Gender-neutral Upbringing | Leher Sethi | TEDxVivekanandSchool

[@MrRashadav]

It varies person to person. There are many women who doesn't want to work and prefer to stay home taking care of everything. And there are men who are very emotional. I am a father and I have three years old daughter who plays with dolls, guns, football, and ride a bicycle. My daughter like blue or green or any other color tht she likes. My daughter is active like anything. She jumps better thn baby boy.. come on send her to kindergarten to see the babies activities.

[@benmarr352]

I am in my 50's in the UK I was at a grammar school, for boys....BUT there was also an identically sized grammar school for girls - Equality of opportunity has been real in the UK for a very long time. What we need to look at is the real science and the real statistics. In the most liberated societies - the Scandinavian ones - where there is absolute freedom of choice the historical gender-typical roles are adopted by men and woman to a greater extent. The science thus details that man and woman make choices resultant from their genetic makeup and not from their upbringings (clearly the equality of opportunity concept is ideal because individuals can do what they want to and hence are good at, and society gets the best unit productivity from each person, increasing global utility. In terms of pay - In the UK and the US when the statistics are analysed it becomes apparent that, cetreris paribus, single women typically earn more than men. I do not know about India, but in the richer (GDP per capita countries) feminism is beginning to become a fringe view, campaigned for by those who want an unfair advantage for women. This is because normal people have realised that there is equality of opportunity (In fact it is slightly biased towards women with the likelyhood of recruitment in the STEM subjects being 2 to 3 times higher for a woman (again ceteris paribus). Holding a view that purports to ask for equality when it is actually asking for discrimination is disingenuous and dishonest. The world is waking up to this slowly and I urge all speakers and thinkers to forensically examine information and news before forming a view.

[@preettembhre562]

i think as a third world country we have many more challanges first overcome hunger, education , poverty , society , and many more things our 50 % population not even having proper living requirements so for them how do they focus on these first world problems

[@cazzjay1833]

that doesn't mean we disregard these problems. a good psychological health is as important as having a good education, good living conditions and a healthy physical body. having a poor psychological health can lead to depression and can lead to an increase in suicidal rates. body dysmorphia is a thing. when you force a child to live in the body of a gender they're not, it can impact their psychological well-being. a gender neutral way of upbringing doesn't require extra investments, it's just about being more accepting and granting the freedom to express themselves and dress the way they want to.

[@preettembhre562]

@@cazzjay1833 these lines looks good in articles and speeches given between intellectuals sitting inside luxurious conference hall

[@pratikkhelkar4149]

@@cazzjay1833 i totally agree with all the points you put forward. Its not like you are completely going to ignore those problems. It's not about focusing on only one problem at a time. Plus this doesn't need a large or any kind of extra investment. Its all about treating everyone with respect and accepting them for who they are. That said, the main problem is that the masses of our country don't accept such ideology and disrespect and disregard anything related to that. The first step is spreading awareness and familiarizing everyone with it.

[@thecapatalistpropagator_9470]

Their ultimate aim is to confuse children in gender

[@divyanshveer1087]

What about different psychology and physiology of different genders??

[@saicharansaini6909]

As the country become more gender egalitarian we expect there will be reduced gender differences but thats not what happened in gender neutral countries(like scandanavian countries) gender differences actually became much higher this is called gender quality paradox

[@abhinavtiwari4]

Truee

[@godspeed7717]

A woman shall not wear a man’s apparel, nor shall a man put on a woman’s garment; for whoever does such things is abhorrent to the LORD your God.

[@preettembhre562]

Mem middle class parents k aur bhi bhut challanges hote hai Not eveyone have that much time and money to look after their children And you are just showing one side of a coin also discuss adverse effect of this upbringing which leads a tremendous amount of confusion in the mind of children in western society

[@hemiltandel2929]

Absolutely correct brother

[@cazzjay1833]

if you don't have the time and money to look after your children, don't have children. easy. having children is a commitment. you're raising a human being. you're shaping the life of a human. it's a big deal. it's not about having children just for the sake of having some. it's a big responsibility.

[@preettembhre562]

@@cazzjay1833 in todays world raising one child is quite challanging thing you have to look upon these psychological things but extreme gender neutral in our country is not possible and check the extreme result of gender neutral parenting in western countries our scriptures have everything to look after for raising our childrens these elite mentalities is letting down confusions in societies

[@preettembhre562]

@@cazzjay1833 our 60 percent population is still rural so how can they manage be practical world didn't work on our hypothetical theories

[@cazzjay1833]

@@preettembhre562 who's talking about extreme gender neutralities? let me ask you, what exactly do you think comes under a gender neutral approach? I want to understand why you think it's so difficult and expensive

[@jitendrakukreja3236]

I appreciate what you are saying and doing.

[@amitytt]

यार बच्चों को तो छोड़ दो। stop your Propagenda.

[@animeost9193]

West me bura haal he iss propaganda ki vajah se 😤. Ye trans log bachon ko bhi trans bana rhe hain.

[@ok-qm3ym]

great explanation! thank you so much!

[@kanikaraheja886]

damnn so real

[@leherism]

KANIKA RAHEJA Thank you, Kanika! 😊

[@aseemrawat7129]

Though provoking

[@chalchalochalo738]

I think you dont know the culture of this nation thas why you are saying this thing 🚩

[@benotokibami2472]

Seriously!? Stop breeding please!!!

[@ok-qm3ym]

what

[@virambharvad8059]

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