Gender Roles, Free Mixing, Divorce Dowry, & Apostasy | Shaykh Dr Yasir Qadhi & Shaykh Hatem al Haj

[@hhansari]

Alhamdulillah, really beneficial to hear both your views. Dr. Hatem is great. And great format. I learned something.

[@AKirenM]

Walaikumusalaam Wa rahmatullahi Wa barakahatuhu Alhumdulillah for a very informative discussion. Thank you for emphasizing the conflicts and injustices that occur between working couples and for a woman who sacrifices her career to become a homemaker and encounters the mentioned issues later in life. I greatly appreciate you sharing how best to implement gender interactions especially lowering the gaze, hijab etc,.Please continue to have and share such discussions in more detail in the future in sha Allah. Jazakum Allahu khairun Barak Allahu Feekum, Aameen As salaam u alaikum Wa rahmatullahi Wa barakahatuhu

[@wallendegen1]

Assalamualikum, I also felt it was worth a very important topic to mention looking at both sides of the equation. May Allah make it easy for women and men alike.

[@lukmanaj]

The application of Shari'a law is always about practicality. Even in Nigeria, the Muslim-majority states implement only the aspects of Shari'a that are feasible. This is particularly important given that these states still have a significant non-Muslim population.

[@hashimnawaz3201]

I watched the whole video, and loved every second. Completely understood where both sides were coming from, and left happy. Then, I read the comments. Tauba, it's so toxic. Say good or don't say anything at all. Dislike the video and move on people. But awesome video guys, Maa Shaa Allah. I had a recommendation if I may. The mic was in front of Dr. Hatem's face, probably should have been put to the side, though I can see maybe that was needed because the pitch of his voice comparatively much lower. Second thing I wanted to request is kind of redundant. I remember listening to a "podcast" you (shaykh Yasir) did with Dr. Hatem about modern finances, but it was over zoom and some parts were difficult to understand. I'd like to request that topic be revisited especially now 2 years later when home prices have risen so much. BarakAllahu feekum! I know it's easy to say but the critics will keep critiquing, please don't mind them and stay your ground!

[@MuhannadDarwish]

A sad day when even our “scholars” beat around the bush and are scared to say real Islam because they fear the backlash and there reputation

[@nmath9665]

Very Nice and needed info.please talk about bank interst.

[@aasiyapowell875]

Don't take interest. If it is forced on you, give it in charity.

[@Afthab19]

Kindly bring to next podacst other American scholars too ,sheikh These are burning topics which every muslims is dealing with

[@aasiyapowell875]

A Wali' in marriage disappeared when the Pakistani father abused his authority over his daughters: demanding a large and stealing the mahr, controlling rather than protecting women.

[@kcooper8235]

I try to be curious about different ideas. I try to be tolerant of ideas I don't fully understand. Yet despite the clear civility of the two gentlemen, I have difficulty coming to any other conclusion than Islam and sharia law have no place in the western world. These medievalist ideas are antithetical to western values of freedom and individualism. The more I see of Muslims being honest about their views and agenda the more disturbed I become.

[@discoveringclouds6198]

Men of today are not following any one scholar or any one madhab and just picking and choosing religion as they learn it for the first time after university! It’s so difficult for them to believe any hadith or verse. They just want to debate as if they are scholars!

[@radeyahyesmin7505]

Anyone know the family court text he's talking about? Is it Amjad? I can't quite catch it

[@Pringle_asA_Single]

AMJA

[@aasiyapowell875]

American Muslim Jurists Assoc.

[@SWVN-1]

Please Who knows the books sheikh has mentioned and where can I find them

[@Azizelle]

So many negative comments on here have nothing to do with the lecture 😅

[@theobservantmuslim]

Because it is liberal. Watering down Islam for people finding it strict? Let's change the whole deen then.

[@abdulqadirali7240]

perhaps it's time we re read the seerah, and we would learn some new knowledge, wisdom, and humility.

[@theobservantmuslim]

@@abdulqadirali7240 yes and seerah doesn’t point towards watering down the deen of Allah. It teaches the exact opposite. Walhamdulillah

[@maryamw-d7l]

How long have you been learning the Deen?

[@theobservantmuslim]

@@maryamw-d7l 12+ years now. هَٰذَا مِن فَضْلِ رَبِّي

[@MuhannadDarwish]

Daniel haqiqatjou expresses Islamic marriage and gender roles directly without all the circles shiekh hatem and YQ go around like they even questioning male authority if he doesn’t own the house

[@mohamedaidrus3886]

You can follow Brother Daniel , Shiekh Hatem and YQ all are legitimate, the line is not narrow, it is a river.

[@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543]

@@MuhannadDarwish Dan Taqiyatjou is not very Iearned, he said it's ok to sIeep with a 4 yr 0ld, he is onIy good at debating Iibs as he is a former Iib.

[@MuhannadDarwish]

@ lol was the prophet marrying aisha(RA) wrong?

[@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557]

سلام عليكم.. Isn't it also a point that it was a Security issue regarding an Islamic state,as such all aspects of a Nation . Regarding Apostasy I mean . Also it's No force regarding people Embrace Islam, which isn't a Joke . Social security as well. جزاك الله خيرا

[@CuriousSoul-i4g]

Why people recite darud so hurriedly, which seems disrespectful.

[@seankhalid6539]

So much beating around the bush. With all due respect, these brothers need to get to the point, speak the truth, and be unapologetic about Islam.

[@maryamw-d7l]

SubhanAllah. How many people have actually LISTENED to the conversation before getting triggered and commenting?

[@mosada101]

May Allah guide us all.. save us from the torment in this life and hereafter. From women's fitna, the Dajjaal.. and his followers.

[@Asad-2166]

Ameen sumameen Yaa Raabulalamin 🤲📿🇬🇧🇧🇩

[@Saad-ul6py]

Now referring to traditional Tafsir of scholars about "qawwaamah" because it suits your whim. Normally, to you, those opinions are always "outdated"

[@_darkerblue]

does the black cap uncle not know women be it 200 yrs ago or 2000 yrs ago have always contributed to the financial stability of the household?

[@_darkerblue]

the example of two working physicians where Dr. Hatem was laughing at the idea of the man splitting but the woman saving up - did it not occur to him that women even after having the same earning potential as that of a man, split their bellies to produce babies and nurse them and look after their for years after, and not the physician husband? as for the cooking, if it has been decided among the couple prior to marriage that both would cook for themselves and if the woman does lend a helping hand sometimes (remeber she works too) -what's there to luagh about? did he made that example up to score a point against working women? the later example of a man divorcing a woman after having used her youth and vgina, who gave up career coz she was pushed for marriage, is far more common than the example of a working woman saving her earnings and not spending anything at all on the family (complete lie).

[@JoBlogz]

Good points.

[@IvanildoRoseno-x1e]

🥷💪✊👍👏🖖

[@saniyaabbasi934]

I found it amusing when DYQ thought Shaykh Hatem would agree with him regarding segregation and free mixing in speeches and conventions he completely shut him down with his points

[@abdulqadirali7240]

Why would you find it amusing!? Do you like conflicts better than togetherness?

[@mdlu1094]

🤲🤝💪☝️🤲

[@Afthab19]

I have yet to see an atleast 10 point or 20 point pdf document explaining what the hell should we do as muslims from pseudo intellectual fancy thumbnail youtubers who are ought to expose every single Islamic scholar for their deviancy Just criticism no solutions at all and losing their good deeds on Yawl al Hisab

[@digitalnomad3180]

Why can't Sh. YQ name the so called "Muslim land" lol. He does not hesitate in dissing the west, India etc.

[@IvanildoRoseno-x1e]

🙏🕌🕋📯💪🤲

[@Saad-ul6py]

By Allah, I never knew YQ is so shallow until after listening to this.

[@abdulqadirali7240]

You just sinned by calling a brother in faith names, and to make it worse, you mentioned the most mercifuls name , as if it vindicates you somehow..

[@sunshineseaandvitamind8620]

Are we still talking about free mixing? Don't we free mix in society with non Muslims anyway? why should it be an issue amongst ourselves as Muslims? This has caused a gulf between Muslim men and women who are reaching well into their thirties unable to get married and worse having not even had opportunities to ever talk to someone of the other gender for marriage because of this stupid free mixing nonsense. It has made a whole generation awkward and weird when it shouldn't be! It is the most natural thing in the world.

[@syayayayaya]

Ya next up lgbt is ok huh prophet sunshine??? I treat STDs in clinic daily better is to marry young/during college as possible instead of zina Allah forgive us

[@sunshineseaandvitamind8620]

@@syayayayaya urghh can't see my comment. 😫I replied but it vanished!

[@aasiyapowell875]

Interaction between the genders is halal. However, if by "free mixing" is meant "hanging out" so you can flirt, that is what conservative scholars have forbidden.

[@Youssef-x9z]

Its because its part of our religion. Just because its normalized doesnt mean we take it as permissible and just ignore the rulings.

[@Youssef-x9z]

Be careful, since hating the sharia is kufr.

[@Saad-ul6py]

JazaakAllah Khairan Shaykh Hatem for passively dismantling and putting Yasir and his bullshit in their appropriate place

[@shabanatasleem3532]

You can’t allude to what a Shaykh says as “BS!” Remain vigilant of the language you deploy! Better to state, it’s questionable…

[@abdulqadirali7240]

How can you make dua and swear in the same sentence!?

[@shan8735]

@muslimskeptic