"Gettin' Bi" (feat. Pete Gardner) - "Crazy Ex-Girlfriend"

[@miadelaguila2611]

I never thought I'd need a video of a middle aged man singing about his bisexuality and yet I couldn't have asked for anything better.

[@lastlife0726]

besides freddie mercury

[@charlottedeacon6031]

lastlife0726 I thought Freddie Mercury was gay?

[@LudwigMahler]

@@charlottedeacon6031 Complicated: Mercury was gay, but the love of his life was a woman, Mary Austin. Perhaps he was gay but biromantic.

[@charlottedeacon6031]

LudwigMahler Possibly, but it could of been more of a friendship love. Like they were soulmates. X

[@bookl0ver]

@@charlottedeacon6031 He was bi, he identified as such. The woman that he was with described him as gay, and assumed he was gay and told people he was. Mercury himself identified as bisexual.

[@kkilco]

honestly is this like the most bi-positive depiction that's ever been on television or what????

[@toadallyanonymous4625]

coffeeeyes yep

[@carolinelutz397]

Producer : how much bi-positive representation do you want? Writers : yes.

[@twoinacarcrash]

only other candidate would be Eleanor from the Good Place.

[@WordyGirl90]

@@twoinacarcrash I love Eleanor but she never says the words "I'm bisexual." In fact I'm annoyed she didn't say something to that effect like "hey, I'm into chicks as well, bro." Which would have been very in-character.

[@AJ-xc4qe]

There’s not enough bisexual or pansexual male protagonists or male love interests of female characters in fiction period! Love this song!

[@alexander_avila]

same

[@liviaaffonso1198]

AreTheyGay Make are they bi videos haha

[@leeburger5461]

you're the best!

[@Tozzie50]

Why DID I LIKE THIS COMMENT BUT DIDNT REPLY I'm a huge fan if it's not obvious yet.

[@Caraphatash]

the real bicon is here

[@vickigreene9220]

How the FUCK did u say same and get 311 likes bruh the most ive got is 30 something

[@EllieC130]

This is everything about me. I love that they made Daryl bisexual rather than gay. No offence to gay people, I just think the whole "he was secretly gay and his entire marriage was a lie" storyline is a little old.

[@aceofspades4930]

yes! it wasn't that his marriage was a lie . it just didn't work out which happens sometimes.

[@andrewnovak1390]

Not to mention movies and shows in general are really lacking in male bisexual representation. Most bisexual characters are younger women.

[@mae8364]

Andrew Novak YES exactly !! even as a bi girl this bothers me.

[@rhysgrammling4531]

@@andrewnovak1390 and soo oversexualized it's absurd.

[@fabuloushatlady7812]

Rhys Grammling, Yep! Just because I like both, doesn’t mean I want both simultaneously, or even to many parters total. I like to form long connections with people, not just hop in bed with everyone. Also I love how they gave our male counterparts representation! Like I love all the attention but c’mon, they need some love as well.

[@darkjaden-fe]

People: Rosa from Brooklyn99 coming out as bi was too unrealistic because she says it too much Actual bi people:

[@dandaropa]

Yeah i talk about it A LOT, especially after anyone says “yeah we get it, do you have to talk about it all the time”

[@entertain7us148]

did people actually say that??

[@Ougerosity598]

@@entertain7us148 Yeah, people are pricks, and not the fun kind! 😂

[@elliot1165]

yeah tbh rosa even talks about it less often than i actually do (which is very characteristic of her, she's rosa after all) bc damn i talk abt how bi i am all the damn time. like just seeing a cute couple on twt, i immediately say oh damn im so bi

[@Josie-th3id]

Can confirm we do that

[@Melissa-tw2gp]

I don’t think Crazy Ex Girlfriend realized how desperately bisexuals needed this song lol.

[@alyssaburton8456]

We really did lol

[@claireaurore9970]

Actually I think they did :D they're good.

[@Mexxi-ti9xy]

So true ❤️💜💙

[@CashCatMoney]

Everytime a bisexual I know comes out, I send them this song.

[@theam4546]

Especially bi men. They're SO underrepresented in pop culture and media. This is such an amazing song. Not just for the lyrics but also because it's catchy as hell.

[@unirytmi5020]

reasons why this just is the best bi song: -groovy -great lighting -destroys common bi stereotypes -its got a pun in it -saxophone

[@soyPLEA]

Yesssssss 😭 ❤️💕

[@sisisi16]

The saxophone solo was everythingggg and the punnnn omgg for some reason I just love puns in songs and this was just perfect (and hella relatable)

[@lucie8827]

Yes.

[@kathrynjaneway._]

And it’s got Peter Gardner in it

[@MaryanaMaskar]

And that jacket with rolled up sleeves ❤

[@michaelkopischke8072]

This song would be perfect as the official bisexual anthem. I'm not even joking. It denounces all of the stereotypes that bisexual people face, including them just being gay, that they need to choose a side, that they're choosing this, that they're promiscuous, that they're just confused, or that this is just a phase. It also overwhelmingly portrays bisexuality as positive and OK instead of as a joke or something "hot", like it's often portrayed in movies and TV shows. Finally, it's nice that they finally have an openly bisexual male character, who are greatly underrepresented in portrayals of bisexual people.

[@sydbloom03]

I agree with this as a bisexual girl. I'm actually planning on using this song to come out to my parents. :D

[@Miranda-dk1sq]

Michael Kopischke I've been openly bi for a year and watch this show with my parents. I was so thrilled with how much diversity this show has (race and sexuality).

[@TigerPrawn_]

CatNabber Plays I used this song to come out on Facebook haha :)

[@YeowooBBCVIP]

it's bisexuality in a nutshell, all summed up in 2mn30. It's genius :D

[@saramichele2321]

Michael Kopischke I

[@michaelhohe2168]

there was a comment somewhere about how bisexuals just radiate chaotic energy and this is the purest form of it holy shit lmao

[@fabuloushatlady7812]

I agree with this statement.

[@wren7888]

That's true, I'd totally sing this to anyone

[@Ezzy1331_]

Yes we are

[@madnecessity]

I am the chaotic bi friend

[@kittypeanut4102]

So just because i like girls and guys that means i'm a chaotic person...?

[@bongodave13]

"It doesn't take an intellectual to get that I'm bisexual!" This show delivers. Funny stuff. "Big man!" LOL

[@alainaatnip7811]

Bongo Dave yes

[@-L.S]

"big man!!" while he points to himself will never fail to make me laugh. Darryl is so extra

[@colinkohrs5838]

L S I could be wrong, but I think he’s saying “big band.” In the commentary track song album, Rachel Bloom and the other songwriters often refer to this kind of instrumentation as “big band.”

[@-L.S]

@@colinkohrs5838 the captions say "big man", so you could be right and whoever wrote the caption wrong, but that's what I was referencing!

[@steve9148-n9e]

@@-L.S he's saying big man to introduce the sax solo. It's a Bruce Springsteen reference

[@glamourweaver]

RIP Adam Schlesinger, the bi community will always owe you for this

[@lorcannagle]

@Sunday Girl He died the same day Rachel Bloom gave birth, which was a weird and tragic coincidence.

[@LauraKaraMello]

WHAT

[@LauraKaraMello]

@Sunday Girl I’M DEVASTATED

[@lauritamonteirobarcelos5904]

No

[@heyitsella117]

May he rest in peace

[@pordondeandatomi]

The only thing that I love more than the fact that he called a meeting to announce he's bisexual is the fact that nobody gave a shit about it. They were all so OK with it, and that's how it should be. Nobody was horrified, nobody doubted him. They were all fine and wanted to go on with their lives, haha

[@kristyna.kocianova]

And after he came out, everyone acted exactly like before and nobody was awkward around him. I love that.

[@laurenbruges8784]

Well they were a bit horrified their boss was talking to them about sex and his personal life 😂

[@dragongirl7978]

@@laurenbruges8784 Right? Lol I'd be like uh huh, okay, happy you're happy, can we go back to work now please? 😅

[@darrylwhitefeather207]

Oh, I didn't even notice that!

[@sennacookie5043]

Jim asked if he was sure he wasn’t just gay after, but Jim’s bigotry was the joke there instead of Darryl’s sexuality and after that I’m pretty sure Jim’s cool with it too

[@stormcloudsabound]

i love how the joke running through this isn’t that he’s a Bisexual-scandalous!-but that he burst into song in the middle of a meeting. that’s such a relief to see! lots of queer rep in TV is either a punchline or derided so to have this show present it like this is so nice.

[@hayley8806]

Yeah and when they try to do it serious the queer character's coming out is just deus ex machina so the straight characters can explore their feelings and come to the epiphany that because their friend is the person who's queer, they themselves are nobly not going to be homophobes, even though they aren't comfortable with it.

[@mslightbulb]

I love how they are just like “please, we are at a meeting sir, this is not the time for a musical”.

[@idontneedaname318]

and also the fact that he called a whole ass office meeting just to tell his employees he's bi when none of them care xd

[@evanlinden4410]

I’m also bi and a theatre kid. Bursting into a song during a meeting is bi representation

[@rfrolicarts]

@Question the Satirist Darrell is the king of TMI on this show, he has another song that's "My Sperm Is Healthy" so the coworkers are acting annoyed because he overshares constantly and doesn't have boundaries

[@KazWinchester]

after dealing with biphobia I come here to feel better

[@oof-rr5nf]

Hope you're doing alright.

[@colinstapleton7795]

I hope so too. It can be really hard.

[@carolinelutz397]

Alright time to go punch the people annoying my bi friends

[@carolinelutz397]

@no, my name is tyler the more, the merrier

[@fabuloushatlady7812]

Caroline Lutz, wooh I want to help!

[@AxelWedstar411]

Is this the bisexual national anthem? XD

[@anniesmith6165]

Alex Steward it should be!!!

[@vermontbaer]

it is now!

[@greypaw101]

All arise

[@patton3081]

as a bi man it is

[@alextaylor3939]

Now it is

[@AnnikaVictoria24]

Hands up if you're bi and listen to this nearly everyday, because it's more than a song in a show, it's become your anthem for everytime you're questioning your validity to exist or just wanna boogie 👋

[@slicedbeans8639]

🙋‍♀️

[@humanperson42]

✋✋✋✋

[@CUSELİSFAN]

I'm straight but i'll give you a thumbs up to appreciate how much this song makes bis happy 😀

[@definitelynotcharlie4001]

Omg I have never heard anything more relatable to me in my life thank you

[@noora_aurora]

Im pan but i still know this out of memory so i kinda did my own version lol

[@jessicapannell2365]

I'm sending this to anyone who asks my sexuality

[@gennybaratta2460]

Same

[@whothefuckatemyhalfofthecr7095]

Yup

[@YangXiaoLongHasBeenDisarmed]

Saaaaaame!!

[@Fulsrush]

Me too, and I'm straight. It's just a fun song.

[@danssaddimple9133]

haha me too

[@sultanaqureshi3226]

As funny as this song is, it honest to god made me cry when I first listened to it. To have a bi person on TV who is not ashamed of their sexuality literally celebrate it in song made me so happy to see. Thank you so much.

[@maryshippee3673]

that is also how I feel about this song. I'm not bisexual, but the very vocal sigh of appreciation from the bi community towards this song and daryls overall representation as a bi person that is actually close to how actual bi people feel makes me extremely happy this song/daryl whitefeather/this tv show exist

[@jennifercramer2156]

+Mary Shippee I am bisexual and not nearly as good at dancing as he is. I'm probably just an outlier.

[@thewinchester7955]

Sultana Qureshi WHAT IS THIS SHOW! TELL ME NOW! please?

[@thewinchester7955]

Wait a minute just saw the ending!

[@83croissant]

Sultana Qureshi yep, Aline Brosh Mckenna did her due diligence and researched and checked with GLAAD about what's lacking in portrayals of bisexuals in media. It's kinda sad that the bare minimum of consideration is refreshing and new , but hey

[@KyleRayner12]

Come for the bi-positivity, stay for the dad dancing.

[@MezephelesArt]

I'm questioning my sexuality, but if I turn out bi, I'm coming out using this.

[@erinparkes9916]

Same! 😆

[@pandamonium7977]

Same

[@9_in_the_afternoon]

I came out using this song today (to my mum). Not even kidding, I genuinely did :D

[@MezephelesArt]

Tori Lee How did she take it?

[@9_in_the_afternoon]

Mia Jones Really well! It was a good decision to tell her

[@Cavatica]

How am I just now realizing that the lady musicians' shirts are red and the dudes' shirts are blue and Darryl's is purple because BOTH COLORS THIS SHOW

[@cherryJ0lt]

Charlotte Moore and because the colors of the bi flag, which is behind him in the band scenes

[@chiarab4827]

Thanks Derrick

[@heyyoitsmebrian]

GOOD "ei"

[@toadallyanonymous4625]

O SHI-

[@lilysworldgaming7315]

@@heyyoitsmebrian ei? Wut?

[@unicorntomboy9736]

This song made me smile, I loved it. I love how this show uses a middle aged man with a mustache to represent us, instead of a Femme- Fatle type attractive woman in her 20s like a lot of other shows and movies would, and I love it for that reason.

[@Btch-q4k]

Let's be honest, middle aged man badly dancing and making bad puns is probably a more accurate representation of the community than a femme fatal type character.

[@thehappyhippo-_-]

@@Btch-q4k as an 18 yo bi female... Yes

[@gemavaliente7675]

@@thehappyhippo-_- yeah, this man speaks for me :)

[@elliot1165]

and i love how when it was revealed that valencia (the closest to your description of a Femme-Fatle type attractive woman in her 20s) was also bi, she wasn't made to be promiscuous (like most female bisexuals are portrayed), but rather in a strong and healthy relationship with a woman edit: there's nothing wrong with being bi and promiscuous but bisexuals are just so stigmatized to be like that

[@imakebadvideos]

They also had Valencia tho, who is definitely a femme fatale attractive woman lol

[@SallyLePage]

Happy #BiVisibilityDay everyone :D

[@Lillowh]

Your channel is awesome!

[@senorPachuChay]

Oh! You were in some of the roosterteeth podcasts!

[@deprepperonipizza4269]

Dont you mean Bisivility? (Im sorry im stupid)

[@RandomDragonEXE]

Happy bi visibility day from 2022!

[@nunyabusiness164]

honestly the most bi representation ive ever seen on TV!!!

[@g_way]

It made me so happy to see this!! We're not oversexualized in this show and I love it

[@paulinaenck5797]

"no, we're just shocked that you called a staff meeting to tell us this" The second hand embarrassment of the coworkers is so real...

[@Superphilipp]

"Sure I like sex" - "Please make him stop." Paula's look! I love this so much.

[@benw.3848]

I'm a bi dude and I freaking love this song. I think my favorite thing about this is that it is both a Pride song and also intensely, intensely awkward and cringey in a way where you're laughing at Darryl's social ineptitude rather than his sexuality. Like, the song is triumphant and awesome but also Darryl did you REALLY call a business meeting to come out of the closet? These people have work to do. Oh, I love love love it.

[@josephcorridon9314]

Donna Lynn is so good here. "Please make him stop."

[@unicorntomboy9736]

I love how corny and awkward it is, but is also enjoyable and makes me laugh at the same time.

[@aceofspades4930]

i love how everyone is just like " can.we just get back to work now "

[@Silvercentipede]

Oh completely! None of his co-workers are bothered he's bisexual, they just don't understand why he's called a meeting for it :')

[@cupcakesurvivor]

does anyone else feel like the cw's advertising team just DO NOT get this show? I stayed away from this amazing show all season because the ads stripped away all the irony from each scene, making it look like an awful romantic comedy. but then I realized it starred the Rachel Bloom from the hilarious youtube videos and I gave it a chance. I was shocked how amazing it is. the cw would've honestly had a way better ad if they just showed the theme song.

[@silvertamagachi]

+Jaclyn N-man To be fair, while the execs suck at selling the show, they have come out and said they'll support it despite its crappy reviews because they think it's good. So SOMEONE at the station gets it, but it's not translating super well to the marketing team.

[@Bluerabbit42]

+Jaclyn N-man At least CW has a history of giving shows a chance. Supernatural, now in it's like, dozenth season, was not popular at first. It tried to be a straight ahead horror show in season one, but ultimately wound up a rather campy and funny buddy show with lots of weird revelations type biblical allusions. Of all networks, they seem to realize that if a show has a good cast that is pleasant to work with and produces quality episodes, they might be worth nurturing even if they don't bring in big numbers at first. They've had a few shows that began as cult favorites and grew into giant fandoms. It gives me much hope for Crazy Ex-Girlfriend.

[@cupcakesurvivor]

+Bluerabbit42 I'm not trying to say the whole network doesn't get it, but definitely the advertising department seem a little confused on how to make the commercials. But I'm surprised with how much the cw lets them get away with.

[@cupcakesurvivor]

Seriously, the CW is great at giving low rated but critically acclaimed shows a chance, and I applaud them for it. My comment was just about how bad the commercials made the show seem, which in my opinion is due to someone in advertising misunderstanding the humor of the show

[@landonle3308]

I think they're focusing on jane the virgin more or izombie. this show is only in its freshman season until the second season comes out

[@VeWatchesVideos]

I do always feel sad when some people still claim Darryl was "gaybaiting" because he ended up with a woman in the end. I mean, I loved him and WhiJo too, but we saw them having a full on relationship on screen and afterwards, Darryl was still openly bi and open about WhiJo being his ex. That's not baiting. Plus, a ton of bisexual people are in opposite sex relationships and not just because they're "in hiding". Logistically, in a world where the number of LGBTAQ+ people is estimated to be between 4-14% of the population and part of that group is not interested in you by default (for example, a bisexual man is not of interest to a lesbian), but you go both ways, there's a bigger chance you'll find a lover of the opposite sex just by sheer numbers. I don't think it's wrong to acknowledge that. Would I have liked Darryl and WhiJo to stay together? YES. Were we gaybaited? Absolutely NOT.

[@robertjackson3552]

apparently they did not listen to the song "I'm bi, bi, bi until the day I die" maybe needs a new line nonmatter if I'm with lady or a guy i'm still bi, bi, bi until the day I die"

[@renhey9979]

If they didn't stay together then we wouldn't have 'the group mind has decided you're in love'

[@dddddddddddddddd6368]

I was just thinking before finsihing this show, that whenever Bi people in TV almost always end up with the person of the same sex anyway, and I think the fact that thjs happens more often barely enforces the whole liking people of the same AND opposite sex part of being bi. Like in Brooklyn Nine Nine, after Rosa comes out as Bi, she always just dated girls and never had a fling with another guy.

[@Wednesdaywoe1975]

I'm going to point out something I didn't learn until my 40s--being bisexual doesn't mean you like men 50% of the time and women the other 50%. It can be 60 /40 or even 80/20.

[@rosedocherty545]

I love this comment - the whole point of 'the group mind has decided you're in love' is that people still shipped those characters even though they lived out their romantic arc. WhiJo and Darryl were such a fully explored relationship, and like many on the show they didn't work out. Him also having a positive relationship with a woman in my mind is important to validate his bisexuality - and also they were suuuuper cute together

[@kepeklibiskuvi]

How he came to the realization at the gym was hilarious. I wish it was on KZbin. Inner thoughts: I like them both, may be I'm People leaving gym class: Byeee. And he didn't even know the term. He referred himself as bothsexual.

[@JackieTheCatfox]

I love that term, "bothsexual".

[@Polikaize]

YESSSS OHMAHGOD

[@Stonytude]

Oh Darryl ♥️

[@bendemare5270]

bothsexual😂 I need to use that now 💓💜💙

[@bendemare5270]

what episode?

[@EllenJones]

RIP Adam Schlesinger, writer of this and so many Crazy-Ex Girlfriend songs. You helped and were loved by so many

[@olivia_vermast]

RIP Adam Schlesinger who wrote this song, he died at the age of 52 because of corona.

[@Hopelessdemiromantic]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@lilithcrow6675]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@awkwardaardvarks]

Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy noooooooooooo this isn't fair😭

[@silverfreeborn3374]

RIP

[@osm3363]

Really???? Omg!! 😱😭😭😭😭😭

[@rowanatkinson3594]

Gotta say as a bisexual man that adore this song.

[@memequern8087]

Hell yeah!! Tho have to say your profile pic makes it 100 times better 😂

[@akhila3048]

omg Rowan I'm such a fan

[@_chew_]

That profile pic though... GET ME PICTURES OF DIO! lol Hey, isn't Dio bisexual too?

[@rowanatkinson3594]

@@_chew_ Yep! Still waiting on my timestop powers though

[@sathianm1830]

Yeah he really don't know what to do with his fingers😂 lmao

[@nadesicond4018]

Pete Gardner is an absolute treasure

[@silvertamagachi]

+Nadesico ND And he wasn't even the first choice! I think this is the luckiest mistake ever.

[@Ryan4891s]

Who was their first choice?

[@colombines5588]

Ryan4891s Michael McDonald

[@alsolos3120]

@@colombines5588 lol

[@lucystoner]

He was so nervous about singing in this show because he's just a comedian, he would ask the producers all the time if he would be singing. This was the song they gave him. :)

[@rfrolicarts]

To anyone who hasn't seen the show but is wondering about people's reactions in the video - Darryl is their boss and he's constantly delivering TMI to everyone in the office, so they're just weirded out that yet again he called a meeting to talk about his personal life

[@tjenadonn6158]

Further context: Darryl's entire aura is just sort of lovable oblivious cringe in general. Some of his other songs include "I Love My Daughter (But Not In a Creepy Way)" and "My Sperm is Healthy." Think "Michael Scott but less casually misogynistic and better at his job" and you'll be on the right track.

[@arona6692]

Is there anyone here who is not from the show tho

[@bendemare5270]

​@@arona6692me

[@g_way]

The background is the bisexual flag and I love it. It made me so happy to see bisexual people represented properly and not oversexualized

[@alexba1ley]

The song is amazing and so needed. However, the official bisexual pride flag is actually dark pink, purple, and blue. The flag shown here has the colors of the trans pride flag, which are pastel pink, white, and blue, but they are not in the same order as the trans pride flag. Here is an article breaking down the different pride flags www.courier-journal.com/story/life/2019/06/03/lgbtq-gay-transgender-bisexual-pansexual-pride-flag-colors-meaning/1284689001/

[@g_way]

Alexandra Bailey nah fam, the way the colors are arranged + the colors themselves make it a bi pride flag. Also the light behind it is making it more pastel

[@Hazelcloudy]

@@alexba1ley the flag in the background is not the trans flag, it's the bisexual flag.

[@alexba1ley]

@@Hazelcloudy and @Noriaki Kakyoin y'all are right. I was thrown off by the lighting.

[@leaoraissa]

I just wonder if they know how meaningful it is to do this, to create this character and this number. I actually want to cry. I feel so "normal" and validated and included. Just the fact that this happened makes me feel so warm inside. I wonder if they had any idea the impact this would have, making many bi folks feel like they finally exist. And it was all presented in such a simple way... oh, man, here I go crying again.

[@beckhampang191]

exactly why representation matters. and not just any... a good representation matters. like how black children see Black Panther

[@agustinamagpie]

BRING ME SOME TOAST 'CAUSE THIS IS MAH JAM!

[@emmaryan7397]

🍞

[@agustinamagpie]

Thank you, Harley.

[@connormaclane]

best song for us bisexuals :-)

[@chrisosuna5275]

I like how lesbians get Hayley Kiyoko and we get Pete Gardner

[@abiscott857]

Chris Osuna Wouldn’t change him for anything 😂

[@oof-rr5nf]

@@abiscott857 Same!

[@alsolos3120]

Okay I'm here because my friend is super supportive of the lgbtq community. But. She sent me this out of the blue. So. Like. How do I take this.

[@T.ricksterr]

Connor Macfarlane I want to like this but it would be 666, haha yes

[@Carolina57685]

i like how they look annoyed not because he's coming out but because he's their boss and just a whole Dad!

[@valeriaayastagiron2159]

this made so happy because we (the bi community) don't have a bi representation on TV and we're invalidated A LOT, and watching a bi character singing about how proud he is about his sexuality makes me feel better

[@unirytmi5020]

nice to see bi representation that isn't just a 20something woman whos bi because the writers thought it would be hot

[@SapphOfLesbos]

I know this song helped a lot of ppl so I just wanted to say thank you to Adam Schlesinger (the man who helped write/come up w this song and many others) he passed away from COVID 19 today, so thanks for the songs, the pride, and encouragement Adam! Your music will be dearly missed 💖💜💙

[@beckhampang191]

Rest in peace Adam Schlesinger. Thank you for this beautiful song and allowing thousands of people to come out and feel validated as Bisexuals. Your impact will live on. Thank you.

[@hannahmabbutt3978]

RIP Adam, this song has helped so many people:(

[@eleanorisnotgivingyouherla3156]

I've spent the past year trying to come to terms with my sexuality and I gotta say, as corny as it is, this song is helping. This is the first bisexual character I've ever seen in a movie or TV show and the knowledge that it's becoming a more accepted thing is very reassuring

[@jillstrick309]

Eleanor IsNotGivingYouHerLastName g

[@buhurcielago]

"you just might catch my eye because I'm definitely bi"YESSS

[@ruby-jessicasmith719]

The fact this is a pun is the most bi thing I've ever seen

[@TJKoland]

Rest in Power, Adam Schlesinger. This was a perfect example of your genius.

[@thekaycave]

RIP Adam Schlesinger. You still had so many songs in you, but you gave us so much already

[@stagefrights]

did anyone use this to come out yet???

[@annevankins7145]

yes! on fb, but the people i wanted it to see didnt reply :(

[@cieram7575]

Mee! !

[@stagefrights]

Ciera Murphy great congrats for you to be proud enough to come to!

[@stagefrights]

Anne likeucare aww that sucks but still great

[@cieram7575]

+Daniel DeMartis Thanks :)♡

[@hmonstrosus]

Rest in Peace, Adam. This song meant so much to so many, and so much to me. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

[@despairingleonardo]

daryl's dance move is so adorable 3< the song is excellent . one of the best song !

[@PB-qe6ce]

Next time someone asks my how I'm doing I'll reply "I'm getting bi", wonder if anyone will get it.

[@GreyGosamyr]

I already identified so much with how tonedeaf and naive Darrell is, and then this happened and I realized Darrell IS me (in ten years).

[@matthewwalker3131]

naive. that's the word i was looking for!

[@ibzac6756]

I like that there's an actually portrayal of a grown man who's bi and not a man who was just "secretly gay and leaves his wife". Its annoying that such representation is rare in media, its 2021 and there isn't much to show for it!!

[@lilisey]

This song is so great and the characterization of a bi character is fantastic. Thank you so so much for this positive representation!

[@maxi5627]

RIP, Adam Schlesinger. Thank you for this. Thank you for everything.

[@HamsterPopcorn74]

The only crime the show this committed was not having Valencia sing a reprise of this song when she gets into a same-sex relationship

[@lolmechy]

Back when I was in the military, during one of our longer on field practices (like 2 weeks in the forest) I told my entire tent that I was bi, just kinda let it slip in a conversation. There was like a 5 minute long awkward silence after that, during which this just kinda played in my head.

[@rexappleby4731]

Were they chill or shitty after that 5 minute pause?

[@lolmechy]

@@rexappleby4731 Neither really. Aside from one guy (Who was bi himself.) nobody said anything about it. I guess that's technically chill, but it was mostly just awkward.

[@rexappleby4731]

@@lolmechy Thanks.

[@elliot1165]

i love how darryl also dates a man but still ends up with a woman by the end of the show, really signifying that bisexuality in men is not just "gay but won't accept the full 100"

[@dorabodrogi7081]

This is the most realistic representation of bisexuality to be absolutely honest. Miss me with that "I like dark chocolate AND milk chocolate, if you know what I mean, I'm bilingual eyyyyy, I'm a dog AND a cat person [wink, wink, nudge, nudge]" Nah, THIS is what we're actually like XD

[@mariana457]

Yes we need this, bisexual men deserve this type of recognition. Your sexuality is valid. I'm so proud of this show...

[@tellnate29]

All bisexuals rise for our national anthem

[@themilitarydork]

Make that international 🤣

[@sathianm1830]

Yeah but what should we do with our fingers 😂

[@chasesmithproductions8484]

@@sathianm1830 I vote that we salute by finger guns

[@sathianm1830]

@@chasesmithproductions8484 yeah let's do that

[@sirstamfordraffles6557]

@@chasesmithproductions8484 Peace ✌️

[@VickiLovesDoctorWho]

I really needed this song last year when I tried to explain to my mum that I was attracted to men and women by using a very weird ice cream analogy! ^_^

[@SenipLuff]

+VickiLovesDoctorWho You've gotta tell us the weird ice cream analogy now. But yeah it's good to see someone who just celebrates being bi without actually falling into any of the shitty stereotypes?

[@thesewinggeekmiri9029]

+Hart I think I know what the ice cream analogy is: @VickiLovesDoctorWho is it the one where you say that you love chocolate, but you also love vanilla?

[@inkspillled]

wait so does that mean that bi's are just *_ARE WE JUST NEOPOLITAN ICECREAM??_*

[@gummygutshoe]

Rivi The Corgi that’s pansexuals. Bisexuals are double swirl.

[@samstarba4569]

Either I'm very bi myself or just confused in some other way but I've always wondered how people have to so hard time understanding bisexuality? :D In my opinion, it is much easier to understand someone's attraction towards both/all genders than attraction solely on one gender.

[@bmas44]

3 years later and this is still the greatest thing ive ever watched

[@hayleyt8018]

Thank you Adam for giving us this gift. RIP

[@CarnageCandyy]

This made me soo happy when i watched it

[@deru1792]

I'm gay but I'm in love with this song

[@corrineanderson5652]

I love your profile pic😍

[@deru1792]

Corrine Anderson me 2

[@Eli-yp9yv]

ALLY HILLS

[@thrcuddlygamer]

Omg same haha This song is just so good 😄

[@jonathanstern5537]

I'm straight, but I rather enjoy it too. Good music transcends sexuality

[@Chobow]

I kinda want to come out on Facebook by posting this song! it's pure genius

[@nebula-not-a-website]

+JustChelseaAnn JUST DO IT! DON'T LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS! (As long as your family won't murder you in your sleep, etc.)

[@Chobow]

+Kat Von Sperling Hahaha! I think they'll mostly talk but yeah! I'll probably do that x)

[@Toooheuueuehdbhq]

+JustChelseaAnn I'm gonna send this to me dad because of you lmao

[@apoorvatadepallibeauty]

Lol I love how he called a meeting just to say he is bisexual

[@pardonjoon8835]

i’ve been in denial of my sexuality until the last few weeks, and now i have completely come to terms of it. there is truly no better feeling than to see this man show how proud he is to be bisexual, especially since it is on television. i was also scrolling through the comment section and realized literally everyone was also bi, and i’ve never felt so accepted and understood in my life.

[@juliea.h.4639]

0:55 On Netflix's description of the episode this happened on (in my language) it was described as "Daryll comes out as gay", which is soo ironic 😑 Like did they even watch the episode??

[@NestanSvensk]

This is so damn good. Thanks for making it!

[@icandrivebestie]

“I don’t care if you wear high heels or a tie” Me wearing both: 👁👄👁

[@everythingisawesome2903]

You are getting bi

[@sirstamfordraffles6557]

Oh blimey, that’s stylish.

[@alf27]

It's a hate crime that this only has 1.3 million views

[@uncuentofriki3635]

Thank you Adam for giving us a nice song to come out and explain our sexuality in 2.30 minutes with a great sax and catchy lyrics. And for the other songs of CxE, but this in particular. Rest in peace.

[@bl4ck_st4rrr]

When I first watched this show, I was closeted, and I played this song for my parents to come out. This should be the bi anthem, and also Darryl is an absolute bicon

[@AnnaSoc5]

This song is hilarious but also so important! "Bi's legit" is something everyone needs to hear! God bless this video

[@stevencgr]

thanks Adam

[@spidergregory3857]

I never realized I needed an anthem so strongly as the first time I heard this. I don’t watch the show, but I think I might now. Edit: Used this to come out to my sister. Went...much better than I thought it would. RIP Adam Schlesinger, and thank you.

[@incanusolorin2607]

Go watch the show, dude!

[@azaefe]

So good. "I'm a villain in my own story" too. Damn you're on a roll of good songs and episodes...

[@basiasuszek3473]

please, please, please, can it be like official anthem of bisexuals?

[@charlottemarianmabe6171]

-Sure, I like sex -Please, make him stop jajajajaja

[@jjaydion]

Great Message! Great Performance! I Love how they channeled Huey Lewis & the News style for the musical setting!!! Congrats to All those involved & RIP to Mr Schlesinger!

[@drefenoejf]

I might start watching the series just because of this video. I've never seen it but I love this.

[@gleek781]

This is Rich Goranski's (from the musical Be More Chill) theme! Also, Jeremy Heere's too!)

[@dgf3308]

Gives me hope to think 8 years ago this was revolutionary. The world is slowly, painstakingly slowly, better.

[@christyshultz6443]

Love shows that try to write in more LGBT stories Bisexuals see so erasure it's important to be seen. So show like Roswell New Mexico 2019 tv who has two main cast members plus other people are either gay or trans or bi as well ❤❤ Michael Alex.. Michael is my bi icon thses days ❤❤ Then you got Shadowhunters Again good r representation.magnus/Alec Yay Magnus ❤ 911 Lonestar ❤ amazing and sweet story of TK and Carlos.

[@miii7342]

i have literally not felt this genuinely happy in YEARS this song is the best thing in the entire universe

[@StephenCardenas]

this song!!! can't get enough of this show!! Darryl+WhiteJosh4ever

[@erraticonteuse]

"I don't have the 'gotta choose blues'" I am DYING (bisexually, of course).

[@broccoliweeb1212]

My parents: so what do you want to talk about? Me: * plays this song *

[@olivervickman638]

My favorite part of this will always be "it doesn't take an intelectual to get that I'm bisexual" as if it didn't take him decades to even get the slightest clue *himself*

[@andiehernandez1995]

I didn't know my bi existence needed this and I'm glad I clicked it even when I thought it could be cringey.

[@tnlockchalek]

I know it's late but I can't stop watching it and lowkey singing it

[@politemenace5781]

it's the way they rhymed "intellectual" with "bisexual" for me

[@user-in1gn6fw2eab]

Rip Adam Schlesinger. 🕊 What a great peace you have left for this community.

[@robertjackson3552]

this and captain raymond holt's speech of "Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place. is what we need

[@AngryDemonCat]

Yes we get anthem 👏!! Always wanted one of these❤

[@somethingstupid1075]

I first heard this song when I was a closeted anxious mess. I hadn’t even seen the show. But this song nearly brought me to tears when I first heard it, and from that point on, I listened to it several times a day every day for a long time. It’s literally the reason why I started watching CXG lmao I was just that desperate for representation.