PPJ: Genuine Pretending: Authenticity in the age of Social media

This episode we talk about becoming super famous you guys!!! Oh Gosh, how are we going to deal with fame ?!;-) No, but thank you for making us one of the most trending podcasts in the country. We value you spending time with us as we use the show as an excuse to just hang out….

[@MrsTindi]

Its like a group of friends having authentic conversations, having each other.. Its so rich, it reasonates with most of us i believe. Kudos PPJ

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Thank you:)

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Tindi ❤

[@drcissyatwine]

Wama thanks Primah for looking out for us the general peers in the audience and explaining the meta rules and other words that might go over our heads 🤣

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahahaaaa! And yet you're in the smart crowd who knows the words 😅

[@drcissyatwine]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 thanks for the episode..as a content creator as well i related alot with your points.. eg i also share alot of videos about what i have been through so it helps someone else have it easier 🙂

[@rhodamusiima7327]

Favourite show in Uganda right now. The value added is unmatched. Thank you for the insights you selflessly share mazima.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you darling

[@jdm3762]

Right, they are so rich and diverse in thought! My favourites from home ❤️

[@leahoginga]

Congratulations on being among the top podcasts in Uganda! Listening from Kenyaa!!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank youuuuuu

[@runnert6012]

Just subscribed because of Pumla. I missed her research based inputs during discussions when she was on Bump Love. I also like Primah's vibe and she appears to be open minded person who can easily interact with people who have different beliefs even though she identifies as a devoted christian. Joel, also enjoy to see that you're confident/comfortable being around 2 strong & smart Afro queens ❤ Can't wait to see where you guys will take this show.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We love that you're here ❤

[@malamachimfwembe312]

Even me😂😂😂 I told myself that all pumla's friends are my friends 😂😂. And I miss you responding to my comments 😅😅

[@muyanjaangel3950]

The vocabulary I keep learning from you people😁😁😁….Am here for it.

[@alokayamariug2929]

Ehh...... PPJ these conversations are so rich, so much depth but also deeply authentic. Thank you so much for being intentional about this. I'm officially hooked. This is an everyday battle with the everyday me and the social media me...... The impact of our communication online is something we really gotta be mindful about. IT HIT HOME for me. Enough of these spontaneous random postings. THANKS PPJ

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love this ❤

[@nuwahweraalvin]

Pr. Primah I really appreciate your wisdom. Id watch your podcast religiously. You are such a detailed thinker.

[@FaithKyazike]

I love you guys Every PPJ episode for me is an opportunity to learn a thing or two

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love you right back ❤

[@swabrahgyagenda]

Minute 30 when Joel starts to talk about the 3 character thingies has me on choke hold. Loved every bit of this episode!❤It has done so much for me, you have no idea...

[@natashal17]

I’m glad I hooked you up guuurrrllll 😂😂😂 now it’s you that sends me episodes reminders to watch 😅😅

[@swabrahgyagenda]

@@natashal17 Beyonce, I want to thank you 😂😂😂❤️

[@anyayomartha2431]

I love PPJ episodes. Even before watching, I am excited to listen and learn.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You are our target audience ❤

[@miriambuhule1]

This group of friends gel so perfectly together. I love me a healthy educative conversation with different opinions and yet mutual respect.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@jdm3762]

Yay! My Sunday just got elevated to being the best day of the week! That intro 🔥 😄

[@HannahStaceyBaluka]

Jokes aside, you guys make me smile at my laptop when I listen to you. You are really so smart in the brains.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Thank you😊

[@sonnet_artist1]

When Joel starts to speaks for more than 3 minutes....😮😮😮😮the genuine pretence got me😏🙉

[@tinaford6619]

PPJ is the best notification I get! The intro dance gave me so much joy! I haven’t even started

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

[@NotAnathaMotvationalSpeaka7520]

I saw Allan in Joel's glasses 😂 I type this as I am listening to Allan speak.

[@Jtinaable]

This here is a life changer episode. Well done PPJ

[@Shafikwasswa]

Hey PPJ, To be specific on the question of J, after P & P's submission at 16 mins on the video, I am authentically free to say that: You are indeed hidden treasures whose value may only be seen by a select few till a deep dig is done for the majority. To those who stay until the very end, driven by excitement and curiosity, I extend my heartfelt gratitude, to be honest.

[@olivia-kim-abba]

PPJ I am one of your fans. Your conversations are wholesome and absolutely relatable. Thank you for bringing us all this journey of life.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you for journeying with us. Glad you're here love ❤

[@jariatnakitende3393]

My Nabachwa.. I will always follow you❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@nyakunipatricia3558]

...people will consume you thinking they know everything about you yet they only know bits of you....interestingly true!

[@alokayamariug2929]

Wabuuuuuuuuuuuuuula Joel and his english, next episode i'm definitely having my websters dictionary next to me as I watch. Consistency is the hobgoblin (NICE ONE) Very educative also ...

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I also need a Webster for the pod

[@florahrugina1541]

I enjoyed the grand opening of the dance... you people are so amazing With Love from Tz 255

[@muniramuhamed4542]

Hahahhaa always love being here…❤❤❤

[@brendaasiimwe3383]

It’s always great to hear PPJ’s diverse insights on things. I could resonate with many points, Prima being on the fence about fully launching her niche wisdom online, Pumla coming into her purpose, Joel for his unique insights infused with philosophy( takes me back to grad school😅).With that said, I checked and it appears you paused the posting of audio version of these episodes, uploads stopped in May, it would be nice to have these up to listen on the go. Thanks

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

PPJ has audio versions? 😎

[@brendaasiimwe3383]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 found it on Spotify😃

[@namulindageorgette.m6243]

Apart from the content,I come to this page to also learn English. Joel has all the new words today

[@nyakunipatricia3558]

like Profilicity

[@kelly8973]

Pumla I have done so many things after learning from you. Prima i will never forget you didn't do sciences because you didn't want to ever feel how you felt when you were last. That shaped the way i want to raise my daughter

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Banange 5th last lol

[@natashakimberly2131]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@primahkyambadde6436

[@alokayamariug2929]

Great energy here, and y'all compliment each other so perfectly.

[@lavendermind6883]

Without meaning to even when you take on different topics requiring your different experiences and mental sides..you still come off consistent, authentic genuine and that other word profil bla bla .that other word Joel said..I love your engagements and easy banter you keep us glued here....waiting for the next episode...I feel like you guys portray a side each one of us can relate to...I think I have a Prima and on another hand a Pumla in me.... ❤

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Kwegamba thé profilicity is sincere and authentic😂 thank you for watching

[@belindakatumba4849]

I can totally relate with having highly contrasting parts of my personality coming out on different channels I use. Very interesting (and much needed) conversation.. obsessed with PPJ 🧡

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Thank you for being here Belinda:)

[@hannahmugyenyi6309]

I really really enjoy this podcast

[@eyvonndua8162]

Wooi !! allow each to finish,ya ll talking over each other.Love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@menyasandra811]

Pumla my best gal, u are the best

[@marinahtumwebaze9276]

Joel ayambadde obupale bwa Elijah Kitaka🤭🤭

[@dianaayikoru395]

😂😂😂😂

[@sharonmuhire6407]

Really really enjoyed this episode. Thank you so much for your wisdom guys. So many take homes❤

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Kamayangi!!!!! Thank you for watching:)

[@alokayamariug2929]

Really enjoyed this one.

[@judithnamawejje2619]

I like this topic ❤

[@roseannuwe7126]

Pumla I like the way you have created boundaries. Work office and your other life.

[@justinenansimbe3341]

My favourite show on internet. Lwakuba maama mulumya. We have to wait for two months to have an episode. Please guyz make this weekly

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Hahahaha let’s first enjoy this one. More are coming:)

[@MariaGorretyNamubiru]

I enjoy these conversations so much! 😂😂Can never miss any!❤

[@turyatungamartha1010]

Have enjoyed this discussion. Pumla I’m sure you and this show has had a big impact on many people, personally I like your way of reasoning and explaining things and is why I followed you here. The numbers(views/subscribers) is testament to the impact y’all are creating, there is so many shows and social media’s, so people choosing to invest their time and data to listen to you shows they value your content and learn from it

[@namutebidorothyssozi67]

Give us more it's episodes pumla go save bump love,wherever u go we go

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahahaaa! Love that you're here

[@Flourish_today]

I like how Pumla and Primah out their hands on each other. So endearing. I really love that.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Awwwwww:)

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@petuamwesigwa4564]

I love the wisdom in your shows. Keep going

[@krystakizito7244]

I am here for the English 😂 and I find your conversations very insightful. I always leave with something to reflect on.

[@rachealayanga8235]

@Prima, personally, I am waiting for the podcast..You spoke to me when you talked about career..However, the boldness to take the leap and leave little salo behind gives me drenching sweats.. Please do it soon.. ❤

[@JanetNshimyeKasigazi]

Primah just inspired me to write an "I am excited" post on linkedin! I had to pause the episode and be bolder, thank you!

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Exciting!!! Remain consistent and watch the magic happen

[@elizabethnakayiza8276]

Wabula the J in PPJ is bright eeehhh. Bambi Primah now I know the caliber of women you are looking for for him😅

[@olivia-kim-abba]

Prima thank you for always representing us who need an English dictionary to be able to converse with Joel😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hallejudy]

There should be a part two. This conversation is hard

[@fatumahkirabo1758]

I always wait for you guys 😊😊😊 ,I love ppj ,it's so educative Wala very educative 😊😊😊, every time I see the notification 🤤I know, am gonna seek knowledge Love ❤️ you all 🤩

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love this ❤

[@mubiruhussein7541]

When joel said his legs are fantastic; and pumla says “are they though “😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂 I applogise 😂

[@joyk4408]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@atuhairweysamantha]

Lol at joel and his hoochie daddy shorts 😂..

[@imacayebazibwe]

Ok, Prima's behind 😂

[@semandarobert9051]

I love you guys 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@stellapacuto3230]

Just thinking if there is a co-relationship between social media engagement and attachment styles... surely it might reflect how we show up or not! other than that love PPJ as always @sister Prima we ready for the podcast!

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Stelllaaaa:):) Wbaula we have connected things - now attachment and social media engagement- that should be really interesting!!

[@malaikatabby]

I really waited too long for this one!

[@imacayebazibwe]

Pumla, I love your careless laugh. You are like me

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@anonnona6433]

Joel was given some good airtime today and he was able to complete his sentences and thoughts 😂

[@primahkyambadde6436]

We tried dear:)

[@RosesandBliss6767]

Allan what are your handles me i follow you. But on a nother note you guys help to tickle the my dormant side of my brain since i don't have people many around me with brilliant minds such as yours and it's even harder to find them being am such an introvert who is not good with people. So please keep the PPJ going and thank you for sharing your time and intellect with us.❤

[@katek4724]

Great episode and timely discussion. Social media has taken quite a turn and has the ability to shape society's views and culture. I am afraid for my toddler children...the information online is just so much, how do you sift through that. Like you guys I got a phone as an adult so I could self regulate but now what of our gen alpha kids?

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

The younger kids will grow up regulated because this was part of their childhood. It will be normal. Don't worry

[@rachealayanga8235]

@Joel,wooow! Normalcy is truly relative: i totally agree.. You can imagine how it would raise eyebrows to read that in the victorian era and 10th century, high heels and make up were for men!

[@alokayamariug2929]

Hahahahahaha..... Pumla you have a very unique way of communicating, tis a gift. And when the non-verbal twins with the verbal (Case in point 58:39) THE POINT HAS HIT HOME. I think when we constantly need to as ourselves the WHY question, and that will drive all our engagements online instead of sometimes letting pressure dictate what we do online

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

The 'WHY'. That's it.

[@patemoshelashawelaka3289]

I missed Pumla😢

[@quinent6578]

Kuddos its cool

[@terrynamagga7964]

Well done Joel and team

[@A_S_Obwoya]

Prima.... 'Works for the people ' 😅😅

[@primahkyambadde6436]

I am here to serve!!

[@christinenakazzi280]

Before you have a conversation with Joel, you need google 😂😂.Prima thankyou for simplifying things,Pumla ❤.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂

[@horohelen1084]

I agree with Prima, those scripture posts perplex me.

[@aberpatricia5730]

I missed you guys😂😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Definitely missed you too 😊

[@kihembodoreen7368]

Joel's Kitaka shorts. It should be noted that that is the only acceptable length of shorts.

[@Zahr-Jinda]

First hea today Like I tapped as soon as

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yaaaaàaaayyyyyy

[@hamidahnantege8572]

Love

[@ShineProssy]

Auchiiii you're here 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@irinatwepatienceblessed3752]

Naye Joel akazungu 🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️ we are trying to catch up with you ssebo

[@vivianneabwooli4909]

Oh Pumla u hv just made me feel that ts ok that ma teenage daughter’s phone is hers… and not for me to invade….atleast i know another mother to a teenager feels like me… thx P

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I'm so happy. Parents of teenagers ❤

[@StellaNabatyanga]

Pumla wont we be star struck in peace....Anyways i am not an intern though 😀😀😀.I guess i would be star struck if i met you. But i can agree it can be overwhelming if we are all looking for you. But you are very intelligent and admirable. And effortlessly beautiful

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@kaberaangel]

You had me at the title 😂😂

[@effect9180]

One day i went to cnooc...as i was signing in the entrace book, i saw the previous name was Pumla Nabacwa...guess what? I wanted to sit and wait till i see her naye it was working hrs

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@annieassists]

This notification makes me sooooooooooo happyLotsa love from Kenya

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy...I love me some +254 ❤

[@rachealayanga8235]

Pumla, you have made an outstanding statement that every mum needs to hear kubanga teenage years are upon us.'if your mum knew what you were doing, she would have judged herself as a mom! Woow!. Ama put that in a song🎉❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

It's so true. My mom would have fasted my entire teenage decade had she known kubanga I wasn't a joke 😂.. All I needed was guidance. And I turned out okay 😊

[@rachealayanga8235]

​@pumlanabachwa8668 lol @ fasting. But on another note, I am curious. If Teja was a girl, would you be tempted to look at her fon? I ask, because I think the girl would bring a different set of fears to you and because she is oblivious of certain outcomes, might you want to steer her boat a little?

[@ChamilaNagujja]

Didn't buy data but now i have to😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yes you have to

[@RichardKusiima]

Two words summarize Pumla's engagement today, "Cognitive Dissonance"! She starts off by emphasizing her view on followers, likes etcetera and ends up disassociating herself from the engagement or reactions she doesn't like from these very followers who probably are genuinely expressing what they feel about the content or ideas she volunteers to put out there before them; typically a bias exhibited by a majority of folks that, whether out of ignorance or willful blindness, are the very thing they do not like or appreciate from the audiences they constantly and deliberately dress up, show up and perform for, voluntarily, every single time. That they will be happy when their ideas are liked or appreciated but get switched off at the slightest challenge, unable to deal with or appreciate entropy! Being on social media or putting yourself out there is, to put it well, you choosing to lay your bed of roses, if that makes sense!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

This inaccuracy emphasizes my points about social media. People will form conclusions about you & your life based entirely on the 8% you give them. And that's fine because well...human nature. Anyone who says I get switched off by a challenge has no clue what they are talking about because there is nothing I like or indulge in more 😂. This analysis, while faulty is appreciated. Joel would love your big words.

[@RichardKusiima]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 My comment was in regards to your conversations in this particular video, things you actually expressed and not anything one is percieving or has an opinion about - again, to my point, two words, 'Cognitive Dissonance'. What I aporeciate, and I believe would be the same for most of the folks that follow tge PPJ conversations, is the unique personalities you have brought together to have engagement on issues or topics each of you have extremely varying opinions or feelings about and still keep it together as PPJ. The beauty, however, would be if this same brand is avle to extend beyond the three main characters and allow the entropy that comes with engaging on social platforms such as these. Many we see fail to make it beyond the core unit they are missing out on the power that comes with having a brand or identity or even culture that now extends to an audience greater than the self. True, I am sure Joel, whowould sail in the space as you have indicated I happen to find very interesting from a very long time ago and someone whose conversations and thinking I constantly follow, would find a good challenge something to deliberate upon. That said, PPJ is an amazing mission, in my opinion, and the converaations you all bring wouldn't be the same without thw three of you at it regardless of how a single individual such as myself would feel. So keep doing what y'all do and dont let me kill your vibe.

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

❤❤❤❤

[@Viola_ug]

Respectfully, Joel needs to be okay with the fame coming his way. He needs to find hamony with the social persona. 😊

[@juliataboko1093]

Prima is so playful 😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

She is 😂

[@swabrahM]

Pumla has said X is a dust bin.... I haven't recovered... Kyoka i follow her thea

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@AidahNansubugasalama]

Am also team ppj,I can't miss you guys

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yaaaaàaaaayyyy

[@AinamaaniTweheyo]

1:13:42 I knew from a young age that I was meant for greatness!!! Word…..

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We are all meant for greatness. Thank you for this reminder ❤

[@claudiaakot2270]

probably the second one here🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@LisaHernandez-b4g]

Gerhold Isle

[@KamaranziBarungi]

Joel puts words to those nagging thoughts that you have but just can’t explain 😂

[@brendadawa4165]

But PPJ, I remember your previous episode left us on the hook. I thought you were to continue with the relationships conversation

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaha! We'll come back to it.

[@sharonmuhire6407]

❤

[@DeDollyshow]

Hey ppj ❤ Hey, pumla 😻

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Heeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyy

[@carolasiimire6604]

Dead @Trials of brother Jero

[@jeremiah08kush]

@Pumla you slid in the house manager situation. Please, one of these days bring us up to speed on how this is working for you. Is it a he? Does he take care of outside work only? Is he an askari? Does he cook for himself? Please teach a sister because I am looking at taking this route now that my babies are grown

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh! Yes...I will speak on it more. But briefly to answer your questions, yes he is a he who takes care of the outside (cleaning & security) and the inside - cleaning, washing & ironing. He cooks for himself in an outside kitchen. I cook for myself & child inside. We have a boundary - to preserve privacy, he doesn't enter the main house when I am home unless I make a request for something like washing dishes after I've cooked or to help with an activity that requires extra hands.

[@jeremiah08kush]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 thank you for this

[@mariannanakabuye3832]

The English ba dear

[@dandadagoldman6265]

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