Getting My Home Back! Christmas Dreams & Cozy Inspirations 2024

[@AaronBryant-n9v]

I've been following your for years Susan. You are impressive. So genuine & loving. I can relate to so many other women that follow you too. I am also 71, lost my sweet husband this year. I'm trying to figure out how to go on without my soulmate. We were together 54 years. Our children are wonderful & loving & attentive to me...but Its still such a lonely part of my journey. I just want to say thank you & all the lovely ladies who are part of this channel you have created for all of us. So glad your pretty home has been put back together again. God bless you & Desi

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for sharing a bit of your life with us. This is a wonderful age for us. We see the world with eyes of a wise woman but also the eyes of a child. We are starting all over again. I was a lonely 12-year-old...and it's as if my life mirrors that time...no one to kiss goodnight, a world that seems daunting and I need to not be so shy....I feel all these things right now. I am so sorry for your loss...I am walking right with you.,,sending you much love..xo Susan & Desi

[@sashacooper9764]

God Bless you too as you find your path forward from the sadness of your loss. I wish you and your children all the best for the forthcoming festive season and hope that joy may be found amidst the sadness. I will raise a glass to wish you cheer on Christmas Day. Warmest regards to you from Australia💌💐

[@dorawedlock3969]

One day at a time! I lost my love a year in September the night before our 61st wedding anniversary. I am also a pretender, up in morning, big fake smile and a 2 am mess of questions and misery and I have to work hard to count my blessings, and there are so many. Be kind to yourself, buy that candy bar, eat cereal for supper if it sounds good. But get up every morning, make your bed, do your hair and dress attractively, not for the world but for yourself. There will be days you just grab a book or your computer, a cup of tea, set in your comfy chair under a blanket until 10. Wonderful but don’t use it as an excuse to avoid people. Go where there are activities and people. Call other women by themselves and invite 2 or3 for coffee. Go to the library. Smile at strangers and see how goi you feel when they smile back. Remember we are on a journey and we don’t know when it will end, days, months or years. Do your best each day and never beat yourself up over could, should and would. The past is gone, hang onto the wonderful memories and let the rest go. Not always easy!

[@Elizabeth-l8l]

You, and Desi are such a Joy!, ♥️♥️

[@acwrite32]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. 🙏🏼❤️

[@twanahess5838]

I have accepted that I am insignificant and invisible to my son and his family. I am okay. I have immersed myself into other activities. I actually went to a crafts fair today alone. I actually enjoyed it! I came home and made an ice coffee. It is the little things and thanks to you I am enjoying my life again. Hugs to you and Desi!!

[@barbraprosper9065]

❤

[@delladearest2511]

@@barbraprosper9065. Our only daughter estranged herself from us so you are so not alone.

[@ritagonzales2229]

Thank you …for putting your words out for me to see and feel and accept ..I’m right there with you Sister..you are not alone ❤

[@gaylejideofor6198]

I only have two grand kids and the littlest has a mom who wont speak to us. We have missed them all these last two years. This will be the third year. We still have wrapped presents from lastyear thinking she would change her mind. As heartbreaking as it is we make the best of what we do have. God bless you and your home this holy-season. May the JOY of the season be with you and your friends, and family-whatever it looks like right now. Also now is not forever. Hope is still a reason to rejoice. God bless from Mummy g in Mpls,Mn.🎄🎅🏼

[@delladearest2511]

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[@debrachevalier2563]

I just turned 70, I wake up in the morning, make my coffee, sit down and read my bible app, have a good cry. I love my life, I know I’m so blessed but I feel so invisible….i don’t know how to explain it…but it’s how I feel..I so enjoy your blogs..ty and God bless you!

[@cherylthepearl827]

@@debrachevalier2563 you are seen. I know what you mean. Be bright, be bold, try and learn something new each day or so. Maybe pick a new hobby to try or writing or drawing. Take care.

[@vhondasorganizedchaos]

I was watching a KZbin video today by the channel Empower Hour. It is called The Unloved Women by Denzel Washington. It's kind of long, 35 min or so. It helped me remember my Grandma, my Mom, myself. How we all feel that way because of how we live as women. I see you. I hear you. I care. ❤

[@rahel4523]

On my long, often lonely journey - with many tears - I have learned two things that give me strength to live every day: God sees me and He loves me! To realize this, we have to read the Bible every day until the Word "speaks", until we hear His voice in the Word. I wish you the same from the bottom of my heart!

[@tonimilstead5089]

Turned 70 early last month. Birthdays never bothered me until I hit 69. Now feel officially old, but trying not to think about it much. God bless🙏

[@mary1494]

I see you.. so to speak.. dear lady. Hugs and prayers.🤗🙏❤️🐕

[@cherylthepearl827]

My heart was broken last Friday when our choc lab,Drake, suddenly wasn’t feeling well. Each hour he was worse and by later afternoon we would be taking him to animal ER. He was diagnosed with a large cancerous growth on his spleen which had ruptured. Holding his head and telling him what a good boy he is was so difficult and having him breathe his last breath. He knew how much he was loved. My granddaughter has grown up with him for 5 yrs, drake was 8 years old. Everywhere I look, he should be. It’s not my first pet to pass but has been more difficult. As with humans too, life can change on a dime. Feeling fine one minute and gone the next. 🙏🐾💔 Give your pets and your humans extra love and kind words every day. Your basement looks wonderful!

[@YardleySlicker]

So sorry for your loss. Saying goodbye to our pets when it’s their time to over the rainbow bridge is so painful. But now you have an angel in heaven. My angel helps me with left turns, because he knows I hate them. I just talk to him while I’m waiting for the cars to pass and he always tells me he’s there with me.

[@susant4438]

I’m so sorry about the loss of your fur baby, Drake. It’s so hard to lose a beloved pet.

[@joangrant5857]

I am so sorry for your loss. It's never easy losing a pet. In the 50 yrs we've been married we have lost 7 furbabies. It's one of the hardest things. Hugs to you my dear. When your ready I hope you get another pet to love and love you and your family.♥

[@cherylthepearl827]

@@YardleySlickerAwh. Thanks so much.

[@cherylthepearl827]

@brendamccoy1650 thank you very much

[@jeannehunter5344]

It was a gift pedicure that did it for me recently. I used to have pretty feet, but a bunion and chemo changed that - my toes and fingertips are still numb two years later, and I was feeling blah and the fattest ever. My daughter dragged me to the spa and my feet got exfoliated, scrubbed, massaged, rubbed with oils and gel applied to my toe nails. A warm rinse with gold dust happened somewhere in the process, and when I looked at my feet, they were pretty again. I felt like dancing right into the street! I started intermittent fasting and have lost 6 kilos, and I'm working at bringing joy and beauty back into MY life.

[@barbraprosper9065]

❤

[@denisebrown4933]

@@jeannehunter5344 Nice daughter!

[@baxter8it]

I lost my pandemic weight after a heart attack with intermittent fasting. The good thing is, you can eat nearly everything within your feasting hours and not have to count calories! Good luck - if I can do it, I know you can, too!

[@JSandage]

I am 71. My husband and I have been married for 50 years. Everything was going great and then last week, our firstborn son passed away suddenly at the age of 46. We are heartbroken.. We decided to put up Christmas today. I wanted our house to feel happy. We finished decorating and I'm working on a slide show for the Celebration of Life we will have in 2 weeks,. It's difficult going through all the pictures but it also brings back some happy memories too. We'll get through this but my heart will never heal. We aren't supposed to outlive our children. Happy Holidays to everyone.

[@GrannyLinn]

I’m so sorry.

[@maryjoan4128]

My sympathy to you and your family

[@loriwise3177]

I am so sorry for you. Wishing you and your family the best that can be. ❤

[@donaglosser4272]

I’m very sorry to hear this. Prayers and blessings to you and your family 🙏

[@Texasoma]

My heart breaks for you….

[@Cori-se9ww]

I have been given an opportunity to work with Autistic kids last week. I had finally proven to the school I work at that I could be a benefit to these kiddos. It has been amazing and so rewarding. I have found my calling at 65. I say a prayer every day before I enter the classroom that I can make a difference in these beautiful children's lives. God I love it. I am truly blessed.

[@vettechsrule]

Thank you for your dedication to these kids with Autism! Mine is 27 now, what a journey it has been. I treasure everyone who has worked with my son! It takes a special person to be on their team.

[@artismyheart4886]

Thank you for all you do. I too have a grown daughter with Autism.

[@shawnhaynes8804]

I needed this talk. I have never had value to anyone. My whole life. Alone, yet I have kids who are too busy with their own lives. I really could die and noone would know. I stress about it only because i have pets! I need a change yet feel stuck in park. Thanks for allowing me to unload.

[@LittlePoet]

You are not alone...I know so many who do not hear from their kids. Finding our own place in this world is a never-ending journey...you sound beautiful and lovely...I wish you were my neighbor!!! We would hit the third stores

[@lkvz-5259]

You have much value to your pets and I just bet if you told your children how you feel they would maybe give you more of their time!

[@shawnhaynes8804]

@lkvz-5259 thanks for your thoughts. And yes, I have talked to my kids.

[@patatkinson826]

Are you reaching out to them regularly? This the season to renew ourselves. ❤ Plan a small get-together, maybe have a simple lunch and share some old pictures/ memories? Write them brief notes and say you only want to spend some time together from this season going forward. 😊Offer to assist them. Tell them yiu wish to share information so in case of emergency, you won't have to worry about your pets? Volunteering at a nursing home, animal shelter or a church thrift shop can help you meet others. Not easy... but definitely worth the effort!

[@cxg7381]

You have value. You are needed. You have worth. I hope you will do for yourself - a walk, a group with like interests or perhaps a church. You are in my thoughts.🙏🏼💕

[@Cheri-USA]

I was born in 1955 too. I’ve been watching your videos since last November for an escape and inspiration. My 42 year-old son died of cancer seven months ago. I find myself lost, empty, and grieving terribly. Thank you for your videos. ❤️🐾

[@alwilliams1009]

❤

[@weescotties]

So sorry for your loss! I’ll keep you in my prayers! 🙏❤️

[@ScottsdaleSushi]

*virtual hug* from the Sonoran desert - I have a 42 year old son & can only imagine...bless you, dear mother.

[@LittlePoet]

My heart goes out to you...what a terrible loss...not even death can stop all that love. How are you tonight? I am sending you so much love and healing wishes...xxoo Much love always, Susan

[@anneboucher509]

So sorry for your loss. Hugs 🙏

[@PossumLover1111]

It never fails to make me literally giggle out loud when you and Desi sing together. My heart just melts into a puddle of mush and I am happy all over. Thanks!!

[@JudithByerly-io3br]

Perfectly said! I agree wholeheartedly! ❤️🌲

[@jitkap2334]

They woke up my dog .. she was like what's happening.😂

[@wadeharris6002]

My husbands pic is attached to all my comments. He left me in January of this year, right after Christmas. I thought, at first, how would I get through this Christmas. I went to Hobby Lobby looking for something a month ago and there was Christmas staring me in the face. I walked out immediately and cried. I’ve thought about it a lot and decided I need to embrace Christmas as he did, full on. I’m just starting to decorate some. You are such an inspiration to me. I have to keep going for my kids and grandkids. Thank you for being a guiding light for all of us❤

[@ewaworonowicz2653]

Sending you lots of love ❤️💚❤️💚❤️💚

[@LynsAlteredArts]

Well, he looks like a turd get that picture changed. No reason to have his picture and name attached to your accounts.

[@jeanetteh.9240]

Good for you for trying to have Christmas. I believe your husband's spirit will be nearby.

[@lindamorgan6734]

Missed you. Thanks for returning.

[@LittlePoet]

Hello sweet friend!!!

[@Mugsy4786]

I missed you too, Susan! Kept looking for your post. Was worried! Thank God you’re fine!

[@srobs1216]

I wish you a womderful, HappynThanksgiving! Yes, I feel like time just races by, but healing takes time. I had spinal surgery in September and I am still having pain. I need to wear my neck brace until the end of December. It is so great to see your video this evening. It has cheered me up so much. ❤🥧🍗😊

[@ewaworonowicz2653]

Oh, how I missed you Susan too, and was worried... So happy to see today's video! ❤️

[@carolcaruso6641]

The video was lovely, but Desi with the hat and singing was the cherry on top

[@Nausome_nana]

I am 62 and have spend my years caring for aging parents, raising children and helping raise my grandchildren who are now 18 and 19. During those years I worked shift work full time as a nurse. My 19 year old granddaughter had a baby last year right before my husband and I were heading south for 3 months. She said to me I was going to miss seeing my great granddaughter. My response was your parents are going to be with you and give you lots of support. It took a lot of strength for me to stand my ground and leave to spend time with my husband of 42 years. Sometimes I feel a lot of guilt and feel I am being selfish doing what I want. I have been taking line dancing classes and for the past 6 years have been working out. I am really focusing on looking after myself. I love your videos . The clip of Desi in his hat is adorable.🎄🐶🎄❤️

[@CayGibson]

I needed to read about someone who actually did this and put themselves first. Thanks for sharing.

[@murphymillman5190]

@@Nausome_nana Hi Hope you're having a wonderful Thanksgiving

[@rosettaroper3317]

Susan I am 81 and my husband left me for another woman. I had to have a new hip and then a new knee and I feel like my life is over. I wish I was as strong as you. I want be as strong as you are but I love watching you so much.

[@AyaSmith-rb2hp]

So very sorry, what an ass he was. You will be better off without him and you will find over time, joy returns❤

[@tracyd2598]

🫂 One day at a time, one step at a time...

[@patriciat7769]

The best revenge is living well, as the saying goes. BUT live well and create the life for yourself that you want, and not for revenge, but because you want better for yourself. Your husband made his bed, and he has to lay in it. Just take care of YOU!

[@joyce7520]

I remember as a teenager I thought I'd never reach 21 , it seemed like it would take forever. Now I'm 66 and its like someone pulled the rug out from under me, the years are flying by and I'm grabbing onto things to slow it down.

[@lindapadilla8393]

Right! Wayyy to fast😢

[@murphymillman5190]

@@joyce7520 Hi can I ask you something?

[@nancybrace1233]

Susan! I quit smoking this week. It’s been 5 days…..not very long but to me it is! I’m laughing so hard at Desi’s hat!😂

[@Dabiam63]

You’ve got this. I quit January 2013 after smoking for over 30 years. It was the best thing I did for myself. Stay strong!!!

[@nancybrace1233]

@@Dabiam63thank you.

[@LittlePoet]

I quit cold turkey...and I knew I would have 2 bad weeks...and I did...I did nothing but it worked and I never looked back! I still " pretend" smoke my straws and so it's like I never quit!!!

[@nancybrace1233]

@ ❤️

[@jenn31477]

Congratulations. Your lungs, your heart, your whole body thanks you. 😊

[@marym.3053]

I can’t express how much I love Desi singing with you at the end of your videos. I laugh out loud every time! It brings me such joy! ❤

[@acwrite32]

Me too!! He makes me smile and laugh!!! I love it when Susan and Desi sing together!!’

[@trish7754]

Same! He is adorable!!

[@susierivera5234]

Susan, it's been a while, but I love watching you. I'm 60, and you always give me hope. I'm so happy that u got things done. Life is a roller coaster but I feel happy. I thanked God everyday for my life. Thanks for all you do. 😘

[@brendaketzler4112]

You do realize that Desi is the star of this show.⭐️❤

[@murphymillman5190]

@@brendaketzler4112 Hi Hope you're having a wonderful Thanksgiving

[@delializarraga9638]

@@brendaketzler4112 yes he is... YES he is! 😆🥰😆

[@justmaria5806]

For all of the chapeaus Desi has worn over the years, tonight's is by far the best. His dear sweet face and exceptional vocals really make the show!

[@Adriana-cooks]

Susan your message was much needed for many reasons.

[@LyndaGeorge-n3q]

I just love it when you and Desi sing!! Makes me smile! Love his little Christmas hat💕 hope you have an amazing Thanksgiving 🍁

[@margesharbono6949]

So good to see you back! I am so happy to see you and glad things are getting better for you with all the problems you have had with flooding, etc. Your house looks great! I always enjoy your uplifting videos. I can really use something good at the moment. I am facing colon cancer surgery on 12/3. I am 83 but not ready to give up on life quite yet. I LOVE living even though I am alone. I get lonely, too, Please add me to your prayers for a successful surgery, okay? I will be most grateful. Timing is bad with the holidays coming, but my life is more important. Holidays come and go, but we have just one life.

[@lindacasey4259]

Prayers for a quick recovery. God bless you.

[@ScottsdaleSushi]

Marge - a lady in Arizona will definitely keep you in my prayers - blessing you that your doctors will be guided by the Holy Spirit as they operate. Hoping 2025 brings health restoration to you.

[@katemorgan5712]

🙏 ❤

[@roxanneelsey6266]

Praying for a successful surgery and a quick recovery 🙏

[@SylviaMiddleton-c9t]

Dear Marg, I'm putting on my prayer list. God is so good and we pray for a successful surgery outcome for you. God Bless and Keep You.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@beautifulbuds]

Thank you darling Desi and Susan ❤ That singing makes my day!!!!

[@madelinekimbro2440]

Best advice ever! Focus on one thing at a time. I think God takes a lot of things off of our plate when we get older including friends and family, so we can focus on our spiritual development. We always have a father in heaven. I hope everyone can focus on Joy for the holidays. Even if you will be celebrating on your own, decorate, bake, light a yummy candle and enjoy! We are all important and have something to offer. Happy Holidays and Cheers!

[@kathynelson1088]

You’re here!!!!!!❤❤ You add happiness to my life! Desi too!❤🐾🙏

[@murphymillman5190]

@@kathynelson1088 hi can I ask you something?

[@doris864]

I used to clean for a couple that had the cutest black and white cocker spaniel named Tuxedo. I loved to sing, and Tux would sing with me. He was my buddy. I miss him.

[@murphymillman5190]

Hi can I ask you something?

[@622barmacost]

I’m so glad your home is back to warm and cozy!! We all missed you and Desi. I cannot wait to see the Christmas decorations. It will be beautiful. That was a touching comment the lady made. I’m so glad she found your channel. She is very welcome.

[@LittlePoet]

Ah you are so kind. Thank you so much for being here!!! Sending you so much love and gratitude! Susan & Desi

[@murphymillman5190]

@@622barmacost Hi Hope you're having a wonderful Thanksgiving?

[@lindaguthrie8238]

I quit smoking 37 years ago and it’s one of the best things I’ve done for my health

[@denisebrown4933]

@@lindaguthrie8238Great for you, Linda! 30 years ago for me and it"s been wonderful to have that monkey off my back! 39 years since I quit drinking , and it was harder to give up cigarettes than it was to give up alcohol!

[@AraseliaRodriguez]

Omg ! What an ending ! Thanx Desi ! And thank you Susan for your encouraging words and ideas on Christmas decorations ! Yes we can change our lives at any age with Gods help and our strong will. And with the help of people like you ! May you have a beautiful Christmas with your family and your precious Desi. ❤🎉

[@ghh1961]

Desi singing makes my entire week. I literally laugh out loud all by myself!

[@LittlePoet]

That is so sweet! Thank you for telling me this...when I am having a bad day, he can start singing and all my troubles float away!

[@murphymillman5190]

@@ghh1961 hi can I ask you something?

[@DebbieAdkins-d6v]

Susan, THANK YOU! THANK YOU for being you and helping me through the roughest time of my life. Lost my husband 3 months ago and I feel so alone and empty and you inspire me to smile and keep going. Navigating my new life alone as I grow old. I’m at a crossroad and with you to remind me I CAN DO THIS. God bless you

[@glorialush9598]

I always look forward to you and Desi every Saturday night. You had a powerful message this week. I had cellulitis in my eye and just spent a week in the hospital and i am slowly healing from the infection. I decided I am not going to sit around waiting for my children to be there for me. I have wonderful friends but live alone and am fortunate to be able to take care of myself st 77. I will be 78 in early December. I am going to enjoy life and stay active. Give that Desi a smooch from me!

[@laurie2715]

You have such a great attitude! 👏😃 that must have been kind of scary with the awful infection, so glad your better now ! Your outlook inspires me ! 👍😃

[@ginaferracini9375]

She needed a hero and she became one . Amazing. ❤Thank you

[@VeronicaMartinez-fi8fm]

Thank you Susan for giving me courage to move forward after my husband died. I miss him everyday but your influence is getting me through. God Bless!

[@cherylb8298]

Please don’t let any negative comments hurt you. You Are a beautiful, kind generous woman . Don’t let anyone make you feel bad. Blessings to you.

[@jennykouros574]

Welcome back , we missed you .

[@LittlePoet]

I missed you too! I'm so glad to be back!

[@marthamaclin-reynolds9328]

You are an inspiration. God bless all who read this. God is in us all. Let's spread love.

[@craftymama62]

Susan it's so true that we can all have empathy for each other while not having it for ourselves. I see so many people on YT having videos saying they feel worthless & that their life doesn't feel worth living, it's heart breaking. Don't get me wrong I've had my share of 'down days' too (haven't we all). Then I remind myself that I can choose to be happy, I can choose to live life on my own terms, I can choose to embrace everything little thing I have to be grateful for, surround myself with the things that bring me joy and I can choose to reach out to family or friends when I need someone to talk to or just someone to listen to. Yes, I get lonely sometimes but then I just get busy doing something I like or pampering myself or putting on some favorite tunes & sing & dance along. Life is too short to not embrace it.

[@tracyj3969]

😂🤣😂 OMG!!! I have been watching your videos for what seems like forever, and never comment. BUT today, that ending… Priceless! Made my Year 😂

[@trishaannesuta8152]

Dear Susan, I was listening intently when you said you want this year to be happy (2025?) I wish that for you and am certain it will be just that....happy. last year at this time my beloved husband was still alive. A few days after Thanksgiving he passed away. There were no holidays last year and there will be none this year. It's just me and my pup. However, I am awaiting major surgery and right after my recuperation when I can walk again my intentions are to start being happy again. My home has been a house of mourning for almost a year now. It is time. Once again you have inspired me. Thank you dear Susan for sharing the many trials of your life, your fears, your tears, but ultimately your happiness. God Bless. P. S. Ok then....after pouring my heart out Desi showed up wearing that hat and singing....hysterical!

[@SylviaMiddleton-c9t]

Desi is a darling hoot!😂

[@Rebecca-n7n]

Plese find one thing everyday to be happy about. Don't wait til you have surgery and can walk again. Start now. Loss of those we love takes the joy from us but we need to fight to find it and keep it. I lost my dear son 2 years ago. I feel like I died with him. Making myself do things is hard. I've isolated myself and am trying to fight out of that. I know your struggle. Prayers up for you.

[@trishaannesuta8152]

Rebecca, please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your son. Your note is most appreciated and prayers are always welcome. Thank you and God Bless you.

[@mkbrown3902]

Your words really hit deep. I was that little girl. I'm glad you and Desi are safe, warm, and comfortable. ❤🐾

[@teresahudson-lk7dw]

We all need to count our many blessings everyday. There is always someone with bigger problems out there in a sometimes cruel world. You are a blessing because you keep telling people to be positive in their darkest moments. Desi is a special treat in all your post.

[@murphymillman5190]

@@teresahudson-lk7dw hi hope you're having a wonderful Thanksgiving?

[@teresahudson-lk7dw]

I did have a good Thanksgiving with my family. I hope you had a good on also. Thank you.@@murphymillman5190

[@teresahudson-lk7dw]

I meant to say " I hope you had a good one also."

[@murphymillman5190]

@@teresahudson-lk7dw yes thanks

[@murphymillman5190]

@@teresahudson-lk7dw Pardon my manners can we be friends?

[@mrsdashwood9700]

I used to always decorate very similar to what you are showing, but last year I decorated in the Scandinavian style and I love the look. Far more simplistic and natural. More of a feeling of bringing the outdoors in.

[@SarahRenz59]

Thank you, Susan -- I really needed this video. I got laid off from my job last week. I put in 31 years and didn't get so much as a going-away card. I'm still kind of numb but need to get moving and figure out my next steps. I don't think I have enough to retire right now, but getting another job at 65 will be a challenge. I'm SO glad your house is back in working order and the basement is no longer gross and smelly! I can't wait to see your home all decked out for Christmas!

[@pattim9617]

Thank you Susan for an uplifting video. I am 73 years old and feel a bit down right now. Seeing you doing your best to restore your own Christmas spirit encourages me work on mine. I had a huge smile on my face seeing you and Desi sing at the end of the video. You made someone happy today. 💕

[@MaureenFinn-r7e]

You and Desi singing was WONDERFUL xx

[@user-yn7on7ou8n]

Oh my Susan! The finale of your duet, was the cherry on the top! Love you ❤

[@catmama54]

You have such a way with decorating I love your Christmas decorations. I have always loved Christmas. It’s been my thing for most of my life and even with losing my house and my husband and my cat and everything last year I have fully decorated my apartment and I’m sitting here with my tree lights on Wax melts in the smell of evergreen burning and it’s like Christmas in my apartment and it makes me happy. I miss my husband my home my cat more than I could ever say but life goes on. I have to look out for myself. I’ve gotta do what makes me happy decorating my apartment is making me happy. I think it looks really nice where you live. I would like to move to Minnesota, but I have no family there. Desi is just so precious. Give him a kiss for me, please

[@darlenemchenry1104]

Thank you for EVERYTHING that you share with us! You are delightful, and I feel as is we are friends.

[@murphymillman5190]

Hi can I ask you something?

[@kiwitraveller6451]

Oh wow!!! Missed you LittlePoet...and Desi...In my/our prayers...you are special to us here in New Zealand...big hugs and love...

[@LNF55]

I can so relate to the woman's comment you shared about no one asking about her life. It amaze*s me how society got to this point. Thank you for giving her recognition ❤

[@maryallen1017]

How can you not smile when Desi is singing. What a Joy to all of us! Thank You Susan & Desi. 💕

[@murphymillman5190]

Hi can I ask you something?

[@debrabecker6152]

Susan, your spirit lifts me up!! Thank you for your positivity. I have become my own hero. I volunteer for the elderly and help them keep their independence. I enjoy life. I always try to look at the glass as half full instead of half empty. Debbie in So Oregon born 1955!

[@judykilmer7749]

Oh my goodness HowI love that little Desi . Just love it when he sings with you.❤❤❤

[@HeinzSmith-zx5ku]

Thank you Susan for these videos. You are a beautiful mature woman. Alot of great advice and great stories. You make my day, thank you.

[@kimt9971]

Oh my gosh. You and Desi singing…best thing on KZbin!!! ❤

[@LittlePoet]

A Very Happy Thanksgiving to you!!! Much love to you and yours always! Susan & Desi

[@lindanorrell7812]

Bless you for giving love to strangers that watch you give encouragement GRE at singing and your precious dog helping

[@Silenceisgolden-o9o]

Dear sweet Susan, thank for another uplifting video. You make my Saturday nights brighter! 🕊️

[@lisaviviano1568]

This is my first year in retirement. I now have so much time to enjoy hobbies, cooking healthy and travel. Married 40 years and still going strong. Looking forward to decorating for Christmas too and baking all my special cookies.

[@ivonnevermeer3600]

She needed a Hero, so she became one, need I say more. So lovely to see you get back on track and hearing you sing with Desi, you are one of a kind Susan ❤ Have a nice day decorating with your grand children 🎄

[@doloresdieppa3887]

Blessings for you and Desi. You’re such an inspiration ♥️

[@jsylvest500]

I can honestly say that finding your channel has been so inspirational for me! I am always so happy to see your videos because you're a kindred spirit that cares about me (even though we've never met in person) and I care about you! And Desi! Your refurbishment looks amazing!

[@LittlePoet]

You are so kind, you made me smile! It's wonderful to have you here with us. We gals help each other so much...life is better when we have somebody walking us home...xxoo Hugs! Susan & Desi

[@tanyaroub4641]

What a beautiful heart felt ending to another inspiring video. I am 65 and the last few years have seen me treating everything in life as an experiment. I joined a gym out of curiosity to see if I could loose my middle. I lived in a park to find peace and solitude which brought me lovely friends who I look forward to seeing again in spring. Life became beautiful as I opened my eyes to the everyday treasures in nature I was too busy to see before. There is so much love and beauty out there if you just venture out of your normal daily life and are curious. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with family and friends.❤

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much! Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!!! Love to you and Desi!

[@tygerlily1700]

God Bless you and dear Desi❤❤❤

[@LittlePoet]

I'm sending love back to you!

[@theferalleo]

Love you Susan ❤️ another wonderful message I love everything that you found for your decorations for Christmas 🎄 and I agree healing takes going within and finding that snuffed out candle and once again lighting it. It may take time but your heart space is where your soul lives so it’s worth caring for. That hat Desi is my favorite so far! You also look beautiful as always XO

[@sandyd829]

The holidays bring tears and sadness of what could have been. My siblings are scattered across the United States. My own children have their own lives. I put all my energy into my job. I am retired and look around to see there are no friendships just coworkers who have faded away. The holidays are lonely times. I understand I need to start to rebuild my life, but the fear of the unknown has a strong hold on me. A simple step forward is all I am able to attempt. Thank you for your positive attitude and can-do spirit.

[@mollyswanner1607]

I have alot of fear and sadness also. Many many of us understand. Be well❤

[@marthabando66]

😘😘

[@marthabando66]

@@mollyswanner1607 😘😘

[@juliek2511]

God Bless you Sandy! I understand what you are going through! Hang in there, a simple step forward is amazing! We all have to start somewhere. As I’ve gotten older, I have learned that sometimes we need to be our own hero! Don’t be afraid to reach out to people or try new things! Nothing ventured nothing gained! I’m wishing you a very happy Thanksgiving and Holiday season ahead! You’ve got this! 🙋🏼‍♀️😊💕💕🙏🏻🌞🎄

[@sandyd829]

@@mollyswanner1607 Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone. Take care

[@kimjluke]

Thank you Susan for carrying the banner of “live a beautiful life, be full of joy, change keeps things exciting “. Have a beautiful Thanksgiving 🤗

[@murphymillman5190]

@@kimjluke hi can I ask you something?

[@lifeandhomewithmeredith9050]

you look lovely! Great to see you. Much love

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much! Love you too! 💕

[@bobbiefarrar3036]

You are so precious, Susan! Love Desi's Christmas hat - he's adorable!! Love how he loves to "sing" with you!!!

[@rubenlaracuente8991]

FAMILY AND LIFE ARE SUCH A GIFT ❤

[@ladygoldfinch8945]

I love what you share so honestly, Susan. Thank you for being so authentic and genuine. I am 66 and went solo very recently and although I feel free to do and be me and embrace life going forward, it is lonely at times even though I have amazing adult children and also beautiful grandchildren. It's all about finding a balance of my own interests and enjoy having the freedom to do and be whatever I want to be. Sending hugs!

[@josiedickson6959]

So glad you have gotten rid of the sinus problem .. clever lady who has stopped smoking... save that money for clothes or something you love , I am 76 , full of heartaches with troubled family , feel uplifted now by yr video and a lovely visit from a precious son .. Thank you Susan xxx

[@footofthecross]

Desi howling to your singing is the cherry on top! Thank you for sharing yourself with us Susan- so many of us can relate.

[@Cindy-bee]

Thank you Susan for cheering us up with your youthful joy and light. I have been feeling down lately mostly because of some new knee pain and having difficulty walking like I am used to doing. It is improving so there is hope. I also live alone at 70 but am so fortunate to have a cute little home with great friends and family near me. It is so easy to fall into depression this time of year with the weather changing and less sun and less money in our wallets for many of us. Thrifting is a great way to find some treasures. Today you have inspired me to break out my Christmas decorations and get busy putting them out. I really appreciate you and Desi.

[@tammygood253]

Here for Susan--stay for Desi, lol. OMG he is so precious!!!! Great video-loved it. I'm 58 and identify with much of what you talk about, but my mom is 77 and I want her to watch all your videos, especially the ones about your move and afterward.

[@Martha-vx8bj]

Desi, Desi, Desi I love you so.....and you too Susan!! I'm recovering from a fall 4 weeks ago. I recently admitted to myself that had I been taking care of myself (exercising, eating right and having a truly grateful heart for my many blessings) I probably wouldn't have fallen and my body would heal faster. I accept that now and will move forward.....bring on Christmas and Joy....leave the sorrow and worry behind. I am pushing 75, widowed x2, lost 2 pets but blessed to have Jesus, my family and my church friends in my life. Thank you and your vlog community.

[@tammymango3028]

I love your videos & Desi is the cutest! Expressing your feelings that I feel is a comfort to me. It’s validating that I am here & share what others experience. Hugs! ❤️🥰🙏🙏🙏

[@jacquelinedonoghue2135]

Love the newly decorated basement Susan….how hard everyone has worked and how brave you’ve had to be to cope with all this. Trees will look amazing. Darling Desi is sensational…..love his hat and your duets. 🌸

[@nicolecushway1227]

Dear Susan, every video you make is such a special gift to so many people. You give so much hope, encouragement, joy, wisdom, empathy, and love, just to name a few. I always watch your videos on my tv so I don’t often leave a comment, but I just wanted to tell you how much I always look forward to each special gift you give us. Thank you for everything you do on this platform, even when you have your hands full of your own life. ❤ Ps- your basement looks so beautiful and bright and clean! And I can’t wait to see your Christmas tree that you decorate with your precious grandbabies! 🎄

[@user-qb8qm4mp5n]

I was a little girl when I went to Traverse City, Susan. I like the rugs you chose. They are cheerful and brighten up your basement. When I visit your channel, time seems to stop. I like that. Yes, we deserve to be happy! 🎄

[@nancyrogers212]

This video is so beautifully done. She wanted something else Missy I missed you so much last week and I worried I thought maybe you were sick but I’m glad you’re feeling better and your house is in the water. I love your dogs hat is beautiful. Thank you so much for inspiring us and loving us and being half for us. Love you.

[@robertahughes8782]

It’s great to hear that your traumatic flood has been repaired. Your basement is such a nice, big space, with lots of room for whatever you want to do with it. A ping pong table for the grandchildren will be lots of fun for them. Your love of decorating is reflected in your excitement about Christmas, and it’s inspiring. 🌺 I’m sure many of us can relate to what you said when you were describing your thoughts about being a woman our age. Many of us were raised as children in a generation that believed that children were to be “seen and not heard,” with strict discipline. In my own family, we were expected to defer to adults and do acts of service for others. Nobody ever asked us for our thoughts or opinions. My dad was a scary figure, and the schools were run by men. Girls and boys were separated at recess, and completely separated in different classrooms from 6th through 12th grade. This does not exactly prepare women for life in the real world! My entire life, I have found myself automatically popping into the role of serving and pleasing men, and putting myself last. This is not to say that I’ve had a miserable life. I was married to a man who was in my life for 32 years, and who died 22 years ago, when he was only 49 years old. I have 2 wonderful adult children, and 4 grandchildren that are such a joy. Still, there are things to ponder. Life is about lessons, and I try to learn as I go along, even as an older woman (also born in 1955). I’ve realized that there is no way to completely “cure” the ingrained training I received as a child, and therefore I don’t date anyone because I’m fully aware that my sense of self disappears in that arena. Instead, I devote myself to learning new things, like playing the piano, watercolor painting, and making jewelry. I cook food for myself and give some away to neighbors. I play with my children and grandchildren. I read books, and take care of the business of life. I try not to be sad about stories in the news. It’s tempting to get caught up in the drama and negativity of the world, but this week I turned it off and turned on music in the house, instead. It helps. Life is definitely quieter these days, and some might say less exciting, but that’s okay. We can make our life interesting just by choosing something to do. There are many fun, inexpensive choices out there. I can have fun pulling weeds or vacuuming the house. It is not always easy for women our age, considering health issues that tend to arise, but taking it one day at a time seems to be the best way to approach life. For years, we served our families and husbands, and sometimes it’s hard to let go of the hectic pace we became accustomed to. That is one of my challenges. Learning to let go of feeling that I have to take care of everyone else, and accomplish things. It’s okay to “just be.” 🌺

[@maryzajac1136]

Oh Susan! Seeing yours and Desi's happy faces today was just what I needed! Glad you're better, so happy to hear the fixing up of your basement has gone to plan - it looks simply amazing! But best of all, your inspiring words have hit a note with me. With Christmas coming fast on our heels I've hit a slump, just like the woman you were talking about. Lost my Christmas mojo, filled with Bah humbug and wanting to crawl into a hole and fast forward to February ! Hearing you speak lit a fire under my butt and made me realise (again!) that "if it's meant to be -it's up to me!" So, today I'm going to pick myself up, dust myself off and put positive thoughts in my head and inch forward to a better life. I deserve it! I'm looking forward to seeing your beautiful home decorated in your classy style - it may give me inspiration to do something around my home too. Wishing you a Happy Thanksgiving with your family.... much love to you and Des .. see you next week ! ❤🎄

[@rebeccaskibicki633]

OMG! Desi is soooo cute! The look on his face because you make him sit there with those cute little hats! So so cute! I got such a good chuckle at the end there with your singing and then he howls so good! Love you two!

[@jillbruce3624]

Oh my. I am fairly new to your channel. I am 72 and my husband and best friend has been gone for four years. I cannot believe it has been that long. I am still searching for who I am without him, and all those things you mentioned. Thank you, Susan. You are beautiful and I wish you were my neighbor.

[@soaponyt1850]

Desi is so precious!

[@carriedavis9675]

You were talking to me, at 76 I fill stuck and I don’t know what to do!!! I’ll get free for a while but then back I go,,, thanks for sharing I needed to hear that and I hope that lady breaks free!!!! Desi looked so handsome tonight. Blessings to you and Des. 🥰🙏🏾

[@lorraineshea296]

I love your basement it's absolutely beautiful and it made my day to see you and Desi 🎄❤🇦🇺

[@CarmenTorres-gf3sg]

Welcome back Susan hope you had a wonderful thanks giving, Nice to see you doing good

[@pattyfarrin8412]

Your basement looks great, Susan! I am looking forward to your Christmas tour. You and Desi singing at the end is always the frosting on the cake! Thank you for the joy you bring to all of us.

[@athenad8636]

Dear Susan, thank you. I felt you were talking directly to me. You’re right, life and our things inside us feel so overwhelming that making changes can feel it can’t be done. But one thing at a time. I feel I’ve given up on myself long ago. When I think how much longer I might have to live like this I cry. But one change at a time maybe I can do it. The woman you were speaking about made me cry too for her, but you are so supportive and sharing your thoughts and heart. I’m so happy I found you. Everything you’ve gone through and how you show up in life, well, I think you’re amazing! Your example of how you pick your self up, brush off your knees and stand tall - well you are my hero! I want to be my hero too. I want to find myself, my happiness and live a full life. Why should I give up on myself? Why have I shrunk into my self loathing, sitting in my grief of those I lost. It’s what we are in this moment and the love that’s in our hearts right now. I know I have that love, just like you said, we have so much compassion for others, why not ourselves? I want to love myself again. Thank you.

[@LittleSicilion54]

Sometimes the most beautiful gifts come wrapped in the ugliest packages. Peace & Love

[@sheilavanduynfote5539]

Oh my word, I missed you last week and I’m so glad you are feeling better. Now I want to decorate my tree with different colors, I’ve used gold and beige. I will be checking out Dollar Tree and Walmart. I feel,for this lady because I feel the same, I wish my children who,live within 20 minutes never have time to come and visit. I take care of a lady who has Multiple Sclerosis, she is 76 and I’m (73), she isn’t able to shower by herself or walk for more than 3 feet. She was a retired RN and and she gets down at times, however, when I get to her home we laugh and tell stories of our past and present lives. Desi looked so cute with his hat, please have a Blessed week❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Afc91artistNC]

Desi looks so content even with the Christmas hat. Your basement is so lovely. I was invited for Thanksgiving years ago. This guy invited me over/his kitchen cabinets were made out of pressed wood. I was so allergy ridden/judgmental. After leaving I realized his family were happy. That made me realize I can have the Holiday Season all year.

[@nancyesposito874]

Hi Susan .. i came across your channel not too ago ,I can relate to your stories… Your home is warm inviting and beautiful have a wonderful Christmas.. And thank you for being here♥️🌹🎄

[@KatieFreeman-fz9lh]

You show us so much about life. You bring it to us as it really is. Christmas is coming and you will be ready and you has helped us to be the same. Everything happen for a reason. You will get new things and we will see you smile and that will make us smile to. You have a good week and find all the things you need to get your home like you want it. See you next week.

[@adriennebrown3778]

Great analogy in that story: "the father I never had is mad at me".. Modern Parable ❤

[@myrahclemens1983]

I'm glad you are getting your house back in order, and it's better than it was before the flood. Love Desi's hat and his singing. He makes me smile and you always give me something to think about😊

[@patriciacorpe6228]

At 78 I found that life has it's ups and down it how you accept no matter what going in your their out there that many are much worst than you are going though but also their are others going to be so happy and thankful for your life. I decide to love myself first and really stop pleasing others. I have a fe extra pounds and I have wrinlkes and Snow White hair but it's okay I think at 50 years I decide to enjoy my life. When my hubby ask me if I still love him he 80 with a lot health problem I always say to him yes been loving you for 59 years, than I say why do you love me and always because you alway made feel that I was the best husband and you always support me and at this time in our you have been always taken care of me. I know it's corny but I truly have been so bless with my not important life . I love your u tube channel I see so many older ladies feel so unloved and they think their life is over because you can't been young and pretty as you were many years ago, I learn to enjoy everyday of your life no matter what, I say keep on loving and dance even if you dance listen t some music and dance in you head. I believe you help so many of us older ladies. Merry Christmas.