Sad i kept it in watch later for this long.

Shopping and going to the market may not be controlling, it could be chipping in or flexibiity to help. Its all companionship and working together. But thanks guys, always nice to watch and listen. Bless u guys.

Pumla u are the best

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You guys are so funny banange!!! eehhhh!!!! i have just helplessly subscribed >>>

Pumla 48:36 men are more privileged. Let’s even use your example of child birth, child rearing and what not. Because we are privileged to be the ones that bear and nurture the children, it affects several aspects of our lives. After child birth, you can just walk out and go to work. You have to stay home for some months before you can work again. Some employers are hesitant to hire newly wed women or women of child bearing age, because they will soon get pregnant and their productivity will reduce. Then we have to deal with the mum guilt. While at work, you are restless and wondering whether the people you left in charge if your child are doing a good job. That stuff doesn’t affect most men as much. Some men are excited about paternity leave because it’s more time to watch soccer.

Let me forward this to the men around me. I will always try to advocate for men. It always takes alot of emotional maturity for men to reach that level of Allan and his friends

The chemistry. Wooo !

Just subscribed today and im literally obsessed

Noice 👍

“You chic you have normal privilege” took me out😂😂😂

Interesting conversation,,,,Joe's thought process is👌🏽,the ladies contribution too,,😊😊

I was always looking forward to every Friday to see what u had for us on bump love....now I came here on PPJ ...but u should make it weekly or monthly,u take long namwe mulimbamu ko

Like your conversation guys❤❤ 254

Male privilege is a real thing dear Pumla.

This pod 👌🏾

Waiting for part 2

Hi PPJ welldone guys I love ya show pls hook me up with Joel it's ok to be friends if it's ok with him thanks

No to the last question

A question to the Subscribers here and viewers, how do you support / Empower your househelps ? ( in the Hope that they will not stay on this Job for all their lives)

Thank you PPJ for sharing your experiences . Last year I realised that even in the middle lower class, or upper lower class, there might be someone you have a certain privilege over. My househelp who could not complete school because of schools fees shared how hard someone in their village has to work to earn 1000Ugshs ( if anyone has farmed before, imagine having to make 30 sweet potato heaps to earn 1000Ugshs)...when will a parent raise 200,000 for Schools fees and if they have to multiply thi by 3 children. ) I appreciated that I was privileged and I pledged to support atleast 2 of her siblings through school for as long as they are interested.

Love u guys

Brilliant conversation here. So, all along, Joel is a high-end fellow who comes off on us as omuntu wawansi? The guy speaks international jazz only!😂

This was very educative thanks guys

Very great information thank you from this moment I can't think about any romantic relationship without being tested.....

Very enlightenment 😊 Thank you guys

Oyegeza bwavu keeps on taking me out...😂😂😂

You guys have u seen Pumla's ring ??🥰❤.PPJ thank u for keeping us going this year. Happy new year.

A very humbling episode..thanks guys.

Conversations that need to be revisited...

People have spoilt "berryblast" for me.😂😅

What a nice way to close 2024. Me, I can tell u about pretty privilege. In high school, being dark-skinned, I was friends with lighter skinned girls, n trust me, the experience was horrible for me.

The message was very insightful!! Also you two are really cute 🥰

Prima...I love the way it evolved for you.. communication and respect for each other's desires...very key.

Bruh, the way Joel breaks down structural issues and his awareness of his male privilege is superb. You guys complement each other so well. I thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Well done.

Beautiful conversation peeps

Pumla, about giving back to less privileged women you said it at bump love. You’re just ❤❤

Wowwww Joel wowwww 👌👌👌😊❤️🥰

Thank you for sharing

Second time am watching this but the Namulindwa part caught me off guard each time😂😂😂😂

Former Lisa!😊

thanks for this information. Very eye opening... even at my age

My best podcast in Uganda to watch!Always looking forward to your episodes. Notifications have been turned on.

Mpozi those artificial fireplaces create what mood? 😅. There's Christian spelling bees??🙄 kyoka Allan😂😂. Joel is my role model. Am 36yrs now & not rushing to get married.

Wabula pumla has stories hahahaaa😂😂. Been binge watching these shows since yesto😂😂😂

Joel is such a philosopher. I have to pose after some of his points to ‘load’. 😅

For women, pretty privilege is consequential! In that it permeates aspects such as your dating/ marriage prospects, your access to goods, sometimes services ( pretty people tend to be listened to more, helped more, etc). Promotions too. And even believability/ halo effect comes from how attractive someone is to a degree. There are whole studies on how pretty privilege even for men, they may not be termed as pretty, but attractiveness has a role to play in how far in life sometimes you can get.

I love the lighting on this set. Y’all are so smart

I hear "say it again" got me smiling 😅

Wabuuuuuula y’all are smaaaaaaaaaaaaart. Pheeeeeeeeeeeuuuw. #PPJ what a perfect combination on the set. Well done

Beauty is the greatest recommendation