is “recently tested” just that that seems to be what people press

[@SebastianSeanCrow]

@@arthur_rockwell I tried opening the link but the page isn’t up anymore 😭

[@WaterMelonBelli]

Adding a little info about BC for transmasc people. I am a trans man who uses a vaginal ring birth control. It’s a hormonal form of BC however it is localized to the uterus, thus the hormones are not going into your blood stream. I love it, I’ve seen no feminizing effects from it and it’s 90-95% effective (depends on the brand).

[@lemonsforthedevil3873]

I don't even have a boyfriend and im on the asexual spectrum but i still really wanted to watch this video HAHA ty for posting this, it's really useful and also interesting

[@anoncat7674]

i am on progesterone only pill for several years which is great, level moods, no cramps, no bleeding, recently also got in the nexplanon implant (about 5-6 months) though has added back mood issues, might be because i use both at the same time, just sharing my experiences

[@mwillmer6074]

Sex sounds scary omg 😅

[@Nic0Dr4ws]

Real💀

[@cowbearrie]

not a gay man or trans but this was interesting. absolutely amazing eyes btw, like.. wow.

[@a.c.1839]

I'm a gay trans med student, so while I knew most of the stuff in this video, I'm so glad it exists! I definitely wish there were resources like this when I was younger

[@Ramonaew]

Such a good and helpful video - thank you

[@ezrahuszti7764]

This is a GODSEND bro thank you!!! I've been wondering about non-feminizing birth control for so long and this finally gave me some answers!! 💖💖

[@PeteQuaint]

This is very well presented and well researched. Sex can be a very uncomfortable topic to discuss, thank you for getting this info out to people, it would help a lot, not only gay trans men but cis men-loving-men as well.

[@alix6553]

VERY IMPORTANT THANK U SO MUCH ARTHUR SAVING THE DAY AGAIN

[@JoeMama-1diot]

Your eyes compliment your face so well 🐬🌊 also this video was very informative and helpful

[@Andrew-qv3ug]

As a gay transman thank you for this! I love your content and I'm happy whenever I see a new vid ❤

[@arthur_rockwell]

🥰🥰

[@LP-km7gj]

You may have said this and I missed it but you can also get HPV in your mouth or throat and that can cause a lot of issues such as nodules on your vocal cords making it hard to talk. I am a cis-woman and have pain during orgasm…I also have PCOS which makes me have a higher than normal testosterone level so your video is making me curious if maybe I should mention this to my doctor!

[@arthur_rockwell]

I didn't and actually didn't know that! Yet another fantastic reason for people to be vaccinated

[@hellochildren3780]

Thank you for making this video. A lot of people dont realise you cant have anal and then piv straight after so it was great that you mentioned it and went into detail about what it can cause

[@Zecke-ck6eh]

I'm so thankfull that this isn't age restricted

[@eliannapaek4888]

Bi cis girl here, but VERY UTI prone. The only thing that helps me in addition to doing everything else (vitamin c and aftercare) is taking an antinflammatory afterwards! No doctor told me, they always just tell you youre dirty.

[@Xxx_rockerchick_xxX]

aftercare?

[@eliannapaek4888]

​@@Xxx_rockerchick_xxX peeing after haha

[@horizon5417]

thanks so much for everything you do for the community, it’s really appreciated

[@arthur_rockwell]

Aww thank you! 💓

[@rogerklk]

Great teacher

[@RarelyAChump]

This is such a great resource! Thank you! I would've loved a dot point summary & final thoughts/conclusion, even if it were filmed later and added on to the end. Really good content!

[@gingganggoolie]

This is everything I wish I had access to10 years ago! I really appreciate the timestamps, and I'm sure a lot of other trans masc people will too ❤

[@arthur_rockwell]

Yeah it's also wild how much the science is evolving too - reading the diary of Lou Sullivan made me so grateful we live in a post PrEP era (and that definitely wasn't the case 10yrs ago!)

[@goblinguy3103]

Holy shit. This is amazing. Trans people are so often left out of sex ed, and I adore this video. THANK YOU.

[@Crsn_06]

totally unrelated and irrelavent but YOUR EYES ARE SO GORGEOUS

[@strawbunny93]

I like your little wall fish too

[@Yassssper]

I’m a minor who is not planning on having sex for awhile (or ever tbh) but it was so comforting to watch this, thanks 💜

[@mrfrankly]

this is more helpful than any sex ed class could ever hope to be thank you so much

[@aksel4345]

As a (virgin) gay trans man only interested in anal sex, I would like to thank you for this helpful video. It's so hard to find information on anal penetration for trans men that I used to put pressure on myself wondering if I was the only one, or if we could actually enjoy it etc. Besides, apart from the fact that I'm an extremely shy person when it comes to sex, I don't know any other gay transgender men, so I can't really talk about it. If a gay trans-masc who have ever tried anal penetration as a bottom would like to share their experience, this would be really helpful !

[@pixiel1xie]

I haven’t bottomed with any cis men yet, but I have had receptive anal sex with trans women. What would you like to know? I had one brief try at receptive PIV and personally found it far less pleasurable than anal. The nerves of the clitoris spreads pretty far beyond just the bottom growth, so with some angles I’ve actually come pretty close to being able to cum without having to touch my bottom growth, which has never remotely been true for fronthole for me lol. So overall I find it way more enjoyable.

[@lucaix00]

Thank you for doing this!! Especially in a time where sex aversion and puritanism is taking root again, even inside our queer communities. This is a topic that should be very useful to a lot of younger trans folk (im cis myself but still)

[@Kamil-ru7er]

Thank you for this video, im trans male & gay, and even tho im not yet planning to do sex in near future, i was really worried that i wont know how to do it in a few years and didnt have anyone to talk to abt it, so this video really helped me to clear out some stuff and stop worrying so much :)

[@kirsch3]

Thank you so muhh for making this video! I'm not in the US so not all is applicable yet is filled with tons of useful information I would have otherwise not been able to find on my own or in a way that was not dysphoria-inducing 😅 You are a life saver! 🎉 As a side note, if I may offer some feedback: I'm not a native English speaker and also a bit hard of hearing, and needed subtitles to understand some parts, but as I'm watching on mobile, the subtitles can appear on the left or center sides of the screen, which made it a bit difficult to read the extra info you added in the text. If all those texts could be added to the side (like some which were next to your head) it'd be perfect! Sorry if I come off as rude; this is possibly a big non-issue (and is easily fixable by just turning off the CCs for a few seconds) but thought it'd be worth it to at least share. And again, tysm for information and resources 🙌

[@holliluc3497]

Having lived in a queer commune in France I have something to add Toilet paper is not clean, get some chocolate on your hands and only clean it with toilet paper... Give it a sniff look at how much more brown your hand now is... Yeah. Learn to use water correctly (it will make every day of your life a little better) The Penis percentile calculator in your doc is correct and good, I see a lot of baby gays making this mistake maybe all now that I think about it Having watched the whole video and considered the context, I believe the tittle should be changed to Gay Trans Man Sex Ed. I understand there are reasons why you might have wanted to go with the tittle that you did. But, I believe going with the tittle that I suggested would be better And I know everyone is going to ignore me on this one and everyone irl does ignore this... but... You should see the std test results before sleeping with a new person. We should be changing culture to make this normal Overall great video :) And you did the time stamps really well ideal for going back to double check parts which yes I did before typing this comment

[@seavpal]

How is gay trans-male sex ed different from the "standard" heterosexual cis-female sex ed? I'm not intentionally being transphobic, I just always assumed there are no different mechanics involved?

[@jakubdzejkob9989]

nope, there are not. just few additional tips to clean your sextoys

[@jasencummings5534]

because we deserve affirming healthcare and health information.

[@seavpal]

@@jasencummings5534 isn't it uniquely exclusive though to make it a separate category, instead of making the existing sex ed more inclusive with the minimal alterations that would be necessary?

[@jasencummings5534]

@@seavpal if you want to pass the law that says all sex ed must use inclusive language, go for it. but until that perfect world exists, we need a place for us

[@seavpal]

@@jasencummings5534 don't let me questioning stuff hinder you in any way. I only wish for you to be happy and productive. Thanks for your comments. PS happy new year in advance.

[@midoriasakusa]

Thank you for talking about PID (Pelvic inflammatory disease). Its very difficult to deal with, the pain was so bad I was waking up in the middle of the night. Plus the course of antibiotics to treat it make you feel awful. Best to avoid it as best as possible and to wash yourself.

[@arthur_rockwell]

Ugh I'm sorry to hear that 😞

[@natalyamachinskaya]

Hi, Arthur! It was a very interesting and informative video on sex ed, thank you so much. Loved it! The little dictionary was very helpful too :)

[@RoyalFluf]

Thanks so much for making this video. It is very informative. Tbh I'm demisexual so I probably won't be thinking of any of this yet but definitely educational. Also I would like to give a name to the lovely fish in the background but I can't choose between these names so I'll let y'all choose: - Tidis -Mr, Tinkles -Dr, frow -hiko And Exploud (from Pokemon) And if the fish already has a name please inform me. I would love to know! Thank you

[@SebastianSeanCrow]

13:58 estrogen based birth control probably depends on the mode of administration + what your body is doing hormonally. Idk it’s effects on someone a year or more into HRT but when I was on the pill at 18 it had side effects due to the hormones that a lot of folk on T wouldn’t want.

[@ThyHerald]

I had the luxury of hearing a lecture of a professor specializing in STD’s / STI’s in Highschool. Yet, I am so very glad that you bring attention to this subject, while also making viewers very comfortable watching this. You’re awesome, thank you for your work!

[@ladyredl3210]

I’m the outlier here as I’m a cis lesbian, I’m watching this so that when I write about trans male characters I don’t accidentally write any intimate moments wrong.

[@MKingBat]

this came in perfect timing for me. Thanks for all the informational videos! Btw you look great

[@monochromatic14u]

I may be aroace with a bit of an aversion to sex, but I still find this video necessary to know. Thank you for sharing! I’ll keep this video in a playlist so I can share it to any friends who may need it!

[@Gooseknox]

As a trans gay top I found it really hard to wrap my head around things since I had such little information to work with, especially when a lot of the videos made me feel very dysphoric. Your video was so, so helpful, thank you so much for putting this information out for other guys to learn from!! A little bit sad that I will have to spend quite a bit of moolah just to have a good time, but nobody said being trans would be easy (or cheap lol)! A lot of times I get mad over the fact that I wouldn't have to worry about so many of these things if I was just born male or started t pre-puberty, but it is simply a fact of life. Watching this video took my head out the clouds and brought me back to reality, being that it simply is what it is, and instead of sulking, I should try adapting. It would be great to be cis, but that's just a life for the dreams, and sometimes dreams are just too different from reality. It's sad, but it's the facts. Hope I could help out whoever reads this with a little slice of cold, hard, reality. (sorry, not sorry! It's important to be realistic!)

[@sk_lxr2920]

I can't thank you enough for this video, really. It's pretty hard to find information on sex aimed towards us even though the topic is so important. Thank you Arthur :))

[@samthebreadloaf]

Thank you for this!! I'm a teenager, but this is still so helpful ❤ I'm a trans male, but due to fear of coming out I'm afraid I won't get the correct talk, if that makes sense. Thank you 🫶

[@StereoChimps]

Im a cis guy and had sex with a trans guy and it was all new for me, at first it was great and second time was even better, the only problem is that wer so close friends we started as friends, and he told me that i was the first man that he had sex, before was only girls, so that kind of became delicate to me, i want more but wer just too close as friends and i dont want to ruin things, but my mind is killing me wanting to sleep with him again, we slept together another day and we only touched for a little while and went to sleep, things have been colder now and im not feeling too open about it anymore kind of scared of trying again when we sleep together after a night party and ruining things, but now im just hilding myself so much everytime we see eachother i think about it

[@xdani_thethinkingneko]

The fact that you’re doing this is amazing. I’m a pan ciswomen, but I’ve dated trans people before. The pain I saw my ex partners go through was horrifying. Have supportive spaces, like your page is SO important for trans youth. Especially since it’s hard to find sex ed content geared toward trans men. Especially in relation to PIV. It can be a dysphoria triggering topic. So this video will be invaluable for people who are struggling. You my friend, are a hero 💗

[@ahha6304]

Me who is trans-lesbian who just watch to learn more about trans man nature

[@hexactinellid]

Fun fact: transmascs on T can actually grow some prostate tissue!

[@ilovetotri23]

I appreciate you sharing...but it was getting to intense for me! Thanks for the post!

[@neomatrix4412]

could you comment on Trans Men dating Trans Men? would you dating say Schuyler Bailar

[@SebastianSeanCrow]

5:14 I just want to put out a correction here: MPX isn’t categorized as an STI, however sex does have a higher risk of transmitting it due to the amount of skin to skin contact and bodily fluids potentially exchanged. MPX is a pox virus and has various methods of transmission but just because it’s not an STI (like HPV or chlamydia is) doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take it into consideration or protect yourself against it irt sexual activity. Much like how yeast infection is not an STI but can be transmitted sexually. (Actually I’m pretty sure quite a lot of viruses and infections can be transmitted sexually regardless of if it’s an STI or not. It’s just STI is a specific category and the way MPX was being talked about as the new “gay disease” I felt it necessary for that correction to be there.)

[@arthur_rockwell]

Mhm that's true! Though during the current outbreak monkeypox was almost exclusively associated with sexual contact according to the CDC (www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/mpox/prevention/sexual-health.html)

[@cheebusify]

I just learned that you can't use a silicon toy with a silicon lube. I'm 32...