#PPJ

[@Nambozobev]

This show exudes such authenticity and relatability to the audience.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You are so kind to mention. Thank you Bev ❤

[@anonnona6433]

When are you hosting them on bump love @ Bev 😂😂

[@ChamilaNagujja]

@@Nambozobev yes Bev please host this trio

[@alokayamariug2929]

I totally agree. No fakeness here. Real people having real conversations causing real impact

[@joanjancaronankuta5135]

This was so helpful, I think even before dating it's good to be self-aware just as Pumla said "know who you're better suited with." Thank you for sharing!

[@imacayebazibwe]

"You give someone a finger and they want a whole arm" I can never get tired of listening to Pumla

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Human beings 😅. Thanks love

[@doreenbayoa3829]

Miss her on bump love there is PPJ ❤

[@lavendermind6883]

@imacayebazibwe6412 as a Veterinarian...the words just went in a different direction...and I think I was not alone..hihihihi

[@imacayebazibwe]

@@lavendermind6883 you are alone my dear

[@sandynaj]

You know! I just thought about that this week. She is a great balance of intellect and humor.

[@howtowithmai3404]

Grew up as an avoidant, noticed it and didn’t like it. Worked on myself till I was a secure. Took the test again and I’m still a secure🤗. I love it here.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I love this ❤

[@zawadijuliet6311]

I could listen to pumla the whole day😅 love from 🇰🇪

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love right back my Kenyan sister ❤

[@hawkins7000]

Wabula pumla has stories hahahaaa😂😂. Been binge watching these shows since yesto😂😂😂

[@FortunateCheli]

I love PPJ so much 😭😭 I could listen to you guys all day long

[@fionakemi]

Me heading to do the test again because why have I never thought to take it again since? Could it be that I am secure now? 😂 remains to be seen. Deeply enjoyed this conversation. Your chemistry, intelligence and humor is an absolute joy

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You could be secure now but let's see

[@samanthamatama]

That sounds like a fascinating discussion! The theory of attachment really does offer a lot of insight into how our early environments shape our emotional patterns. It’s intriguing to consider both how our past experiences influence our current relationships and the ways in which this theory can be applied or fall short in understanding human behavior

[@rosy_n]

First time I've stumbled on this and am hooked. Love love the energy, deep conversations had lightly.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Thank you Rosy. Welcome to PPJ

[@whatthetheory]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@dianazziwa234]

You should look for.previous episodes too. Otherwise, you're welcome 🤗

[@benadettepatriciaiyeset4396]

I absolutely loved this show, thank you for the evaluation link❤❤

[@Flourish_today]

A therapist actually told me that i have a secure attachment style. I didnt understand it until she explained to me that based on how i described my upbringing,i am secure. Infact she said she observed many times how i carry myself in the work place and how i relate with people. Now, i used to work with this therapist in a totally different department until she went back to school for a masters in Psycoeducational therapy. She is now a therapist and a good one at that. What's interesting is that she has an avoidant attachment style because of how she was raised. She told me her childhood story and i was so shocked and wondered if most therapists have had so much trauma in their lives because the things she has been through, i wouldnt have never imagined.Meanwhile she is such a good therapist and the reviews from her clients are what makes her an excellent therapist.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

The skill is in being aware of your attachment style and understanding others so you can respond better to theirs

[@Carolynmurungikamakune]

Share this therapists contact

[@winnieluv6405]

If you don't mind kindly share the details of the therapist or any other.been wanting to do therapy .thank you

[@Flourish_today]

Sorry guys, I live in Canada.

[@deekmuninga]

I always love you guys. That mother wound topic always triggers me wabula because I know I have work to do!!! Pumla’s submission on that topic got me on the edge of my seat.😅

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Now we know...let's do the work babe ❤

[@kihembodoreen7368]

The three of you are such a riot.. The way I have cackled like a Hyena watching this.. But on a serious note, the lessons are so profound. Thank you for letting us into your friendship. on another unrelated note, drop the skin care routine Pumla and Prima.

[@kathynakanyike8901]

Thank you guys, you’re all so free I feel like I we all be hanging out together when I watch this! 😂 thank you for the references to the books you read that helped with the things you talk about ❤❤, they are most helpful for our “self- investigations”! Much love!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Era we are free 😅

[@YeeAmeen]

Ohh Joel is such an empath…May God use you I see it every time I watch PPJ

[@aangi025]

This episode has impacted me positively today, it has actually swept my feet off, imagine you behaving a certain way while not knowing why...until i have discovered myself as a disorganised attacher😢 wooooow . I think life is just starting today

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You felt exactly how I felt when I discovered why I relate the way I do. Life literally started that day ❤

[@primahkyambadde6436]

awareness is indeed the first step to freedom!

[@judithnamawejje2619]

You deserve it Pumla. You are an intelligent lady ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Judith ❤

[@sabanoritah7924]

Thanks guys for the show, its the first time i have learnt about attachments Thanks a lot I have done the test too

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

🙏🏾❤🙏🏾

[@dariusowachi]

Great show. Learnt something new about attachment styles. Great job 👏🏽

[@amanyajin2075]

😀😀😀 you're such an amazing team,very real,full of good vibes and wisdom in your sharings , because of you am now heading to learn about this new thing you have shared "attachment style" so i can know me better.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh thank you. Understanding your attachment style is life changing

[@annieassists]

So happy to see this notification! Much love from Kenya 💌

[@samanthamatama]

Different attachment patterns, like secure or anxious, can shape our interactions and emotional responses throughout life. Understanding this connection really highlights the importance of addressing these early influences in personal development and therapy

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I like the way you put this. Thanks

[@TroyMagezi]

Pumla you're such a great teacher! From your attachment style explanation, I could already tell that I was avoidant. But when I took the quiz, I was a little upset at the confirmation *insert buullu shiiti 😂*, I wanted to be secure 😂 perfection will be the death of me 🤦‍♀

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaa! Avoidants wabula! Even after doing so much work, I still turn up as avoidant. But im on a much better scale now. The goal is to get your scores to be lower.

[@xander_sk9876]

So many nuggets to think about, in this conversation.

[@muniramuhamed4542]

The way I was checking my KZbin for this…😅😅 Finally….always great watching y’all together!!!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Ameen 🙏🏾

[@NasibHabib]

Been looking for Pumla all this while nag she's this side vibing with the likes of Muhumuza...😄 Great show guys.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaaaa! I'm here munange

[@NasibHabib]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 I'm happy to have found you here.. Now Ugandan KZbin has meaning again

[@joviat2815]

Same here. I'm thrilled to have found her. I enjoy watching her-she's so authentic!

[@NasibHabib]

@@joviat2815 You used the right word, she's incredibly authentic and its what she's brought to all the sets she's been onto.

[@sandranamirembe7057]

You know

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

46:01 -53:57 so educative ❤now i know were i belong. Thank you Pumla for sharing ❤❤❤❤.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I'm glad. Ir helps to be aware so we can approach situations and people better

[@bazalakiduncan1304]

Thanks for the show guys! I've just done the test and wow....

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hehe! It helps to know so you can heal or/and respond to situations and other people better 😊

[@tanzinam]

I can't begin to tell you how I've enjoyed this episode. Funny and eye-opening.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@Nambozobev]

Congratulations on the new job, Pumla.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Asante 🙏🏾

[@nicolenajjemba]

I took the test 😅Bambi this test has described me to the tea 🤣🤣🤣 I did more research on my attachment and wow I understand myself better. Let me keep researching. Naye members thank you for the information while also being fun, Kwegamba I’m recharged from the KB but also I have left informed. I have shared ku watsapp and family group chat because we need to be informed also 😅

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I'm glad it's helped. Thank you for sharing & supporting 🙏🏾

[@anx.7052]

PPJ is always good vibes!🤩

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Always 😊

[@ainebyonaesther3466]

Such a great sharing. Thank you all❤

[@justinenansimbe3341]

Always waiting for the three big brains. I love u guyz

[@naluyimaagwangsamantha5124]

I really enjoyed this episode, very enlightening

[@whatthetheory]

Thank You for watching

[@kihembodoreen7368]

Light Bulb moment, I always wondered why I am anxiously attached. especially because my parents are loving, and attentive. But it makes sense when you talk about working parents and the inconsistency that comes from having busy parents who were building their careers and just surviving when I was little.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

this must have been such a lightbulb moment. Happy you know yourself bit better now

[@marthamasiko8862]

So my actual comment… thank you guys This was a good laugh (for the most part) for a ride back home 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@primahkyambadde6436]

glad you liked it:)

[@ChamilaNagujja]

Pumla the wedding question is repeatedly asked. Thanks for the link it helped alot

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I just can't escape it 😂

[@audrey_g]

Pumla deserves more camera time!! Your personality was created for the screen!!😭

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I had so much camera time bambi. Thanks Audrey

[@faithamong2389]

😂😂😂😂😂 naye this @Pumla thanks for teaching us the attachment style I loved it .But am just like Joel we have the same attachment style . Pulma and Joel u are too funny . Thanks for the show PPJ

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I'm glad we have educated. Primah is actually the funny one in the group 😅

[@fan33able]

I looooove these chats! I can be cackling alone in my kazigo🤣🤣🤣

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Cackling 😂😂😂

[@rogerssabiti5263]

Pumla you were born to educate for sure. The part were you looked for the actual title of the book and the author i knew you wanted us to go read it.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

She really was!!! A proper teacher and educator at heart!!!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you for saying this Rogers. Yes...I truly am passionate about educating

[@privilegedewah765]

Pumla partnership issue l resonate.I love your authenticity.Watching from Zimbabwe

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Much love back to 🇿🇼

[@nabisaalurehema9231]

Beautiful insights thanx for the episode 😊

[@justwinnie3146]

I think I need to take a drive to Uganda for a mini-vacay, hhhhmmm!!you have earned a new subscriber from Kenya. Hello Joel…😄

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! Karibu

[@nkinyori]

In stitches🤣🤣🤣🤣 So beautiful to watch friends attuned to one another.

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

You know ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Heheehe! It is lovely to work with people you're aligned with.

[@christinenakazzi280]

I love PPJ❤.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

PPJ loves you too Nakazzi ❤

[@kyokushabashine7193]

I so relate when Pumla talks about building a wall. it has worked recently for me

[@HawaMayanja]

Love these episodes

[@gienemegladie3418]

Esther Perel would be proud of Joel! She says ,"we burden our partners by wanting them to be our everything. Isn't that too much responsibility on one person?" Love from 🇰🇪

[@whatthetheory]

Thanks for Watching. We Love 🇰🇪

[@elizabethnabukeera5095]

This has been such a great session Pumla…! Please share these book titles here!

[@Cheesecake-x1c]

Ahhh, always lovely to watch PPJ. 3 interesting intellects. Pumla, you know where we miss you, but heyhoe great to see you here.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaa! How can you miss me when I'm here?

[@Cheesecake-x1c]

😜😅😅😜​@pumlanabachwa8668 you know what I mean

[@patiencenuwe1808]

We miss you on the other side of KZbin. Therefore let me stick to PPJ nanti thats where i can drink from Pumla's well of wisdom

[@Joet-sospeter]

Very insightful, thank you PPJ good to see my old friend

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Joet!!!! So good to see you here

[@marthakawesa8314]

Pulls you look elegant to the T. Your lipstick is bang. Thank you for being open and real.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@brendahorysh6827]

I came here following the great brains my Pumla, lucky enough i also landed on Prima my pastor at WHG, one day i will get the confidence and tell you physically that am your greatest fan Mrs Kyambadde.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

how heartwarming!!!please come say hi next time

[@akelloolgaesther3955]

I loooooveeeee this topic. I love you guys 💞💞

[@florahrugina1541]

Wao waooo waoooo Happy to see the strongest convo

[@sunshineheaven1802]

But for anyone to read into Prima and Joel's relationship in a romantic way is unserious. Prima has expressed before how sociable she is, she likes people, talking, mixing, etc. People who are like this are free around those they interact with I think it looks different from the outside looking in. This is like calling people dear/sweetie and they catch feelings thinking you are calling them dear for romantic purposes. 😅

[@primahkyambadde6436]

You should become my defence attorney:)

[@misslakerdd1291]

Well said.

[@lavendermind6883]

I couldn't believe they called us out on our comments....😂..Pumla also you..indeed Prima is a sweet soul...she made me laugh when one time she said she can start a friendship or conversation anywhere and with anyone...its just part of her

[@malokoivan4839]

Ummm u are a good follower. I think am not alone

[@mugx205]

The success card had me floored😅😅😅😅.

[@kasembopriscilla-gd7bh]

Thank you PPJ❤❤❤

[@daphinenamuli7566]

bulluuuu...what😂😂😂😂😂. I've been schooled today. Merci!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@AriseDoryneKalembe-ye9fh]

Gaaassshhh I now see why i elate to Pumla so much. I was a typical Tom boy too. This girl gives me chills

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaa! Tomboy indeed

[@alberttravis256]

This was a great conversation… Pumla we shall follow you mpaka ku CCN 😄

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 CNN blessing received

[@wilybrodaheverline3359]

I love Pumla, Pumla you are glowing as always ❤️

[@brendadawa4165]

Joel, as if I saw you at Serena on Monday. We were at the health innovation’s conference. I wanted to talk to you but the interactions were inevitable. Before I knew it you had left. I love your content and I missed the opportunity interacting with you in person

[@Mydailyvibes]

i like this show, now i have to research about my attachment style

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You're in for a ride 😊

[@kihembodoreen7368]

Ngu get a room, hehehe The uppeerrr roommm. Y'all don't give Joel enough credit for how randomly funny he is..

[@kihembodoreen7368]

Reverse wheel barrow.. 🤣🤣🤣

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We really need to give his random humor it's own mic 😅

[@julietnakitende2092]

Right!!!

[@nakanjakkomayira586]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@wilybrodaheverline3359]

Love from Kenya 😅😅 your good neighbors 😂

[@leniamaurine1950]

How do i got out of my avoidant attachment style

[@Abercie]

I am a dismissive avoidant and the way I got out of this is first of all by rejecting any situation that brought out my anxiety or my avoidance. This means I was intentionally looking for a secure partner by refusing partners who made me avoidant or dismissive. What this led to was in a relationship where these situations eventually came up, I am able to self soothe in one way or the other and communicate to my partner about my needs. It really is a thing you heal from with another person in my opinion. And you have to know there will always be periods where you become avoidant again or so but what changes is that now you can see it and know what you need to do or have the strength to go through what you need to,to become secure again.

[@BK-mc8xh]

I am an avoidant woman married to an anxious man and Pumla just put it 💯!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We need to do better by our anxious partners 😅

[@HerRoyal_Awesomeness]

The visuals today 👌🏽

[@clairekakuru9460]

The way this podcast makes me laugh so hard…

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂 im glad

[@brianisaac3180]

Great show

[@daphnemurungimugabe9919]

I enjoyed this conversation😊

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Daaaappphhhh:)

[@roselynrukundo9786]

😂😂😂 Pumla Bambi just love your energy

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@Zahr-Jinda]

Yesterday and today morning I was rewatching old videos then boom. A new one,

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

A new ooooooonnneeeee 🎉

[@jariatnakitende3393]

As always.. My Nabachwa 😍😍

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yes of Lugave ❤

[@DeDollyshow]

Hey, pumla❤ I love your show

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

It is our show all of us please. Thank you ❤

[@DeDollyshow]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 ❤️

[@TroyMagezi]

Bruh Prima is deadass funny! I watched @22:00 over and over again! Anha Pumla, so your mum was doing the sciences...

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@joycenyakahuma5925]

❤️ the show vibe

[@S_Atieno]

Love from Kenya 🇰🇪

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love right back sis ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love right back sis ❤

[@nabisaalurehema9231]

Pumla the hair is giving your shinning sweet...by the please can u attach the books you recommended in this podcast

[@lilianchybire9610]

I digress, in Kenya security agencies and even some of the protestors didn't think Parliament can be accessed. The initial plan was get outside Parliament and present the petition againt the Finance Bill 2024. So when it was actually accessed even the security agents were overwhelmed and the random shooting started. Our costs of living are over the roof 😢, yet our politicians are living like fat cats. Indeed it is #NotYetUhuru for us. Nice show, new subbie 😊.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

This is PPJ. Our middle name is "digress" so feel free 😂. Kenyan protests shook us. And yet we have the same struggles (corruption & poor governance) but because food here remains cheap, we are not pushed over the limit. Thanks for your comment.

[@roykamara2437]

😂😂😂Fat cats.

[@nabukenyawinnie7285]

Wabula pumla Mbu the conqueror 😂😂

[@LamaraSharon-jg7cd]

I'm very obsessed with Pumla❤

[@joanitahnalubwama905]

Naye Pumla and her family,it’s so fascinating but anyways I learn a lot from her stories.

[@joycenyakahuma5925]

How do you take attachment test skill?

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

The link to the test is in the description box

[@hallejudy]

But this conversation is eye opening

[@faithkirabo9911]

Ribena being the tell-tale sign is jokes 😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂

[@musiimentarosemary2851]

❤❤❤❤❤ educative indeed ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

🙏🏾

[@Sara-k1x3m]

Yikes konka the name dropping today !! 🤣. People be chilling and catching strays fwaa 😂. I enjoyed this one too much.

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Hahahahaha and I think you caught a stray one Bambi

[@whatthetheory]

Glad you enjoyed

[@christusiime9268]

I totally relate with Joel

[@mpeeragloria7757]

Please, you guys are hilarious 😂

[@MaryMaina-lu3fe]

Prima is so beautiful 😍 ❤❤wow

[@primahkyambadde6436]

Awwwww. Thank you

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

That she is. Both in and out ❤

[@BeckyNantale]

I was suspicious but after taking this test, I am now certain I am secure.

[@whatthetheory]

Joel can't relate but we Love that for you

[@BeckyNantale]

@@whatthetheory 😀 poor guy!!

[@Greyt-5]

Pumla nakunonya obwedda nga your here darlin ❤😭

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Nga I'm here munange

[@KacaClare]

Been waiting!

[@adurcollines9069]

I dated potential back then and I married value because already there was potential. Big up Pumla, what is there not to like about you banange.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaa! We are all flawed sweetheart. I'm glad you married value 😊

[@rachaelmwine]

LOL Nabachwa forever looking for trouble🤣

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Always