"Genjutsu" and Making Family Decisions ║ Baby #9 Pregnancy Update │ Week 24

I'm always apprehensive about sharing my thoughts on things that might cause personal offense to someone else. Please accept what I'm sharing here in the spirit of helpfulness in which it's given. I trust that we're all on our own path making the decisions we think are best for us and our families. Anything I say is not meant in any way to be judgmental toward someone else.
In this video I talk about how my pregnancy is progressing, I share some of the fabric we've chosen to make bedding for our new baby girl and I talk about how we "have a spell cast over" (aka genjutsu) that often causes us to make choices and decisions we wouldn't otherwise. I find it helpful to having a guiding truth/principle by which to evaluate life's choices and trust that the outcome of those decisions is God's will no matter if it's "positive" or "negative."
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[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

I'm always apprehensive about sharing my thoughts on things that might cause personal offense to someone else. Please accept what I'm sharing here in the spirit of helpfulness in which it's given. I trust that we're all on our own path making the decisions we think are best for us and our families. Anything I say is not meant in any way to be judgmental toward someone else.

[@AnnaBananaLM]

Andrea Mills are you going to make she is in the right position prior to giving birth with a ultrasound?

[@CC-yl9wz]

Anna Massarelli after 8 kids i think she knows what she is doing, she is a smart and responsible mother, nough said.

[@vickifry466]

Hi andrea id like to wish you well with the baby love watching ur family videos xx

[@ChihuahuaMama54]

I love the way you explain things for me to understand without ever being offensive or judgmental. You have such an amazing outlook on life and I absolutely love your channel. Can’t wait to see the new baby🎀😍

[@tkmcc7733]

Andrea, He answered your prayer- your message came through powerfully and clearly. It’s such an essential message! I know I’m considered dangerous and foolish because of some of the choices I make in life, but God’s Word has cut through the lies and shown me His truth. We need more and more of His Word to counteract the ‘genjutsu’. Let’s fill our minds and hearts with it day and night like Psalm 1 says! Blessings.

[@TomMillsFamily]

Thanks all of you for your encouraging comments. Andrea was very nervous she was going to stir up the trolls by this video, and it's nice to see the support. As a side note, the japanese word for "reality" is "Genjitsu" but the word that Naruto uses for the illusion is "Genjutsu" which kind of translates to "reality technique..." since I am a nerd, these things excite me :)

[@justmeblomberg8940]

I really enjoy and learn so much from Andrea! I adore your sweet family. Can't wait to see the newest member. God bless.

[@MarisaAndChew]

You guys are amazing!! Would love a sit-down video with you one day Tom where you talk about how things changed for you as if I recall correctly, you said in one of the first dinner videos that you had always expected hospital births and homeschool and so on. It's quite the change to have had! Would LOVE to hear you speak on this. Would also love to know how you as "head of the house" decide when something like going to the Dr may be necessary for Andrea during pregnancy if she feels it isn't necessary and how you two come to those types of decisions. I realize Andrea didn't go to the hospital for fainting, but I know a lot of people would have (I never did when I was pregnant but for some, they freak right out), so how do you keep your cool and feel confident that it's normal versus a true emergency and so on!? I really hope this doesn't come across as judgemental because I am pro-natural and LOVE Andrea's videos and calm approach, would just love to know a bit on how you feel about these same issues and what helped you get to this place of peace. Thanks so much!!

[@nonanona4926]

Tom Mills There's always going to be people that are going to make snarky comments just because they believe that if you do anything in life that is not considered the " norm" , or exactly what they do, then you're wrong. But those are your kids, your family, you do whatever you and Andrea think is right! Merry Christmas, I'll be praying for a smooth, easy delivery.

[@eratoisyourmuse659]

Tom Mills There will always be, pardon the language, a%!&#$ who have nothing better than to waste their lives and be critical. Ignore the trolls. They everywhere

[@courtascot]

Tom Mills you are not a nerd just very smart.

[@bigkiwifam844]

Tom, I want you to know how much this video of Andrea has influenced my husband and I. Andrea had an incredible gift of explaining things so clearly. She explained exactly how I have been feeling in my heart but have been too afraid to fully put into practice in our family. But through watching this and talking about it together my husband and I feel confident enough to make some fairly major life changes, even though we know we will be going against what most people around us would think we should do, following God's plan rather than what society has taught us we should do. What an amazing women of God Andrea was. Even since she has gone to Glory Andrea continues to help so many to follow and serve our Lord and saviour. I am so grateful for these precious videos, I am learning so much. I pray that God would give you the strength and all you need to continue raising your precious children to know and love Him. You are all in my thoughts and prayers so often. Blessings from New Zealand.

[@whyteowl3706]

I just wanted to let you know that although I don't hold the same belief system as you do, the comments you made about 'Genjutsu' really spoke to me. I understand what you are saying, and appreciate your willingness to share your thoughts. I wanted you to know that.

[@mccallumjc1]

Andrea I think you are an undiscovered writer and you are waiting for the right time to put everything what you shared with us and more into a best selling book! You do not offend anyone with your wisdom but realise that these insights are blessing from God!

[@gerijohnson6]

Andrea is such an amazing resource. I am impressed with her knowledge and intellect. As a Mom of 9 we all know of her kind and gentle maternal role, but if you watch some of her philosophical/religious videos, she is so intelligent and has thought deeply about life. I never knew her, but I miss her.

[@hayleyevans6150]

You are looking so happy, joyful & well.. glowing! Pregnancy suits you mama 💕

[@cassandra5516]

I think what we also need to remember regarding childbirth is that for almost all of human history women have been giving birth at home and very often they surrounded themselves with women elders and/or wise women. It's only in the last 100 years that women have been encouraged to birth away from their homes and with strangers and men.

[@junbh2]

True, although the 'wise women/elders/more experienced women' part has been almost universal.

[@sarahadams5419]

Andrea, this is beautiful. It hit home because after 3 children in 4 years our family convinced us that it was enough because that is what society says is too many. My husband had a vasectomy very quickly after our 3rd. Now we have been fostering for 3 years. We have adopted a 4th baby but we still have the deep feeling of regret with the vasectomy. We have been praying about a reversal but haven't received a clear answer yet. Until we do, we are caring for the mother and fatherless. Your videos are what I go to for 2 reasons: 1- when I need a deep thought/prayer provoking motivation or when I need to be reminded that their are people who think that the bible was created as a guideline for us to follow. Thank you for your ministry. It makes a huge impact. Merry Christmas!

[@sheilafelix113]

As a nurse I agree with what you are saying. I am thankful for modern medicine in so many areas. But I am also thankful that the medical community is also turning to Holistic care. The human body has a marvelous ability to heal itself! With nurturing and caring it will often need no outside interference. You monitor your nutrition, rest etc. This gives your body the ability to do its job. I sometimes get frustrated that my patients can't or won't understand this. They feel that we must have a pill or procedure that will "fix" them without any effort on their part of changing their lifestyle. Also the loss of maternal life in early years was due to infection. Women were giving birth in an environment of poor hygiene and and disease. As we have come to understand the importance of just hand washing this has decreased considerably! I am all for home births as long as Mom is healthy and does not have a preexisting problem such as diabetes or a history of pre eclampssia, etc. You are so interesting to listen too. Thank you for these video chats.

[@nicoleshrout9393]

Such wisdom! What a blessing she was to this world!(And continues to be through her legacy and children)

[@kitchentablecrafting7111]

I love sitting down with my coffee and listening to you; its like a nice visit. Wishing you all a beautiful Christmas.

[@chrisdeecaregiver2]

Hi Andrea, your talk was cohesive and made perfect sense. I love your discussions. Your thoughts are so deep and they help me to see things in a different perspective.

[@yappyfinkle9796]

One of my favorite talks. So much wisdom in this woman.

[@lizlane6490]

Andrea-you are a beautiful woman inside and out. I LOVE how deeply you think about things and then communicate so clearly (even when pregnant!! impressive :) ) and you communicate so GRACIOUSLY. For a long time I have thought about this whole genjustsu idea (without knowing that word) and how it relates to us practically in our everyday lives and in the choices we make broadly and specifically. I have also thought about how these genjustsus figure into things on a spiritual level.I think there is sooo much there to unpack and I loved hearing your thoughts on this topic and so appreciate it. And I do think you communicated it all very graciously, as you always do.

[@libermama]

THANK YOU for being so courageous during a vulnerable time by speaking truth.

[@sarakeith5480]

Your words ring true!! I am so happy that you filmed this!! This gives me so much to think about!! Thank you Andrea!!

[@yournorthstar]

You have such a loving heart!

[@pjl2963]

Even with "mental nausea" you are still thinking and reasoning brilliantly, Andrea...I love your sit down chats...I know you will always share many spiritual nuggets

[@beam8250]

Dear Andrea 😇, Your teachings were masterful! I can't get enough of your wisdom. Thank you for the legacy you left behind for us all to continue learning from 💗. I felt in no way that you were pressing your beliefs on us. I see it as though you were taking a stance on what you firmly believed. We should all have that confidence. The best advice ALWAYS comes from God! I've learned the hard way, after taking so much advice from people who only know what they want out of life, and don't have an open mind about how others would prefer to live theirs. They meant well, but you feel me. I never connected with you in life, but truly cherish what I have found in you. A precious light you continue to be in all our lives. RIP 💖. God bless your family!

[@mareek.]

Your videos make me feel joy and I love being a part of your community. We call "homeschooling" Home Lessons, because that's exactly what we are doing providing lessons to our children at home. We wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and a Safe, Healthy and Happy New Year!

[@fives5571]

Thank you for being so unadulteratedly real. You are a living saint! I always learn something wonderful from what you share even tho i am many years older than you are. Your wisdom is astounding; your love is so deep! God bless you Andrea, and all of your beautiful family.

[@hannaha760]

Most of my family thinks we should have stopped at 2 children, but then I look at my third and think how could anybody say his life is not worth living? We hope to have many more, and I look forward to the day that God blesses us with more! ❤️ We live in a small 2 bedroom house with our three children, and although I know we do need another bedroom (so we don't have both genders together when they are older) I don't believe that we need a huge house with all the bells and whistles. How would I ever have time to clean it anyway? 😂 We also homeschool, and many people are just waiting for my children to fail and then they'll think they were right, but so far my children are excelling in the environment that God meant for them to be in! 🏡 With my first labour they pulled the placenta out to hard/quickly and it caused me to hemorrhage. I really wish we had midwifes here! I would need help with a home birth because my husband can't do blood at all, but I don't like the hospital setting!

[@smilyblessings1315]

Hannah Arbeau find a better doctor or hospital What happened to you is aweful.

[@crystaloliver2909]

you are such a wonderful person. Congratulation on the new bundle of joy. I love watching you.

[@imogenethomas1138]

A wonderful talk today Andrea! I love how you put so much thought into every word. I can’t wait to see you sew baby things. I am especially interested to see how you finish the receiving blankets.

[@webstersmicro-homestead9401]

Bless you, Andrea! Thank you for boldly sharing your beliefs. Your words really spoke to me. I'm a "mom" of 9...sort of 🤔 I truly believe in God's provisions and my life is a living testimony of His love and provision. But after I had my first child I received a prophecy from God. As our human nature often does, I and several others who had a role in this prophecy interpreted the message in our own way. Well, shortly after receiving that prophetic message my life situation changed drastically and I never did see the prophecy come to fruitation...not as we had interpreted it within our human limitations. But, just a little over a year from receiving that prophecy I found myself sitting on a blanket in my back yard, surrounded by five young children. THIS was the prophetic vision that had been revealed to me the year before! Trying to make a long story shorter, after my first marriage failed I went through two more relationships. It was during this, the second one, that God revealed to me His prophetic vision and with that Revelation I chose to pursue that relationship and God has truly provided for and blessed us abundantly over the years. Now, we are raising four granddaughters. And so, a woman who could only give birth to two children, I have long suffered from endometriosis, ended up raising nine children...so far! I add the so far only because only God truly knows when my "mom" duties will actually end and I am open to receive whatever task He sets before me because I trust Him to guide my steps and provide along the way. Again I say, bless you, Andrea!

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

You are a beautiful example of the idea that accepting children as a blessing doesn't always mean they come from your own body. It has nothing to do with how many children you bear; it's about a willingness to serve.

[@BIGHOHO24]

We have 9 children too! AND we have 5 boys, 4 girls! We are a homeschooling family living in Idaho. Love your channel and family!

[@Heart2StitchCo]

You are always so encouraging, never offensive because you do not speak "down" to people who may be doing the opposite of you, you are just sharing your family/life and it is really a blessing! It is also a huge comfort knowing there is someone else that believes/feels like I do. When we had our first unassisted birth in 2010, it was so hard hearing other people's "opinions" & not knowing how to respond. I actually had someone say that if they didn't birth in the hospital that their baby would have died. They said it in such a way to make it seem like it was a miracle that my baby was fine & like I was some crazy person. But that didn't stop us from having another unassisted birth in 2013, both births were amazing & so much easier than my 3 previous hospital births. I never wanted another hospital birth. When I was pregnant again and due in August 2015, we were planning to have an unassisted birth again(we also did self pregnancy care with our 2 unassisted births) but towards the end of my pregnancy around 37 weeks I think, certain people started talking about my safety during birth and how they thought it would be better to go to a hospital just in case. Being that this was a close family member and not a random stranger I started having second thoughts. I decided to go in for a reassuring check up, the whole time feeling like a fool because we were "those people" who had 2 out of hospital births. Well everything went down hill from there, very similar to your experience with Claudia, they told my fluids were low & wanted to keep me to be monitored & give me IV fluids, after a couple hours we went home. We had to go back in the next few days to make sure my fluids were good. They said they weren't exactly where they wanted them still so we had to do a fetal kick count, of course that didn't give them the results they wanted so the Dr. said she strongly suggested we be induced, looking back on it I really wished we just went home but because of the Genjutsu we went along with her suggestion, fearing something could be wrong with the baby. That was around 1pm, went to the hospital, they started the pitocin, it was later that might, just after 9pm that my baby girl was born, right before she was born the Dr. came in to break my water(different Dr. than before), she said there was no way my fluid was low. Thankfully all was well with me and baby but I just felt so bad that she wasn't allowed to come at her time. This video really spoke to me because of it wasn't for the Genjutsu, we wukd of had another unassisted birth at home, where I could recover in the comfort of my home & quicker than at a hospital. I know everyone is different but homebirth is definitely better for me and it so nice to hear others talk good about it. :)

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

I had such a profound sense of grief after Claudia was born. In some ways, it was a catalyst for me to start my KZbin channel. She was 3 months old when I started. I couldn't change what happened, but I needed to talk about it and do what I could do be a voice for other women. I think there are far more of us than we know who feel the need to birth differently, but it's so hard to find the courage because the genjutsu is so strong.

[@Heart2StitchCo]

Andrea Mills I just know that you are going to help so many women find the strength to follow their heart & do what they want instead of what society tells them they want. I'm very sorry that you had to go through what you did but I'm so happy you started your youtube channel, proof right there that there is always a rainbow after a storm! I love your family so much and always immensely enjoy your videos, I've even started rewatching some like I would rewatch a favorite movie or reread a favorite book(which I do alot!)!

[@LifeByJen]

I’m so glad you follow the path you and your family feel is right. So often we just follow leaders mindlessly. It’s refreshing to see people living for God and love! Bless you!!

[@MayflowerHomeschool]

I miss you Andrea! ❤️ I’m having my 2nd baby, and watched all of your pregnancy videos when you were pregnant with Hannah. I’m rewatching them now to refresh my memory, and I miss your wisdom! I’m so thankful for all you have given us in these videos. Rest well with Jesus ❤️

[@kafo9263]

It makes me happy/sad watching this video. I have mourned for a long time that I FAILED. I have had 8 c sections. It stirs up a lot in my heart but I can't go back in time can I? You speak SO beautifully Andrea. I wish I didn't live so far away from you

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

That is the thing, we cannot change what is, nor do we necessarily _want_ to. We just trust that it's all for His purposes, and for me, try to examine what happened so maybe I can give someone else a little help when they find themselves faced with the same situation.

[@herbanhomestead]

I've had three home births and one center birth with midwives, not unassisted completely but I do like to labor alone and my husband has caught our babies. Looking online years ago I discovered the world of unassisted birthing and that is what led me to my educated decisions to birth at home with a midwife instead of at the hospital. I am thankful for our freedom as mothers to not be forced to birth a certain way when we believe another may be best. Good luck!

[@cbigg_8844]

When I was pregnant, just being in a grocery store would make me nautious! How unfortunate that the ad used the words perfect family. We have two kids which is perfect for OUR situation but every family is different. I get what your saying about the world's influence controlling us. I'm so thankful that I can trust God to lead me through life. Thanks for sharing. LOVE the blanket materials!!

[@Rachhhhhhel]

I am so thankful that you do share your thoughts, no matter what it is. Even though my views are not the same on everything (in other videos), I have so much respect for you and appreciate hearing your intelligent point of view. I really needed the reminder what our BASIC needs are. I’ve been so stressed out about Christmas but it brings me a lot of peace to remember that my basic needs are completely met and I’m so blessed for that. Anyway, I love your videos. ❤️❤️❤️

[@mroxannevh]

thank you for leaving this up. I'm 40 weeks pregnant today and doing my first homebirth, and I'm frequently going back to Andrea's chatty videos to gleam some of her wisdom 🙏 I really needed to hear this one today. I've grown fearful headed towards labor and I feel irresponsible having two children so close together, Even though we openly accepted these babies because we knew they were blessings from God.

[@lindafisher8353]

Very refreshing, I think it's good to cause people to THINK, something not really emphasized now days!

[@KatieKatherine415]

I always love when you take the time to chat with us. You are so insightful and I always appreciate hearing your views on things that are not always freely discussed. Have a wonderful day Mills family!!

[@TheTexasBoys]

Andrea, you are exactly right. It is so sad how the world tells us "what we should be". I think most of our Christian life is shaking off what the world is constantly telling us. Thanks for having these real life honest conversations. Hope you have a blessed day~TexasMom

[@homeschoolramblings5280]

I shared this on my home school group page. I'm always amazed how passionate other people are about telling me why I'm making a wrong choice. Especially when you ask them why they think the way they do.

[@anynameyouchoose]

Andrea, I so much enjoy your videos, when i had my Children, 1973 and 1985, I didn't know I had choices, I just went along with whatever. In our world today I see people with such strong belief's that they want to push their ideas on others forgetting that God has given each of us the power of choice, I love the fact that you are making your own choice for your life, I believe you are making the right choices for you and your family, I know its hard when people criticize you, don't give them your attention. I Love You and your Family. Love & Blessings, Merry Christmas and may the coming year be filled with an abundance of Blessing's

[@elygale2001]

I think you are very wise and see very clearly and love hearing your thoughts about children and childbirth.

[@lisaclark6127]

Hi there Andrea the most basic of needs your family is more than able to supply,LOVE being the most important congratulations on the news of the new life i am sure the universe will bless you greatly the world needs more families like yours xxx

[@lisalampman3775]

We are all unique and you are an amazing mother and amazing amazing teacher

[@galady8632]

Well done! As always I admire your openness, your compassion, your wisdom and your confidence in your beliefs. Pregnancy certainly makes you glow, making your beauty extra special.

[@nicoledemana]

what an amazing vlog you did today, It really made me think things differently thank you Andrea you are a true inspiration for us all out here in vlog land. I was born at home and there wasn't any problems.

[@happythreadsgirl5645]

I always love your take on life and faith. It is so true that each of us has our own paradigm and we must continue to assess and explore the boundaries. Please continue to share your views and your journey. You are inspiration to me.

[@knuddelkatze452]

Thank you so much for beeing kind and brave enough to share your thougts with us! I think about those things a lot and totally agree with you!

[@ddoz11]

Wow such revelation in this video. Ty sweet Andrea for sharing this wisdom of God! Such truth spoken! 🙏❤

[@tracegates8841]

Your face to face vlogs are the best!! When I was pregnant, I also had mental nausea, as you call it.

[@kaitlinloyer350]

This video was such an encouragement to me. I have two kids and we’ve been contemplating Baby #3 and I just keep getting negative feedback from those around me. Financial criticism. People saying going from 2 to 3 kids was so hard and they were miserable. It’s just scaring me. Thanks for the reality check!

[@familyfarmhouse]

Andrea, I just *had* to comment and encourage you how glad I am that you shared this video! You are exactly right about the false allusions and false securities that this world tries to get us to put our hope in. You are gifted in formulating your thoughts and articulating them. I have all the same thoughts but it's more of a jumbled mess, and I appreciate your ability to communicate them. As a foster family who added 5 foster children to our 3 biological children for 18 months, we had 8 children *under* the age of 8, many of them severely affected by trauma. Everything in me and around me screamed that it was absurd and something we couldn't do. But every morning when I read God's Word I saw a different Truth- that was my spinning top. Regrettably, there was a point when we listened to the spell cast on us and got too scared of a threat against our own biological kids. We asked that most of the foster kids be moved to other homes. My husband and I deeply, deeply regret that choice. We are now praying that God gives us another chance to do it all again. Of course the circumstances will most likely be different. But we pray that the Lord again takes us to the end of ourselves, to the end of the false world that we can see, and holds us as we jump off. I want to make a video about that someday soon. I just need to get the words organized in my mind 😜. So thank you Andrea for being brave, and sharing the truth in this video. ❤️

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

God's mercies are new every morning.

[@familyfarmhouse]

Andrea Mills so true! I'm thankful for that!

[@shirleysinger839]

Beautiful. .I could listen to you all day!! God Bless your family!!!

[@bradybrowning8274]

I always love your videos and your wonderful insights. I do agree that we can be duped into what is supposedly "normal" when that isn't the truth. I struggle with the fact that I've had my tubes tied and what God feels about that, but I do believe that not everyone is meant to have an unlimited number of children. I have a genetic disease that makes it much more dangerous to have children with each pregnancy and to compound matters, I don't have the mental stability to have more children. Another child would not make our lives imperfect but I do feel complete in the two living children we have with us after the struggles we have had. I love your heart for sharing your thoughts and beliefs in a nonjudgmental way.

[@poppycopper1]

What an amazing video, it made perfect sense. Hugs to all.

[@kimmiewyckoff3907]

Clear contact paper will also work... you can find that at any craft store and probably office supply store too. Thanks for all your sharing. Love watching your videos.

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

It's funny that I didn't think of that because that's how I used to laminate _everything_ before I got a laminating machine. Thank you for mentioning it!

[@kristiself9215]

Love your vlog. I have been watching your videos for a while now and totally understand what you are saying. Not everyone has to agree with someones choices and ideas, but we can all be kind. I had never thought of the way that you talked about today, but after listening, I totally agree! Thank you for being so caring and KIND to everyone and worring about others feelings. You certainly do not see that much these days.

[@Amenhomeschoolers]

I’ve felt most, if not all, of what you are saying but have not been able to put it in to words. Mostly I have just thought I had a different mindset than the norm but have never felt bad about it just confused! Thanks for summing it up for me!!! It helps to know yourself and what you really think and want rather than just feeling something and being confused by what you really think. Merry Christmas and God bless you and your family!!!

[@AnotherTruth]

I have also been thinking about your piece of thought associations and I have a problem that is not too dissimilar from yours. I will keep what you said in memory and catch myself when I do it and redirect myself to thinking about something else. Again, thank you for your honesty and candor which is so lacking on social media. All of my best to you.

[@ev4549]

Hi Andrea, Here in the Netherlands, most women give birth at home with a midwife. But more and more women choose for a hospitalbirth, in case of complications. The American ideas are overtaking the norm and ideas of the people here. And I think that is so sad, because it is based on fear. So I think I know what you mean with the genjutsu. Thinking outside of the box is a beautiful thing. Keep up the good work/videos. I love them!

[@smilyblessings1315]

Ellen Vreugdenhil everyones situation is definently different and every baby some cant evan do home birth because of complications like a few of mine I have 6kids all hospital but any who can do home without pregnancy problems thats awesome

[@ev4549]

Smiley blessings, so true. My biggest wish was to have a homebirth, but both my children were born in hospital because I needed C-section with them.

[@AnotherTruth]

I could NEVER give birth at home because of the complications I had. I am so grateful for the medical care I got. Everybody's situation is very different. I did what I had to do; others will choose differently.

[@makingthehomemaker8999]

Thank you for this video. I've been recently grappling with these issues myself. This has clarified my thinking tremendously.

[@mccallumjc1]

That was sweet for you to include the sound of heart beat of the baby at the end.❤️

[@Charis6540]

that floral fabric is beautiful

[@cassandra5516]

I completely understand and agree with what you are saying about birth in regards to 'risks', place of birth, unnecessary interventions, support ppl etc. The majority of health care professionals in the birthing arena care more about control than they do about actual care.

[@NATY2811]

Ok I only have one child so Im no expert but honestly I agree people have given birth for years without a hospital or doctor so your decision to do so is completely amazing to me. Everytime I went to my once a month apt they just checked my pressure weight and height did a sonogram asked how I was and sent me on my way nothing special and it cost me thousands if I was as confident in myself Id do it home alone too...But I needed that epidural Im a wuss for pain xoxo love the videos and watching you and the family

[@bytheway.family7362]

What truth you have spoken! Thanks for sharing, I love the analogy of Genjutsu. I have never heard of that before but it made perfect sense when you explained it. Thank you for continuing to share.

[@debbieomi]

Although this is anecdotal, I will say that over the past several years, there have been way too many new mothers and babies lost during, or immediately following, birth. (This is in my life and hearing from people I know, not always directly someone I know.) I sometimes think I would like to go back to my younger days and do this pregnancy and childbirth thing over again. I went with a midwife because I wanted the least intrusive experience. And yet, I ended up being induced, had prolonged labor with lots of medical "stuff", and a c-section, all very intrusive. I KNOW in the depths of my heart that it was because he was not ready to come out yet and if I had advocated for myself and him and let him and my body do what it was made to do, things would have went differently. Yes, my son was healthy and for some they say that's all that matters but I had ongoing complications from the c-section which made it difficult to care for him initially and didn't let us bond at first as we should have. I think everything came out as you intended. I completely "got it" and it really does make sense. I can see in my own life how I have wiggled my way out of some of those genjutsus (es?). Commercialism/consumerism being the major one. I don't know if this falls under that category but I also embrace more of a minimalistic mindset as I've grown older. What I do buy, with rare exception, is thrifted or from Facebook resale groups. I'm not at 100% with any of it and I am totally guilty of splurging on some frivolous thing now and again. Good video, Andrea, and definitely gives one some things to ponder on.

[@poodledaddles1091]

debbieomi-I am shocked that you have heard of several mothers dying during or after childbirth, I've never heard of one mom dying in my lifetime. (that info would spread like wildfire in our community). I've always known of the possibility, but it is so unheard of that we take it for granted I guess.

[@debbieomi]

Not just mothers but babies. I wanted to give you numbers and found this as the first suggestion. The USA is the only first world country where maternal death is rising! My goodness! www.npr.org/2017/05/12/528098789/u-s-has-the-worst-rate-of-maternal-deaths-in-the-developed-world www.npr.org/2017/05/12/527806002/focus-on-infants-during-childbirth-leaves-u-s-moms-in-danger

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

I've know of one maternal death and one near death... both in the same hospital. That's why we bypassed that hospital and drove another 75 miles to a different one.

[@hamsterloverforever1]

I love watching your videos, your family is so special and I’m thankful you share your lives with us. God bless

[@melissamorgan8982]

I loved this video. I also love the way you think. You have a unique way of looking at the world and a clear way of translating your thoughts into words--- I appreciate it :)

[@hildhs]

You are looking radiant Andrea! I love hearing about your family and lifestyle.

[@Roehrtribe]

I’m so grateful for all of these videos to come back to. 💙

[@NotAVampireLvr]

I love your take on basic needs. So true! Great reminder.

[@dmoore3887]

Our decisions need to be directed by God's reality more than societies'. It is uncomfortable to swim upstream, but in many ways my conscience won't allow me to join the "herd". I think there is a lot of truth in what you shared here, thank you for being willing to publicly swim upstream, I know it comes at a price. You are not alone in many of your convictions.

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

I think that's how it is when you find truth. You can't _not_ live it, even when it comes with societal consequences.

[@rachelselby5469]

Just listening to this now and I'm fascinated by your whole gengitsu theory. You are so right. Absolutely brilliant. And I shall remember this next time I want to follow my intuition rather than following the crowd. xxx

[@laurieflaherty4392]

Hi Andrea, I am a new subscriber and do enjoy your videos. Although I do not share many of your views I always like to hear a different take on how one lives their life, many times I learn something. I give you much credit and respect for being true to what you believe. I do however have a huge problem with closed minded people who have the audacity to tell others how they should live , how many children they should have or how they should birth those children. The woman you spoke of was way out of line! I have 5 children, ages 46, 45, 44, 42 & 18. I have never thought of my 18 year old as unwanted or burdensome or a embarrassing surprise as many friends and family members hinted at, both my husband and myself felt so blessed that there were no words to explain at the time. Please continue to speak your mind & heart. You really are quite a breath of fresh air in what can be a difficult world. Your children are beautiful both physically and spiritually so you and Tom must be doing something right. Merry Christmas to you and your family with wishes of Health, Happiness and Joy for 2018!

[@christinamoreno9237]

I truly enjoyed this video and have so many of the same things on my heart. We know what's best for ourselves, our children, and overall family. I agree going against the grain and being different is perfectly ok. Some just will not understand. Thanks for sharing.

[@thehavenstribehomestead]

You are such a strong woman Andrea! I look up to you so much, you do many things I could not do myself! One of the many reasons I love watching you! I also learn a lot from watching you, my husband even knows you by name because I mention you so often ☺️

[@isobelmckenzie8516]

Legitimately I love watching your videos so so much, you are one of the best humans on earth and your family is so so sweet. Please stay the way you are because you're fantastic. ❤️❤️❤️

[@terrynorman1222]

I love ur messages an perspective on a lot of different subjects!! We should all be able to listen understand and respect others opinions without judgement. As we’re all different in all aspects of life so are our outlooks. I respect your thoughts and opinions as just that. I love that your family is so close, and I feel if you choose to have 20 children that’s your choice as long as you’re able to keep them clothed, fed, and most importantly Loved that’s all that’s needed🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@knuddelkatze452]

Awww...the 💓beat in the end! Thank you...magical!!!

[@familyiseverything5799]

Such great memories for the kids to have.💕 words of wisdom from their momma

[@KatytheNightOwl]

I'm constantly amazed at the things you think about, Andrea, and there is so much in what you say that hits home to me , as I listen to your 'chats' :) I come from a large family, although we weren't as close as yours is, so I didn't get to experience the things that your children are experiencing with each other, right now - and so I love to watch your vids of everyday life, and how your children react to each other so lovingly. I only have one child, by the grace of God - my miracle baby - as I was told from a young age that, due to ongoing health problems, I'd never have children. But my beautiful girl was born to me - in a hospital - but my husband was actually the one who delivered her, took the cord from around her neck as she was born, and watched her first breath. The midwife thought I'd be a long time birthing, so went out for a break, and that's when my girl chose to be delivered! :) It's something that my husband and I have as the most wonderful of memories, and it made us closer than ever, to each other, and to our child :) I get what you mean about 'Genjutsu' though, as this prevented me having the courage to home-school my only child - although my biggest worry there, was that she would be on her own all the time - which, as it happens, wouldn't have been as much of a problem, as going to school became for her :( Anyway, I love that your whole family rely on each other, and totally on God, to steer your paths in life, and I ook forward to seeing your new edition when she comes into the world. Happy Christmas Andrea, to you and all your extended family, and may your New Year, of 2018, be a most wonderful year to you all! :)

[@TheMillsFamilyVlog]

Birthing with your husband is such an immensely bonding experience. I wonder what marriages would be like if everyone got to have that intimate welcome for their children. For our early births, Tom was relegated to 3rd or 4th fiddle. When Sophia came and it was just him and I, it was the most special time for us. Sophia, also, seems to have bonded with Tom in a different way than our children did that were born with others present.

[@hansenels1]

Thank you for this story. We have three children and we are waitng for a foster child who needs care. I loved your story about the "perfect" family. It is so true. God bless you and your family.

[@Tammy_Yeck]

I always enjoy your heart to heart talks. You always encourage me in my walk with the Lord as well as where He has led our family. We have been blessed with 8 children and 3 await us in heaven. I would love to have more if He so chooses to bless, I am soon to be 48 and realize my fertility may be over, but remain hopeful all the same. We have had 5 home births and how I wish I had all of them at home. We also are a "home school" family and have since day one. What you shared really helped to concrete the decisions we have made over the years, I am very thankful that I didn't listen to the over powering voices that screamed how foolish we were and continue to be. Thank you for sharing! You are a blessing! I love your fabrics for your new little one.

[@sarahgoltz7949]

I come from a big family and I enjoy watching your videos and hearing your thoughts. Prayers for you and your family. Happy Christmas and New year. God bless! 💛💜💙💚♥️❤️😊

[@elizabeths4183]

Thank you so much for this video. It brought me to tears. Such an encouragement and something that I really needed to watch. I never leave KZbin comments but I wanted you to know this was really, really a help to me. Thank you!!!

[@melissafasel4202]

Thank you so much, we are currently trying for baby number 5 . And I desperately want a home birth . You have brought so much light to my day .

[@raisingheartsforheaven]

Yay!!! A girl!! Congrats Andrea and family. She will be so loved. What a lucky girl to be born into such a beautiful family.

[@LITEvlogsTV]

I reference back to this video so many times. My best birth was inside of my van and my last birth with number nine was a total "genjutsu".

[@dragonflyneb]

It has taken me years to understand this but in the back of my mind have known this. Well said and yes our life is in God's hand and does know what is best.

[@fettymartin1306]

Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom , you make me excited to start my family . I'm going to try the progesterone cream you recommended . Whenever I'm sad or have a rough day , your videos always put a smile on my face 💕

[@LiveLoveLaughxx2010]

I absolutely love your videos. Your insight is inspiring! Love, love, love listening to you!

[@philosophinix]

Thank you for this beautiful message.

[@staciesaemann1173]

I am so glad you talked about this today. I just had a similar conversation with a family member. I think too many people take God out of the equation and that's the problem. God bless you and your family

[@thesmithshow4397]

Andrea its amazing that this is exactly what I needed to hear in this moment. Thank you for sharing this ❤

[@theoriginaledi]

I love all of your videos but this is by far my very favorite type. Your thoughts are always both thought-provoking and encouraging. As far as I can tell, I agree with almost all of your theology and we think in much the same way, but it's still powerful and uplifting to have these occasional reminders and encouragements. It really means a lot to me and I thank you for sharing it. All the time you were talking about false reality, I kept thinking about Ephesians 6:12-18 and 2 Corinthians 10:3-5.* We must understand that the world around us is filled with illusions -- some created with the intent to deceive but many created with the best of intentions -- and we can only discern them by viewing it with our spiritual eyes and the wisdom that God provides. Only by covering ourselves with truth, righteousness, the good news of his peace, faith, scripture, and lots of prayer can we experience the fullness of the wonderful reality that he has prepared for us. * A slightly abbreviated version of those passages for anyone who might not be familiar with them: Ephesians 6:12-18 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against... the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that... you may be able to stand your ground... with the belt of truth... the breastplate of righteousness... and with your feet fitted with the readiness [of] the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. If you want to see the full verses and don't have a Bible handy, I highly recommend biblegateway.com. The quotes above are from the NIV. :-)

[@SweetGlitter1309]

I seriously love your videos and sit down chats. They leave me with so much peace in knowing that "having it all" is just a falsehood.

[@teresametts1097]

This really helped me. My son and i have been having a serious disagreement about something that we cant agree on. We both see the same issue in a very different way. This may hrlp me understand him. Thank you.

[@sherrygorman2847]

An excellent episode. Thank you for sharing!

[@debbiemorgan6701]

Bless your heart! Praying for you!

[@kimr4610]

Thank you, Andrea! You have so much wisdom from God!💕