#PPJ

[@Shamallamasingsong]

Pumla, you look absolutely fabulous with your natural hair!

[@doreenomolo1698]

Free therapy. thank you PPJ for sharing in your wisdom and awesomeness🎉blessings

[@brendadawa4165]

Thanks PPJ. I would advise my younger self especially my 20s to be more intentional and deliberate in everything I did. I was just flowing with life, for example as long as I had a job I would relax and life moves on. But now I know that just having the job is not enough, you have to set goals for promotions and climbing the career ladder. You have to strive to perform. Success to me is subjective and it is achieving whichever goal one sets. For example now in my 30s, I write down a set of goals at the beginning of every year. And if I achieve those goals then I’m successful and I celebrate every bit. If I set out to get rid of acne and by the end of the year I clear my skin, that’s success to me

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I love this lesson Brenda. I totally relate. Kyoka we had a section of skincare but we talked too much and time got finished. Next time.

[@brendadawa4165]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 the prolonged talks were necessary and I can't wait for part 2 where relationship lessons will be discussed.

[@gloswaan]

Not me starting my workday by watching this episode and laughing like a fool! 🤣🤣🤣

[@inspire7759]

It's my first time here but I love Prima's ideas already. But also Joel's explanation for success for me. I agree

[@barbzmuwonge3012]

Its so refreshing to listen to an intelligent man... very rare combination of good looks and sense. pleasant indeed

[@Avellino256]

Stalking Pumla and her wisdom...Not in a bad way...lol....She serves brains

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! Appreciate the compliment. We're glad you're here. Wait till you digest the brains of Primah & Joel

[@Avellino256]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 I know...i follow Joel on twitter...oba his to bright...sometimes his knowledge is hard for me to process...i only understood his post when he is asking advice from 40 year olds since hes oba turning 40.Primah is bright to i can understand her knoweledge...For Joel i accepted i will have to learn how to digest...and bdw here on PPJ oba atleast because he is speaking but on twitter its pure philosophy

[@juliataboko1093]

Thank you Prima for representing the relational God we serve

[@samanthanagaba2872]

All I see is an intentional friendship; three beautiful minds sharing about concepts that matter! We needed this. It’s good to find your channel. Thank you PPJ for being intentional. Will go look for more of your episodes.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Samantha ❤

[@lennoxtushabee.1221]

I love how you guys are able to have rich and enlightening exchange but have fun while at it, Kudos am here for it💯

[@nantumejulie9578]

Pumula changed her hair style 👌👌

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Baby girl. I have 2 Hairstyles. One includes my natural hair.

[@janewerikhe9528]

Hahaha

[@isaacbaguma7779]

Hadn't noticed

[@deborahprisca8199]

​@@pumlanabachwa8668was about to inform her that its usually her natural hair styled or the other hairstyle...

[@namukwayasarah]

Surprised

[@juliataboko1093]

As an introvert who loves and cares for people around me,i agree with Joel , when he says he feels the energy of people around him and makes sure everyone is okay .it can be draining and i also need time to decompress😊

[@murungiatusasiire9904]

The only witty show in Uganda I completed my first degree of BCOM and am now in 4th year law-school, it all makes sense now

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Very happy for you ❤🎉❤

[@hadassahapolot1203]

I love getting to know more of Prima. She is such a delight. 😊

[@mubiruhussein7541]

Thank you Primah , as a lawyer currently going through that stage in my career, i needed to hear your perspective.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

I’m so glad it could help….creatively explore different facets of the law and you just might land on something that works!

[@hadassahapolot1203]

Agreeing with all of Joel’s submissions especially about faith

[@RachealNatukundaByamugisha]

I've enjoyed this so much!

[@samanthamatama]

What I would tell my younger self would be ' you are doing better than you think, embrace curiosity, remember mistakes are part of the journey, dont be afraid to take risks.'

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Embrace Curiosity. YES

[@faithamong2389]

Wow Mistakes are part of the journey

[@samanthamatama]

Prima, I totally agree. Our relationship with God is personal, very difficult to explain or create a rule book or somethings. Great sharing to you all

[@michellemafumbo3123]

I have mindset shifts often because of the I learn and discover along the way, today it will be " doing your best can look different everyday", and tomorrow it will be " forgiveness is for you and not for the other person." It is part of an active life to keep learning and evolving. Such intellectually stimulating conversations are what keep us on the track of self reflection, life analysis and make mindset shifts feel easier. Love it😍😍😍😍Something I'd advise my younger self to do, is to be more individualistic. Love something because you love it not because people love it and just because someone found it hard doesn't mean you will find it hard.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love something because YOU do and not because others do. This is mental independence. May we all strive for it. It's so freeing.

[@mugiziangel8919]

I’m subscribing right away been looking for Nabachwa

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@LilianAyika]

I relate to Primah's faith journey! Cow dance, concerts, and movie nights had me! Many maaaany times, I couldn't choose prayer over them as a teen and young adult, but now, no brainer! Evolution is real, or maybe growth is the right word. Then I feel like my career chose me rather than the other way round 🤗

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Evolution ✅. Growth ✅✅

[@hadassahapolot1203]

Every time Prima says “dear”, a funny thing is right around the corner 😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂

[@GloriaHeavens256]

I relate with Joel's definition of success. Thank you Joel.

[@daphinenamuli7566]

I have read all the comments and replies, I have watched the entire video without forwarding not even for a second. I have surely refreshed my mind, learnt and choose to do better. Merci beaucoup PPJ 🙏

[@whatthetheory]

Wow, thank you!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Namuli. You are the viewers we love ❤

[@stelakem]

These thought provoking conversations! Yes to more of these! 👏👏

[@herriethsteven8407]

Let me tell you,i am just in 7:21 and I can bodly say i bless day i came across PPJ wooooow .The way my heart come alive in such conversation needs to be studied thank you Pumla,Prima and Jo

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@brendamartina5578]

Great episode✨ I’m right there with Joel👏🏽I believe centering community thrives on a healthy amount of communication with the people we choose to commune with that lead to more reflection in our individual lives when we allow room for respectful, authentic conversations.

[@gordonmoguljb]

Pum Pum olabika bulungi the king and queen be shining

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@dorakaysinga3115]

Joel, I totally get you. As an introvert, I'd also always feel the energies in the room as well. So I always matched energies(I'd check and read the room, then see what energy to bring in). As my younger self, a leader, even when I wanted to stay in my shell, and I found avroom full of people who didn't want to budge, and yet things needed to move, then I had to step up and drop my shell, and take charge to set the ball rolling! But all in all, even when I don't say a word, I'm always well aware of the energies in any given scenario.

[@jaymuhumuza]

It can be a lot to process, but I also find we are temperamentally blessed to feel deeply with others around us. A great trait in any leader. Thank you for sharing

[@atenyipauline2852]

Following Pumla from bump love, miss u so much

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I'm here now love. I've missed you too ❤

[@emmamunye2140]

Happy birthday Pumla. Thanks for these mind blowing conversations. We are really blessed. 😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Emma

[@asterlois12]

First time here and am loving the show 🥰

[@nakanjakkomayira586]

You guys, I relate to Joel so much. Like as if we have had similar life experiences. Kati all I need is to be as articulate as he is in expressing the things i believe and my views about life. The cockroaches in my head get in the way, they want me to tell people what they want to hear not what I want to say. Kwegamba, like Joel, I need to stop absorbing people's energies. Mwebale ka episode. Pumla me I was looking at the smile 😜

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahahaaaa! We all have cockroaches Nakanja. You just have to sift through them sometimes 😊

[@faithamong2389]

Life is a summary of your choices ,so profound thanks Auntie P ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@sumayamya357]

Feeling other people's feelings.. He's an empathy. easily picks up on vibe and energy. I get him

[@Mknabunya]

*Empath

[@Patricia53545]

Absolutely great and mind provocative conversations...I love the fact that Prima is very open minded in her conversations and responses...Pumla and Joel bring out lovely conversations that causes the mind to think more...❤❤❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love that you love the trio

[@akirusandra735]

My perspective of success in my younger years was excellence in academics ,getting a job ,making a family ,however this has really evolved ,lately it is about what more can I achieve ,how can impact and how much can I give to others as I give to my self too .I also resonated with the emotional,mental and financial independence .

[@justinenansimbe3341]

PPJ u guys do it for me. Am attracted to your wisdom. Actually I still talk to myself it's ok not to best all the time. This thing would freak me out but now I am getting in terms with it. Love u guyz

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

It's okay not to be the best. Noone will die. Just try not to be the last please 😅

[@FilderOciti]

Wow,what a powerful discussion,Well there 4 things i would change about myself; 1.Being so intentional in anything i do. 2.Saying no and not feeling bad about it. 3.Setting boundaries and sticking to it. 4.Being emotionally,mentally and financially independent .

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I hope you're striving to these elements now 🙏🏾

[@MAN-yq9yi]

I love love love these phiosophical people called PPJ. And this episode mennnh!!!! Its like it just dissected every part of my brain into small small. And what I resonnate with can be summarised into - I would tell my young self NOT NOT NOT to be a people pleaser AND to be Indepedent (Nobody is your mother after 18 woooo so grow up child). All your individual stories touched on those 2. God bless your intellect banange, When I grow up I want to be like you😋 , yes all of you.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I love to read this ❤

[@aishanamusaazi]

Am exited to be here in the first place was addicited to pbumula am glad can see her now

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Karibuni ❤

[@gloriaclare8]

Someone who loves you can still hurt you ….wow …taking Notes Thank you beautiful intelligent people … just Iove listening to u

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@nigesadiana3031]

😅😅😅 I am a laughing because how do you all carry opinions that I relate with . Like there is a me in each one of you . I enjoyed this episode. Thank you guys 😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We are glad 🎉

[@NAMULINDAPHIONA]

Pumla you are really loved!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I don't take it for granted. Kisses babe.

[@lorettatukahirwa6079]

Telling my brain to bring me healthy life choices 😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

And they shall come. Amen

[@nabakka_vivian]

I love how PPJ added some amazing pictures of their younger selves. Beautiful conversations. I also feel like Joel tends to have a line of thought but doesn’t drive it to the end maybe because he’s also very philosophical 🧐 and tries to add all this philosophy that the point is lost somewhere there. Oba it was the drink!! Anyhoo, I love this combo😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! He truly is deeply philosophical so the time allocated is just not enough kubanga the info in his head 🙆🏾‍♀️. We would need another lifetime. Naye we have noted this. We'll learn summary next time. Thanks

[@FilderOciti]

We are looking at an amazing intelligent lady,so full of vibes,wisdom and beauty ❤❤Happy belated dear Pumla,may the Almighty continue to amaze you.

[@helenams4602]

By looking at Pumla’s picture , I see a smiling person ❤

[@adrineanxious5523]

😂

[@WINFREDNANSAMBA]

I just love her openness, straight from bump love. Wano sivaawo bby

[@jdm3762]

Yay! What a treat on this fine Monday evening ❤ Been waiting since you referenced having PPJ next on your last episode. Thank you.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love that you are here ❤

[@thebakdrop]

This was such a wholesome conversation honest and refreshing on so many levels. Still trying to understand the atheist Christian yet it somehow made sense. Prima loved your salvation story. As usual Pumla brought me here. I enjoyed watching all of you hearing each other out despite differences in opinions.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you ❤

[@swabrahgyagenda]

As an introvert, I actually agree that we soak in people's emotions a lot. I love how he said J said it, introverts tend to be people pleasers and they also feel everything everyone is feeling and its such a burden and its painful tbh. the way I want to be part of the conversation 😭😂 I think we don't necessarily do the careers we wanted to do as children but we still try to be the people we wanted to be. Like I may not necessarily become a doctor but my heart will still try to do something that ensures I am helping people. Oba that makes sense?? So I get what Allan's kids say, maybe we all felt that as children? and then people started asking us about careers??

[@faithamong2389]

The end was mostive though .❤ Happiest birthday Auntie P .Our independent advocate 💐

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Faith ❤

[@swabrahM]

bump lover here but prima u are glowing................. just missed the ppj

[@malaikamalaika4062]

Naye Pumla,it's kayayaana. Thank you for the show ,guys. First time here and I love it🎉

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you mumbejja Malaika 😅

[@Sono_favorito.83]

Great conversations, keep it up guys

[@kakafaiza9722]

This is interesting…I’m learning a lot

[@tumusiimephyllis7224]

This was such an insightful episode. As is all of PPJ episodes really if we are being honest, but there is so much in this episode that I resonated with. So much to take notes on. Y'all are a very wise bunch and we appreciate you for sharing it with us. Happy birthday to Pumla. ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Phyllis ❤

[@minkrasi]

Happy birthday Pumla!! Lovely conversation........

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you love

[@muniramuhamed4542]

THE LONG WAIIIITTTTTTTT…..! Missed y’all together ❤

[@Jacquelinembugua]

Here from +254 and I missed pumla from bump love.am happy to see her here

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Now you know where we'll be. Glad to have you here ❤

[@AngellaAguda-xf1ih]

Interestingly enough. No matter what I advised (warn) my younger self. I know that she is the kind of person who won't listen. So I would encourage her to be herself. Live her life the way she wants to live it. She is smart enough to understand what is best for her. Whatever mistakes she makes.. she will be able to live with them. Cause she is strong enough, intelligent enough, intuitive enough to seek a higher power ( God) or love and guidance. And just like Pumla mentioned, success to her will be about having social, emotional, mental and financial independence

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

"She won't listen" is Crazy 😂😅😂. Truth is - my younger self also wouldn't so bambi...

[@Flourish_today]

Pumla since you asked us to tell you what we were looking at, i was looking at cleverage. Yes mammm! You looked radient.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Wamma you are the 1st person to tell the truth

[@sumayamya357]

Happy birthday Pumla...we love loving you.......

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Asante ❤

[@lavendermind6883]

I like the way that you guys are set in your ways and how you have come to that area...your definition of success..Pumla's was like circles..defined and easy to measure ...Prima's was like arrows in different directions...in progress..and Joel's definition was a zigzag.....not easy to understand ...😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Circles. Arrows. Zigzag. Sounds like a beautiful picture ❤

[@lavendermind6883]

@pumlanabachwa8668 I perceive my senses in colours and circles..its called synesthesia..check it up

[@minkrasi]

Thanks for this...as I reflect on this...I would tell me younger self to live life with a sense of more urgency! for sure not to stay in one job doing roughly the same thing for 10yrs!! move move move.....its scary...but thats how you grow!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

It's scary...but that's how you grow ❤.

[@deekmuninga]

Love you guys. Love your chemistry together. I relate with most of Prim’s opinions on career, faith… I love Joel’s Ubuntu spirit. Naye Ms. Nabachwa. Allow people to love you properly,😃 I see you rushing to close the episode. First wait and take it in😅 Mwebale for the bu pics. We like them.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaaaaaaa! It's a Perfect Combiiiiii 🎉

[@zwigss]

Haha, the millennial urge to make the peace sign.😅 Totally loved this episode. 😊

[@ayitestellag8529]

Oh Baby gal i missed you on Bump Love, i am so grateful i got your channel.i will stick here like a glue. mwaaa. i am having a difficult adapting to the new Bump Love people.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We are here on PPJ sweetheart. Tofaayo. ❤

[@mary_puffin]

May I attempt to answer Joel's question at 1:03:00 about how no one in the Bible was practicing Christianity as we know it today? Abraham was instructed to sacrifice his son, yes. But that instruction was unique to Abraham. God has not given and we can say with some certainty that he will not give that instruction to anyone again, as he has already given his own son. All the stories in the bible in fact, from Genesis to Revelations point to one great event - the cross. It's foreshadowed in all the Old Testament stories from the fall, the sacrifice of Isaac, the covenant with Noah, the covenant of Moses, the judges and the prophets. All those people, without having the full revelation of what was to come like we do, were walking with the same Christian God and within the same principles - righteousness by faith not by works, through Christ's death on the cross. On the issue of Christianity becoming routine, I agree 100%. Most cultural christians have not taken the time to understand their faith and conform their lives to their beliefs. Instead, they choose a lifestyle and seek to justify it with select Christian principles.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Love it. You have taken us to school:)

[@jaymuhumuza]

Thank you forsuch a thougtful response.

[@horohelen1084]

When Primah says dear😅 makes my day

[@zaweddeerinah6504]

I so much relate with Joel

[@natukundadorothy2895]

Lovely conversation right here. I'm like a cocktail of all three of you 😂😂. There's a big decision i made recently regarding "Career" & I'm still getting around how life goes on from here.. Each day comes with surprises, sometimes joy others anxiety.. I'm inclined to Prima's thoughts on Career and hope that all will be well soon. Thank you a lot for this; Love you P.P&J❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

It will all be well 🙏🏾

[@primahkyambadde6436]

It will indeed be fine…..imagine it always works out:)

[@kihembodoreen7368]

People don't talk enough about that growth mindset, Thanks Prima. I have developed it much later in my career and I have thrived.. I remember struggling at a job and eventually resigning because I didn't feel like the smartest person in the room. (Sounds silly now that I type it).. Gosh I felt so stupid. Yet that right there was an opportunity for growth and learning...

[@primahkyambadde6436]

I wish I could double like!I understand 100% and indeed....we live and we learn.

[@alicemusubika8996]

Aaawww. So cute.happy birthday pumla

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Alice 🎉

[@nuuluatshuqran5182]

I hv been looking for Pumla ❤the moment l saw u l hv just subscribed

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We thank you ❤

[@nuuluatshuqran5182]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 love u

[@karagwarebecca8532]

How did we enter menstrual cycle 😂😂😂😂😂😂. I love this trio!

[@nuwahweraalvin]

Ok i will accept i like the three of you officially my favourite podcast

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love you right back

[@chabridgettumusiime8994]

Blessed to be a Blessing 🙏🏾🌹🙏🏾🌹🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💐🌹

[@ayikiriizemartha4640]

Nze Pumla's birthday picture, I see happy vibrant standing girlies.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Girliiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiess 😂😅😂

[@alicemusubika8996]

Would tell my younger self that emotions keep changing and I shouldn't fight hard to get over sadness . I naturally goes just as it comes. Dont get attached to emotions least they control you, and that is disastrous since they are never permanent

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Emotions are fleeting. And while we should be allowed to feel and process them, we must remember not to be controlled by them. Kudos to you Alice.

[@nataliekangwa7221]

Thank you! Can we make this regular?🎉

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yes we can 😊

[@kainebooch]

Primaz body is banging 🔥🔥🔥

[@ruthn336]

Thanks PPJ for this episode... Very insightful episode this one.. i like how you guys tackle a number of issues and the diverse opinions.. On the contrary i hate to be the buzz kill but i wanna point to the faith discussion.... like a relationship with God and rules are one and the same. From an abundance of the relationship these so called rules shouldn't have to feel like rules but instead should be a response of our intimacy with our higher authority and appreciating that we are essentially to live for Him. Wabula for real Pumla you had me on that Kayayana 😂😂then i remembered you are a musama..

[@DeDollyshow]

Wow 😢 i had to clean my screen again, PUMLAAAAAAAAA How I've missed you on my screen❤❤ . I just had to subscribe ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 We'll be here more consistently 🙏🏾

[@asekenyehellen7333]

Happy belated birthday Pumla

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you ❤

[@serakelz]

First episode to watch. 😅I don’t know why I’m late to this. Well done ladies and man

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Madam Kelz!!!! Where have you been:)

[@ainebyonaesther3466]

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ it's very insightful information. Still in my 20z but have picked up alot. Lady Pumla you speak directly to me. Thank you

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I love this for you. You'll be better now that you know better ❤

[@katetsonnie8589]

😂😂 Pumla is ever authentic and today our girl was chilled, hosting the couple Joe and Prima 😂😂 i loved how free Prima hand was all over Joe regardless of the seating distance 😂😂😂 the pressure increases or decreases !

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Creases 😂😂😂😂

[@kakafaiza9722]

Primah and Joel are friends not a couple 😂😂😂

[@katetsonnie8589]

@@kakafaiza9722 read to understand not to respond 😂

[@jaymuhumuza]

@@katetsonnie8589 🤣

[@effect9180]

Im watching all ads for pumla

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahahaaaaa! I appreciate you ❤

[@lornakigozi1747]

The ladies looking very Elegant 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@primahkyambadde6436]

💜

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Lorna

[@belindakatumba4849]

Thanks PPJ for the episode! Was taking notes. 🧡

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love that you love it ❤

[@belindakatumba4849]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 happy birthday! 🤗

[@markshawn7335]

Here because I know Pumla will have a crazy story attached to her sharing

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Always 😂😂😂

[@janerwizy5121]

I love pumlas' hairstyle finally 😍

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahahaa! Back to default settings

[@nakiguddecissy207]

Lets talk children... I want to hear Joel's perspective on them. His thoughts and perspective remind me of someone

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

For sure

[@christinenakazzi280]

😍😍 Monday evening is done let me pull out my note book while I think of advise I would give my self as a teenager.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Share here Christine

[@akellotflorence1170]

nice to meet you here Pumla♥

[@chabridgettumusiime8994]

Pastor Joel 🤣😂🤣😂 very interesting..he explores every thing; philosophy, Bible

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

😊 for Pumla... now let me watch ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

And for the other two, I know you'll stay

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 thihihi and I stayed by subscribing and I enjoyed them as well ❤️

[@MatovoJames]

Great stuff

[@marthamasiko8862]

Ah! Prima! As a 32yr old lawyer I RELATE!!!!!!10/10 Lawyering can be empty… leave you empty and project empty 😢

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Aaaawww Martha. So what are doing to be more fulfilled?

[@marthamasiko8862]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 I’m very intentional about my after work life- I practice a lot of self care..(read a nice big novel, listen to a podcast, a good playlist,golf abit)

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Martha, keep searching…..the law is soooo broad and can open many doors….if the search leads you to a law related thing, well and good, if not, you will be doing something you love but do not settle….i love the quote that says ‘what you are looking for is also looking for you’

[@marthamasiko8862]

@@primahkyambadde6436 thank you!